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About Karen Aberle: Whether you’re single, married, happily partnered, or searching for love, you’ll be amazed at the insights shared by today’s guest, Karen Aberle (AB-early). Karen is the author of #1 Amazon bestseller Love’s Invisible Dance, inspired by her own juicy 30-year marriage, 3 decades of researching and teaching about relationships and the philosophy of language, and an 18-year apprenticeship with Huichol (Hitchool) shamans of central Mexico. She’s coached individuals and teams in Fortune 100 organizations including Comcast, Spectrum Reach, and Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, on the art of building strong professional relationships using the same skills she and her husband have taught around the globe in workshops for individuals and couples seeking more love in their lives. Karen joins us to share her insight on the universal dance of relationship we’ve been doing all our lives, and to help us choreograph a more graceful dance with our loved ones and colleagues in order to achieve the life we truly want. What We Discuss In This Episode: What is co/design? What is the invisible dance? What are the three essential commitments of a loving relationship? How do you disappear REGRET? Why are relationships so hard? Defining love – what it is and isn’t How radical authenticity deepens intimacy The one question you can ask to begin building a successful Free Resources: Free 50-minute breakthrough call: https://karenaberle.com/codesign/ Other Resources: Love’s Invisible Dance, the 7 keys to authentic, joyful, and lasting relationship Available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/32lGFkj Connect with Karen Aberle: Website: https://karenaberle.com Facebook: KarenAberleAuthor Instagram: @karenaberle.author LinkedIn: linkedin/in/karen-aberle Connect with Lynne: If you are looking for a community of like-minded women on a journey - just like you are - to improved health and wellness, overall balance, and increased confidence, check out Lynne's private community in The Energized & Healthy Women's Club. It's a supportive and collaborative community where the women in this group share tips and solutions for a healthy and holistic lifestyle. (Discussions include things like weight management, eliminating belly bloat, wrangling sugar gremlins, and overcoming fatigue, recipes, strategies, and much more so women can feel energized, healthy, confident, and joyful each day. Website: https://holistic-healthandwellness.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/holistichealthandwellnessllc FB Community for Women: https://www.facebook.com/groups/energized.healthy.women Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lynnewadsworth Did You Enjoy The Podcast? If you enjoyed this episode please let us know! 5-star reviews for the Living Life Naturally podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pandora, or Stitcher are greatly appreciated. This helps us reach more women struggling to live through midlife and beyond. Thank you. Together, we make a difference!
About Karen Aberle: Whether you’re single, married, happily partnered, or searching for love, you’ll be amazed at the insights shared by today’s guest, Karen Aberle (AB-early). Karen is the author of #1 Amazon bestseller Love’s Invisible Dance, inspired by her own juicy 30-year marriage, 3 decades of researching and teaching about relationships and the philosophy of language, and an 18-year apprenticeship with Huichol (Hitchool) shamans of central Mexico. She’s coached individuals and teams in Fortune 100 organizations including Comcast, Spectrum Reach, and Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, on the art of building strong professional relationships using the same skills she and her husband have taught around the globe in workshops for individuals and couples seeking more love in their lives. Karen joins us to share her insight on the universal dance of relationship we’ve been doing all our lives, and to help us choreograph a more graceful dance with our loved ones and colleagues in order to achieve the life we truly want. What We Discuss In This Episode: What is co/design? What is the invisible dance? What are the three essential commitments of a loving relationship? How do you disappear REGRET? Why are relationships so hard? Defining love – what it is and isn’t How radical authenticity deepens intimacy The one question you can ask to begin building a successful Free Resources: Free 50-minute breakthrough call: https://karenaberle.com/codesign/ Other Resources: Love’s Invisible Dance, the 7 keys to authentic, joyful, and lasting relationship Available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/32lGFkj Connect with Karen Aberle: Website: https://karenaberle.com Facebook: KarenAberleAuthor Instagram: @karenaberle.author LinkedIn: linkedin/in/karen-aberle Connect with Lynne: If you are looking for a community of like-minded women on a journey - just like you are - to improved health and wellness, overall balance, and increased confidence, check out Lynne's private community in The Energized & Healthy Women's Club. It's a supportive and collaborative community where the women in this group share tips and solutions for a healthy and holistic lifestyle. (Discussions include things like weight management, eliminating belly bloat, wrangling sugar gremlins, and overcoming fatigue, recipes, strategies, and much more so women can feel energized, healthy, confident, and joyful each day. Website: https://holistic-healthandwellness.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/holistichealthandwellnessllc FB Community for Women: https://www.facebook.com/groups/energized.healthy.women Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lynnewadsworth Did You Enjoy The Podcast? If you enjoyed this episode please let us know! 5-star reviews for the Living Life Naturally podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pandora, or Stitcher are greatly appreciated. This helps us reach more women struggling to live through midlife and beyond. Thank you. Together, we make a difference!
