Podcast appearances and mentions of julie sibert

On her book's launch day, J. Parker hosts three fellow higher desire wives—Tara Buchanan, Julie Sibert, and Tammy Hopkins—for a special roundtable on when she wants sex more than he does. NOTE: Please forgive the not-so-great audio at times in this episode. We did our best without the usual professional equipment. Sponsor Check out J. Parker's new book, The Higher Desire Wife, now available wherever books are sold! From the Bible I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. Song of Songs 7:10 Resources The Higher Desire Wife: Understanding and Help for Christian Women Navigating Mismatched Sex Drives by J. Parker The Higher Desire Wife - Baker Book House (best US price) Behind Our Smiles podcast, with Tara & Joe Buchanan Intimacy in Marriage – Julie Sibert Pursuit of Passion: Discovering True Intimacy in Your Marriage by Jeffrey Murphy & Julie Sibert Higher Desire Wife Community The Marriage Bed (mentioned by Tammy) Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, guest Julie Sibert talks about the benefits of showering. Yes, showering! Stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage. Resources Episode 69: Shower Power Intimacy In Marriage Pursuit of Passion: Discovering True Intimacy in Your Marriage by Jeff Murphy & Julie Sibert

This week's sex tip quickie comes from Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage: self touch.

J's back with guest host Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage to talk about personal lubricant—why a wife might need it, our recommended products, and how to use it to improve the sexual experience. If you can help Chris Taylor financially, head to the GoFundMe page set up in honor of the passing of her husband, Doug. Any amount is appreciated and will help to defer funeral expenses and assist her with transition. Resources Why Your Wife Needs Extra Lube How Menopause Affects Her Sexuality (and How You Can Help) Episode 33: When Sex Hurts Her Let's Talk Lube - Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Tips for Choosing a Personal Lubricant - Hot, Holy & Humorous Slippery When Wet: Lubricant Review (intimacyinmarriage.com) Astroglide Personal Lubricant - Amazon Sliquid Personal Lubricants - Married Dance Sliquid Sample Packs Aloe Cadabra Personal Lubricant - Amazon K-Y yours + minute Warming/Tingle Lubricants - Amazon Jo Flavored Lubricants - Amazon Aloe Cadabra Flavored Lubricants - Amazon Pumpkin Spice Lubricant? It's a Thing. (intimacyinmarriage.com) Q&A with J: A Guide to Using Personal Lubricant - Hot, Holy & Humorous Love Mop Sex Towel - Amazon (for clean-up) Liberator Fascinator Waterproof Throw - Married Dance (for protecting bed linens) Venus Pearls | Burns-Logsdon Therapeutics (b-ltx.com) Note: Our resource list includes affiliate links, meaning purchases made through our link cost to the same to you but provide us a small commission to help defer our costs. Visit our website: khsministry.com

