What Bird Are You Podcast

In this 29th episode of the WBAY (What Bird Are You) Podcast, we talk about our first foursome. Have you had another couple in your bed for sexy fun times? What are the expectations? The boundaries? Let's kiss and tell.

In this 28th episode of the WBAY (What Bird Are You) Podcast, Suzy and Sam are talking about sex swings. Furniture and toys and new experiences can heighten the joy in the bedroom (and beyond). Swings in particular can elevate the experience. There are several swings on the market, including some that spin and some for a doorframe. All sorts of materials from basic nylon straps to elaborate chain and leather combos. A yoga sling or hammock may also work perfectly well. The basic idea is that someone is elevated into positions that emphasize the pleasure for the person in the swing and the ease of changing positions for the person controlling the swing. We have experimented with various types of swings. One thing is common about all of them, that is, they all need modification to suit the participant's needs. We have modified our basic ceiling-mounted swing to include cam-straps for ease of adjustment for both the person in the swing and the one controlling the scene. Suzy is the one most typically in the swing. Another thing common about swings is that they can magnify an orgasm. Do you have experience with swings? Let us know. Enjoy the show.

Polyamory is generally defined as the practice of, or desire for, romantic relationships with more than one partner at the same time, with informed consent of all partners involved. There are as many ways to be poly as there are many different interpretations of what it is exactly. But at the core of this relationship dynamic is being ETHICALLY NON-MONOGOMOUS (ENM). In this 27th episode of the WBAY Podcast, Suzy and Sam are talking with Blue Ridge residents Elle and Eric about their polyamorous relationship. She's been part of poly relationships for over two decades since her early 20s. Eric is relatively new, practicing polyamory for about four years. They are together now building a life together and sharing their perspectives with us. Is being Polly for everyone? Is it natural? Is it relationship shopping? Can it "fix" the potential boredom of a long-term monogamous relationship? Is it merely hooking up with anyone you want as long as your primary partner knows? What should your partner know? How to avoid scheduling complexities, and the pitfalls of negative emotions such as jealousy? Let's not forget that this is an intentional lifestyle with complexities that require a lot of work and communication. Boundaries are established. When it is done well there may be more capacity for love and joy and personal growth. We mention one of our favorite words in this episode. COMPERSION. This is defined as our wholehearted participation in the happiness of others, even when their positive experience does not include or benefit us directly. Enjoy the show. Reach out to us with suggestions, comments, ideas for future episodes. IG: @whatbirdpodcast email: whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com

This 26th episode of the WBAY Podcast (What Bird Are You) we talk about that wonderful pull and tug and rub and stoke of hand jobs. Though not just for men, a hand job is a delighful way to share pleasure.

In this 25th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast, we are talking about sensual touch. Or what I call "Neck-Romancing." And, we review a panty vibrator. Fun times. Have suggestions for future episodes, comments, or concerns? Reach out: whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com IG: @wbay.podcast

In this 24th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) podcast, Suzy and Sam talk about butt play. Anal licking. Anal sex. Prostate massages. Are you a butt play fan? What's a better name than ass hole? Tushy? Pink Rabbit? Let us know. It may be fun. Have suggestions for future episodes, comments, or concerns? Reach out: whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com IG: @wbay.podcast

In this 23rd episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast Sam and Suzy are talking about our experiences going to a “Liquid Delight” event in Blue Ridge, Carolina. What is a liquid delight event? Just imagine a warm room of naked bodies bathed in lube. Naked bodies intertwined hugging and holding and squeezing in a loving, playful, sensual way. Oh my. Yes, please. Is this a playful exerience? A healing experience? Sensual? Sexual? This is the episode where we talk about our experiences going to this private party. Part One was the dialogue in preparation and anticipation going to it. Enjoy. Have suggestions for future episodes, comments, or concerns? Reach out: whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com IG: @wbay.podcast

In this 22nd episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast Sam and Suzy are talking about going to a “Liquid Delight” event in Blue Ridge, Carolina. What is a liquid delight event? Just imagine a warm room of naked bodies bathed in lube. Naked bodies intertwined hugging and holding and squeezing in a loving, playful, sensual way. Oh my. Yes, please. This is the anticipation episode where we talk about going to this private party. Part Two will document the experience going to it. Publishing date October 3, 2023. Enjoy. Have suggestions for future episodes, comments, or concerns? Reach out: whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com IG: @wbay.podcast

