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Hello my love, how are you doing? How have you been! On this episode I talk about unlearning and taking responsibility for my self, whether that be emotionally, physically, mentally. Refuse to be silenced my love. Until next time xo Love HikmahA Tired Nigerian Girl

Ramadan is here, and with it comes the highs, the struggles, and the unfiltered drama! In this episode, we go into the real Ramadan experience from the ultimate Ramadan starter pack (dates, giant water bottles, and last-minute dua lists) to iftar fails, hanger management, and the Muslim aunties who won't let you rest.We also talk about the Ramadan glow-up, the guilt of not fasting, and what it's like to fast while managing a chronic illness. Whether you're team Suhoor or Skip It, this episode is full of relatable moments, laughter, and honest reflections.Hit play for a fun, lighthearted take on Ramadan, and don't forget to share your funniest Ramadan moments with us!#RamadanPodcast #RamadanStruggles #MuslimPodcast #FastingLife #RamadanGlowUp #IftarFails #ChronicIllnessAndFasting

On this episode, I yap as usual

You ever notice how, for like two weeks, you're on top of the world, productive, organized, crushing your to-do list, then suddenly, boom, you're questioning every life choice you've ever made? Yeah, welcome to the luteal phase.In this episode, I'm ranting about the absolute betrayal of being a woman, spilling on my big move to a new city (chaos? maybe), and getting real about decisions, progress, and the never-ending feeling of wtf am I doing? It's fun, it's unfiltered, and you might just relate a little too much.

I learnt the importance of taking a break the hard way, don't let that be you. In this episode I get real about burn out, the “woker-holic” culture, and the pressure to always be productive. I have learned to prioritize my well-being without feeling lazy. how to set boundaries that actually stick, and why sometimes the most productive thing you can do is… nothing. If you've ever felt bad for taking a break, this one's for you!

So we are now a bi-weekly podcast! It's a good thing, trust me. On this episode I share what I learnt from reading “Deep work” by Cal Newport. I hope one or two things stick with you. I would totally recommend this and like I say, please before reading or diving into the world of self help, please and please learn about your self first. That's the best way to start and the best way to get the highest reward from them-Instagram - www.instagram.com/motng_Instagram- www.instagram.com/tired_nigerian_girlEmail & Collaborations - tirednigeriangirl@gmail.com

Are you a fellow spice girl who is tired of the box society seems to want to put us in? Then this episode is for you. In this episode of Motng I talk about the weight and the exhaustion of being misunderstood. As a Yoruba Muslim Nigerian Woman, I share some personal experiences navigating cultural and religious misconceptions and assumptions attached to being a Muslim girl of spice. I explore the emotional and mental toll of constant explaining my identity and discuss how to reclaim the narrative. Tune in for an honest and reflective conversation that challenges the box we've been shoved in and join me in celebrating the beauty of embracing who we truly are.

Welcome to the first episode of Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl in 2025! I'm so excited to kick off the year with you. In this episode, I'm sharing my thoughts on starting the year strong and staying intentional about your goals.I'll talk about: • How I set realistic resolutions and make them stick. • My personal experience with vision boards and how they've helped me visualize my dreams. • The power of affirmations and how I use them to boost my mindset and confidence. • Why having the right mindset is essential for growth and how I'm practicing gratitude and journaling this year.If you're looking for inspiration to create a year filled with purpose, positivity, and progress, this episode is for you. Let's set the tone for 2025 together—one vision, one affirmation, and one mindset shift at a time. Tune in now!

On this episode I talk on the importance of keeping and respecting peoples boundaries. -I hoped you learnt something today about boundaries, value and self respect-Check out IG - @motng_Send your stories, feedback etc to - tirednigeriangirl@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

