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This week I interview Vivian Vibes. She a podcaster, and sex worker since she was 19. We discuss her becoming a podcaster and what she loves about having a podcast. Then we discuss her start in sex work as a 19 year old Pro Domme. She tells the story of her 1st session which went horribly wrong. We discuss the varies things she did in the sex work world from sex chat to solo content on onlyfans. We unpack her breaking into the porn business and more. Plus she explains what she mean by being " The Ultimate Adventure Girlfriend". Want More Content? 2 ways to get it 1. Subscribe my Savage Smoke Sessions on Spotify ( $4.99 a month) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/smokethisova/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 2. Become A Premium Smoker Subscribe to the Premium Smoke Room On Loyalfans ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.loyalfans.com/PremiumSmokeRoom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want More Content. Become a Premium Smoker ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠for 5 Premium Podcasts , Special Events and More $25.99 a month Sponsored By Hottest Adult Mag Online ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://eroticismmagazine.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Hottest Adult Film Company ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠blusherotica.com/videos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Best Scented Candles On The Net ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠thekinkycandleco.etsy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Queen Of Law ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/dividenqueen/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Porn/ Music/ Social Media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://allmylinks.com/pornrapstar⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get The Merch: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.bonfire.com/store/s-t-o-merch-store/⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Guest: Vivian Vibes https://x.com/viviansgotvibes vivianvibes.com

Mistress Demi joins us today to talk about some of the things you might not think about when you serve a Mistress, Femdom and/or Goddess.What does the submissive get out of the D/s relationship?In previous episodes, we've talked a lot about the physical benefits of BDSM: stress relief, relaxation after subspace, endorphin release from pain play, etc.  Today, we switch things up to have a conversation about benefits you might not have thought of.Goddess Demi brings up a great point. A lot of her submissives are in dominant roles in the rest of their life so submission becomes a break from having to be in charge.Some of the topics include:Submission as a way to let go of life's responsibilitiesHow working with a Pro Domme can allow the sub to explore all kinds of things (sexual and non sexual) without judgment.Personal growth because the submissive is a reflection of his or her Domme and the sub is therefore working to make his/her Mistress proudGreater intimacy with the primacy partner (wife or girlfriend).Learning the importance of communication in BDSM, carries over into other areas of life.Using BDSM kink relationships to break away from shame, guilt and the pressures of trying to conform.  This is especially true for feminization and sissy training.This wide-ranging conversation about kink and the intersection of BDSM and trust, vulnerability and discovering a sense of belonging.Goddess Demi's blog:  Sensual Cock Tease Mistress Olivia's blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with RoxiRazorblade,  a Trans poly non-binary lifestyle kinkster and Pro Domme about her journey over a Gin Punte. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechRing, "Where health meets pleasure" at http://myfirmtech.com using the code "KINKY" to save 15%. Put a ring on it!Support the showListen on Podurama https://podurama.com

Even if you've called phone sex before, calling a new service, or a new Femdom Mistress can be daunting. What happens? What does she do? What should you do? There are so many questions. And, those who have never called a distance domination service are even more nervous! We get it and since there are a bunch of new fans to our BDSM kink podcast, we want to give you some tips for how to prepare for your session.Today's podcast gives you a basic understanding of how distance domination works.What happens when you call LDW Group?What are some of the different types of long distance BDSM relationships?How does kink play work when Mistress and pet aren't in the same physical play space?Are you shy?Are you nervous?This podcast episode will help you understand a bit about what to expect, how to ask for what you want, and then how to physically get ready for your session.As usual, the conversation goes on safari with stories, anecdotes and more. Enjoy this peek behind the curtain of the business of distance domination and femdom phone sex.OH and you don't have to be a submissive to call! As you can tell from this podcast, we love to have intelligent conversations with smart, sexy people (ie YOU!)Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

What do you do when you have kink desires and you can't get involved in the kink community or go, in person, to a Pro Domme? For many people, the solution is finding an online Mistress or someone who specializes in online domination.The ladies first talk about different places where someone might find a Femdom. Unless you happen to ‘run across' a Dominant Woman in the wild, so to speak, we tend to be in the kink community, Pro Domme spaces, or available for online Domination. Those categories are not mutually exclusive; many ladies belong to more than one group. What are some of the benefits of having an online Mistress? Your hosts are both with LDW Group femdom phone sex so our experience is only with this elite company. This episode talks about some of the unique benefits of what we do:PrivacyThe caller controls his or her anonymity by choosing what to share.That anonymity allows for a discrete exploration of erotic fantasiesPlaying with a professional means an affair gone wrong won't blow up your lifeSpur of the moment sessionsKeeping the various aspects of your life separateMistress Erika mentions a pet peeve of hers and Ms Olivia agrees! Listen to behind the scenes stories and learn about phone sex reviews, Mistress recommendations and more.Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyMistress recommendation form: My Perfect Mistress

This episode I talk with Ms. Draven , she is a Pro Domme and we discuss BDSM, master/slave dynamic. She talks about her start in the lifestyle and she tell some stories about some of her subs. We discuss the marketing of being a Dominatrix and more. Want More Content? 2 ways to get it 1. Subscribe my Savage Smoke Sessions on Spotify ( $4.99 a month) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/smokethisova/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 2. Become A Premium Smoker Subscribe to the Premium Smoke Room On Loyalfans ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.loyalfans.com/PremiumSmokeRoom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want More Content. Become a Premium Smoker ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠for 5 Premium Podcasts , Special Events and More $25.99 a month Sponsored By Hottest Adult Mag Online ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://eroticismmagazine.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Hottest Adult Film Company ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠blusherotica.com/videos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Best Scented Candles On The Net ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠thekinkycandleco.etsy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Queen Of Law ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/dividenqueen/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Porn/ Music/ Social Media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://allmylinks.com/pornrapstar⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get The Merch: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.bonfire.com/store/s-t-o-merch-store/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Guest: Ms. Draven https://x.com/yesmsdraven

We hear all your secrets and sexual fantasies. A lot of our callers fantasize about sex with a transwoman. Today's episode explores this.Topics include:How popular is the sex with a transwoman fantasy?Many men ask, am I straight if I want to suck the cock of a transwoman?To start off, a quick overview of names for transwomen and how to be respectful with the terms you use to talk about these people. For example, some of the outdated and terms are:She maleTrannyTransvestiteT girlTranssexualThis conversation covers:Gender identity, sexual orientation, sexual desiresWhat to call genitalia? What is cis gender?BDSM, erotic humiliation and submission.The role of a Femdom or Dominant woman who says, you will suck her cock for me.You'll hear quotes from men who want to suck the cock of a transwoman, a transwoman who experienced her first sexual experience with another transwoman, and so much more.Do YOU have a fantasy of being with a transwoman?What is your fantasy?Have you done this in person? What happened?We want to hear everything!Mistress Oliviai's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyOur free adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire

This episode is inspired by a blog post written by our friend and fellow Mistress, Ms Demi.Listen in as three Pro Domme's talk about the submissives in our lives. What do Femdoms have to say about power exchange and those who need to submit to powerful, dominant women?Mistress Olivia kicks off the conversation with a quote by Mistress Demi:“Submission isn't merely about obeying orders or bending to another's will. It's a profound journey into the depths of one's own desires. Learning to trust, to yield, and to find freedom in the embrace of another's dominance.”Topics include:BDSM and trust between the Dominant and the submissive.The difference between a fantasy roleplay BDSM scene and wanting to be a lifestyle submissive.The importance of BDSM communication.How to do BDSM negotiation of needs, desires, and limits.What are the five words that you should never say to a Femdom?The answer might really surprise you.The ladies dispel the myth that submissives are weak or damaged. Submissives must have power in order for there to be power exchange.Is submission a gift to the Domme?What do these women think of those who submit?Lots of insight into the submissive journey from the perspective of three Femdoms (who are always, of course, right about everything LOL).Mistress Demi's blog: Sensual Cock TeaseMs Demi's blog post that inspired this episode: What Does It Mean To Be Submissive?Mistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyMistress Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistress

