Our Relationship Pod w/ Emmy and Ify

In our mad dash to prep for Neo we didn't get a chance to record an episode, so we're throwing it back with a bonus episode form Patreon around this time last year (4/17/24)! See you cuties next week! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're back! After a quick aside to chat about tackling the big thoughts on the previous episode, we jump into some listener emails and get into some reddit threads. We're tackling body image issues, caring for our kink daddies, and talking about old people's outdated child care tricks. It's all fun and goofs this episode!Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Very explosive episode this week! Wow! So much love from the mess hall and probably our messiest email yet! We talk about a lot of great topics like where you stand in queerness, loneliness, sex while parenting, and some fun updates from the mess hall. Then, we close it out with a silly Reddit thread. Lots to dig into this week!Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're diving into more emails this week and we even throw in a bonus Reddit post! Lots of love in the mess hall community, some friends not digging partners, and diabolical miscommunication amongst swingers! Lots to dig into this week! Buckle up!Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're back home and we got tons of mess for you this week! We answer some follow up emails and jump into two reddit threads! I totally forgot what I said I would link in the notes, but will run back here to post it when I remember**Listen to it or am reminded by a listenerThanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're out at sea, but apparently the sea has internet! So buckle up for the live episode recorded in the Rolling Stone Lounge on the JoCo Cruise! We are joined by the wonderful Daphne Always to wade through the mess thrown at us this time. Buckle up for this wild ride with audience reactions to our reddit thread reads! It's super fun and we can't wait to do it again!Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's been a while since y'all have gotten a sleepy episode from us, so you know we had to do it to you! Ify keeps Emily up late after his hockey game to jump into the mess with you all! We even threw in a reddit question for you! We kick off with an email with someone from the mess hall having words of advice for another listener who emailed in last week! Then, we tackle an email about course correcting gift giving from someone you care about. After that... remember the Boys Night Out email from a while ago? It was episode 42 for the newcomers, well we go an EXPLOSIVE update! Lots was revealed during that talk we suggested. We close it out with a reddit thread about snooping partners! Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hello everyone! Looks like another mailbag episode and this one is FUN! We have the pod's first trilogy along with some amazing questions that give insight into nervousness around new relationships and desiring independence, the return of the humiliation sub breaking boundaries in new and disappointing ways, and an almost thirty year old virgin! Huge intro where Ify overshares about his mental health and loves up on Em's work.Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I mean, ending it at 50 would've been a neat number to leave it off on, but we couldn't do it. Not when we're needed more than ever probably. We knock out all the listener emails today and we even throw in a bonus ep! To skip past question 1 fast forward to 27:41!Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hello everyone! Just giving everyone a quick update on where we've been and what's happening! See you next week! We're back! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hello Mess Hall! We're back from Philly and got a fresh new poddy cheesesteak for ya. Check Spotify or our socials to get in on the poll!We're hopping in these threads:Email: BDSM in the Bible BeltMy (29M) partner (29F) has recently started frequently making claims about me I feel are extreme. How do I navigate this?Friendship gone sour: I (33F) have completely ghosted a close friend (35F) of a decade. Is there a better approach to end this friendship?Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is totally on time y'all trust us! We're jumping into some listener mess today, so buckle up!We're hopping in these email:What it means to be polyam/ENMRoommates to loversGoal based partnersBatting out of his league updateThanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's a mailbag episode! Thank you to all the anon listeners being vulnerable enough to share!We're hopping in these topics:Friend Batting Out of His LeagueBoundary Breaking Degradation SubHome For The PolydaysWoke White GFAutoromantic AnonThanks for listening!Socials: Krys T is @krys_t_ @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Not OUR break up mind you, there's just a lot of breaking upWe're hopping in these threads:EMAIL: Update from anonEMAIL: Friends growing distantMy (35M) girlfriend (33F) is urging me to quit my band because she doesn't like the other members. How do I explain to her that it isn't fair for her to make me do this?BIL(40M) tried to make a pass on me(31F), told husband (35M)and he didn't react! What am I supposed to do with that?Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Guests are back and we're hanging with the amazing OJ Stellar! What a time to be had!We're hopping in these threads:My (31F) Husband (31F) and I Cannot Handle My Mom (60F) and Dad's (75M)'s Decisions?I (27F) got dumped by a guy (31M) because he didn't want to wait one month for sex after 5 dates. Is this common for guys to do?I (20F) have reason to believe my boyfriend (22M) stole my passport (together 2 yrs). How do I talk to him about this?Thanks for listening!Socials: OJ Stellar is @ojstellar, @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We spend a good bit of time yapping in this one. We spent 5 days in Vegas and somehow only talk about MagicCon and not about that fact that Ify won $14, until you take into consideration that the Casino ATM fee was $12...We're hopping in these threads:I [27F] decided to shoot my shot with my guy friend [27M], but what signs did I misread?[27M] My ex-girlfriend [25F] pushed for an open relationship, then left me for a woman. I feel like I was just a stepping stone in her journey, and I'm left broken. Any Advice?I [38M] met her [42F] after 15 years. How do I handle the possibility that I possibly have a child with her?Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IGPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshopPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourRApodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Wednesday is basically Tuesday, so let's just go with that! Got an email and some reddit questions! Let's boogie!We're hopping in these threads:Email: Accidental ghostingMy (38F) husband (36M) completely dropped the ball on our wedding day - how to move past it?I (29F) want to tell my husband's (34M) affair partner (21F) that she is the other woman in the most supportive way possible. If you've been the other woman, what would you want me to say and what would make you leave him?My (28f) boyfriend (33m) started dating my friend after we opened the relationship. Where to go from here?Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Look at us getting you your new episode on time for your commute! I'm proud of us! Happy Tuesday, y'all! This one is a rollercoaster of emotions and a lot of open and shut cases, but that doesn't mean we don't get to have a great discussion about it!! Come one, come all, to the messiest show on the internet!We're hopping in these threads:Me(20 M) and my gf (18F) had a fight due to her obsession with her ex and she somehow thinks I am just being insecure. I need advice as to how exactly I should solve this problem or like is this relationship just done for?I (32f) think that I have to break up with my fiancé (35m) after he embarrassed me in public over a sandwichMy partner 25M and i 24F have broken up but he still wants to remain friends and i was wondering if anyone has an ex to friends to lovers again story?What if I (M18) feel uncomfortable that my gf (F18) told me she wants to get passed around?Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

****UPDATE****Sorry for the confusion, but we have now uploaded the right episode! Delete your current downloaded episode and refresh to get the new episode!!!*******************Hello there! We're back with another venture into the mail bag and we have some nice tea for you all. Come on a wild ride into the internet today!We're hopping in these threads:Ersties.com clarificationTLDR; Best friend of 10+ years has revealed that he actually doesn't support me being polyamorousMy 34F husband 32M of 9 years said I'm too loose for him to finish. What do I do?i 22F caught feelings for a prisoner 26M. do i cut ties or stay?Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Happy Afternoon y'all! We got some goods again!We're talking about:My (36M) Wife (37F), said some really disrespectful and unpleasant things to my parents recently, thinks she was right. I think that she might have some trauma which is causing this thoughts. How do I approach this?My 22f boyfriend 21m makes me feel so gross during sex. How can I fix this?Suspicious texts on my (29F) husband's (31M) phone. What would you do?Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We are back with another ep and we get right into the emails and reddit questions!We're talking about:A brother who wants his brother to stop flirtingHow to silence that fear in your head.How can I have an open conversation with my husband (30M) about him using escorts when I (27F) am away? Looking for advice on how to handle this situation and move forward.I (F26) accidentally had my baby at my friend's (F31) house, and now she's pissed. How do I solve this?I (26f) am a doctor, but my boyfriend(27m) isnt and peoples reactions start to worn him out?Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're doing something completely different this week, we're talking about our mess in full detail. Walk with us through this fun transition (we're not breaking up) and a ton of tangents, of course. Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Happy Tuesday, Mess Hall! We're deep into listener's this question after giving you some insight into the adventure that Ify's car went on while we were in London. We're hopping in these topics:Email: Are ~equipment~ preferences okay?Email: How to stay close friends with people who just started dating?Thanks for the questions and thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We thought it was Monday, so that's why you're getting it late this week! We don't even need to go to Reddit this episode, because so many listener questions came in! So listen in as we discuss getting back out on the dating scene, feeling like you can do more to support your partner, and what it might look like when you don't. Thanks to everyone who submitted a question!