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Stereo-Typed
ST 56 - New York, New York

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2018 44:14


Camille just got back from an amazing weekend in NYC, which included a day of Alternative Sexuality topics at the Alt Sex NYC conference.

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 065 - Introducing Tonya Pear

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2018 40:00


Camille talks with Tonya Pear, the host of Talkin' With Tonya (available on TPOK Network), about her show and experiences with coming out as transgender. Tonya's show will have new episodes approximately every second week. It is not (yet) available on iTunes, but will be added soon. In the meantime, you can find her show on our Spreaker account, or at TalkinWithTonya.tpok.network.You can contact Tonya to ask her questions, or just send her some love, at the following:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tonya.pear.39FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/2014306 (Tonya-Pear)Email: tonyapear3@gmail.com

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Stereo-Typed
ST 55 - Guns ...Enough is Enough

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2018 64:09


Camille has a few things to say about guns, mass shootings, the social media response, and some other related topics.

Stereo-Typed
ST 54 - Radical, Man (or Woman)!

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2018 37:56


Camille talks about some of the stuff that's been going on in her life and how she is dealing with it. The CBT/DBT concept she talks about is called "Radical Acceptance" and it is something that is helping her get through the current stresses in her life.

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ST 53 - Peaks and Peak Performance

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2018 42:24


Camille investigates the old myth about sex and athletic performance. So ... is it better to abstain in preparation for the big event? Or, is pre-competition sex actually beneficial.Congratulations to all the atheletes on their performances in the recent Olympic Games.

Stereo-Typed
ST 52 - Be My Valentine

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2018 32:36


It is Valentine's Day and Camille goes on a rant about commercialism, monogamous views of romance, history of Valentine's Day and when it got connected with romance, as well as whether buying love (or giving gifts as a sign of love) is effective to everyone.

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 064 - Introducing Gio

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2018 25:04


As you may have heard or read somewhere, TPOK Educational Network is growing. One of the recent shows to join us is Consensually Speaking with Gio (consensuallyspeaking.tpok.network).Camille recently had the pleasure of chatting with Gio for an episode of Consensually Speaking and we took the opportunity to record an introduction for the wider TPOK audience.Please join us in welcoming Gio to the TPOK family.You can listen to his conversation with Camille for his show at http://www.tpok.network/podcast/cs-21/

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Stereo-Typed
ST 51 - Munches, Sloshes, and Kinky Drinkies

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2018 85:15


Dr Craig Webster of Ball State University talks with Camille about his research into a cornerstone of kink communities everywhere ... our non-play socials.Dr Webster conducted two surveys, one of munch attendees, the second focused on the organizers. His findings will be published in a couple of upcoming articles in Hospitality Management journals.If you would like to read his summaries, when he can post them, they will be available on his FetLife profile:https://fetlife.com/users/5648173

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ST 50 - Deviant Desires

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2018 60:04


Katharine Gates, author of Deviant Desires, joins Camille to discuss kink theory from the perspective of an anthropologist. We discuss some of the fringe kinks she described in her book, as well as, consent, kink-shaming, and acceptance.More about Katharine can be found on her site www.kinkmap.com, or follow her on Twitter @kinkmap.

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ST 49 - Rats in Jackets

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2018 88:03


Dr Jim Pfaus from Concordia University joins Camille to discuss his research with training rats to have fetishes (both olfactory and somatosensory). His lab's findings are nothing short of astonishing! This is one of Camille's favourite pieces of sexuality research.My apologies that this was late in arriving in your podcast players. We had no end to the technology problems in getting this out to you. Oh, and I an sure that that is Pavlov's dog in the background! *wink*

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ST 48 - Emotions

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2018 62:11


Let's talk about emotions. What are they? What causes them? What can we do when they get out of hand? In particular, we will talk about some of the "icky" emotions that are sometimes associated with alternative sexuality, including the one that this program aims to reduce ... shame.

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ST 47 - Spotlight: SWOP Behind Bars

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2017 60:57


Alex Andrews, co-founder of SWOP Behind Bars joins Camille to discuss Incarcerated Sex Workers and what we (yes, all of us) can do to help them transition back into the community.SWOP Behind Bars is a US-based sex worker rights advocacy organization that assists incarcerated sex workers. Their website is http://www.swopbehindbars.org

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Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes
Fetish Philes 10 - Sissification with Brooklyn

Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2017 60:01


Hey, do you think sissification is something Dominants do to Men to humiliate them? That's what I thought too. Oh, I get that it is consensual (and trust me, I understand how hot humiliation and degradation can be!), but I always saw it as something that was done to men ... accompanied by the comments like, "You're weak ... you aren't a real man", etc.Brooklyn, who happens to be a trans woman, loves sissification. She came out of her podcasting hiatus to talk to me about sissification and what she loves about being sissified. We also talk about exploring our kinks, her transitioning, cross-dressing, and a host of other topics.

Stereo-Typed
ST 46 - Threesomes

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2017 64:46


Dr Ryan Scoats joins Camille to talk about his research into threesomes and the apparent erosion of the one-time rule of homosexuality.Audio file replaced due to internet glitchiness. For more details visit http://www.stereo-typed/com/episode46

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 063 - MBE 2016 Ep 10

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2017 89:41


It is the Morpheous episode! I know, I made you wait but the time has finally come to hear Morph's interview from MBE 2016. Sadly, that also means we are at the end of the MBE 2016 archives.I also had the wonderful opportunity to talk to Morpheous about his reflections of MBE, what's happening in his life now, and what the future might hold for him & Princess.

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Stereo-Typed
ST 45 - Victorian Sexuality

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2017 65:38


Dr Kate Lister joins Camille to discuss the Victorians based on her research. We discuss some of the social changes that occurred during Queen Victoria's reign, as well as some of those myths that we have come to believe about her subjects.A warning: there are a lot of cunts in this episode. #TeamCunthttp://www.stereo-typed.com/episode45/

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 062 - MBE 2016 Ep 9

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2017 60:24


The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Strange Bird with Step and Tams- Interview: Phoenix Eddy with PreacherBear and Cypress- Commentary: Cypress, PreacherBear and Crazy Heart give live commentary of Morpheous' final performanceWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

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TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 061 - Everything to do with Sex Show - Toronto

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2017 15:07


TPOK Radio is at the Taboo Show this weekend. We will be broadcasting live throughout the weekend.Come on down to see us (in the Community Dungeon) and talk to us on air!

Stereo-Typed
ST 44 - Domly Dom Manual

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2017 62:02


Dominik McMaster (WhiteTigerPrime) joins Camille to discuss how to become a Domly Dom ... and his new book dedicated to training the next generation of Dominants

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 060 - MBE 2016 Ep 8

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2017 59:37


The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: HeatHawk Crazy Heart and Rainbow- Interview: ScholarGent with PreacherBear and Cypress- Interview: Wil (Pursuit OCR) with AuntieSocial and Rubee TuesdayWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

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Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes
Fetish Philes 9 - Latex with Marika

Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2017 56:12


When it comes to latex, one name comes immediately to mind, Kink Engineering. In this episode of Fetish Philes, we take a look at latex, the material, the fetish, and the products from the perspective of owner and co-founder of Kink Engineering, Marika.

