Podcasts about family counseling

Jealousy has the potential of blinding us to the truth.  The truth is the path to overcoming jealousy, and God is sending you a message to look in the mirror and see what needs to be changed, about you.

You can't avoide trouble in life.  To face trouble you must also face and connect with God.  He is the wisdom for how to overcome any issue.   Your walk is a daily walk with God, plain and simple.

Quick answer:  Yes.  God always gives us insight and wisdom for problem solving.  Quit searching the internet, just have a conversation with God.  No wi-fi needed.

Trouble breeds fear and confusion.  God is right there by your side, in good times and bad times.  Trouble will happen, but the good news is God has you covered.

When trust is absent, trouble can be overwhelming.  It doesn't have to be that way.  Trusting God is a choice, and an essential partner to have when trouble comes your way.

Trouble isn't designed to rob us of faith and confidence.  It is more of an exercise to help us understand victory.  Faith gives us the power to overcome what seems impossible.

If you measure life by other people' success, you will always come up short.  Insead, rely on your faith for direction and inspiration and focus only on who you are and what you have done.  You'll be surprised how cool you really are.

The fork in the road.  Which way do I go?  Some rely on their own decisions.  Other's rely on God's direction.  So, which one do you think is the path to follow?

Trouble lives just around the corner in everyones life.  Like the GPS that tells you if an accident is ahead, God can help you take an alternate route, every time.

In a word, no.  It's more like you giving up on God.  Don't let that happen.

“The only thing we have in common is the fact that he's magical and I'm creating magic in these schools moving kids forward.”  “I believe most people have compassion in their soul.” “Are you willing to share without expecting anything back?”   Episode summary | In this episode of ROG, host Shannon Cassidy speaks with Harry Potter, a retired education professional, about the importance of generosity in personal and professional life. They discuss Harry's transformative experiences with mentors who opened doors for him, the impact of small acts of kindness, and the ripple effect of giving back to the community. Harry shares his journey from a challenging upbringing to a successful career, emphasizing the significance of noticing the needs of others and being intentional in acts of service.   R.O.G. Takeaway Tips | Generosity is not just financial; it includes time and respect. Mentorship can change the trajectory of a person's life. Reflecting on one's journey can reveal the impact of others. Small acts of kindness can lead to significant changes. Being intentional about noticing others' needs is crucial. Everyone has the potential to give back in meaningful ways. Generosity creates a ripple effect in the community. Confidence can be a barrier to seizing opportunities. It's important to share knowledge and experiences with others. Giving back is a way to honor those who helped you.   Chapters |  00:00 The Power of Generosity 07:01 Transformative Mentorships 14:08 The Ripple Effect of Kindness 19:57 Noticing and Taking Action 27:58 Giving Back and Leaving a Legacy   Guest Bio | Harry Potter is a retired education and administrative professional with over 31 years of experience supporting student success. Known for his compassion, leadership, and commitment to equity, Harry has served as a counselor, principal, and district director, helping thousands of students overcome barriers to achievement. Born and raised in Providence, Rhode Island, he earned his B.A. in History and Secondary Education from the University of Rhode Island, followed by a Master's in Family Counseling and later, a Master's in Secondary Administration from Providence College. Harry began his career in counseling before moving into school leadership, eventually becoming Principal of Hope High School and later, Director of Student Opportunities for the Providence School Department. He created impactful programs, including the “Harry Potter Program,” which helped over 1,350 students graduate. Since retiring in 2009, Harry continues to serve the community through hospice work, youth camps, and grief support groups, remaining a passionate advocate for growth, healing, and education.   Bridge Between Resources: 5 Degree Change Course Free N.D.I. Network Diversity Index  Free Generosity Quiz    Credits: Harry Potter, Host Shannon Cassidy, Bridge Between, Inc.   Coming Next: Please join us next week, Episode 241, Special Guest, Trish Scanlon.  

Simple.  Living with the knowledge and wisdom of God keeps you focused and less vulnerable to others who might lead you in the wrong direction.  You need one connection, and only one.

So, where does God live within you?  Is it a casual relationship that you call on in a time of need, or do you live with God in your heart every day.  God rewards those who take that relationship seriously.