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Another listener question!!! Thank you to anon and I hope we helped you out. We also spend another episode kicking it off with a long discussion about OUR deal. We still got some mess for y'all tho!I'm (m22) pretty sure my friend (m22) and my mom (f51) hooked up. What should I do now?I (27F) had a threesome with a couple (29M and 29F) and we all loved it, what now?Yep! We talked so much we only had time for two questions!Thanks for listening!Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyEmail: ourrapodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're kicking this late episode off with a long talk about Magic: the Gathering and parenting! So, buckle up for that! Then we have our first listener question read anonymously! This is what else we tackle:Every time my wife (43f) gets home after a few days away, leaving me (42m) to look after the kids, she has a go at me. Why?My 30M coworker 50F keeps commenting on my eating habits and saying I love food. How should I approach her to tell her to stop?My vegan partner (24m) doesn't want me (24f) cooking pork/beef when he's home. What do i do?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're back with some more fun! I explain where I was and what I was up to, don't worry! Today we're hopping into these:My (18F) Mom (50F) is suddenly obsessed with my hygiene because I "don't take long enough to pee." Help?!How do I (F27) handle a demanding friend (F27) who ignores boundaries?I 23F have a 22M boyfriend with a problematic fetish, any advice?My mother F 70 cheated on my dad M 72 years ago with a married man- now he's back in the picture?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Siena East joins up as we stumble through more mania!What do I (33f) say to my suddenly Conspiracy Theorist boyfriend (40m)My GF's (28F) parents think I (28M) peed the bed, but it was her squirt. What should I do?70M 60F been together for two months (Trigger warning Old People having sex ) advice needed??I (20F) am potentially getting a US green card and I do not know how to tell my bf (21M)?Socials: @sienaeast @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Better late than never, right? We're coming in hot a day late with another great episode with our good friend Demi Adejuigbe who is coming in with some good advice and some illegal advice. We're jumping into these questions today!I saw (f32) tinder bank charge on husband's (m39) bank statement. Not sure what to believe?My (21f) boyfriend (20m) is somewhat friends with my ex-friend (23f) who is a homewrecker. Should I leave it alone?My (23F) boyfriend (24M) wants me to “stop having my period.” Can I even recover from this?My (28F) husband (33M) has been babied by his mother all his life and now its ruining our marriage, what can I do?Socials: Demis is at @electrolemon on IG and Twitter, @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On todays episode it gets wild and spicy as Ify has a bone to pick with some of these posters. Annoying people dealing with annoying people, potentially outing your husband because you snooped, and familial beef all go off in these week's episode!Here's what we're getting into:How do I (F23) shut down being friendly with a guy friend (M22) without insulting him?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dtb0su/how_do_i_f23_shut_down_being_friendly_with_a_guy/I (F29) found gay porn on my husband's (M30) phone, I need advice on what to do now?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dt9nir/i_f29_found_gay_porn_on_my_husbands_m30_phone_i/What can I (27 F) do to get over a family grudge regarding my boyfriend's (29 M) family member?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dt6o5h/what_can_i_27_f_do_to_get_over_a_family_grudge/My [24F] boyfriend [25M] told me that snacking on mozzarella cheese balls might be a dealbreaker, what should I do?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dtaegt/my_24f_boyfriend_25m_told_me_that_snacking_on/Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@OurRelationshipPod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Just Ify and Emmy on this one and this feels like another classic! A 19 year old man wonders if he should be spending less time in Applebees and more time in some DMs, another person deep in a relationship finally decides to speak up about not wanting kids, and a freaky zaddy is leaving one poster feeling used! Listen in for our takes on these and what tangents we go one. Spoiler alert: we take a very long detour to talk about a time Naomi wanted to make a lava lamp instead of going ice skating.I (19M) feel like my friends (20M, 22M, and 23M) are holding me back, are they?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dl7ckj/i_19m_feel_like_my_friends_20m_22m_and_23m_are/How do I, F30 start the conversation with my fiancé, M33 that I don't want kids knowing that he wants them?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dl5uvy/how_do_i_f30_start_the_conversation_with_my/How can I tell if a 51M I am dating (47F) is addicted to porn or sex?