In this 21st episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast, Suzy and Sam are joined by Penny and David to talk about how the sex party went. This is the second part of a two episode interview with the Poly-Play Party hosts. The Better in Bed podcast episode 54 “Ins and Outs of Sex Parties” is linked here: https://spotify.link/nyM4zNgH0Cb

After spending the summer travelling in the PNW for work, Sam is at last reunited with Suzy, recording episodes again for the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast. Thanks to everyone who has been listening to our previous episodes. Your encouragement keeps us sharing our experiences and insights about sex without shame or guilt. In this 20th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast, Suzy talks with Poly Play Party hosts "Penny & David" here in beautiful Blue Ridge, Carolina. This is a two part episode. The first is an interview with the hosts about an upcoming party in Blue Ridge called Great SEXpectations. What are the logisitics of such an event? And what to expect. Are you interested in sex parties? Have you been? Reach out to us to give your insights. Email: whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com IG: @wbay.podcast To reach out to Penny & David email: gunnclan83@gmail.com on Fet: spicyladyparts

In this 19th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast, we talk about sex education. We describe a little about how we were introduced to sex through conversations with our family and friends, the school system, and by being exposed to popular culture (TV, movies, and porn). Though sex education as curriculum taught in schools remains a controversial subject, especially in the more puritanical communities within the US, we feel it's important to know about various forms of birth control and disease prevention. We also think it's very important to understand good ways of communication and respecting boundaries. Also, we feel it's our job as sexually active adults to seek pleasure while sharing the experience with our partners, experimenting, exploring, celebrating our sexuality without shame or guilt. This takes practice. So, let's get going. Enjoy the show. Reach out via email WhatBirdPodcast@gmail.com and visit us on IG @wbay.podcast

In this 18th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast, we talk about toys. Of course we love toys. Partner play with toys is a huge part of a healthy sexual relationship, we think. The more toys the better! And the more communication and exploration the better. Toys can be intimidating, however. What's the difference between a vibrator and a dildo? There are Wifi controlled toys? Butt plugs and sex furnature? Oh my! Can you demo toys? Should you share toys? Isn't toy play just for women? Let's dive in deeper for a true Toygasm. What's your expererience with toys? Let us know. @wbay.podcast

In this 17th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast, Suzy and Sam are talking about public displays of affection. When are PDAs appropriate or not? What's too far? Who get's to create the rules? We'd much rather watch people showing loving affection in public then, say, fighting. And it really does spice things up kissing and petting when you know others may be watching. We talk about using the wifi controlled WeVibe Vector when going to a restaurant and bar. Also, we address the importance of code words to STOP the play when you partner may be thinking your resistance or reluctance may be simply part of the play. Power roles can be challenging both in the bedroom and outside without good communication. What are your thoughts of PDA? Have you used toys like the Vector in public? What are you code words to advance or stop the play according to the comfort levels of you and your partner? Let's hear from you. Reach out on IG @wbay.podcast

This is the 16th episode of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast with your hosts, Suzy and Sam. Foreplay is what we call the "first chapter" of a sexual experience. It is about planting the seed of sex and building sexual tension. More than simply lubricating genitalia, foreplay is setting the stage. Priming your partner in advance of the experience is very much part of sexuality. Have them think about it, dream about it, spend the hours before anticipating what will happen. Include sexy text messages, love notes, suggestive gifts. Let your partner know you desire them. What are the things you include in foreplay? Let us know. Message us on IG @wbay.podcast.

In this Episode 15 of the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast we are talking about aftercare. Aftercare is what we call the "third chapter" of a sexual expreience followed by foreplay and the sex acts themselves. Aftercare may be one of the most often neglected part of the sexual experience. It is, however, a key ingredient to having rewarding sex. It's the time partners spend recovering together, caressing, cuddling, affirming their affection. Aftercare is when lovers return to reality together after what may have been an intense sex that may have included elements of BDSM or fantasy roll playing. We'd love to hear your feedback and suggestions to make this podcast better. Follow us on IG @wbay.podcast