We hear from a lot of subs who are worried about topping from the bottom.That's a BDSM term that means a submissive who flips the power dynamic in a way that is disrespectful, rude or otherwise irritating to the Dominant. Some subs hear that and worry that they are topping from the bottom if they make ANY requests of the Domme. We don't want you to worry so this episode is all about how to communicate your needs to your Femdom Mistress.This is inspired by someone who wants to know how to request a Pro Domme to be creative without acting like he is trying to be “in charge” of the session.  Topics include: What is topping from the bottom?Some relationship dynamics and other issues to consider when deciding what is bad BDSM behavior from a submissive.Insight into the role of vulnerability and trust in BDSM power exchange relationships.How to communicate with a Dominatrix or Femdom MistressDifferences in communication with a Pro Domme versus an unpaid kink player that you meet in BDSM circles.Differences between fantasy submission and power exchange.Your Femdom hosts give examples of how to communicate your desires in appropriate ways.Remember communication, trust and honesty about what you need are the most important aspects of any BDSM relationship. This podcast will give you some of the tools to feel confident that you are not topping from the bottom.Mistress Olivia's blog Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Eden Evil is a giantess professional domme and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when she wound up becoming a domme, how being a domme in the lifestyle is different from being a professional domme and her experiences in both those worlds, where she trained to be a domme at first, how and why she uses all her tools on herself first, why she loves causing pain so much, the baby domme boot camp she attended and what she learned there and why she recommends taking the course, how the clients in her professional life differ from the clients she meets in the lifestyle, where she meets her clients and how she vets them and what goes down when she dommes them, what is off the table for her and why boundaries are so important, how to play properly with pro-dommes plus a whole lot more. If you want to contact her: call_me_eden_evil@proton.me Her instagram: https://www.instagram.com/call_me_eden_evil/ **To see pics of EDEN EVIL plus see pics of my other female guests + gain access to my PRIVATE Discord channel where people get super XX naughty + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://butterwellness.com/ Get 20% OFF your Butter Wellness prostate massager, use code STRICTLY https://www.dipseastories.com/strictlyanon Hear the hottest stories on Dipsea! 30 day FREE TRIA https://bluechew.com/ Get 15% OFF Blewchew plus first month FREE use code STRICTLYANON http://www.shamelesscare.com/strictly You can get one year supply of Doxypep for just $109 https://viiahemp.com/ Have great sleep AND great sex with VIIA Hemp Gummies used code: STRICTLYANON for 15% off Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We continue our conversation with author Jane Boon. Jane's first novel Edge Play is about an investment banker who becomes a Pro Domme via her Pro Domme friend Erika … and this second book focuses on Erika. Both books show women coming into their own personal power. Jane Boon tells a lively, interesting story and even without our favorite Femdom and BDSM themes, this is a very fun read. This interview episode focuses on the themes of: lust, power and money.Why does a smart, capable woman become a Femdom?What attracts someone to BDSM and kink power exchange situations?For the submissive, why would someone want to be on the receiving end of BDSM play?How can a submissive service his Femdom outside of the kink?What is submissive service?Can BDSM be a kind of therapy for some people?What does it mean to call Femdom scenes, performance art?This is a conversation about extremes of emotions interspersed with personal experiences of three very smart women.  Enjoy! And, get the book! Here's the Amazon Author page for Jane Boon.Jane Boon's websiteMistress Olivia's website Experienced MistressMistress Erika's website Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Money, power and sex … specifically kinky sex … are the themes of today's episode with author Jane Boon. Jane is the author of the Femdom themed novel Edge Play and today she's here to talk about her newest novel Bold Strokes.We highly recommend both of Jane's books. In fact, if you're submissive, here's your order: “Read Edge Play and Bold Strokes by Jane Boon and report back.” Even if you're not submissive, do yourself a favor and read them. You're welcome.Edge Play is a novel about Amy, an investment banker turned Dominatrix. The novel is set amongst the greed and arrogance of Wall Street elites and the 2008 financial crash. One of the main themes is a young woman coming into her own power after being mentored by her best friend who is an Art Gallery owner and Pro Domme.  In the new novel, Bold Strokes, the settings of the art world, high finance and even higher intensity BDSM scenes lets the reader get to know Erika, the gallery owner / Pro Domme. How did she become who she is and what happened to her during the same timeframe as the first book told from Amy's perspective.Some of the themes are:How does a woman become a Femdom?What is the mindset of someone who is a Dominatrix?Who are some of the men that love to be tormented by the power, beauty and cruelty of a Dominant woman?Negotiation and consent in BDSM relationshipsSex work, sex workers and the inherent imbalance of power between powerful men and young women.This is a wonderful novel and the kink makes it even more fun. Bold Strokes is an exciting read with unforgettable characters. Here's the Amazon Author page for Jane Boon.Jane Boon's websiteMistress Olivia's website Experienced MistressMistress Erika's website Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Subscriber-only episodeDear subs,What if the key to a thriving BDSM relationship lies in uncovering the depths of trust, communication, and mutual respect? Join me, Chastity Queen, as I unpack the nuanced world of respectful and thoughtful submissive males. We'll challenge the traditional views by emphasizing the need for honesty and transparency, especially when distinguishing between relationship-oriented and fetish-focused engagements. By tackling the issues of past negative experiences and psychological trauma, we highlight the importance of putting the Domme's pleasure first while advocating for self-awareness and clear communication.Bold statement here: Transitioning from a professional dominatrix relationship to a lifestyle dominatrix relationship can upend the power dynamics in unexpected ways. We dive into the emotional and psychological toll this shift can take, exploring the imbalance that often occurs when a dom meets a sub's needs without reciprocation. We'll discuss the societal dynamics that shape how we treat wives versus Dommes. This chapter is a call to recognize the value of mutual respect and the give-and-take necessary for a healthy dom-sub relationship.Consistency, balance, and genuine consideration are the bedrocks of any fulfilling BDSM relationship. Many men engage primarily when driven by desire, neglecting the emotional and practical needs of their partners. We'll explore the necessity of mutual support, regular check-ins, and treating partners with kindness and generosity. As October approaches, it's a perfect time to reflect on these critical aspects, ensuring that your interactions are wise, loving, and never fall short in any relationship. Tune in for eye-opening perspectives and practical advice that can enhance your current or future BDSM relationships.Chastity Queen xoTry to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It's a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com LOVE SHOP 15% OFF Sex Toys & MORE Get 15% OFF sex toys, lingerie and more, using PROMO CODE: CHASTITY QUEEN Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE15% OFF Shoe Freaks-PROMO%CHASTITYQUEEN GET your 15% OFF ANYTHING when you buy SEXY Shoes, heels & Stripper Boots at Shoe Freaks Canada!www.SMBSM.com - Chastity Cages 10% OFFGet reasonably priced chastity cages, chastity belts, chastity wear, + chastity accessories.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.https://www.linktr.ee/ChastityQUEEN

