Shameless Conversations... About Pussy

If you're in the dark about reproductive rights and what the fuck is legal and not legal since the overturn of Roe v Wade then you are not alone! It seems like no one is talking about it anymore and that's hella scary so Some Body, our resident Political Papi/Policy Mami takes some time to break down what happened with the Roe v Wade decision. What does it mean for reproductive rights moving forward? How can we advocate for ourselves? And why this is literally a fight of and for our fucking lives. **Deep breath** We're all in this together. Check out the episode!

During our break we watched a LOT of content, from classic 90s re-runs like Girlfriends to 2021 reboots like And Just Like That. But how far has media really come with telling stories of queer culture, black women and sex? Even when we control the script are we happy with the stories being told? Tap in to hear more and catch up with how Retro and Somebody have been evolving in sex and relationships since we last talked. 

At one point we all idolized Will and Jada's relationship. There were rap songs made in their honor and I can only imagine endless cut out pictures of them on Mood Boards. But, oh my how the #RelationshipGoals have fallen! Today there's an actual petition to get Jada to stop sharing information about their marriage. I'm serious, an actual change.org petition has been made, go look it up. Also on your list to look up? The hashtag FREEWILL because apparently that man is trapped and needs saving. So listen in! 

You know that feeling like you're always on your period? Well, as it turns out you kinda always are... *pause for horrified shriek*. I know it sounds like the horror film you never wanted to be a part of but I promise it's not that bad. In this episode of Shameless Conversations... About Pussy, we're breaking down the 28 day cycle and explaining the 4 phases of the menstrual cycle: Menstrual, Follicular, Ovulation, and Luteal. Thanks to another dope ass Black woman and menstrual practitioner, we learned that Muva Nature's appearance doesn't have to be this seemingly random and painful act of violence every month because it's possible to optimize your flow. So let's get into it! Don't forget to share this with other people with periods and people who love people with periods! - That's everybody. Share it with everybody. 

Tank said let that woman eat and Trick Daddy is out here tossing his legs up in the air to get "ate out". We've come a long way since Petey Pablo declared that he wasn't licking pussy "cuz he ain't drunk enough to do that shit"!This episode we're talking about the wonderful world of anal play, starting with annilingus -- one because it's fun to say and two because licking it before you stick it is law. Tune into this weeks episode for our thoughts and experiences with anal play!

Your child needs help shaving their genitals FTFT and they want you to hold the raiser and lead the charge.. will you: A) Shave them.. duh B) Phone a more capable friend -- it does take a village ya know C) Point that lil mf to Youtube University or D) None of the above, because wtf kind of question is this Shameless?!Find out what Retro and Some Body had to say on the subject of hairy balls!Tune into this episode of Shameless Conversations where I think we're talking about boundaries -- and that awkward transition between puberty and feeling like an actual sexual human being. 

Do you remember when your parents found out you were having sex? Better yet, did they ever catch you having sex in their house? Whether you decided never to fuck under the familial roof or you were sneaking ya butt buddies into your bedroom growing up this episode is for you. We're talking parentals, sex, and as always... pussies. Enjoy! 

Part 2!!! You remember last time when (we) Retro and Some Body got quizzed on STD's by  our favorite reproductive advocate and sexual health expert?? Well we are back at it again with part two! In this episode we had Chan G answer some of our burning questions (get it STD's... burning... teehee) about sex and how to have some pretty hard conversations with your sexual partners while staying safe and sexually satiated in these streets. We're not gonna ruin it for you so you have to listen in... gone ahead... go listen! And when you're done make sure to let us know what YOU would want to ask our resident expert, Chan G.

This is Part 1 in a series where we got a chance to talk to a whole ass sexual health professional; Chan G,  a very dear friend and our favorite Reproductive Advocate and Sexual Health Expert. She's currently sprinkling her Black Girl Magic all over her role as an Operations Manager at Planned Parenthood.In this episode Chan quizzed us and answered a few of our questions about and how to stay safe in these streets. 

