Podcasts about maladaptive

Hustle culture is more dangerous than you think. My guest on this episode of Marketing Sucks almost lost her life to the 24/7 grind… and walked away with some insights you NEED to hear. Ten years ago, Event & Brand Photographer and Burnout Coach Lyndsay Cormier was working multiple jobs and living on energy drinks when she experienced a terrifying burnout wake-up call that totally changed her life.Our conversation digs deep into the intense lessons Lyndsay learned, the ten-year healing journey that made her a bona fide overwhelm expert, and how you can reduce your risk of burning out. We also chat about her empathetic approach to brand photography and how she helps her clients get more comfortable about who they are so they can show up confidently.Marketing sucks. Let's learn together. Hit play to discover:‌ ‌Maladaptive coping mechanisms you want to avoid (and what to do instead)Lyndsay's 3 As for taking the right action in any situation, personal or professional   A simple exercise that'll help you get clarity on who you are, who you serve, and what makes you YOUPlease rate, review, and subscribe!Guest bio: As an Event and Brand Photographer, Lyndsay Cormier has worked weddings and events for the last decade, and in the last three years has focused on businesses and brands to bring their vision to life through imagery while supporting them through the process. As a Coach, she works with clients on preventing and overcoming burnout and renewing their energy and motivation professionally and personally. Timestamps:‌ ‌00:11  Meet Lyndsay Cormier04:54  Pivoting to brand photography10:07  See it, feel it, be it13:59  Lean into YOU16:52  Lyndsay's burnout story20:10  Burnout lessons22:08  Coping mechanisms23:13  Boundaries29:40  Rest 30:46  Your action item33:00  OutroLinks mentioned:‌ ‌Lyndsay Cormieroffcenterphotography.mypixieset.com Instagram: @offcenterphotography, @lc.cormier—

Most parenting advice creates broken adults. Society pressures us to raise "convenient" children, but this approach severely damages their emotional development and mental health. Children deserve to be emotional, needy, and sometimes chaotic as they navigate a confusing world with underdeveloped coping skills. When we force them to suppress these natural tendencies, we create adults who struggle with self-worth and emotional connection. In this video, I break down four destructive expectations society places on children and reveal how these create maladaptive behaviors. Whether you're a parent or healing from your own childhood wounds, this information will help you understand and overcome these damaging patterns. Get my ⁠5-day guide to reclaiming your time and energy despite mental health struggles⁠. Get Practical tools for navigating life with depression and anxiety, delivered weekly⁠⁠⁠. ⁠3 Unique ways to work with me⁠ ⁠⁠Mood Bloom games for depression and anxiety⁠⁠ (I have partnered with this brand) ⁠Dramatically improve your sleep in 2 steps⁠⁠ with my new Sleep Workbook. ⁠⁠⁠My book: For When Everything is Burning⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Connect with me on TikTok⁠ ⁠Connect on Instagram⁠⁠ Disclaimer: This content is not intended to be a replacement for receiving treatment. It is purely educational in nature. My relationship with you is that of presenter and audience, not therapist and client. But I do care.

Many people daydream, and this is an entirely normal part of life. However, when daydreaming is taken to the extreme and creates psychological distress or impairs functioning, it can be considered maladaptive and may require intervention. Trauma causes many issues for survivors, whether the trauma was sustained in one event or many events over many years. Cult survivors exhibit symptoms of trauma ranging from PTSD and trust issues to guilt and shame. Some trauma symptoms develop because of the defense mechanisms our minds employ to save us from the trauma. The DSM-V-TR lists brainwashing and cult coercive persuasion as a dissociative disorder. As an expert on dissociation and hypnosis, I wanted to learn from Eli Somer, Ph.D., professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Haifa School of Social Work. Professor Somer's interests have led him to research trauma and its effects. One effect of trauma can be dissociation, a psychological process in which a person disconnects from their thoughts, feelings, memories, or sense of identity, often as a response to trauma or stress. Professor Somer coined the term maladaptive daydreaming, a dissociative disorder characterized by excessive, immersive daydreaming that disrupts daily functioning and serves as an escape from reality. There are many other fascinating topics we cover including use of psychedelics, false memories, and non use of hypnosis. Come join us! Learn more about Steven Hassan and Freedom of Mind Resource Center. Visit freedomofmind.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What makes communicating effectively such a critical skill in today's world?On this episode, I dive into the fascinating world of communication with Amy Kean, a psychosociologist, educator, and the founder of Good Shout, a company redefining how we teach and communicate. Amy brings her unique blend of humour, honesty, and sharp insights to a conversation that will leave you thinking differently about how you connect with others.We explore Amy's journey from advertising to launching a learning and development company focused on experimentation and creativity. She explains why she believes education and workplace communication are fundamentally flawed and shares practical ways to fix them. From seven types of listening to giving constructive feedback, Amy's approach is both revolutionary and refreshingly human. We also tackle societal trends, such as the “worshipped entrepreneur” and the dangers of pathologising creativity. Amy's perspective on embracing imperfection and finding joy in experimentation is as inspiring as it is thought-provoking. This episode will make you laugh, reflect, and rethink your own communication habits. Guest BiographyAmy Kean is a psychosociologist, educator, and the founder of Good Shout, a learning and development company that challenges traditional approaches to training and communication. Known for her sharp wit and unapologetic honesty, Amy combines humour with actionable insights to help people communicate more effectively.A former advertising professional, she has a deep understanding of human behavior and uses her sociological expertise to teach skills like public speaking, feedback, and creative articulation. Beyond her work with Good Shout, Amy is also an author and poet. Her poetry collection House of Weeds reimagines weeds as metaphorical human traits, showcasing her ability to find beauty and meaning in the overlooked. Amy is a regular speaker at conferences, including TEDx, and her work continues to inspire individuals and organizations to embrace experimentation and imperfection. AI-Generated Timestamped Summary of Key Points[00:00:00] Introduction to the episode and Amy Kean's background. [00:01:00] Amy's journey from advertising to founding Good Shout. [00:03:00] Why education and workplace communication systems are fundamentally flawed. [00:06:00] The seven types of listening and their everyday impact. [00:09:00] Good Shout's unique, experimental approach to training and feedback. [00:13:00] The societal consequences of poor communication and the rise of “people-pleasing.” [00:19:00] Amy's social media presence and her critiques of societal trends. [00:23:00] Discussion on the “worshipped entrepreneur” and BrewDog's controversies. [00:35:00] The importance of feeling heard and Amy's advocacy for public speaking in schools. [00:45:00] Exploring creativity through Amy's poetry and the metaphor of weeds. [00:51:00] The dangers of pathologising daydreaming and the value of imagination. [00:57:00] Amy's TEDx talk on the sociology of normality and the concept of weirdness. Relevant Links Amy on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amycharlottekean Amy on Twitter/X: https://x.com/keano81 The Good Shout: https://goodshoutcommunity.com/ Creative Schools, the book by Ken Robinson (https://www.sirkenrobinson.com/creative-schools-the-grassroots-revolution-thats-transforming-education/) The one-sentence book called Herscht 07769: https://www.ndbooks.com/book/herscht-07769/] Amy's book of poetry called House of Weeds:  https://www.flyonthewallpress.co.uk/post/introducing-house-of-weeds-by-amy-kean-and-jack-wallington Jack Wallington's Book https://www.laurenceking.com/products/wild-about-weeds BrewDog and the Qatar World Cup controversy: https://www.cityam.com/qatar-world-cup-brewdog-will-give-profits-to-human-rights-groups-but-will-show-tournament/ Alastair Green's parody of Brewdog: https://youtu.be/-wP3BjTdogY?si=j_ejfj1EiaRZJWCi Philosopher Alain de Botton's philosophy and writings: Website Amy's talk at TEDx Shoreditch, ‘Gravitas is a Work of Fiction': https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKistHI6AMA

