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Let's meditate. This is not a meditation about NPD. It is a practice about the ordinary, everyday ways that all of us protect our vulnerable places with something hard. So, let's get curious about the armor.
What do you do when you finally have language for your in-law's emotional immaturity (or dare I say narcissistic behaviors) — and your spouse, the one who grew up with it, doesn't see it yet. Do you tell them? Do you go directly to your in-law? In his first live Q&A in a year, Tony takes on one of the most painful positions a partner can be in: watching your spouse work so hard to please a parent who rarely lets them feel enough, while any observation you offer lands like an attack. Tony explains why that reaction makes sense — recognizing a parent's narcissistic traits means asking someone to re-examine decades of memories they had filed under love — and why the instinct to hand them the word "narcissist" tends to close the door rather than open it. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS: Recognize why your spouse may defend a parent's behavior they privately struggle with — the need to belong to our family of origin runs deep, and it's less denial than protection. Distinguish narcissistic traits from NPD, and why emotional immaturity is often the more accurate and more workable place to start. Name the gaslighting pattern of "that isn't what happened" and understand what it does to your sense of reality over time. Learn why the most caring move is often patience with your spouse's timeline rather than presenting the evidence. Hear a listener share how the Death by a Thousand Cuts series gave her the courage to finally leave — with the 12th installment on its way. Tony Overbay is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over 20 years of experience and a certification in treating betrayal trauma. If you didn't get your question answered live, email it to contact@tonyoverbay.com — Tony is answering listener questions first in upcoming sessions. Please follow Tony on Instagram @virtual.couch on Tiktok @virtualcouch on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tonyoverbaylmft and on Substack https://thevirtualcouch.substack.com/ You can reach out to Tony through his website tonyoverbay.com or by emailing contact @ tonyoverbay.com
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Welcome back to In Sanity: A Piece of Mind. Last episode, I talked about the gap between who someone is and who they need to believe they are, and how narcissism is really a wall built around that gap, not an excess of self-love. In this episode, we will start there. Today I'm going deeper into what the actual clinical picture of NPD looks like, what the research says about shame specifically inside that diagnosis, where it actually comes from developmentally, and how you protect yourself from narcissistic behavior without needing to dehumanize the person behind it. My hope is you leave this episode able to hold empathy and a boundary at the same time.**This podcast does not address physical abuse in any way. If you are in a relationship where there is abuse, please seek professional help**
NPD,大概是过去几年互联网上最流行的心理学词汇之一。我们用它形容控制欲极强的老板、令人窒息的父母、不断贬低自己的伴侣,甚至一个让自己受过伤的朋友。但当所有糟糕的人都开始被叫作“NPD”,我们反而想认真问一句:真正的NPD到底是什么?一个人自恋、自私、ego很大、喜欢把别人当工具,就意味着他是NPD吗?这一期,我们请乔乔从心理学的专业视角,和我们一起重新理解这个已经被互联网用得有些泛滥的词。我们聊人格特质和人格障碍的区别,也聊一个很有意思的问题:为什么有些具有强烈自恋特质的人,在外部世界里反而可能显得非常成功?他们自信、耀眼、有野心、有巨大的power,甚至有一种让人忍不住想靠近的生命力。但一个人在公共世界里的成功,和他在亲密关系里如何对待别人,可能完全是两件事。于是这期节目慢慢从“NPD是什么”,走到了我们真正感兴趣的地方:关系。为什么我们会被这样的人吸引?为什么一段关系最开始可能极其美好,对方让你觉得自己如此特别、如此被理解,后来却逐渐变成贬低、控制和自我怀疑?为什么明明已经觉得不舒服,我们还是会反复解释对方、证明自己,甚至期待有一天,他终于会重新看见我们的好?有时候,我们迷恋的也许不只是那个人,而是他身上那个我们自己还没有活出来的部分。聊到最后,我们发现“NPD”这个词真正有价值的地方,也许并不是帮助我们给别人下诊断。心理学词汇进入大众世界当然有被滥用的危险,但它也可能帮助一个人第一次为过去那些模糊、混乱、无法言说的感受找到名字。比起反复追问“他到底是不是NPD”,也许更重要的问题是:这段关系让我快乐吗?我在其中被尊重吗?我是不是越来越不像自己?如果答案已经足够清楚,也许我们不必等到拿到一张关于另一个人的“诊断书”,才允许自己离开。Coco在最后说:“爱时义无反顾,走时绝不回头。” 老柴说:“天地辽阔,你这游戏我不玩了。” 我们花了一百分钟讨论别人是什么样的人,最后真正想拿回来的,其实是自己判断一段关系值不值得继续的权力。时间轴00:01:13 为什么今天人人都在说NPD?一个心理学诊断,怎么变成了互联网流行词?00:05:53 我们嘴里的“NPD”到底是什么?自恋、自私、ego很大、把人工具化,是一回事吗?00:09:58 从网络热词回到心理学:真正的NPD如何定义?人格特质和人格障碍之间隔着多远?00:18:00 为什么我们越来越喜欢给别人贴上“NPD”的标签?一个词如何帮助我们重新解释过去的关系?00:27:00 老板把员工“工具化”,就是NPD吗?权力、效率和人格问题应该怎么区分?00:29:00 NPD有哪些典型特征?夸大、特权感、需要赞美、利用他人、缺乏共情……00:35:00 为什么有些NPD特质很强的人,看起来反而很成功?耀眼、强大、有power的人为什么让人着迷?00:40:00 成功真的需要一点“NPD”吗?野心、强势、自我确信和病理性自恋之间有什么区别?00:48:00 从职场回到私人关系:为什么越亲近的人,受到的伤害反而越隐秘?00:57:45 我们自己经历过这样的关系吗?友情、家庭、工作里那些曾经很难解释的感受。01:05:00 为什么你会慢慢开始怀疑自己?当一个重要的人不断改变评价你的标准。01:14:00 为什么我们会被这样的人吸引?也许我们爱上的,是那个自己还没有活出来的自己。01:24:20 NPD是天生的吗?会改变吗?一个人可能只在某一种关系里呈现NPD吗?01:31:48 为什么这样的关系一开始往往特别美好?从强烈的理想化,到控制、贬低与自我怀疑。01:36:00 如果怀疑自己遇到了NPD,应该怎么办?你需要先证明“他有病”,才能离开吗?01:39:00 爱时义无反顾,走时绝不回头:天地辽阔,有些游戏可以选择不玩了。也欢迎你留下关于本期的想法。
Narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and NPD get thrown around constantly online, and most of what circulates is wrong. In this episode, licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton walks through what narcissistic personality disorder actually is (all nine DSM criteria, and why five or more are required for a diagnosis), the difference between covert and overt narcissism, and the specific behavior patterns that make a relationship abusive: love bombing, gaslighting, trauma bonding, DARVO, flying monkeys, isolation, and intermittent reinforcement. She also covers the gray rock method, the signs you're walking on eggshells in your own home, and how healing from narcissistic abuse actually works. If you've been wondering whether what you experienced counts, or whether the person in your life is a narcissist or simply selfish and hurtful, this one is for you. Timestamps 0:00 Everyone thinks everyone's a narcissist 1:07 What narcissistic personality disorder actually is: five of nine criteria 3:20 Covert vs. overt narcissism 9:22 What narcissistic abuse means 9:48 Love bombing, and how it differs from someone just being kind 13:49 Gaslighting 19:11 No accountability, no apology, no repair 22:19 Monitoring, isolation, and turning you against the people who love you 24:22 Trauma bonding and the abuse cycle 27:25 DARVO 30:45 The gray rock method 34:30 Flying monkeys 36:57 Why they aren't nasty all the time 40:02 Intermittent reinforcement 40:47 Signs you're living in this dynamic 43:50 How healing actually happens 46:27 Reconnecting with the people you lost touch with 49:16 A better question than "what's wrong with me" 53:33 Afraid you'll end up with another narcissist This episode is brought to you by Rebound, offering specialized virtual trauma therapy in all 50 states, founded by survivors and psychologists. Head to https://hellorebound.com/askkatianything to learn more and check your insurance. Using that link is a direct way to support the podcast, so even if you're only curious, take a minute to look. Ask Kati Anything ep. 327 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT MY BOOKS Why Do I Keep Doing This? https://geni.us/XoyLSQ Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY ONLINE THERAPY If you're looking for a therapist, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed online professional: https://betterhelp.com/kati (enjoy 10% off your first month) This is an affiliate link, which means a portion of your signup helps support the podcast at no extra cost to you. PARTNERSHIPS Nick Freeman | nick@biglittlemedia.co Disclaimer The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode, I return to the angry daughter — but this time, I look at what happens when she tries to love someone. The survival skills that kept her intact in her family of origin are the same ones that quietly work against her in relationships. She over-functions. She holds everything together. She mistakes someone's performed pain for depth, and she chases validation in ways she can't always see while it's happening. This episode is personal, and I'm not writing from some resolved place on the other side. I'm writing from inside it — still learning that I'm allowed to want things, still figuring out what it looks like to stop disappearing so love can fit.Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast*Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy*New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your RelationshipWebsite: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse{E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner
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嘉宾 | 宫学萍,心理咨询师主播 | 驳静,《三联生活周刊》主笔“我身边有个NPD”——这句话,如今成了许多人解释一段痛苦关系的万能钥匙。有观点认为,这是对于专业概念的滥用;但换个角度思考,当一个社会开始频繁借用心理学词汇来描述痛苦,恰恰说明人们对“伤害”的感知正在变得敏锐。我们不再习惯用“他就是脾气不好”或“忍忍就过去了”来消解自己的不适,而是试图为那种说不清的委屈、被贬低感和长期的自我怀疑,找到一个名字。本期节目,我们与心理咨询师宫学萍一起,聊聊正在被泛化的NPD,以及在这个名词背后,那些正在经历痛苦挣扎的人们,在如何重新找回生活的主动权。【时间轴】02:04 为什么我们要用一个英文词,讲述自己的不舒服?06:04 生活中的NPD,一般都什么样?16:31 怎样的人更容易被NPD所吸引?20:42 NPD、PUA成为热词,是因为我们对生活中的伤痛变得更敏感了吗?26:11 被痛苦的关系吸引,就像期待荆棘上长出花朵38:04 父母是NPD,孩子一定也是吗?49:06 男性真的更容易成为NPD吗?52:12 期待NPD的爱,是一场缘木求鱼?69:15 拥有更好的自己,决定权在我们手里73:27 NPD是极度自恋还是极度自卑?编辑/一丁剪辑/译丹————“Talk三联”是《三联生活周刊》出品的一档软硬皆有的泛文化类音频栏目,用声音记录报道背后的故事,提供丰富的新知与思辨的可能。在以下渠道均可收听我们的节目:三联中读APP |小宇宙|喜马拉雅|苹果播客|网易云音乐【我们还有这些播客】苗师傅·天真与经验|中场时间|我有一个朋友·董晨宇|多一种生活|岁时茶山记|你好,陌生人HelloStranger|孩子,你的情绪我们在乎|“三联·大案追踪”有声剧如果你喜欢我们的节目,欢迎点赞支持,或者把我们的节目推荐给更多的朋友~ 【关注我们】App:三联中读微信公众号:三联中读微博:@三联中读小红书:三联中读官网:https://www.lifeweek.com.cn/ 【商务合作】zhongdu@lifeweek.com.cn
Artis Gen Z seperti Naykilla dan NPD ramai daur ulang estetika 2000-an. Apa yang sebenarnya ingin dikatakan generasi ini tentang masa depannya?
