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Birds, Bees & Tease is a sexuality education and storytelling podcast which uplifts our experiences of navigating the world as sexual beings; and serves as a platform for some fun adult sex ed! We talk all things sex: relationships and love, pleasure and prevention, gender constructs and sexual fluidity, politics and pop culture, you name it! The reality is that sex and sexuality are tied to every aspect of our every day lives. We never stop learning, we always want more...so here’s some Birds, Bees & Tease!

Nia AngieAfricana Sutton


    • Apr 15, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 43m AVG DURATION
    • 43 EPISODES

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    The Birds, Bees & Tease podcast is an absolute gem in the world of podcasts. Listening to Nia's episodes feels like having a big sister who genuinely cares about your growth and well-being. With each episode, Nia not only teaches valuable lessons about oneself and the world, but she does so in a way that makes you feel seen and understood. This podcast has created a safe space where listeners can explore topics related to sex, relationships, and personal growth.

    One of the best aspects of The Birds, Bees & Tease podcast is the level of authenticity and passion that exudes from Nia and her guests. It's evident that they genuinely care about the topics they discuss, which makes it easy for listeners to connect with their experiences. Whether it's conversations about sex or relationships, there is an air of vulnerability that allows for open and honest discussions. This level of genuine connection is refreshing and facilitates a deeper understanding of oneself.

    Another standout quality of this podcast is its ability to challenge preconceived notions and beliefs regarding sex and pleasure. One episode in particular, the Hidden P episode, made me reflect on how I had internalized societal narratives about what sex and pleasure should look like. It was eye-opening to hear different perspectives that encouraged me to redefine my own understanding of these topics. The willingness of Nia and her guests to tackle uncomfortable subjects with grace and openness creates an environment ripe for personal growth and learning.

    While The Birds, Bees & Tease podcast truly excels in many areas, there are a few potential downsides worth mentioning. Firstly, some episodes may delve into explicit content that may not be suitable for all listeners. While it adds authenticity to the discussions around sex, it could potentially alienate more conservative or reserved individuals who are seeking advice or knowledge within their comfort zones. Additionally, occasional audio issues or background noise can detract from the overall listening experience. However, these minor hiccups do not overshadow the valuable insights and knowledge shared throughout the series.

    In conclusion, The Birds, Bees & Tease podcast is a must-listen for anyone seeking guidance, understanding, and growth within the realm of sex and relationships. Nia's ability to create a safe space for open discussions and her willingness to challenge societal norms make this podcast an invaluable resource. Each episode leaves listeners feeling empowered and better equipped to navigate personal connections. Thank you, Nia, for creating such an enlightening and empowering platform for all of us.



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    Latest episodes from Birds, Bees & Tease

    Married People Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2025 37:50


    This season of Birds, Bees & Tease will talk all about lessons in love and marriage. Lesson #1: Married People Sex. What's the difference between sex that married people have versus non-married people? Is there even a difference? Where do we get our ideas around marital sex? What are some things that married people should know and think about in regards to sex, sexuality and sexual wellness? How do married couples keep the sexual spark alive? Let's talk about allll of it! @birdsbeesteasehttps://www.thehotline.org/resources/marital-rape-and-domestic-violence/

    Game Night

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2023 32:47


    An unplanned and chaotic conversation about non-monogamy, orgasms, relationships and sex between three couples (or something like that) at game night. @birdsbeestease

    Consent is Sexy

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2023 26:07


    NCCU students talk about consent and sex during Sexual Assault Awareness and Prevention month.

    Intergenerational Sex Ed

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2023 62:33


    What we were taught 20 years ago and what we are teaching now has changed drastically! Sex education is an important part of socialization, and it shapes the way we develop relationships and view sex and sexuality. On this episode, 4 guests of varying ages and backgrounds join the BBT team and discuss what our sexual education lessons looked like growing up and the impact it has on our lives today. Want to hear more real convos like this? Subscribe to the podcast and follow us @birdsbeestease!