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Maladaptive stress responses can impair your body's ability to detox. Your nervous system has a major impact on your capacity for self-healing and detoxification.  In this episode, Alex Howard dives into the impact of stress on your body's detox capacity. He sheds light on the cell danger response and its influence on our ability to detox effectively. This isn't your typical detox advice – it's a holistic approach that could change everything for you. Listen now and start to detox once and for all! For show notes, visit https://www.fivejourneys.com/podcast/  Follow us on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/feelfreakingamazing/  Related Episodes De-Stress Using Yoga and Meditation, with Dr. Marianela Lavena Heal the Gut-Brain Connection, with Dr. Will Cole Achieve Optimal Mental Health, with Dr. Miles Nichols Beyond Serotonin: Debunking SSRIs for Depression and Mental Health, with Dr. Miles Nichols Manage Stress and Become Resilient, with Dr. Stephen Sideroff Start Your Day Stress-Free, with Dr. Stephen Sideroff How Stress Wreaks Havoc on Your Thyroid (And What You Can Do About It), with Dr. Bindiya Gandhi Show Notes The body's mitochondria shift their focus to danger signaling in the presence of threats, which is a possible cause of why no healing interventions seem to be working. It's not just about meditation and mindfulness; it's about recognizing, examining, stopping, dealing with emotions, and transforming your relationship with yourself and the world.  Chronic Stress and Detox Chronic stress can hinder the body's detoxification processes, leading to fatigue and other chronic conditions. Understanding how stress impacts detox can help you identify areas for improvement in your health and well-being. Addressing chronic stress is essential for optimizing your body's detox capacity and overall health. Mitochondria and Stress Management The body's mitochondria play a crucial role in energy production but also have a major role to play in danger signaling under stress, affecting the detox processes. Managing stress effectively can help improve and maintain the mitochondria's optimal function for detoxification. Strategies for Natural Detoxification Developing awareness of triggers and actively addressing patterns can enhance your body's ability to naturally detoxify. Meditation, mindfulness, and emotional trauma work are powerful tools for calming the nervous system and supporting detox processes. Implementing accessible resources like Tai Chi and Qigong can aid in self-regulation to improve your detox capacity and emotional well-being. Listen now and start to detox once and for all! Guest Bio Alex Howard is CEO of the Alex Howard Group, an international group of organisations which includes leading clinic The Optimum Health Clinic, online learning platform Conscious Life, online coaching program the RESET Program, and professional training programs Therapeutic Coaching and Therapeutic Nutrition. Alex is passionate about making physical and emotional healing accessible to everyone, and in the last few years, his Super Conference series has been attended by over 1 million people. Since March 2020, Alex has also been documenting his therapeutic work with real-life patients via his In Therapy with Alex Howard YouTube series. Links https://www.alexhoward.com/  Related Episodes De-Stress Using Yoga and Meditation, with Dr. Marianela Lavena Heal the Gut-Brain Connection, with Dr. Will Cole Achieve Optimal Mental Health, with Dr. Miles Nichols Beyond Serotonin: Debunking SSRIs for Depression and Mental Health, with Dr. Miles Nichols Manage Stress and Become Resilient, with Dr. Stephen Sideroff Start Your Day Stress-Free, with Dr. Stephen Sideroff How Stress Wreaks Havoc on Your Thyroid (And What You Can Do About It), with Dr. Bindiya Gandhi

Can saying "no" actually strengthen your relationships? Explore this intriguing possibility in this solo episode of the Do Good to Lead Well podcast. Drawing from William Ury's enlightening book, "The Power of a Positive No," we uncover the hidden power behind the word "no" and navigate the common, maladaptive responses it elicits—accommodation, attacking, and avoiding.  Using this book as our compass, we'll discuss Ury's powerful and practical three-step approach to saying a positive no. Using real-life examples from my executive coaching practice, you'll learn the significance of acknowledging requests, sharing constraints, and inviting collaborative problem-solving.  Join me in this insightful journey to enhance your communication skills and build stronger relationships in your personal and professional life. What You'll Learn: • Why saying no is so hard for us. • Maladaptive responses we use instead of “No.” • What is a Positive No? • The role of collaboration in a positive no. • A Positive No in action using real-life examples Podcast Timestamps: (00:00) - The Importance of Setting and Enforcing Boundaries (04:53) – The Maladaptive Things We Do Instead of Saying No (11:07) – What is a Positive No? A 3-Step Process (15:15) – A Positive No In Action Using Real-life Examples Key Topics Discussed: Positive Leadership, Setting Boundaries, Saying No, Managing Relationships, Achieving Harmony, Positive Interactions, Mastering Conflict Resolution, Effective Communication, Navigating Disagreement, Align Priorities, Clarify Expectations, CEO Success More of Do Good to Lead Well: Website: https://craigdowden.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigdowden/

Daydreaming can be a perfectly normal part of life - zoning out in the shower, before we fall asleep, on the train to work. But some of us cross over into dangerous territory or what we call maladaptive daydreaming where we can't pull ourselves away from the fantasy. We feel disconnected and it makes our real life feel so much less bright and enjoyable. It can cause us a lot of distress and distraction. Why is that? And why can't we stop ourselves? In today's episode, we break down:  What makes daydreaming 'maladaptive' or 'excessive'  What are the signs + the 16 item scale for maladaptive daydreaming The impact on our emotional health  Maladaptive daydreaming and creativity  Maladaptive daydreaming, trauma, anxiety and OCD  Is daydreaming a form of escapism? How to turn daydreaming into intentional visualisation  Thank you to our listeners who contributed their perspective. Happy listening!  The 16 item scale here: https://traumadissociation.com/mds  The Reddit help group: https://www.reddit.com/r/MaladaptiveDreaming/  Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com       See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this special episode, Sam Ashoo MD and Rob Orman MD discuss the concept of Maladaptive Perfectionism and its application to emergency medicine.Understanding Maladaptive PerfectionismCase Example and DiscussionAdaptive vs Maladaptive PerfectionismPersonal Experiences and Legal ChallengesDealing with Negative OutcomesStrategies for Managing Perfectionism in the EDHandling Overwhelming ShiftsManaging Expectations in the EDA Soul-Crushing Day in the EDFinding Meaning in Moments of CrisisThe Importance of Meaningful WorkOperationalizing Meaning in Your ShiftThe Driveway Debrief: Transitioning from Work to HomePreparing for the Next ShiftConclusion and Next Episode TeaserFor more from Rob Orman, MD check out Orman Physician Coaching

In the world of combat sports, optimizing performance extends beyond physical training and nutrition—sleep plays a critical role. Maladaptive sleep behaviors, such as inconsistent sleep schedules and inadequate sleep duration, can significantly impair an athlete's performance by reducing cognitive function, reaction time, and recovery ability. Understanding these impacts is crucial for athletes and coaches seeking to enhance performance through more effective sleep strategies. One of the key challenges combat sports athletes face is managing the effects of shift work and irregular event timings, which often conflict with typical training schedules. What are some strategies to mitigate these challenges, such as adjusting sleep schedules in advance? And what are the implications of jet lag for athletes traveling to major competitions? While technology offers valuable tools for tracking sleep, there are potential drawbacks, including reliance on inaccurate data or the psychological effects of constant monitoring. By educating athletes and coaches on best practices for sleep, they can make informed adjustments to training regimens, ultimately enhancing overall performance. In this episode, sleep scientist Dr. Ian Dunican discusses his work related to understanding and improving sleep behaviors in combat sports athletes. Timestamps: 01:43 Introduction to the Episode 04:38 Discussion on Recent Research Paper 09:52 Sleep Behaviors in Athletes 13:11 Questionnaire and Study Findings 20:38 Common Sleep Disorders in Athletes 33:23 Impact of Training Schedules on Sleep 34:25 Practical Tips for Better Sleep 41:17 Phases of Training and Their Importance 42:31 Understanding Chronotypes and Sleep Habits 45:19 Wearable Devices and Sleep Tracking 53:05 Practical Advice for Coaches and Athletes 59:03 Travel, Jet Lag, and Sleep for Athletes Links: Enroll in the next cohort of our Applied Nutrition Literacy course Go to episode page (with links to studies in this episode) Learn more about Sigma Nutrition Subscribe to Premium

