Rainy Days with Tabs

So, you probably checked the length of the episode and wanted to scroll past, but don't. In this episode, I join Samantha(the host of Being One Podcast) to discuss what every human being has experienced in their lifetime - insufficiency. We both discuss past and current insecurities that will make you feel less alone.   Connect with Tabs: https://instagram.com/rainydayswithtabspodcast?igshid=MzMyNGUyNmU2YQ==

Those are my trophies, when people in pain quote me. I live my life on purpose, you wouldn't believe the old me. And just like that - 50 episodes. In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha gives a recap of her last couple of months and shares a recent personal struggle. So grateful for your continuous support!   IG: Rainydayswithtabs Youtube: Rainydayswithtabspodcast

I'd love to say that I'm perfect...but, I'd just be lying. This is something I got to work on. What about you? RDWT introduces "Rainy Day Diaries". On each segment, host Tabitha give you a sneak peek into one of her diary entries (not really because she's grown, we journal now haha, but you get the point) and shares her most intimate thoughts regarding an unpopular subject so that you would know you're not alone. These episodes are meant to be short and sweet and will hopefully keep the conversation going.

Annndd its a wrap..sorta. What a year Rainy Day Fam! Despite the highs and lows, yet we are here. Happy New Year.

We all love a quick chit chat, so here is mine. In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha talks about her last 6 months, her confidence level and trusting God in the in between. 

I for one know that all love stories don't have a happy ending. However, for the first time, I learned that it was okay. RDWT introduces "Rainy Day Diaries". On each segment, host Tabitha gives you a sneak peek into one of her Diary entries (not really because she's grown, we journal now haha, but you get the point) and shares her most intimate thoughts regarding an unpopular subject so that you would know you're not alone. These episodes are meant to be short and sweet and will hopefully keep the conversation going.    

What fun is there after the relationship has ended, heartache has been caused and tears wiped away? NONE. Yet for some, the desire to comeback into your life still remains. In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha has a chat with her best friend Bianca regarding moments when their past did a boomerang.

Am I falling from the sky or falling in your hand? Is it a disguise or is it in your plan? Am I at the end or did I just begin? In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha explains her frustrations with waiting for things to happen in her life and how she is managing them.

And 6 more to go! Can you believe so much time has elapsed? Experiences had? Developments developed lol. In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha discusses what she has learned the last 6 months and her hopes for the remainder of the year!

Let's face it, most families are dysfunctional in some way. Whether we choose to accept it and heal from it is what will really make the difference. In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha is joined by her childhood friend Marvyns to discuss some of his family dysfunctions and what he has learned.

Everyone likes a game of 21 questions! But I'm not everyone so I did 20 (haha). In this episode of RDWT, Tabitha is accompanied by her friend Woodny and he puts her in the hot seat with 20 questions that you've probably always wanted to ask!

Everyone likes a game of 21 questions! But I'm not everyone so I did 20 (haha). In this episode of RDWT, Tabitha is accompanied by her friend Woodny and he puts her in the hot seat with 20 questions that you've probably always wanted to ask!

Whoo ! Whoo ! Rainy Days is back! But why'd it take so long? In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha explains where she has been mentally the past few months and how she overcame.

Annndd it's a wrap. What a year! Rainy Days Fam, this podcast would be nothing without you! Please enjoy a recap of my year as I ask myself interesting questions and lessons I have learned. Rainy days will be back towards the end of January 2022. Oh! and HAPPY NEW YEAR!

The holidays are typically regarded as a joyous time where families get along and spend quality time. However, that is not the case for everyone and the holidays end up being very sad for some. On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha explains why the holidays have been difficult for her and provides some tips on how she intends to turn that around.

For the first time, I don't have much to say haha. That's not the entire truth. However, I decided to keep this episode nice and sweet and have a little chit-chat! More importantly, thank you Rainy Days Family for listening and supporting the podcast!

Children... there are days when I don't want them, then there are days when I think they are the most precious beings in the world. Where do I stand today? Where I have always stood -- I don't want them anytime soon. In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha dives into her thoughts about having children and why others should be cautious not to enter into parenthood prematurely. 

