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Sure, you can sidestep a mistake, but you will most likely make that mistake over and over. Accountability is a tough pill to take. But unless you take accountability for your actions and results, you will never get on a better path. You are you. You will make mistakes.
Excuses, the first line of defense for failure. Instead of opening your mouth, spend time with God and let Him chart a path that brings you to a better place. The truth always works.
Not if, but when. We all experience failure in life, sometimes more than just once. We might not be able to see a reason to get back up, but God does. Don't rely on just your feelings. Allow God to give an assist. He will do that.
Romance novelist and filmmaker Alys Murray joins us to unpack Emerald Fennell's Wuthering Heights adaptation, and (perhaps unsurprisingly) opinions are varied! What does the movie have in common with Grease 2? Listen and learn! Plus, we have a Hotline call all about movie characters that need family or couples counseling. What's Good Alonso - Nathan Rabin's The Fractured Mirror Drea - Talking Spindle Cove on Reading Smut Alys - The Artful Dodger TV series Kevin - Valentine's Day romance, courtesy of Avengers: Endgame ITIDIC Bad Bunny Sets First Lead Movie Role in ‘Porto Rico' With Norton, Bardem Remembering a Trio of of Hollywood Greats We Lost this Week (Tom Noonan • Frederick Wiseman • Robert Duvall) - Alonso recommends The Store as a Wiseman entry point. - Tom Noonan's The Wife is an adaptation of his play, Wifey. Staff Picks Drea - Emily Alonso - A Useful Ghost Alys - Dangerous Beauty Kevin - Sliding Doors Alys Murray's new book is A Little Buzzed Follow us on BlueSky, Facebook, Instagram, or LetterboxdWithKevin AveryDrea ClarkAlonso DuraldeProduced by Marissa FlaxbartSr. Producer Laura Swisher
Acccountability is tough. You have to look in the mirror and accept what you see. Being accountable is the pathway to integrity and healing. Not an easy task, but always necessary.
In this episode of BS Free MD, Walt Heyer shares his personal history, including childhood adversity, substance use, and the path that led him to medically transition and later reverse course. He argues that “affirmation-first” models in therapy and medicine often skip deeper assessment and fail to address root causes like abuse, PTSD, anxiety/depression, autism traits, or other psychological distress. Drs. May and Tim discuss how rapidly rising youth identification trends may be influenced by peer dynamics and online content, and they emphasize the need for careful evaluation, family involvement, and ethical guardrails—especially when irreversible medical decisions are involved. GET SOCIAL WITH US!
The Apostle Paul said, when I was a child, I talked like a child. When I became a man, I put childlsh ways behind me. Okay, so you're still that child inside. Problem is, it's time to grow up. Ask God for the courage to make that change, today.
Broken relationships are tough. What's even tougher is getting the other person to accept responsibility (partial or full) for what happened. God washes us clean with His forgivness. Can you do the same for someone you're having trouble with?
Yeah, the honeymoon is over, now comes the reality of life. One word, comprimise, will help give birth to that lasting bond you pledged to each other on day one. Rather than look at the other person, take a look at who you are. Then, take a second look at who you are, together.
Hatred is powerful and it can and will destroy you and others in your path. Hatred is darkness and destruction. God is forgivness and healing. If that's where you're at, take a moment and have a conversation with God, today.
Yeah, your kids are suffering more than you, more than you know. They are innocent victims of your conflict, sometimes used as tools against the other parent. Do not forget how important it is to make sure they are taken care of emotionally, as well. You are still a parent, married or divorced, and it's still your responsibility.
Kids are many times, neglected when conflict comes their way. A divorce or family situation that is living chaos. Kids experience the same grief as adults. If that's your situation right now, make sure you connect with them and help them through the process.