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Stereo-Typed
ST 43 - Sex and Censorship

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2017 60:04


Jerry Barnett, author of Porn Panic, joins Camille to discuss the UK's new laws censoring internet pornography, as well as the current trend of silencing those with different, potentially offensive, views.http://www.stereo-typed.com/episode43/

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 059 - MBE 2016 Ep 7

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2017 59:59


The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Lochnessia with Step and Tams- Interview: Sinner with Crazy Heart and Rainbow- Interview: Hanna Noel with Eva MorganWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

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Stereo-Typed
ST 42 - Trafficking and Sex Work: Coercion and Consent

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2017 61:01


Dr Jill McCracken joins Camille to talk about Human Trafficking and Sex Work. There is a vast difference between the two and conflating the terms is doing a disservice to victims of all forms of trafficking, as well as those who make the conscious decision to enter the sex trade.For more information, visit http://www.stereo-typed.com/episode42

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 058 - MBE 2016 Ep 6

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2017 60:02


The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Ruairidh with AuntieSocial and PreacherBear- Interview: JD66 with Eva Morgan and RainbowWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

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Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes
Fetish Philes 8 - Cuckoldry with Dr Sue

Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2017 59:58


The sultry Sue Storm was recently on Stereo-Typed to talk about motivation and manipulation in BDSM. She returns today to talk about Cuckoldry from her perspective and experiences as a long-term cuckoldress.Sue and I had a wonderful conversation about with cuckoldry is, as well as what it isn't. She shared some tips on how you can introduce cucking to your relationship in baby steps. We also discuss some tell-tale signs that you might not be ready for cucking.Sue Storm is also the host of a live radio show called In Bed with Dr Sue. You can find more details about this and other Fetish Philes at http://fetishphiles.tpok.network/.

Stereo-Typed
ST 41 - Beyond the Physical

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2017 60:52


When you think of BDSM, what words initially come to mind? Control? Restraint? Pain and pleasure?Sure, BDSM is all of these things (or can be, depending on how you roll), but it can also be so much more. Empowering, spiritual, confidence-building.To continue from last week (Female Orgasms and Empowerment), I will be talking to Veronica from Desires Laid Bare about discovering the power that kink can awaken within ourselves. And how growth in our kink sexuality can also be growth in all aspects of our lives.Oh, and we will be talking about Desires Laid Bare, which is a new membership experience for those who are brand-spanking new and curious, as well as those who have been around for a while but understand that there is always something new to learn about kink and ourselves.For links to Desires Laid Bare and Veronica Yanhs, visit:http://www.tpok.network/podcast/st-41/

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TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 057 - MBE 2016 Ep 5

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2017 60:01


The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Azura Rose with Step and Tams- Interview: Amira and Canadian Tied with AuntieSocial and BearsPixie- Interview: -exile- with PreacherBear and CypressWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

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Stereo-Typed
ST 40 - Female Orgasms

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2017 70:05


Eyal Matsliah from IntimatePower.com spoke with Camille about Unleashing your Orgasms to harness the sexual power in all aspects of your life.http://www.stereo-typed.com/episode40/

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TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 056 - TPOK Roundtable Discussion

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2017 112:47


It's a get to know us episode! Several of the TPOK hosts got together on a Sunday evening to talk about our shows, motivations, favourite episodes ...

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 055 - MBE 2016 Ep 4

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2017 57:00


The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Master Cecil with Rubee Tuesday and AuntieSocial- Interview: Sprinkles with Crazy Heart and Rainbow- Interview: Dutch Clutch with PreacherBear and CypressWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

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Stereo-Typed
ST 39 - Sexual Ethics Education

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2017 62:19


Dr Sharon Lamb joins Camille to discuss S.E.C.S-C., an ethics-based sexual education curriculum for Grades 8-10.We will discuss why an ethics-based approach is needed, the limitation and inaccuracies of Abstinence-Only​ and Abstinence Plus curricula, and some of the areas that are addressed in the curriculum that will help prepare our future adults for Democratic Citizenship.

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TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 054 - MBE 2016 Ep 3

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2017 63:03


The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Hermes with PreacherBear and Cypress- Interview: Attention Whore (Jo) with Step and Tams- Interview: Hitchin' Bitches (Lily and Cat) with Crazy Heart and RainbowWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

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Stereo-Typed
ST 38 - Motivation in BDSM

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2017 61:34


In this episode, Camille is joined by Sue Storm. We will be discussing several topics that have something in common ... the motivation of the participants determine whether we are talking about healthy ethical kink, or abuse (and sometimes self-abuse).We talk of humiliation play, topping from the bottom, gaslighting and psychopaths.For more details and Sue's biographical information, visit:http://www.stereo-typed.com/ep38

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 053 - MBE 2016 Ep 2

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2017 60:13


The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Interview: Hebari with Crazy Heart and Rainbow- Interview: JJ-Mare (Your Kinky Closet) with Step and TamsWant to participate in an MBE/Morpheous Appreciation project? Have memories from the past 10 years? Were you a performer, volunteer, or attendee? Visit http://www.tpok.live/mbeinterviews to add to the verbal history of MBE.We are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

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Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes
Fetish Philes 6 - Daddy Dom with PreacherBear

Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2017 61:44


In the last combined episode of Stereo-Typed and Fetish Philes, I talk with PreacherBear (host of The 3rd Rail) about what being a Daddy means to him and his Pixie. We also discuss the psychological barriers he had to overcome to get to this point in their relationship.Fetish Philes is now its own show! Subscribe on iTunes. The first solo episode is scheduled for October 20th (and new episodes will be posted every other week). https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/stereo-typeds-fetish-philes/id1291705138

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 052 - MBE 2016 Ep 1

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2017 67:28


The hosts of all of the TPOK Radio shows headed into Toronto to be the official voices on the live feed for Morpheous' Bondage Extravaganza, October 1 7PM - October 2 7AMThis episode of the MBE Archives features:- Roundtable: What an event like this means to us and the community- Interview: DrEva with PreacherBear and Cypress- Roundtable: "Every Boob Matters"- Interview: Woodenpunk with Rubee Tuesday and AuntieSocialWe are missing at least 2 hours of the audio. If you have a copy of the live feed from MBE 2016, please contact AuntieSocial (on FetLife) or email (camille @ tpok.network)

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Stereo-Typed
ST 36 - Adjectification

