Podcasts about too busy

Intro: Our rabbit loses his tail, loud chickens, making the kids upset.8:27: The hardest parts about J.R. being gone, Molly bags up and tosses a bunch of Faith's clothes.12:18 JR's clock and evening phone habits, our dog takes my place on the bed when I'm gone.15:50: Looksmaxxing: an overreaction to trans-ideologies?23:33: Humanity is like a drunk person on a horse- Insights from Carl Trueman and Friedrich Nietzsche.33:13: How to inoculate our children against unhealthy trends.35:44: Molly's deadhorse 3: Objectification and what it means to be human.38:05: Baking soda biohack.39:54: Social influence pushing women to get divorced: men can't handle successful wives or something else?47:40: What women are specifically designed to do and feel satisfaction and joy. The real goal as a husband and father and not letting careers take precedence over family.52:43: Critical ages to be at home with your kids.55:41: GK Chesterton (https://www.online-literature.com/chesterton/wrong-with-the-world/18/), drudgery, the problem with men and women and what's wrong with the world.57:56: Molly's message to women to be successful but not wreck your family.59:50: Show Close--------------------------------------------CanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's preferred Stone Heating PadIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Series: Contending for the Faith Title: “Why Hold on if God Won't Let Go?” Scripture: Jude 24-25 NIV Psalm 37:23-24 Psalm 139:23-24 Proverbs 24:16 John 10:27-30 Romans 8:38-39 Ephesians 1:13-14 Hebrews 13:5 1 John 2:19 1 John 5:13 Bottom line: We hold on because he holds us. INTRODUCTION CONTEXT OUTLINE CONCLUSION DISCUSSION QUESTIONS NOTES YOUTUBE DESCRIPTION MAIN REFERENCES USED My opening prayer: Lord God, help us grow to be and do like Jesus, while abiding in him and leading others to do the same. OPENING STORY "He is able to keep..." Watch a parent walk a small child along the edge of a busy sidewalk. The child is doing real walking — short, wobbly, determined steps, working as hard as little legs can work. And then she trips. Of course she does; her foot catches the curb and she pitches forward. But she doesn't hit the pavement. She never even gets close. Her hand is wrapped inside a bigger hand, and the instant she goes, that hand lifts and steadies and sets her back on her feet before the fall can finish. She stumbled — but she did not fall. Jude has spent his whole letter telling us to walk a dangerous edge: in the midst of false and deceptive teachers, contend, build, keep, rescue — right alongside the place where others have already gone over and not come back. Now, in the last two verses, he shows us the hand. “To him who is able to keep you from stumbling.” Or as the psalmist said it long before: "Though he may stumble, he will not fall, for the LORD upholds him with his hand" (Psalm 37:24). The missteps still come. The fatal fall never does — because the grip holding you is not your own. Said another way, we may find ourselves in the ditch along the narrow way...but he's right there pulling us out of the muck and mire back onto the highway of our God. Too Busy in this life A traveler once walked more than 700 miles to see Niagara Falls. As he neared his destination, he heard a distant roar and asked a nearby farmer, “Is that Niagara Falls?” The farmer replied, “I don't know. It might be.” Surprised, the traveler asked, “Do you live here?” “Born and raised here,” the farmer said. “And you've never gone to see the falls?” “No, stranger. I've been too busy looking after my farm.” What a tragedy—to live within the sound of one of the world's greatest wonders and never take the time to see it. And yet many Christians do something similar. We know heaven is coming. We know we will stand in the presence of God's glory. We hear about it every week. But we become so busy with the things of this world that we lose our appetite for the world to come. Jude reminds us that God is keeping us for something far greater: to be presented before His glorious presence, blameless and with great joy. Poem "Some want to live within the sound Of church or chapel bell; I want to run a rescue shop Within a yard of hell." CONTEXT The entire letter begins and ends with God's keeping power: * Jude 1 — “To those who have been called, who are loved in God the Father and kept for Jesus Christ.” * Jude 21 — “Keep yourselves in God's love…” * Jude 24 — “To him who is able to keep you from stumbling and to present you…” * Jude 25 — Doxology praising the God who does the keeping. That creates a beautiful tension: Kept by God (v.1) → Keep yourselves in God's love (v.21) → Kept by God (v.24). The question practically preaches itself: “If God is holding me, why does Jude tell me to hold on?” Imagine being swept toward a waterfall. You know you cannot save yourself. Then a strong rescuer reaches you and takes hold of your arm. The question isn't whether he will hold on. The question is: Why would you not hold on to him? That's the tension in Jude. God has taken hold of us. Therefore, we keep ourselves in His love. Not to earn His rescue. Not to maintain His rescue. But because His rescue is already underway. “Why Hold On If He's Holding You?” That raises one of the most important questions in the Christian life: Is my salvation ultimately dependent on how tightly I hold onto God—or how tightly God holds onto me? OUTLINE (Help from Shaddix/Akin) I. God holds/keeps me. (Jude 1, 24) i.e. I am saved and secured by God's power, promise, person, and praise. A. We are secure because of God's power “To him who is able…” Not merely willing. Able. Cross references: * John 10:28-29 * Romans 8:38-39 * Philippians 1:6 B. We are secure because of God's promise If eternal life can be lost, it was never eternal. Cross references: * John 6:37-40 * John 17:12 * Hebrews 10:14 C. We are secure because of God's person God does not change. The One who called you is the One who keeps you. Cross references: * Malachi 3:6 * 2 Timothy 2:13 * Hebrews 13:8 D. We are secure because of God's praise Verse 25 is worship. Jude cannot discuss salvation without ending in doxology. The doctrine of eternal security is not merely comfort. It is fuel for worship. The point is not: “Look how strong my faith is.” The point is: “Look how great my Savior is.” II. I am to keep hold of God's love. (Jude 21) God keeps me by helping me hold on to him and his love. Many people have asked: “If God keeps me, why must I keep myself?” Answer: Because security is not an excuse for passivity. Illustrate: A child walking through a crowded airport. The child holds Dad's hand. Dad also holds the child's hand. Which grip matters most? Dad's. Yet the child still holds on. The father may even let go of the child's hand in the airport to give the child a little more freedom and the child may stay close because they know that's where they're secure. But the human condition is that we are prone to wander from his grip hurting our fellowship with him. Not that we can get away from him and his security, but that we can wander far enough to impact our fellowship and assurance negatively. Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing “Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it, Prone to leave the God I love.” “Here's my heart, O take and seal it, Seal it for Thy courts above.” …because relationship requires abiding John 15. …because obedience strengthens assurance Not salvation. Assurance. …because spiritual drift is real The false teachers in Jude prove this. …because God uses means Prayer. Scripture. Church. Worship. Fellowship. …because the kept become keepers Verses 22-23. We rescue others. …because God's preserving grace produces perseverance This is the key theological answer. The evidence that God is keeping us is that we continue following Him. God's sovereignty and human responsibility are friends, not enemies. You might even summarize: God's grip is the cause. Our grip is the evidence. CONCLUSION Bottom line: We hold on because he holds us. As I've said, we have four daughters. All are married. As we wait for the music to start--in those few moments where your life flashes before you--before you begin to walk down that aisle before God and all those people--I established a tradition that goes back to the days when selfies were the rage. It was 2016. Selfies were a new phenomenon. I'm standing there with Samantha and I can tell she's excited, happy, and, well, emotional,m - on the verge of tears. Now we can't have her makeup running at this moment! So I suggest we do a selfie together as we wait for the thumbs up. It only takes a few seconds. But it gave her a reason to focus on this pic (I'm about to give her away, remember, so I'm emotional too). She leans in with a huge smile and relief and joy swallow us as we take the picture as I miraculously press the right button on the first try. It's an amazing picture. So, yes, I had the privilege to escort them down the aisle and move their hand from mine to another's. It's a humbling moment. There's a moment a father knows well — standing at the back of a sanctuary with his daughter on his arm, about to walk her down the aisle and present her, radiant and whole, to the joy of the whole room. This is a foretaste of the moment when each of us will walk an aisle with our Father and King to meet Jesus in all his glory. Jude 24 says God will one day “present you before his glorious presence without fault and with great joy.” Notice whose joy that is. Not just ours — His. The God you've been contending for, the One who kept you the whole way, doesn't grit His teeth at the finish line. He delights to present you. That's where this series lands: you held on, yes — but only because He was holding you, and He was glad to do it the entire time. To Him be glory, majesty, power, and authority. Amen. “without fault and with great joy” Most Christians believe: “God will tolerate me in heaven.” Jude says something entirely different. God will present you: * without fault * before His glorious presence * with great joy And I would emphasize: Whose joy? Certainly ours. But also His. God is not reluctantly dragging His children into heaven. He delights to present them. There is a moment a father knows well—standing at the back of a wedding venue with his daughter on his arm, about to walk her down the aisle and present her, radiant and whole, to the joy of the whole room. Jude says something even greater is coming. One day God Himself will present His children before His glorious presence without fault and with great joy. The God who called you. The God who saved you. The God who kept you. Will be the God who presents you. And when that day comes, you will finally discover what Jude has been teaching all along: You were able to hold on only because He never let go of you. Pray Questions (Write this down) - grab an index card and pen What is God saying to you right now? What are you going to do about it? Write this down on the index card in the seat pockets. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS Discovery Bible Study process: https://www.dbsguide.org/ Read the passage together. Retell the story in your own words. Discovery the story 1. What does this story tell me about God? 2. What does this story tell me about people? 3. If this is really true, what should I do? What is God saying to you right now? (Write this down) What are you going to do about it? (Write this down) Who am I going to tell about this? Find our sermons, podcasts, discussion questions and notes at https://www.gracetoday.net/podcast NOTES "William Booth was the founder of the Salvation Army. Booth is often credited with saying, If I had my way, I would not send my workers to four years of college. If I had my way, I would not put them through three years of seminary. If I had my way, I would put all of my workers in hell for five minutes! That would be the best theological training they would ever receive. (Source unknown)" -Shaddix/Akin Why hold on to God's love? * It's a reminder to you when you doubt that you're his. * It's evidence to others. * It's a testimony of change in your life. * It's a make of obedience which is a mark of your love for God. * It's how we grow to be more like Jesus in practice. * He calls me to! (V. 21) * It's what faith looks like: o Deny self o Take up your cross o Follow Jesus o Cling to the cross o Rest in his arms o Walk the narrow way o Stand firm o Suit up YOUTUBE DESCRIPTION MAIN REFERENCES USED “Jude" by David Helm, Preaching the Word Commentary, Edited by Kent Hughes Exalting Jesus in Jude, Shaddix & Daniel Akin “The Bible Knowledge Commentary” by Walvoord, Zuck (BKC) “The Bible Exposition Commentary” by Warren Wiersbe (BEC) Outline Bible, D Willmington (OB) Willmington's Bible Handbook, D Willmington (WBH) NIV Study Bible (NIVSB) https://www.biblica.com/resources/scholar-notes/niv-study-bible/ Chronological Life Application Study Bible (NLT) ESV Study Bible (ESVSB) https://www.esv.org The Bible Project https://bibleproject.com “Look at the Book” by John Piper (LATB) “The Bible in One Year 2023 with Nicky Gumbel” bible reading plan on YouVersion app (BIOY) Claude.ai