Today’s guest is Karen Aberle. Karen is the author of the #1 Amazon bestseller Love’s Invisible Dance, and she has spent the last 30 years researching and teaching about relationship. The dance became visible to Karen through her extensive studies in the philosophy of language, an 18-year apprenticeship with Huichol shamans of central Mexico, and her own 30-year marriage. Through her leadership program, Mindful Collaboration, Karen has coached individuals and teams in Fortune 100 organizations to achieve extraordinary results by better understanding how to learn, love, partner, and fight – the same skills she and her husband have taught around the globe in their Deep Relationship programs for individuals and couples seeking more love in their lives. You can learn more about her at www.KarenAberle.com. You can join our HIVE Community and begin Harnessing Integral Vibrational Energy for yourself by clicking HERE! Sign up for your Podcast Launch Breakthrough Call Today, and please be sure to check out our other podcasts: The PodQuest Show, Buy This - Not That! and Something to Wine About. Please, don’t forget to subscribe to Consciously Speaking so that you don't miss a single episode, and while you're at it, won't you take a moment to write a short review and rate our show? It would be greatly appreciated! To learn more about our previous guests, listen to past episodes, and get to know your host, go to www.MichaelNeeley.com and follow us on Facebook and Twitter.
About Our Guest: Karen Aberle, author of #1 Amazon bestseller Love’s Invisible Dance, has spent the last 30 years researching and teaching about relationships. The dance became visible to Karen through her extensive studies in the philosophy of language, an 18-year apprenticeship with Huichol shamans of central Mexico, and her own 30-year marriage. Through her leadership program, Mindful Collaboration, Karen has coached individuals and teams in Fortune 100 organizations to achieve extraordinary results by better understanding how to learn, love, partner, and fight -- the same skills she and her husband have taught around the globe in their Deep Relationship programs for individuals and couples seeking more love in their lives.Karen will show you how it’s possible to be perfectly satisfied with your life - right now, in the present moment - once you see the universal dance of relationship you’ve been doing all your life, unconsciously. Karen will hand you the keys to atruly satisfied life, as an individual and in relationships. She will open your eyes to see yourself and your possibilities in an entirely new way, to see your real attractiveness, discover how to move gracefully with others to achieve your vision of a great life, and learn to embrace conflict as the key to powerful transformation. A native New Yorker, Karen now lives in Dallas, close to the embrace of her children and grandchildren. STAY CONNECTED:karen@karenaberle.comkarenaberle.com _____________________________ Thank you again for joining us today please check out our webpage at www.riseupforyou.com for more podcast episodes, webinars, articles, free resources, and events to help you get to the next level in your life! You can also follow us on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Google+, and Youtube @riseupforyouIf you know anybody that would benefit from this episode please share it with them and help spread the knowledge and motivation. Please support Rise Up For You by writing a review on iTunes. Your feedback will really help the success of our show and push us to continuously be better! So don’t forget to show your support!