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2017 59:47


Yes, I know. It is not a word ... yet ... but we all do it. I'll touch on Objectification, Subjectivity, and what I have coined as Adjectification.Tonight's show is 1 part rant, 1 part Alt-Write (Grammar Nazi), and 1 part research papers - as in, I share a couple.If you listened to PreacherBear and BearsPixie on Sunday, you heard BrotherBear talk about asexual - his understanding of the meaning of the word.He is not wrong. He is also not entirely correct (Sorry Bro!)This episode is Bear's fault.You can find links to the studies I reference at:http://www.tpok.network/podcasts/st-36/

Stereo-Typed
ST 35 - Anxiety

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2017 60:34


After a short stay (2 weeks) in the psych ward, Camille is home and feeling much better than she has in some time.In this episode, she is going to talk about a topic that isn't sexy, but it is something that we all deal with at some point in our lives. In her experience, there seems to be a lot of people who identify with alternative sexuality that struggle with it.Anxiety!We will discuss the following:- what is anxiety?- is it natural?- what causes it?- is it dangerous?- how is it different than panic?- and, how can we handle it when a bout of anxiety comes on?Camille will also share a couple of exercises that can be used when feeling anxious or tense (due to stress).Anxiety can be a horrible experience, however, when it is managed well, it can be an interesting and exciting aspect to psychological/fear play (a form of edge play). People who choose to play in this arena need to be aware of their experiences and using one of the techniques shared in this episode as a part of your after care can assist in staving off the unwelcome aspects of anxiety.http://www.tpok.network/podcast/st-35http://www.innerhealthstudio.com/

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Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes
Fetish Philes 5 - Furry Fandom with "Nuka"

Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2017 60:04


Dr Courtney Plante is back to talk about Furries! This time around, Camille and Courtney will be talking about what it's like to be a part of a large fandom community, such as the Furry Fandom. We mainly discuss furries, but we do touch on other fandoms as well. And, since Nuka is a "large blue cat in a lab coat", some of the science of fandoms made its way into this interview as well.Thank you, again, to Dr Plante for coming back on the show to discuss the fascinating world of furries.A reminder: everyone's experience is personal. So your mileage may vary. If you happen to be one of the furries who does consider it a fetish (or kink), I would love to chat with you about your experiences.And, if you participate in any other form of sexuality or sexual interest that has not been covered (or your experience has been greatly different than what has been covered on the show), I welcome your input. Get in touch with me and we can schedule an interview to document your experiences with fetishes and philias.

Stereo-Typed
ST 34/FP 5 - Furry Fandom with Nuka

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2017 60:04


Dr Courtney Plante is back to talk about Furries! This time around, Camille and Courtney will be talking about what it's like to be a part of a large fandom community, such as the Furry Fandom. We mainly discuss furries, but we do touch on other fandoms as well. And, since Nuka is a "large blue cat in a lab coat", some of the science of fandoms made its way into this interview as well.Thank you, again, to Dr Plante for coming back on the show to discuss the fascinating world of furries.A reminder: everyone's experience is personal. So your mileage may vary. If you happen to be one of the furries who does consider it a fetish (or kink), I would love to chat with you about your experiences.And, if you participate in any other form of sexuality or sexual interest that has not been covered (or your experience has been greatly different than what has been covered on the show), I welcome your input. Get in touch with me and we can schedule an interview to document your experiences with fetishes and philias.

Stereo-Typed
ST 33 - Attraction and Action

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2017 33:05


AuntieSocial is still on auditory restrictions, which means no guest.This week, she talks about her thoughts about "emotional fidelity" as a relationship expectation, attraction and the control we have over our emotions and (re)actions.As a polyamorous person, she admits to having a certain bias on this subject.

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ST 32 - She's Back! (Sort of)

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2017 30:07


AuntieSocial is back ... sort of. For the next while, the format of Stereo-Typed will be shorter and lonelier! Camille will be sans guests, but will try her best to find interesting sex research to you on a weekly basis. Auntie has been put on some auditory restrictions due to her BPPV affliction (and the treatment thereof). Once she has the all-clear from those medical professional types, she'll be back with hour-long interviews.

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Stereo-Typed
ST 31/FP 4 - Gorean Lifestyle with Malebranche

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2017 60:01


Malebranche joined Camille to discuss the roots, history and reality of the Gorean Lifestyle and philosophy.This is a joint episode - Stereo-Typed #31 & Fetish Philes #4

Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes
Fetish Philes 4 - Gorean Lifestyle with Malebranche

Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2017 60:01


Malebranche joined Camille to discuss the roots, history and reality of the Gorean Lifestyle and philosophy.This is a joint episode - Stereo-Typed #31 & Fetish Philes #4

Stereo-Typed
ST 30 - Cuddling

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2017 61:32


Non-sexual touch is a human need. Many people are starved for touch and affection. If you don't have food in your cupboard, you go to a restaurant, right? Well, why not hire a professional for your cuddling needs?Tonight, we talk to Adam Lippin, Co-Founder and CEO of Cuddlist.comFor more details, visit http://www.stereo-typed.com/episode30/Support Stereo-Typed by becoming a member of the Sugar Daddy Collective http://www.patreon.com/stereotyped/

Stereo-Typed
ST 29 - Sexual Incompatibility

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2017 59:54


AuntieSocial and her hubby are celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary. It hasn't always been wedded bliss, especially when it comes to their sex lives together. In this episode, she recounts some of her past interviews, looks at some research (there is always research), and shares her personal experiences (there is a lot of sharing) with overcoming sexual incompatibility. Having mismatched sex drives and desires need not be the end of a long-term relationship. Links to the articles, studies, and full episodes can be found at http://www.stereo-typed.com/episode29/

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Stereo-Typed
ST 28/FP 3 - Menophilia with MrRedWing

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2017 60:01


"MrRedWing" joins Camille to talk about one of his loves, menophilia. This is the love of menstrual blood and is still an activity that is quite taboo in our culture (and many cultures around the world). In fact, some religions don't just consider menstruation as dirty, but they believe that the woman herself is dirty and in need of ritual cleansing after her period.For more information about menophilia and the roots of this taboo, visit http://www.stereo-typed.com/episode28/ or http://www.stereo-typed.com/fetish3/

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Fetish Philes 3 - Menophilia with MrRedWing

Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2017 60:00


"MrRedWing" joins Camille to talk about one of his loves, menophilia. This is the love of menstrual blood and is still an activity that is quite taboo in our culture (and many cultures around the world). In fact, some religions don't just consider menstruation as dirty, but they believe that the woman herself is dirty and in need of ritual cleansing after her period.For more information about menophilia and the roots of this taboo, visit http://www.stereo-typed.com/fetish3/

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ST 27 - Cuckoldry and Sexual Shame