Intro: Music mixing, emotional manipulation of music, worship music, secular music, composition and considerations.13:50: We've changed over 6 years of podcasting and Angel Studios' David movie shows a bit of this.19:00: Peeing into a watering can.19:58: Back to David…21:52: Sending kids to youth group at a different church and in-breeding.25:52: Christian liberty and soft and hard lines.34:22: Drawing lines based on a family vision statement.39:03: Kids going to camps and multiple rededications.43:53: Our family vision statement.47:35: Molly discovers something legendary at church.53:51: The only thing Molly actually planned on saying this episode: Insights into the disciple Andrew.56:19: Examples from Ray Boltz.1:01:17: Low key, long term faithfulness.1:05:30: Show Close--------------------------------------------CanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's preferred Stone Heating PadIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Have you ever taken an organizing personality quiz and wondered if you're really a "visual organizer," a "label lover," or someone who needs everything hidden behind closed doors? While those tools can be fun, what if the most effective organizing advice has less to do with your personality and more to do with timeless principles that work in almost every home? In this episode, I'm sharing 10 organizing principles I've seen work again and again with busy women navigating real life—including caregiving, ADHD, perimenopause, grief, packed schedules, and major life transitions. We'll discuss: ✔ Why you should always remove before you organize ✔ How reducing friction makes systems easier to maintain ✔ The power of grouping like with like ✔ Creating simple zones that support daily life ✔ Why accessibility matters more than perfection ✔ How to stop relying on memory and create trusted systems ✔ Breaking overwhelming projects into manageable steps ✔ Small resets that prevent major organizing setbacks Most importantly, we'll talk about organizing through the lens of Christian stewardship—not creating a picture-perfect home, but creating more capacity for the people, responsibilities, and purpose God has placed in your life. Episodes Referenced: 134 - Too Busy to Declutter? Mind Map Your Way to a More Organized Life 135 - Redeem Your Time: A Faith-Based Audit for Overwhelmed Moms 136 - The Pause Before the Plan: How to Review Your Time With Purpose If you're interested in accountability support or organizing coaching, email me at info@organizewithkristina.com with “MORE” in the subject line, and I'll send over details for scheduling a 20-minute consultation call to see what kind of support may be the best fit for this season.

Intro: Sickness over the holiday weekend, I stink at archery (hunting).6:45: Brocasts, Ancient Nashville, conspiracy theories and parental moderating.11:25: Humility vs. skepticism when it comes to what we understand about history.14:52: The waves of feminism. A new take on first wave feminism. Rachel Wilson and Joe Rogan and women voting.19:00: Men and women: Carrying each other's burdens, time with kids at bedtime.25:16: Mary Queen of Scots and religious persecution.33:06: Good, true, and beautiful, Theo of Golden, JR has deja vú.38:38: JR asks about visiting people in June/July. Molly says “no” to bringing kids down.41:57 Eugene Peterson and accepting the terms of creation, The Desecration of Man.47:20: A story about a neighbor and having a moral basis for outrage at a school shooting.54:45 Part of being human is recognizing our limits, obligations, and…something else

I'm digging into a topic: how to learn to say “no.” Many of us have a lot of trouble knowing how and when to set boundaries, and we end up trying to be super-people and find ourselves exhausted, discouraged, depressed, and ready to quit! Ephesians 2:10 says we are God's workmanship created in Christ Jesus to do good works which God ordained in advance for us to do. We are here to work; we are created to bring glory to God through completing the good works he has planned for us to do. Laziness or indifference is never acceptable for a disciple of Jesus Christ. But by the same token, we are in human bodies which have limitations and when we start trying to do things that are not on God's to-do list for us, that's when we get in trouble. In a very helpful booklet entitled “Too Busy? Saying No Without Guilt,” Alice Fryling makes some important observations: “Jesus does not intend for us to carry the heavy burden of ill-fitting good works. If we were to join him at the dinner table, where he did much of his teaching during his life on earth, he might remind us that we do not need to do everything, that burnout is not his idea of obedience and that by God's grace even a little bit goes a long way.” I like her term “ill-fitting good works.” I find I am often self-deceived into taking on too much because what I'm taking on is good. Someone needs to do it; it is not a trivial pursuit. But is it an “ill-fitting good work,” meaning it doesn't fit me? Ms. Fryling goes on to say, “In fact, as we take on Jesus' yoke, we find that the work we are yoked to do has been custom-made for us.” When you are doing those good work, you may get tired, but you won't be overwhelmed. Jesus does not call you to do more than he will equip you to do under an easy yoke. When your “doing” gets to the stage of being a burden, no matter how good it may be, then you have to stop and ask, “Where and when should I say ‘no'?” I would encourage you to think about areas in your life where you have not yet learned to say “no.” Perhaps it is on your job or with your family or friends. If you've allowed yourself to come under a heavy yoke, I urge you to begin the process of saying “no” where you need to.

Do you feel as though you are always carrying a load of responsibilities and work that keep you exhausted and frustrated? If that describes you, it could be because you've never learned how to say “no.” I often think about the difference between my lifestyle and that of my grandmother's. She worked physically harder than I do, I'm sure, but her lifestyle was much simpler. Not easier but simpler. She never drove a car, was never a soccer mom, and had no time for much outside of her home except church. While I wouldn't want to go back to that time, there are things I envy about her lifestyle. Our society has placed a yoke upon us through remote controls, computers, microwave ovens, smart phones, and now AI—to mention a few. As Alice Fryling puts it in her booklet “Too Busy? Saying No Without Guilt”: “Laptops, iPads and cell phones promise an easier life, but in reality they deliver increased stress and pressure. Physicians and psychologists tell us that our bodies are not designed for the constant input of our technological age, for being always ‘on.' We need ‘down' times when our adrenaline can subside, when we can muse and dream and be restored. But the God-given rhythms of day and night, work and rest, have been usurped by technological potential.”[1] Jesus said his yoke is easy and his burden is light. Ask yourself: “Whose yoke am I under: My own self-inflicted yoke of busyness, trying to please people, trying to multi-task and meet all my deadlines, or the yoke of Jesus, which is easy?” That doesn't mean you're never busy or tired; Jesus was often weary from the pressure of people and preaching and healing. But he knew when to say no and when to get away for rest. Learning to say “no” appropriately means learning when you must shut down for some time of restoration—a few hours, a day, a week. And yet, if you're like me, you tend to feel guilty for taking down time when you still have things to do! This is false guilt; we need to recognize it and refuse to be in bondage to it. — [1] Fryling, A. (2002). Too Busy? Saying No Without Guilt [Review of Too Busy? Saying No Without Guilt]. IVP.