IHP YouTube video podcast episode made available to our other IHP podcast platforms. IHP content is for people who are interested in topics, stories, & guidance for personal development, self-help, spirituality journey, the 5D mystic path, & enlightenment the human way. It's for those who choose the human love narrative, not the human suffering narrative. Don't tune in if you don't love life and humanity because this won't be for you. Don't tune in if you still believe in evil or the devil. Topic not ideal for ego-sensitive or emotionally sensitive (on any/all life - including socio-pol-eco - topics) people. Please do not tune in. Thank you! All IHP content resonates with people who want to achieve enlightenment the human way. IHP podcast host Maria Florio shares voices, stories and perspectives from her 5D mystic enlightenment functional adult life to give examples of what it's like to know emotional self-regulation skills, experience secure attachment, have functional adult conversations and experience 5D relationships (5D and beyond vibing people). You hear about how easy it is to be yourself, to pursue inner growth, to unconditionally love, to have compassion, and live your best life with outer and inner-well being in the forefront. Also explored, how to communicate and handle emotionally insecure adaptive children grown ups, the 3D or 4D vibing individuals, those who stay within insecure emotional human suffering vibration experience and mindset, or who hold drama as the go-to in relationships, or use projection due to unresolved and unaddressed trauma, attachment wounds, and inner child wounds that come up in their behavior. Since trauma is relational and intimacy necessary to heal it, through Maria's stories and perspectives people get an idea of securely attached options on how to handle projection to the best of your ability and create a safe environment for another person to heal or for you to set a healthy boundary if the person bringing the projection (3D/4D drama vibe) is not seeking to move beyond their safety behavior/unresolved trauma emotional response. All of what we do in our day-to-day relationships, conversations, and interactions can bring the potential for healing and expansion of consciousness. The content is for people who are or want to be self-aware, accountable & want to establish functional adult secure attachment emotionally mature behaviors & relationships in life. Your humanity is living a life of meaning & connection beyond the solo-self, as is the true spirituality life. We welcome all people of all walks of life to reclaim their inner child & live their inner child adult, to pursue integration of the brain & restorative embodied self-aware life in time & through healthy self-worth functional adult secure attachment 5D relationships. IHP podcast host Maria Florio shares voices, stories & perspectives from her 5D mystic enlightenment functional adult life to give examples of what it's like to know emotional self-regulation skills, experience secure attachment, have functional adult conversations & experiences & 5D relationships. This and more is what the IHP content and community is all about. Welcome and thanks for tuning in! Love, Maria, your 5D mystic enlightenment functional adult woo-woo pseudoscience lady IHP podcast host talking about the amazing journey of human evolution & consciousness♾️

Dr. Elliot Kaminetzky is a child and adolescent psychologist specializing in parenting based interventions for child anxiety, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, and behavioral challenges. He received his PhD at Hofstra University. Dr. Kaminetzky is the founder and clinical director of My OCD Care and The Center for Child Behavioral Health. Dr. Kaminetzky has publicly spoken out against unethical practices in the area of pediatric gender medicine and the silencing of concerned medical and mental health professionals. Recognizing the challenges parents face in parenting children with gender related concerns, Dr. Kaminetzky founded Serenity Parent Consulting to provide parents with accurate information, useful resources, and emotional support.Together, we delve into the intriguing world of identity-based OCD. We explore the fears and obsessions associated with OCD, from concerns about being in the wrong body to the fear of living inauthentically. But what if these fears are not just about identity but also about the fear of being ordinary? How do these fears manifest in transgender-identifying young people, and what role does societal influence play in shaping their identities?We uncover the complexities of OCD, from intrusive thoughts to compulsive behaviors, and how they can impact one's sense of self. How do individuals with OCD navigate the fine line between seeking reassurance and finding inner validation? And what happens when therapy becomes a battleground for seeking external validation versus trusting one's own judgment?Join us as we unravel the layers of identity-based OCD, exploring the nuances of authenticity, societal constructs, and the quest for certainty in a world filled with uncertainties. Tune in to discover how individuals grapple with their fears, seeking validation from external sources while yearning for inner peace and self-acceptance.All books mentioned on this podcast can be found at sometherapist.com/bookshop 00:00 Start[00:00:22] Identity-based themes in OCD.[00:04:41] Trauma and public shaming.[00:10:28] Therapists' differing beliefs.[00:15:18] Fear of ordinariness.[00:18:48] Identity and societal expectations.[00:22:45] Identity-based OCD.[00:28:26] Fear of being ordinary.[00:30:34] Fear of being ordinary.[00:37:21] Maladaptive beliefs about identity.[00:38:50] Fluidity of Male Sexuality.[00:44:19] Intrusive thoughts and OCD.[00:49:43] Mild OCD in therapy.[00:51:38] OCD therapy techniques.[00:56:03] Pain reprocessing therapy and acceptance.[00:59:57] Finding your life's mission.[01:05:21] Exposure therapy in podcasting.[01:09:17] Gender-related OCD.[01:12:24] Gender identity and mental health.[01:17:22] Cultural changes regarding suicide.[01:19:44] Gender crisis.ROGD REPAIR Course + Community for Parents is available now! Join at ROGDrepair.com and start using the tools immediately. Use code SOMETHERAPIST2024 to take 50% off your first month.TALK TO ME: book a discovery call.LOCALS: Ask questions of me & guests; get early access to new episodes + exclusive content. Join my community.SUPPORT THE SHOW: subscribe, like, comment, & share or donate.COZYEARTH: Visit CozyEarth.com/sometherapist and use code SOMETHERAPIST for 40% off their selection of bedding, towels, skincare and other cozy home items.PRODUCTION: Looking for your own podcast producer? Visit PodsByNick.com and mention my podcast for 20% off your initial services.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration. SHOW NOTES & transcript with help from SwellAI.MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission. To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel. Or recommend this to a friend!Learn more about Do No Harm.Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com.Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi.Check out my shop for book recommendations + wellness products.Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI.Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? Join my Locals community! Members get to ask questions I will respond to in exclusive, members-only livestreams, post questions for upcoming guests to answer, plus other perks TBD. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

Daniel J. Fox, PhD, leader of the Taking Charge of Borderline Personality Disorder Online Course, shares how to manage extreme, maladaptive borderline personality disorder. Daniel is a licensed psychologist in Texas, international speaker, and award-winning author. He has been specializing in the treatment and assessment of individuals with personality disorders for more than twenty years in the state and federal prison system, universities, and in private practice. His specialty areas include personality disorders, ethics, burnout prevention, and emotional intelligence. He has published several articles in these areas, and is author of The Borderline Personality Disorder Workbook and The Clinician's Guide to Diagnosis and Treatment of Personality Disorders; along with the award-winning The Narcissistic Personality Disorder Toolbox; and the award-winning Antisocial, Borderline, Narcissistic and Histrionic Workbook.  Check out the Quick Tip Here: https://www.newharbinger.com/blog/quick-tips-therapists/managing-extreme-maladaptive-borderline-personality-disorder-content/   Buy the Course: https://www.bpdcourse.com   If you have ideas for future episodes, thoughts, or questions, we'd love to hear from you! Send us an email at podcast@newharbinger.com 

A conversation about what it means to be emotionally regulated or dysregulated, with five quick ideas for parents to help their children regulate well. In this episode: What are emotions? Maladaptive responses Etymology of 'emotion' French: to excite Latin: to move Emotional regulation: The ability to control your emotional state.  Emotional dysregulation: When your emotions are stronger than your ability to act with autonomy.  Amygdala triggers survival/fight/flight mode Spanish: Tengo hambre (I have hunger) Developmental realities Creating a safe and predictable environment Brené Brown on emotions #822 The Emotional Lives of Teenagers (Part 1) Homeschooling  . Related links:  The Secret to Regulating Emotions Emotion Coaching [ Webinar - if you are a HF member you can find this in your video library] . Doors are now open to the Happy Families Membership  NEW weekly kids' ‘Print & Play' subscription FELT Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every Tuesday Dr Justin answers listener questions about making your family happier! Today we have questions about sibling friendships/conflict, and helping children learn emotional regulation. Question 1: What can parents do to make their children best friends, and how can sibling conflict/rivalry be eliminated?  Question 2: How can we control our 11 year old son's emotions so that he doesn't get bullied or teased due to his consistent crying at school when things don't go his way? In this episode: Conflict in every relationship is normal Rupture and repair Four main characteristics of sibling relationships How can we get our kids to like one another? The 3 Es of Effective Discipline (Explore, Explain, Empower) Emotional Regulation Emotional responses are closely related to neurobiological maturation Gender differences in expression of emotions Externalised vs internalised emotions Emotion-focused coping vs problem-focused coping Maladaptive strategies Giving up, Withdrawal, Rumination, Self-devaluation, Aggressive actions Adaptive strategies: Problem solving, Distraction, Forgetting, Acceptance, Humour enhancement, Cognitive problem solving, Revaluation How to help your child  Making emotions 'King' #822 The Emotional Lives of Teenagers (Part 1) #827 The Emotional Lives of Teenagers (Part 2) The Secret to Regulating Emotions . Related links:  10 Steps to Reducing Sibling Conflict Emotion Coaching [ Webinar - if you are a HF member you can find this in your video library] Teaching Kids Kindness [ Webinar] . Brand new Happy Families membership is NOW OPEN and on sale for 3 days! Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Can attachment wounds happen in the womb? What is reactive attachment disorder? Does attachment start in the womb? Can reactive attachment disorder start in the womb? What attachment style do most narcissists have?