Your Faves - Top 10 Episodes of 2022 Can you believe we are already winding down 2022?! This year has been filled with so many blessings for me and this podcast. On today's episode, I share the top 10 episodes of 2022. This year I had the opportunity to have conversations with some incredible guests that were able to bring you some of the top relationship and marriage advice!    Number 10 -  The Lowdown on the Hookup Culture (episode 74) This top 10 episode of 2022 was a part of our “Shameless Sex series.” I dedicated this particular episode to my single men and women as many have remarked how “it's rough out here in these dating streets.” Society seems obsessed with free sex. The hookup culture is alive and well, and it's not just millennials or Gen-Zers engaging in sex on demand. In this episode, we discuss five reasons the hookup culture is no bueno and five practical steps to exit right out of it. Listen to The Lowdown on the Hookup Culture Number 9 -  The Silent Treatment vs. Silence (episode 87) This may have been one of my top episodes of 2022 because I sometimes struggle with giving people the silent treatment. This was a part of our “Communication 101 series.” In case you didn't know, I dedicated an entire series to the art of communication in relationships. The main takeaway from this particular episode is that there is a difference between the silent treatment and silence. Silence can actually be very good and healthy in your relationship, but the silent treatment never is. Listen to The Silent Treatment vs. Silence  Number 8 -  7 Ways Men Destroy Their Marriages (episode 94) This episode was for my fellas. Guys, your wives have been trying to tell you that you're destroying your marriage.. Truthfully, it's most likely that your marriage might be falling apart in many more ways than one, but we're talking about the big ones here. If you're humble and open enough to receive this wisdom, it will change how you show up in your marriage. This top 10 episode of 2022 can help men correct behaviors that may be detrimental to your marriage. Listen to 7 Ways Men Destroy Their Marriages   Number 7 -  4 Steps to H.E.A.L After a Broken Heart (episode 103) I know there are so many couples who are recovering from infidelity. I really wanted to create a podcast where we dive deep on giving practical relationship and advice that will help heal the broken heart. Most of us have been through this unfortunate situation at some time or another. It's never easy mending a broken heart, but it is always possible. This top 10 episode of 2022 will give you the tools you need to start your healing. Listen to 4 Steps to H.E.A.L After a Broken Heart Number 6 -  7 Ways Women Destroy Their Marriages (episode 93) In this episode we talk about how women do things subconsciously that unintentionally destroy marriages. The good news is if you're still married, you haven't destroyed your marriage beyond repair. But don't wait until divorce papers are being filed to reach out for help if you need to. As a marriage coach, I help couples who are struggling all the time. It's never too early or too late to get help. Listen to this episode and learn seven ways women destroy their marriages. Listen to 7 Ways Women Destroy Their Marriages Number 5 -  How Men and Women Communicate Differently (episode 90) In this episode we talk about how men and women communicate differently. Men are from Mars; women are from Venus, they said. How we communicate can differ as men and women. However, I wanted to help you take your communication skills out of this world with this episode, because no matter what society says, there are differences in the genders, especially in how they communicate. This episode has a very special guest, my husband Shaun. You don't want to miss this one! Listen to How Men and Women Communicate Differently Number 4 -  7 Tips to Become a Better Listener (episode 89) Do you listen to understand or to respond? Here's the hard truth: most of us are not good listeners even though we think we are. In this episode, you'll learn seven tips on becoming a better listener and the art of wholehearted communication. I'm super passionate about this topic, because I see communication gone wild all.of.the.time. The good news is with a few tweaks, anyone can become a better listener and have more mutually beneficial conversations with those they care about. Listen to 7 Tips to Become a Better Listener Number 3 -  12 Steps to Rebuild Trust in your Relationship (episode 102) Did you know that 1 in 4 marriages will experience infidelity? The good news is half of these marriages will survive it. In this top 10 episode of 2022, I'm giving you 12 practical (but not easy) steps to rebuild trust in your marriage or relationship. This is one episode you will want to refer back to should you find yourself in the unfortunate situation of affair recovery. I truly believe that all is not lost when someone commits adultery. Your marriage or relationship can survive this, but you need an action plan in order to succeed. Listen to 12 Steps to Rebuild Trust in your Relationship   Number 2 -  The Female Orgasm (episode 81) This episode was extra special for the LADIES! Listen, these days, there's a lot of faking it going on when it comes to women having orgasms. But let's get real. My guest, intimacy expert Julie Sibert, and I are answering your questions and demystifying the important yet often overlooked female orgasm. The truth is there are many women who have never, and I do repeat, never experienced an orgasm. There are also women who “fake it til they make it.” But these situations are living below the pleasure potential that married sex provides. This top 10 episode of 2022 will teach you all about orgasms and how to get yours right. Listen to The Female Orgasm Number 1 -  Why Lysa TerKeurst Called Quits on Her Marriage (episode 73) This was the top 10 episode of 2022. Lysa TerKeurst, the founder of Proverbs 31 Ministries, recently filed for divorce from her husband, Art TerKeurst, because of repeatedly breaking their marriage vows/covenant. In a raw and real Instagram post, Lysa discretely details her thought process in ending her marriage. Sometimes enough is enough. Many Christian marriages experience infidelity, sadly, and many betrayed women, especially, don't know how to end their marriages because they've been taught to stay no matter what. You do not want to miss this episode! Listen to Why Lysa TerKeurst Called Quits on Her Marriage   THANK YOU my loyal listeners and new podcast listeners for a great year! What was your favorite episode of 2022?     Links Mentioned in this Episode Real Relationship Talk Youtube Channel   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, Stitcher, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! So, share these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.  

Christmastime can create wonderful memories, but also a lot of to-dos and stress that keep couples from being sexually intimate. J and guest host Julie Sibert discuss how to have less stress and more sex in your marriage this holiday season. Sponsor Looking for a safe place to shop for marital aids? Check out Married Dance, a Christian-friendly sex toy store. Experience a nudity-free, marriage-centered environment, along with discreet shipping and billing.  Resources Episode 31: Why Do Women Overextend Themselves? Episode 19: Having an Intimate Holiday Season Why She's Too Busy to Have Sex Helping Your Wife Want to Have Sex – Webinar Replay This Week's Takeaway Ask your wife, "How can I help our Christmas season go well?" Discuss plans, expectations, division of labor, and more, so that you're working as a team through the holidays—a team that also scores in the bedroom now and then. ~wink~ Visit our website: khsministry.com

What is it about SUMMER that seems so SEXY? Maybe it's doing less... worrying less... wearing less... connecting more... touching more... Hoping to HEAT your summer UP? Shannon invites fellow "Sexperts" Julie Sibert and Rev. Angie McCarty to be a part of the Summer Lovin' Series!