This topic in itself is unsettling- haha you get it? This life and all of its challenges both great and small often have us believe we don't deserve the best that God has to offer, especially in a partner. In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha does a podcast collaboration with Wynika Williams, host of Queens Uplifting and Inspiring podcast to chat about ways they have settled and the revelations that have come after learning their worth!

The word anxiety comes from a Latin root that means to choke or to squeeze. And let's face it, those that struggle with anxiety feel just that - unable to breathe. In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha talks about her struggles with anxiety and her constant fight with "what if?". 

Time flies! One day you're hanging out with your high school friends, the next you're trying to figure out what college to attend. In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha is joined by her little cousin Stessy and they chat it up about Tabitha's college experiences, choosing the right friends and, making memories, and remaining true to yourself.

Have you been told that if you pray for patience, you'll be put through trials that test the patience you asked for? Yeah, me too. So of course, I went years without making the "ridiculous" request until....this month. In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha talks about how her perspective about praying for patience came about and why singleness is viewed as a lower status in society.

So you've cried it all out, prayed about it, now what? What are the steps that the bible character Job took when he was in distress? In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha talks through coping strategies that she applies when facing daily struggles - who knows, you might already use some of them!

At the end of every episode it is said "It doesn't rain always", but for some people, it's been raining for years. In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha briefly talks about her "rainy week" and the different activities she would do to get through those tough moments. 

Life is filled with up's and downs. While some lessons are learned, some lessons are still in the process. In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha mentions three lessons that she would share with a younger version of herself and they are quite interesting!

The vocabulary I didn't get out. In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha expresses her feelings towards the most recent loss of a friend. In an effort to cope, she "says everything" she didn't get to say and has some friends join in with her. Cue the waterworks!

Don't make me say it. Don't make me say it. UGH, okay. Forgiveness. Yeah, I know. But what happens when it's necessary? In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha has a candid conversation with a special guest, Shay Robertson about a forgiveness journey she had to walk through.

Salvation is personal, but there are times in our lives when we need other believers to lean on to help us push through. What happens when those same believers betray you? Who do you run to when the longing to be connected doesn't stop? In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha shares her most recent feelings regarding attending church and why she hasn't.

I am my toughest critic. Are you? Ever had a goal you wanted to achieve and have either not made any plans towards it or perhaps you have and it's not shaping out to be how you hoped? In this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha talks about her thoughts towards her podcast lately and how she's been dealing with complacency.

What is it like to be a father? In honor of this past fathers Day, my special guest Windy Pierre gives us a look into what it has been like being a first-time father He talks about the expectations, generational curses, and ideas that come along with fatherhood and how he is overcoming them.

The importance of friendship is often underrated. Having fellowship with others beyond your immediate family can and has proven to be beneficial. But, what happens when ties have to be severed or life transitions occur? In this episode of RDWT, Host Tabitha discusses her most recent feelings regarding her own friendships and the transitions that we all have to face.

Dating is complicated. However, when culture and race are in the mix, it can lead to even more complications. On the second episode of this two-part conversation, host Tabitha has an insightful conversation with Amelia Lyons on her personal dating experience and how culture and being black impact our dating experiences.

Dating is complicated. However, when culture and race are in the mix, it can lead to even more complications. On the first episode of of this two part conversation, host Tabitha has an insightful conversation with Amelia Lyons on her personal dating experience and how culture and being black impacts our dating experiences. 

CAUTION! Relaxation is loading. I don't know about you, but I like to relax. However, in the business of our everyday lives, relaxation needs to be planned in advance. But, don't worry. I got you covered. On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha walks you through a "guided mediation" that she uses to relax from a stressful day. 

Same story, different day. We plan to wake up on time. We plan to graduate with honors. We plan to have a certain income at 30. Etcetera, Etcetera, Etcetera. What happens when your plans don't follow through? On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha talks to a special guest: her best friend Bianca about the twists and turns that she had to endure, her mindset during that time and where she stands now.

