Why or Why Not with the Watsons

Do you ever just need to take a breathe and pause? In this check-in with Benjamin and Kirsten they share that they'll be taking some time away to evaluate 2023 and press into the New Year as a family. They remind us that it's important to always live out what we're teaching, and the power of making sure that our “yes” is our BEST “yes”. They'll be back soon, so be sure to subscribe so you don't miss a new episode! See you soon!

Can you find a ripple effect of obedience in your life? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how you can find pieces of the Christmas story all throughout the Bible, even in Genesis! They walk us through scripture to show us the power of an act of obedience, reminding us that Christmas is actually in the entirety of the scripture if we look at it through the lens of God's love and mercy for us. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

How often do you reflect on past memories to see just how far you've come? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten share some never before heard memories from their college days! They tell us some fun stories from early on in their relationship, and how Kirsten's relationship with Benjamin's parents developed, reminding us how important it is to look back and smile over past moments in our lives. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

How do you manage the chaos that is sometimes associated with this time of year? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin kick off the Christmas season by talking about how to navigate the pressure that comes with the holidays. They give practical tips on how to set the tone in your home, their approach to buying presents, and the value of getting your family involved in serving others, encouraging us to always keep the focus on the true meaning of Christmas! New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

How often do we let the conflict in our life produce growth? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten finish up their series “Why Not Be Grateful”, where this week they talk about how to navigate conflict. Through talking about a recent moment of conflict in their own life, they help us see how we should approach conflict as a believer, knowing that it can be used as an opportunity for growth and shows us the power of forgiveness. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Why or Why Not with the Watsons is brought to you in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code WATSONS to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.

How often do we take the focus off of ourselves, and put it on the needs of other people? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin continue their series “Why Not Be Grateful”, where this week they talk about giving and the importance of laying the groundwork of generosity with your kids. Through being generous with not just your money, but also your time, they remind us that giving keeps the heart in check, and gives us an opportunity to be a part of what God is doing. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Why or Why Not with the Watsons is brought to you in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code WATSONS to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.

Is prayer a part of your foundation in marriage? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten continue their series “Why Not Be Grateful”, where this week they break down the power of prayer in marriage. They discuss the importance of building a firm foundation and taking time to remember your love story, encouraging us to always make prayer our default response in every situation. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here.

How do you respond to change in your life? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin begin their new series “Why Not Be Grateful”, where this week they focus on what it looks like to be grateful for change. They share how they've handled new seasons in their own lives, reminding us to shift our perspective to remember that God is our firm foundation, steady throughout every moment. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here.

How often do Christians think about spiritual warfare? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten discuss Ephesians 6:12 and show us how to look beyond the surface of our situations to see what we're actually fighting in the spirit. They also share how they navigate Halloween with their children and the importance of always being on guard, encouraging us to put on the full armor of God to fight our battles. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here.

How often are you encouraging your kids to talk to God? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten & Benjamin talk about how your kids prayer life may be a direct reflection of yours. They discuss what to do when praying feels uncomfortable, and the power of always pointing your kids back to God, encouraging you to be a living example of “praying without ceasing” alongside your kids. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Why or Why Not with the Watsons is brought to you in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code WATSONS to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.

Do you view friendship as a priority in your life? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin & Kirsten talk about why good friends are hard to find and keep. They start by walking through the various types of friends, sharing the reality of knowing that any good relationship is worth fighting for, encouraging us to pray for our friends and find the people who will uplift and enhance our lives. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Why or Why Not with the Watsons is brought to you in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code WATSONS to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.

How often do you respond to the Lord's calling? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten & Benjamin read through Isaiah 1 and discuss how God used Isaiah to speak to the people of Judah. Through the scriptures we see the importance of making sure our lives are pleasing to God, but that also through repentance the Lord is faithful to forgive our sins and redeem our stories…however it's up to us to respond to His calling. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Why or Why Not with the Watsons is brought to you in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code WATSONS to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.

In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin & Kirsten finish out their series “If I Knew Then What I Know Now” where they give advice from the perspective of their future selves, and discuss how that wisdom impacts their lives today. They talk about prioritizing their own marriage, enjoying the parenting journey, the importance of practicing rest, encouraging us to continue to draw closer to the Lord and know that He will be faithful in every season you walk through. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Why or Why Not with the Watsons is brought to you in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code WATSONS to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.

What wisdom would you go back and tell your 30-year-old self? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin continue their series “If I Knew Then What I Know Now” where they share experiences from their 30's! They discuss topics like embracing change, how to find purpose exactly where you are, the importance of surrendering your plans to the Lord and trusting that He does not waste anything! New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Why or Why Not with the Watsons is brought to you in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code WATSONS to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.

What would you say to your 20 year old self if you could go back? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten continue their series “If I Knew Then What I Know Now” where they talk all about their 20's! They discuss the power of knowing your worth, their first few years of marriage, and talk about the struggle with perfectionism, reminding us that no one is perfect, that's why we all need God's grace. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Why or Why Not with the Watsons is brought to you in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code WATSONS to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.

