Big Girl Certified

Hey Family! Welcome back, we are here to discuss episode 4  entitled ‘Create Pretty Privilege'. This is a topic I've been excited to discuss for a while. For the longest time I've found it very interesting how people in society will automatically rate you on high you are on their personal own attractivity scale, and then treat you accordingly to what they deem appropriate. I'm not necessarily speaking of dating, even though that is another side of it, I'm talking about in our everyday encounters and daily relationships and connections we make while being out in public. It's a large part of the reason many can identify with the personality trait of being an introvert. Part of it has to do with the way introverts can fear being perceived and treated in a public setting. Some people have a natural “je ne sais quoi”  that attracts all energies in the room the second you walk in. You are a magnet for both feminine and masculine energy. It's as if a beacon of light just entered the chat and you can't help but take a look and see what it is.  I think part of this can be attributed to the mastering of pretty privilege. We will discuss the effects of pretty privilege in the workplace, in friendships aka that sometimey friend, while dating, and just in general while living life and being fat. Two things I know for sure, first jealousy is a certain kind of evil. It's one of those things you have to figure out how to transmute the second that it befalls you or else it will overcome you and become a personality trait.  Secondly, people could have more than you and still not be satisfied because they are miserable spirits  If you take nothing else from this episode, please remember, the prettiest people have their own identity. It's not about what other people call you, it's about what you answer to. Peace and Blessings Family! 

Hey family! When lessons are given to gods chosen, they are going to be different much different and on a larger scale than others. Most people would fold under the kind of pressure you've been under. They run and hide behind the lies they fill into others heads because thats their security blanket.  By having other people around them they feel it makes the blows of life hit a little less hard. But for you chosen ones, you are meant to shoulder it alone. A rather controversial statement that I've always grown up hearing “God doesn't give one more than he knows you can handle.” Whether you believe that to be true or not, the tests of life will surely come regardless and I need you to know your power is more on an inward level. It's more on spiritual level, intuition type level, that most people cannot comprehend. People can't relate to  it because they aren't meant to. You know things that most people cannot tap into. For example, say you're working a new job and you met certain people at that job. Your sole purpose for being there is to simply meet those people  and bring them a specific lesson into their life. Possibly by teaching them, helping them or showing them something. Through this experience you will become the mirror that they never knew they needed to spark a change in their life. However they‘ve been treating people now reverses back on them to put a reflection on them and their actions. As life goes on, the bigger your tests will become but you're only going to grow and learn how to tap into and use your gifts as they are revealed to you. A lot of the times it can be frustrating, it'll hurt and to some people it'll look like you've lost out even though in reality you've gained a boatload of knowledge and wisdom. Your words can bring transparency clarity and insight to any situation. Your truth is needed. Never be afraid to speak up for yourself at any moments notice. By sharing my story, I feel like what I've  gone through will really help a lot of people when they're navigating through narcissistic abuse, gangstalking, gaslighting by large groups of people etc.  When people  play the victim after trying to victimize you and then they flip it and get other people involved.  I've learned to navigate and survive constantly going through traumatic situations that others are creating and hiding their hands, pretending not to be involved getting all of these other people involved that had nothing to do with it to begin with. Now they don't even have the real story, they're just going off of one side.  I can be your friendly reminder that no matter what happens or what they say, you are built for this. You got this and you will get through it beloved. By sharing my stories, I hope that what's happened in my life is going to help someone else get through things that they currently feel like it's unbearable. This is a a safe space, allow me to be your  energetic blueprint and I will be here to help you navigate through these hard times. Peace and Blessings family! 

In this episode, we dissect the meaning of the saying “New Levels, New Devils”. I'm sure you have heard it once before.  I grew up in my household hearing it all the time. Whether you are mostly religious or don't dabble in much religious talk, just are completely spiritual, I feel this has become a rather commonly used phrase. People can heavily underestimate what it means to finally reach and achieve certain goals in life a lot like what we are now witnessing in today's Olympics. People are out there literally making history, achieving goals they've trained their entire  lifetime for. Imagine being called out as the one loser who tried to block someone from winning their Olympic gold medal. Just imagine what that would feel like. Believe it or not lots of people are out there trying to play that role in other peoples lives. Trying to block blessings and steal presents from underneath the Christmas tree just like the grinch. I've come to the understanding that there is no communicating with someone who likes to rewrite the story in their favor. The people who enjoy doing this will never forget what you have done for them or what a positive role you played in their lives. They just rather rewrite the story so that it puts them in the limelight. But somethings are not meant for you to stick around and see how they evolve. You need to move on from these people and worry about yourself. I don't care how wild and crazy they act when you finally make your exit. All that noise they cause doesn't affect me. They will try to say things they think will hurt you, create petty drama and none of that should phase you. If you're anything like me, we've already been through a lot of stuff in life. Childish chaos and drama will never compare to any of that stuff you have already endured. I'm gonna do what I choose to do.  I'm gonna live my life,  I'm gonna make a conscious decision to be happy and I'm gonna show people by example what it's like to take the bull by the horns to live the life I know I deserve.  I suggest you all do the same. Peace and blessings Family! I see y'all in the next episode. 