Miss Cassie returns to talk about self-bondage and rope play.Ms Erika starts off the conversation with a question about how Distance Domination Femdoms can incorporate self bondage into BDSM sessions over the phone.  Miss Cassie points out that a long distance Mistress can talk someone through a tie or use other things to create the feelings of being bound, tied, restrained or otherwise controlled by her.The ladies discuss how vivid descriptions can combine with some simple physical actions to create the feelings, emotions, and sensations of a bondage scene. Miss Cassie points out that descriptions are important even during in-person sessions in a Dominatrix Dungeon.Things to consider:What is your self bondage safety plan?Importance of a safe word in BDSM play in person on onlineHigh protocol versus freely speaking during a sceneIdeas and questions from listeners:Using remote controlled sex toys during online domination sessionsUsing a timed lock box for keys similar to a lock box used for chastity keysPredicament play safetyEdge play and special issues involved in BDSM negotiationKeeping safety scissors nearby just in case you need themSpecial considerations for submissive men who are in a relationship with a vanilla woman:How to avoid leaving marksWhat causes marks and how long various marks last, for example, tying up the cock and balls (CBT) can leave small broken capillaries.Marks will depend on the scene, the tie of the ropes and the physical fitness of the submissive.What can someone use for self bondage? Examples include:Sweatband, headband or scrunchieShoe laces¼ inch diameter rope Paracord Zone mummification with plastic wrapOf course, you'll hear stories from this elite Pro Domme and personal stories from all three Femdoms. Miss Cassie's website:  Miss Cassie Loves RopeMistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Today's guest is rope bondage expert Miss Cassie. This is the first part of a 2 part interview with one of the best riggers in BDSM today. This lifestyle Femdom has insights into lots of aspects of BDSM, kink play, leather history and so much more.You'll hear:** Miss Cassie's personal kink journey - from submissive to Femdom** Leather tradition in BDSM** Lineage in BDSM leather family traditionMistress Olivia takes us on safari with a question about polyamory, cheating and sexual or emotional partners. BDSM education continues with:** training involved in BDSM ** psychology of kink** what a practiced Dominant will ask a prospective play partner** BDSM negotiations, safe words and edge play** safety and kink** sub drop and aftercare** Differences between Eastern Shibari and Western bondage techniques** Cultural history of Shibari in Japan as a prison capture system** How to avoid or deal with circulatory issues in rope bondage** Dealing with expectations and the difference between fantasy and realityThis is a lively conversation with three strong, powerful women. Enjoy and check out all the websites:Miss Cassie's website:  Miss Cassie Loves RopeMistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyLeather Archives and Museum

Stroke-a-thon was a huge hit when we did it last time. There were lots of people who missed it and they got really sad. So, of course, the ladies usuallty make you WAIT … and wait and wait … yes, we do love our tease and denial sessions ... but now, back by popular demand, the cock stroking challenge of Stroke-a-thon.Mistress Erika starts the podcast off with an outline of the event. Basically it's something like 20 sexy ladies teasing you and, this time, TRYING to get you to cum and you are trying desperately to NOT cum until you are the last cock standing. Why? First, because it's a fun challenge and second, there are THREE free phone sex prizes if you can withstand our sexy voices telling you to cum. First prize is 60 minutes free with the Mistress of your choice.  If that's not incentive I don't know what is.Here's a write up of what you need to do to be part of this epic edging Stroke-a-thon event:The ladies talk about what you need to do to enter the Stroke-a-thon and then bring in some sexy Mistress friends to give you some special insights:** Why are these Femdoms so excited by this event?** Why do we WANT you to cum?** Get special tricks for edging longer.** Learn how to increase your stroking stamina.** Get a preview of some of our favorite masturbation techniques.In this episode you'll hear from:The Scarlet Mistress  Mistress Harper  Ms Nadia Mistress BeckyGoddess SkylarMistress DemiGoddess FionaRemember there is a lot of conversation about the Stroke-a-thon in our free adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. Are you ready?  Remember if you need private lessons for edging, gooning, roleplay and all sort of fun, kinky adventures, just get in touch!Mistress Olivia    Mistress Erika   

In episode 96 of On the Whorizon, SWCEO founder and host Melrose Michaels interviews Mx Tomie, an NYC-based Taiwanese Dominatrix on Pro-Domme work, boundaries and the NYC BDSM scene.  They discuss Mx Tomie's journey into Domme work, client dynamics, the importance of setting boundaries, and the BDSM community in New York.  Mx Tomie shares her methods for creating personalized experiences for clients, the challenges of transitioning to digital work, and how to sustainably balance a demanding professional and personal life. This episode provides valuable insights for aspiring and current Dominatrixes and anyone interested in the BDSM scene. FEATURED GUEST → ⁠Mx Tomie

In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with professional cuddler and dominatrix Bee, who is also the co-founder of Temple in Chicago, a shibari and aerial performer, and the partner of previous repeat guest Physics (Episode 45: Yoni Massage vs Squirting, Episode 46: BDSM, DDLG and Shibari). In this wide-ranging conversation, the four of them touch on everything from DDLG dynamics to overcoming vulva shame through yoni gazing.Temple: The feminine energy vs the masculine energy, creating a space for women to feel vulnerable enough to have those transformational experiences. Events at Temple from yoni gazing to massage to Littles Parties. (1:26)Overcoming vulnerabilities about our vulvas by yoni gazing. Admiring, acknowledging and affirming your vulva. Porn star pussy vs real life.  Uneven labia. (11:09)Professional cuddling: platonic touch therapy.  The importance of touch. What does a cuddling session entail? How can a professional cuddler maintain safety? (21:08)Therapeutic Kink as a mode of healing and helping others work through trauma through professional domming. Do all clients have something to work through? (31:08)DDLG (Daddy Dom Little Girl) Dynamics: how being a “little” allows Bee to be in her dominant energy during the day. (39:11)Switchy Domme: Power dynamics and differentiating between personal pleasure practices and experiences vs. work experiences. (43:16)Shibari: what does it do for the people practicing it? Showmanship with suspension combined with aerial skills and squirting. How to prep for squirting: regular hydration! (46:09)Upside down squirting: wow factors and showmanship in erotic shibari performance. (50:47)Links:Find Bee on Fetlife: LilHoneyBeeBuzzFind Physics on Fetlife: PhysicsWebsites: CuddlesByBee.comThe TempleWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

How does one transition from a strict religious upbringing to becoming a professional dominant in the BDSM world? Join me, Chastity Queen, as I share my unique journey of personal and sexual evolution. This episode promises to offer you practical advice on how to connect with the BDSM community and explore your fetishes. I dive into my transformation from an extreme vanilla background to embracing the diverse and complex world of BDSM, with an emphasis on open-mindedness and challenging societal norms. By sharing my story, I hope to inspire you to question your own biases and embrace a broader spectrum of sexual expression.Discover how online communities like FetLife can be a game-changer for your sexual self-discovery. Platforms that offer free access to connect with like-minded individuals are essential tools for those exploring their fetishes. I recount my own experience of overcoming a conservative upbringing and finding solace in these communities. We also touch on the positive impact of subscriptions, not only for the creators but for the subscribers who get enriched content, creating a space of mutual support and growth. Keeping an open mind and respectfully engaging with different lifestyles can enrich your journey, just as it has enriched mine. Connect with me on FetLife UNDER CHASTITY-QUEEN for further discussions and use the promo code CHASTITYQUEEN for15% OFF at Locked In Lust for added benefits on chastity products. Tune in for a comprehensive exploration of BDSM, personal growth, and the ever-expanding world of sexual expression.Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com LOVE SHOP 15% OFF Sex Toys & MORE Get 15% OFF sex toys, lingerie and more, using PROMO CODE: CHASTITY QUEEN Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE15% OFF Shoe Freaks-PROMO%CHASTITYQUEEN GET your 15% OFF ANYTHING when you buy SEXY Shoes, heels & Stripper Boots at Shoe Freaks Canada!www.SMBSM.com - Chastity Cages 10% OFFGet reasonably priced chastity cages, chastity belts, chastity wear, + chastity accessories.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the Show.https://www.linktr.ee/ChastityQUEEN