What are some things you would go back and tell your younger self? In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin begin their new series “If I Knew Then What I Know Now” where they talk about themselves when they were younger. From relationships with their parents, purity culture, and the importance of memorizing bible verses as kids, they remind us that God does not waste any of our experiences. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Why or Why Not with the Watsons is brought to you in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code WATSONS to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.

Are you team Why or team Why Not in your thinking? In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten review some of their legendary arguments over their 17 year marriage that reveal their own unique thought process. From disagreements over laundry baskets, closing cabinets, unread emails and more, they remind us to look back over our experiences, smile and see how far you have come. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!Why or Why Not with the Watsons is brought to you in part by Dwell Bible App. Save 30% off Dwell for Life at DwellApp.io/Watsons.

Are you prepared to stand apart in a culture that is going the other way? In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin read through 2 Chronicles and discuss Hezekiah's obedience in preparing his people for war. They talk about the importance of knowing that it's the Lord who prepares us for battles, explaining that recognizing what God has already done in our lives motivates us to be different. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

How much do you really know about the Watsons? In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin answer your submitted questions. They discuss topics like how to carve out quality time with your children, their friendship with the Brees family, how to discern what popular tv shows to watch, and much more. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

How much do you know about the game of football? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the logistics of the game of football. As the NFL season opens, Kirsten shares that knowing the basics of the game makes the season feel a lot more fun even if football is not your passion. Whether you love the game or have someone in your household that loves the game, this episode is packed with information that will help to understand what is happening on the field. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

What season or experience has grown you in ways you never thought were possible? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the 16 seasons of NFL Training Camp that they experienced. They both reflect on their memories of this season in their lives, talking about how much they grew individually and as a family through the blessings and curses each year brought. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Do you feel pressure to give your kids the “perfect summer”? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how they are feeling as summer comes to an end with their kids. Kirsten gets real about her emotions as Benjamin provides encouragement to her and other moms out there who feel the same. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!Why or Why Not sponsored in part by Dwell Bible App. Save 30% off Dwell for Life at Dwellapp.io/Watsons

How do you talk to your kids about tough issues? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how to approach the difficult topic of abortion with your kids, considering how to share the right information for their age. They discuss some of the barriers to this conversation as well why it is so important to communicate with them on the issue of life. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Here is a link for the documentary ‘Divided Hearts of America' produced by Benjamin. Why or Why Not sponsored in part by Dwell Bible App. Save 30% off Dwell for Life at Dwellapp.io/Watsons

Have you ever been to Family Camp? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the amazing benefits of going to family camp for children as well as parents. They share memories of their time at camp as well as some ways they slowed down to focus on their individual spiritual growth and their relationship with one another, leaving the week refreshed and ready to re-engage with their daily lives. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!Why or Why Not sponsored in part by Dwell Bible App. Save 30% off Dwell for Life at Dwellapp.io/Watsons

Do you ever find parenting hard? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about the reality about the challenges of being a parent. They look to the Bible to see what God says about how we should view our children as a gift and share how to align our parenting perspective with scripture. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!Why or Why Not sponsored in part by Dwell Bible App. Save 30% off Dwell for Life at Dwellapp.io/Watsons

Are you bold about the gospel like Peter when the opportunity comes? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Benjamin and Kirsten read through Acts, chapter 3 and talk about the boldness of Peter proclaiming the gospel after healing the man at the gate. They talk about how to apply that boldness to your everyday life, starting with knowing the gospel personally, to how and when to share just like Peter did. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Do you have a consistent time set aside with your spouse to talk about how your marriage is doing? In this episode of 'Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about their longstanding tradition of talking about how their marriage is doing while they are away celebrating their anniversary. From finance, to communication and intimacy, they share how they walk through an annual "pruning" of their marriage so that they will bear better fruit the coming year. A new episode drops every Monday, so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Are you willing to ask for outside help for your marriage when you need it? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about why it is important to ask for help especially when it comes to the state of your marriage and relationships. They share what they believe is the #1 key to a happy marriage and how to get help when your marriage is not thriving. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Does your family love summer? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about how many great things summer brings, like grilling, swimming and holidays that mark important events in our nation's history. They share why it is important that we not only celebrate, but how we pass on our heritage in letting our kids know the details of these important dates. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Do you give your father the same gift every year for Father's Day? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about how all those gifts are great, but there are three things fathers truly need: affirmation, accountability and affection. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