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2017 60:01


Dr David Ley joins Camille to discuss Consensual or Conemporary Cuckoldry. Our conversation goes into his research into this nonmonogamous subculture, as detailed in his 2009 book, Insatiable Wives.We also discuss sexual shame and his YouTube series #NoMoreSexualShame, which shares a goal with Stereo-Typed, to reduce the stigma surrounding sexuality.The Internet Deities, Trump, or possibly Russia didn't want us talking about these topics, so we kept having connectivity issues. Fortunately, I was able to pull the conversation together anyways! My apologies to those who downloaded the episode before I could replace it.For more details about Dr Ley, the topic, and a link to the YouTube series, please visit http://www.stereo-typed.com/episode27/

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ST 25/FP 2 - Cock and Ball Torture (CBT) with BearsPixie

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2017 60:00


BearsPixie joins me to discuss her joy of CBT - Cock and Ball Torture.As with all things kink and sexual, our experiences are very personal. This episode introduces us to CBT through Pixie's experiences. Your mileage may vary.If you would like to share your experiences with a fetish or other "love" (philia), be it kink, sexual, or otherwise, please contact me at auntiesocial@stereo-typed.com and we can discuss your interest.This episode is also available on the show's webpage at the following links:http://www.stereo-typed.com/episode25/http://www.stereo-typed.com/fetish2/

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Fetish Philes 2 - CBT with BearsPixie

Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2017 60:00


BearsPixie joins me to discuss her joy of CBT - Cock and Ball Torture.As with all things kink and sexual, our experiences are very personal. This episode introduces us to CBT through Pixie's experiences. Your mileage may vary.If you would like to share your experiences with a fetish or other "love" (philia), be it kink, sexual, or otherwise, please contact me at auntiesocial@stereo-typed.com and we can discuss your interest.http://www.tpok.network/podcast/fp-2/

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ST 22/FP 1 - Pageism with ThePageist

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2017 60:01


For the inaugural episode of The Fetish Philes, Camille Beaujolie is joined by the host of fellow TPOK Radio podcast, Paige from The Pageist. We are talking about Pageism, a non-sexual, service-oriented power exchange dynamic based on Victorian times.For more information about The Pageist, visit www.thepageist.com. For the full promo for this episode, including links, visit http://www.tpok.network/podcast/fp-1/

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Fetish Philes 1 - Pageism with ThePageist

Stereo-Typed's Fetish Philes

Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2017 60:01


For the inaugural episode of The Fetish Philes, Camille Beaujolie is joined by the host of fellow TPOK Radio podcast, Paige from The Pageist. We are talking about Pageism, a non-sexual, service-oriented power exchange dynamic based on Victorian times.For more information about The Pageist, visit www.thepageist.com. For the full promo for this episode, including links, visit http://www.tpok.network/podcast/fp-1/

Stereo-Typed
ST 20 - Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse and Assault

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2017 62:11


Don Wright, Founder and Executive Director of BC Society for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse, joined me to discuss some of the misconceptions surrounding sexual abuse of boys and men, including some of the causes of shame, confusion and guilt that may prevent someone from reporting their assault or seeking help. We also discussed the scarcity of programs that are dedicated to male survivors.For more information, as well as links to the BCSMSSA website, visit http://www.stereo-typed.com/episode20/

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ST 19 - Love Drugs

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2017 61:25


Ethicist Brian D. Earp joins us to talk about the medicalization of love - love drugs, as well as anti-love drugs. Is it possible? If so, should we?For more information about the topic and guest, please visit http://www.stereo-typed.com/episode19/

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ST 18 - What Is Love?

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2017 62:00


Is romantic love a biological function brought on by millennia of evolutionary change? Or, is it a product of social construction? Maybe it is a bit of both? Carrie Jenkins, philosopher and professor at UBC will be joining AuntieSocial to have a metaphysical discussion about just what this romantic love thing is … and what it could be.For more information about Carrie Jenkins and the topic of Episode 18, visit http://www.stereo-typed.com/episode18/

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Brooklyn's Journey
Brooklyn's Journey 08 - A Major Decision

Brooklyn's Journey

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2017 16:01


Brooklyn has come to a major life decision in her life.We have started a GoFundMe project to fund TPOK Radio. We hope you want to help us out!https://www.gofundme.com/tpok-radio

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 045 - We Welcome The Pageist Podcast to TPOK Radio!

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2017 53:03


On this week's show Rainbow and I welcome The Pageist from The Pageist Podcast to our show and to TPOK Radio! The Pageist becomes the 7th show to our Network and we are very proud to have her join our team!The Pageist is a podcast, which focuses on reviews of books about BDSM, sex education, ethical non-monogamy, sex work, gender issues, the science of sex–you name it. I also have authors of those sorts of books, as well as other people with experience in kink or sex education, on the show to talk about a range of kinky, sexy things.The Pageist is also a website with reviews of various media aimed at the kink and sex positive community. Media reviewed includes films, apps, games, websites, sex toy reviewers and podcasts. Want to support the station?https://www.gofundme.com/tpok-radio

Stereo-Typed
ST 17 - Sex, Depression and Relationships

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2017 63:17


Sex and depression are two taboo subjects. We need to talk about them, especially where they intersect.Depression affects many of us. And, it could affect our sex lives in a variety of ways. If you have "sexual side effects" due to depression, know that you are not alone.JoEllen Notte joins me to talk about her research into sex and depression. You can read more about her, including her writings about this topic on her award winning website, http://www.redheadbedhead.com/For more information about this topic and JoEllen Notte, please visit http://www.stereo-typed.com/episode17/

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Brooklyn's Journey
Brooklyn's Journey 07 - Inspiration

Brooklyn's Journey

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2017 17:39


How do you motivate yourself? What inspires you? We hear about how Brooklyn motivates herself in her life and for TPOK Radio.

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ST 16 - Decoding Your Kink

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2017 65:33


I had the opportunity to speak with Galen Fous MTP (twice) about his book, Decoding Your Kink, and how to release your sexual creature from the bonds of shame and fear.We had to abort the live broadcast due to internet issues. We connected again and recorded our discussion, which is available here.You can read more about Galen Fous (and take his "Discovering your Personal Erotic Myth" survey) at http://www.galenfous.com/A more extensive biography and show description is available at www.stereo-typed.com/episode16/Thank you for your patience. Please visit the Stereo-Typed Patreon page at www.patreon.com/stereotyped/ to join my Sugar Daddy Collective.