*Singing Obnoxiously* HERE ARE A FEW OF OUR FAVORITE THINGS AND THEN WE DON'T FEEEEEEEEL SO BAAAAAD. Because I (Retro) am an old soul in a young hot body ;-) the title is an ode to Julie Andrews's A Few Of My Favorite Things song... because in this episode we're breaking down some of our fave period essentials from the weed we smoke to the panties we like to wear.. So if you bleed or know someone who does then tune in! And let us know what your period faves are to get you through a bloody bloody week.

We talkin all the VDay shenans in this episode! Tune innnn!

Guess who's bizack!?! We are, duh lol.. and with a whole new season of Shameless Conversation for you! In this first episode of SZN 2 we're exploring friendships AND situationships between men and women. If you've ever found yourself going through a break up with somebody you were never even with then this episode is for you. If you've ever questioned what kind of benefits you were really getting from a friends with benefits then this one is for you... If you've ever found yourself drinking Henny out the bottle, sitting outside your sneaky links house crying with Usher's "Let It Burn" on then... you may need some help. But you should also listen in! Welcome to a new SZNTune in!

Welcome to Episode 14 Shameless Fam!! If you've been listening for a while then you know we love to make you laugh especially if we can teach you a little somethin somethin as you chuckle. So it's only fair to let you know that this episode, while full of all of our laughable candor, is a little bit on the heavier side. This time were talking about the big A... and A is not for anal although I'm sure we'll get to that at some point in our journey together. A is for Abortion. Retro and Some Body share some pretty personal stories of missed periods... taking pregnancy tests in office bathrooms, crying over Plan B pills and yes even an experience of what it was like to get an abortion. This is an open love letter to anyone who has ever experienced this before and maybe a different perspective for those who haven't. As always we hope you enjoy, laugh a little, and learn a lot. With love, Retro and Some Body with The Body

So what had happened was... someone slid in our DMs and asked us if we believed in toxic femininity (as if believing in it can be likened to something like believing in Santa Claus or the Tooth Fairy) and then they went on to ask us what the definition of toxic femininity is. We answered the question via dm and on this episode of Shameless but not before we rolled our eyes in apparent liberation privilege. The short answer: toxicity is genderless... we all got that shit. But in what ways are women.. and more pointedly Black women toxic? And since it was National Coming Out Day, how can Black women display toxic behaviors when it comes to sexuality and gender. So we started asking questions: What makes a man gay? Is there a gay agenda?Why don't men have the space to explore sexuality in the ways that women do? What is it about trans identity that makes people so damn mad?So in typical Shameless fashion we used humor and personal stories to tackle all of these questions. Take a listen and then hit our DMs and tell us what you think!

How soon is too soon to talk about your sexual kinks with a new partner? Would you wanna know right away? Or have them lead you to a Shades of Grey style dungeon 3 months into a committed relationship?What's on your personal kinky bucket list? Pegging? Threesomes? How bout up in the library with that chocolate chocolate make it melt? Whips and chains? Handcuffs!? Smack a little booty up with your belt?.... (why yes, that is more of a Ludacris fantasy but hey no judgement here *wink*) We put these questions in our dms for our followers to answer and well umm ya'll nasssty LOL.. We were so proud of the answers we got that we used this episode to talk about them and of course to share some of our own. So listen in on this episode to see if your flavor of kink made it into the discussion. If it didn't (and you'd like it to) make sure to shoot us a dm or email! In the meantime we hope you. enjoy the episode.

This is our gayest episode yet!nIn this episode we got a chance to talk to a fellow Black Queer Podcaster, Rocky Lee Savage with Pleasurable Noise. When she reached out we knew this was the perfect opportunity to talk about femme on femme dating and all of our dating experiences (*cough cough* struggles *cough cough*). All in all this episode turned into the queer version of P. Diddy and Usher's I Need A Girl song lol. If you don't get that reference you're probably too young to be MY girlfriend but not too young to listen to the episode. As always, Enjoy!