Stretching values to align with peer groups can put your path in a bad place.  If you are lost, have a conversation with God to get back on track.

It's not easy to live up to God's expectations, but it is necessary.  Ask for forgiveness and let God move you in the right direction.

You feeling this episode? Send us a text!How many many women wished they could have dated young under parental supervision? In this episode, we discuss raising teenagers especially young women. We tend to have a long leash on our young men but yet a shock collar on our young women. We expect them to choose wisely when they become adults but their emotional state haven't even been developed yet. All the things they could have went through as a teenager and would have been taught through they are now learning in their twenties either in college or out in the world with no life jacket and no supervision. How are young women supposed to navigate relationships without crashing out when we don't have the tools to do so? Well tune in and share. Support the show

We live life, depending on God's goodness and generosity.  That relationship is based on your obedience to him, plain and simple.

Where do you live in your relationship with God?  If you're living life on the edge, you will eventually slip away from his intentions for your life.  So, where are you in your walk with God?

Learn how to listen to God and tune out the noise of the world.  First thing in your day, before you do anything, reach out to God and set your day on the right path.  With God as your guide, you will never go down the wrong path.

Simply, not holding onto the truth.  Not listening when you should be.  Deciding that your way is better than his way.  It never is.

Simply, nothing more than humility and a heart seeking forgiveness and restoration.  Yes, God does expect us to follow the rules, but most importantly, he expects us to stay connected to him.

Simply, believing in God's purpose for our life is the cornerstone.  As we mature, we learn to listen more and respond less.  Always put God first.

The point is keeping your strengths and weaknesses under control.  Jesus is your main source of security and balance.  Trust in him with all your heart, always.

Place your strength before you weaknesses.  Allow God to direct your motion in life and aviod the pitfalls of making bad decisions.

Guilty!  How about you?  We do things that bring consequences.  Let the impulsivity go and take a moment for a chat with God.  It works every time.

Remember that God has a plan for your life.  Tune in to what he has designed for you.  Checking with God first, is always the best way to start.

A spur of the moment decision can change your life forever.  That's a powerful moment.  Take a break, talk to God, don't hesitate.  

Humility is and always has been a strength.  It is not always easy to stay humble.  But it is always necessary.  

Did you know a weakness can be a blessing?  That's becasuse God offsets your weaknesses with his power.  It's true.

We are defined by our behavior.  Bad behavior leads to a life that is less than successful.  Turn to God for the best way to help others turn in the right direction.  You can't do it alone.  

Our children are God's greatest gifts. We pour into them with unconditional love, guidance and support - praying we have given them the tools to be successful in life. Yet, peer pressure, hormones, and unrealistic social expectations can undermine our best efforts. Then what?The teenage years can be challenging, especially for girls. Issues such as negative self-esteem, anxiety, depression and self-harm plague far too many young tweens and teens as they mature into adulthood.How can families support girls during these difficult times? What are the red flags indicating professional help is needed? How do we differentiate between attention-seeking behaviors and a deeper cry for help?Our guests today, Dr. Tim Jordan, and his wife, Anne, join us to share their 30-plus years of experience providing counsel and guidance to young girls, teens, college-age women and their families. Tim and Anne share a passion for this work and, as a result, are trusted national and international resources for families and health professionals working with this population. Please join us as we unpack the complexities of raising strong girls.Show Notes:Special Guests: Dr. Tim & Anne JordanDr. Jordan is a developmental and behavioral pediatrician and counselor who is also an international speaker and prolific author of six books on raising strong girls. He's the host of his podcast called Raising Daughters and the owner of Camp Weloki for Girls. He has extensive training, including a stint with T. Berry Brazelton at Children's Hospital at Harvard.Anne Jordan, R.N., is also an international speaker and the president of Children and Families, Inc. She, along with her husband, are facilitators for the Strong Girls, Strong World program. She's also a co-owner of Camp Weloki for Girls, as well as the podcast producer. ResourcesHow to Purposefully Parent with the End in Mind (article and podcast episode by Dr. Tim Jordan) https://drtimjordan.com/2023/06/parent-values-covey-family-home/Spiral of Beliefs: How Girls Can Redirect Limiting Beliefs About Themselves (Article and podcast by Dr. Tim Jordan)https://drtimjordan.com/2020/02/beliefs-self-esteem-perspective-identity-depression-trauma-bullying/Why Teens Don't Want to Grow Up (article and podcast by Dr. Tim Jordan)https://drtimjordan.com/2023/03/adulthood-teens-careers-decisions-marriage/

Count to 10.  Sure, that's easy...not!  How do you keep your emotions under control?