Do you have difficulty saying no? Many of us feel obligated to be everything everyone thinks we should be and do everything everyone thinks we should do! For years I thought I was supposed to do whatever anyone asked me to do—period! I can assure you if you think like that, you'll end up in burnout territory, desperately trying to jump through everyone's hoops, and discovering, as you pick yourself up off the floor, you really are not superwoman, and you have to learn to say no. But how—and when? I recently came across a small booklet by Alice Fryling entitled “Too Busy? Saying No Without Guilt.” The title caught my attention, and the content really spoke to me. I want to share some of her insights, as well as my own, if you struggle with how and when to say no. The first lesson to learn is it is okay to say “no.” Jesus said, All you need to say is simply ‘Yes' or ‘No'; anything beyond this comes from the evil one (Matthew 5:37). There are times to say “yes” and times to say “no,” and our challenge is to learn the difference. In fact, Jesus told people “no” on several occasions, disappointing some no doubt, perhaps even angering some, and leaving his disciples wondering why. For example, in Luke 12, when a man asked him to settle an argument he was having with his brother, Jesus replied, “Man, who appointed me a judge or an arbiter between you?” Jesus said “no,” not because he couldn't do it, but because it wasn't what he was called by God to do. We begin with knowing what is our responsibility legitimately and what is not. For example, on your job there are times when you necessarily do things that are not within that job description, but if you are continually doing the work of others or getting side-tracked into projects not your own, you may discover you have difficulty doing what is rightfully expected of you. If this is the case, you need to determine the best way to say “no.” Your approach and choice of words would be critical, but until you learn to say “no,” you'll never bring that job under control.

Intro: coffee for fun, end of school, small talk, 6:00: Garden, chicken coop and huge new builds, sprinkler systems killed it.18:53: Do we need to take Furries seriously? Virtual reality, the loneliness epidemic, and lack of interpersonal skills.24:45: A chicken rabbit trail.31:04: It is much easier to turn in a relationship to an animal vs. another human. What does it mean to be human? Vice Regents of the created order.37:35: Once you unmoor humanity from who is God, there's no stopping where it goes.38:54: The book of Daniel and the more prideful we are, the more susceptible to idols and the more disconnected from our humanity we are.48:22: Molly's hot take: Climbing Mt. Everest is dumb.57:40: Show CloseCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's preferred Stone Heating PadIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Intro: Life updates: touring, gardens, chickens, JR's bald again, update on injured house chicken.13:35: Ben Sasse's podcast, Not Dead Yet20:54: AI and degradation of humanity, The Way of Medicine, and conversations around difficult conversations.24:20: Observations on difficult conversations with those of other generations.28:00: Everyone has to wrestle with what it means to be human.33:01: The Desecration of Man and What We Can't Not Talk About36:50: The spiritual side of desecration and abortion as a sacrament.39:36: Consecration, liturgies and church practices44:26: Things in our lives that shape our worship, cathedrals of consumerism and You Are What You Worship.47:20: Truman on the attraction of tradition and orthodoxy49:37: Holy Spirit leading people in heresy. “That's modalism Patrick!”52:37: LISTENER REQUEST!55:56: The Abolition of Man and other edifying historical documents to understand the historical roots of the Christian faith.59:01: Musings about the value of university and higher education and one of our kids is a natural academic.1:06:17: IQ vs. EQ 1:03:55: Show Close Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Time is our most precious commodity—especially in this busy world today. And until you get control of your time, you'll forever be at the mercy of other things. In this week's episode I'm sharing six easy ways to make the best use of your time and the single question that will change your life. Tune in!Things mentioned in this episode:Organized Actor® Online Founding Member Launch#225: Too Busy to Live

We're in our new "month of renewal" format. We're essentially exploring this question throughout the month... what if growth required less effort? This is an encore episode that helps us answer this question. Reminder that we'll be back with new episodes May 1, 2026.  "Joyless urgency." Two words that probably just hit a little too close to home. In this episode, Henry Emmons, MD and Aimee Prasek, PhD dig into the Element of Fun — and why so many of us have so little of it. Drawing on the writing of Marilynne Robinson, the surprising decline of kids biking, and sobering research on social media's role in what researchers call problematic engagement, Henry and Aimee make a compelling case that fun isn't frivolous. It's foundational. And reclaiming it might be one of the most radical — and effective — things you can do right now.   About: The Joy Lab Podcast is an Ambie-nominated podcast that blends science and soul to help you cope better with stress, ease anxiety, and uplift mood. Join Dr. Henry Emmons and Dr. Aimee Prasek for practical, mindfulness-based tools and positive psychology strategies to build resilience and create lasting joy. Take the next leap in your wellbeing journey with the Joy Lab Program.   If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review us wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts! And... if you want to spread some joy and keep this podcast ad-free, then please join our mission by donating (Joy Lab is powered by the nonprofit Pathways North and your donations are tax-deductible).   Full transcript here   Like and follow Joy Lab on Socials:  Instagram Linkedin Watch this episode on YouTube   Sources and Notes: Joy Lab Program: Take the next leap in your wellbeing journey with step-by-step practices to help you build and maintain the elements of joy in your life. More about Marilynne Robinson from The Poetry Foundation Farivar, S., Wang, F., & Turel, O. (2022). Followers' problematic engagement with influencers on social media: An attachment theory perspective. Computers in Human Behavior, 133. Access here. Joy Lab Episodes referenced: Worrier? You're Not Alone. Here's Why We Worry... [ep. 213] Unmasking Your True Self: Exploring Authenticity and Awe [ep. 216] Embrace Your True Self: Accepted, Connected, & In The Game [ep. 217] The Road Most Travelled: Awakening Through Suffering [ep. 218] Follow Your Bliss: Awakening to Joy [ep. 219]  The Still Small Voice: Awakening with Soulfulness [ep. 220] Key moments: [00:00:00] — Welcome & The Quote That Started It All Henry and Aimee open with a striking passage from author Marilynne Robinson's essay collection The Givenness of Things: "The spirit of the times is one of joyless urgency." Aimee unpacks why those two words land so hard — and how Robinson's observation that this urgency serves "inscrutable ends that are utterly not our own" is the quiet crisis underneath hustle culture. [00:02:00] — The Question We're Too Busy to Answer We've all had that moment of clarity — what am I doing this for? — only to immediately rush past it into the next task. Aimee names the pattern: sometimes urgency is more comfortable than sitting with the possibility that all this striving might not actually be for us. [00:03:00] — Henry's Childhood Take on Boredom (Wisdom From the Old Wise Rat) Henry reflects on being a kid who dreaded boredom — and how that boredom turned out to be necessary. The inactivity between moments of play is what made the play so rich. Think of it like the pause between musical notes. [00:05:30] — Aimee's Dollar Ice Cream Cone Moment Aimee connects bike riding to early experiences of autonomy and confidence — biking to the corner store with a dollar felt like being a real adult. A sweet illustration of how unstructured play doubles as a training ground for real-world social skills, self-confidence, and approach behavior. [00:07:00] — Social Media and the Architecture of Joyless Urgency Here's where it gets science-y. Aimee connects the joyless urgency framework directly to how most social media platforms are designed — not to satisfy us, but to keep us in a loop of stimulation and momentary relief. The mechanics: activate anxiety, ease it briefly, activate again. Repeat. Sound familiar? [00:08:00] — Problematic Engagement: What the Research Says Aimee introduces the research concept of problematic engagement — used in studies on social media addiction and gambling — which describes the cycle of engaging with something that momentarily eases dis-ease but ultimately causes harm. Key finding: social anxiety is a primary driver, and these platforms are algorithmically built to exploit it. [00:09:30] — The Most Ironic Research Finding People who believe they have complete control over their social media use — who think they could stop at any time — actually show the most signs of problematic engagement. They're absorbing the most harm while feeling the least concerned about it. [00:10:00] — Dr. Samira Farivar Quote + What We're Up Against Aimee references research by Dr. Samira Farivar: "You can't action a problem you don't even know exists." The platform isn't incidental to the problem — it is the business model. We're not weak for falling into this loop. We're human, and the trap was engineered specifically for us. [00:11:30] — The Simple Truth About Adding More Fun Henry brings it home: adding more fun to life is theoretically simple. If we just slow down enough to let our awareness catch up, we'll almost naturally fill that space with something we enjoy. Kids don't need instructions for fun — and adults don't either, once we clear the noise. [00:13:00] — Listening to the Voice That Wants to Play Henry offers a quiet but urgent reminder: our inner wisdom needs to be heard. If we don't honor it, it either goes silent — or gets louder until we can't ignore it. The invitation is to pause, ask what am I doing?, and actually wait for an answer to surface. [00:14:00] — Play Is an Offensive Strategy Aimee closes the conversation with a reframe: fun and play aren't a retreat from the hard stuff in the world. They're a way of moving through it.   Please remember that this content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice and is not a replacement for advice and treatment from a medical professional. Please consult your doctor or other qualified health professional before beginning any diet change, supplement, or lifestyle program. Please see our terms for more information. If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Call the NAMI HelpLine: 1-800-950-6264 available Monday through Friday, 10 a.m. – 10 p.m., ET. OR text "HelpLine" to 62640 or email NAMI at helpline@nami.org. Visit NAMI for more. You can also call or text SAMHSA at 988 or chat 988lifeline.org.

