Attitudes/Answers with Olen Baker

We are defined by our behavior.  Bad behavior leads to a life that is less than successful.  Turn to God for the best way to help others turn in the right direction.  You can't do it alone.  

Count to 10.  Sure, that's easy...not!  How do you keep your emotions under control?

We are flawed.  That's a fact.  We have strengths and weaknesses.  We also have trouble accepting success.  There are no self-made human beings.  God is the architect of our lives.  Humility isn't easy, but it is necessary, always.

Success can be a "Major Award.  F-R-A-G-I-L-E.  Here's the truth.  Whatever I achieve ia gift from God.  Stay humble.

Quick answer.  No!  God tests our faith.  He has the answers to all those issues, big and small.

Matthen 6:25 says not to worry about your life for God will provice for your needs.  If you tend to worry about every little thing, consider having a conversation with God.  He can help.

Think about this, you worry about a situation, your feelings react as it if actually happend.  Get on the right page by starting with a conversation with God.  He can help.

Go ahead, ask yourself.  What is the worst possible thing that could happen?  And, what could you do to cope with those issues.  Worry doesn't solve problems, it compounds them.

Let's connect the dots.  Imagination can play an essential role in constructing negative images of our concerns.  And that snowballs into doubt and depression.  Try this.  Imagine Jesus giving you what you need to face any situation.  

Worry is much bigger than you are.  Taking a moment to talk with God can mean the difference of being stuck, or moving forward.  Let's get you unstuck, today.

Worry can and will dull your faith in God.  You don't have to live there.  You can change that, today.  It's time to move on.

Simply, look to God for insight and wisdom to make things right.  Get unstuck and get on with your life.

Negative thoughts can destroy a person.  One word, adjustment.  Discover how to flow with other peoples patterns of life.  Not always that easy, but much easier when you talk to God about it.

What is most important at THIS MOMENT?  Not yesterday, or tomorrow.  This moment is where you start to manage frustration and turn the corner.  Tomorrow becomes a much better day.

Did you know that self-blame is often followed by blaming others.  This isn't the way God designed us to live.  It's time to face the reality of your situation.  Start with a conversation with God.

High levels of frustration can produce self-defeating thoughts and behaviors.  You need to find the strength to power through.  Trust in God to help you find the way.  

Managing stress isn't easy.  Acknowledging what you feel and think is best managed through confession.  Jesus has everything you need to help that happen.

Failure is very predictable in every human.  We are imperfect.  How we rebound from failure is based on truth and faith in God.  He will cleanse your heart and soul, every time.

Suspicion that is unresolved can damage a relationship in many ways.  Allow God to direct your benavior and help you discover truth.  He is the only one who can do that in your life.

Anger CAN be helpful when it is expressed in the right way.  The right way gives helpful resolutions.  Without out that, your anger is wasted energy that endangers the relationship.

Life comes with surprises.  Remaining self-composed  can be tough.  Look beyond the moment and turn to God for direction.  He always knows the best way.

It's not easy, but essential to maintain calm.  Jesus has the power to help us resist anger and anxiety.  Just ask Him.

Being calm helps us keep anger and fear at bay.  The holy spirit helps is get there.

Controlling emotions reveals love and respect for each other.  Not always easy, right?  Here is a way you can get there.

Complaining can become habitual, even if you don't want it to.  Not resolving the issue can destroy a relationship.  Let's see if we can help get you out of the rut, today.

So, what caused the conflict?  If you don't understand that basic emotion, you will never discover an answer.  Let's get you started on the right path, right now.

Choose your battles carefully.  Ever hear that?  Let's find out how to make things right.

You're not ready, but they are.  So, how can you help them when they're not at home and they are ready for the next big adventure/  Let's find out.

Okay, so you just experienced a moment in your life that was bigger than expected.  How do you move forward?  Let's get you there.

You talk too much!  You always have the last word!  Okay, it's time to stop talking and start listening.  Your first priority, listen to God, and he will give you the widsom of words and common sense.  

Impulsive decisions often result in pain and suffering.  On the other hand, a decisive moment could be a positive experience.  The key:  When it's anchored in prayer and comes with God's blessings.  

Parents sometimes push their children to do so many things, they get frustrated and eventually end up participating.  Maybe you do that.  Let God help direct and guide you through the confusion.  You'll get much better results.

Maybee something simple, like seeking God, is all you need.  We live in a noisy world.  Find the quiet spot near God.  It's right there.

Simply, faith in God is the first step.  He can help you get there and stay there.  Trust in his blessing.

We need to believe in who we are and what we are.  That's self-esteem.  You cannot build on your character until you believe in your worth.  God can help you see the beauty inside, even on the most challenging days.  

We do not live life without facing some, maybe several, epic and challenging moments.  God is right there to experience those moments with you.  God is the foundational bond that helps you see beyond the challenge.

That's a scary question, as marriage is more than hopes and dreams.  Marriage is a huge adjustment in the way you live your life.  Make sure you've got that taken care of, first.

You have an ego.  We all do.  Keeping the ego part under control is called humility.  Not always easy, but always essential.  Let others shine your light for you.

Okay, so this amazing thing happend to me, today.  Did God plan that?  The answer is, yes.  He has a plan for you and he will help you finish it.  

These three letters, PGF, should resonate in your life.  They are, "Put God First".  Remember the one who created you is also the one who will help chart your life story.  Time to PGF, isn't it?

This is called a pivitol moment, when two or more factors come together in a person's life to determine a directional change.  Simply, you have been presented with the chance to make lemonade out of lemons.  Can you do that?

A pivotal moment just might be the day you gave your life to Jesus.  Beyond that beautiful transformation, you were designed to respond to His call.  Congratulations.

Simpley, how we manage the gifts and talents God gives us.  Listen for direction and follow His advice.  

We are God's crowning achievement.  Do you believe that?  We are also still a work in progress.  God is in control.

Yes, because of God's mercy.  Life is not only about what we choose, but whom we choose.  It's time to choose the Lord, Jesus Christ.

For a younger person, time moves slowly.  For an older person, time flashes by.  Spend your time on earth loving God, and he will make sure those minutes and hours are spent wisely.

Simply, we are measured by our capacity to love others and serve Him.  Do you have a heart of compassion?

You don't need a holiday to share the love of God.  Every day brings new opportunities.

Loving God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength is a great path to connecting to God.  His promise gives blessings for every day of your life.  

God intended for there to be dependency in a relationship.  He also gives us guidance on how to manage dependency.

Yes, because it's about balance and should project love, strength and commitment.