We are flawed.  That's a fact.  We have strengths and weaknesses.  We also have trouble accepting success.  There are no self-made human beings.  God is the architect of our lives.  Humility isn't easy, but it is necessary, always.

In this deeply resonant conversation, Dr. Lori M. Nixon- Bethea, PhD, LPC, LMHC, NCC, ACSand I explore what it means to live through—and ultimately transcend—the slow burn of chronic disappointment. We begin by sharing the gulf between the lives we built and the dreams we once held, acknowledging the grief that comes from unmet expectations. Dr. Lori recounts her own journey from frustration and self‑reproach to a place of steadfast peace, grounded in the profound realization that life is co‑authored by God, not solely directed by our own hands.As she reflects on seasons when God felt silent, Dr. Lori offers compassionate wisdom: struggle can be a divine instructor, teaching us patience and attuning us to God's perfect timing rather than our hurried agendas. Together, we shed light on a common but overlooked phenomenon—high‑functioning grief. So many of us soldier on, outwardly composed yet inwardly fractured, deploying church‑speak and religious ritual as shields against our own pain.We unpack the phrase “I don't claim that,” often brandished as spiritual armor to deny reality—whether in physical health, mental well‑being, or relational struggle—and examine the hidden cost of such avoidance. Truthfulness, we agree, is the catalyst that begins genuine transformation. By naming our wounds instead of whitewashing them, we break the cycle of compounding trauma that festers when left unaddressed.Recognizing a gap in support systems, we advocate for expanded mental‑health resources and financial‑literacy programs within the church—initiatives that would not only fortify congregants but also protect pastors from burnout. Our dialogue then turns to gendered experiences of therapy: the unique obstacles men face when their struggles are minimized or dismissed, and the critical need for individual counseling before embarking on couples work. We consider how men and women can better bridge their differing emotional landscapes through open communication and mutual understanding.Ultimately, this episode is an invitation—to be honest about where we are, to lean into the hard truths, and to trust that, in our vulnerability, we begin the work of healing and renewal.About Dr. Lori M. Nixon‑BetheaDr. Lori M. Nixon‑Bethea, PhD, LPC, LMHC, NCC, ACSFounder and Owner, Intentional Hearts Counseling Services, LLC (Monmouth County, NJ)With over seventeen years of professional experience, Dr. Nixon‑Bethea provides individual and group counseling to adults, couples, families, and at‑risk youth in both New Jersey and Florida. Her expertise spans work with the chronically mentally ill, foster‑care youth, and individuals in crisis.Education:- BA in Psychology, Monmouth University- MA in Psychological Counseling & Post‑Master's Certificate in Professional Counseling, Monmouth University- PhD in Counseling (Marital & Family Counseling specialization), Barry UniversityClinical Credentials:Licensed Professional Counselor (NJ)Licensed Mental Health Counselor (NY)Nationally Board‑Certified Counselor & Approved Clinical Supervisor, Center for Credentialing and EducationAcademic Role: Assistant Professor of Psychology and Counseling (tenure track), Georgian Court UniversityResearch Interests: Marital and relationship success, mental‑health advocacy for dancers, and issues impacting Black, Indigenous, and People of Color.Publications & Media:Author of Riley's Worry Away (2019), a children's book addressing childhood anxietyQuoted in Cosmopolitan, Verywell Health, and ShapeFun Facts: Former Miss New Jersey USA delegate, graduate of the Olphelia DeVore School of Charm, and lifelong dancer. Dr. Nixon‑Bethea resides in Monmouth County with her husband and their dog.Keep up with Dr. Lori:https://drlorinixon.com/linktr.ee/Dr.LoriGrab a copy of Dr. Lori's children's book:Riley's Worry Away: A children's book about worrying

Success can be a "Major Award.  F-R-A-G-I-L-E.  Here's the truth.  Whatever I achieve ia gift from God.  Stay humble.