On the issue of being picky…Honestly I am always surprised when people say things like “your standards are too high” or “you're being too picky” when it comes to the choice of a life partner. Yes there is vanity but then there is standard as well, and you should never forgo your standard when making that decision. Hit play and let's talk about it! -Check out and follow our Ig page @motng_ -Send your stories, feedback and dilemmas to the email -tirednigeriangirl@gmail.com-Remember, vayolence is the way forward! Wickedness is key --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Subtle chaos but it's much needed. On this episode I talk to you beautiful people about an array of topics, different happenings in this country and if you do hear from me next week, they don carry me go where I no no LOL--Stay till the end because we seem to be sharing A$$ H@le party pack!!!!--Instagram- motng_Email- tirednigeriangirl@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Are you a young girl enamored by an older guy? Are you underage?Is a man telling you, you are matured for your age? Are you thinking of dropping out of school or deferring because of a man? Do you need us to pull your ears? This episode is for you ! -Check us out in Ig @motng_ Send your stories and dilemmas to tirednigeriangirl@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Another Zikoko couple, another day spent dragging women's ears… of course we are tired. Are you a woman in desperate need for her ears to be dragged? Are you tired of your victim mentality?Are you tired of your mediocrity and accepting less treatment than you deserve? Would you like to be reminded that you are not a fool ? This episode is for you!!! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Nigerian government opened fire on unarmed civilians at the Lekki toll gate October, 2020. (We would never forget) On this episode I go on an unsolicited talk about my tbr but what is new. If you're a book girlie like me, I think you would enjoy this episode. I am taking recommendations, please email them to (tirednigeriangirl@gmail.com) along with your dilemma's, questions and stories. Did I saw From Lukov Withe Love is clean? Omo no, when I did this episode I was on 77% so forgive the wrong information because it has spice at the end but its perfect because it is at the end and also the first kiss had me punching air as if I was watching demure K-drama LOL. XOXO A Tired Nigerian Girl --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

I said what I said with my full chest. The time to wake up is now! Ji ma sun Abeg. Send your dilemmas, and juicy stories to Tirednigeriangirl@gmail.com.   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

I'm tired but what else is new? Join me on this episode as I discuss the madness from Zikoko, a salty performer and a man about to get what he deserves! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Are you a K-drama baddie? Do you currently lack motivation or your're looking for Inspiration? Here are top 10 K-drama's that would totally motivate you, honorable mentions and on American series that made it on this list! Don't forget to subscribe, share and like this podcast. Feel free to send your dilemma's and stories to me at tirednightriangirl@gmail.com for a feature! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

I know right? It is smelly in these streets girls. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Hey! It is my birthday!... well actually it was my birthday, your gyal is a year wiser. Join me on this episode as I talk about growth, plans and path :) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

I am officially back guys! Join me and Mustaqeemah on this episode of MOTNG "Hijabis stay wilding" for a good laugh session. Don"t take us seriously, we are just two girls wilding LOL --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

In the city, written under the influence of Brymo's “In the city”. A broken peoples playlist by Chimeka Garricks --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Chapter 4 -Song for someone, written under the influence of “Song for someone by U2” Chimeka Garricks --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Chapter 3. A broken People's Playlist by Chimeka Garricks. Written under the influence of Hurt by Johnny Cash. (I apologize for the late re-post. I've had the longest weekend. Can't wait to tell you all about it) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Chapter 2, Music By Chimeka Garricks Written under the influence of Erick Sermon & Marvin Gaye (Music) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

On this episode I chat to you guys about burn out after finals, how after all these years, school back to back has affected me and continues to. I also give my 2 cents on Join the cruises newest reel and abortion laws etc. An interesting episode most definitely. Alsooo what better way to increase the electricity tarrif ? to make it a rare commodity for some while giving a select few 20 plus hours of light so that the "little people" would have no choice but to opt in to Band A because if they just suddenly increased it, the shout would have been louder, sprinkle sprinkle children! (Take a sip for every time I said “like” in this episode

A broken Peoples Playlists Chimeka Garricks (Thank you Gaya) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Monday 15th April 2024 Eid was great,post Eid was gbas-gbos nonetheless, Allhamdulillah --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

In this episode, we delve into the spiritual significance of Ramadan and the importance of nurturing our connection with Allah. We also address contemporary societal challenges and their impact your faith at community. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Ramadan, Announcement & a Dilemma, let's go!!! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

On this episode I talk about Ramadan I talk about Faith I talk about struggling and planning everything for Ramadan and I share my tips and what works for me to unlocking that “Ramadan-y” feeling. Again I apologize about the audio quality, it's so much better going forward. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