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) about her work as a sex educator.  She's known for holding the World Record for Highest Volume Squirted, but this conversation steers away from that (after first touching on why squirting can be annoying) and dives into her work as a fetish wrestler (aka "play fighting" using jiu jitsu moves). No frills sex education: what does that mean? Working the social media algorithm as a sex educator. All the courses Lola Jean has on her website from choking to masturbation to play fighting, and more. (1:18)How did Lola Jean get to where she is as a sex educator, squirting icon and fetish wrestler? (6:58)ENM (Ethical Non Monogamy): differentiating non-monogamy, just “being single”, and situationships. Figuring out what you want by dating all types of couples and relationship dynamics. Sex and love addicts anonymous (SLAA). Attachment styles. (9:27)Squirting: how does it feel to be known as a squirter? Fetishizing and red flags.  What should we know about squirting? When trying to do it, figure out WHY you're trying to do it. Who is it for? (17:30)Broad vs specific response squirting. (22:04)Why squirting actually sucks. (25:24)Fetish Wrestling: Different types of choking (Fantasy Choke, Blood Choke, Air Choke). (29:51)What does a fetish wrestling session look like? Power dynamics? Vetting process? Types of fetish wrestling sessions: fantasy, semi-competitive, full competitive, lift and carry.  (35:53)What is the psychology behind fetish wrestling? What's in it for both the provider and the client? (41:56)Sex workers' self care after sessions. (44:30)Where to find Lola Jean:Website: lolajean.comSeven Days of DominationWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

ASK A PRODOMME!Conversation with Geraecka Lyonns about:The cathartic possibilities in BDSM play.Architecting humiliation play.Releasing shame and guilt through punishment scenes.Pain as a pathway towards rebalancing the psyche.Why powerful men seek out takedown scenes.  The importance of Containment.The freedom to explore inside of Containment.The breakdown of Containment in man-woman relating.The fatigue in the modern women due to lack of Containment.The difficulty in the modern woman embodying her sensuality while she is un-contained.Men building their Containment through facing challenges and doing hard work.The drawback in men outsourcing their warrior energy.Reversing self-absorption to build Containment and reduce anxiety.Containment as prerequisite for healing in any modality.D/s dynamic as a superb invitation for exploring polarity.****************GERAECKA'S INFO : https://www.themarscontract.com/****************OM'S UPCOMING BDSM TRAININGS:PRIESTESS TRAINING - JERSEY CITY; JUNE 22 : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-masteryTANTRA MEETS BDSM - AUSTRIA; AUGUST 16 : https://omrupani.org/tantra-bdsmBDSM FUNDAMENTALS & SCENE PLAY TRAINING : https://omrupani.org/bdsm-trainingwww.OmRupani.org

The conversation starts out with the enduring fascination with “bad girls” - the women who are non-traditional, often sex workers or women that claim their social and/or sexual autonomy. Jane talks about the role of sex and sex workers in shaping the culture … especially in terms of fetish wear going mainstream with leather and latex being featured in couture lines. Fashion is never “only” about covering the body. The ladies all talk about how their personal and professional experiences with kink have changed them.Conversation includes:** the Paradox of BDSM: pain is pleasure, bondage is freedom, etc.** dominant or powerful women who tend to have a thirst for knowledge and want to grow as people** the very particular skills of a Pro Domme, whether as an in person Dominatrix or Distance Domination (and phone sex).** the relationship between submissive and Dominant** consent ** merging the personal and professional in erotic spaces** the role of money - in society, in relationships, as a symbol of power** and so much more.This episode uses quotes from the BDSM book, Edge Play to explore the nuances of culture, societal roles, and more. Edge Play by Jane Boonhttps://www.janeboon.com/Twitter:  @JaneEBoonMistress Olivia's blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika's blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

How in the world did a PhD in industrial engineering end up on The Weekly Hot Spot talking about BDSM and the world of Pro Dommes? In addition to professional experience in engineering and journalism, today's guest, Jane Boon, is the author of Edge Play.This episode description is actually difficult to write because what do you say about someone who is able to effortlessly blend the worlds of unethical investment banking bro culture and the BDSM learning curve of an accidental Pro Domme?  Both cultures deliver a fantastic ass fucking but only the Femdoms do it after getting consent. Jane jokes that her novel Edge Play is Fifty Shades of Grey meets The Big Short.Edge Play is a fantastic read – it's an exciting financial thriller - add in the “learning to be a Dominatrix” element and you have one of the best fiction books ever written about Femdom, kink culture and one element of sex work. This novel about an accidental Pro Domme rings true for the Femdom hosts. The conversation explores profound shifts in understanding about men, power, control, what it means to be a woman in an area where men dominate, what it means to be a woman who dominates men and the evolution of a woman who comes into her own power.Enjoy this fascinating conversation with Jane Boon, a brilliant woman who embraces the motto “more please.”Get. The. Book. ….. now.Edge Play by Jane Boonhttps://www.janeboon.com/Twitter:  @JaneEBoonMistress Olivia's blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika's blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

In this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster interview Pro Domme Lexy about her experience in pony play, the latex fetish and breath play over a Benedictine D. O. M. Support the showListen on Podurama https://podurama.com

This episode takes you inside the world of professional Female Domination. Mistress Mia Darque returns to The Weekly Hot Spot podcast with stories and insights from the largest gathering of Pro Domme's in the US, DomCon LA.What is a Femdom and who decides what is “appropriate” behavior for a Femdom? Did you know there's actually some controversy around the answer to that question? Yep, there is. Wait until you hear the stories.Mistress Mia brings up the differences in fan behavior of those going to an AVN show and a kink convention.  AVN is the American Adult Video industry trade show.Like any convention, DomCon has breakout sessions. Many of these classes are for industry only, meaning they are geared to the business side of the business of being a Dominatrix.  The ladies talk about some of these BDSM industry classes including:How to balance self and service as a Pro Domme. Ms Olivia points out the paradox of being in charge as a Pro Domme but also being in service to the submissive client. How does that work and how do these Femdoms do this in their own professional and personal lives?There's a great conversation about collaring a submissive:Does a Pro Domme collar submissive clients? When does a Femdom put a collar on someone?Have the collaring protocols changed over time? What are some of the obligations for the Mistress who collars someone?There are lots of stories, laughter and so much more.DomCon LA:  May 29 - June 2nd, 2024DomCon New Orleans:  Oct. 10 - Oct. 13, 2024https://domcon.com/sessions/newMistress Mia Darque:  https://www.justsayred.com/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Have you been to a BDSM kink conference? Do you want to go but are worried that you won't know anyone? We have a solution, be a volunteer! This episode is inspired by a conversation with Sissy Bruna who wants to be a service submissive to a Femdom Mistress. There is one of the largest gatherings of Femdoms and Pro Dommes happening in LA at the end of May.This episode is all about how to be a volunteer submissive at DomCon LA. DomCon board member Mistress Mia Darque joins the ladies to answer questions about being a volunteer. You don't need to be submissive to volunteer (Ms Olivia is a regular volunteer for lots of groups), but this can be the perfect role for any service submissive.As far as volunteering for DomCon, there are a bunch of specific questions and topics:Who should consider being a volunteer at DomCon (or any BDSM convention)?How are volunteers picked at DomCon?What are some of the volunteer positions? And do volunteers need special skills?What are the hours for a kink convention volunteer?What does a volunteer wear? Advice on managing the expectations of the volunteer. What are some of the benefits of being a volunteer? Does a volunteer get a discount or other perks?In the conversation about volunteering for DomCon LA, the ladies talk about all sorts of other things. As always, you'll hear a mix of behind-the-scenes information, useful advice for communicating with a Femdom and random things that catch the attention of these smart, sexy women.DomCon LA is Wednesday May 29 - Sunday June 2ndhttps://domcon.com/sessions/newMistress Mia Darque:  https://www.justsayred.com/Mistress Olivia:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika:   https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Pro Domme, sex worker, Musician and activist, Savannah Sly, about her latest project, the New Moon Giving Circle, her advocacy group for sex worker rrights, over a Hendrix gin infused adult tea.  Please visit and support the giving circle. https://www.grapevine.org/giving-circle/PdWhezl/New-Moon-Giving-CircleThe Kinky Cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the worlds most powerful saddle style sex machine. Save $50 using this link http://motorbunny.com/?ref=KINKYSupport the showListen on Podurama https://podurama.com

