Thirty Thoughts

Giving your partner an ultimatum feels a bit extreme, or at least we think so

Working a 9-5 has its pros and cons, especially when it's a summer Friday and you're still glued to your computer. But, being a full time influencer also requires those extra hours of hustling, planning and brainstorming. YOU have to put in the work - and wear many hats in order to be successful in such a competitive industry.As two millennials who have worked in corporate for years, have dived into the influencer world, and have a side hustle - best believe we have A LOT to say here.  Would we quit our 9-5 to become full time content creators?! Tune in to find out more! 

How much is TOO much when it comes to asking your friend or loved one for “a favor?” Would you be able to identify the red flags of a SCAMMER?!  In this episode, we discuss the frauds of Anna Delvey and Shimon Heyada Hayut AKA “Tinder Swindler.” Besides both scamming those closest to them, they also CRAVED reaching a high social status. Are we glorifying scam culture by following these attention seekers on social media and binge watching their Netflix documentaries? Tune in for our POV on this topic! 

Imposter syndrome — sounds familiar? Yep, we feel you! On this episode, we're sharing our true life experiences, and how these uncomfortable situations helped mold us into the strong women we are today. But before all the lessons we've learned, Did we ever try too hard to fit in?

On the 1st episode of season 3, Kat and Bibi share their standards pre-marriage and bluntly answer your hard relationship questions. Do expensive dinner dates and extravagant gifts solidify a relationship's future?! We think so! Does Ms.Independent need to lower her standards for the right man?!

We're dedicating this one to the Pop/Soul Queen, Adele. Her comeback has been a remarkable, and much needed one if we must say so ourselves! Tune in to hear what we think about her new album, physique, and struggles. Do we miss the old Adele?

Oh baby! We ain't holding back and we're calling ourselves out on our own shit. Tune in and find out IF we're the toxic friends, what we have to work on, and if we're willing to put in the work. Follow us on social media: @thirtythoughtspodcast @hereskat @bibilovesrady

This week we're covering the homicide tragedies of two young women, Gabby Petito and Miya Marcano. We're discussing the struggles women face daily, society's belief of “temptation and too much independence,” as well as the media's response to both cases. Tune in for more details, and please visit the link below for Gabby Petito's foundation. This foundation was launched by Gabby's parents to help others find missing loved ones, and provide support to organizations assisting victims of domestic violence. Link: https://gabbypetitofoundation.org/ Follow us on social media: @thirtythoughtspodcast @hereskat @bibilovesrady

Dive into the world of astrology with us as we reveal our experiences, beliefs, and new habits (spoiler alert: moon water). Have you ever had your tarot cards read? If not, you'll probably want to do it right after tuning into this episode. We've warned you

Heyyyy! How are you? No, really, how are you doing? There's no doubt 2020 came in strong with fully executed plans to change everything around us, and 2021 took notes

Anyone else cried their first night after moving away from home? No, just us? Gotcha.On S2E1, we're chatting bills, romance, laundry, and managing new roles in our relationships. Whew, you can say we've learned some life lessons along the way...Tune in to the first episode of season two for more!Follow us on social media: @thirtythoughtspodcast @hereskat @bibilovesrady

If you were a celebrity would you dig deep into your Twitter to delete any controversial tweets? Would you be afraid of getting “canceled” or nah, you good? We get it, everyone  makes mistakes and says $h!t they shouldn't say. Accountability and public apologies are great, but are they being done for the right reason? Do we trust celebrities when they say they'll do better and grow from their past mistakes? Let's talk celeb gossip and what Chrissy Teigen, Vanessa Hudgens, Kevin Hart, and Ellen DeGeneres all have in common. Sheesh! Follow us on social media: @thirtythoughtspodcast @hereskat @bibilovesrady

Bibi turns 31 and tells us how she feels! Is she thriving or does she miss her twenties? Are we going to celebrate by getting botox together? Tune in to find out more about our cosmetic goals.YouTube video: https://youtu.be/PCPE7JK7t_cArticle: https://people.com/health/shannen-doherty-done-with-hollywood-botox-obsession-cancer-beauty-standards/  Follow us on social media: @thirtythoughtspodcast @hereskat @bibilovesrady

Are you the type of person who gives 100% to a friendship and expects the same back? We sure were. This week, content creator, Chrystal Baez joins us for a much needed conversation. Tune in as we shine light on the importance of having a real support system, trusting your intuition, and personal growth. YouTube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlbmtHifawUFollow us on social media: @thirtythoughtspodcast @hereskat @bibilovesrady @chrystal.amarie

As we've gotten older, we've learned the definition of success has a completely different meaning than what we thought five years ago. Movies, TV shows, social media, and society have glamorized having a completely busy schedule and hectic lifestyle... yes, we said it. While we think it's OK to love your job, we also know you can do so without jeopardizing your personal time and health. Join us this week as we dive into hustle culture, our personal journeys, and where being "too hungry for success" led us today. Check out this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/-91UniW4uX4Follow us on social media: @thirtythoughtspodcast @hereskat @bibilovesrady

In your eyes, what's the definition of a perfect relationship? right. It doesn't exist. Join us this week as we discuss everything we know about romantic relationships. Hey, we're not experts, but we sure do know not everything you see on TV and social media is the real deal.Now let's dive into the good, the bad, and the lessons we've learned!YouTube Link to Episode: https://youtu.be/3EugLthvxs0

Setting Healthy Boundaries. Woah, that's a loaded sentence if we've ever read one. Ever struggled with creating boundaries with work, family, or friends? Have a hard time saying NO? Find yourself overwhelmed because of too much people pleasing?Yeah? Well, us too. Setting boundaries is never fun, hardly ever easy, but they're most definitely necessary.Join us in this heart warming conversation as we chat about the uphill battles we've had with creating boundaries.Read this badass article we found: https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/set-boundaries#boundary-basics-and-benefits YouTube Link to Episode:https://youtu.be/cqXaJfT4JSQ

We all cope with stress differently, but what does self-care mean to YOU? Tune into this week's episode as Kat & Bibi confess their self-care addictions, marketing tactics gone wrong, and glamorous bubble baths on IG. Resources: https://www.nylon.com/beauty/the-very-blurry-line-between-skin-care-self-care  

Welcome to the second episode of Thirty Thoughts with Kat & Bibi! This week we're discussing marriage vs mortgage. Would you drop $60K on your big day or save that for your dream home? Tune in as we chit chat about this and share our thoughts. Resources: https://parade.com/1175234/korinmiller/millennial-marriages-couples-deciding-between-wedding-or-buying-a-house/ https://www.businessinsider.com/how-millennials-are-changing-marriage-divorce-weddings-prenups-2019-5 

We love a good filter too, but when does using Facetune or Photoshop become too much? Are we also addicted to filtered photos? Should people finally stop criticizing Khloe Kardashian? Tune in as we both share our POV on this scandalous, much needed conversation. P.S. ALL bodies are beautiful. Stretch marks included. Let's own it.

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