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ST 15 - Digisexuality

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2017 61:14


There's an app for that!In this episode, we explore the intersection of advanced technology and sexual experience. We will discuss what is meant by "digisexuality" and what some of the potential implications are on how we relate to one another.My guest is Dr. Neil McArthur, Ph.D., an Associate Professor of Philosophy and Director of the Centre for Professional and Applied Ethics, University of Manitoba. For more information on the topic, please visit the episode page at http://www.stereo-typed.com/ep15/If you like this show and want to support its ongoing development and research, please visit the campaign at http://www.patreon.com/stereotyped/

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ST Mini 1 - Politics

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2017 30:41


I received an email from someone advising me that I should not be talking about politics on social media because I am a "sex podcaster". I really do not understand that rationale. I am a human who is concerned with the political atmosphere around me, nationally and globally. I have every right to speak about politics. And, I have a platform available to me. I have never been apolitical. If they, as they say, have been following me on FetLife, they know full well that I write about politics. If they are a listener of this show, they know that politics is one of the areas that I will address and have addressed.This is my call to action. Become active. Become involved. Let your voice be heard and stand against those who wish to restrict our rights and freedoms.I mention some links in my political rant. Instead of listing them all here, I have added them to my "Statement on Politics" on the show's blog.http://www.stereo-typed.com/statement-on-politics/

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ST 14 - The Porn Genome Project

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2017 60:50


What is pornography? There is a lot of talk about its effects on individuals and society, but what exactly makes something pornographic?In this episode, Dr. Taylor Kohut joins AuntieSocial to discuss the Porn Genome Project, which sets out to answer that question. For additional information please visit:http://www.stereo-typed.com/ep14/Porn Genome Project on Indiegogohttp://www.indiegogo.com/projects/porn-genome-project-app-science#/Stereo-Typed on Patreonhttp://www.patreon.com/stereotyped

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ST 13 - The 4Cs of BDSM

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2016 61:03


In this episode, we will be having a philosophical discussion. We will talk about the existing negotiation frameworks, or mottos, and explore the 4C's, which I believe covers all of the areas that we, as BDSM practitioners, need to consider when negotiating BDSM play and relationships ... Caring, Communication, Consent and Caution.Joining me is Emily Prior, one of the co-authors of the paper entitled "From "SSC" and "RACK" to the "4Cs": Introducing a new Framework for Negotiating BDSM Participation."Guest Bio:Emily Prior is the Executive Director of the Center for Positive Sexuality. Since 1996, she has been teaching formal and informal classes about a variety of sexuality-related topics, including BDSM lifestyle, Polyamory lifestyle, Gender, Introductory and Advanced Human Sexuality Courses for Psychology and Sociology departments at universities, Teen sexuality topics for Planned Parenthood Los Angeles and others. Emily has studied human sexuality and gender topics from a variety of perspectives, including Psychology, Sociology, and Anthropology.Additional Information can be found at www.stereo-typed.com/ep-13/

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 040 - The Final TPOK Episode

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2016 60:13


Well the time has come to say goodbye. This show will be my last episode and The People of Kink will be retiring. I have loved so many moments on this show and I will share some of them with you on Sunday. TPOK changed my life in so many positive ways. I don't want to do the show just to put out content. I want to do it to help people and I think I have done my part.TPOK Radio will continue on and all of the current shows will continue to put out great content and you may hear from me as a guest on their shows from time to time. I will be around and fully supporting them. It's just time for me to do other things.

Stereo-Typed
ST 11 - Give til it hurts

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2016 60:26


It sounds like the motto of a masochistic, service-oriented, submissive, doesn't it? And, it could very well be, but it isn't what we'll be talking about on Episode 11 of Stereo-typed. I'll be talking about charity … and to representatives of a charity that is well known on FetLife.On Wednesday, November 30th, I will be talking to the co-founders of a registered charity that raises funds to support animal causes (our original furry friends), through innovative means, such as an on-line auction with kinky items donated by members of our local and on-line communities.  For the purposes of this show, we will be calling them "Kinksters for Critters" (KfC) (more on that later).  If you are a member of FetLife, you can visit their profile (in the links below).Why am I doing an episode on KfC? What does that have to do with stereotypes or assumptions or anything else that is related to this show? Well, I can give you a number of reasons … and they might go as follows:1.Our money is perceived as dirty, or less green, than non-kink, non-adult companies and/or organizations … banks and fundraisers are happy to take our money, as long as it isn't tainted with our sexual interests (i.e., we donate anonymously, or in the name of a "social club"). If you want more information about this, I would like to direct your attention to a writing/rant by phi-is-me (the link is down below).2.There is a presumption that kinky people are all about sex, or kink, or sex and kink, but kink doesn't exist in a bubble. I have said that before, and I will, undoubtedly, say it again. As a kinky person, I have interests outside of kink. There are some people who believe that non-kinky subjects don't belong on FetLife, or a kink-centred radio show … but politics and charitable causes are a part of our lives, and as a kinky person, that means they are a part of my life.3.I can talk about "Community in action" and that the success of the KfC auctions on FetLife is proof of what can be accomplished when we come together to work towards a common, and worthy, goal.I can easily use any, or all, of these as a justification for why this topic fits into the show's focus … but they are just that, justifications. I could rant about the unjust views of kinksters in mainstream society, I could rave about the positive influence that Fetlebrity status and frequent trips to K&P can have on a cause, but I don't want to. I am, quite frankly, politic'd-out at the moment. Instead, I want to focus on the spirit of giving … the importance of charity and of helping those in need.This is a charity that I have supported, and continue to support. It is a charity that was founded by kinksters, just like you and me, because they saw a need and wanted to do something good in this world. In the past, I have helped acquire items for their auction, I have promoted the organization, I have donated money to the cause. As Crazy_Heart has said in the past, this is my soapbox … and, if you will grant me the indulgence, I want to use it to raise awareness of Kinksters for Critters and their up-coming auction, which is filled with kinky products and services, some of which can only be found in the auction.On November 30th, I will be joined by NaughtyHotty and liquiderotica, the co-founders of Kinksters for Critters. Who knows, maybe Mr_Cocky will pop up for an appearance. Oh, wait, this is a radio show, and he is a silent-type, so you won't be able to see him if he does. Hey, a girl can dream about having more cocky in her life, can't she? But, seriously, if you scroll through the pictures on Mr. Cocky's profile on FetLife, you will see thata) he is a huge supporter of the charity, and
b) dick pics can be creative and fun.Of course, Crazy_Heart will be working away in the background in the "production booth" and she will likely be in the company of her new critter pal, Bubba.We will be talking about the history of the organization, some of their success stories, and most importantly, how you can help make a difference in the lives of some critters who need some loving.There is one thing that I need to make a note of … remember my justification #1? Well, that is real. For some reason a charitable organization that does great work outside of kink circles can be adversely affected if they are associated with adult activities. Because of this reality, we will not be using the actual name of the charity on the show (if you want that information, it is available on FetLife). Instead, we will be referring to it as "Kinksters For Critters". Remember, even though kink has become a mainstream topic, not everyone who is involved with kink can be out about it … and it is very important that we protect and maintain the vanilla appearance of the organization, because the work they do is vanilla.And, as an added incentive to listen in on the episode, there will be a pair of Mr. Cocky mugs given to one lucky listener.  Details of the contest will be posted on a separate entry. If you are joining us for the live broadcast, participating in the live chat could earn you a second ballot!About Kinksters for CrittersA silent promise made to Ginger (a beloved cat) when he died and brought to reality with the help of some wonderful people.KfC is the kink-related name for a small, grass-roots non-profit corporation that supports animal rescues, shelters, sanctuaries and foundations across the globe working to save the lives of needy critters.Since its inception in 2014, the charity has raised over $95,000 and donated 100% of the proceeds to more than 200 animal charities worldwide. A feat attributed to the charity's amazing supporters.While KfC's goal of helping animals is purely vanilla, their fundraising efforts aren't always. Featuring kink-related products and services from generous artisans, service providers, toymakers and more, a bi-annual auction is conducted on FetLife.KfC's next auction begins December 9th at 8am PST and concludes December 11th at 2pm PST. All of the bidding is conducted online, which makes supporting a good cause, while gaining the opportunity to buy some pretty awesome merchandise, super easy. (The items that are up for bid in the auction can be seen by browsing the pictures on the charity's profile on FetLife).Relevant Links: (there is more information available on the FetLife discussion thread)•Kinksters for Critters: http://kinkstersforcritters.com/(Your source for Mr. Cocky mugs, because who doesn't want to have a little bit of cocky in the morning?)•FetLife profile: https://fetlife.com/users/2847496 (requires membership on FetLife to view the contents)•"Let Adults be Adult" by Oh, that Phi - https://ohthatphi.wordpress.com/2016/05/28/let-adults-be-adult-rant/ (Linked with permission)•FetLife Discussion for this episode: https://fetlife.com/groups/144186/group_posts/10069515 - as noted above, we are keeping a wall between the kinky and vanilla activities of the organization - if you are a member of FetLife, you can find out more information there.TPOK Radio is a live radio station for kinky people by kinky people. The title sponsor is The Church of Sinvention. Visit their site and enter the "TPOK10" code to receive a 10% discount. Please support them so they will continue to support us.