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In the latest episode of the Empowerography Podcast, my guest is Juliette Karaman. Juliette Karaman- van Schaardenburg is a hypnotherapist, mentor, and guide to visionaries and leaders who are ready to change their lives and the world in a big way. She is an author on relationships, trauma, healing, spirituality, sex and intimacy, and body shame. She specializes in the reinvention of the most intimate relationship in life...The one you have with yourself! With over 15 years of experience as a healer, Coach, Mentor, interior designer, Senco, Pro Domme, and Dakini, Juliette delivers a unique transmission blending the body, psyche, and mystical. Clients regain confidence in themselves, their bodies, and their essence, coming Home to themselves in all the ways. In this episode we discuss Juliette's Jewels, the 4 elements, the power of no and scrumptiousness.   Website - https://feelfullyyou.com/ IG - https://www.instagram.com/juliettekaraman FB - https://www.facebook.com/juliette.karamanvanschaardenburg Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-scrumptious-woman/id1695579682 FREEBIE - https://feelfullyyou.com/feel/ - Coupon - FEEL   In this episode you will learn: 1. A practice you can implement immediately to help foster self-love within. 2. What the FOUR ELEMENTS are and how they can help get you out of the monkey mind. 3. What is TANTRA.   "What for me is really a non-negotiable is take 90 seconds, three times a day. Take a breath, notice what's going on. And then going back to four elements." - 00:03:47 "The basis of both erotic blueprint and orgasm meditation, which is a completely different practice is to connect, which is what I think if we talk about tantra and if we think about connecting about intimacy."- 00:27:38 "Live life, fully, Feel it. Feel all your emotions, body sensations, really get in touch with who it is that you are, how you impact the world, and stop playing small." - 00:55:13   THE WORLD needs to hear your message and your story. Don't deny the world of that gift within you that the universe has gave to you. Someone out there needs to hear your story because it will support them in feeling hope, inspired and even transformed. Want to discover how I help my clients get out of their own way, show up and confidently share their message? I would like to invite you to check out my FREE MASTERCLASS REPLAY Start Your Own Podcast: Idea to Implementation Watch Here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H7iItDG4qaI

In the latest episode of the Empowerography Podcast, my guest is Juliette Karaman. Juliette Karaman- van Schaardenburg is a hypnotherapist, mentor, and guide to visionaries and leaders who are ready to change their lives and the world in a big way. She is an author on relationships, trauma, healing, spirituality, sex and intimacy, and body shame. She specializes in the reinvention of the most intimate relationship in life...The one you have with yourself! With over 15 years of experience as a healer, Coach, Mentor, interior designer, Senco, Pro Domme, and Dakini, Juliette delivers a unique transmission blending the body, psyche, and mystical. Clients regain confidence in themselves, their bodies, and their essence, coming Home to themselves in all the ways. In this episode we discuss Juliette's Jewels, the 4 elements, the power of no and scrumptiousness.   Website - https://feelfullyyou.com/ IG - https://www.instagram.com/juliettekaraman FB - https://www.facebook.com/juliette.karamanvanschaardenburg Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-scrumptious-woman/id1695579682 FREEBIE - https://feelfullyyou.com/feel/ - Coupon - FEEL   In this episode you will learn: 1. A practice you can implement immediately to help foster self-love within. 2. What the FOUR ELEMENTS are and how they can help get you out of the monkey mind. 3. What is TANTRA.   "What for me is really a non-negotiable is take 90 seconds, three times a day. Take a breath, notice what's going on. And then going back to four elements." - 00:03:47 "The basis of both erotic blueprint and orgasm meditation, which is a completely different practice is to connect, which is what I think if we talk about tantra and if we think about connecting about intimacy."- 00:27:38 "Live life, fully, Feel it. Feel all your emotions, body sensations, really get in touch with who it is that you are, how you impact the world, and stop playing small." - 00:55:13   THE WORLD needs to hear your message and your story. Don't deny the world of that gift within you that the universe has gave to you. Someone out there needs to hear your story because it will support them in feeling hope, inspired and even transformed. Want to discover how I help my clients get out of their own way, show up and confidently share their message? I would like to invite you to check out my FREE MASTERCLASS REPLAY Start Your Own Podcast: Idea to Implementation Watch Here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H7iItDG4qaI

Mistress Montana owns several BDSM dungeons. Today's episode is a real conversation about business, kink and the business of kink.What goes into setting up a fetish play space?How does a Pro Domme choose a location for a dungeon?Ms Erika asks about one location, and this prompts a conversation about so-called conservative middle America and kink on the down low. Topics include:How to talk to a Pro Domme.Dos and don'ts of arranging a session with a Dominatrix.The difference between out of session professionalism and in-session play.How a Femdom will (or will not) choose who she will see in a session.What happens when you arrive for your session.How much training, education, and experience go into making an elite Femdom Mistress?What kinds of BDSM furniture, kink toys and other items are important for a DungeonWho goes to a Pro Domme and why. (hint: Alpha males are the best submissives.).Mistress Montana: https://mistressmontana.com/mistress-montana/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

The hosts have a candid conversation with Mistress Montana about BDSM, kink, being a Pro Domme, and more.Ms Erika asks about the origin of the name Mistress Montana. This leads to a conversation about becoming a Pro Domme.Mistress Montana started in the adult industry as a phone sex operator. Her callers were the ones that introduced her to Femdom. Ms Montana talks about learning all about BDSM, kink, and male submission. The more she learned about the psychology of BDSM, the more she realized that being the Domme is the perfect fit for her personality. This leads to a conversation about the smart, successful men who are sexual submissives and want to give up control to a Dominant Woman.Topics include:Small penis humiliation and a surprising comment about some men who are into SPH.Sensual sadismThe paradox of pain as pleasurePhysical pain like CBT and emotional pain like cuckoldingEdge play and kinkThe mind as the most important sex organThe symbiotic relationship between a Domme and her subMyths about why someone goes to a Pro Dommeand more.Mistress Montana: https://mistressmontana.com/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Are you curious about going to a Pro Domme? How do you approach a Dominatrix? What do you say and how do you interact with a Mistress?Have you ever wondered why a Mistress would open her own Femdom play space? What's it like to set up and run a BDSM kink dungeon? Your Femdom hosts get answers to these questions and so much more as they talk with Mistress Rogue, owner of The Dom House in Florida.What does the general public get wrong about sex work and sex workers?Why is it important that these Femdoms dispel myths about being Pro Dommes?Other topics include:** The social stigma around sex and sex work.** The stigma from the non-pro BDSM kink community towards those who get paid for Domination skills and services** The differences between a full service provider like an escort and a Dominatrix.** Whether having sex with a submissive makes the Femdom less dominant.Since our guest is the HeadMistress and owner of the Dom House we (and listeners) want to know:** How did you decide to open a BDSM Dungeon?** How much BDSM furniture and kink toys do you need to have a full Dungeon?** What is your favorite piece of kink furniture?** How do you handle privacy for clients and discretion about your neighbors?Do's and don'ts of contacting a Pro Domme** DO be vulnerable and open to the woman in charge** DO read the website before contacting so you don't ask questions about things you can easily find out if you read her website.** DO be respectful in your communication** Have patience; don't get upset if you don't get an immediate answer.** Don't send a wall of text in all caps, tons of unpaid emails or act entitled. ** DO be prepared to talk with your Domme when she asks: what is your safe word, what are your boundaries, do you want me to push your boundaries, what's your goal, how do you want to feel, and more.This episode is a peek behind the scenes of the lives of these Femdoms. Enjoy!