The Female Orgasm: Get'n Real - with Julie Sibert Listen, these days, there's a lot of faking it going on when it comes to women having orgasms. But let's get real. My guest, intimacy expert Julie Sibert, and I are answering your questions and demystifying the important yet often overlooked female orgasm. The truth is there are many women who have never, and I do repeat, never experienced an orgasm. There are also women who “fake it til they make it.” But these situations are living below the pleasure potential that married sex provides.  Learning to Communicate Your Needs Julie shares her journey in learning to openly communicate her sexual needs and desires with her husband and how that intentionality revolutionized her sex life. She also discusses ways that women can take the initial step from awkward conversations in order to help her husband learn her body and how she would like to receive pleasure.    Talking about sex in an honest yet wholesome way is crucial for wholehearted marriages. We have got to get over the shame, stigma, and fear of “going there” in these conversations. Orgasms are a part of sex, and not just for the man. Need I repeat? If you are a husband, and your wife is not consistently experiencing orgasms, it's time for you to re-evaluate. Married and dare I say, Christian married sex, needs to be mutually beneficial.    Around the 14 minute mark, Julie discusses how faking orgasms brings a lie into your marriage. That one statement is worth an offering. I'm serious. You've got to listen to the full episode!    Our hope is that after listening to today's episode, you never experience boring sex again. Not every encounter has to end with utter euphoria, but both spouses should give and receive sexual pleasure on a consistent basis.    Want to listen to more wholesome advice on married sex? Be sure to listen to the entire Shameless Sex Series on the podcast, especially these: Episode 76: 8 REASONS WHY WOMEN WON'T INITIATE SEX (SHAMELESS SEX SERIES)  Episode 77: HOW TO HAVE NON-AWKWARD CONVERSATIONS ABOUT SEX WITH YOUR SPOUSE – WITH SHAUN WILLIAMS (SHAMELESS SEX SERIES).    Links Mentioned in this Episode Learn more about Julie and Intimacy in Marriage. Jumpstart Your Intimacy: A Video Series for Wives    SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, Stitcher, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! So, share these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.

Most men love their wife’s chest. But what’s the best way to touch her there? Chris and fill-in host Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage advise husbands what to do with a wife’s breasts. Visit Our Sponsor J. Parker is one of the speakers, with 5 Steps to Better Sex. Click here to sign up!   Resources Rhythm Can Rock Her World Episode 13: The Timing of Sex Increasing Your Wife’s Sexual Pleasure – webinar Q&A with J: “What Are the 7 Erogenous Zones?” – Hot, Holy & Humorous 101 Words for Your Private Parts (But No Curse Words) (including breasts) – Hot, Holy & Humorous What about “Breast Sex”? – Hot, Holy & Humorous Sexually Delighting in a Wife’s Breasts: A Turn on for You and Your Spouse – Intimacy in Marriage A Wife’s Breasts Have History! – The Forgiven Wife Get Flashy! – The Forgiven Wife He Can’t Really Be Happy with My Body – J. Parker guest post on The Forgiven Wife Episode 78: Breasts and How They Impact Female Sexuality – For Christian Wives podcast This Week’s Takeaway Set aside an amount of time to try different types of touch on your wife’s breasts and see how she responds.

Sex and Intimacy coach, Julie Sibert provides helpful advice for navigating intimate relationships and cultivating emotional connection during a time in which tensions are high. Her thoughtful suggestions open a door to the healthy reconnection so many couples are needing right now.

What does “make-up sex” mean for a wife, and how is that different from what it may mean for you? We explore this topic with our special guest, Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage. Visit Our Sponsor Sign up now for our next webinar! Learn about the webinar   Resources Don't Touch Me: I'm Angry! – Hot, Holy & Humorous (much older post) Q&A with J: How to Handle Arguments in Your Marriage – Hot, Holy & Humorous What Detractors Have Taught Me about Resolving Marriage Conflict – Hot, Holy & Humorous Intimacy in Marriage, Julie Sibert's website Better Sex in Your Marriage Video Series – Intimacy in Marriage This Week’s Takeaway Next time you experience tension or conflict with your wife, be the first to initiate resolution, reconciliation, and/or restoration. Make sure you really make up before initiating the make-up sex.

This podcast is full of relevant information about the Church and how it often times doesn’t put enough emphasis on issues of healthy sex and intimacy in marriage. Our guest, Julie Sibert is a speaker, blogger and co-author of Pursuit of Passion - Discovering true intimacy in your marriage. Julie’s information is thought provoking and provocative. Join us as she discusses the practical ways that couples can find their way back to one another again. Julie is a mother to two wonderful children and enjoys time with her husband. She is a Sex Champion among many couples who have discovered the true meaning of intimacy through her teachings. She can be found at www.intimacyinmarriage.com.