https://www.uncommen.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/April-18th.mp3 Quick Answers Are my hobbies actually a sin? Absolutely not. Hobbies, sports, and interests are good gifts meant to be enjoyed. The problem arises when these good gifts are elevated to ultimate things. When a hobby dictates your schedule, your finances, and your emotional state more than your relationship with Jesus, it has crossed the line into idolatry. How do I know if I have modern day idols in my life? Look at your schedule and your emotional reactions. If you feel devastated about missing a football game but feel absolutely nothing when you skip your daily Bible reading, your priorities are inverted. Your calendar and your bank statement will always reveal what you truly worship. Do I have to give up the things I love? No, but you have to bring them into submission under Christ. You don't necessarily have to sell your golf clubs or cancel your sports packages, but you must establish firm boundaries. Hobbies should fit into the margins of a life centered on God, not the other way around. What is the "fishing boat" excuse? It is a common justification men use to skip gathering with other believers. Men will say, "I can worship God just fine on my boat or in my deer stand." While God is present in nature, using recreation as an excuse to avoid church community is a clear sign that a hobby has taken the throne. The Subtle Creep of the Weekend Idol When most Christian men hear the word “idol,” their minds immediately jump back to ancient history. We picture the Israelites melting down their jewelry in the desert to forge a golden calf, or we imagine ancient temples filled with statues of wood and stone. Because we don't physically bow down to statues in our living rooms, we falsely assume that we are completely immune to the sin of idolatry. But the human heart is a factory for worship, and the enemy is perfectly content to let us trade golden calves for fiberglass boats, fantasy football rosters, and pristine vinyl record collections. This is the subtle, dangerous reality of modern day idols. They don't announce themselves as false gods. They enter our lives disguised as harmless hobbies, much-needed stress relief, and well-deserved weekend entertainment. You start by just wanting to catch a few football games to unwind after a brutal work week. You start by taking up golf to get some fresh air and network. You start hunting or fishing to find a little peace and quiet away from the noise of the city. These are good, natural desires. But as men, we have a terrible tendency to take things to the absolute extreme. What starts as a simple, relaxing interest slowly begins to demand more of our time, more of our money, and more of our mental bandwidth. Before you know it, you are organizing your entire family's schedule around kickoff times, dropping thousands of dollars on equipment, and spending your Monday mornings completely consumed by your fantasy league standings. The transition is so quiet that you never even realize your hobby has taken the throne of your heart. But make no mistake: anything that commands your greatest loyalty, time, and affection above Jesus Christ is functioning as a god in your life. Defeating modern day idols requires us to drop our defenses and take a brutally honest look at how we are spending the one life God has given us. Examples of Modern Day Idols in a Man's Life If you are looking for examples of modern day idols, you don't have to look very far. You simply need to look at how the average man spends his weekend. As discussed on the Uncommen podcast, the sheer volume of time and resources we dedicate to entertainment is staggering when viewed objectively. Consider the reality of the fall football season. A single NFL or college football game takes roughly three and a half hours to watch. If a man watches a Thursday night game, a college game on Saturday afternoon, a Saturday night prime-time game, two NFL games on Sunday, and Monday Night Football, he has suddenly dedicated twenty to twenty-five hours of his week solely to watching a screen. That is the equivalent of a part-time job. When twenty-five hours are sacrificed to the television, and zero hours are sacrificed to reading God's Word or leading a family devotional, football has officially become one of the most prominent modern day idols in that home. Or consider the massive, dedicated communities built around motorsports and tailgating. Men will spend hundreds of thousands of dollars on luxury RVs, burn through weeks of hard-earned Paid Time Off, and completely relocate their lives to a speedway parking lot for two weeks just to watch cars drive in a circle. It is a modern-day pilgrimage. We treat sporting events with the kind of absolute devotion, financial sacrifice, and communal dedication that the early church used to reserve for the Kingdom of God. The danger isn't limited to sports. Modern day idols can be found in the quiet corners of our personal lives. It can be an obsession with building a perfect vinyl record collection, hunting down rare trading cards, or spending endless hours doom-scrolling through YouTube and TikTok videos. It can be the relentless pursuit of lowering your golf handicap while your marriage struggles to survive. The object of the obsession changes from man to man, but the spiritual result is exactly the same: we become spiritually numb, emotionally distant from our families, and completely disconnected from our God-given purpose. The "Fishing Boat" Excuse and the Heart Check When a man's hobbies begin to be challenged by his wife, his pastor, or his brothers in Christ, the immediate response is almost always a defensive justification. "I work hard all week; it's just my thing," we say. Or, we try to spiritualize the hobby to make it untouchable. This is where the infamous "fishing boat" excuse comes into play. A man will skip Sunday morning service for months at a time to go out on the lake, and when confronted, he will say, "I read my Bible while I'm out there. It's just me and the Lord on the boat. That's my worship." While God certainly created the outdoors and we can experience His presence in nature, using a hobby as an excuse to perpetually ditch the gathering of believers is a massive spiritual red flag. It is a convenient lie we tell ourselves to protect our modern day idols. We want the blessings of God without having to submit our schedules to His Lordship. To determine if you are harboring modern day idols, you have to perform a ruthless heart check. Ask yourself this highly revealing question: Do you feel as much conviction and sorrow about missing your daily Bible reading as you do about missing your team's big game? If your DVR fails to record the game, you are furious. You spend the whole day avoiding social media so the score isn't spoiled. But if you go four consecutive days without opening your Bible or spending time in prayer, do you feel any urgency? Do you feel that same level of frustration? Furthermore, if you can readily explain every detail of what happened on last week's episode of Survivor, but you couldn't even summarize the last sermon you heard or name the book of the Bible you are supposedly reading, you have a major priority issue. Modern day idols blind us to our own spiritual starvation. They feed us cheap entertainment while our souls wither away. The Great "I'm Too Busy" Myth The ultimate defense mechanism for a man protecting his modern day idols is the excuse of busyness. When a man is asked to step up and lead—whether it is joining a men's small group, volunteering in the community, or simply dedicating thirty minutes a day to family prayer—the default answer is almost always, “I am just so incredibly busy right now. I don't have the time.” But time is the ultimate lie detector. The truth is, you are never too busy for the things that you truly value. A man will look his pastor in the eye and say he cannot possibly find the time to attend a 6:30 AM Wednesday morning Bible study, but that same man will gladly wake up at 4:00 AM on a Saturday, hitch up a boat, and drive two hours to hit the water before sunrise. A man will say he doesn't have the bandwidth to mentor a younger man, but he will somehow find three hours every single night to grind through video games. You are not lacking time; you are lacking priority. When you take a hard look at your weekly routine, your modern day idols will be glaringly obvious based on where your free hours are spent. We convince ourselves that our busy season just became a busy decade, but when we finally audit our time, we realize we have thrown away thousands of hours on trivial pursuits. Eradicating modern day idols requires us to stop lying to ourselves about our schedules and start taking radical ownership of our daily choices. Practical Steps to Dethrone Your Modern Day Idols It is important to remember that the goal is not to eliminate fun from your life. God designed you to enjoy creation, to experience brotherhood through sports, and to have hobbies that allow you to decompress. The goal is proper alignment. You have to put God at the absolute center of your life and sprinkle your hobbies around Him, rather than putting your hobbies at the center and trying to squeeze God into the leftover cracks. If you are ready to smash the modern day idols in your life, here are three practical Uncommen steps you can take today: 1. Perform a Brutal Time Audit: You cannot manage what you do not measure. This week, check the screen time report on your smartphone. Track exactly how many hours you spend watching sports, gaming, or scrolling. Write the number down. Then, write down exactly how many hours you spent reading Scripture, praying with your wife, and serving your local church. The resulting ratio will expose your modern day idols instantly. Let that conviction drive you to repentance. 2....