Fear. How do we overcome it? Do you always recognize when you are being fearful? How should we deal with it? On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha has a quick conversation with Genecia about how to develop a better relationship with fear so that we can accomplish our goals.

What can you truly accomplish without your health? Health is truly wealth. On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha talks about her most recent health scare experience and how it has recently shaped her thoughts about her life.

Can I be my own person and still be in a relationship with you? Oftentimes, it's so easy to lose ourselves when we get in relationships because we're so bent on pleasing our partner.  On this episode of RDWT, Shania is back and she and Tabitha discuss the in's and out's of remaining true themselves while single and being in relationships.

We've all been there. Wanting to avoid failure can lead you to avoid trying. If you don’t try, you can’t fail, right? So your unconscious mind might present you with excuses and ways to sabotage yourself. On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha talks about a way in which she has been sabotaging herself and discusses her thoughts about it. 

TIMING people. Jeez, where's the grace? Why are we so quick to give our input when it is required but not desired? On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha recounts a mistake she made, the response she received, and how it made her feel.

There is a general idea that all college experiences are the same - fun. However, this conversation proves that it just ain't so. On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha reunites and talks to a special guest and friend Shania Robles. They both realize the similarities and differences between their college experiences and how it impacted their mental health.

Contentment, colloquially speaking, is a state of having accepted one's situation and is a milder and more tentative form of happiness. On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha discusses the in's and out's of finding contentment during life's many moments of uncertainty.

Episode 10! Who would've thought. Seems like a small number to celebrate but it's the small victories that mean so much. The times when you thought, I can't do it. Those "small" victories make you realize that you should've done it long ago! On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha talks about her experience of creating a podcast from scratch, daily struggles with it, and how she has overcome! Oh! She has a special guest too.

Warning: this episode is full of tears. Haha. Raise your hand if you have ever told yourself you weren’t enough? Raise your hand if you have ever doubted your potential to do great things? Okay, okay, I’ll stop, because my arms are tired too. On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha shares a personal struggle she has been dealing with for a long time - lessening herself with her words.

I be horny. Period. Can we talk about it? I mean, it's a feeling. RDWT introduces the first segment of "Rainy Day Diaries". On each segment, host Tabitha gives you a sneak peek into one of her Diary entries (not really because she's grown, we journal now haha, but you get the point) and shares her most intimate thoughts regarding an unpopular subject so that you would know you're not alone. These episodes are meant to be short and sweet and will hopefully keep the conversation going.

Leaders. Specifically church leaders. Why do we put them on a pedestal and expect them not to fall? Moreover, how can church leaders continue to do ministry and not feel conviction for their sins. On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha discusses her thoughts regarding the most recent scandal surrounding one of her favorite apologists/preachers and how she working through that disappointment. 

I'd rather not have my heart blown to pieces again. On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha dives into her most recent and prominent thoughts regarding dating/courtship. How she is managing those thoughts and trusting in God to get her through.

A life that's better than yours? No such thing. Comparing your life, body, situation - whatever it may be, diminishes the value in you. On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha talks about what she compares about herself against other women the most. It's honest and definitely relatable. 

Everyone addresses life's circumstances differently. For some, they feel like they dealt with it well, while others realized there is room for growth. On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha dives into her experience of having a family member with special needs. She discusses why it was difficult, and what emotions were involved.

In the famous words of Hannah Montana, "Everybody has those days". For some, it may seem like a never-ending cycle while others receive breaks! On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha talks about a rainy day when nothing was seeming to go right and the emotions involved.

Death has taught me that life is simple and happens quickly. On this episode of RDWT, host Tabitha talks about the loss of a loved one, why it is difficult, and what emotions are involved.

Weekly, Rainy Days With Tabs puts out an episode where the host Tabitha describes a life event (rainy day) that she had to endure and the emotions involved. There is an emphasis on the fact that no one has to be alone in all of life’s difficult moments. We as humans go through the same circumstances more than we can possibly imagine.