Narshole the Lonely Monster

Where is your line at? At what point following an awakening following abuse is your red line? When does the world around you need a shake up and a wake up? Having perceptively experienced abuse at the hands of a difficult personality, I believe that you can see a different world view whereby evil rules. Is this your wake up call?

Hello there, welcome back to the podcast! Here we have my latest offering covering the narcissistic plague and to finally decide a lane and inform your transformation to a new you.. Also a contains a useful poem to remind one and all about the importance of Grey Rocking.

Let's explore modern narcissism, according to data. That's metrics, not the dude from StarTrek who would find this all most bemusing right before he glitched out at the madness of our existence, even with our kind having recorded history of the fall of empires long gone and yet... Here we are. All very likely and rather cleverly managed by narcissists at the helm and when many hugs won't fix it, we have to manage our expectations of it. Welcome to the show.

Hello! Welcome back to the Podcast which is now under the name of Together Through Trauma which is to say that once you've experienced the trauma of emotional abuse that at some point you need to transition to rebuilding self or to enhance your own mindfulness and wellbeing post abuse. We don't want you to stay stuck at anger or any other negative emotion associated with the experience rather we must recognise our strengths and opportunities in the aftermath. We are here to see if we can facilitate that transition - sure, your ex will likely crop up as contextual logic or a footnote in our lives but we'll also examine our whole world view and where we fit - all from the experience of why emotional abuse happened to us in the first place. You are powerful and full of light with your gift of empathy, it's now time to resurge and use it more wisely and with greater effect toward self and those that you love. Peace ✌️

Welcome back to NTLM the Podcast season four and now, episode 5! Having given away the NTLM writing space and some 50k followers I've decided to go full time YouTube and these here Podcasts - hopefully the technical levels will also raise up some! Not this episode though, this one's on the fly, on my phone. I know that at some point we've all received a message like this "Hi, how are you? x" from our known/unknown Narcissistically challenged exes - even ones who we've enacted that greatest boundary of no contact against. This happened to me today and resulted in this podcast. It's a little manic perhaps, but there are some quintessential points to be made along my rant. If you like what you hear, if it helps at all or even if you think it could help someone else today then please consider sharing it or recommending it to others. Also, don't forget there is now a fully functional website and blog space at www.narcissistescapetools.co.uk where you can subscribe for free to receive no more than two emails per month in a news letter and a general poke to see how your all doing out there. As ever, I hope this finds you well and powerfully surging forwards taking the experiential learning from abuse and using it to your complete advantage in all knowing that actually, you are the strength, you always were. It's why they chose you. Enjoy the show, peace ✌️

Here we take a swift dive into the author L W Hawksby aka Lucy Haughey aka 'the narcissist hunter' aka 'the original no contact coach' and why it's important that you trust the right people using your discernment and intuition.

This answer is part of a healthy social experiment surrounding healing and growth. It isn't about numbers. Can you please share as wide as possible, There is a point to it and if proven will likely blow your mind and totally help many. Thank you.

Welcome back to wonderful you to Narshole the Lonely Monster where in this episode we briefly get into ghosting, a rant about online trolls and a dive into paranoid personality disorder! Just because your not paranoid, doesn't mean they're not watching yoooooo...

Welcome back, thank you for tuning in. Here we take another wide view of narcissism from Biden's Energy guru to red flags of narcissistic abuse and some not so quick fire answers to Quora questions. Hopefully we have a little something to help someone today. NSFW - or young ears as I do swear once or twice in the Biden Segment... Apologies.

If a narcissists online smear campaign yields no results, do they tend to step up the game or backdown? If you ignore ALL of it, do they generally move on? A great question presented on the Quora for which here be my opinion about what's going on there...

Welcome back to NTLM, a safe space to hopefully understand them to really only understand yourself. Here we have a new new season the fourth as we open with a quick live take on how we can maybe begin to help the narcissist if we can and/or want to - always remember that choice is a very real thing. And then a grey rock reminder using the medium of poetry. I truly hope this finds you all well and surging forwards in your cathartic healing journey. If you enjoyed this little podcast please consider subscribing and checking out my other work on Quora, a writing space or directly on the website at www.narcissistescapetools.co.uk Stay tough out there and in strength!

Alone and scared at 56 following abuse; Why does a narcissist call others a narcissist and why do they destroy your possessions (as well as your soul..) All is not lost, let's round off season 3 nicely together over a warming cup of tea and some biscuits.

Someone wants their NPD mother dead and wants others to share their stories of their NPD mothers deaths to only give the asker hope.... welcome to What's wrong with this question... I hope it somehow helps someone today.

Let's take a quick dive into complex mothers and the cause and effect that it will have on your future relationships! A warm welcome if you're new here and welcome back if your an old hand at listening to my brain outloud! Together we can make a difference in this world, many good people as one voice shouting loudly that enough is enough. Stay tough out there, remember just how far you've actually come.

How indeed! With great enthusiasm, a sense of urgency and a lot of critical self care, for once, just for you...