How have we ended up in a meaning crisis and what are the symptoms? Why is embodiment important to knowing? Why is an ecology of practices part of the solution? Today we have the growing issue of The Meaning Crisis to discuss, and the embodied practices that could offer a few solutions. This conversation is a part 2, following directly on from Episode #51, where John and I talked about Collective intelligence, and how the evolution of distributed cognition has led to homo-sapiens being such effective collaborators. It was so fascinating that we didn't have time to connect the sheer power of our collective intelligence, to today's discussion about what John has dubbed The Meaning Crisis. We come back to the importance of our propensity for self-transcendence, and the correspondent risk of self-delusion; how important a sense of the sacred is to our sense of meaning in life, to our mental health; then we zoom in on the importance of a range of embodied practices that John calls an ecology of practices, like Chi Gong, circling, flow states and meditation to re-discover lost forms of knowledge and embodied cognition that John thinks can bring us back from the brink of self delusion and self destruction. There is of course only one polymath who can speak about so many things and connect them all, like a ninja of the mind as one listener called him, the Cognitive scientist and philosopher John Vervaeke. Vervaeke is the director of the university of Toronto's Consciousness and Wisdom Studies Laboratory and its Cognitive Science program, where he teaches an Introduction to Cognitive Science and The Cognitive Science of Consciousness. Vervaeke has taught courses on Buddhism and Cognitive Science in the Buddhism, Psychology, and Mental Health programs for 15 years. He is also the author and presenter of his much loved YouTube series “Awakening from the Meaning Crisis” and ‘After Socrates.' What we discuss: 00:00 Intro 06:15 Self-transcendence VS self-delusion. 07:45 The ‘frame' problem, the need to ignore many things to attend to the ‘salient' ones. 12:30 The history of meaning in the west. 17:00 The history of religion and philosophy: connectedness across generations. 20:00 Pre-agricultural sacred practices and rituals. 22:30 The upper palaeolithic transition - the artistic, technical, and symbolic. 24:30 The axial revolution - numeracy, literacy and democracy. 27:30 The ‘2 world' mythology revolution - the natural and supernatural. 29:30 The scientific revolution - the collapse of the 2 world mythology. 31:20 The impossible promise of scientism. 38:00 The difference between wisdom and knowledge. 43:00 Participatory knowledge - graspable, shapable knowledge. 45:00 Gnosis - embodied knowledge. 49:30 The importance of the sacred to meaning. 54:00 Maladaptive replacement of religion with consumerism. 57:45 A relationship with the transcendent. 59:00 Becoming mature is about facing reality. 01:01:00 Loss of epistemic humility. 01:04:00 Loss of wonder 01:05:00 Humility + Wonder = reverence. 01:06:09 The disappearing of traditional men's roles. 01:17:30 The changing of women's roles. 01:23:50 Direct embodied experience 01:26:00 An ecology of practices - there is no single panacea practice 01:30:20 Dialogical over monological reasoning - we don't become wise in isolation. 01:33:40 Flow States and the lowering of the ego mind. 01:38:00 Circling: Listening as an intentional action 01:41:30 Meditation helps break mental frames. 01:46:40 The lowering of the Default Mode Network 01:50:20 Tai Chi and Qigong.  01:53:45 ‘Transjective' embodiment References: John Vervaeke, “Awakening from the meaning crisis”, You Tube lecture series. Karl Jaspers - Bronze Age collapse to Axial revolution, 1949 article Godel's Incompleteness Theorems Elisabeth Oldfield - ‘The Sacred' podcast. ‘Soul Heal' film, Jose Enrique Pardo, with James Hollis, a film about healing the issues of men Flow states The Circling Institute

Very few of us ever receive an education on coping. We are taught bad things happen, we are taught pointless math equations, we are taught to grin and bear it, but not effective psychological ways of integrating stressful, painful, frustrating experiences. In this episode, we break down the psychology of coping mechanisms, including:  Problem focused vs. emotion focused coping Maladaptive vs. adaptive coping  Our most common defence mechanisms  How to stop numbing ourselves to our experiences  How to consciously deal with hard things in life  Our coping statements  Freud, Carl Jung and many more  Listen now for a comprehensive deep dive into coping in your 20s and beyond.  Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast  For business enquiries: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Hello and welcome to the episode! Today's episode is a general discussion of Maladaptive Daydreaming, a commonly used internet-psychology term that doesn't have a real clinical definition as of the recording of this episode. Keep in mind as always that these episodes (and quizzes) are for entertainment only and I am a mere college student with no expertise in medicine, psychology, or even sleep science - just experience with lucid dreaming! Here are the relevant links for this episode: Study 1, Study 2, Maladaptive Daydreaming Questionaire, Dissociative Disorder Questionaire. Have fun with these!! Listen in, and Dream On! Social Media: Instagram - @dream_on_podcast Send a voice message at our Spotify Podcast Page When sending a voice message, please include: How much of your information you want heard in the episode (name, country, et cetera) and your personal pronouns (such as "she," "he," "they," and so on). These can be in separate messages! Join our Discord and connect with fellow listeners - claim a role so you don't get kicked off the server! Don't forget to subscribe to the Dream On YouTube Channel! Support me on Patreon at Patreon.com/dreamonpodcast for exclusive episodes, writings, and more! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dream-on/message

When does daydreaming become a problem, and does it impact women more? We break down maladaptive daydreaming.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jamie sits down with Dr. John McMaine with South Dakota State University Extension to talk about the importance of listening when solving problems in water management. Learn how both urban and rural water management issues are intertwined, why it really is all about relationships, and don't miss the Water Table's first rap about agricultural water management. This episode has it all!Chapters & Episode Topics:00:00   Today on the Water Table Podcast00:24   Welcome Dr. John McMaine01:12   All about the journey01:50   Applying knowledge through extension03:30   Back to Kentucky04:20   Urban practices to an agricultural setting05:41   Wood chip bioreactor vs. bioretention cell07:00   It's all about community08:50   The takeaways10:35   The perceived issue vs. the actual issue12:00   Another podcast – Streamlines16:00   Kentucky basketball17:30   Let's collaborate19:00   Maladaptive vs. adaptive20:30   Opportunities for solutions21:40   Fun fact: Dr. McMaine rapsRelated Content: Episode #77: Transforming Drainage with Dr. Jane FrankenbergerSDSU ExtensionStreamlines PodcastTransforming Drainage ProjectConservation Drainage NetworkFind us on social media! Facebook Twitter InstagramListen on these Podcast Platforms:Apple Podcasts Spotify Visit our website to explore more episodes & water management education

Crying over Biebs? You're not alone. There Louise was. Standing in a cute little organic supermarket when it happened. Justin and Hailey Bieber announced that they were having a BABY! Her reaction? Silence and a weird smidge of… something? Had that feeling too? You're not alone. That's the story of how this episode was born. Pun intended! From dreaming of running into your favorite star on the street to feeling personally offended when they're criticized, the allure of celebrity culture can be downright intoxicating. But why do we feel this intense connection to people we've never even met? And how does it affect us on a deeper level? AND HOW CAN WE REALLY BE UPSET WHEN SOMEONE WE HAVE NEVER MET ANNOUNCES THEY ARE HAVING A BABY WITH A WOMAN WHO IS NOT YOU? In today's episode, Louise sits down to investigate the psychological and emotional aspects of celebrity worship and parasocial relationships. In this episode, Louise dives into: The slightly odd but hilarious reactions she and her friends had to the Beiber pregnancy announcement. The psychology behind celebrity worship and the three levels of parasocial relationships. Why the Selena v. Hailey/ Damon v. Stefan debates get us in a chokehold. Why criticism of our favorite fandoms and idols evokes visceral reactions (looking at you, Swifties). The delulu belief that we can "fix" or help celebrities like Justin Bieber. Maladaptive daydreaming and escapism associated with celebrity fascination. Themes of the sheer relentlessness of life, self-worth, and attachment styles. And more! ----- Ready to learn how to level up your life via your nervous system and subconscious mind in just 9 weeks? ⭐Join the There She Glows Waitlist⭐: https://www.thisisopenhouse.com/how-to-rewire-your-subconscious-mind  Join OPENHOUSE PREMIUM now at: https://openhouse.supercast.com/ Connect with Louise on Instagram: @iamlouiserumball Follow Louise (The Therapy Girl) on TikTok: @thetherapygirl__ Connect with OPENHOUSE on Instagram: @theopenhousepodcast Vibe With Me by Joakim Karud http://soundcloud.com/joakimkarud Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/-7YDBIGCXs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Michaela Boehm answers questions in a recent live workshop about trauma, how to heal maladaptive coping, curating relaxation, and establishing boundaries. 00:00 - What is trauma? 04:00 - The pain of maladaptive coping 06:04 - How to heal what's underneath 08:00 - Curating relaxation 10:32 - Establishing boundaries in relationships Buy Michaela's Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi' by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Should you support your teen in college if he's still using? Or let your daughter go to prom when she's still breaking curfew?You want to support your teen in healthy behaviors but how do you go about that when they're still showing maladaptive behaviors? You don't want to take away activities that have a positive, healthy impact on your teen but at the same time don't want to ‘reward' them while they're still breaking your home agreement, right?In this episode, Seth and I discuss how you can reinforce a boundary that is a natural consequence of the maladaptive behavior instead of taking away something that's actually beneficial to your struggling teen. Let's dive in!In this episode on supporting your struggling teen in healthy endeavors while they still have maladaptive behaviors, we discuss:How can you support your teen in healthy endeavors when they're still showing maladaptive behavior like using substances, skipping school, or breaking curfew?;Reinforcing a boundary that is a natural consequence regarding the unhealthy behavior;Following through on our boundaries without emotionally consequencing;And more!Need support?