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ST 10 - Dear Sydney University

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2016 59:50


NOTE: The audio file has been fixed. I rerecorded the missing piece and stitched them together.If you have spent more than an hour, hell a few minutes, on an adult forum, such as FetLife, Adult Friend Finder, or even Fabswingers, you have seen the warning. One variation reads as follows:> WARNING: To Sydney University and any other institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - YOU DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. (I suggest the rest of you post this notice.)This *warning* has always given me a chuckle. In some cases, when there was very little else on a profile, seeing it there was enough to move my interest elsewhere. Mainly because it is a silly disclaimer that carries absolutely zero weight. I'm a curious sort. You probably know that about me. So ... I decided to try to find the origins of this boilerplate warning. You know, I wanted to find *Patient Zero* ... the study that started it all. In this case, *zero* is quite apt.But, there is a lot more *wrong* than that ... On Wednesday, November 16, I'm going to talk about this *warning*. I'm also going to talk about research. Why? Because I fucking love research. I love reading it, I love doing it, I love that it is actually being done ... So *Sydney University* (which is actually USyd, by the way) and any other institution or individuals who are using this site for research projects, if you are listening, please study me ... just ask for my permission before you use anything that could identify me.---Relevant reading:Studies:- http://www.nhs.uk/news/2013/05May/Pages/Fans-of-bondage-and-S-M-report-better-mental-health.aspx- http://www.harvardprostateknowledge.org/does-frequent-ejaculation-help-ward-off-prostate-cancer- http://www.europeanurology.com/article/S0302-2838(16)00377-8/pdf/ejaculation-frequency-and-risk-of-prostate-cancer-updated-results-with-an-additional-decade-of-follow-up- http://time.com/4511726/bdsm-sex-flow-state-mindfulness/Other sites:- http://www.lehmiller.com/sex-studies/- http://www.scienceofbdsm.com/homeSome posts about the disclaimer:- http://www.thedailyflogger.com/university-surveys-fetlife-users-about-disclaimers/- https://www.bondagediaries.info/2014/07/13/dear-fetlife-users-ditch-that-ridiculous-warning-already/- http://www.domme-chronicles.com/2011/08/hey-sydney-university-here-it-is-come-get-it

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 033 - So you wanna be a Slut?

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2016 60:07


You say you want to explore your sexuality? This is the show for you! Part of being kinky for some of us is exploring more than one sexual partner and sometimes more than one at time. Perhaps you want to explore your being bi or just be used until you can't take it anymore. Whatever your fantasies are we will talk about on this show.

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TPOK Live! 032 - Tams from Kink Geek Podcast

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2016 82:57


Tonight we go back to our roots and tell the kinky history of Tams from the Kink Geek Podcast here on TPOK Radio. Tams is half of a partnership on the show and in real life with Step. Listen tonight LIVE and here what has made Tams would she is today!

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ST 8 - Dancing with your Shadow

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Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2016 60:09


Long Title: Dancing with your Shadow; Fantasy, Reality and points in betweenIn this episode, I am joined by Dr. Michael Aaron, author of the up-coming book, Modern Sexuality: The Truth About Sex and Relationships to talk about sexual fantasies and our shadow self.This episode will be all about fantasies … where the hell do our sexual predilections come from? When and how do we bring some of them into reality? Or, should we should be actualizing that dark idea at all? We will discuss normativity, overcoming social shame and what the Mental Health Bible (The DSM 5) says about being a sick fucker. We will also be talking about his up-coming book, which is due to hit bookstores on October 16th. (It is available for pre-order now).I had the opportunity to read an ARC (Advance Reading Copy) of the book and I thoroughly enjoyed it. It explores the history of sexual oppression and the science of sexuality, with the goal of aiding his readers to overcome the shame that is often associated with having an alternative sexual identity. He blends scientific and anecdotal evidence in accessible (lay-person) language coupled with concrete, up-to-date, information to help readers open themselves to their authentic sexual selves.Guest BioMichael Aaron, Ph.D., LCSW, CST, is a nationally certified sex therapist and clinical sexologist, specializing in working with sexual minorities, alternative/kink/polyamory lifestyles, sex workers, discordant desire and infidelity in couples, sexual dysfunction and anxiety, gender and orientation confusion, and sexual compulsivity. He holds a PhD in Clinical Sexology from the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists, is certified as a Sex Therapist by the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) and is a Diplomate of the American Board of Sexology. He has been interviewed in numerous media outlets, online podcasts, and magazines, such as the New York Times, Wall St Journal, CNN, Reuters, Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, Women’sHealth, Men’s Fitness and Vice.com. He is a member of the Advisory Board of Men’s Fitness Magazine.  Dr. Aaron's upcoming book, Modern Sexuality: The Truth About Sex and Relationships, is scheduled to be released October 16, 2016. You can read more about him at:His website: Dr. Michael Aaron NYC http://www.drmichaelaaronnyc.comPsychology Today blog: Standard Deviations http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/standard-deviations His book, Modern Sexuality: The Truth About Sex and Relationships (ISBN-13: 978-1442253216), is available for pre-order at Amazon.http://amzn.to/2cGARqL