Welcome one and welcome all to Narshole the Lonely Monster, season 3 episode 7!!! Here we take a reasonable look at uniting our voices in 2022, a two narcissist coupling, the influence of a zodiac sign on narcissism and over compensating as a parent divorced from a narcissist... if you have any questions or comment please feel free to join the conversation and get a mention by writing to me at narcissistescapetools@gmail.com or dropping me a PM via Quora by googling Narshole the Lonely Monster! Your voice is as important as ever and you are certainly not alone.

Welcome back, here we take a quick look at why having a voice and sharing is possibly important. We take a dive and introduction to the chat show show questions - if you like them, drop a line and be a part of a generational change in societal direction by having your voice heard across various platforms! And finally we take a quick look at why them that plague us seemingly proffer the route of threatened suicide and a possible solution to what to do when that happens.. you've got this, start to believe in you. I hope you enjoy and get something from this.

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The question stayed in my brain from whence I casted my peepers at it on the quora.. if you like what you hear please do consider either heading to the Google machine and searching Narshole the Lonely Monster or typing in www.narcissistescapetools.co.uk where links to everything exists! The question is; He drives a $200K car and earns nearly a-third more in salary, yet sought and accepted from me significant financial assistance. Would a pwBPD & NPD traits lie to his SO for money, if he didn't really need it (especially since I live on disability)? I hope you get something from my rant!

My narc ex blocked me everywhere, only contacted me twice with no response, never bothered to give closure. Yet when I see her driving by and we see each other after 3 years, she waves kindly as if she meets an old acqaintance. What does it mean? Indeed!! Let's see shall we?! If any of this malarkey resonates with you please consider adding this cast to your favourites and also please consider my other channels on the YouTube, The Quora, Facebook and at www.narcissistescapetools.co.uk for links to all of it! Thank you for listening... let's do this.

Hey there! Welcome to my Podcast focusing on healing and healing following emotional abuse the inter season short shorts. In this here episode we take a look at a probing question culminating in a timely reminder of the goodnight test! If this resonates with you or you learn a thing or two please consider adding the Podcast to your favourites and do drop a comment in the Quora where this will be linked. Please also consider taking a lookie loo at the new website and subscribe for free for upcoming content at www.narcissistescapetools.co.uk I truly hope this finds you well and surging forwards in your own recovery with aplomb! Peace ✌

Hello and welcome back! Here we have my pure thoughts captured in the moment.. it might not always be right, its likely mostly wrong but laid bare for your listening delight is a thing about Narcissism and emotional dysregulation be it good or bad emotions.. if it triggers you, maybe this isn't the channel for one's ears... I hope you enjoy! If you do like what your hearing please consider sharing, liking and do consider taking a look at my other stuff on Quora, YouTube and the website www.narcissistescapetools.co.uk for updates and very soon a bunch of free educational tools and an app!

A scrabbling episode full of answers to often unanswered questions from my Quora space! This is the last episode of this season and next time we meet it'll be all about the SERE principles of domestic abuse - Survive, Evade, Resist and Escape but until then you'll just have to see my mug on the YouTube at Narshole the Lonely Monster or read my answers (and others amazing work) on the Quora. Also, please do consider following the page and Facebook Group for updates and to join in the conversation or jump over to www.narcissistescapetools.co.uk to subscribe to receive stuff straight into your inbox. Its all going on.. finally, thank you for listening, I hope you've enjoyed the show and have gained from it even in the smallest of ways. Onwards and upwards ya'll, be well, stay positive.

Welcome back to NTLM, Narcissist Escape Tools...! Here we have episode 9 of season 2 where we'll be taking a somewhat shallowish dive into; Why do so-called "narcissist survivors" victim blame & rudely attack other narc survivors seeking advice? And Everything can be used for better or for worse. This being said, what are some of the positive traits to be found in a narcissist? And.. Why does having parents with narcissistic traits leave one with some of the characteristics and behaviors? And further more... Do you think narcissists are mentally ill or demon possessed and why? And a bonus repeat question to decide how they control those with empathy! It's a sort of interesting episode that may or may not peak your narcdar senses! Either way, if your listening to this, well done you, no seriously, well done for getting this far listening to me drone on about the inane and often bizarre antics of them that would be narcissistic. If we vibe and i make sense that's a good thing and if not please don't be discouraged in your journey, keep moving forwards never looking back and remember the power that you truly have. https://www.quora.com/profile/Neil-Bryan-3?ch=10&share=7404f403&srid=u3Z0d Music on intro and outro by me, Nelly!

A warm welcome to this here podcast, I hope this finds you well and surging towards your own healing! We can hopefully all learn something new about dealing with a narcissist or take some refreshing and timely reminders about what they are! In this weeks episode.. 1)Why Would a narcissist hoover some previous supply but not others? I have gone weeks no contact and he's kept me blocked and I've not heard a single peep from him? 2) What tricks are used by a narcissist to sanitize their "official" Facebook page? 3) If you don't let a narcissist abuse you and deal with them decisively, will they leave you alone? And a quickie about traited parents.. Let's take a deductive dive into the questions and see where it all goes...