When you read the Bible, who is the main character to you? How do you apply it to your life? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about the scriptures where the Israelites ask Samuel for an earthly king to rule over them so that they can be like other nations. They show how we as believers have the same ability to struggle with worshipping the King of Kings over the little “k” kings that are tangible here on earth. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Do you share the story of your life and faith journey with your kids? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how important it is to share our stories with our kids about our childhoods and where we came from, so that they can know us. They show how in the Bible, the children of Israel needed to hear truth about God and about their history over and over so that they would remember God's character and nature. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Are you a person that counts the cost ahead of time? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about counting the cost financially, in our daily lives and spiritually as believers in Christ. Reading the passage in Luke 14:25-35, they break down what Jesus tells his disciples about counting the cost to follow him. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Do the months of April and May compel you to undergo spring cleaning? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how spring cleaning has grown their awareness of how much life changes in a year. They address how important it is to not just clean out closets in the spring, but to check in with yourself and your kids emotionally and spiritually as well. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Are you prepared for Mother's Day? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about Mother's Day in their home and how that has evolved over the years. They discuss the different emotions that come with Mother's Day and why it is important to be aware that though this is a day of celebration, there is also heartache and even anger that can come with this day and how to be sensitive to those that are hurting. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Are you moving so fast in this life that you forget to pause and just take a breath? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about Kirsten's new book ‘Sis, Take a Breath'. Kirsten shares highlights from the book, like candid stories, encouragement as well as some behind the scene insights about the project that you won't want to miss. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one! Read more about Kirsten's new upcoming book ‘Sis, Take a Breath' and pre-order now.

How many of you are excited about paying taxes? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about the importance of paying taxes as an American citizen, as well as being a light to the world as Christians. They read through scripture highlighting what Jesus said and did on this topic as an example to us. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

How do you and your family celebrate Easter? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about Easter traditions, where they originated and how we carry them forward in our own families. They reflect on the true meaning of Easter - the resurrection of Jesus, our salvation and hope in the gospel. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Parents, how do you deal with school breaks for your family whether it's planned out or basic survival? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how important it is to be intentional with how to spend school breaks, using that as time for fun, family, friends, faith as well as future (building life skills). They encourage us to take some time to see what summer should look like for our specific families, strategize and plan for it without a lot of stress. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

If you are married, do you consider your marriage your first ministry or even a ministry at all? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about how marriage is supposed to be our first ministry, not in vocation but in how we live our lives day to day. They dive into how to view marriage as a ministry opportunity to bless not only each other, but also giving practical tools to live in a way that honors the Lord. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

When was the last time you read the book of Leviticus? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about how even though the book of Leviticus seems like it is just a book of rules for the Israelites, it is actually deep insight to the heart of God for His people. The truth is that the more and more we read this book, the more we understand that it is not just about rules but is really the storyline of the Bible, ultimately giving hope and guidance to God's children. New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

Do you feel tempted to ignore what is happening in the world and just pretend it is safe, avoiding difficult conversations with your children? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the responsibility as Christians not only to engage with what is happening in the world, but to how equip children so that they may be effective in their generation. ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons' drops a new episode every Monday. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode.

Do you or anyone you know struggle with fear? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about how and when fear tries to creep into our lives with specific, personal examples of how they have struggled. On the flipside, they talk about what the Bible says about fear and give some practical tips on how to overcome it. ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons' drops a new episode every Monday. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode.

Have you ever read the entire Bible cover to cover? In this episode of ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons', Benjamin and Kirsten talk about how doing this has impacted their daily life as well as their faith journey. Listen in as they read from Exodus, explaining how that excerpt from the Old Testament applies to life today, showing exactly why the Bible is spiritual food taken in to stay strong. ‘Why or Why Not with the Watsons' drops a new episode every Monday. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode.

Do you already, or are you planning on having kids? In this episode of Why or Why Not with the Watson's, Kirsten and Benjamin talk about the decision every couple faces when they enter marriage- if kids, how many. Hear about their family size choices and how that evolved over the years. Plus the things you should never to parents of big families! New episodes drop every Monday so be sure to subscribe so you never miss one!

How do you celebrate Valentine's Day? In this season premiere of 'Why or Why Not with the Watson's', Kirsten and Benjamin talk about the expectations placed on couples and pro's and con's that come with this day of the year. Oh, and you might be surprised to hear who actually wants the chocolates. Join us for our Valentine's Why or Why Not with the Watson's!

Why or Why Not with the Watsons features first-round draft pick and Super Bowl Champion Benjamin Watson and his wife Kirsten Watson. Benjamin and Kirsten are inviting you into their home and family for a behind the scenes look at their marriage and parenting journey starting Monday, February 14th. Subscribe now so you never miss an episode!

You don't have to be a “Bible scholar” to lead your kids in their spiritual lives. Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the simplicity and importance of family devotions and of leading your kids in valuing the growth of their most important relationship—their relationship with God.

You don't have to be a "Bible scholar" to lead your kids in their spiritual lives. Benjamin and Kirsten talk about the simplicity and importance of family devotions and of leading your kids in valuing the growth of their most important relationship-their relationship with God.

In this week's episode, gain insight as Benjamin and Kirsten weigh in with their perspective on the "Race" conversation in today's society, and the events from 2014 that caused a viral post and the penning of Benjamin's book "Under Our Skin."

In this week's episode, gain insight as Benjamin and Kirsten weigh in with their perspective on the "Race" conversation in today's society, and the events from 2014 that caused a viral post and the penning of Benjamin's book "Under Our Skin."