    Phone Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2023 18:16


    A story about pleasure, submission, openness and learning through…phone sex. Enjoy

    Orgasms 201: Types of Orgasms

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2023 36:15


    Y'all love Orgasms 101 with Alicia “BeFree” Andrews so here's part two where our host discusses and describes different types of orgasms, things that happen with orgasms and so much more! Check out the resources mentioned in the episode to continue your learning! On Instagram, follow: @bcondoms @cainthecoach @birdsbeestease Check out “Sex, Love & Goop” on Netflix For your reading pleasures, check out The Orgasm Answer Guide by B. Komisaruk, B. Whipple

    Gender & Sexuality

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2023 16:36


    Got 15 minutes? Check out this quick 101 on the 5 constructs of gender and sexuality! https://transstudent.org/gender/

    Spill the TEASE

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2023 62:30


    Spill the Tease is an original game from Birds, Bees & Tease created to stimulate conversations about sex, sexuality, love, intimacy, dating and more! This game is perfect for date night, game night, girls night or any gathering where you want to sweeten things up. Check out this episode of our host playing the game with colleagues and friends, and stay tuned for the official release of Spill the Tease to purchase your own set!

    STIs 101

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2022 31:16


    Check out this radio episode of our host giving us a quick refresher on sexually transmitted infections. Tune in to BBT Radio on WDRBmedia (via iHeart Radio) every Thursday @ 9:30pm ET! Follow us on IG @birdsbeestease

    Talk to Your Kids about Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 41:31


    Check out this episode from BBT Radio that was featured for Adolescent Health Month! Sex and sex education is SOOO much more than penis in vagina, “don't get pregnant”, and STIs. Kids should learn about EVERYTHING from their body parts to accessing healthcare. Talk to your kids about sex! Follow us @birdsbeestease & donate to the show $birdsbeestease! Contact me for radio advertising for your business!

    BBT on WDRB!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2022 16:02


    Birds, Bees & Tease is now on the radio! Tune in every Thursday night @ 9:30 pm ET to catch this Tease on-air! For inquiries about promoting and advertising your business on a national broadcast (iHeart Radio, TUNEIN radio), email birdsbeestease@gmail.com

    Intimacy After Sexual Trauma

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2022 81:40


    April is Sexual Assault Awareness month. We're all aware that sexual assault happens, so it's important for us to listen and learn from survivors and victors. Especially about unique experiences with intimacy, dating, love, relationships and sex. This episode is cohosted by Nadiyah Barrow, owner of Create Consent Culture and Diyah Moon Wellness (@diyahmoonwellness). Nadiyah was born and raised in Greenville, NC and relocated to Durham in 2012, where she attended the illustrious NCCU. She is a skilled human service professional and is very passionate about working with children and families. Nadiyah is most interested in creating safe spaces for trauma recovery and healing. She is even more passionate about women's empowerment due to being a survivor herself. Through her work, Nadiyah has connected deeply with other survivors and victors who she identified to be featured in this discussion. Healer, Amber RichBook (@arichbookadventure) and Briana Blackston, master chef (@xtraordinary94) drop gems that we all need to hear. For more information & resources: National Sexual Assault Hotline 1-800-656-4673 National Sexual Violence Resource Center www.nsvrc.org Visit www.linktr.ee/birdsbeestease.com and follow and subscribe to our podcast, YouTube and socials @birdsbeestease. Donate to the podcast $birdsbeestease

    Cannabis & Sex - A 420 Special

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2022 47:27


    The use of cannabis and marijuana have long documented benefits to our overall health, and of course that includes sexual health too! Check out this episode where our host interviews Birdie, the 420 Sexologist (@420sexologist) about the history, misconceptions and benefits of cannabis and its relation to sex and sexuality.  And as always, become an official Teaser by subscribing to the podcast and following us on socials @birdsbeestease!