Download the transcript of this episode in .pdf formatJoin our premium version of the FTP Pod on Patreon, For just $6 a month, you get extended versions of this and all episodes; bonus content; community; and our Patreon-only show, Riverside Reflections.What happens when a nonprofit uses a six-figure, one-time gift not to launch a new program—but to fundamentally improve job quality for its staff?In this episode, Rusty Stahl sits down with Janelle Miller Moravek, Executive Director of Youth and Family Counseling (YFC) in Lake County, Illinois, to share a powerful case study of how investing in nonprofit workers can dramatically improve retention, service delivery, and program outcomes.Facing 40% staff turnover, YFC made a bold decision: use a transformational donor gift to raise salaries and redesign work conditions—with intention, transparency, and sustainability. The result? A healthier, more resilient workforce; lower turnover; more therapy sessions delivered; and improved clinical outcomes.This conversation offers a rare, inside look at how compensation, workload design, management practices, and workplace culture can work together to create an upward spiral—for staff and for the communities they serve.This episode challenges one of the nonprofit sector's most persistent myths: that investing in staff compensation is risky or unsustainable. Instead, Janelle shows how strategic workforce investment can unlock greater access, quality, and financial resilience—even in Medicaid-funded, high-demand service environments.For executive directors, funders, board members, and major donors, this is a concrete example of how funders and nonprofits can collaborate on talent-investing to drive mission impact.Topics covered:Why raising pay alone isn't enough—and what else must change to retain staff How YFC redesigned compensation using transparent salary scales and performance-based progression The role of reasonable workloads and boundary-setting in preventing burnout How investing in caring, well-equipped managers strengthens the entire organizationWhy workplace fun and connection—on paid work time—matterWhat this model means for foundation executives, boards, and major donors who are skeptical of investing in wagesResults discussed:100% of staff transitioned to a new, transparent salary scale within nine months Staff turnover reduced from 40% to 28% in under a year1,300 more sessions delivered in the first three quarters of 2025 vs. 2024Increased treatment completion and improved client outcomesGuest Bio:Janelle Miller Moravek is a nonprofit leader and mental health advocate. She has led Youth & Family Counseling as Executive Director since 2009, driving its growth and impact across Lake County, Illinois. With a deep commitment to increasing access to mental health services, she oversees strategy, programming, and operations while fostering strong partnerships throughout the community. Janelle plays a key leadership role in the region, serving on the board of the Lake County Alliance for Human Services and co-chairing the Lake County Behavioral Health Action Team. Her prior experience includes development roles at Carmel Catholic High School and Barat College. She lives in Libertyville with her husband and three children.Related Episodes:How One Nonprofit Models Talent-Investing - with Abby Wolensky & Ashley Pesi, Auberle (S2:E15)Talent-Investing is the Best Capacity-Building - with Tom Fuechtmann, Community Memorial Foundation (S3:E6)Talent Matters Remix, Part III: Culture of Care - with Michele Booth Cole, SafeShores DC (S2:E10)6 Practices for Embedding Equity in Nonprofit Compensation - with Mala Nagarajan, Vega Mala Consulting (S4:E6)A Model for Systematically Improving Nonprofit Workplaces - with Arum Lee Lansel (S7:E9)Resources & LinksYouth and Family Counseling (YFC)MIT Living Wage CalculatorJanelle Miller Moravek on LinkedIn (mention you found her through your Fund the People Podcast)
You can't make an apology happen by demanding it. You should never suppress your feelings. Even when you're the victim, approach the issue as a peacemaker, not the aggressor. God will help you get there.
The short answer is yes, every time. The way to healing is by YOU being part of the process. It's not the wave of aa magic wand, but more of a collaboration with God that brings healing. YOU are part of the process.
So, how is your attitude right now? If it's fighting words, those words will only destroy any opportunity to repair the relationship. Accept the fact that you are part of the conflict and that until you are willing to hear what the other side has to say, your relationship will remain broken and stuck. Do the right thing, today.
Truth, tempered with compassion give both sides a chance to come closer together in a dispute solution. Stop talking and start listening. God will give you the words of response, everytime.
How do you block communication? Body language, silence, agressive responses. Mutual understanding is never easy, but always necessary in any relationship.
The blame game. We all play it at times. God can help us get out of that rut. Listen and learn.
Okay, things have to change, and that means YOU. It's a tough place to go, but to heal and move forward, you must do that first.
In this episode of Mentor Moments, we engage in a candid conversation with Alexis, a Child, Teen, and Family Therapist. Alexis shares her journey from aspiring occupational therapist to finding her passion in social work and therapy. She discusses the challenges and rewards of working with families, emphasizing the importance of understanding family dynamics and the transformative power of therapy sessions. Alexis highlights her niche in working with younger children and blended families, and the significance of parent consultations, especially as the school year begins. The conversation also touches on the importance of flexibility, self-regulation, and the unexpected emotional challenges therapists face in their practice.Follow Mentor Moments on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/mentor.moments/Follow Mentor Moments on TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@mentor.moments?_t=ZT-8z1T1S1i8Xf&_r=1Subscribe to Mentor Moments on Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/3mu3ZVqpsBaGxDfncaNmSn?si=851fd465a0f94399Subscribe to Mentor Moments on Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentor-moments/id1590063983Subscribe to Wooters' Wisdoms Newsletterhttps://substack.com/@wooterscounseling
Politics, religion, whatever comes between two people, doesn't mean that harmony can't be regained. Not a great place to be. Let's help you get there.
You have expectations, but what you need are, realistic expectations. Search your heart. Have a conversation with God. But don't be the barrier to resolution.
You might not see this at the moment, but a crisis for healing the wounds from the past. Ask God to help you see what's possible. Only He can completely understand from an unbiased position.
Are you capable of showing remorse and repentance? God can help you heal, but healing starts first, with you.
Yeah, it's worth fixing and yeah, it's never easy. To start, allow trust to bring you back to center and allow God to help you take the next steps.
Somes that bond fails. A preoccupation with a career, a troubled marriags or simply a lack of interest. Find out how you can make the changes necessary to be better at the job of a Mom or Dad.
New parents are uncomfortable, because they don't feel qualified to be a parent. As kids grow there's an opportunity to grow with a bond. This is how you go there.
No internet signal, no problem. Find a calm, quiet place and send your message. On the best days and the darkest days, He will always answer.