In this special episode of "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl," join us,two tired Nigerian girls, Hikmah & Farida, after about 3 long years of not being able to record together. Our friendship has weathered the storms of time and distance, and this episode is a testament to the enduring bond we share. As we sit down together, reminiscing about the past and catching up on the present, our conversation delves deep into the essence of life, books and the journey of growth. We offer honest reflections on the twists and turns of our respective paths. But our dialogue goes beyond mere nostalgia; it's a celebration of the transformative power of friendship. We explore the role of friendship in fostering personal development, offering support, book chat and finding joy amidst life's chaos. Books and laughter have always been a shared passion between us, and in this episode, we dive into our latest literary discoveries. From thought-provoking novels to insightful make- your -harlequin guides, we exchange recommendations and explore the profound impact that literature has had on our lives. Throughout the episode, our laughter echoes the familiarity of years past, while our shared wisdom reflects the growth we've undergone individually. It's a conversation filled with warmth, honesty, and the unspoken understanding that comes from years of shared experiences. Join us for this intimate reunion as we offer a glimpse into the essence of our friendship and the beauty of life's journey. This episode is more than just a podcast recording—it's a cherished gem, a testament to the enduring power of connection and the richness of shared experiences. Tune in to "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl" and experience the magic of friendship, growth, and the joy of reunion. GET READY TO LAUGH --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

I have decided that we are not quitters! So therefor we are back to this book which we shall be finishing by fire or by force LOL. Also we are back! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Happy New Year guys!!! Its the new year guys, I round up the podcast for the year on this catch up episode. Some thing light for you. Do listen until the very end and I will catch up with you next year (which technically is in few minutes!) LOL --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

On this long awaited episode of Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Gyal I take you on a book trip and chat to you guys about books and what I've been up to in that regard. Honestly just relax, listen and laugh, I also chat to you about our Spotify Wrapped. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

On this episode we talk about everything really, relationships aka relationships of future past lol, mustaqeemah also enlightens us about the concept of sunk cost fallacy. Honestly this episode is just two gyals chatting free! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Navigating the chaos of a 9 to 5 while fueling my creative passions – join me on 'Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl' as we delve into the art of side hustling. From mastering time management to setting achievable goals, discover how to find fulfillment in juggling creativity with the demands of a day job. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Diving deep into the weekend vibes!

In this episode of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl," I delve from my own perspective, personal experiences, and observations about the prevalent trend of "northern/Muslim” guys pursuing relationships with girls of other faiths and share some bitter truths about this culture 80% of the time. Additionally, I address the negative implications of recent administrative changes for creatives in Kaduna. Discussing how these changes impact the local creative scene, and challenges faced by artists. I highlight the resilience of the creative community amidst these challenges and emphasize the importance of creating our own platforms and not waiting on the government. Tune in to this episode to listen to the complexities of love, faith, and creativity in the diverse cultural landscape of Kaduna State. Also Jorja Smith

In this episode, I dive deep into the complex world of social media influence in Nigerian society. Join me as I unravel the multifaceted layers of online activism, shedding light on the power of digital voices in driving social change. We'll also address the dark side, discussing the alarming rise of cyberbullying and its profound effects on individuals. Delving into the realm of body image issues, I explore how social media molds perceptions and self-worth. Additionally, we analyze the role of influencers, deciphering their impact on trends and opinions. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that explores the far-reaching consequences of social media influence in the vibrant tapestry of Nigerian culture. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

In this episode of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl," I dive deep into my personal journey with creativity, unveiling my audio application for an Art and Fashion Festival submission themed "Into the Art of Making." Join me as I candidly discuss the challenges faced in a creative industry dominated by written forms of expression. I shed light on the limited opportunities available for visual artists and how the tide is slowly turning. Tune in to explore the evolving landscape of creative submissions and discover how people are now embracing diverse forms of creativity beyond poetry and prose, as we venture together into the art of making. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Welcome to this weeks episode of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl,” today, we dive deep into a topic that's close to my heart: boundaries. In this insightful episode, I'll share my personal journey of setting and respecting boundaries while drawing inspiration from valuable tips I discovered on Psych Central. I'll take you through my own experiences, the challenges I faced, and the transformative moments that made me realize the importance of boundaries in our lives, especially in the bustling Nigerian context. We'll explore the complexities of cultural norms and societal expectations that often test our ability to establish and maintain boundaries. I'll discuss how these factors can affect our mental and emotional well-being. We'll delve into practical tips for respecting boundaries, ensuring that our relationships, both personal and professional, thrive in an atmosphere of mutual respect and understanding. Expect engaging anecdotes, heartfelt revelations, and a few laughs along the way as we navigate the journey of self-discovery and growth through the lens of boundaries. Tune in to "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl" and let's embark on this enlightening exploration together. Whether you're from Nigeria or anywhere else in the world, this episode will resonate with anyone who's ever grappled with the art of setting and respecting boundaries. Join me on this empowering journey! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