Managing your stress effectively and building resilience just got easier with Dr. Aditi Nerurkar's guidance on The Human Upgrade. This episode tackles 'toxic resilience,' revealing its impacts on health and well-being. You'll gain insights into the HPA axis—the body's command center for stress response—and learn practical techniques to turn stress into a growth tool. Dr. Aditi introduces the 'Rule of Two,' a simple yet powerful approach to adapting to stress and shows how neuroplasticity can retrain your brain for better stress management. You'll also discover tips for setting digital boundaries, fostering gratitude, managing a full email inbox, and understanding the connections between stress management and longevity. It's all about taking actionable steps toward a more resilient, empowered life.Timestamp Highlights:(00:01:21) - The Pressures of the Pandemic and the Surge in Stress (00:02:08) - Introducing Dr. Aditi Nerurkar and Her Journey Through Burnout (00:05:06) - The Concept of 'Toxic Resilience' and Sustainable Stress Management (00:10:16) - The Physiological Responses to Stress and the HPA Axis (00:12:12) - Transforming Stress from Maladaptive to Adaptive (00:17:16) - The Importance of Understanding Personal Stress Thresholds (00:21:06) - Empowering Change and Managing Internal Alerts (00:25:15) - The 'Rule of Two' in Stress Adaptation (00:32:21) - The Role of Neuroplasticity in Resilience (00:37:13) - Combining Conventional Medicine with Stress Management Techniques (00:39:29) - How Dr. Nerurkar Achieves an 'Inbox Zero' Lifestyle (00:40:59) - The Connection Between Stress Management and Longevity Sponsors Pendulum | Get 20% off membership at https://pendulumlife.com with code Asprey20 Timeline Nutrition | Go to https://www.timeline.com/dave and get 10% off your first order. Resources Get your copy of ‘The 5 Resets' by Dr. Aditi Nerurkar Follow Dr. Aditi on Instagram: @draditinerurkar Dave Asprey's Book ‘Smarter Not Harder' is out now: https://daveasprey.com/books Follow Dave on Instagram: @Dave.Asprey See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

IHP content is for people who choose the human love narrative, not the human suffering narrative. Don't tune in if you don't love life and humanity because this won't be for you. Don't tune in if you still believe in evil or the devil. Topic not ideal for ego-sensitive or emotionally sensitive (on any/all life - including socio-pol-eco - topics) people. Please do not tune in. Thank you! All IHP content resonates with people who want to achieve enlightenment the human way. IHP podcast host Maria Florio shares voices, stories and perspectives from her 5D mystic enlightenment functional adult life to give examples of what it's like to know emotional self-regulation skills, experience secure attachment, have functional adult conversations and experience 5D relationships (5D and beyond vibing people). You hear about how easy it is to be yourself, to pursue inner growth, to unconditionally love, to have compassion, and live your best life with outer and inner-well being in the forefront. Also explored, how to communicate and handle emotionally insecure adaptive children grown ups, the 3D or 4D vibing individuals, those who stay within insecure emotional human suffering vibration experience and mindset, or who hold drama as the go-to in relationships, or use projection due to unresolved and unaddressed trauma, attachment wounds, and inner child wounds that come up in their behavior. Since trauma is relational and intimacy necessary to heal it, through Maria's stories and perspectives people get an idea of securely attached options on how to handle projection to the best of your ability and create a safe environment for another person to heal or for you to set a healthy boundary if the person bringing the projection (3D/4D drama vibe) is not seeking to move beyond their safety behavior/unresolved trauma emotional response. All of what we do in our day-to-day relationships, conversations, and interactions can bring the potential for healing and expansion of consciousness. This and more is what the IHP content and community is all about. Welcome and thanks for tuning in! Love, Maria ♾️

Clement is joined by Matsedeso Nthako-Makovi, Clinical Psychologist discussing Maladaptive day dreaming, a behaviour that is characterized by excessive time spent lost in one's own fantasies and daydreams.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Olá, bem-vindo à Tribo TDAH, o podcast com hiperfoco na sua vida! Hoje nós vamos terminar de falar sobre TDAH e disfunção executiva, então venha entender como nosso cérebro afeta em diversos processos cognitivos diários da nossa vida! Descubra como déficits cognitivos e funções executivas impactam significativamente durante toda vida de quem tem Transtorno de Déficit de Atenção e Hiperatividade. #TDAH #TDAHpodcasters #PcDPodcasters #LGBTPodcasters #OPodcastÉDelas #MulheresPodcasters --- **Seja um TDAHyper e ajude a Tribo TDAH a continuar!** - Tribo TDAH no Apoia.se  --- **Links de referência** - Executive Cognitive Function (ScienceDirect - Elsevier) - Funções executivas (Enciclopédia sobre Desenvolvimento na Primeira Infância) - Executive dysfunction in attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder: cognitive and neuroimaging findings - ADHD as an executive dysfunction - Characterizing cognition in ADHD: beyond executive dysfunction - Cognitive dysfunction in psychiatric disorders: characteristics, causes and the quest for improved therapy - Executive function training for children with attentiondeficit/hyperactivity disorder - What Is Executive Dysfunction? Sign and Symptoms of EFD - What Is Executive Function? 7 Deficits Tied to ADHD - What to Know About Executive Dysfunction in ADHD - Cognitive Deficits (NIH - National Library of Medicine) - Executive control: balancing stability and flexibility via the duality of evolutionary neuroanatomical trends --- **Episódios relacionados** - Tribo TDAH #116 - TDAH, disfunção executiva e problemas cognitivos (Parte 1) - ⁠Tribo TDAH #03 - TDAH e História - Tribo TDAH #05 - TDAH e diagnóstico #OPodcastÉDelas2019 - Tribo TDAH #15 - TDAH e 3 classificações (parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #16 - TDAH e 3 classificações (Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH - TDAH Explica #05 - Atividades manuais, fidgets e stims ajudam na atenção do TDAH? - Tribo TDAH #60 - TDAH e memória (Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #61 - TDAH e memória (Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #11 - TDAH e miopia temporal - Tribo TDAH #13 - TDAH e hiperfoco (parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #14 - TDAH e hiperfoco (parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #46 - TDAH, flexibilidade cognitiva e rigidez de pensamento (Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #47 - TDAH, flexibilidade cognitiva e rigidez de pensamento (Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #04 - TDAH e desequilíbrio emocional - Tribo TDAH #09 - TDAH e rejeição - Tribo TDAH #21 - TDAH e motivação (Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #22 - TDAH e motivação (Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #54 - TDAH e procrastinação (Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #55 - TDAH e procrastinação (Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #56 - TDAH e procrastinação (Roda de Conversa - Parte 3) - Tribo TDAH #57 - TDAH e procrastinação (Roda de Conversa - Parte 4) - Tribo TDAH #58 - TDAH, permanência e constância de objeto (Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #59 - TDAH, permanência e constância de objeto (Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #10 - TDAH, desastrados e desequilíbrio - Tribo TDAH #44 - TDAH e sonhar acordado (Maladaptive daydreaming - Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #45 - TDAH e sonhar acordado (Maladaptive daydreaming - Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #23 - TDAH e empatia (parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #24 - TDAH e empatia (parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #32 - TDAH e mentiras (Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #33 - TDAH e mentiras (Parte 2) --- **Siga a Tribo TDAH** - SITE NOVO! - Twitter - @triboTDAH - Instagram - @tribotdah - TikTok - @tribotdah - Bluesky - @tribotdah.bsky.social - YouTube - Tribo TDAH - Twitch - tribotdah - Koo - @tribotdah --- **Edição** - Andrey Mattos (Twitter - @andreymatttos)