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ST 7 - Crazy Hearts Journey to Trans

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2016 70:04


I interview Crazy Heart and talk about his decision to become trans and what the future might bring for her. Crazy Heart also goes by the female name of Brooklynn

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ST 6 - Tell Me A Story

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2016 60:52


Imagine, if you will, that you are planning on having a scene with someone. What elements are you considering? Your toys? Your techniques? Where and when? Perhaps, you are contemplating adding psychological elements to your play. These are all important considerations, but they are merely the mechanics.Tonight, I am joined by Anton Fulmen (Sharp|Edges on FetLife). Together, we will explore how you can craft a memorable experience by telling a story through your play. After all, it is called a scene for a reason.Guest Bio:Anton Fulmen is a kink and sexuality educator in the San Francisco Bay Area. He teaches human sexuality as a member of the San Francisco Sex Information training staff, is an officer of the Society of Janus, and leads workshops on D/s and consent. He is the author of The Heart of Dominance, a guide to practicing consensual dominance. He can be reached through FetLife, Facebook, or his blog, Consensual Dominance.Sharp|Edges (FetLife):https://fetlife.com/users/34547The Heart of Dominance (Facebook):https://www.facebook.com/heartofdominance/Consensual Dominance (blog):http://www.consensualdominance.com/http://consensualdominance.net/?p=87The Heart of Dominance (book):https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01F8C7L2Y/ref=cm_sw_su_dp

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ST 5 - When People You Know Do Bad Things

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2016 60:39


This episode has nothing to do with BDSM. It was inspired by recent events involving individuals in the Toronto, Ontario and Edmonton, Alberta scenes, but there is nothing kinky about the allegations. The accusations are of a heinous abuse of power and exploitation of individuals who cannot consent. One thing that sets what we do apart from abuse is consent. So, if the allegations are true, kink isn't a factor. While some may believe that this is an isolated matter, it is not. People want to believe that it cannot happen to them, in their communities, or involving people they know. I certainly never thought that anything of this magnitude would hit so close to home. But child pornography rings and gruesome murders aren't the only things that can shake our faith in humanity. Murder, rape, exploitation and abuse are all deeds that humans are capable of, and where there are humans, there is a chance that your life may be affected.The details of the crime are not the subject matter of this episode. The guilt or innocence of the accused persons is also immaterial. What is pertinent is the feeling of betrayal and resultant self-doubt that comes in the wake of the news that someone who we trusted and respected could do something like this. What does this say about us? As a community, as a sub-culture, as human beings? In communities across the globe, we have had to come face to face with the reality that there are people who do bad things walking amongst us. In some cases, they operate on the fringes of our society, but sometimes, they ARE one of us. How could we not see them for what they are? How can we trust our own instincts and gut feelings about others when we welcomed and embraced someone who has been accused of monstrous acts? ---Guest BioDr. Laura Coleman (aka a_wild_woman on FetLife) is retired from private practice as a Marriage, Family and Child Therapist, Board Certified Counsellor and Certified Clinical Mental Health Counsellor. She now works in her secure online office as a Life Coach, Life Skills Educator and Certified Hypnotist. As a therapist, she specialized in the therapeutic treatment of adults and children who experienced abuse and/or traumatic life events. She developed an out patient treatment program for adults who were abused as children and successfully ran this program for many years.After retirement, Dr. Coleman has become a prolific writer on topics such as trauma recovery, BDSM safety, protecting yourself from predators, personal growth, self esteem, changing your personal patterns, and improving your relationships. Her writings can be found on FetLife and on her websites (linked below). She has presented at her local dungeon, *The Mark*, on topics such as identifying predators and learning to say “no”. As an educator, she led many discussions for *The Mark*’s Kinky Roundtable and presented at a local MAsT group meeting.---Links:Episode Discussion (FetLife): https://fetlife.com/groups/144186/group_posts/9656606a_wild_woman (FetLife): https://fetlife.com/users/3509963Dr. Laura Hypnosis & Life Coaching: https://drlaurahypnosisandlifecoaching.wordpress.comRelevant reading/resources (all of these are also available at Stereo-Typed.com)How to Help When Your BDSM Community Has an Abuse Crisis: https://fetlife.com/users/3509963/posts/3983824Finding Appropriate-For-You Mental Health Care: https://fetlife.com/users/3509963/posts/3988453How to Decide if You Need Counseling after a Trauma: https://fetlife.com/users/3509963/posts/3991850Believing in Monsters:https://playfullyirreverent.wordpress.com/2016/08/26/believing-in-monsters/

Stereo-Typed
ST 4 - Getting Real

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2016 60:30


I first discovered Justin when his blog was showcased as the sex blogger of the month for June 2016 by Kinkly.com (they have also showcased The People of Kink as a top sex podcast). The first post that caught my eye was the video log shown below. If you watch it, you will immediately understand why I wanted to get to know him … and why I think you should get to know him as well.Justin is a blogger/vlogger (from the UK) on all things related to sex. He is also a writer of smut (something I know a thing or two about). We will be talking about how to do "real BDSM", how he got into blogging/vlogging, and that dirty job that someone has to do … sex toy reviews. We will also talk about why he started recording what he knows about sex.You can find his posts, videos and reviews on his website: http://www.justindecerous.com/

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 024 - 24/7 "Myth or Real?"

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2016 59:06


This week on TPOK Live we talk to rainbow who is the host of "The Rainbow Connection on TPOK Radio about being a slave and whether 24/7 is something that is possible. If it is how does she see it and how does she and her Master make it work?

Stereo-Typed
ST 2 - The N Word

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2016 62:09


It probably isn't the one you are thinking. There is a new n-word that has risen through the ranks to be the ultimate slur … narcissist. But, is being narcissistic really the evil that it is portrayed to be? Are we really experiencing a Narcissism Epidemic, as some have asserted? Or, is narcissism, like many other psychological terms, simply misunderstood?The vilification of narcissism has been in the works for several decades and has now reached the point where it is the accusation of choice. If someone promotes their ideas, or themselves, they are a narcissist. If they feel that they are special, they are a narcissist.I had been planning on doing an episode on narcissism and selfishness later, but in light of recent allegations against Crazy Heart (I know, he wants the topic dropped, but I feel that it needs to be discussed), I decided to move it forward.On July 27th, please join me live at 7 pm eastern (UTC-5) to discuss the following:History of narcissism in psychoanalytical thought (From Freud, Kohut, Kernberg, to the modern idea that we are in a Narcissism Epidemic)The myth of Narcissus and Echo (huh? Did you forget about Echo? That is actually apt, according to legend)The need (or drive) to feel specialThe narcissism spectrumSelfishness, selflessness and servitudeThe hypocritical views, or double standards, of egotism and service, from my observations on social media, and to some extent, within our local communities.The need for assertive language, which is dependant on expression of one's self (I feel, I need, I want), in order to maintain healthy relationships and communicate effectively.For this episode, I will be drawing primarily from two sources, as well as a variety of other resources:Malkin, C. (n.d.), Rethinking narcissism: The bad - and surprising good - about feeling special.Select essays from Rand, A., & Branden, N. (1964). The virtue of selfishness, a new concept of egoism. New York: New American Library.