***Become a patron and get exclusive Mind Flipper access and benefits. Visit https://www.patreon.com/mindflipping Thank you for your support!!!!*** Join me today as I discuss mind flipping, hardship, love, vulnerability, and finding joy in life with fellow mind flipper, coach, and author Karen Aberle, who wrote Love’s Invisible Dance: The 7 Keys to Authentic, Joyful, and Lasting Relationship. As a coach, she teaches individuals and corporations how to navigate through hardship in relationship, see challenges as opportunities, and change how we see life in order to find joy, satisfaction, love, and inner peace. Show Notes: Karen’s first mind flip and why hardship is an opportunity (0:00-3:15) How divorce and career changes led to Karen’s initial eureka moments. How the language you use helps build the reality that you live in. Karen discusses six “linguistic moves” to express intention in language. Learn the three ways to create your world through the words you use. Why people struggle to distinguish facts from opinions, and how this can create frustration in the world. Why Karen chose to leave the “s” off of “relationship” in her book title. Why understanding the active role of “relationship” is important in learning how to dance life’s dance. Why we don’t learn “relationship” in school, and why Karen believes we should. How a traditional Shaman vision quest led to a spiritual mind flip in Karen’s marriage. Why it is important to recognize the interconnectedness of the world. The Spackle Round Karen’s interesting and powerful word or phrase of the day! Why it’s important to be vulnerable. The three commitments that people need to make to each other in order to create an enduring and lasting relationship with one another. One important question to continue to ask the people you love. A special request for listeners! Additional Resources from the Show: Learn more about Karen and begin your mind flipping journey with her today! Buy Karen’s book and learn the 7 ways to create authentic, joyful, and lasting relationship! Read more on Relationship on Karen’s blog! Like Karen’s page on Facebook & her Instagram for Relationship wisdom! Sign up with your e-mail to receive updates on Rick’s Mid-America Hypnosis Training Classes! If you would like to contact Rick, you can send him an audio message, use the contact page HERE or in connect with him in the Mind Flipping Facebook Group. Let’s keep the mind flipping conversation going, together!
My new journaling course, Tapping Into Your Inspired Potential, is for sale on my website! This is for you if you are ready to let go of feeling like you aren't living UP to your potential and are ready to live INTO who you were born to be. Here are some of the big topics we talked about… Relationship discourse is traditionally invisible in our culture - not taught in schools Energy of attractiveness can be created in our speaking Why taking a beginner’s mind to relationships is key The need to look as though “you know,” blocks opportunity for learning How “not wanting to make mistakes” factors with courage in all kinds of relationships Intimacy: allowing a slow unfolding of our authentic selves Honoring the choices of the other; honoring oneself In Karen’s Voice“There are universal laws about relationship - one of them is that it happens in language; another is that we’re constantly being drawn towards and repelled from other people.” “We need to learn how to make requests and assessments effectively. Assessments are always an opinion. We have to be able to listen and understand other’s intentions. We begin to look much more deeply under the surface of the words.”“In my view you’re never more attractive than when you’re open, operating in a mood of wonder, you have generosity, you show up as grateful, and you are interested.”“As human beings we are constantly growing, constantly in a space of learning.”“Another law of relationship is that we are here to learn. There is a way to increase the speed and effectiveness of learning.” “Intimacy is the willingness to be mutually, deeply known. Do you want to be loved for who yo u truly are, or do you want to be loved for who you pretend to be?”“If we don’t give ourselves permission to be learners, it’s going to be impossible to be intimate with someone else.”“We declare to each other, ‘Your concerns are my concerns.’ This is the foundation for partnership.” Connect with Karen Website FacebookInstagram