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Narcissism is usually imagined as arrogance, dominance, and the loudest person in the room, but it is not always that obvious. In this episode, Vanessa explores narcissism as a problem of selfhood: what happens when a person does not have a stable enough inner sense of Self to stay emotionally coherent without constant reflection from the outside. Through Kohut, Kernberg, the myth of Narcissus, vulnerable and grandiose narcissism, the false self, parental overvaluation, and the difference between traits and Narcissistic Personality Disorder, we look at why these dynamics can feel so confusing inside real relationships. The question is not only whether someone can be charming, wounded, or empathic when things are easy, but whether they can stay curious about your reality when it no longer mirrors back the version of themselves they need to see.For educational purposes only. This isn't therapy.Join Vanessa for the free Inner Compass Academy Summit, August 5–7, where we'll explore depth psychology, shadow, embodiment, and what real transformation asks of us. Register here: https://www.vanessabennett.com/ica-summitReference Links:Heinz Kohut — Self PsychologyUse for: Kohut's self psychology, narcissism, mirroring, and development of a cohesive sense of self.Link: https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/nursing-and-health-professions/self-psychologyNote: ScienceDirect overview identifies Kohut as the theorist most associated with self psychology and describes his focus on the development of a cohesive and positive sense of self.Kohut's Self Psychology Model / NarcissismUse for: Kohut's view of narcissism, unmet selfobject needs, and narcissism as part of development rather than simple arrogance.Link: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2860525/Note: Useful accessible clinical article describing therapy through Kohut's self psychology model.SelfobjectUse for: Kohut's selfobject concept: another person experienced as part of the self's regulation and cohesion, rather than fully as a separate subject.Link: https://www.encyclopedia.com/psychology/dictionaries-thesauruses-pictures-and-press-releases/self-objectNote: Use for the episode's explanation of relationships organized around mirroring and self-regulation.Narcissus MythUse for: Narcissus as the mythic image of attachment to reflection/image rather than real mutual relationship.Link: https://www.britannica.com/topic/Narcissus-Greek-mythologyNote: Use as the basic myth reference. The episode's psychological interpretation is Vanessa's depth-oriented reading.Otto Kernberg — Pathological Narcissism / Grandiose SelfUse for: Kernberg's work on pathological narcissism, object relations, and the grandiose self.Link: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/2678027/Note: PubMed abstract summarizes Kernberg's theory and mentions treatment focused on the pathologic grandiose self.Otto Kernberg — Borderline Conditions and Pathological NarcissismUse for: Primary book reference for Kernberg's work on pathological narcissism.Link: https://www.bloomsbury.com/us/borderline-conditions-and-pathological-narcissism-9780876681770/Note: Book citation for producer if referencing Kernberg's broader theoretical framework.Grandiose and Vulnerable NarcissismUse for: Distinction between grandiose narcissism and vulnerable / hypersensitive narcissism.Link: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5601176/Note: Research article describing grandiose narcissism as overt superiority/entitlement and vulnerable narcissism as hypersensitivity and introversive self-absorption.Pathological Narcissism and Psychosocial FunctioningUse for: Grandiosity and vulnerability as two core themes of pathological narcissism.Link: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6710132/Note: Useful source for explaining that narcissism can have both grandiose and vulnerable expressions.Narcissistic Vulnerability / Pathological Narcissism InventoryUse for: Narcissistic vulnerability as fragile self-concept, limited self/affect regulation, shame/rage, and sensitivity to perceived threats to self-esteem.Link: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3354008/Note: Supports the episode's discussion of narcissistic injury, collapse, shame, and fragility.Winnicott — True Self / False SelfUse for: Winnicott's false self concept, compliance, performance, and protection of the more vulnerable self.Link: https://academic.oup.com/book/1192/chapter-abstract/140028848Note: Oxford Academic page for Winnicott's “Ego Distortion in Terms of True and False Self.”Parental Overvaluation and Narcissism — Eddie Brummelman et al.Use for: Research showing parental overvaluation predicts child narcissism, while parental warmth predicts healthy self-esteem.Link: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4378434/Note: PNAS article, “Origins of Narcissism in Children.”Parental Overvaluation and Narcissism — PubMedUse for: Quick PubMed reference for the Brummelman study.Link: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25775577/Note: PubMed abstract states narcissism was predicted by parental overvaluation, not lack of parental warmth, while self-esteem was predicted by parental warmth.Narcissistic Personality Disorder — APA DictionaryUse for: Clinical definition of Narcissistic Personality Disorder and diagnostic features.Link: https://dictionary.apa.org/narcissistic-personality-disorderNote: APA Dictionary includes grandiose self-importance, need for