Welcome back, I hope this finds you well and truly healing. Here we take a quick look at folks who may lie about being abused in their youth and having some sex for the first time after abuse.. a quick one again as I'm travelling! If you'd like a question answered or signposted to someone that can help you, please consider dropping a line to me at narsholeescapetools@gmail.com

Hello and welcome back to NTLM, Narcissist Escape Tools Season 2 episode 6! I hope this finds you all well and truly moving forwards in your power or, at the very least beginning to find it. This episode is a quick look at cognitive dissonance in its simplest of terms. I hope it helps you somehow on your journey. There is no such thing as a silly question and so, If you'd like a question answered please consider sending it, with any context you deem fit to narsholeescapetools@gmail.com and I'll certainly try my damndest to get an answer out to you.

On today's episode we'll be taking a dive into; Can being in a marriage with a narcissist feel like an extended period of grieving because they always threaten to leave you and you always feel heartbroken? The covert narcissist I was involved with discarded me with zero notice right before I was supposed to have major surgery. Has this happened to anyone else? How can you please someone when that someone is so many people? Will a narc tell you that "you never knew them" when they are discarding you? What are the signs of a person with NPD? I hope you enjoy the episode!

Hello everyone and welcome back to Narshole the Lonely Monster, Narshole Escape Tools where I hope that this here cast has something for everyone! I certainly hope to earn your subscription today and if not I only hope this helped you somehow. In this episode I'll be taking a shallow dive into why a narcissist mirrors and what does copying serve? We'll take a look at if pressing charges against one and putting them in jail can cause an injury or mortification and then a quick scant into how will a narcissist manipulate a partner into a relationship.. all live, direct from me brain which may get complicated!! And then a look at an interesting question posed of; To be or not to be - how important is that question? Welcome to you, sit back, relax and hit that play button and please do excuse the possibly excessive jingles..

Hello there and welcome back! Here we take a dive into the Narcissists accountability, establishing healthy relationships, are they demons and curiously a quick look at what needs to change to fix the divides in society due to racism and inequality. There should be something for everyone! I hope you enjoy the show and this finds you all surging forwards in your absolute power. Disclaimer: I'm neither a psychologist, coach or therapist - these are my own thoughts and are based mostly on my own perceptive experiences. I truly hope it helps you somehow.

A warm welcome back to one and all to Narshole the lonely monster, Narshole Escape Tools! Here we take a quick dive into When do narcissists seem to prefer to provoke their significant others into providing an emotional response? and I'm friends with this person who's been really, really good to me. But I recently found out that my friend has done some incredibly cruel and depraved things. Should I betray him and turn him over to the police? And a few more... These episodes will be shorter but with a greater frequency... If you have a question that you'd like answered please do drop me a line.

Welcome back to Narshole The Lonely Monster, Narshole Escape Tools, S2 Ep1! Here we go straight in with contextual Grey Rocking, How long they can hide who they are for and a host more waffle!

Welcome to Episode 9 of Narshole the lonely Monster, Narshole Escape Tools. Here we take a shallow dive into CPTSD, memes self love and self forgiveness.

Welcome to the 8th episode of Narshole the Lonely Monster - Narshole Escape Tools! Here we discover what I wish we all knew about them, how to manage them silent treatments and societal narcissism compared to 20 years ago and why it seems to be growing. In other news, we look to the yoof of today and why they think they need sex gel creams - yep, you read it right.

Welcome to the 7th Episodic experience that is Narshole the Lonely Monster, Narshole Escape Tools Podcast! Here we take a dive into what joy a narcissist doesn't quite understand, who owns the trauma bond and some self respect cyclical evidence of what they are. All done live and unscripted (which is why it's 48mins long..!) Except for Other News which is definitely not suitable for work or any public space as I cover an attempt at humour surrounding narcissism with no offence intended!

Hello and welcome to Episode 6! Here we talk about forgiveness for things we didn't do, we dip a toe into the plight of CPTSD following abuse and we see if we can recover from the nightmare. In other news it's just boobies. Weirdly.

Welcome to Episode 5! Here we gander a peek at gender and abuse, the empathy of a narshole and we double down on that self soothing. In other news we go to town on trust issues and socialism of all things! Hope you enjoy.

Welcome to the difficult 4th album or Episode 4! Here we take a canter into morals, dating with some narshole knowledge and a look at a person who thinks revenge is a good plan for people who don't value them.. enjoy!

Welcome to Episode the 3rd. Here we take another shallowish dive into the types of lie, the torture of the narcissist and the criminal actions they do do.. And id like to introduce the possibly controversial "other news" section.. which this week is a quick answer to a religion based question!

Hello, welcome back. In this episode we dip our toe into dating, take a look at the not empathy of a narshole and friends who gaslight.

Welcome to Narshole the Lonely Monster - Narshole Escape Tools (NET). An obscure and often inane look at what makes us tick with them narcissists. In this episode we take a dive into how and why a narcissist changes the lie and some practical ways for, to and why we must use Grey Rocking for our own mental health self defence.