Intro: Spirit week, Guinness chocolate sourdough bread, making Turkish Delight was not fun and Lemon Angel Pie.14:24: New garden plans, a new chicken coop, new chicks, and another injured chicken.23:53: A definition of faith: longing for a better city, and when your kids do things of the Lord unbidden. Abiding City - YouTube Adorning the Dark30:43: New World Watch feature and the importance of kids learning Apologetics.35:54: Wes Huff in Diary of a CEO. Keller's cultural moment is over.41:38: Living an apologetic lifestyle and consistency with kids.48:10: The fear of losing your sense of confidence in knowledge and truth.52:40: Molly's habit of Jane Austen night: Mansfield Park, J.R.'s review of latest Brandon Sanderson series he's reading, book adaptations, and the problem of building out old stories.1:01:33: Show Close  Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

ntro: Jesus-y sayings, studies in Revelation, Brian's sermon series in Revelation.12:15: Recap from JR's first arena mix in San Antonio with Terri Clark.20:00: Molly recaps her substitute teaching on Monday and all the first graders fall apart about death.22:30: Molly finishes Sense and Sensibility and loves how great Jane Austen writes.29:53: Olympics, paedo-president's day rant.33:22: Hormonal birth control and its correlation to anxiety disorders.34:56: Johnny Gaudreau's kids and Olympic moments.38:00: Molly's amusement with Sam "Moose" Morse and terrible ski racing culture.43:52: Olympian Caesar Salad rater.44:40: Molly's etomologies of the week: tempura and semitic languages48:43: Lack of sleep and picking up kid woes.53:02: Show Close______________________________CanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's preferred Stone Heating PadIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Intro: Ash Wednesday, Lent, and Mardi Gras.17:04: An update on AI since last week and Cheney's commentary.21:05: AI crushes a medical diagnosis.26:47: The average person's Door Dash budget and the short line between Door Dash and collapse of civilization.32:46: Humanity wants the bare minimum, and adapting to new circumstances.36:57: We went skiing and had forced disconnect time.41:10: Food inflation and a recipe to turn any red meat into deli-style lunch meat.48:20: FB Marketplace comedy52:50: A reflection on Sandra McCracken's Grace Upon Grace.59:12: You are either moving towards or away from your spouse, pressure points in marriage like tidiness and forgetting to schedule reminders, and throwing this away without telling them.1:08:59: Show Close____________________________CanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's preferred Stone Heating PadIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Intro: The basics and some comments on our very early history during COVID.3:30: Molly's afternoon substituting for a sick teacher at the girls' school, what a daughter was supposed to be doing last year, a student tries to run things, and boredom for an hour.12:30:Jesus to the elite, Isaiah 2 and Molly's Epstein file dump reaction.17:20: J.R.'s reaction and The Hittite Warrior and the Christianizing influence on society. 22:50: God is sovereign over all things and separate realities and deepfakes.28:00: Cross-generational distrust of the government and the rise and fall of civilizations.31:37: Trusting God, living a quiet of life, planting gardens, and parents' rights.35:23: Something Big Is Happening (AI), some theoretical musings.46:47: Molly interrupts. 49:49: AI is creating itself and the potential benefit to your ideas.53:13 Recalibrating how we train our kids, future eduction, nefarious directions.59:44: Titus' language immersion program and some of Molly's ideas for AI use, and is there a demonic influence on AI?1:05:30: Would it be better to have an AI that doesn't learn what you want? Molly's Poison Hemlock story.1:11:30: Some ideas we have for AI.1:12:50: J.R.'s has been playing with a paid version of AI (Claude) and here's his experience so far.1:21:15: Show Close Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Intro: Tea, coffee, bone broth, and driver's ed tests5:48: Conflict in marriage Canavox session development.10:20: The Forever Factor: qualities of a partner. Molly lobs new stuff for J.R. To react to…13:05: The importance of emotional resiliency in a relationship.17:34: The solar sales guy, financial pressures, and enjoying the joys.21:05: The most negative person in the house is the thermostat of the house.22:04: Willingness to repair and apologize.26:14: The importance of practical competence and life skills.28:18: Plastic drain clog cleaners, response under pressure and full circle.35:20: Sense of humor at aging and imperfection.36:51: Generosity without scorekeeping - modeled from the start.42:40: Intellectual curiosity and conversational depth.43:55: Comfort with silence.44:33: Separate identity and friendships.46:22: Kindness in small daily moments.50:42: Purposeful expression of gratitude.50:10: Show Close____________________________________CanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's preferred Stone Heating PadIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Ep. 210Intro: Molly's sourdough hustle, a desire for a blind cc text solution, shout out to me for repairing things when we got back from vacation.15:26: Sourdough is so great; great bacteria in the colon sent to the baby through breast milk.20:03: JR's highlight from our vacation to the Dominican Republic.22:10: Screaming toddlers on planes, a tales of our woe from our NYC trip years ago.26:29: Molly's highlight and seeing kids overcoming fear.31:43:  The acronym AWFUL and  Molly teases out some thoughts around protests, ICE, and how our culture got here.36:08: A mental disconnect between functioning in reality vs. online.40:12: The Lady Griffins and Aiming Students Higher  - Public Discourse42:08: C.S. Lewis and the modern “Jurassic Park” mindset of “Nobody asked if we should.”44:13: Mandates to align with world as God designed.45:46: Show Close----------------------CanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's preferred Milk FrotherMolly's preferred Stone Heating PadIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

This is a devotional study about avoiding any compromise of principle in matters of the spiritual or the secular.  We cannot afford to deviate from the plans that God outlines for us as individuals, families or church congregations.  Let's look at Pharaoh trying to derail Moses four times.Exodus 8:25-27 KJVAnd Pharaoh called for Moses and for Aaron, and said, “Go ye, sacrifice to your God in the land.” And Moses said, “It is not meet so to do; for we shall sacrifice the abomination of the Egyptians to the LORD our God: lo, shall we sacrifice the abomination of the Egyptians before their eyes, and will they not stone us?  We will go three days' journey into the wilderness, and sacrifice to the LORD our God, as He shall command us.”Related Podcasts:— I'm Too Busy for This— Time to Press Forward— Fear Not — For I am With Thee— Take Courage— What Doest Thou Here, Elijah?— We are Well Able to Overcome— Hide me from the Wicked— Encourage Yourself in the Lord— It Repented the LORDRelated Podcasts at TrueWisdom:— Jeremiah's Way vs Urijah's Way— The Reproach of Egypt— The Battle is the Lord's— Rahab makes a change— Consulting GodText UsSupport the showSend questions or comments to: BibleQuestions@ASBzone.comThe Key Principles of Effective Bible Study is a resource which outlines core concepts shown in the Scriptures that will help you to better understand many Biblical themes and doctrines. We have an extended, 24-part podcast series on these principles, and a condensed, 9-part series called God's Precious Word, that is based on the same resource. We also recommend that you check out the True Wisdom podcast which I co-host with Robert Baker -- a different format for Bible Study. Finally, check out these awesome Bible Maps! We pray that all of these resources will be very helpful to you in your Bible Studies.

Intro: Christmas break, board gaming.14:06: Books J.R. read over Christmas19:10: Mission Impossible series over the break21:31: Molly's 1st time LOTR reading29:07: Lili's reading the entire Jane Austin series and Austin's tongue-in-cheek humor34:37: Brief note about getting sick over the holidays.37:35: The Witch Trials of JK Rowling and questions of certainty40:47: Rachel Held Evans and her ideals are alive and well today.44:53: Molly took some socials off her phone, then put it back on and whoo boy.46:40: What is God like according to RHE legacy proponents.49:14: Nerd alert about natural gender language51:39: John Cooper on Allie Beth Stuckey55:40: A type of Christian certainty that leads people astray.59:12: Where do we insist on certainty and where do we have the grace in human experience?1:02:22: Abigail Dodds and Bread of Life and proofs of His worthiness, not ours.1:09:11: Isa. 55:8-9: Not having answers but not abandoning reason.1:16:50: Show closeToo Busy to Flush Telegram GroupCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's preferred Milk FrotherMolly's preferred Stone Heating PadIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

In this episode, Christina Flach shares her exciting journey as a celebrity makeup artist and entrepreneur. Christina, the founder of Pretty Girl Makeup and upcoming brands 'I'm Too Busy' skincare and 'ITB Wellness,' discusses her progress, experiences, and the lessons she learned along the way. Her current endeavors aim to simplify beauty routines with sustainable and effective products. Christina emphasizes the importance of self-care, adaptability, and continuous learning in achieving success. She also offers invaluable advice for aspiring entrepreneurs, highlighting the need for passion, adaptability, and seeking help when needed. Tune in to learn from Christina's inspiring story and her insights on the ever-changing beauty industry.00:00 Introduction to Made It Happen Podcast00:59 Meet Christina Flach: Celebrity Makeup Artist and Entrepreneur01:55 Christina's Journey into the Beauty Industry02:35 Launching Pretty Girl Makeup and I'm Too Busy07:11 The Importance of Self-Care and Wellness08:12 Marketing Strategies in the Ever-Changing Beauty Industry11:27 Managing Time and Overcoming Challenges12:40 Advice for Aspiring Female Entrepreneurs23:47 Rapid Fire Questions and Final Thoughts27:22 Conclusion