    Women's Business w/ Gorjus Doc

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2022 82:03


    Women's History Month is a time to celebrate and honor Women, our bodies, our businesses, our stories and our work and contributions. This month is also a time to acknowledge and bring awareness to our unique health needs and issues like reproductive anatomy, vaginal health, birth control, sex and pleasure. Tune into this episode to learn from our interview with the one and only Dr. Natasha @gorjusdoc Ramsey! @gorjusdoc is a board certified pediatrician in training to become an adolescent medicine specialist, caring for young people ages 11-25 to help them with problems related to sexual health, mental health, and everything in between! She is the founder of Gorjus Doc, a lifestyle and wellness brand and Gorjus Sex Ed @gorjus_sexed, a sexual health organization dedicated to inclusivity and sex positivity.

    Sex Goddess Unleashed - An Erotic Story by Lala Loves

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2022 72:39


    Hey Teasers,  It's story time! Tune into this Valentine's Day Special featuring the creator, writer and narrator of Lala's Bedtime Tales, Ms. Lala Loves.  Lala gives us all the tease about erotica and erotic storytelling, and shares a sexy, lusty story that will have you reminiscing on your college days! Connect with our featured guest @lalasbedtimetales on Instagram and check out the website and blog www.lalasbedtimetales.com!  Connect with Birds, Bees & Tease on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @birdsbeestease! Subscribe to our YouTube channel and donate to the podcast via CashApp $birdsbeestease!

    Black History & Sex Trivia

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2022 55:48


    Celebrate #BlackHistoryMonth with Birds, Bees & Tease and sex educator JaNell Henry (@la_luna_azul)! Enjoy 3 rounds of Black History and Sex Trivia LIVE from @birdsbeestease Instagram! Shout out to the participants and winners! This episode with visuals is also available on our YouTube channel! That's right! Birds, Bees & Tease is now on YouTube and more visuals to come! Follow us, subscribe and stay tuned for more events and exciting episodes! Connect with us here: https://linktr.ee/birdsbeestease Donate to the podcast via Cash App $birdsbeestease! Shoutout to these Black businesses mentioned in this episode: - SUM MŌ Sauce @summohotsauce - b condoms @bcondoms - Miiriya @miiriya

    Healing through Heartbreak

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2022 14:33


    Got 15 minutes? Check out this story about our hosts Nia's healing journey. She talks about dating, sex and love after experiencing heartbreak.

    Dating in the 2020's

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2022 75:56


    Dating in the 2020's - an open discussion about what it looks like for dating, relationships, and sex in the 2020's! Sexuality Educators Nia Sutton, Jalynn Lane and Simitri Nassar discuss how the ongoing pandemic has impacted these aspects of our lives, and our goals and intentions for our dating, relationship and sex lives in 2022. We share our stories and expertise around abstinence and celibacy, spicing up our sex lives and improving sexual health, and setting goals around intimacy and partnership. Follow our Instagram and other social sites @birdsbeestease to connect with the educators and resources discussed in this episode and as always feel free to donate to this #IndiePodcast via Cash App $birdsbeestease

    Orgasms 101 w/ Alicia “BeFree” Andrews

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2021 94:04


    This tea is piping hot! Tune in NOW and SHARE this brand new episode “Orgasms 101” ft. The Public Health Sexologist Alicia @befreewell Andrews! All your questions answered and then some! Alicia shares about Shameka Thorpe's, Ph.D. (@drshemeka) research on Black women and pleasure, talks about the Circles of Sexuality and the 11 Erogenous Zones, and gives us all the tea about skin hunger. Stay connected with Alicia on Instagram and Facebook, and visit her website too! www.befreewell.com. And as always, stay tuned with us @birdsbeestease on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook and donate to the podcast via Cash App: $birdsbeestease.

    BBT Turns 1!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2021 26:07


    Celebrate ONE YEAR of Birds, Bees & Tease as our hosts recaps successes from year 1 and real life challenges and changes.