Quick answer.  No!  God tests our faith.  He has the answers to all those issues, big and small.

Matthen 6:25 says not to worry about your life for God will provice for your needs.  If you tend to worry about every little thing, consider having a conversation with God.  He can help.

Think about this, you worry about a situation, your feelings react as it if actually happend.  Get on the right page by starting with a conversation with God.  He can help.

Go ahead, ask yourself.  What is the worst possible thing that could happen?  And, what could you do to cope with those issues.  Worry doesn't solve problems, it compounds them.

Let's connect the dots.  Imagination can play an essential role in constructing negative images of our concerns.  And that snowballs into doubt and depression.  Try this.  Imagine Jesus giving you what you need to face any situation.  

Worry is much bigger than you are.  Taking a moment to talk with God can mean the difference of being stuck, or moving forward.  Let's get you unstuck, today.

Worry can and will dull your faith in God.  You don't have to live there.  You can change that, today.  It's time to move on.

Simply, look to God for insight and wisdom to make things right.  Get unstuck and get on with your life.

Negative thoughts can destroy a person.  One word, adjustment.  Discover how to flow with other peoples patterns of life.  Not always that easy, but much easier when you talk to God about it.

Did you know that self-blame is often followed by blaming others.  This isn't the way God designed us to live.  It's time to face the reality of your situation.  Start with a conversation with God.

What is most important at THIS MOMENT?  Not yesterday, or tomorrow.  This moment is where you start to manage frustration and turn the corner.  Tomorrow becomes a much better day.

High levels of frustration can produce self-defeating thoughts and behaviors.  You need to find the strength to power through.  Trust in God to help you find the way.  

Managing stress isn't easy.  Acknowledging what you feel and think is best managed through confession.  Jesus has everything you need to help that happen.

Failure is very predictable in every human.  We are imperfect.  How we rebound from failure is based on truth and faith in God.  He will cleanse your heart and soul, every time.

Kyle Worley is joined by Leslie Umstattd and Christy Allen to discuss how to care for women in the local church.Questions Covered in This Episode:Why are you passionate about caring for women in the church?What are two key practices for women to grow in their ability to care for women in their local church??Guest Bio:Leslie Umstattd serves as Associate Professor of Christian Education & Ministry to Women and Faculty Co-Coordinator, Ministry to Women Programs at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. She holds an Ed.D. from Midwestern Seminary, Masters of Marriage and Family Counseling and Religious Education from Southwestern Seminary, and a Bachelor of Science in Business Management from the University of Alabama. Christy Allen serves as Assistant Professor of Ministry to Women, and Faculty Co-Coordinator, Ministry to Women Programs at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. Professor Allen holds a ThM from Dallas Theological Seminary with a concentration in Bible Exposition and Christian Education, a Master's in Christian Education from Jacksonville Baptist Theological Seminary, and a Bachelor of Music Education from Jacksonville University. She is currently working on a PhD in Applied Theology at MBTS. Follow Us:Twitter | Instagram | Facebook | WebsiteOur Sister Podcasts:The Family Discipleship Podcast | Tiny TheologiansSupport Training the Church and Become a Patron:patreon.com/trainingthechurchMidwestern Seminary is excited to announce FTC Talks, exclusive conversations with MBTS faculty about ministry related topics. Completely online and FREE, you can sign up for any and all FTC Talks today at mbts.edu/ftctalks to reserve your spot. Join us for talks about women's discipleship, God's heart for the nations, gospel-driven ministry, Spurgeon's pastoral ministry, and how every Christian is a counselor. We hope these conversations will spur you on in your service to the local church and help you connect with even more ministry leaders and friends across the country. Sign up today at mbts.edu/ftctalks.To learn more about our sponsors please visit our sponsor page. Editing and support by The Good Podcast Co.