attention/admiration, rage/humiliation/emptiness in response to criticism, entitlement, exploitation, and inability to empathize.Narcissistic Personality Disorder — MSD Manual ProfessionalUse for: DSM-5-TR-oriented overview of NPD as a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration/adulation, and lack of empathy.Link: https://www.msdmanuals.com/professional/psychiatric-disorders/personality-disorders/narcissistic-personality-disorder-npdNote: Useful accessible clinical reference for the distinction between narcissistic traits and a diagnosable personality disorder.Love Bombing — Empirical StudyUse for: Love bombing as a relationship formation pattern associated with narcissism, insecure attachment, low self-esteem, and excessive communication early in relationships.Link: https://scholarworks.uark.edu/hdfsrsuht/1/Note: Undergraduate honors thesis / empirical study. Use lightly. Love bombing is not a formal clinical diagnosis, but this source provides research support for the term.Love Bombing — Research SummaryUse for: Additional accessible reference for love bombing as connected to narcissistic tendencies and early relationship intensity.Link: https://www.kristenjozkowski.com/publications/18156-love-bombing-a-narcissistic-approach-to-relationship-formationNote: Use as a secondary support source if needed; avoid overstating love bombing as a formally established diagnostic concept.Narcissistic Personality Disorder — Recent Research OverviewUse for: Current overview of NPD, grandiose and vulnerable presentations, diagnosis, and treatment complexity.Link: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10187400/Note: Helpful scholarly overview of recent progress in understanding and treating NPD.If you want to go deeper, check out the written companion on Substack and explore community + training at https://www.vanessaBennett.com.Additional ResourcesExplore: VanessaBennett.comBook: The Motherhood MythCommunity: Inner Compass CollectiveTraining: Inner Compass AcademyConnect with Inner CompassFollow on InstagramConnect with Vanessa Bennett:Follow on InstagramFollow on TikTokLearn more on SubstackConnect with Vanessa Bennett on LinkedInSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, I'm talking about why self-blame becomes almost automatic when you've been in an emotionally abusive or coercively controlling relationship, and why it feels like relief even when it's actually costing you.I get into the nervous system science behind it, specifically how fawning works, how your brain gets wired to connect calm with compliance, and why that wiring doesn't just disappear when the relationship ends. If you have ever cried the whole drive home because you didn't apologize, this one is for you. I also walk through some concrete ways to start interrupting the pattern, because healing from this is not about flipping a switch. It is about catching yourself in small moments, again and again, until a different kind of calm starts to feel possible.Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast*Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy*New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your RelationshipWebsite: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse{E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner
In this episode, Cory Connors welcomes three influential leaders — Matthew Wright, Laura Foti, and Matt Saunders — to discuss the new partnership between Specright and New Earth Ventures. Together, they explore how digitizing packaging data, leveraging AI, and strategically deploying venture capital can accelerate sustainability, compliance, and product innovation across global supply chains. The conversation highlights the growing need for accurate packaging data, the impact of extended producer responsibility (EPR), and how purposeful investment can support both the planet and profitable business growth.Key Topics Discussed:Specright's origin and mission to eliminate waste through better data.Why packaging data accuracy is essential for sustainability and compliance.New Earth Ventures' investment strategy and partnership goals.How EPR regulations drive the need for digitized, centralized spec data.The role of AI in transforming packaging and product development.Broader uses of Specright beyond EPR, including search, NPD, and procurement.Resources Mentioned:Specright – Specification Data Management PlatformNew Earth Ventures – Hybrid corporate venture fund from Atlantic PackagingAtlantic Packaging Solution CenterContact:New Earth Ventures:InstagramLinkedInWebsite Specright: LinkedIn WebsiteClosing Thoughts:Cory and the guests emphasize that packaging is entering a new era driven by AI, regulation, and data transparency. They highlight how collaboration between innovators, investors, and manufacturers can create a more sustainable world—one where packaging is smarter, supply chains are more efficient, and businesses thrive through responsible innovation. Together, Specright and New Earth Ventures aim to redefine how packaging is designed, measured, and managed.Thank you for tuning in to Sustainable Packaging with Cory Connors!https://anewearthproject.com/collections/new-earth-approvedConnect with CoryConnect with Cory on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cory-connors/I'm here to help you make your packaging more sustainable! Reach out today and I'll get back to you asap. This podcast is an independent production and the podcast production is an original work of the author. All rights of ownership and reproduction are retained—copyright 2022.