Olá, bem-vindo à Tribo TDAH, o podcast com hiperfoco na sua vida! Hoje nós vamos falar sobre TDAH e disfunção executiva, então venha entender como nosso cérebro afeta em diversos processos cognitivos diários da nossa vida! Descubra como déficits cognitivos e funções executivas impactam significativamente durante toda vida de quem tem Transtorno de Déficit de Atenção e Hiperatividade. #TDAH #TDAHpodcasters #PcDPodcasters #LGBTPodcasters #OPodcastÉDelas #MulheresPodcasters --- **Seja um TDAHyper e ajude a Tribo TDAH a continuar!** - Tribo TDAH no Apoia.se  --- **Links de referência** - Executive Cognitive Function (ScienceDirect - Elsevier) - Funções executivas (Enciclopédia sobre Desenvolvimento na Primeira Infância) - Executive dysfunction in attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder: cognitive and neuroimaging findings - ADHD as an executive dysfunction - Characterizing cognition in ADHD: beyond executive dysfunction - Cognitive dysfunction in psychiatric disorders: characteristics, causes and the quest for improved therapy - Executive function training for children with attentiondeficit/hyperactivity disorder - What Is Executive Dysfunction? Sign and Symptoms of EFD - What Is Executive Function? 7 Deficits Tied to ADHD - What to Know About Executive Dysfunction in ADHD - Cognitive Deficits (NIH - National Library of Medicine) - Executive control: balancing stability and flexibility via the duality of evolutionary neuroanatomical trends --- **Episódios relacionados** - Tribo TDAH #05 - TDAH e diagnóstico #OPodcastÉDelas2019 - Tribo TDAH #15 - TDAH e 3 classificações (parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #16 - TDAH e 3 classificações (Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH - TDAH Explica #05 - Atividades manuais, fidgets e stims ajudam na atenção do TDAH? - Tribo TDAH #60 - TDAH e memória (Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #61 - TDAH e memória (Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #11 - TDAH e miopia temporal - Tribo TDAH #13 - TDAH e hiperfoco (parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #14 - TDAH e hiperfoco (parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #46 - TDAH, flexibilidade cognitiva e rigidez de pensamento (Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #47 - TDAH, flexibilidade cognitiva e rigidez de pensamento (Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #04 - TDAH e desequilíbrio emocional - Tribo TDAH #09 - TDAH e rejeição - Tribo TDAH #21 - TDAH e motivação (Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #22 - TDAH e motivação (Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #54 - TDAH e procrastinação (Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #55 - TDAH e procrastinação (Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #56 - TDAH e procrastinação (Roda de Conversa - Parte 3) - Tribo TDAH #57 - TDAH e procrastinação (Roda de Conversa - Parte 4) - Tribo TDAH #58 - TDAH, permanência e constância de objeto (Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #59 - TDAH, permanência e constância de objeto (Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #10 - TDAH, desastrados e desequilíbrio - Tribo TDAH #44 - TDAH e sonhar acordado (Maladaptive daydreaming - Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #45 - TDAH e sonhar acordado (Maladaptive daydreaming - Parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #23 - TDAH e empatia (parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #24 - TDAH e empatia (parte 2) - Tribo TDAH #32 - TDAH e mentiras (Parte 1) - Tribo TDAH #33 - TDAH e mentiras (Parte 2) --- **Siga a Tribo TDAH** - SITE NOVO! - Twitter - @triboTDAH - Instagram - @tribotdah - TikTok - @tribotdah - Bluesky - @tribotdah.bsky.social - YouTube - Tribo TDAH - Twitch - tribotdah - Koo - @tribotdah --- **Edição** - Andrey Mattos (Twitter - @andreymatttos)

LIMERENCE HAS BEEN DESCRIBED AS "an involuntary potentially inspiring state of adoration and attachment to a limerent object (LO) involving intrusive and obsessive thoughts, feelings and behaviors -- from euphoria to despair, contingent on perceived emotional reciprocation". While not inherently sexual, limerence is almost always romantic in nature. However, it's very possible to have adoration to the point of intrusive thoughts show up in an attachment to parental figures, or authorities, or friends. In this letter I respond to a woman experiencing limerence for a mother figure. The Signs of Limerence: FREE PDF Download: https://bit.ly/3PbqblT Take my FREE Course or Quizzes: https://bit.ly/40M2YeW Enroll in my Courses or Membership: https://bit.ly/3HP5qcf Send your questions & comments to: hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com NEED ONLINE THERAPY? *BetterHelp* can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/CCF

In this episode Natalie talks with Dr. Martha Sweezy, author of the book "Internal Family Systems Therapy for Shame and Guilt".   Topics Discussed Include: 1. Martha's journey to IFS: The missing piece to the paradigm 2. What is guilt 3. Maladaptive vs. Adaptive guilt 4. Survivor guilt, separation guilt, mom guilt, anticipatory guilt 5. What is shame 6. External shaming vs. Internal shaming 7. Shame cycle 8. Can shame every be useful or healing   Martha Sweezy, PhD, is an assistant professor, part-time, in psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, a research and training consultant at the Center for Mindfulness and Compassion at the Cambridge Health Alliance, and a psychotherapist with an online private practice. She teaches Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy nationally and internationally. Her most recent book is Internal Family Systems Therapy for Shame and Guilt. She has also co-authored five other books on IFS, co-edited two books on various applications of IFS, and published two peer-reviewed articles on IFS.   Martha Sweezy: Website: https://marthasweezy.com/ Publications: https://marthasweezy.com/publications/   Natalie Deering: Website: https://www.ndwellnessservices.com/ Contact: https://www.ndwellnessservices.com/contact Instagram: @nataliedeering   Interested in sponsoring an episode of the podcast? Upgrade your business and let more people know about your amazing services or products by reaching hundreds to thousands of people by sponsoring an episode for only $100!  Please email ndwellness.services@therapysecure.com for more information.  Thank you for the support!    *Please support the podcast by following, rating, and leaving a review*    

What is depression? Neil deGrasse Tyson and co-hosts Chuck Nice and Gary O'Reilly break down the neuroscience behind major depression, its treatments, and the factors that contribute to this pervasive condition with neuroscientist Heather Berlin, PhD.NOTE: StarTalk+ Patrons can listen to this entire episode commercial-free here: https://startalkmedia.com/show/why-we-get-depressed-with-heather-berlin/Thanks to our Patrons Geoff Malone, Neander Rowlett, Brial Teel, Baran Blaser, Maxwell Miller, Doug Litwin, and Edward Bally for supporting us this week.

#1 New York Times bestselling author Mark Greaney chats with Trey Elling about THE CHAOS AGENT, the 13th installment in his Gray Man series. Topics include: Focusing on Artificial Intelligence (0:00) Only using actualized technologies (2:59) AI being allowed in military warfare (7:06) Disturbing AI discoveries from his research (10:42) Parenting (13:59) The creative process (17:48) Failure (21:21) Maladaptive daydreaming (24:15) Appearing on JRE (26:58) Key to a good story (28:22) Ode to the Gray Man (30:40)

A conversation with Albert Moukheiber - neuroscientist and clinical psychologist. An episode co-hosted by Wael Taleb - journalist at L'Orient Today. A discussion covering mental health, political agency, maladaptation to uncertainty and a wider understanding of narrative and identity. Help support The Beirut Banyan by contributing via PayPal: https://www.paypal.me/walkbeirut Or donating through our Patreon page: https://www.patreon.com/thebeirutbanyan Subscribe to our podcast from your preferred platform. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram & Twitter: @thebeirutbanyan And check out our website: www.beirutbanyan.com Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:38 Emotionally invested 7:37 An adaptive mind 9:47 Split personality 17:42 An uncertainty landscape 38:13 Mental health issues 52:30 SSRI in perspective 57:30 Political absolutism 1:06:31 Political maladaptation 1:15:33 Diminished leadership 1:23:21 Perpetual battlefield

Getting lost in daydreams is now becoming an addiction according to the girlies - so what do we do when reality just isn't hitting right? From mental escapism to our favourite films, not to mention our travel hacks and 'girl dinners' - TMS is back with another hot-off-the-press episode of TMS Hottakes!

Self-compassion has now been shown to be very effective in raising self-worth without the dangers that perfectionism can cause. Having compassion for our shortcomings actually helps us to be more effective and more successful. Join us for this episode on how to achieve self-compassion, with both examples and supporting psychological research. 