    Eric's Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2021 33:19


    In our continued celebration of Pride, Birds, Bees & Tease sought out to uplift the authentic stories and unique experiences of a Black bisexual man. Here is Eric's story!

    National Sex Day w/ Brotha From Anotha!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2021 137:22


    We celebrated National Sex Day with a super fun episode just simply talking about sex. The guys over at Brotha From Anotha podcast graciously invited our host to their show as a guest for this topic, and it was gooood! Tune in for some good laughs, myth busting, fun facts and wild stories and be sure to share this episode with a friend…especially the men! As always, follow us on socials @birdsbeestease and donate to the podcast via CashApp $birdsbeestease. Enjoy and let us know what you think!

    How I Came Out - Amondre's Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2021 41:38


    It's Story Time! #CelebratePRIDE

    Happy June! Happy Pride!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2021 11:06


    Tune in to this quick episode of our host explaining why June is the absolute best month of the year! This month we celebrate National Sex Day, Juneteenth, Nia's birthday, and LGBTQ+ Pride Month! We'll be sharing stories and resources all month long and having more conversations about some of the topics highlighted in this episode like The Gender Unicorn: https://youtu.be/YPNCzXYy2CE. Follow us on socials @birdsbeestease and support us by donating via CashApp: $birdsbeestease!

    The Aleayah Love Story

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2021 54:11


    They met on Tinder. They have the same name. Though different spellings, and different lifestyles, Alea & Aliyah have found each other to be a perfect match. A Story. Tune in and leave us a review or drop a comment on our Instagram @birdsbeestease (on Twitter and FB too!) Donations accepted via CashApp: $birdsbeestease Thank you TEASERS!

    Nia's Journey w/ Bodily Autonomy

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2021 14:56


    In this episode, our host Nia @AngieAfricana Sutton discusses the impact of senseless murders of Black people on her ideas of bodily autonomy. Half of this reflection is captured in her free write article, “My Black Body is a Temple” which is featured in Melquan Ganzy's online fashion + art magazine, @TheGanzy. Nia shares the other half of her reflection in a short story that features, her best friend, her best friend's mom, and a man who got punched in the face. :) Enjoy this episode and share with a friend! Be sure to follow us on socials @birdsbeestease! Donations accepted and appreciated via CashApp: $birdsbeestease. Thanks Teasers!

    Sexual Confidence!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2021 24:40


    On this episode, our host recaps her experience, points of discussion and golden nuggets taken from presenting as a panelist on Sexual Confidence at the S/HE Empowers Expo! S/HE (Sexual Health in Everything) is a campaign with the mission of creating opportunities for real conversations about sex to decrease stigma around sexual health. Follow S/HE on Instagram @sheequalsthechange, and follow the co-panelists that Nia highlights in this episode, Tei Pearson @tei_pearson and Frenchie Davis @frenchieevolving. Be sure to stay connected with us on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook @birdsbeestease. We appreciate and accept podcast donations via cash app $birdsbeestease. Enjoy, Teasers!

    Nia's Heaux Tale

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2021 36:52


    On this episode, our host gives an in-depth review of Jazmine Sullivan's “Heaux Tales”. This masterpiece is a storytelling album that highlights the experiences of women navigating sexuality, dating, romance, love relationships and heartbreak. If Birds, Bees & Tease was an album, it would be Heaux Tales. In her review, Nia mentions Dr. Donna Oriowo in reference to her expertise in colorism, texturism and featurism and sexuality. Connect with Dr. Donna on IG @annodright. Check out this episode and let us know what you think! Follow and like us on social media @birdsbeesandtease. If you'd like to donate via Cash App, our cash tag is $birdsbeestease. Thanks, Teasers!