Hey Family! My name is Blythe or you can call me Bee

Hey Family! Its ya girl Bee and we are back with a new, refreshed and rebranded BigGirlCertified Podcast. Thank you so much for being here and continuing to support our movement. Our mission is to make the world know beauty does not come in one shade or one size. I may be big and beautiful but that does not mean I am desperate nor that I don't have a brain. Around here we except all of who are and put it on display at all times unapologetically af. So with that being said, this new rebranding of the show will serve as a somewhat public diary for me where I can finally touch on topics and things that I have lived through and learned through. Now God has put it on my heart to share with the collective as I'm sure it will help someone else going through similar situations. In Episode 1, we are discussing spiritual warfare. If you have no idea what that is let me sort of paint this picture for you. In the story of how Jupiter warred against Saturn, Saturn was hell bent on wreaking havoc on everyone in his family. He was on his egotistical high horse, going around impregnating all his wives only to devour his offspring. Saturn decided in all his decepticon behavior, that what he had invested into with those women was less valuable than him holding the title of a King. He couldn't stand the thought of any of his children growing up to rule as King and possibly doing it better than he had. Saturn felt his own heirs were a threat. Power and control were the only things that mattered to him. In all this chaos Saturn was creating, Jupiter had made up his mind that he was going to expose the truth for everyone to see. Cut the grass and the snakes will show. Jupiter used his ingenuity and out of the box thinking to trick Saturn into his own demise. Jupiter had saved his siblings too. Who are the decepticons in your own reality? Have you opted to continue along under this narrative that does serve your highest good or will you join me this season as we continue to expose the truth on what has been kept hidden in the dark for far too long? Please feel free to support the show. Peace and Blessings Family! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message

In todays episode we will begin down the rabbit hole of R-E-S-P-E-C-T. Just like Aretha Franklin said in her song, I'm not asking for it I demand my respect. What drives our need to seek such high level validation and respect from others when most of us have yet to master respect towards self? Let's tune in and walk this self love journey together BigGirlCertified Family! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message

Do not allow any man room to impede upon your God-fidence. This is the God level confidence that lies within us all. Let's dig deeper in todays episode 3 entitled “Who Are You?” --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message

Hey Family! We are back for Episode 2 with BigGirlCertified Podcast. In todays episode, I really wanted to respond to the ever so relatable topic of being single again. The initial getting back out into the dating pool at any point in life always seems to be such a rollercoaster of emotions. One minute things look bright and shiny next minute you feel like a hermit in your house who's gonna be alone forever, am I right? Well here's some of my thoughts that I've gathered thus far on the subject and some methods I've found to help me through that transitional phase a lot quicker. Peace, love and light Family ♥️ Bee

Welcome Back BigGirlCertified Family! It's season 3 and I'm making a come back that will be BIGGER and BADDER than ever! I know we have all heard the saying “Fear is an illusion.” In todays episode we are going to discover the many little ways fear stops us from reaching our full potential each day. Love and light ♥️✨ Follow me on all my socials @BigGirlCertified

Hey BIGGIRLCERTIFIED FAMILY! Welcome back to my good sis business owner and SHE-E-O Kiki Reynolds creator of SuperDopeCosmetics.com SHE JUST LAUNCHED HER NEW BEAUTY BIZ TODAY SO GO TO HER WEBSITE AND BUY FROM A BLACK WOMAN TUHDAY! Today's topic was inspired by one of our favvvv Clubhouse rooms 'Tha Church' If you're already on the CH app, Join the club and follow us, @vasycopine and @juiski Come hang out and chat with us

Hey BIGGIRLCERTIFIED FAMILY! We Have a special guest in today's episode! Please help me welcome my good sis business owner and SHE-E-O Kiki Reynolds creator of SuperDopeCosmetics.com SHE JUST LAUNCHED HER NEW BEAUTY BIZ TODAY SO GO TO HER WEBSITE AND BUY FROM A BLACK WOMAN TUHDAY! Today's topic that we covered involves diving deep into the land of what it means to Break Down Generational Curses and End Generational Trauma. When did you or at what age did you first experience the realization of this and the impact it has on our everday lives? Leave me a voice message and I'll reply. Please enjoy as this will be streaming across all podcast platforms & don't forget to leave us a five star review if you enjoyed this content here today. Please also when you can respond back on your thoughts about this down in the comments on my Youtube Channel