Christine Laperriere lives at the intersection of strategy and soul. She's an executive coach, keynote speaker, and the founder of LeaderInMotion.com, where for more than a decade she's helped leaders and teams across North America transform how they lead—and how they live.With a background in engineering and a master's in business, Christine spent years leading multi-million-dollar change initiatives inside Fortune 500 companies. But after witnessing how relentless pressure and hustle culture erode even the most capable leaders, she chose a different path.Christine is the author of Too Busy to Be Happy and the creator of powerful leadership philosophies like Dessert First Living—a bold re-imagining of success that puts joy back on the agenda—and Best Boss Ever, a coaching model rooted in clarity, compassion, and confidence.Known for her candor, humor, and heart, Christine brings a rare grounded wisdom to leadership conversations—one that honors performance and humanity.This conversation is about leading well without losing yourself.More Info: Leader In MotionSponsors: Become a Guest on Master Leadership Podcast: Book HereAgency Sponsorships: Book GuestsMaster Your Podcast Course: MasterYourSwagFree Coaching Session: Master Leadership 360 CoachingSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/masterleadership. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Diplomatic Credulity. Rampage Cushion. Looking Like A Smurf Down There! Don't Wander Into That Water. Awkwardness Grenade. Too Busy to go to Hell. Serious Sandler. Mall Santa gets Covid for Christmas. Some French Bullshit... It's OK, My Brother's A Stereotype! Byebye Chicken And Watermelon. I Wrote Myself a Note, About What I do not Know. My Mom's Mouth Shape. I Don't Like Expired Vegan Gummieeeeeeeeeees! Assholes & F-Bombs with Amy and more on this episode of The Morning Stream. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Diplomatic Credulity. Rampage Cushion. Looking Like A Smurf Down There! Don't Wander Into That Water. Awkwardness Grenade. Too Busy to go to Hell. Serious Sandler. Mall Santa gets Covid for Christmas. Some French Bullshit... It's OK, My Brother's A Stereotype! Byebye Chicken And Watermelon. I Wrote Myself a Note, About What I do not Know. My Mom's Mouth Shape. I Don't Like Expired Vegan Gummieeeeeeeeeees! Assholes & F-Bombs with Amy and more on this episode of The Morning Stream. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Starting your own interior design business sounds exciting… until you sit down to actually do it and wonder, Where do I even begin?Maybe you've dreamed about launching your business for years, but the legal setup feels overwhelming.Maybe you've done a few side projects, but don't feel “official” yet.Or maybe you're terrified of getting your first paid client, pricing your services, or setting up systems that won't fall apart the moment you take on real work.If that sounds like you, today's episode will feel like the permission slip—and roadmap—you've been waiting for. I'm answering the most common FAQs about my Launch Your Business Bootcamp, an 8-week step-by-step program designed specifically for interior designers who want to build a profitable, structured, and legitimate business from the ground up.If you've been dreaming about making design your full-time career—without the guesswork, trial-and-error, or expensive mistakes—this episode will show you how to officially start your business, attract clients, and finally move from “I want to be a designer” to “I run a real design business.” This is your year. And I'm here to guide you every step of the way.What You'll Learn in This Episode✔️ Who the Launch Your Business Bootcamp is best suited for✔️ Why this program helps you avoid the most common business-killing mistakes✔️ What you'll accomplish week-by-week inside the 8-week business launch roadmap✔️ How the program is delivered and why the format helps you take real action✔️ What makes this different from other design business courses or mentorships✔️ How to know if now is the right time to finally launch your interior design businessRead the Blog >>> Frequently Asked Questions About Launch Your Business BootcampNEXT STEPS:

Too Busy to Trade? Try This Weekly Strategy  Podcast: Find out more about Blueberry Markets – Click Here Find out more about my Online Video Forex Course Book a Call with Andrew or one of his team now Click Here to Attend my Free Masterclass #617: Too Busy to Trade? Try This Weekly Strategy In this video: 00:31 – Do you lack the time to trade? 01:50 – How to trade without taking up too much time. 02:08 – GBP/HKD W1 chart with a 4.8:1 Reward:Risk. 03:27 – My first ever client trades only Weekly charts. 04:33 – Look at the charts just once a week. 05:18 – It's all about knowing what to look for. 05:41 – Book a call with us. 06:04 – 30 minutes Masterclass. 06:25 – Blueberry Markets as a Forex Broker. 07:04 – Like, Share and Subscribe Do you think that you’re too busy to trade? If that’s you, I’ve got a great solution for you. This is something that my very first client from back in 2009 has done since then, whilst running his very successful business. Let’s get into that and more right now. Hey there, Traders! It’s Andrew Mitchem here at The Forex Trading Coach with video and podcast number 617. Do you lack the time to trade? So a common problem that so many people face is they think they are too busy to trade. And it’s fair enough because you see out there online, you know, examples on various platforms, YouTube, etc. of people looking at charts and looking at 5 minute charts and watching every pip move up and down. And you look at that and you think, well, realistically, how on earth can I copy that process? Because I’m just too busy. I’ve got, you know, work, businesses, family, hobbies, whatever it might be going on in your life. And there’s no way that you are going to be able to afford that time to sit there, either to want to do it or to be able to do it, to sit there watching charts, ready to take little trades every now and then. It’s just not realistic. And of course, many people wake up to that fact and they go, well, looks good and maybe in hindsight, but I just realistically cannot dedicate time to doing this. And even if you could, do I really want to sit there just staring at charts, watching 5 minute charts and 15 minute charts, just waiting for that signal to occur? Probably not, because it’s not realistic and it’s not something you’re going to enjoy and continue to be able to do or want to do long term. So everybody’s got busy lives. I get that. How to trade without taking up too much time. So what can you do to still become a good trader, but to not take up all day? And the very simple solution is you can look at the longer time frame charts such as the weekly charts. Now, just this week, right now is the absolute perfect example. GBP/HKD W1 chart with a 4.8:1 Reward:Risk. At the beginning of this week, we suggested a buy trade to our clients on the GBP/HKD. Now you go and have a look at your weekly charts for the beginning of this week. Go on to the pound Hong Kong dollar and you’ll see the candle setup that I’m taking now. Right now as I’m recording this, the trade has not reached a profit target. But it’s very, very close. It’s only like ten pips away right now. If it hits the full profit target, which it’s almost certainly going to do, especially by the time you watch this and listen to this, the trade’s going to make a massive 4.8 to 1 reward to risk. So if you imagine that at the beginning of this week you saw that trade and you placed, let’s say, a 1% risk on that trade, that’s going to make you an incredible 4.8% gain on your account on the one trade in one week by taking literally, what, ten minutes to scan through the charts, if that, just at the beginning of the week. If you took a half percent risk, that’s going to make you a 2.4%, not a bad gain in one week from a trade that took you like five or ten seconds to actually place, and then you’ve forgotten about it. No more chart watching. You just put the trade on, put your stop loss on, put your profit target on and let the trade do its thing. Let the market do its thing. Now that is a solution for you if you’re short on time. My first ever client trades only Weekly charts. Now, my very first client, and he was the instigator in starting The Forex Trading Coach because he used to buy trading signals from me. And he said, look, Andrew, would you fly across to Australia to come and teach me? And I spent about four or five days with this guy and his family back in 2009, and that is how I started the coaching. And he was just thrilled with the system and thrilled with everything I taught him. And to this day, he is still trading. Now this guy owns a number of restaurants, very high end quality restaurants in Noosa in Australia. And he traded back then the weekly charts and to today he continues to trade just the weekly charts because for him he can have a look at his charts once a week early morning Monday morning in Australia. Or he can, you know, have a few minutes over the weekend because the forex markets are shut of course. And he can have a look through the weekly charts. And by the time the markets open, he can place trades exactly like we’ve just placed on the GBP/HKD. And for the rest of the week, he’s out there running his restaurants and managing staff and happy customers, etc. Look at the charts just once a week. And so that is a very good solution because the weekly charts, of course you need to look just once a week, the quality of the chart trade setups is very, very good. You don’t have to worry about news events or anything like that. Put the trade on, leave the trade to do its thing. Have a look at the end of the week. Do I leave the trade open over the weekend if it’s still going, or do I close it if it’s not already hit the stop loss or profit target? So a great solution for people who maybe are traveling, who have got to run businesses, just too busy to look at charts. Once you understand what you’re doing, you can place trades like the GBP/HKD weekly chart trade and end up, let’s say, with a 1% risk and a 4.8% account gain. Try doing that on many other markets and something that’s taking you such a short amount of time. It's all about knowing what to look for. However, the key to all of this is not how little time you’re going to trade. The key is knowing what to look for. And so the only way you’re going to do that is to spend just a little bit of time upfront and learn to dedicate a bit of time to your knowledge and your education so you have the ability to see these type of trades and to take these type of trades. Book a call with us. Now two things you can do. One, if you’d like to book a call with either myself or the team, I’m going to put a link to our booking account. We have opened up more available time slots, so it’s available to anybody, anywhere around the world. We can give you a call on your home phone number or mobile and have a chat about how we can help you with the trading or see if we can help you with the trading, if it’s going to be a good fit or not. 30 minutes Masterclass. And the other thing you can do is have a look at my 30 minute On Demand masterclass, where I explain all about trades exactly like that GBP/HKD. Show you some trades on the charts of what we’re doing, how we trade, using limit orders, all those type of things that we do in keeping risk low per trade, and of course not spending much time on the charts each day. Blueberry Markets as a Forex Broker. Now, the other thing you can do and do yourself a favor if you’re out there looking for a good broker, is have a look at Blueberry Markets. They offer the MT4 and especially the MT5 trading platform. So you might find some brokers don’t offer markets like the GBP/HKD. But Blueberry Markets on the MT5 platform do. And that’s the beauty of it. You can look for the candle pattern and the chart pattern that is showing you the best setup. It doesn’t matter whether you have any interest in the GBP or the HKD. It doesn’t matter if the technical trade setup is there. See the trade. Take the trade. Profit from the trade. Enjoy your trading. Spend a few minutes once a week on the weekly charts. You’ll find they’re incredibly good. I hope that helps. Like, Share and Subscribe Any questions? Please feel free to reach out. Ask me directly Andrew@TheForexTradingCoach.com If you’re watching, don’t forget to like and subscribe if you’re on YouTube or other social media platforms. And I hope that helps. For anybody that wants to look to trade properly and who feels that they don’t have a ton of time to dedicate to their trading on a daily basis, it’s a great solution. It’s profitable, it’s enjoyable. It’s something you can do just once a week and still trade the markets properly. This is Andrew Mitchem here at The Forex Trading Coach. I’ll see you this time next week. Bye for now. Episode Title: #617: Too Busy to Trade? Try This Weekly Strategy Find out more about Blueberry Markets – Click Here Find out more about my Online Video Forex Course Book a Call with Andrew or one of his team now Click Here to Attend my Free Masterclass