If you are a new listener or just haven't been able to listen to as many episodes this year, Jenn is breaking down her Top 10 Episodes from 2023. Tune in to hear summaries of each episode to reflect on what we learned together in 2023 and use this as a playlist when you have some extra listening time. As 2023 comes to a close, Jenn is taking the time to walk through her top 10 episodes from the year! There have been so many great topics and guests on the show this year, it wasn't easy to choose, but Jenn has carved out a good mix of topics. From understanding how the popular diet pills are impacting you, to digesting nutrition news, creating a balanced plate, and learning how perfection might be hiding your pain, there is at least one episode that will be beneficial for you! Tune in to hear key takeaways and short summaries of each episode. The Salad With a Side of Fries podcast is hosted by Jenn Trepeck, discussing wellness and weight loss for real life, clearing up the myths, misinformation, bad science & marketing surrounding our nutrition knowledge and the food industry. Let's dive into wellness and weight loss for real life, including drinking, eating out, and skipping the grocery store.  IN THIS EPISODE: ●  [4:33] Episode 205: What is Health●  [8:45] Episode 204: Diet Pills (Ozempic, Wegovy, Mounjaro) & The Real Shortcut●  [14:36] Episode 211: Birth Control Part 1: FDA Approval & What Happened Next●  [18:25] Episode 202: Is Perfectionism Hiding Your Pain?●  [25:12] Episode 97: A Grocery Store Run with Your Health Coach●  [29:55] Episode 201: Building a Balanced Plate●  [32:38] Episode 221: Healthier Options at Starbucks●  [35:41] Episode 199: LIIT Over HIIT●  [37:20] Episode 225: Mailbag: Help for the Holidays●  [40:14] Episode 217: Top 5 Tips for Digesting Nutrition News●  [43:33] Nutrition Nugget: Music●  [43:49] Nutrition Nugget: Laughter KEY TAKEAWAYS: ●  [20:43] Not all perfectionism is destructive. Maladaptive perfectionism is what Dr. Margaret Rutherford talks about during Episode 202: Is Perfectionism Hiding Your Pain? It's important for us to just consider that and think through it to understand if we are struggling with destructive perfectionism. ●  [28:02] Not a single food is off limits unless you decide you want it to be. Everything is just about figuring out how. It's not what you eat, it's how you eat.●  [36:17] If you do LIIT, low intensity interval training, vs. HIIT, high intensity interval training, and can be consistent with it, you are better off maintaining that consistency, so you can get the daily habits that create health, vitality, and longevity.  QUOTES: “Western medicine functions on the treatment of symptoms versus what's the underlying cause of the issue. So that's how a lot of people end up in the snowball of prescriptions because it's like this one's for the first symptom and then this is for the side effects.” - Jenn Trepeck “A friend's husband said to me, wait a minute, I thought we were supposed to put our daughters on birth control as soon as they got their period. So it's another thing to wait, stop, we have to take this back. We have to be our own health advocate and do our own knowledge search, get our own education.” - Jenn Trepeck “It almost goes back to that perfectionism thing. If you use a food scale at home and then you go eat out and you're anxious, that anxiety over the portion size is worse than whatever the portion size is, you know? So the objective is to make it work and figure it out, not to let all of this stuff completely consume your life.” - Jenn Trepeck“What feels really personal and specific, is often incredibly universal." - Jenn Trepeck"Everything we've talked about is about changing your life without disrupting it, without losing your life." - Jenn Trepeck RESOURCES:Episode 189: Should Chat GPT or AI Be Your Health Coach?In the Name of the Pill by Mike Gaskins Resolution RevolutionBecome A Member of Salad with a Side of FriesJenn's Free Menu PlanA Salad With a Side of FriesA Salad With A Side Of Fries MerchA Salad With a Side of Fries Instagram

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Today we talk to Maladaptive Daydreaming blogger, Ky, about fear MDers may have around "quitting" daydreaming. Ky's Blog The Daydream Place: for immersive/maladaptive daydreamers Link to Discord:   / discord   Trapped in Daydreams blog: https://www.trappedindaydreams.com/ Reddit community:   / maladaptivedreaming   International Consortium for Maladaptive Daydreaming Research: https://daydreamresearch.wixsite.com/... Art by: SPFitzgerald https://www.spfitzgerald.com/ Music by: Iliasse (ask for details) Thumbnails by: Jessica

In this episode of the Awareness to Action Enneagram podcast, Mario Sikora, María José Munita and Seth "Creek" Creekmore continue their discussion on topics they don't teach and talk about the Enneagram's three Centers. They explain why they feel there are easier and more modern ways to talk about human nature and how this could also lead to mistyping.“To reiterate, just because we don't teach something, doesn't mean that it's quote-unquote wrong. It's about the degree of utility that it brings corresponding to the degree of complexity that it adds. Does it answer more questions than it raises? And for me, the Centers, as they're taught generally, raise more questions upon pressure than they answer.” -Mario [04:31]“It's just a contortion in that it only feels good when you're talking to Enneagram enthusiasts. And if you try to explain that to reasonable people who are not familiar with the Enneagram, it looks like a crazy idea.” -María José [11:13]“I think the thing we can all agree on is there's both maladaptive and adaptive ways to think, act and feel.” -Creek [24:39]TIMESTAMPS[00:01] Intro[01:30] What Creek likes about the Centers[05:06] Centers and the Enneagram[10:29] Centers can cause mistyping[14:58] Can it be helpful?[23:27] Maladaptive and adaptive ways[25:05] The wisdom is still there[32:31] OutroConnect with us:Awareness to ActionEnneagram on DemandIG: @ataenneagrampodMario Sikora: IG: @mariosikoraTikTok: @mariosikoraWeb: mariosikora.comPod: Enneagram in a MovieMaria Jose Munita: IG: @mjmunitaWeb: mjmunita.comSeth "Creek" Creekmore: IG: @_creekmorePod: Fathoms | An Enneagram PodcastPod: Delusional Optimism

I created a highly effective perfectionist test for you to gain valuable insights into your own tendencies. This concise assessment consists of 11 straightforward statements for you to accurately rate your perfectionism traits. By taking this quiz, you'll confidently develop a profound understanding of your own behaviors and be fully prepared to excel at the Perfectionism Game in upcoming episodes TAKE THE QUIZ: Go to courtneylovegavin.com/perfectionism-testFeel the weight of expectations lift as you turn your perfectionistic traits into your most magnificent assets. With the Perfectionism Rewired Accelerator, you'll experience a hand-crafted, 6-week one-on-one journey designed exclusively for high-performing perfectionists like you. Go here to experience it for yourself:  https://courtneylovegavin.com/acceleratorGet the BEST insights from today's episode + time-stamped show notes by subscribing to The Perfectionist Guide here:    https://courtneylovegavin.com/newsletter

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In today's episode of The Universe Is Your Therapist, Dr. Amy Hoyt and licensed therapist Leina Hoyt, MFT discusses the way we respond to trauma in order to survive. These survival skills become engrained and eventually become our coping mechanisms in times of stress throughout our lives. Some of these coping styles are helpful (adaptive) and some of these coping strategies no longer serve us and are maladaptive. Join them as they discuss how to know if your coping strategies are helping or hurting you and what to do about them as you continue along your trauma healing journey.Learn more about the Whole Health LabTranscriptConnect with us!Website: https://www.mendingtrauma.com/Instagram: @mendingtraumaFacebook: @mendingtraumaYoutube: Mending TraumaLinkedIn: Mending TraumaTik Tok: @mendingtraumaPlease rate, review, & subscribe to The Universe is Your Therapist on Apple Podcasts