This week our friend BJ Colangelo dropped in to drop some banger takes. We really have some fun with this one. Stinky boyfriends, annoying parents, and weird viral hits. Here's what we jumped into:I (31m) just found out my partner (29f) went viral for something in 2020 but she won't tell me why, should I try find out?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dh5aab/i_31m_just_found_out_my_partner_29f_went_viral/Why am I (24F) so agrivated by my mom (54F)https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dhhbd3/why_am_i_24f_so_agrivated_by_my_mom_54f/Please tell me if I, 31f (pregnant), am over reacting to my boyfriends 33m, aunt's texting behavior??https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dhh3lg/please_tell_me_if_i_31f_pregnant_am_over_reacting/My (F20) bf (M22) of 2 years' smell is becoming unbearable… what do I do?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1dhgyvg/my_f20_bf_m22_of_2_years_smell_is_becoming/Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG BJ is @bjcolangeloPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jarvis Johnson joins us on today's episode to talk through girlfriends who don't want you looking at ANYONE, mouthy boyfriends, and anti-friend couple behavior. This week we're jumping into these threads:My (19M) girlfriend (22F) made me walk out of the circus last night because of the female dancers; What should I do?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d8oc7p/my_19m_girlfriend_22f_made_me_walk_out_of_the/My boyfriend 36M admitted he thinks my sister 27F is prettier than me 29F. How do I overcome his comment?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d8vyo3/my_boyfriend_36m_admitted_he_thinks_my_sister_27f/My SO (M31) and I (F30) have no interest in being the "friend couple", how to help my friend understand?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d9fp9y/my_so_m31_and_i_f30_have_no_interest_in_being_the/Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The second end of that "mega-sode" we talked about on this week's Candy Dinner. Matt Apodcaca sits down to discuss his own high school lore, not lasting long enough, and hyperbole. Good discussions are had and we get deep! Here's what we're jumping into this week:How long do I (28f) stay with my bf (29m) if he constantly cums quick and I never do?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d5i1jd/how_long_do_i_28f_stay_with_my_bf_29m_if_he/My 34F wife has been messaging her friends husband about having a 3 way sexual relationship with his wife. How should I approach this?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d5nqg1/my_34f_wife_has_been_messaging_her_friends/I (23M) Said my partner (20NB) "becomes some sort of demon" during an argument away recently had, now I feel terrible about it and just need advice, what can i do to make things right?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1d5spsc/i_23m_said_my_partner_20nb_becomes_some_sort_of/Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We have guests again!!! Emmy and Ify are joined by Alison Haslip as they sit down and discuss all the hits. Potentially weird fantasies, infidelity, and people buying drinks for your hot wife. I (27F) am one of twins, and just discovered that my BF (31M) enjoys watching videos of twins on adult websites. What steps do I need to take here?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwdk4x/i_27f_am_one_of_twins_and_just_discovered_that_my/I'm a 38M who recently divorced a 36F. During the divorce process, she had an affair with a married man in his 40s. My question is: should I inform said married man's wife about their affair, or should I just leave it and let karma take its course?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwzjxe/im_a_38m_who_recently_divorced_a_36f_during_the/Men buy my (28m) wife (28f) drinks?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cxczc7/men_buy_my_28m_wife_28f_drinks/Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We are late, but are we?Today we're jumping into:My (24F) dad (62M) is currently going out with a girl younger than I am (23F). I have no idea how to deal with this situation - what can I do? https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwfe1k/my_24f_dad_62m_is_currently_going_out_with_a_girl/Caught my bf (31M) in a bizarre situation and I (27F) don't know if and how to talk about it?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cwkdre/caught_my_bf_31m_in_a_bizarre_situation_and_i_27f/How do I (M45) change the power dynamic with my wife (F45) after being married 20+ years?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1cvokk9/how_do_i_m45_change_the_power_dynamic_with_my/Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

More chaos from the subreddit this week! We take a second up top to discuss hard conversations and talking about relationship needs no matter the type of relationship you're in, then we got more sex questions, some gamer behavior, and a question that reminded me of that episode of Full House where she fell off that horse. (ISN'T IT IRONIC!? SHOUT OUT TO ALANIS!)We're hopping in these threads:My boyfriend (34M) and I (F30) have very different views on sex. It's starting to press on me and I want advice on how other couples naviguate with this?My (M23) incredibly sweet partner (NB22) has severe video game anger issues. What can I do to help them?My (20M) girlfriend (21F) lost her memory and turned into a whole different person and it's putting a bit of strain on my end of our relationship. How can I fix this?