Hey BIGGIRLCERTIFIED FAMILY! So our question for today was strictly for the ladiesssss, so im gonna ask all the Queens to respond back on your thoughts about this down in the comments on my Youtube Channel please

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BMI is bullshit. Dats it! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

Just a gentle reminder for the Family in the back that we haven't caught up with in while ^_^ Checking in on y'all because we know all too well that the journey to Self Appreciation and Self-Love ain't a easy one. In this episode, we'd like to just encourage you all as we encourage ourselves to Keep on keeping on!! It's rough at times, but we got your back!! PEACE AND LOVE --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

Hello Beautiful People! We are finally getting the opportunity to have a chat about Social Media and its overflowing wave of "influencer's" it has carried in with it. Not everyone should be given access to have an influence over your life so its about time we sit down and have a chat on how to recognize the difference. Some influencer's influence you to spend your money via ad's, promo's and partnerships, but there are those influencer's who'd prefer to teach you about self empowerment and how to earn your own money. Real Eyes, Realize, Real Lies. Peace and Power Family! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

In this episode we examine Black love through the lens of different generations with special guest Mommy Cheryl D. We discuss the past, present, and future of black love. We also, discuss what we think the black community should do to perpetuate black love. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

In this episode we tackle some of the harsh and honest realities of dating with children. We add on the caveat of being plus size and examine the increased difficulty that it brings. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

Join us as we enter the discussion about where we envision ourselves headed as we are entering the new year, we want to explore what new goals we are going to set for the growth and expansion of our Big Girl Certified Family. We love you all for the constant support ^_^ Peace and Love Family, Happy New Years! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

We discuss the plus size dating scene at a macro level. We touch on fetishes, online dating, fake fat supporters, and what we would like to see in the dating scene. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

It's OK Sis, we feel you on this one. Sometimes those negative thoughts and irrational fears get the best of us too. We are all human and at the end of the day, the more you let a negative thought pattern replay and recycle itself in your mind, you'll find yourself right in the middle of the very same situation/scenario you had spent all that time thinking about  and mulling over in your head. Its time we take a stand together! Join us now for one of the most necessary conversations we might ever have with you all. To all our Kings and Queen listening out there #StopBlockingYoBlessings We love you Family!

It is said that good things come in 3's. So does that also include how many times you can fall in love in a lifetime? Join the discussion NOW! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

On this episode your girls are getting real down and dirty with our special guest and social media influencer, Tatiana Mercedes! YAYYYY!!! We had an amazing time partnering with her guys, it was literally just a vibe the whole time! We're sharing our knowledge and sharing our stories, as it all pertains to what it means to be a Fat Black Woman living in society, but never fully being embraced by the world. Please Join us in the discussion Now! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

On this episode we team up with DistortedRealiTea podcast Co-Host Aunya Joi and discuss where we are succeeding and failing in the mental health awareness movement amongst our youth. Where do we stand? Has there been any improvements? We believe the standard held on preventative measures being put into place needs to be much higher. Our youth are our future! We must spend more time exploring this, listening to them more, learning to remember what it was like for us compared to how it is now. Please join us as we work to discover where we are going wrong and what we need to be doing in order to make it right. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

More than just a movement. Please JOIN US as we explore deeper into the meaning and true definition of what it means to be Body Positive in today's society. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

As we continue our candid conversation about BBW sex life and what that entails, we move on to discuss the importance of the personal sexual relationship that you have with yourself. Prior to trying to get intimate with others. Please Join us in the discussion family! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

Are y'all ready to bare it all with your girls?? We are going to get into this topic that always seems to leave others a lil Hot N Bothered honey! Come join in the stories and all the laughs, as we show you guys a day in a BBW's sex life. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

Not everybody was raised the same. So, In this episode we aim to target why there is so much controversy surrounding BBW hygiene routines. Do you have one for starters? And if you do, is it up to par or is it falling short? Do you find yourself having to reapply your deodorant halfway through the day everyday...? Not to worry, We will help you because this topic is Big Girl Certified! JOIN US! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

This episode is a continuation of Episode 1 Part 1. We move on to explore how we may be viewed and how we view others in the workplace. We hope to get you to stop, think and make a better decision the next time you decide its ok to go around minimizing others. Blessing's and Love Family! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

This episode exams the personal relationship of those that surround us and their perception of our weight. It is often hard for us to realize that many of those closest to us include our looks into how we deserve to be treated by them. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support

We briefly touch on who we are and what this podcast has to offer . --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/biggirlcertified/support