Russell Brand spent 17 minutes on YouTube talking about Cardi B and Meg The Stallion's song new banger WAP... so naturally we spent 2 hours talking about it... don't worry, We've widdled it down to a smooth hour of WET ASS PUSSY talk. How did you feel when you first heard the song? Is it your new anthem? Did the lyrics embarrass you? Whether you were concerned about the necessity of a bucket and a mop for a WAP, like Dr. Ben Shapiro or the lyrics took you down memory lane like the sweet viral Granny who listened to WAP for the first time, we cover it all! So pull up and enjoy!

Body count, a little question that can cause a lot of problems. But does it really tell you anything? Retro and Some Body talk about what better questions can be asked to find out what you really want to know. We also detangle what entanglement means and why it's so hard to label a relationship.

We found out Cardi B is bleaching her bikini line and the place where she does it also offers pussy tightening... while we may be a while away from top notch doctors with skin bleaching tools (and we may choose to stay that way) it launched us into a conversation about how much care we really put into our vaginas! From ingrown treatments, vagacials (yep it's exactly what you think it is), organic lubricants, pussy steaming and good old fashion kegals, we hit the pussy care topic pretty damn hard.

If you've ever wondered about menstrual cups or you've been thinking about getting period panties or you have no clue what either of those are and you just want to know how Retro and Some Body feel about having sex on your period then THIS is the episode for you. We're talking all the the period tingz and somehow we managed not to say Period, Pooh once.... which is an accomplishment.

Part 3 of 3 in a series of shameless conversations with sex workers. In this final episode we discuss the interview with Hanna, a queer, black, femme, who is making the transition from full service sex worker to sexuality doula. (B-T-Dubs, don't worry if you have no clue what a sexuality doula is because we break it down for you). We also have a hearty discussion about hoes, hoe phases, and ummm..... fisting? (that one got a bit dicey lol) Check it out!

Have you ever heard the one about the 2 single queer Black femmes and the 2 taken straight men of color, walking into a zoom call for some shameless conversation?We hadn't either. That's why we thought a collaboration episode with The State of The Re: Podcast would be dope! In this episode, we welcomed @ForRealKhalil and @ProfessorDean to ask us questions about everything from menstrual cups to our sexual and romantic orientations.

This episode is part 2 of 3 in a series of interviews where we chat it up with sex workers. This time we're talking to Freckles, a stripper who has been in the game for 7 years! Is a stripper a sex worker? Do black men get enough hugs? Who do you think is more likely to smash? A stripper or a CNA? What are some stripper mythbusters? We talk about all'lat and gained a lot of insight. Take a listen and tell us if you learned anything new!

This episode is part one of who the fuck knows how many (kidding we kinda know -- hehe) where Some Body (With The Body) interviews sex workers and we discuss it. This first one features Liv. Not only did Liv shed some light on her work in the sex industry but she gave us a lot to think about like: Is virginity as myth? Are males repressing their orgasms? And how difficult is it to NOT come? You may not find all the answers here but you'll have a good time listening to us figure it out. Oh btw if you haven't noticed there's a GLOBAL PANDEMIC and everything is cancelled except periods.. and period pain, so we may or may not talk about that a bit too. Enjoy!

Now more than ever laughter and being able to relate is needed more than ever. So we're giving you a triple feature dose of shamelessness. In this episode we discuss that sweet that wet that gushy stuff. We share some comments that our community made about using lubricant during sex and Retro talks about taking a female enhancement pill FTFT. Please listen, share, and above all enjoy!

How do we feel about pubic hair on vaginas? How do we feel about TALKING about pubic hair on vaginas? After conducting an instagram story poll, the answers varied so much that we had to talk about it on the podcast! This is a shameless conversation... about pussy... with hair on it. Enjoy!

Welcome to Shameless Conversations... about Pussy! We are two Black, queer women who had this crazy idea that not enough people (who looked like us) were talking about topics that are pretty pervasive in our everyday lives: menstrual periods, sex, sexual health, and relationships. In true millennial fashion, a two hour conversation over drinks turned into "you know what, we should start a podcast"! And so we did! In this debut episode we decided to dive right in and talk about self love, masturbation, and love languages. We hope you enjoy listening as much as we enjoyed creating!