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A sandwich of fun episodes and some good conversations. We have some discussion of back door activities, a roller coaster of a story, some issue dealing with depression and anxiety, and people ducking visits to down town. We got into it and really dove into our freaky selves.We're hopping in these threads:My (38M) wife (40F) gives me mixed signals when it comes to anal. What is the best way to approach it?My (32F) boyfriend (35M) of six years disappeared while I was out of town and I don't know what to do?My wife (29F) is killing our marriage and I'm (29M) at a total loss of what is left to do. Is there any hope?I've (F24) never met a man who wants to "eat me out." Current partner (M23) has some issues, how can we resolve this?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we dive into our stuff a bunch, which kinda makes the "enough of our mess" part funny to say, but you better believe when we jump into the internet's mess it get's wild! Fist ball or life type beat, keeping up with the Jessica's, and male insecurity are all on display this week!We're hopping in these threads:My (37f) husband (36m), put martial arts training ahead of helping me get emergency medical treatment and I'm not sure how to react?My (28M) gf (26F) is having a mental breakdown because her friend is getting marriedIs this a sign of controlling & unhealthy insecurity? My 34m boyfriend of 5 months got upset & said I'm (34f) a bad person for having old magnum condoms in my personal toiletry drawer (from before him). He tells me I'm “flaunting” that I was with well endowed men before dating himSocials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week is a peek into madness because the subreddit was POPPIN'! Dead bedrooms, child choices, boyfriends that should be arrested, and cousin on cousin fighting!Wife never wants to have sex. Tried everything but Im fed up with the answer of “do things her way”. When do my needs come first? 37m 33f. Married 7 yearshttps://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1c5hnr2/wife_never_wants_to_have_sex_tried_everything_but/Leave my(31M) GF(32F) because we can't agree on having children?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1c5ep9o/leave_my31m_gf32f_because_we_cant_agree_on_having/My boyfriend baby trapped me?25f 27mhttps://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1c5duhj/my_boyfriend_baby_trapped_me25f_27m/My childhood best friend (30F) ended up marrying the guy I fell in love with (30M). I don't want to be around either of them ever again, they are calling me immature, do you think I'm being unfair?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1c4p3bq/my_childhood_best_friend_30f_ended_up_marrying/Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week opens with a deep conversation about our actualy relationship and communication styles. Then we dive into this mess:[UPDATE] I (31F) booked a trip with my two friends (31F & 26M) only for them to tell me after that they've been dating for months. Now I'm expected to third wheel this trip and don't know what to do?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bylg7u/update_i_31f_booked_a_trip_with_my_two_friends/I [29M] have been dating my GF [37F] for 4 years - why don't I feel like I want to marry her yet?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bzf190/i_29m_have_been_dating_my_gf_37f_for_4_years_why/My (25M) husband is excited for me (26F) to come and clean his parents house. Should I file for divorce after my husband told me he was excited for me to visit so I can clean for him? https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bzij5n/my_25m_husband_is_excited_for_his_26f_to_come_and/Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're back with quite a few spicy questions that run the gamut! We're talking birth, friendship, and religion. Buckle up!We're hopping in these threads:My (34F) husband (30M) has been secretly donating sperm on Facebook. Is there any way back from this?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bu1211/my_34f_husband_30m_has_been_secretly_donating/I (29F) refused to let my MIL (63F) be present while I give birth. We think she'll try to show up anyway - how can we stop this?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1btx6t4/i_29f_refused_to_let_my_mil_63f_be_present_while/My (30F) family won't stop pushing religion on my daughter (5F). How can I make it stop?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bu2z6o/my_30f_family_wont_stop_pushing_religion_on_my/I (31F) booked a trip with my two friends (31F & 26M) only for them to tell me after that they've been dating for months. Now I'm expected to third wheel this trip and don't know what to do?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1btqy5m/i_31f_booked_a_trip_with_my_two_friends_31f_26m/Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmily Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is the sweepy episode.We're hopping in these threads:I (28M) broke up with my partner (26F) a few years ago, I'm very close with her parents, but recently learned she is now getting married and she's asked can I not contact them anymore?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bcp5g3/i_28m_broke_up_with_my_partner_26f_a_few_years/My [22f] best friend [23f] forgot my birthday. Is it dumb I'm sad?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bd6swn/my_22f_best_friend_23f_forgot_my_birthday_is_it/Wife (34F) got into performing standup comedy a few years ago and I (32M) can't take it anymore.https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1baywkd/wife_34f_got_into_performing_standup_comedy_a_few/i think i (23f) ruined my fiancee's (23m) friend group?