In this bonus episode of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl," I take you on a wild ride through one of my most frustrating experiences as an online shopper. Join me as I spill the tea on my misadventures with an Instagram vendor who promised the world but failed to deliver – quite literally! Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions, from anticipation to disappointment, as I recount the absurdities of this online shopping debacle. If you've ever had your patience tested by unreliable vendors, you won't want to miss this storytime episode. So grab your headphones and join me in venting and laughing at the absurdity of it all. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

In this episode of "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl," I sit down with the incredibly talented Oni, who wears many hats as an entrepreneur, activist, avid reader, poet and student. Together, we dive deep into the heart of a matter that resonates with every Nigerian – the educational system. Join us as we dissect the strengths and weaknesses of the Nigerian education system, drawing from our own personal experiences and insights. We explore the challenges students face, the gaps in the curriculum, and the pressing need for reform. But we don't stop there; we're also bringing you fresh ideas and solutions for improving the quality of education in our beloved country. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that promises to spark change and inspire action. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

The Day of the Politician's Milk, on todays episode I read chapter 6 from Book 2 of Ben Okri's Famished Road and in this installment we continue on, on the part of politicians and false promises --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

In this introspective episode of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl," Join me in an introductory episode to “Boundaries” exploring the importance of setting boundaries and the consequences when they are not respected. Through my own story, I hope to shed light on the challenges we face when our boundaries are crossed and how this can affect us mentally, emotionally, and even physically. And of course birthday shenanigans, I'm coming across fellow Virgorians this year, I honestly never realized how many we are ♍️

Join me, and my incredible guest, Fatima, in this powerful episode of where we delve into a topic that hits close to home for many of us: Toxic Relationships. We're pulling back the curtain on those sneaky signs that often creep into our connections, the ones we might not notice at first. Together, we're unravelling the layers of toxic dynamics, discussing how they can drain our energy and self-worth. Fatima and I share personal stories, anecdotes, and insights that shed light on the dark corners of toxic relationships. We're not just stopping at identification; we're also exploring strategies to address and untangle ourselves from these harmful patterns. Our goal is to help you recognize the red flags, empower you to take action, and provide a space where you don't have to navigate this journey alone. Whether you're currently in a questionable relationship or you've moved past one, this episode offers relatable experiences, practical advice, and the reminder that you deserve healthy, uplifting connections. So, grab your earbuds and join us as we have an open, honest, and sometimes even humorous conversation about toxic relationships. It's time to reclaim your strength and prioritize your well-being. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Diving into Dreams and Destinies: Unpacking Ben Okri's Famished Road Book 2 In this episode, I finish Book 2,5 of Ben Okri's Famished Road. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

Episode 4 of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl" brings a captivating conversation to the forefront as I am joined by the insightful guest Ofem Ubi. Together, we delve into the dynamic world of creativity, exploring the theme of "The Power of Collaboration, Overcoming Isolation, and Finding Support." In this episode, we reflect on our personal journeys as creative individuals, highlighting the challenges and triumphs we've experienced while navigating the artistic landscape. We candidly share our encounters with isolation and the struggle to find like-minded souls who understand the creative process. This episode is a testament to the power of connection, showcasing the transformative potential of collaboration and camaraderie. "The Synergy of Creativity: Powering Through Together" serves as a beacon of encouragement for all creative individuals seeking to break free from isolation, find their tribe, and amplify their artistic voices in unison. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support

"Diving into Dreams and Destinies: Unpacking Ben Okri's Famished Road Book 2, Chapters 5 with the Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl Book Club

“Breaking Barriers: Maryam Shetty's Journey. Women in Nigerian Politics" In this episode of "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl," we delve into the inspiring journey of Maryam Shetty, a former political ministerial candidate whose recent departure from the race has sparked important conversations about the role of women in Nigerian politics. Join us as we explore Maryam Shetty's path to candidacy, the challenges she faced, and the reasons behind her withdrawal. How she served as a catalyst for other women's political aspirations. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on how one woman's pursuit of political office ignited a flame of hope and ambition among many, marking a significant milestone in the ongoing journey towards gender equality and representation in Nigerian politics. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motng/support