If you are an empath or highly sensitive person, narcissists do not find you by accident — and the covert narcissist in particular is an expert at this. Quietly observing, the covert narcissist zeros in on your compassion and uses it to manipulate, control and keep you stuck. In this video, Narc Con breaks down exactly how they do it. Narc Con is one of Ireland's only dedicated narcissism awareness channels, covering covert narcissism, narcissistic personality disorder, gaslighting, love bombing, manipulation tactics, emotional manipulation, empaths and narcissists, no contact, and toxic relationship dynamics.#narcissism #empathy #manipulation https://youtu.be/9L_E_yPQzLYSubscribe for straight-talking NPD content that gives you the clarity you deserve.COACHING Enquiries - narcscon@gmail.com
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What's the next Dubai chocolate? And more importantly, how do you know whether to back it before it's mainstream, or whether it will ever get there at all?The speed at which flavour trends now travel has fundamentally changed the job of everyone in NPD. What used to take decades can now arrive, peak and fade within a single season. Social media accelerates trends and creates consumer expectations about flavour before a product even hits the shelf.In this episode of the Food Matters Live podcast, recorded at our London Olympia event, five flavour and innovation specialists debate what all of this means in practice. They unpack why flavour is still king, and why the days of designing something that appeals to everybody are effectively over. And they wrestle with the most loaded question in innovation: is the era of the perennial core flavour over, or will the industry always find new ones?If this has whet your appetite for next year's Food Matters Live events - you can already register your interest to partner with us in London and Rotterdam. Just head to foodmatterslive.com
「有些道歉是假的,說了比沒說更不舒服。但對於某些人來說,真實的道歉是等不到的,因為連他自己的生命裡,都戴著虛假的面具。」 這集我們聊聊最近社群上討論度最高的關係黑洞:NPD(自戀型人格疾患)的「控制性道歉」。 我們常以為對方痛哭流涕是終於看見了我們的委屈,但心理學大師薩提爾與 DARVO 策略卻揭開了一個無情又震撼的真相:這群人流下的眼淚不是因為心疼你, 而是為了保護自己快要碎成粉末的「小可憐」內心,並試圖把聚光燈硬生生搶回自己身上。 碎成粉末的完美盔甲: 自信與 NPD 只有一線之隔?看清用「極度自戀」包裹「極度自卑」的雙面人真相。 控制性道歉的隱形牽繩: 他流淚不是因為心疼你,而是害怕失去可以操控的玩具。 全方位甩鍋的 DARVO 策略: 明明受傷的是你,為什麼最後他變成了受害者?拆解惡人先告狀的人格抹殺。 慢性中毒的煤氣燈效應: 聽久了連自己都懷疑是自己脾氣太壞?看透這場「將你妖魔化」的心理操縱術。 關掉聚光燈的責任界線: 真正懂你的人不需要你澄清。
Die AfD hat für Sachsen-Anhalt ein Zehn-Punkte-Sofortprogramm für die ersten 100 Tage vorgelegt: mehr Abschiebehaftplätze, Arbeitspflicht für Asylbewerber, Kündigung des Rundfunkstaatsvertrags, Deutschlandflaggen statt Regenbogenflaggen an Schulen. Einige Punkte liegen außerhalb der Landeskompetenz, andere zielen auf die Vereinnahmung des Patriotismus. Gewählt wird am 6. September. [05:28]Bijan Moini, Legal Director der Gesellschaft für Freiheitsrechte, legt ein 1.500-Seiten-Gutachten vor und kommt zu dem Schluss: Die AfD ist verfassungswidrig. „Eine wesentliche Erkenntnis unseres Gutachtens war, dass die AfD in ihrem politischen Konzept, also das, was sie tatsächlich umsetzen will, der NPD sehr nahe kommt", sagt Moini. [09:55]Stefan Evers, Finanzsenator im Kabinett von Kai Wegner, übernimmt die Spitzenkandidatur der CDU Berlin. Er gilt als einer, der lieber im Maschinenraum arbeitet als auf dem Sonnendeck. Aber jetzt muss er die Stimmung drehen: Die CDU liegt in den Umfragen nur auf Platz vier, hinter Linken, Grünen und AfD. [00:53]Table.Briefings - For better informed decisions.Sie entscheiden besser, weil Sie besser informiert sind – das ist das Ziel von Table.Briefings. Wir verschaffen Ihnen mit jedem Professional Briefing, mit jeder Analyse und mit jedem Hintergrundstück einen Informationsvorsprung, am besten sogar einen Wettbewerbsvorteil. Table.Briefings bietet „Deep Journalism“, wir verbinden den Qualitätsanspruch von Leitmedien mit der Tiefenschärfe von Fachinformationen. Professional Briefings kostenlos kennenlernen: table.media/testenHier geht es zu unseren WerbepartnernHol dir deine persönlichen Daten mit Incogni zurück und hol dir 60 % Rabatt auf ein Jahresabo: https://incogni.com/tabletodayImpressum: https://table.media/impressumDatenschutz: https://table.media/datenschutzerklaerungBei Interesse an Audio-Werbung in diesem Podcast melden Sie sich gerne bei Jan Puhlmann: jan.puhlmann@table.media Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
"A useful question to ask yourself is: how do I consistently feel after spending time with this person? That is so huge — all of your intel is right there." — Kristen Olson In this raw, unplanned episode of Turmeric & Tequila™, host Kristen Olson pulls back the curtain on something she rarely discusses publicly: her own dating life. After receiving unexpected news about a past situationship, Kristen shares an honest, in-real-time story about falling hard for someone despite early red flags — and what she learned about attachment styles, self-worth, and narcissistic relationship patterns along the way. At 45, successful in business and athletics, Kristen admits relationships have always been her growth edge. She walks listeners through the instant-connection "fireworks" that