A Love Language Minute

Apologies are a necessity. Admit that you need to apologize, then express your apology and admit that your behavior was wrong. Most of the time, a sincere apology will result in the other person forgiving you.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Having a bad relationship with your father can result in negative consequences in your marriage. Reach out to your father and seek to build (or rebuild) the relationship.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's difficult to love other people when they always disappoint or hurt you. There's always going to be pain and hurt in every relationship because we're imperfect. When you've been hurt, seek out the offender and make a sincere attempt to reconcile.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The two most important sentences you'll ever learn are, "I made a mistake", and "I was wrong". Healthy families don't require perfection, but they do require the willingness to admit when they do wrong.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How do you create a healthy climate of communication in your marriage? Develop the skill of listening to each other.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When we do something wrong, we tend to place blame on someone or something else. It's critical that adults and children learn to take responsibility for what they have done and say, "I'm sorry".Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When should children begin reading the Five Love Languages? Dr. Chapman's book, The 5 Love Languages of Children was actually written for parents. This book will help the parents learn the concepts and apply them to their children.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As a parent, you can be certain that you've made mistakes in your past that you hope your children will never repeat. Be honest with your children and explain to them the consequences of those mistakes.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

True greatness is found in serving others. Jesus is the ultimate example of servanthood.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is uncontrolled anger a problem in your marriage? Proverbs 29:11 says, "A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is there a certified course of study for the 5 Love Languages that would help assist teachers to instruct people on its principles? Dr. Gary Chapman says that currently there isn't a certified course, but there are plenty of resources available to assist in teaching the 5 Love Languages principles.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Fighting in a marriage is never appropriate if it involves physical violence. But it's healthy to talk about things on which spouses disagree.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If your spouse sins against you, it's time to get angry. God, too, is angry when people sin. But the purpose for anger, under control, is to motivate us to lovingly confront. Sitting idly by and making no effort to help your spouse turn from their sin will never work.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Reconnecting with a former girlfriend is dangerous. It often leads to marital division and conflict. Scripture tells us to cleave to our wives.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Don't just focus on your desire to climb the corporate ladder to success at the expense of your marriage. Be sure that you prioritize the success of your spouse as well.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Everyone wants someone to be their soul mate, but there's no guarantee that a soul mate will always make us happy. We must understand that love is an action, not a feeling.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Just because the husband is the spiritual leader of the home doesn't necessarily mean he should lead in every aspect of the marriage. If the wife is a better financial manager, give her the freedom to use her strengths for the good of your family! After all, God gave the husband a wife to be his helpmate.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Which season best describes your marriage? All marriages have spent time in each of the four seasons, Spring and Summer are filled with hope, excitement and peace. Dr. Gary Chapman will help you create a Spring/Summer marriage!Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How do you deal with a spouse who has reconnected with a past boyfriend? Typically, reconnecting with a former boyfriend usually has romantic overtones. Kindly but firmly communicated that this cannot continue.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What season of marriage are you in - Winter, Spring, Summer or Fall? Marriages are perpetually in a state of transition. It has nothing to do with how long you've been married but the quality of your marriage.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What's the right approach in changing your spouse? Instead of trying to manipulate your spouse into changing, determine to make positive changes in your own life and behave appropriately, even if your spouse never changes.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What can parents do when their child's sexual behavior is inappropriate? The Christian way of approaching is to speak the truth in love.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A past relationship has negatively affected your ability to trust. Learn how you can keep your lack of trust from creeping into your new relationship.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Can your occupation determine your love language? Not really. But you might discover that some love languages are more helpful in certain vocations.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kid's today dress in very strange and creative ways. Frankly, this isn't very important. The important issue is the heart.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Parents are often shocked and depressed when they discover that their child is homosexual. Instead of rejecting them, keep the doors of communication open. Share your hurt, but affirm your unconditional love.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A woman recently got married and moved from the city to her husband's small town. This was a hard adjustment. What can she do? Try to make the most of the situation. Take time to get to know the good people of the town. But make time to visit the city once in a while.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is it wise to buy your child an iPod? There are many positive uses for a cellphone, but beware that they can be time wasters. Be sure to set limits and monitor their usage.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Christian parents, in particular, are often shocked to hear that their child is a homosexual. But they should love and communicate with them, even though they don't approve.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How can you tell if you're in a toxic workplace? If you feel drained emotionally and physically every time you go to work, you're place of employment is most likely toxic.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A loving person is a generous person. Generosity is giving your attention, time, abilities and money freely to others. Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Your fiancé is a very giving person, but you worry about him giving away too much. In the Bible, giving is a virtue. But try to find a balance between giving and saving.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Where do you draw the line of physical intimacy before marriage? The Bible is very clear that there should be no sexual intercourse before marriage. You need to focus on getting to know each other intellectually, emotionally, socially and spiritually, and save the physical part for marriage.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Humility is the true mark of a Christian. The best example of humility was how Christ humbled himself to become a man and to serve us, even to the point of dying for our sins. Humility is stepping down so someone else can step up.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If the atmosphere at work is toxic and it's negatively affecting your mental and physical health, maybe it's time to move on.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A mark of a loving person is courtesy. The word "courtesy" is much richer than being well-mannered. It means you view others as valuable and treating the accordingly.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You love your fiancé but her family is hard to deal with? Will this be a problem for you in the future? Tune in to hear what Dr. Gary Chapman has to say.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How can you know if she's "THE ONE"? First and foremost, ask yourself if your hearts beat together spiritually. If you're not in harmony is this area, you might want to reconsider moving forward in your relationship.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nobody's perfect. Patience is accepting the imperfections of the other. Not everyone is like you; so when they don't' measure up to your standards, give them the freedom to be different.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kindness is one of the traits of love. It's expressed in the way we talk as well as what we do. Imagine what life would be like if all of us were kind!Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In some marriages, one of the spouses tends to be the disciplinarian while the other spouse is the "fun" parent. Learn how to balance that out in your marriage. That's all on the next edition of A Love Language Minute.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A newly wed wife caught her husband watching porn. This is a clear indication that he was addicted to porn before they were married. He must be confronted and asked to get Biblical counseling.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.