After taking several months off from recording episodes, the What Bird Are You (WBAY) Podcast is back! Suzy and Sam are recording more episodes promoting safe and consensual sex without shame or guilt. We're celebrating positive connections between people, and exploring new ways to experience pleasure together. And, of course, we'll be reviewing sex toys. FUN. We consider the word SLUT in this episode. Can women reclaim the derogatory connotation of the term and make it one without shame? Is there a better word we can use? Thank you for listening. We hope you subscribe as not to miss any new episode. Like, comment, and please engage with us. Follow us on IG @wbay.podcast Enjoy the show

In this episode we are talking about the BLUEPRINT of Sexual Compatibility as created by somatic sexologist JAIYA. Are you an Energetic? Sensual? Sexual? Kinky? ShapeShifter? Are you fulfilling your sexual blueprint superhero side, or living in the shadows of the archtype? Take her quiz to determine what of the five Blueprint archtypes you are, and what you can become by going to her site www.missjaiya.com. Most importantly, communicate with your lover. Discover who you are and what you may become together through exploration and attention. Enjoy the show! As always, please review and offer suggestions to make the podcast better. Email whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com Twitter and IG @whatbirdpodcast

In this 12th episode of the What Bird Are You Podcast, we are ringing the Devil's doorbell and talking openly about masturbation. Something judged, celebrated, reviled, and studied throughout history. Suzy has done some fun research about how masturbation has been viewed over the centuries. Masturbation has it's several benefits. And it's complications. So, warm up that bottle of coconut oil of yours and enjoy the show. Please review and rate this episode on the platforms you listen to podcasts. We'd certainly appreciate the feedback. Also, let us know your suggestions for upcoming episode topics. IG and Twitter @whatbirdpodcast Email whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com

In this Episode 11 of the What Bird Are You Podcast, we talk about pleasing your man in the bedroom. Our earlier episodes have been focused on female pleasure. This one gives attention to the male. Communicatie with your partner. And hopefully, just hopefully he will be receptive and reciprocate in kind. Find out what he wants. Discover his kinks and his fantasies. Does he prefer lingerie or booty shorts and knee-high socks? Does he want dominant or submissive? How loud and sloppy and dirty should the sex be? What will complement his masculine energy? It differs from each man and each circumstance.  The key is communication and play. Enjoy Please review the episode and the show, give feedback, and offer topic suggestions. Be part of the conversation. IG and Twitter @whatbirdpodcast whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com

What better conversation than ORGASMS to ring in the double digits? This is episode 10 of the What Bird Are You Podcast. We're talking about the various forms of orgasm, including the clitoral, g-spot, and anal orgasm. Though we are not biologists or therapists, our experiences have given us some anecdotal evidence that reveals a lot about the value of orgasms in our own lives. We also review the Pro 2 clitoral stimulator by SATISFYER. "Our classic and stylish Pro 2 debuts our proprietary Air-Pulse Technology, meant to excite your clitoris into pure bliss. Featuring a whisper quiet motor and a soft silicone head, the Pro 2 sets the mood to reach the peak of your desire." What are your experiences with orgasms? What are your thoughts on clitoral stimulators? Reach out! IG and Twitter @WhatBirdPodcast Email whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com

Mistress Honey Toes is our very own Suzy from the What Bird Are You Podcast. In this episode, we talk with her about her tiptoeing into the world of fetish content creation by documenting her own feet and sharing with the world on her social media platforms found @mistresshoneytoes. This is the second part of the two-part series about foot fetish photography based on Suzy's conversation with Stepahie Mason (Episode 08). Questions about foot fetish content creation? Reach out to Suzy in her channels or here, @whatbirdpodcast Email whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com

In this episode of the What Bird Are You Podcast, Suzy has a conversation with foot fetish content creator Stephanie Mason. https://smfeetfet.com/ The entire process of documenting her feet in a sensual way has been empowering for her and has given her a new perspective of her own beauty and dignity as a person. Even if foot fetish content is not your thing, this is a good listen for anyone who is looking to self-produce their own content, whether it be for social media or OnlyFans, sharing with family and friends, or putting it behind a paywall. Want to find more Stephanie Mason? Here's where to go! email: stephaniemason.official@gmail.com Telegram: t.me/smfeetet Instagram: instafram.com/giantressmason1 OR instagram.com/Stephaniemason.official Twitter: twitter.com/smfeetfet Reddit: reddit.com/u/SMfeetfet Facebook: facebook.com/smfeetobsessed Episode 09 will be the follow-up to this where Suzy and I talk about her own content creation journey as Mistress Honey Toes @mistresshoneytoes. Enjoy!