pulled her in, the inconsistencies and broken promises she chose to overlook, and the moment she discovered the situation was far messier than she realized. Rather than naming names or seeking revenge, she reframes the experience as a lesson in awareness, boundaries, and grace. The back half of the episode turns into a practical mini-guide: what narcissism actually is (versus normal narcissistic *traits*), the difference between narcissistic behavior and clinical NPD, common signs you may be dating someone with strong narcissistic traits (love bombing, gaslighting, entitlement, lack of empathy, idealize-then-devalue cycles), and healthy steps to take if you recognize the pattern — trusting behavior over promises, setting boundaries, documenting your experience, and leaning on your support system. This episode is for anyone who's ever asked themselves, "How did a smart, grounded person like me end up here?" Kristen's answer: you're not alone, give yourself grace, and let the lesson make you wiser — not smaller. The Deets: - Why an instant, "fireworks" connection isn't always a green light - Ignoring red flags because "you just care" - Anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, and why relationships reveal parts of you therapy alone can't - A breakdown of narcissistic traits vs. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) - Signs you might be in a relationship with narcissistic patterns - Practical, healthy steps if you recognize these patterns in your own relationship - Why shady behavior in relationships impacts far more people than just the couple involved Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro to Turmeric & Tequila 00:30– Kristen sets up today's unplanned, real-time episode 01:20 – Sponsor shoutout: Colorado Clownfish Swim School & Plantiva 01:50 – Why she's sharing this story: awareness, not revenge 03:05 – The story begins: instant connection, early red flags 05:15 – Internal conflict — staying despite inconsistencies 06:30 – Deep dive into attachment theory and dating a narcissist 08:00 – Red flags mount: flirting, hidden phones, broken plans 09:30 – A transparent (and vulnerable) conversation about intimacy 11:15 – Walking away — and how it circled back again 12:45 – The discovery: finding out the full truth 14:30 – Why cheating and dishonesty are non-negotiable values 16:20 – Cost-benefit of staying: impact on friendships and mental space 17:45 – Unpacking attachment — nervous systems, familiarity, and childhood patterns 20:00 – What is a narcissist? Traits vs. NPD, explained 21:00 – Signs you may be dating someone with narcissistic traits 22:00 – Healthy steps: boundaries, documentation, support systems, therapy 23:00 – Closing thoughts, gratitude, and sign-off Kristen Olson: is the host of *Turmeric & Tequila*, a podcast built on gracefully disruptive conversations about business, sports, relationships, and personal growth. A strategic partnerships and sponsorships professional by trade, Kristin brings the same candor and awareness to her personal life as she does to the boardroom — sharing real, unfiltered lessons on attachment, boundaries, and becoming a better human, one honest conversation at a time. New episodes available on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. @madonnashero Connect with T&T: IG: @TurmericTequila Facebook: @TurmericAndTequila Website: www.TurmericAndTequila.com Host: Kristen Olson IG: @Madonnashero Tik Tok: @Madonnashero Website: www.KOAlliance.com WATCH HERE Sponsors: Colorado Clownfish Swim School Plantiva MORE LIKE THIS: https://youtu.be/ZCFQSpFoAgI?si=Erg8_2eH8uyEgYZF https://youtu.be/piCU9JboWuY?si=qLdhFKCGdBzuAeuI https://youtu.be/9Vs2JDzJJXk?si=dpjV31GDqTroUKWH
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Some healing doesn't come from therapy or from doing the work in the way you expect it to. Sometimes it comes from watching your team win the NBA finals.In this episode, I'm sharing something personalL what the Knicks winning the 2026 championship actually did to me, and why I wasn't prepared for it. This win cracked something open that I didn't know was still there, and I've been sitting with it ever since.This is a detour from my usual content, and it also isn't, because healing has never been linear for me, and I've never once claimed to be finished with it.Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast*Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy*New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your RelationshipWebsite: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse{E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner
Narcissistic Personality Disorder என்பது ஒருவருக்கு தன்னை மிக உயர்வாக எண்ணுதல், பிறரின் உணர்வுகளை புரிந்துகொள்ளும் கருணை குறைவு மற்றும் எப்போதும் பாராட்டை எதிர்பார்ப்பது போன்ற தன்மைகளால் வெளிப்படும் ஒரு மனநலக் கோளாறு என கூறப்படுகிறது. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) என்றால் என்ன? NPD உள்ளவர்களின் பண்புகள் என்ன ? அவர்களை கையாளும் சில யுத்திகள் குறித்து உரையாடுகிறார் சிட்னியில் உள்ள உளவியல் நிபுணர் முனைவர் சரோஜா சீனிவாசன் அவர்கள். அவரோடு உரையாடுகிறார் செல்வி இன்பசேகரன்.