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Could your perfectionism actually be a sign of depression?Today, Jenn is talking with Dr. Margaret Rutherford, a clinical psychologist with thirty years of experience, who is also an author, TedX speaker, and podcast host. Dr. Rutherford discusses the two types of perfectionism, and how one version of it is maladaptive and is actually harming us. She describes what socially determined perfectionism is, and gives some helpful tips about identifying it and tools to work through challenging the behaviors. Tune in to find out if perfectionism might actually be hiding your pain.This episode may contain topics that are triggering such as abuse and suicide.The Salad With a Side of Fries podcast is hosted by Jenn Trepeck, discussing wellness and weight loss for real life, clearing up the myths, misinformation, bad science & marketing surrounding our nutrition knowledge and the food industry. Let's dive into wellness and weight loss for real life, including drinking, eating out, and skipping the grocery store. IN THIS EPISODE:●   [6:10] Was Dr. Margaret Rutherford always interested in the psychology space?●   [7:50] Did Dr. Margaret Rutherford struggle with eating in her younger years?●   [11:00] How did she come to find the overlap of perfectionism and depression? ●   [14:46] Where is the line between a coping or survival strategy vs. behaviors that are maladaptive and hurt us?●   [20:34] What is socially determined perfectionism?●   [26:44] If we don't identify with this conversation, how can we support others who may? ●   [30:39] How do vulnerabilities translate into flaws?●   [31:46] How do we help people walk through healing? What are Dr. Margaret Rutherford's 5 stages of healing?●   [37:37] How do you start to challenge your behaviors?●   [38:55] How does Dr. Rutherford help patients find true self compassion?●   [41:03] Why is “breaking the silence” so important?KEY TAKEAWAYS:●   How we hide perfectionism depression: we don't allow the experience of negative emotions. It's almost like dissociating, like it's there, but we don't feel it. There is also the fear of being exposed. The shame invades our self worth. Vulnerability translates into flaws. ●   Even if you have moved past or healed past toxic behaviors, it is still possible to struggle with toxic thinking. For example, if you've struggled with an eating disorder in the past but no longer have those behaviors, you may still struggle with the thoughts that come with eating disordered thinking. ●   Many times, the effort to control the uncontrollable often shows up in our food as perfectionism. ●   Not all perfectionism is destructive, but destructive or maladaptive perfectionism is. Maladaptive perfectionism can lead to increased risk of suicidality and it can be easy to hide. QUOTES: “But the trauma timeline is very helpful for people because it actually asks you to go back to certain times in your life when you were very young, to when you're a teenager, to when you're in your twenties or thirties, and talk about the things or acknowledge the things that were helpful to you, that really helped you feel good about yourself and the things that did not, the things that began to make you feel unsafe or unlovable. And you wanna go back with compassion. It's not about blaming people.” - Dr. Margaret Rutherford“But where you get hope is when you see yourself change. When you allow yourself to express an emotion you've never allowed yourself to express. When you do something or you don't do something you always do, that you can begin to say I am making choices in the moment.” - Dr. Margaret Rutherford“It just begins opening. It begins giving you freedom. Self-compassion is important, but so is the sense of self-acceptance. And my working definition of self-acceptance is that neither your strengths nor your vulnerabilities completely define you. They both exist, but they don't. Neither one of them completely define who you are.” - Dr. Margaret Rutherford"Looking closer at your own perfectionism and understanding yourself might be a critical piece for your mental and physical health." - Jenn TrepeckRESOURCES:Become A Member of Salad with a Side of FriesJenn's Free Menu PlanA Salad With a Side of FriesA Salad With a Side of Fries InstagramGUEST RESOURCES: Dr. Margaret Rutherford WebsitePerfectly Hidden Depression BookThe Self Work PodcastJenn as a Guest on Dr. Rutherford's Podcast: 340 SelfWork: What You Need to Know About the Merry-Go-Round of Dieting: A Conversation with Jenn TrepeckDr. Margaret Rutherford's InstagramGUEST BIO:Margaret Robinson Rutherford Ph.D., a clinical psychologist with thirty years of experience, is also an author, TedX speaker, and podcast host. Her book, Perfectly Hidden Depression: How to Break Free from the Perfectionism That Masks Your Depression, has reached thousands here in the US, as well as having an international impact, with translations reaching from Korea to Italy, Turkey to Germany. Her highly popular podcast, The SelfWork Podcast, has been continuously rated as one of the best podcasts for mental health and depression.Dr. Margaret's known for her vibrantly engaging and theoretically well-crafted presentations, whether live or virtual. Whether her diverse audiences are made up of mental health professionals, construction workers, or office managers, her passionate message is that healthy mental and emotional lives can be created through becoming more transparent with one another. Sharing who you really are with those you trust is a huge step toward connection and good mental health. Rates of depression and suicide are skyrocketing. And there's something we can do!She's further challenging the mental health profession to question their overreliance on the official symptom checklist for diagnosis. Instead, we need to create normalcy around suicidal feelings, listen to each person's actual experience of their life, and respond with safety and compassion, rather than stigmatizing this very real and excruciatingly painful part of human existence

The DU Podcast visits with Dr. Brian Davis, Mississippi State University, and Dr. Phil Lavretsky, University of Texas El Paso, to discuss the latest discoveries in duck genetics and how these are changing our traditional view of mallard populations. New research shows westward expansion of game-farm mallard genes and reveals potential impacts on behavior, morphology, and potentially migration. So what's the big deal and how might this impact the future of waterfowl management? Listen in and find out!www.ducks.org/DUPodcast

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Our society rewards those who work hard, appear to never make mistakes, and seem to have everything under control. We've collectively decided on what perfect looks like and attributed perfectionism with the ideal person. What if we told you that perfectionism is actually a protective measure used to prevent oneself from feelings of rejection, abandonment, and worthlessness? These words don't quite scream “perfect” do they?   Trauma Rewired hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth have touched upon this trauma response before, but today's episode is a deep dive into how it can develop and lead to harmful avoidance behaviors. They deconstruct perfectionism, including defining the three types of perfectionism and how it interplays with CPTSD elements like the inner critic.   You'll learn the many health consequences that the chronic stress of perfectionism can cause, and how to distinguish excellence from perfectionism. Jennifer and Elisabeth also share their experience with perfectionism, and how it can push us into burnout or freeze states.   Perfectionism is not an attainable goal, which makes it debilitating and a hindrance to healing trauma. To take the first step towards moving out of perfectionism, tune in!   Topics discussed in this episode:   Defining the 3 types of perfectionism Perfectionism as a trauma response Jennifer's example of setting yourself up for failure The effects of perfectionism on our health Maladaptive coping mechanisms for perfectionism How to recognize perfectionist behaviors and thinking Jennifer on taking action against her perfectionism Trauma healing, neurosomatic intelligence, and integration Limiting beliefs push the loop of perfectionism Elisabeth on the importance on self-regulation tools in her life How perfectionism negatively affects organizations and employees Steps Elisabeth has taken to heal her perfectionism and workaholism   Claim your two FREE weeks on Brain Based Wellness Our society rewards those who work hard, appear to never make mistakes, and seem to have everything under control. We've collectively decided on what perfect looks like and attributed perfectionism with the ideal person. What if we told you that perfectionism is actually a protective measure used to prevent oneself from feelings of rejection, abandonment, and worthlessness? These words don't quite scream “perfect” do they?   Trauma Rewired hosts Jennifer and Elisabeth have touched upon this trauma response before, but today's episode is a deep dive into how it can develop and lead to harmful avoidance behaviors. They deconstruct perfectionism, including defining the three types of perfectionism and how it interplays with CPTSD elements like the inner critic.   You'll learn the many health consequences that the chronic stress of perfectionism can cause, and how to distinguish excellence from perfectionism. Jennifer and Elisabeth also share their experience with perfectionism, and how it can push us into burnout or freeze states.   Perfectionism is not an attainable goal, which makes it debilitating and a hindrance to healing trauma. To take the first step towards moving out of perfectionism, tune in!   Topics discussed in this episode:   Defining the 3 types of perfectionism Perfectionism as a trauma response Jennifer's example of setting yourself up for failure The effects of perfectionism on our health Maladaptive coping mechanisms for perfectionism How to recognize perfectionist behaviors and thinking Jennifer on taking action against her perfectionism Trauma healing, neurosomatic intelligence, and integration Limiting beliefs push the loop of perfectionism Elisabeth on the importance on self-regulation tools in her life How perfectionism negatively affects organizations and employees Steps Elisabeth has taken to heal her perfectionism and workaholism   Learn more about Elisabeth Kristof and her company, Brain-Based Wellness, here:   https://www.rewiretrial.com   Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group!   Do you describe yourself as a perfectionist? Have you thought about why and what the cost is? If you're ready to invest in yourself for high accountability transformation book your free consultation with Jennifer WAlalce here and get the tools to work with your nervous system and make it possible to be present for life and feel safe as a FULL, messy human then book here  https://calendly.com/traumarewired/consultation    Instagram   FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: www.athleticgreens.com/rewired        

In this episode we discuss the parable of the wineskins (and the patched garment) from Matthew 9, Mark 2, and Luke 5. Contrary to the popular interpretation of a radical redefinition and subversion of Jewish apocalyptic eschatology, this parable communicates the simple principle of dysfunctionality or maladaptation. You cannot force Jesus' disciples to fast while the Messiah is with them. It does not work. But when he is “taken away” (cf. Isa 53:8 LXX), they will fast. Through this parable, Jesus (and the Gospel authors) sought to establish the discipline of fasting in the early church. Show notes Fasting and Jewish apocalypticism - Matthew 9:14-15; Isaiah 53:7-8 LXX (4:03) The common supersessionist approach - Origen, Blomberg, and Wright (10:09) The purpose of the parable: dysfunctionality and maladaptation - Joshua 9:12-13 (24:18) Other parables that simply teach a principle - Luke 10:27, 29; Luke 12:15; Luke 11:8 (29:48) How should we understand this parable if there is no radical redefinition of Jewish eschatology? (34:45)