A proper spank can heighten the mood. A bad spank is just bad. So, in this seventh episode of the What Bird Are You Podcast we give some tips on spanking. Remember, this podcast is all about safe and consensual time with your sexual partners. Make sure all are into it, all are saying Yes and meaning Yes, and that you are keeping your mutual sense of enjoyment the top priority. Tips: 1. Have consent. 2. Start gently and build. 3. Tease the spank. 4. Use different tools for impact play, hand, paddle, flogger.... But make sure you are using them in a way that all parties are having fun. 5. Mix things up; slap, rub, tickle.... This is a sensual experience. 6. A well-timed and placed slap during sex can distract or develop an orgasm, play with it. Reach out to us about your thoughts on spanking. What are your tips? And what would you want us to talk about in future episodes? Twitter/IG @whatbirdpodcast Email: whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com

In this episode of the What Bird Are You Podcast, we talk dating apps. Our experiences are as diverse as the pool of people using them. Are these things a way to connect to your future spouse? Are they a booty call? Social media? We're talking about what we see on them and why we are using them in particular. Are you meeting people on Tinder, Bumble, Grinder, or Christian Mingle? We're curious about your experiences. Reach out, let us know! whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com IG and Twitter @whatbirdpodcast

In this episode of the What Bird Are You Podcast we talk about where to get sex toys. From the boutique to the seedy, shops that sell adult novelty toys are as diverse as their inventory. Some shops are certainly catering to the male audience looking for porn. Others focus on female health and pleasure. Shops mentioned in this episode include: https://www.sheboptheshop.com/ https://prettypussycat.com/ https://www.fantasyforadultsonly.com/ https://stores.spencersonline.com/or/portland/lloyd-center-00257.html?utm_medium=referral&utm_source=google&utm_campaign=local_listing&utm_inex=e http://www.spartacusretail.com/ https://www.vavavooom.com/ Do you get your toys in brick-and-mortar shops or online? Tell us about your experiences and your recommendations. Reach out whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com and @whatbirdpodcast on IG & Twitter. Enjoy the show.

When it comes to sex toys, vibrators and penis-shaped dildos come to mind. The NJoy Pure Wand is different. It's an intimidating toy. It's a stainless steel curved dildo with two different-sized balls on each end. It's heavy. And it's temperature sensitive meaning it could be very cold or very hot. If you are brave enough to experiment with this toy, it can be the best one you have ever used. Women's Health Magazine calls it the best toy for squirting. For partner play, this is our go-to toy. Enjoy the NJOY review.

In this Episode 04 of the What Bird Are You Podcast we talk about the "Tsunami of Love," yes, squirting. Female ejaculation is an exciting experience that many enjoy, some are afraid of, and others desperately want to experience. Get your waterproof blankets ready, and enjoy the show! Reach out to us at whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com or the @whatbirdpodcast on IG and Twitter to share your own squirting stories.

This is the third episode of the What Bird Are You Podcast with Suzy and Sam. In this episode, we talk about kink, "non-conventional sexal behavior." What is kink? What's taboo? What are some of the kinks that arouse us? BDSM? Foot fetish photography? Anal sex is a kink? Puppy & Pony Play? Costume Roleplaying? Peeing on someone? Should every fantasy be played out as long as there is consent and no direct harm to others? How important is it to communicate and experiment with your lover? Join us in the conversation. Please comment, and follow us on our @whatbirdpodcast social channels including IG and Twitter. Feel free to email us at whatbirdpodcast@gmail.com We do what to hear from you! Enjoy the show.

After visiting the dungeon at Secrets Hideaway in Florida, we invested in a flogger. Here is the review.

In this second episode of the What Bird Are You Podcast we visit Secrets Lifestyle Club in Florida. Exploring new ways to experience sexuality is important to us. So, why not visit a lifestyle club? Secrets on a Thursday Night NEWBIE event is a perfect way to be introduced to what happens in such places. We rented a room for the night at Secrets and enjoyed the various offerings the lifestyle club had to offer. What we enjoyed the most is the dungeon with floggers. Enjoy the show.

This is the What Bird Are You Podcast with Suzie and Sam. Welcome to our first episode of the podcast where we introduce why we are talking about sex on a podcast. Safe sex. Consensual sex. Sex without shame or guilt. The kind of sex you discover when you become your first best lover.