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bc3vmi/i_think_i_23f_ruined_my_fiancees_23m_friend_group/Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lots of wedding talk in this one! Some weddings that should happen and one that shouldn't!We're hopping in these threads:My Fiance (45M) is infatuated on knowing if ex wife (42F) is dating. Is this serious? How do I approach him with this info so he will feel open to express himself & not attacked?I(26F) have very few people to invite to wedding, fiance (M32) has huge potential invite list. Feeling a little sad and embarrassed, looking for advice/encouragement from those who've been in similar situations?I (35f) need there to be less topping. How do I do that without hurting or embarrassing him (40m)?What can I do about my(36M) partner(30F) who doesn't want to come to band practice with me?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sometimes you brainwash yourself into not wanting to sleep with your wife. You know, normal marriage things.We're hopping in these threads:Am I wrong for "Friend Zoning" my wife?My husband (32m) and I (34f) have been married for 8 years, and he made a callous remark in bed. What do you guys make of it?Is it weird to invite a male classmate at home for assignment? Me 28F BF 34MI (25f) am being expected to pay $150+ to attend my cousin's fiancé's (27f) bachelorette party. Should non bridal party guests be expected to pay this much?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Did you notice that I forgot to remove add a [Fun anecdote] last week and just left it in there because I was in a rush to upload the latest episode? Anyway we go through it all in this one. Friends getting scammed potentially, what information should be upfront when dating, poop alerts, and baby delivery woes. Come for the relationship advice and stay for the poop jokes!We're hopping in these threads:I (36M) am trying to talk my friend (30M) out of wasting $5000 of his $8000 savings on a social media mentor. How can I further explain that he's being scammed?I (f24) found out my bf (m30) actually “separated” and not divorced. I feel a little lied to, is that fair?My husband (38M) judges my (39F) cooking by telling me how he'll be pooping the next day. I've asked him to stop, but he doesn't see the big deal. Am I just being up tight?I F30 told my doctor I would sue him if he touched me and delivered our son on all fours and “embarrassed” my husband M32?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[Fun anecdote]We're hopping in these threads:I (F19) accidentally implied that my boyfriend (M19) is a loser. How can I fix this?Is my (28F) boyfriend (28M) addicted to porn?My (26f) best friend (23f) might be in love with my husband (26m). Where do I go from here?I (30F) discovered through therapy that I'm gay, how do I tell my fiancé (38M)?Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I promise to stop complaining about our cats one day.We're hopping in these threads:I'm (F27) starting to think my “best friend” (F27) doesn't like me very much.https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1auzxip/im_f27_starting_to_think_j_my_best_friend_f27/How do I (20F) build healthy communication with my partner (21M) and stop shutting down?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1av78tf/how_do_i_20f_build_healthy_communication_with_my/I (35F) just found out my bf (36M) slept with his step sisterhttps://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1atxto9/i_35f_just_found_out_my_bf_36m_slept_with_his/Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 I (24F) was worried I was being too mean to my boyfriend (27M). He says I'm keeping things interesting.https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1auvnn5/i_24f_was_worried_i_was_being_too_mean_to_my/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Happy Valentine's Day, we go deep in the episode and there's an interesting Dad theme.We're hopping in these threads:https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1agdb71/my_23f_boyfriend_25m_thinks_my_dads_59m_gifts_are/https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1agee6r/my_36f_husband_47m_says_its_inappropriate_to_wear/https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/19a0omr/my_29f_wife_has_lost_alot_of_weight_i_want_to31m/https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/187w18h/my_girlfriends_23f_dad_died_a_week_before_i_24m/Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey everyone! Just giving y'all an update on things. Mother Nature took out my Rodecaster Pro II's power adapter, and now I'm waiting for a replacement. Going to upload those videos for previous episode to give you something to look at while we fix things. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Good sweet all around cutie, Damian Haas joins us for today's episode. It runs the whole gamut! Grieving crushes, exes crawling back to you, terrible talk about your partner, and incels!How can I (F20) get over him (M21) (we never even dated)Months ago, my gf (36F) broke up with me (37M) after 14 years together, seemingly for someone else. Now, she's hinting at reuniting. How do I approach her about earning my trust back?I 26F broke up with my boyfriend 28M after I caught him referring to me as a "fuckdoll" and his plan to leave me if he meets someone better. He just called from his friend's number, said it was a "joke" and asked to forgive him. Is this forgivable?I've (23f) been dating him (23m) for three months and he hasn't even held hands with me. How do I break up with him nicely?Socials: Damian is @damianhaas, we are @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/OurRelationshipPodcastwithIfyandEmilyYouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLREeN0TXmNBZ1WD4musoboPi1jTHhPMAc&si=7uSzFEUY92RWtHu9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.