Recorded December 4, 2025 on progrock.com Thrice Crowned – VII (2025) – The Budos Band Mean Streets – VII (2025) – The Budos Band Bummer Boys – Too Busy 4 Jail (2025) – Muscle Tough Sugar Mother – Too Busy 4 Jail (2025) – Muscle Tough Disintegration (Alabama Revisited) – Standard Deviation (2025) – Sons of Ra Lividity – Standard Deviation (2025) – Sons of Ra Flute of Peril – The Book of Hours (2025) – Agropelter The Book of Hours Part IV – The Book of Hours (2025) – Agropelter  Park Up and See the Manager – From Mouth to Ear (2025) – The Bob Lazar Story You Pigeon Fucks – From Mouth to Ear (2025) – The Bob Lazar Story Sitharsis – Odd Time Concepts (2025) – Barend Tromp Chromatron (Pt. 4-5) – Odd Time Concepts (2025) – Barend Tromp Phantom Limb – Phantom Limb (2025) – Hooffoot Last Letter Home – Phantom Limb (2025) – Hooffoot Earth 1 – IC-02 Bogotá (2025) – Unknown Mortal Orchestra Underworld 6 – IC-02 Bogotá (2025) – Unknown Mortal Orchestra Not Alone – Truce

Intro: Elk hunting, elk tallow hand lotion, raw dog food, processing wild game.16:32: Nashville trip for Behold The Lamb of God live. A new recipe for jerky we're going to try.23:00: Bone Broth, Costco Next.28:05: Giving Molly props for making a fresh, homemade, pizza for Titus' lunch.31:37: Our girl's first orchestral concert.35:40: All the music brings a big cultural shift in the family.37:18: A discussion letting our girls use the bathroom at the same time as a transgender person in our world.43:15: Setting boundaries: trust vs. procedure.50:33: Molly rants about @neezapowers, a 10 year transgender detransitions and becomes a Christian and has half a million followers.54:32: On Tozer, The Knowledge of The Holy: How you REALLY think about God predicts how your spiritual life will be in the future. ""What comes into your mind when you think about God?" We might predict with certainty the spiritual future of that man."1:01:48: @breestrongerthancancer and God isn't here for our physical comfort.1:09:44: Molly clarifies what JR says about God's refining work in him.1:13:00: Take heed lest you stumble. 1:16:08: Show CloseToo Busy to Flush Telegram GroupCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's preferred Milk FrotherMolly's preferred Stone Heating PadIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

One of my friends recently told me she is too busy to date. How about you?  In the bustling pace of modern life, finding time for relationships can be challenging, especially for single Christians who aim to balance their spiritual, personal, and professional lives. Recognizing your concerns, and when you’re too busy to date is crucial for your well-being and spiritual growth. Here are ten signs that it might be time to re-evaluate your schedule and priorities before seeking a […] The post 10 Signs You’re Too Busy to Date as a Single Christian appeared first on Christian Singles Advice | Christian Dating Advice Tips. Related posts: First Date Questions to Ask a Christian Single Guy How to Ask Someone Out on a Date Signs That God Wants You to Remain Single Forever Signs You’re Dating a Master Manipulator as a Christian Single Understanding Burnout in Christian Singles: Signs, Symptoms, and Steps to Healing

Busyness may look normal, but it's quietly draining your marriage emotionally, physically, spiritually, and sexually. In this episode, Scott, Derek, and Gabrielle unpack why most of our busyness is a choice, how to discern when to say yes or no, and practical ways to create margin, live on mission, and protect what matters most at home.Scriptures:Romans 12:1-2Ephesians 5:15-17Matthew 16:25Genesis 2:25Questions to Discuss:1. What are some of the reasons you and your spouse are overly busy in your lives and schedule?2. What is the cost of your busyness to your marriage and family? (i.e., health, money, intimacy)3. Which of your current commitments are true needs and which are really choices that reflect your lifestyle preferences or fear of missing out?4. Who in your community group or trusted circle needs to speak into your level of busyness and help you evaluate your commitments?Resources:Podcast - More Than Roommates, Episode 41 - Why Busyness Might Destroy Your Marriage (feat. Gary Thomas)Podcast - More Than Roommates, Episode 31 - Too Busy to Get Busy (Part 2 of 3 in a series on marital intimacy)Book - Emotionally Healthy Spirituality, by Peter ScazzeroBook - Practicing the Way, by John Mark Comer

Ep. 207: Intro: Show premise, violin practice, candles, local vintage markets.9:33: Tom Bombadil in The Culturist.16:54: As a mom: creating an environment of contented being.19:06: Contented being vs. laziness.21:06: The dangers of not having any drive or draw to anything. 23:26: A pattern of doing and being.26:25: Ecclesiastes 5! (Not Ephesians).29:57: Challenges to homeschooling, homemaking requires the making.34:32: For those that don't enjoy the work and honoring the Sabbath.37:03: The power of delight in the good things God has given us.37:31: The power of doing music with other people.47:45: People and creative works: the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.47:50: It's all fake and AI.48:36: Created to function in community.49:27: Stay at home moms are economically vulnerable.55:48: If you stop with the making entropy starts immediately58:35: Show CloseToo Busy to Flush Telegram GroupCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's preferred Milk FrotherMolly's preferred Stone Heating PadIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Many Christian singles find themselves juggling demanding careers, a deep commitment to their faith, and the desire for meaningful relationships. As a working professional, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by long hours at the office, church obligations, and the search for a compatible partner who shares your values. But here’s the good news: with intentional Christian singles advice, you can achieve harmony in these areas. This article explores practical Christian dating tips for working professionals, focusing on time management, prioritizing […] The post Balancing Career, Faith, and Dating as a Single Christian: Tips for Working Professionals appeared first on Christian Singles Advice | Christian Dating Advice Tips. Related posts: 10 Signs You’re Too Busy to Date as a Single Christian Christian Single Career Women Interpersonal Christian Dating Relationship Tips Marriage Builders Tips for Single Christians Surrendering Your Career to God as a Christian Single

Intro: We harvested chickens, daylight savings.11:27: Titus takes a bull.14:13: Molly's musing: The hunting culture and healthy rights of passage.18:06: JR's response: Fatherhood, sons leveling up.21:55: Age ranges for parenting and windows of opportunity.24:40: Passing the mantle and raising kids up In competence.26:38: To what end do raise our kids? Becoming who God created us to be and the fullness of glorifying God. 31:45: The Courage of Sarah Noble and a house that has no love in it.37:03: Daughter passes out and terrifies mom.42:27: Arnica's magic.48:10: Back to Sara Nobel and blunt kids who think you suck.51:11: Molly quit using Pinterest because it's all AI, a Dumpling Smash Taco recipe and Japanese BBQ sauce.56:00: Crispy Rice. And rice and potatoes and how to prepare them for better glycemic index properties.57:35: Homeopathic stuff: PRID, cats purring and dads getting frisky.1:02:53: Molly's stone heating pad. 1:05:55: Daughter smokes dad in activity competition.1:06:45: Upcoming episode teasers and Molly's trip to a conference.1:10:00: Show CloseToo Busy to Flush Telegram GroupCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's Preferred Milk FrotherIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Too Busy to Pray? TRY THIS!For more information visit Pastorvlad.orgChapters0:00 - Intro1:09 - Turn Your Car into a Sanctuary2:56 - Bible Foundation for Prayer on the Move4:35 - Safety First6:17 - How-To: While Driving and When Parked9:35 - Daily Rhythm + 7-Day Challenge13:20 - OutroFor more information visit Pastorvlad.org