Unsere Podcast-Empfehlung: Gerechtigkeit & LoseblattBei: Apple Podcast WebsiteWas ist Gerechtigkeit und Loseblatt? Im wöchentlichen Podcast Gerechtigkeit & Loseblatt – Die Woche im Recht besprechen Beck-aktuell-Chefredakteurin Pia Lorenz, Strategieberater und Kolumnist Dr. Hendrik Wieduwilt und Beck-aktuell-Redakteur Dr. Maximilian Amos, was diese Woche wichtig war in Recht, Rechtspolitik, Rechtsmarkt und Justiz. Folgenbeschreibung:In der abschließenden Folge widmen wir uns der examensrelevantesten Frage des gesamten Falls: Reicht ein bloßer Verfassungsschutz-Verdachtsfall, um über die Mitgliedschaft waffenrechtliche Unzuverlässigkeit zu begründen?Zwei Vereinigungen sind zu trennen. „Der Flügel" ist als erwiesen rechtsextremistisch eingestuft – Verfassungsfeindlichkeit steht fest. Aber der Kläger war nie Mitglied, sondern stand nur auf einem E-Mail-Verteiler. Keine Mitgliedschaft, Tatbestand verfehlt. Bei der AfD (Bundesverband und Landesverband Hessen) war zum maßgeblichen Zeitpunkt Oktober 2022 nur ein Verdachtsfall ausgesprochen – und genau daran hängt der Streit.Die Kernfrage lautet: Worauf bezieht sich die Verdachtsformel „Tatsachen, die die Annahme rechtfertigen" in § 5 Abs. 2 Nr. 3 WaffG – nur auf die Mitgliedschaft oder auch auf die Verfassungsfeindlichkeit der Vereinigung? Das VG Frankfurt folgt der herrschenden Linie: Die Formel bezieht sich grammatikalisch nur auf die Mitgliedschaft; die Bestrebungen der Vereinigung müssen feststehen („verfolgt oder verfolgt hat" – Präsens und Perfekt, keine Möglichkeitsform). Ein Verdachtsfall genügt nicht.Die Gegenauffassung (VG Düsseldorf) lässt den Verdacht auch für die Bestrebungen ausreichen – teleologisch: Schutzlücken bei großen Parteien, Nachweis feststehender Verfassungsfeindlichkeit praktisch kaum führbar. Dieses Argument hat echtes Gewicht und muss fair dargestellt werden.Die herrschende Linie (OVG Sachsen-Anhalt, BayVGH, VG Gera, VG Regensburg, VG Frankfurt) hält mit drei Argumenten dagegen: Wortlaut, Gesetzgebungsgeschichte (Novelle 2019 zielte auf die NPD mit feststehender BVerfG-Feststellung) und – als Königsargument – die Methodenfigur des BayVGH: Teleologie füllt den Auslegungskorridor aus, den Wortlaut, Systematik und Historie eröffnen – sie korrigiert den Wortlaut aber nicht. Schwierigkeit der Beweisführung ist kein dogmatisches Argument.Verfassungsrechtlicher Überbau: Das Parteienprivileg (Art. 21 Abs. 4 GG) reserviert die Feststellung der Verfassungsfeindlichkeit einer Partei dem BVerfG. Eine Waffenbehörde darf diese Frage nicht als Vorfrage im Widerrufsbescheid beantworten.Support the show
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Father's Day is right around the corner, and on this month's Ask Rick, Rob Kibbe welcomes National Parts Depot CEO Rick Schmidt for a wide-ranging conversation covering everything from car show planning to collector car buying strategy. Drawing from more than twenty years of experience producing NPD's legendary Silver Springs Ford and GM shows, Rick shares what makes a great event, why most car shows overcomplicate things, and how creating an experience for the entire family is often more important than the cars themselves. The discussion also dives into the evolving world of reproduction bodies and restoration parts. Rick offers an insider's perspective on the quality improvements seen in replacement Camaro and Firebird bodies, the challenges of manufacturing and licensing, and why some projects help preserve the hobby while others raise serious questions. If you've ever wondered what goes into bringing reproduction sheet metal and complete bodies to market, this segment is packed with fascinating insight. Of course, no Ask Rick episode would be complete without auction picks. This month Rick evaluates six vehicles ranging from a 1968 El Camino SS 396, 1969 Mercury Cougar Convertible, and 1962 Chrysler 300, to a modern Shelby GT350R Heritage Edition, a stunning 1950 Oldsmobile 88 Convertible, and a 1969 Dodge Charger R/T. Along the way he reveals which cars he'd happily cruise all summer, which ones he'd avoid entirely, and why some of the hobby's most interesting opportunities aren't always the most obvious choices. The post TMCP #650: Ask Rick – Father's Day Car Shows, Summer Cruise Nights, and Patriotic Auction Temptations first appeared on The Muscle Car Place.
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In this YouTube interview, Vance from the Female Covert Narc channel joins Narccon to discuss the traits and behaviors of the female covert narcissist, often referred to as the “Black Widow.” The conversation explores how female covert narcissists use subtle manipulation, emotional control, victim playing, and psychological tactics to dominate relationships while maintaining a hidden public image.Vance's Channel - @FemaleCovertNarc (Fantastic series of interviews with a diverse range of experts providing education and advice on NPD focusing in particular on the female narcissist).Channel link: https://youtube.com/@FemaleCovertNarc?si=VXAjaoYsMxNpjGx1#LetThemGo is a video series aimed at helping men identify, exit, and recover from relationships with women diagnosed with or suspected of having female covert narcissism.https://youtu.be/_lAqUANFigIMen, does your female partner gaslight, blame shift, constantly move the boundaries in your relationship, roll her eyes at you, lie, interrupt you, talk over you, explode in response to the slightest hint of anything critical or even the simplest mistake, and always play the victim while portraying you as the perpetual villain, regardless if she is at fault? If so, you may be in a relationship with a female covert narcissist. The only thing more difficult than being with a narcissist is trying to coparent with one. Just when you think it's all over after the divorce or ending of the relationship, there is no need for a narcissistic mother to wear the mask, and her behavior can become absolutely awful, often involving manipulation of the children and weaponizing them against you.#femalecovertnarcissist #narcissist #letthemgo• Website & Coaching Enquiries: https:// www.weaponizedlove.com/Coaching & Speaking Engagements:narcscon@gmail.com* Read the Book: Weaponised Love -https://Im.fm/*Listen to my audiobook:Weaponized Love: Understanding How Narcissists Think Is Key to Protect, Heal and Thriveyou can listen to the full audiobook here:https://www.audible.com/pd/Weaponized-Love-Audiobook/B0GFG8TQTQ• Support the Channel: Donate via PayPal - https:// www.paypal.com/paypalme/narcscon?country.x=.Disclaimer: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.NARCCON1Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Dr. Mark Ettensohn explains why narcissistic personality disorder is often misunderstood online—and how complex trauma, shame, attachment wounds, and identity shape pathological narcissism. Narcissism has become a buzz word on social media. It has moved from a psychological understanding to a term that is used for blaming, scapegoating, and other emotionally charged narratives. This polarization has led to casting someone with narcissist traits as a villain who is intentionally cruel, manipulative, and beyond help. While those with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) can exhibit difficult or even