This conversation with Lady Vivus is so fun and edifying! While she came to me originally to promote the Pleasure Bound tour of presenting workshops in a bunch of places across the US, we had such a great time chatting and vibing that I’m sure you will enjoy it even though The Pleasure Bound Tour, may sadly be over or almost over by the time you hear this. But we go on to discuss some of the many classes she offers, a little bit about her Pro Domme work, and more! We talk about:Sissyfication, why some trans people don’t approve of it Boot Blacking, and the love of leather Hucow play, which has lots of intricacies and is something I didn’t even know existedCreating Community Accessibility The epidemic of loneliness affecting people, especially cis menProfessional Domination To learn more about Lady V please visit her webpage: https://ladyvivus.com/ She is Lady_Vivus on Fetlife Also, be sure to learn more about Sex Positive World at: https://www.sexpositiveworld.org/ Sex Positive Portland is at: https://www.sexpositiveportland.org/ You can also listen to my interview with the Executive Director, Jamie Cawelti which is Episode 42: https://earthlydesire.com/podcast/episode-42-jamie-cawelti-of-sex-positive-world/ Please visit the podcast website at whatexcitesus.com Or the Patreon at patreon.com/whatexcitesusPlease Rate and Review the podcast in all the apps you have! This would mean so much to me! Thank you!!!

She is an internationally traveled fetish model who has been published in multiple adult books & magazines including Penthouse's July/August 2015 issue. The Pittsburgh native first started doing bondage videos in 2008, but quickly accumulated quite a bit of experience in multiple genres, making her one of the top performers in the industry. She is Nyxon and she joins HiThereCatsuit on her favorite holiday for a great look back at her career and a look ahead at her rejoining the ProDomme community.

In this episode, I sit down with Mx Tomie, a pro-domme. She shares her journey to becoming a pro, what it was like working at a dungeon, and how to be a good client. It was amazing to see someone's life like this, and I'm sure you will feel the same. EPISODE SPONSORS: HUD app CONNECT WITH MX TOMIE: Instagram THEMES DISCUSSED: Being a pro-domme Etiquette for seeing a sex worker Earliest erotic memories Working at a dungeon Vetting clients Coming out on social media SEGGS TALK RADIO: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Free Community for Women

Listen, I know its been a minute but this episode was TOO good to leave in my drafts from a few months ago. Have you wanted to know the secrets of mindblowing anal sex, surrender and what it means to call in more connectedness during penetration? Tune into this 15 min riff on everything NOT practical you need to know to create the most delicious anal sex of your life.  

Re-releasing this juicy eppy of The Labia Lounge because it's still bloody great!In this episode I have the mysterious Miss K, a pro Domme, in The Labia Lounge where she lets me ask her ALL the juicy questions that we're dying to know!I delve into the world of kink, BDSM, pro domme work, the ins and outs of having a live-in house slave, and all the wild and fascinating aspects of living this lifestyle. Miss K divulges some seriously nitty gritty details that I know you'll be beside yourself over, and is ever so generous with her knowledge, experience and personal stories in this eppy. We chat about how she balances this lifestyle with her personal life and marriage, s*x and kink parties, the s*x-olympics, f*ck-fest, the importance of aftercare and ground-rules, ethical Domme practices, her arrangement with her house pet/slave, how to get into this sort of thing if you're newly wanting to explore, and all sorts of other elements of the kink world! It's a bloody ripper!!!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf And if you're interested in exploring Domme work and BDSM yourself, the resources Miss K shared are here for you too:- Coaching by Kali- The Kink Academy- MZ Kim - Kink- Wicked Alliance Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week I interview Princess Ivy. My Premium Smokers know her from Guest hosting on "Chronicals Of A Spit Queen " From the Premium Smoke Room (subscribe). She comes to the Lounge to discuss her career as a Pro Domme and content creator. We discuss her first Session in person and what it means to be a Pro Domme. We discuss what ABDL is and how kinky people really are in this world. We discuss her solo content and would she ever jump into the Porn world. She talks about being a switch and more as we get to know Princess Ivy Watch The Video Episode On Spotify Want More Content. Become a Premium Smoker ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://anchor.fm/smokethisova/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for 5 Premium Podcasts and Special episodes ($4.99 a month) Sponsored By ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://lsswirl.com/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://eroticismmagazine.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.xsitebunny.com/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠blusherotica.com/videos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Proud Member of The G.W. District Black Podcast Network ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.shopgwdistrict.com/pages/podcast-network⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Porn/ Music/ Social Media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://allmylinks.com/pornrapstar⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get The Merch: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.bonfire.com/store/s-t-o-merch-store/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Guest: Princess Ivy https://twitter.com/SluttyBabyIvy allmylinks.com/itz-ivy-bitch --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/smokethisova/message

Ms Erika has a confession. She's never been to a BDSM convention. Today's guest, Mistress Mia Darque, joins the ladies to talk about DomCon New Orleans.People come from all over the world for this kink event. DomCon is the premier professional and lifestyle domination convention and is now in it's 20th year. If you're looking for a kink event with lots of Femdoms and Pro Dommes, this is “the” convention for you.The goal of DomCon events is to bring the professional and lifestyle communities together. Miss Mia is on the Board of DomCon and shares what you can expect at a BDSM convention. She calls the New Orleans DomCon a fetishy, friendly family reunion.Worried you won't know anyone? Don't be. There are lots of events to get you mingling with others. Miss Mia explains what happens at the Lock and Key mixer and other events. You'll also hear:** tips on BDSM convention etiquette. ** how to talk to a Domme** pros and cons of pick up play at a fetish event.** behind the scenes of running a successful Pro Domme business** challenges for people of color in BDSM spaces. DomCon: https://domcon.com/sessions/newMistress Mia Darque: https://www.justsayred.com/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika love answering your questions.A common question is something along the lines of “How do I find a Pro Domme?” What people really want to know is how to talk with a Pro Domme: how to communicate submissive desires, ask for kink scenes, and basically how to “not fuck it up.”The ladies are thrilled to have Mistress Mia Darque as our guest.Miss Mia calls herself the 6'3" Oklahoma Amazon, mature BBW and someone who has been in the BDSM and kink scenes for more than 20 years.** Find out about Miss Mia's personal journey in kink. ** Listen to our reactions to judgement by some lifestyle kinksters to Pro Dommes.** We discuss the value and benefit of going to a professional versus an amateur** Learn valuable tips on how to communicate with a Pro DommeMistress Mia Darque: https://www.justsayred.com/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/Miss Mia is also on the Board of DomCon New Orleans. Next week, the conversation continues with questions and answers about what happens at a BDSM convention.