    Season 2 Tease

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2021 19:58


    Hey Teasers! Welcome back to Season 2 of Birds, Bees & Tease! This episode is an introduction to everything we have in store for this season! Check out the Season 2 Trailer video on our social media platforms @birdsbeestease on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook!

    Relationship Goals: 2020 Lessons, 2021 Goals!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2020 130:05


    It's that time of year where we all start goal setting, planning and manifesting for the new year. But what are your relationship goals? What plans do you have for your dating life? How are you planning to improve your sex life and romance in the new year? In this episode, our host discusses with friends how the lessons we learned this year are shaping our goals for 2021!

    Lowkey Gay: A Journey of Queer Identity - A Story by Amber Esters

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2020 43:30


    In this story, Amber provides insight into her queer journey. Goddess shares what she's learned about herself and what it means to show up in this world as a Black queer woman.

    Double Standards

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2020 43:07


    From the time we're born until we make the conscious decision to unlearn them, we are taught gender norms, stereotypes and double standards. These are all deeply embedded into our society and interwoven in our beliefs about sex, dating, relationships, marriage, and child rearing. So let's talk about them!

    World AIDS Day 2020 Live!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2020 61:58


    Our host and the TEASERS honor, celebrate and observe World AIDS Day 2020 by discussing the history, purpose and importance of this day. We also talk HIV facts (and myths), and discuss stigma, prevention and supporting our positive loved ones. We have the power to #EndHIVEpidemic, so let's talk about it!

    Would You Leave? - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2020 48:55


    The fun continues for part 2 of “Would You Leave?” a game that poses different questions, situations and scenarios about sex, dating and relationships and challenges us to think about our boundaries and communication. After you've listened to part 1, play along with us some more!

    Would You Leave? Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2020 57:51


    Our host plays a fun game of “Would You Leave?” with a group of girlfriends and Teasers via Instagram Live and Snapchat. Considering different scenarios and situations, the group discusses their thoughts and feelings about staying with or leaving a partner when things get too crazy, too freaky or too “weird”. So what's the Tease? Would you leave? Join in on the fun!

    #HoldThemAccountable - The 2020 Elections & Our Sexual Health

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2020 24:30


    This episode highlights the implications of the 2020 Presidential, state and local elections on our sexual and reproductive health. #HoldThemAccountable

    #ENDSARS - A Conversation with Dr. Kelechi Egwim

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2020 52:50


    Sex and sexuality is connected to every aspect of our lives. They both play a vital role in social and reproductive justice, and human rights movements. In this episode, Dr. Kelechi Egwim, Director of Appeal, Inc. provides expertise on the #ENDSARS Movement and explains the connection to sexual health and reproductive justice.

    The Hidden P - A Story by Nia A. Sutton

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2020 19:51


    Privilege. Partners; Practices; Pregnancy; Past; Prevention. Positions. People. Political. Peer. Pop culture. Personal. Penetrating. Penis. Power. Pussy. Promiscuous. Pain....what's the hidden P?

    SexTech & Virtual Intimacy

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2020 17:44


    Here's a quick episode highlighting SexTech and it's importance in our changing world and in virtual intimacy and sex.

    Never Have I Ever

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2020 23:53


    Putting it out on the table and unpacking our sexual inhibitions; that's what this episode is all about. A panel of friends and couples play “Never Have I Ever” and discuss their experiences...and inexperiences with public sex, anal sex and threesomes, and discuss sexuality and sexual orientation. Play along with us!

    Dating, Sex & COVID-19

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2020 33:47


    This episode of BBT dives into the impact of COVID-19 on sex and dating. Our host shares findings from a recent study, and provides some tips, tricks and resources for more information! Check it out! https://twitter.com/cdcstd/status/1333848597499162631?s=21

    Intro to the Tease

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2020 22:12


    This episode introduces listeners to the podcast host and gives an in-depth introduction to the podcast and it's content. The tease on Birds, Bees &Tease!

    Birds, Bees & Tease (Trailer)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2020 0:39


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