About the Episode It may be the pinnacle of pleasure, but lots of women still have questions about orgasm. Julie Sibert from Intimacy in Marriage joins us as we answer many of the orgasm questions we get from our listeners and readers. Let's start with the basics. What is an orgasm? Why is orgasm important? That is, what's the big deal? Should a wife expect or want to achieve orgasm every time she and her husband make love? A lot of women struggle to reach orgasm. What advice can we give them? This last question is kind of like a lightning round. I'm gonna throw out some things we get asked about regarding orgasm, and let's see how many of them we can quickly cover: multiples, simultaneous orgasm, female ejaculation, clitoral vs vaginal orgasms, G-spot orgasm. Sponsors Use coupon code SEXCHAT10 for 10% off. Click to Learn More about EverPillow Honeycomb & Spice Community   From the Bible What does God have to say about orgasms? As we say in the episode, He gave women a clitoris--and its only purpose is pleasure! Resources Peace and Fireworks – The Forgiven Wife Forget What You Look Like While Making Love – Hot, Holy & Humorous The F-Word I Don’t Like: A Rant – The Forgiven Wife These 3 Actions Could Bring You to Orgasm Birth Control and Libido – Bonny’s OysterBed7 DHEA Can Help Vaginal Dryness – Bonny’s OysterBed7 Episode 9: Listener Questions (includes question about multiple orgasms) Female Ejaculation: Is It Real? – Hot, Holy & Humorous A Different Kind of Sexual Wetness: Candid Discussion about Female Ejaculation Intimacy in Marriage Bonny Logsdon Burns on Amazon Author Central (follow her to get a heads-up when her Unlock Your Orgasm resource releases) Intimacy in Marriage – The Orgasm Page Better Sex in Your Marriage

Download the Stupendous Marriage Show! ASK YOUR QUESTION ABOUT MARRIAGE: 1.615.592.1060 I Feel Guilty When we Have Sex! this post contains affiliate links On the Show Today: * Our Son turned 13 this week and we enjoyed celebrating him * Stu had his Dad and Father in Law write letters of blessing to Dean to celebrate a new season beginning. Stu seemed to appreciate it more than his son (right now!)   Listener Question:  My husband and I have been married for just over a year, our marriage overall seems to be going at a steady pace! We attend church, we pray together, we are best friends & we are very happy! I, however, I have one issue. Whenever I and my husband are intimate I feel guilty. I sometimes wonder if it's because I grew up in a strict Christian household where I was taught sex was basically a bad thing until marriage & that me and my husband made the mistake of not waiting until we were married to be intimate, about 7 months before our wedding we both became super convicted and decided to stop being intimate with each other. Now that we are married and living out gods design for marriage I want to be able to enjoy the intimacy God has planned for us without feeling like I'm sinning even when I am not, I thought when we quit being intimate before marriage it would solve my guilty conscience but it hasn't & I am over always feeling this overwhelming guilt. I know it's In my head and that it's something I need to work through. I have asked for forgiveness and prayed a lot about this specific topic but I am struggling to find the relief I am wishing for. Shout out to Julie Sibert at Intimacy In Marriage.com

This is our first post in the topical series Orgasm. My guest today Julie Sibert from intimacyinmarriage.com talks about how sexual intimacy is a gift from God and that includes orgasm. He wants us to enjoy this gift. There's plenty we can do to get there. If you're a wife and have never experienced this gift, you'll want to give this a listen and try out Julie's suggestions.    Go to delightyourmarriage.com for all the show notes.

Hi there! Belah here. Today is Part II of my interview with Julie Sibert of intimacyinmarriage.com. Julie talks more about how to nurture your sexual intimacy by intentional habits and letting your spouse know exactly what you want in the bedroom. Hear her speak about how to get past the past, it’s okay to let your guard down, and drown out the insecurities. Listen to her tips on how to be proactive in the bedroom and shares the three chief things that are central to marital success.   All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/28 Check out Part I at delightyourmarriage.com/27 Sign up for my free, live online training: “How To Love Him MOST” (and receive my free guide!) delightyourmarriage.com/webinar

Hi there! Belah here. Today, I have with me Julie Sibert of intimacyinmarriage.com. Julie is a wife and mother to 2 boys and is passionate about creating a long-lasting marriage with sexual intimacy as a big part of it. She believes that marriage is to be enjoyed by two "grown ups" who are in love and have the desire for each other. Listen as Julie shares her experiences with her past relationship and how she has come to realize that sexual intimacy, alongside friendship and faith, is a major part of married life and should be nurtured and taken care of. Join in as Julie tells us how she keeps track of “healthy” relationship habits that will surely affect your marriage positively. All the links, resources, and show notes available at: http://delightyourmarriage.com/27   Sign up for my live, free online training: “How To Love Him MOST” delightyourmarriage.com/webinar