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Where did you learn how to love and be in relationship? Karen Aberle, bestselling author of Love’s Invisible Dance, has spent the last 30 years researching and teaching about relationship. The dance became visible to Karen through her extensive studies in the philosophy of language, an 18-year apprenticeship with Huichol shamans of central Mexico, and her own 30-year marriage. Through her leadership program, Mindful Collaboration, Karen has coached individuals and teams in Fortune 100 organizations to achieve extraordinary results by better understanding how to learn, love, partner, and fight -- the same skills she and her husband have taught around the globe in their Deep Relationship programs for individuals and couples seeking more love in their lives. In today’s conversation, Karen shows that it is possible to be perfectly satisfied with your life – right now, in the present moment - once you see the universal dance of relationship you’ve been doing all your life, unconsciously. Karen provides the keys to a truly satisfied life, as an individual and in relationship. She will open your eyes to see yourself and your possibilities in an entirely new way; to see your real attractiveness, discover how to move gracefully with others to achieve your vision of a great life, and learn to embrace conflict as the key to powerful transformation. Key Takeaways Love is a domain of learning, mastery and action. There’s nothing more attractive than someone who has confidence, is open, grateful, and in a mood of wonder. There are only 6 moves to Love’s Invisible Dance and we’re doing them all the time. In order to make an effective request you need to give the person full permission to say no without feeling rejected. Many people think their assessments are the truth in the world. Instead of arguing over which opinion is right, ask “Which vision provides the most opportunity for us?” Find a context that is bigger than both of you. Most advice is delivered before it’s offered. Beliefs are assessments that you want to hold as facts. There are only 3 commitments that a partnership needs to make in order to have a joyful, sustaining, and passionate relationship. When we can accept the differences in each other we can transform this world. Resources “How can I love you more?” If you’re ready to ask that question and be in that question, visit www.karenaberle.com/transformation for resources to support your journey. Order your copy of Love’s Invisible Dance Connect With Karen Aberle Website: www.karenaberle.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KarenAberleAuthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karenaberle.author LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karen-aberle
Whether you're single, married, happily partnered, or searching for love, you'll be amazed at the insights shared by today's guest, Karen Aberle. It is possible to be perfectly satisfied with your life – right now, in the present moment – once you see the universal dance of relationship you've been doing all your life, unconsciously. Discover the keys to a truly satisfied life, as an individual and in relationships. She will open your eyes and see yourself and your possibilities in an entirely new way, to see your real attractiveness, discover how to move gracefully with others to achieve your vision of a great life, and learn to embrace conflict as the key to powerful transformation. Join us Thursday and learn how to choreograph a more graceful dance with your loved ones and colleagues to achieve the life we truly want. www.karenaberle.com
Whether you’re single, married, or searching for love, you’re sure to be inspired by today’s guest. Karen Aberle is the author of Love’s Invisible Dance, inspired by her own juicy 30-year marriage, 3 decades of researching relationship and the philosophy of language, and an 18-year apprenticeship with shamans of central Mexico. She’s coached teams in Fortune 100 organizations on building strong professional relationships using the same skills she and her husband have taught in couples’ workshops. Karen is here to help us understand and choreograph the universal dance of relationship we all do unconsciously.
Whether you’re single, married, happily partnered, or searching for love, you’ll be amazed at the insights shared by today’s guest, Karen Aberle. Karen is the author of #1 Amazon bestseller Love’s Invisible Dance, inspired by her own juicy 30-year marriage, 3 decades of researching and teaching about relationship and the philosophy of language, and an 18-year apprenticeship with Huichol shamans of central Mexico. She’s coached individuals and teams in Fortune 100 organizations including Comcast, Spectrum Reach, and Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, on the art of building strong professional relationships using the same skills she and her husband have taught around the globe in workshops for individuals and couples seeking more love in their lives. Karen is here to share her insight on the universal dance of relationship we’ve been doing all our lives, and to help us choreograph a more graceful dance with our loved ones and colleagues in order to achieve the life we truly want. Click here to get Karen's #1 Amazon bestselling book, Love's Invisible Dance! Could you or your organization benefit from a quick executive communications refresher and boost? I'm currently taking new client consultations (free) on Tuesdays and Thursdays between 11 am and 1 pm Pacific. Click here to learn more!