harmful traits, social media has erased the distinction between mental illness and moral defect. One clinician cautions that this "narcisso-sphere" content contributes to the despair of an already vulnerable population and even suicidality among those who identify with the diagnosis. On this episode of Transforming Trauma, host Emilly Ruth welcomes Mark Ettensohn, Psy, D. Mark is the founder of Heal NPD, a clinical and educational platform focused on the understanding and treatment of narcissistic personality disorder. His work explores the developmental and relational roots of narcissism, including trauma, dissociation, and identity. Mark is also the author of Unmasking Narcissism: A Guide to Understanding the Narcissist in Your Life and shares widely followed educational content through his Heal NPD YouTube Channel. Transforming Trauma thanks Mark for sharing his expertise with our community. His empathetic approach to NPD invites curiosity over confrontation and genuine relational support over social media simplification. To read the full show notes and discover more resources, visit https://complextraumatrainingcenter.com/transformingtrauma SPACE: SPACE is an Inner Development Program of Support and Self-Discovery for Therapists on the Personal, Interpersonal, and Transpersonal Levels offered by the Complex Trauma Training Center. This experiential learning program offers an immersive group experience designed to cultivate space for self-care, community support, and deepening vitality in our professional role as therapists. Learn more about how to join. *** The Complex Trauma Training Center: https://complextraumatrainingcenter.com View upcoming trainings: https://complextraumatrainingcenter.com/schedule/ Join us for this a transformative 2-day Intro to NARM® online workshop: https://bit.ly/narmintro *** The Complex Trauma Training Center (CTTC) is a professional organization providing clinical training, education, consultation, and mentorship for psychotherapists and mental health professionals working with individuals and communities impacted by Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and Complex Trauma (C-PTSD). CTTC provides NARM® Therapist and NARM® Master Therapist Training programs, as well as ongoing monthly groups in support of those learning NARM. CTTC offers a depth-oriented professional community for those seeking a supportive network of therapists focused on three levels of shared human experience: personal, interpersonal & transpersonal. The Transforming Trauma podcast embodies the spirit of CTTC – best described by its three keywords: depth, connection, and heart - and offers guidance to those interested in effective, transformational trauma-informed care. We want to connect with you! Facebook @complextraumatrainingcenter Instagram @cttc_training LinkedIn YouTube
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Dr Kirk Honda answers emails regarding Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). May 20, 2026This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.00:00 How can NPD and BPD exist in the same person? 10:54 What are the dynamics of NPD & BPD interacting? 17:47 Characters with BPD22:03 Should I reach out to a doctor who misdiagnosed me?24:48 How do clinicians approach clients that self diagnose? 35:08 Does psychosis happen in all aspects of life?48:01 Does dissociation only occur in BPD?Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleContact us/more info... Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactAbout Dr. Kirk: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/about-dr-kirk-hondaWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comGet stuff... Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/KIRKgram (like Cameo): https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/kirkgramThe Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being. Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com
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What happens when a narcissist is finally alone? As a diagnosed narcissist, I'm getting raw about how my own mind attacks me the second the "audience" leaves. Today, we're discussing why narcissists have a negative default setting, why silence feels like a death sentence, and how we use external validation (supply) as a shield against intense self-hatred. If you've ever wondered why your toxic partner couldn't be alone or why they constantly needed to be the center of attention, this is the internal reality they are running from. Join me for this deep dive into the "Internal Bully" of NPD.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
This episode explores the complex nature of narcissism, distinguishing between clinical Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and pop culture misconceptions. Rose Skeeters provides insights into the traits, diagnosis, and intersection with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), emphasizing the importance of accurate understanding and compassionate communication.Register for the Summer 2026 Support Group on June 3 Today! Need individual support? Schedule a session with Rose here: https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/product/individual-sessions/To schedule with Jay, click here: https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/product/22608/Gift cards now available for purchase here: https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/product/gift-card/**This episode is colloquial not clinical, using personal anecdotes to support conveying information in an informal, relatable way** KeywordsNarcissism, NPD, BPD, mental health, personality disorders, pop culture, empathy, diagnosis, therapy, self-awareness
Female narcissists are often much harder to spot than men because they hide behind social norms like motherhood, caretaking, and "feminine vulnerability." Today, I'm reacting to the MSN article "15 Traits That Reveal Narcissistic Behavior in Women" and providing a diagnosed narcissist's perspective on how these traits manifest in real life. We are breaking down the "Social Camouflage" of NPD—from weaponized tears and the martyr complex to competitive parenting and the "Trophy Child" syndrome. If you feel like you're being manipulated by someone who seems "perfect" to the outside world, this deep dive is for you. Learn the 15 signs before the mask slips for good.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
The "Alpine Divorce" is the most chilling relationship trend of 2026. From viral TikToks to the tragic Thomas Plamberger conviction, we are seeing the literal physical reality of narcissistic abandonment. Today, I'm breaking down the NPD perspective on why a partner would leave you to freeze. We discuss the transition from "Micro-Abandonments" to the ultimate discard and how to spot the red flags before you're stranded.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
"I told you what I did, so why are you still bringing it up?"Have you ever had a narcissist finally admit to a lie, a betrayal, or a mistake—only for them to get angry at YOU because you were actually hurt by it? This is called the Confession Trap, and it is one of the most manipulative moves in the NPD playbook.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.