Wow, once again it's time for a fresh start. How many times have you been there? It doesn't matter, because God will always be there to help. Just ask.
Holidays tend to bring out our best and worst character traits. Too much stress weakens our impulse control. Pray for strength to be honest and sincere.
An attitude change isn't easy, because we're stuck in our ways. Don't let this year end without reaching out to someone you are at odds with. It doesn't matter who is at fault, it does matter that you resolve the issues. Doing so will lift the burden from your heart.
Christmas morning, and you're anticipating another wonderful Christmas Day. No need to check under the tree for any other gifts, check with God to make sure that your light shines in others. Today, give the gift of prayer. Merry Christmas.
Remember, the most important gift you can give, is the gift of eternal salvation, through Jesus Christ. The stores will be swamped with last minute shoppers. You don't need a store for this special gift.
Remember, you are the light pointing the recipient to Jesus. On that gift tag, let them know there is a little more that comes with this present.
You are at odds with someone you know, maybe a family member or friend. Prayer is the perfect way to turn that around. Why? Because asking God to help heal the wounds of life, will always be a blessing...and the perfect gift.
Wrong size, wrong color, never use it, what were you thinking?! Here's a suggestion; the gift pf prayerr is always the perfect gift, because it speaks directly to the person you're giving it to.
Your attitude has a lot to do with how your child sees and responds to your direction. Check your attitude before you speak.
Are your kids also a friend? It's a balance between friendship and being a teacher.
You're learning from your kids, as much as they're learning from you. Turn to God when those speed bumps happen.
Be a better listener and you will discover who they are. Children know they have purpose in life. Set the boundaries and help them discover who they will become. Not always easy, but always necessary.
Every child is unique. And every child deserves your specific attention to address behavior issues. You can't find the solution in a book. Get to know your child and be responsive to his or her specific needs.
Kids like to please their parents. Does that surprise you? They are listening, but are you sending the right message?
You know, even God does not always respond with a resounding "yes" to each of your prayers. He knows the boundaries and he knows when to make sure you've done what's necessary to walk with Him. Before you say "yes" to the next request, talk to God, first.
Okay, it's not about you. It's about what you expect from others. And so many times, others will let you down. Do your best to imitate the Lord God. Your efforts will benefit someone. It always will. Look to God for affirmation.
Can you accept that your children will not always like you, and that's okay. Kids who respect their parents go out into the world with a greater chance for success. It's okay when they don't like. It's not okay when they don't respect you.
Send Jay comments via textWhat if ending emotional eating isn't about creating the perfect plan, but about choosing who you want to be? In this eye-opening episode, author, TEDx speaker, and coach Renée Jones shares her transformative journey from 40 years of yo-yo dieting to a steady, fulfilling relationship with food based on identity rather than willpower. Renée recounts her evolution from family meals in Texas to a pivotal moment at 49—a closet safety-pin crisis that prompted her to re-evaluate her relationship with food.We delve into Renee's HANG method, a practical way to defuse cravings in real-time, as well as the importance of external accountability for those who tend to neglect their own needs. By understanding food as data and testing what works best for your body, you can shift from tired, cranky meals to ones that foster energy and stability. For anyone navigating the empty nest transition, this episode serves as a critical moment to ask: Who do I want to be now? Highlights & Key Takeaways:Redefine your identity after years of yo-yo dieting.Understand the influence of family food culture and early eating patterns.Recognize the emotional versus physical hunger distinction.Discover the HANG method to manage cravings effectively.Test foods to find your personal fit, guiding energy, mood, and satiety.This episode offers a compassionate, practical path to build a healthier, more fulfilling relationship with food—and ultimately, with yourself. Renée Jones BioRenée spent decades struggling with the hidden barriers of self-sabotage, and once free, her passion became helping others get unstuck and unleash their full potential. Renée has a Master's degree in Marriage and Family Counseling, a Clinical Residency, and training in contemporary methods of transformation, and a TEDx talk. Her book is What's Really Eating You: Overcome the Triggers of Comfort Eating.Find Renée Online: LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook, WebsiteSupport the showBECOME A VIP SUBSCRIBER (Join Today!) Bonus Content for Subscribers Only Episode Shoutouts Thank You Emails Private Meet & Greets via Zoom + More ENJOY THE SHOW?Don't miss an episode, subscribe via Apple Podcasts or follow on Spotify and many more. Review us on Love the Podcast, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify -- reviews and ratings help others find us and we'd appreciate your support greatly. LOVE THE SHOW?Get THIS EMPTY NEST LIFE swagCONNECT WITH JAYEmail, LinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok
This is especially important when working with our children. Yes is an easy way out of having to deal with an issue. No, means that boundaries have been set. Without boundaries, children have a way of walking in the wrong direction. No is okay. Go ahead, try it.
Wow, sharing your feelings can be tough. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Don't ever get into a conversation without talking to God, first. He will help craft the perfect set of words and emotions.
Anyone ever ask you that question. So, speaking honestly, without ego or expectations of a much higher rating, who are you? Funny thing, the best descriptives come from others, not you. Ask someone to fill in the blank for you and see what happens.