What are double penetration (DP) and vaginal fisting all about and why are people into it? Is it just something we see in porn or are people actually doing these things in real life? What are the do's and don'ts to having successful, pleasurable DP or fisting experiences? From toys to techniques to personal stories from wild experiences, repeat guest Rain DeGrey explains all this and so much more. About our guest: Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging. To learn more visit raindegrey.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! We only have one spot left so sigh up ASAP here Other links: Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

We are curious: How can we explore mismatched kinks with our partners? How do we find common ground and understand where the resistance is without creating pressure or being coercive? And what can be done if there's no common ground? In this episode, Effy enlists the expertise of a seasoned pro Dom, kink educator and a longtime foxy friend of the show Miss Shayla. Together, they embark on a candid conversation, delving into the intricacies of navigating mismatched kinks with partners. Effy and Miss Shayla offer valuable insights and strategies for approaching partners about kinky desires with respect, sensitivity, and consent. They unpack the complexities of finding common ground and explore alternatives when a shared playground for partners seems elusive.Links mentioned in the episode12 Step program fear inventory and resentment inventoryEnough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation WorkbookTo learn more about Miss ShaylaMistress Shayla Lange is an NYC based Pro-Domme, co-creator of the kinky educational series “7Days of Domination”, and owner of New York's largest female-owned DungeonInstagram: @YesMissShaylaWebsite: 7DaysofDomination.comSupport the showConnect with us on IG and more:Curious Fox @wearecuriousfoxesEffy Blue @coacheffyblueJacqueline Misla @jacquelinemisla Email us or send a voice memo: listening@wearecuriousfoxes.comJoin the conversation: fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxes

Mistress Harper joins the ladies to talk about FLRs or Female Led Relationships.This episode is inspired by an email sent to Mistress Olivia asking what is real and what is fantasy with FLRs. This leads to a lively conversation with lots of laughs in addition to BDSM education from Femdoms who are in the kink scene in their private lives.They start with the common definition of Female Led Relationships and point out that this may or may not include BDSM, power exchange, kink or any of those sorts of activities.Learn:Experiences with FLR in their personal relationships (Ms Erika's answer makes us all laugh)Levels of control in a Female Led RelationshipMs Harper makes the distinction between female led and “female did it” which is highly relatable!Whether the ladies WANT Female Led Relationships in their personal lives (the answers might surprise you).Mistress Harper has great insights into patriarchy, matriarchy, and gynarchy. What those are and how these terms relate to relationships where the Dominant woman is in control.There's talk about the difference between how women exchange power and a power imbalance fantasy - the fantasy isn't wrong, it's just that it's hard to replicate a fantasy 24/7 - and not hard in a good way, hard in the exhausting kind of way.These women are Femdoms who do Distance Domination so the conversation about FLR being sexualized is enlightening in terms of what is real and what is fantasy.What is the difference between a Dominatrix, Pro Domme, Femdom, Dominant and woman in charge?This ends up being a thoughtful conversation about gender, gender roles in society, malicious incompetence, work, culture, and social pressures to comply with what have been traditional norms.

Madeline Pryor is a shame magician. A Dominatrix and Dakini, she uses the intensity of her energetic field to create unique and potent experiences for clients in service of their needs. She sat next to Wyoh at a flogging workshop at Dungeon East in January and returned to join in-studio to share the details of how losing all physical sensation led her on a healing journey that led her to gain expert training first in Tantra and later in consciously shifting and creating power dynamics as a Domme. She and Wyoh talk polarity, props, energetic penetration, what it felt like when she finally started to feel turned on agai, raw authenticity, how taboo induces shame and alchemizing it as part of pleasure, grieving breakups, the epidemic of loneliness, opening and closing rituals to a session, eroticism vs. sexual acts, and the clear boundaries and the curriculum she's working on. Madeline shares stories of a multi-day scene on the Burning Man Playa, lugging a bag of torture implements and toys while sweating through NYC (or LA, or Paris, or Mexico City, or wherever work takes her) in latex, the sex talk she got from her dad, and working with friends, and tells us about the beautiful experiences she's had working with men, how she came to specialize in heartbreak healing, and what “the molten state” means.

Being unashamed is sexy—and creating space for people to shed it is Mistress Luna's specialty. She shares how she quit everything to devote her life to being a Prodomme, how she grounds herself and clients through the five senses in deeply sensual, and psychological sessions where that might include (but are not limited to) bondage, impact play, feminization, EMDR-style flogging, canes, crops, paddles, and floggers of all sizes, using the frameworks of SSCE, RACK and CFNM to arouse and create shame-surrendering healing through erotic experiences. Mistress Luna shares insights on the art of tease and denial, the weird stuff she loves, the tenderness of humiliation and degradation, and how she loves devotion and creatively uses her submissives, deciding how to administer pain when it is needed. She tells Wyoh about the research she's done to become a Domme, childhood memories of being “in charge,” Domming and couples, guys who want phallic play, launching a BDSM/Kink immersive experience company, and what it feels like to come home to herself—and Wyoh talks about witnessing Mistress Luna doing an intense cock and ball torture scene at a sex party.

Hosts Ms Olivia and Ms Erika respond to emails that ask some version of: “How do I get my wife to be my sissy Mistress?” This is a common question. Some of the discussion is about sissy specific issues and some advice will apply to anyone who is a submissive trying to change a partner who isn't already into kink, fetish or gender play.The first question to consider is: “Does your wife or girlfriend WANT to be your Mistress?” If you think she might be open to being your Domme, then this episode is all about how to talk about your sissy desires with her.What is a FLR or female led relationship? How does feminization and/or sissification work in a female led relationship?What happens in the rest of the relationship if he is her sissy cuckold and she is the Domme wife?What is monogamy in a kink relationship?How will a sissy perform in a cuckold relationship?Will a cuckold sissy husband be expected to suck cock and sexually satisfy men?Will erotic humiliation be part of your feminization or sissy play?What to do if your partner is also submissive but may be willing to learn to be your Dominant.Why BDSM negotiations are different with a Pro Domme versus non sex worker partner.What is topping from the bottom and why is this a bad thing?How to communicate your needs when you are a submissive.How do you both go back to your “regular” life when sissy play time is over?