Stereo-Typed
ST 1 - I believe

Stereo-Typed

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2016 61:10


Our beliefs dictate our experience in the world. They underpin our morals and ethics. They determine how we interact with others. And, they contribute to how we perceive our reality.Stereo-Typed will be all about exploring and challenging beliefs. The things we believe about ourselves, what others believe about us and what we believe about other kinksters.In the inaugural episode, I will be sharing some of my thoughts on beliefs. Not specific beliefs, but the actual beast that is belief.How do we come to believe something?How do our beliefs affect our reality?And, why is it necessary to challenge the validity of the things we have accepted to be truth?I'll also be discussing my observation that the fetish lifestyle, especially as it is presented on FetLife, has strong similarities to indoctrination which isn't strictly confined to organized religion.

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 020 - Consent Violations - How do we handle them? - A SPECIAL JOINT SHOW

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2016 94:17


Three different shows on TPOK Radio come together to discuss this very important and difficult topic. TPOK Live, The 3rd Rail and Stereo Typed will all be on hand with all of it’s hosts. The discussion panel will include Preacher Bear, AuntieSocial, Rubee Tuesday and Crazy Heart.We have often said on TPOK Radio that we would not shy away from the difficult conversations and we think that consent violations can be right at the top of that list. This topic can be a polarizing one and can lead to drama and confusion within our lifestyle. We at TPOK Radio believe that as a community we need to open conversations and raise the level of debate. We need to hear what people have to say and be open to all ideas. This is not an easy topic to talk about as there are many aspects and levels of consent violation. What is a violation to one person is completely ok to another. Some people like their boundaries pushed past what they negotiated and for others it’s a line that should never be crossed. There are several aspects to every case and scenario.Not only do we need to talk about the consent violators we also need to talk about what happens when someone is falsely accused of a consent violation. How do we determine who is in the right? What were the circumstances? None of this is easy to talk about but we have to have these conversations. There are two sides to every story and we rarely get the full story from either side of the argument. If I am an organizer how do I collect this information? Do you have a plan in place to handle complaints?I like the [Broken Stair][http://pervocracy.blogspot.ca/2012/06/missing-stair.html] analogy for this subject. We all know that it’s there and we probably should try to repair the problem but in many ways it’s easier to just warn people about it and never really tackle the problem. We think that it’s not really our issue unless it directly effects us as an individual. This is very flawed thinking. We understand that nobody really wants to talk about this but if it happens to you on either side of the consent violation you will be happy that discussions happened and that mechanisms were put into place to handle the situation in the best way possible.We also need to discuss what happens when someone is guilty of a consent violation. Is every consent violation considered to be on the same level? What does a consent violation look like? What do we do if it is proven that someone was falsely accused of a violation? How do we help either party after the fact? Who polices our community? What mechanisms to we put into place to prevent violations? How do we educate people? Where do people find this information to be educated?

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TPOK Live!
TPOK 185 - AuntieSocial

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2016 67:36


AuntieSocial is someone who stands up for what she believes in. She is not afraid to have her voice heard and is more than happy to discuss and debate her opinions and writings. It is these exact traits that we at TPOK look for in a host. You can listen to AuntieSocial's live show "Stereo-Typed" on TPOK Radio starting in July.

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TPOK Live!
TPOK 181 - Cypress

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2016 60:58


Cypress is the Master to Rainbow who was on the show last week. This couple are both hosts on TPOK Radio. Cypress is a man who has really thought thru his kink. He knows what he wants. He stands by his convictions and goes about this business and doesn't worry about what others think. He's passionate and smart. He is also loyal to his chosen family and pack. We are lucky to have him on TPOK Radio.

TPOK Live!
TPOK Mini 062 - Being Fluid, Cross Dressing and more

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2016 17:16


This minicast was inspired by a writing that I recently did on my being gender fluid. https://fetlife.com/users/1359/posts/3749348. I wrote this piece because of listening to the latest show on The Rainbow Connection on TPOK Radio. Rainbow talked to a trans friend about their journey and the struggles and triumphs of being trans. It gave me the strength to make an important decision to not be worried about what others think and to know that dressing does not make me weak or any less than any other person out there. I hope you enjoy as I poured my heart into this one!

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 014 - Approaching a Dominant

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2016 60:08


Alice is back with us on TPOK Radio again. Alice is known for putting the fun back into kink. One of the biggest complaints that Dom/mmes have is how people approach them for for play or more. Alice is going to help us to understand what she likes to see and hear. She will help guide you to use better methods to find more success.

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TPOK Live!
TPOK 180 - Rainbow

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2016 62:17


We talk to the host of the new show on TPOK Radio called "The Rainbow Connection" hosted by Rainbow. She is a smart, well spoken person and slave. She gets who she is and where she is going. In a kink world that is going faster and faster Rainbow has taken her time in everything that she does. She enjoys the moment and knows that when things are right she will move forward and knows exactly how to communicate it. Next week we will interview her Master Cypress.

TPOK Live!
TPOK Live! 013 - MBE Sincinnati Organizers

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2016 59:52


This week on the show we have the organizers of MBE Cincinnati. This is a full weekend event that TPOK Radio will be attending. If you love rope and rigging you will like this interview. We are going to hear about the space that they use for rope events and educating their local community too. We are very excited about attending this event and broadcasting LIVE from it!

TPOK Live!
TPOK Mini 058 - Consent - Let's Talk

TPOK Live!

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2016 17:35


This is a continuation of a our topic on TPOK Live on TPOK Radio on Sunday night. I work thru some more of my thoughts on the subject.Counterfeit Kink Communities, Surprise it's all a Power Trip with Eva Wilde - Authentic communities are integral to keep people safe.What makes them counterfeit and how do we make them authentic?The safety of Kinksters is at risk because we fail to be more than a collective of people with similar interests and goals. We fail to hold each other accountable, we fail in supporting each other, and in creating an environment where people feel safe enough to be authentic.Read the blog: http://www.sexfortherest.com/blogpost/2016/3/creating-authentic-kink-community

Kink Clinic
The People of Kink 34 - Lady Severine

Kink Clinic

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2013 61:46


Lady Severine was interviewed in 2013 for The People of Kink. That interview is included here for easy reference.Lady Severine has made the most of her 8 years in the scene. She hit the ground running at 18; starting a munch within her first year, and was training as a Pro Domme at 21. Identifying as a pansexual hedonist, it's not that she's not indecisive, she's just open to every decadent experience there is.

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