Recorded: 12/04/2022 / Published: May/20/2023- Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week's episode we are joined by _Rhiannon_ of ShadowWeaversEDU to talk about Coercive Control.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Coercive Control with Shadow Weavers EDU-S04E48”Rhiannon is a 31 year old Indigenous woman living in Upstate New York with her Master and two cats. She has been a 24/7 slave in the BDSM community since 2015. While serving she also worked as a Pro-Domme online and in person for the same amount of time. In 2021 Rhiannon took over as Co-Director of MAst Rochester- a chapter of the international organization, Masters and slaves together. This organization historically was founded by members of the gay leather community and seeks to help those who are interested in learning more about power-exchange within the lifestyle and authority based relationships. Rhiannon has been leading workshops and BDSM 101 presentations for about 3 years now. She has filled many roles within her submission from babygirl, to slave, to human house pet and identifies as a divine concubine to honor her sacred sexuality within her current dynamic.In addition to her lifestyle experience, Rhiannon has worked with adults who have severe and persistent mental illness for 8 years. She has served that community in many positions from residential and peer counseling, to apartment programs that seek to help those with mental illness maintain their independence. Rhiannon has worked with a variety of individuals living with mental illness from schizophrenia, borderline personality disorder, PTSD and substance use disorder as well as those with neurodivergence and those fleeing domestic violence. She hopes to serve as an example of a person with mental illness successfully engaging in BDSM to those in the community seeking acceptance and fighting the stigma, as she also lives with bipolar disorder and PTSD. Aside from her professional background, Rhiannon also is a survivor of domestic violence and of coercive control. That being said, she is NOT a licensed clinician or therapist or a substitute for professional services.To hear more about her services and groups: https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2022-archive/459---rhiannon-shadow-weave.htmlShadowWeaversEDU Bio and History:Shadow-Weavers Coaching and Lifestyle Education is a freelance Kinky Education Academy. Here you can sign up for online workshops, join a book club committed to studying the lifestyle, and get connected with a community of individuals who are passionate about BDSM.Shadow Weaver's offers individual coaching sessions for those who need advice, support, or help leaving and healing after a difficult dynamic. Her services are geared toward the following issues:-D/s dynamic struggles and advice-Submissive Support-Mentoring-Coping with a difficult D/s-Resolving Conflict within D/s-Identifying your unique roles and interests-Recovery Support from Coercive Control and Personality Cults-Vetting Support and Negotiations-Drop or Frenzy Support-Gender/sexual orientation and the lifestyle-Mental Illness and the lifestyleCoercive Control Defined:Domestic abuse isn't always physical. Coercive control is an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim. This controlling behavior is designed to make a person dependent by isolating them from support, exploiting them, depriving them of independence and regulating their everyday behavior. Coercive control creates invisible chains and a sense of fear that pervades all elements of a victim's life. It works to limit their human rights by depriving them of their liberty and reducing their ability for action. Experts like Evan Stark liken coercive control to being taken hostage. As he says: “the victim becomes captive in an unreal world created by the abuser, entrapped in a world of confusion, contradiction and fear.”Source: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/coercive-control/Examples and how to recognize it:Behavior ControlInformation ControlThought ControlEmotional ControlImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/448National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. 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  Have you ever needed to transport your Daddy's spunk across state lines to visit your in-laws for the Holidays? Educator, writer and performer Rain DeGrey is addicted to her partner's essence and fears being far from the source - so he ceremoniously gifts her a travel version. But when it's misplaced on Christmas, her husband's family has to stop opening presents to search for the missing vial. Should she confess her fetish for an old flame's biological material? And Dixie finally gets a little good news. Happy Holidays, y'all! #DNA #CabinPressure #GameChanger #Marinade #FogMachine   Song: ‘Ragdoll' (Abigail Barlow)   About the Storyteller:   Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging. She has taught on a wide variety of topics at numerous venues including Harvard University, Northwestern University, Adler University, Kink.com, The Citadel, Dark Odyssey, Folsom Street Fair, Kink Acadamy, Thunder in the Mountains, Black Thorn, Kinky Kollege and Boundcon. She has been featured in Playboy TV's “69 sexiest things to do before you die”, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, The SF Fetish Ball, Epix's “Sex Life”, Bawdy Storytelling, Mystery Box Theater, RISK! and is a multiple crown winner of the Dirty Talk Game Show. Rain DeGrey spends her time teaching classes, writing articles, her online advice column, producing podcasts, and providing one on one coaching to select clients. Discover more at https://www.raindegrey.com Episode links: Like a Kitten:  As the holidays approach, are you looking for a thoughtful gift for your partner or friend that will skyrocket their sex life? Look no further than Like A Kitten; Like A Kitten offers 24 creatively-themed boxes for any occasion that will encourage you to play in ways that you never imagined before. And Right now, Like A Kitten is offering Bawdy Storytelling's listeners 15% off! Just go to https://likeakitten.com/dixie OR enter code DIXIE at checkout. Beducated: Beducated is offering folks a whopping 40% off a yearly subscription this month! What is Beducated? It's the Netflix of Sexual Wellness, and they're the  #1 online platform for sexual health & happiness. Remember, we're nearly at the end of the month so act now: You can get 40% off Beducated's yearly pass for December ONLY with my code, DIXIE. Just go to http://beducate.me/pd2245-dixie or to https://beducated.com/ and use coupon code DIXIE and your 40% off will be locked in for life - and they now offer gift cards, too. #ActNow Upcoming Workshops: My new Sex and Storytelling workshop is finally here! ‘How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling' is the Sex and Storytelling workshop you've been asking for. Work with Dixie and a small cohort of sex-positive students to find, craft and tell your own stories in a fun, open-minded environment. The workshop includes 2 levels to choose from: The Everything But Level is for the curious but shy, and the All the Way level includes private coaching sessions with me, a final performance and a video of your story to share. My last 6 workshops sold out, and this is the first time I'm offering this highly anticipated Sex and Storytelling course, so register now at https://tinyurl.com/HowToBeBawdy  Watch the video - especially the end! #BlooperReel   ‘Storytelling to get the Sex you Want': I'll be teaching this new 2 hour workshop on Sunday, January 8th  (11 AM - 1 PM PST). I can teach you how to turn a personal story into a proven way to break the ice, connect on dating sites, and engage with new people (and it's a fun activity for friends to do together). The workshop is only $29, so invite a friend and spread the word!  Tickets are at https://STGTSYW.eventbrite.com   This Holiday season, please consider a donation to Bawdy Storytelling. Your gift of any amount will help us keep our head above water this winter, while our live shows are on pause. Our donation links are:   Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour Every single dollar helps right now - and THANK YOU!   What's the Best way to support Bawdy? By Becoming a Patreon member. This  means that you'll provide ongoing monthly support to your favorite show and podcast. Join Bawdy's Patreon now and you'll get exclusive Patreon-only rewards, and my eternal gratitude. As a Bawdy Patreon member, your monthly membership ensures that our podcast, live shows and livestreams can continue. Become a Member now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy    Wanna work one-on-one with Dixie? Want to learn to tell a compelling, relatable story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Whether it's getting onstage, writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I've got experience and can help. Email me at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make it happen.   Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume, Bawdy Butter & more: Dixie has created her own fragrance: You'll love #BawdyGotMeLaid perfume, scented with golden honey, amber, ylang ylang, and warm vanilla. There's also our (scented or unscented) creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid Merchandise means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Dixie and Bawdy. Get yours today at https://bawdystorytelling.com/merchandise   Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it's a place to discuss the podcast's stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. 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Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective!    Tags:   Foster dog Christmas workshops husband young shelving being and nothingness Sartre bad book voice chaps my ass cute intellectual together learn like girls kinky explore everybody poly wife bookstore gang banged open flavors greedy poly daddy high school class break porn star great taste fog machine laser light show towels fluids DNA cum analogy great meal dishes babies STIs high risk low reward game changer addicted marinate grips cum fetish out of town vanilla in-laws don't know internet ceremony sweet warm blanket hug cum plane air pressure aging smart superglue rancid explode mid-flight piece Christmas Day wash bathroom missing counter findtrash fall missing skinny vegetarian not drugs father son good luck safe travels sisters presents halting Christmas purse better track search random fluids convince glass vial awkward two love accept don't judge accepts freak flag fly true On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming Podcast episodes - & Livestreams - at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe  

This week we sat down with Russian professional dominatrix, Mistress Smash, who tells us all about how she came into being a Pro Domme, as well as unpacking the influences of capitalism, patriarchy, homophobia, and ableism. Finally, we cover sadism, personal versus professional play, and how the patriarchy colors people's kink experiences.  Mistress Smash's websiteFind her on all socials as @schmooshed (Twitter, TikTok, Instagram, FetLife, OnlyFans, Fansly) Dick's links Gwen's links Buy our porn on ManyVids Check out our sponsors for this week, Securing Sexuality and Terrible Toyshop. You can find The Stinger here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you'll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, professional, dominatrix, domme, pro, pandemic, patriarchy, ableism, sadism