Too Busy for GodIn a world that celebrates busyness, it's easy to fill our schedules with things for God while rarely slowing down to simply be with God. This message from Romans 12 challenges us to shift from a works-based, approval-driven faith to a grace-filled life rooted in Christ.Discover how true difference-making flows from who we are in Jesus, not just what we do. Learn practical ways to abide in Him daily, renew your mind, and serve out of love instead of guilt. Whether you feel spiritually overextended, burned out, or just longing for a deeper walk with God, this sermon will help you reconnect to the Source so your life and service overflow with joy, peace, and purpose.DATE: 08/10/2025SPEAKER: Brad Goode

Intro: Hunting season, memes about the Louvre robbery, Coldplay family fallout.6:45: DEI and being hired for something other than merit. 12:09: Molly's belief on women in the military and law enforcement14:00: Origins of DEI, affirmative action, feminism and transgenderism.17:59: What makes inhaling house fire smoke so bad for you.19:20: The truth or false bias of new information on the internet.21:50: A video about how England really is.24:23: What it does to our souls when we base all our education on the internet.26:15: Fevers are healthy responses to infection and Tylenol drama.31:43: It's really hard to know who to trust. 34:38: You can't draw many straight lines between choices and consequences. The advice changes so much.37:18: New moms needing information they didn't grow up with.40:12: Expanding the mindset of decision-making based on fear.42:59: Making decisions based our Christian world-view.44:35: God's mandate to trust and no straight lines from good decisions to bad outcomes. You cannot control everything.47:40: Molly's top advice to our newly pregnant friend.51:00: Freedom in Christ is not just freedom for liberties but to let go of the sensed need for control.52:47: Show CloseToo Busy to Flush Telegram GroupSend us a PostcardCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's Preferred Milk FrotherIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

Intro: Dog attacks chickens! Product referral code updates.8:23: JR tries Liquid Death Killer Cola. Sparkling water, and a brief kinda-ad break/explanation of referral codes in the show notes.15:43: Molly updates you on the new milk frother.18:15: A note about Skinwalkers (JR's reading the book), and words from a Christian Native American.26:32: Our son's big interest in remote viewing and conversations around the paranormal.30:20: The value and benefit to having these convos with your kids.34:24: Molly's challenges homeschooling our Freshman son.37:25: AI gives out fake answers, and randomness.39:07: Telegram conversation catchups: Safe Spaces and Slander vs. Criticism.43:04: Molly's comments on Preston Sprinkle and the “safe spaces” question, and what may be mentally healthy.50:35: Show CloseToo Busy to Flush Telegram GroupSend us a PostcardCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)Wealthfront Referral LinkMolly's Preferred Milk FrotherIncogni (data removal and internet anonymizer) Get full access to Too Busy to Flush at www.toobusytoflush.com/subscribe

SummaryChase and Chris are back for another Coaches Roundtable Q&A—and they're calling out the biggest lie we tell ourselves this time of year: “I'll start after the holidays.” If you've ever hit pause in November and hoped to restart in January, this episode is your wake-up call. The guys also break down machine workouts vs. Smith machine, clear protein vs. whey, and what gear to prioritize when building your home gym. Plus, they call out sneaky marketing tricks from popular meal brands and protein companies.Get ready for some tough love, practical tips, and a few hilarious moments (including a story about blended chicken shakes

4:00: Life Update: enrolling our girls in the youth orchestra. Putting in the work for the future reward.12:10: JR's life update: going out on tour.18:40: Background: What do you say to LGBT folks who know what the church stands for but feel drawn to the church anyway?21:39: The Telegram chat discussion: grace and truth, what do you lead with?23:34: JR's answer.26:30: Molly's answer.29:40: There is a different call for those that claim the name of Christ and those that don't.31:52: We are all under the conviction of sin.33:23: It is a much bigger sacrifice and “dying to self” to exit a relationship.35:06: Living with sexual integrity.37:55: A time to move into an attitude of holy spirit conviction.38:52: Leaning into personal stories of Butterfield, Hill Perry and others.43:20: Church membership vows and appropriate boundaries in church.45:15: 2 Tim. 1:7 - be fearless and speak truth with love and power. The book's huge relevance in our cultural moment.48:45: Show Close. Too Busy to Flush Telegram GroupSend us a PostcardCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)Wealthfront Referral Link

On Mission Matters, Adam Torres interviews Christine Laperriere, Founder of Leader In Motion, about her book Too Busy to Be Happy and her work helping leaders balance performance with mental health. Christine shares her personal burnout story, her “Best Boss Ever” research, and her mission to equip leaders with tools to manage emotional real estate and lead with compassion. Follow Adam on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/askadamtorres/ for up to date information on book releases and tour schedule. Apply to be a guest on our podcast: https://missionmatters.lpages.co/podcastguest/ Visit our website: https://missionmatters.com/ More FREE content from Mission Matters here: https://linktr.ee/missionmattersmedia Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Intro: schedules, taglines, girls back at school4:14: Transhumanism and a 6 minute John Stonestreet Breakpoint episode.7:40: Molly's top 3 thoughts of the summer: thought number 1: our oldest two kids are really enjoyable.11:19: Thought number 2: lower your expectations of people. The Future of Christian Marriage.22:53: Thought number 3: don't wait until your 30s to do something interesting. The Definding Decade. Bed and Board.34:03: Representing “home” forever to a children and husband. The act of sex is something a man does to a woman and being a good guest in her home.36:30: JR's three things36:51: Thought number 1: how much he's been enjoying work.41:52: Thought number 2: he's been enjoying the property.47:32: Thought number 3: the “grayness” of scripture.50:13: Molly responds54:50: Shades of gray and the new Tophouse podcast.59:40: JR's all-in on barefoot shoes1:00:30: Molly's all-in on Apple Butter1:01:41: Titus harvested his first elkShow Close: JR's special anniversary present! Too Busy to Flush Telegram GroupSend us a PostcardCanavoxPique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy)Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)Wealthfront Referral Link

Too Busy to Build part 4 of 4Speaker: Tim Oliver

Too Busy to Build part 3 of 4Speaker: Karl Haffner

Too Busy to Build part 2 of 4Speaker: Jesse Churchill

Too Busy to Build part 1 of 4Speaker: Jesse Churchill

In this deeply personal episode, Sahil Bloom joins Ryan Sean Adams to explore what it truly means to be wealthy and why so many high achievers get it wrong. After hitting burnout, Ryan stepped away from the grind to reassess his definition of success. What he found was a framework that reframed his entire life: the Five Types of Wealth. Together, they unpack why net worth alone is a poor scoreboard, how to avoid the trap of “never enough,” and what it means to build time, social, mental, physical, and financial wealth in harmony. This conversation is both a blueprint and a reboot, for anyone chasing more, and wondering why it still doesn't feel like enough. ------

You say you're too busy. But you're not too busy to reply to clients at 11pm. Not too busy to scroll Instagram. Not too busy to overthink your post that never gets published. So what's really going on? In this episode, I'm calling out the real reason your visibility is inconsistent—and it's not your schedule. It's the avoidance. The hiding. The fear of being seen. If you're tired of planning content you never post, fixing things behind the scenes, or pretending you'll "get to it" next week... this one's for you. Want continuous help showing up without overthinking it? Subscribe to my Substack. You'll get daily emails, past strategies, podcast access, and more as we roll it all out: Sign up to Substack One idea. Straight to the point. Every single day. _______________________ *If this episode inspired you, take a screenshot of you listening and post it to your Instagram Stories. Tag us @veronicadipolo @brandingmomentum to spread the word, and don't forget to leave a review on Apple Podcast  ______________________   STAY CONNECTED & GET EXCLUSIVE CONTENT ✦ Sign Up for V's Daily Emails: Get exclusive insights every day! Message “DAILY” on IG @veronicadipolo or join here  ✦ Follow Us on Instagram + TikTok: Stay inspired with @brandingmomentum Instagram and @brandingmomentum tiktok. ✦ Visit Veronica Di Polo's Website: veronicadipolo.com to learn more about our services and ways to work together

Tera sits down with Vanessa Marin, licensed sex therapist and CEO of Vanessa Marin Sex Therapy, to explore how our early messages around sex shape our adult relationships—and how we can reclaim joy, freedom, and connection in the bedroom. Vanessa shares her personal journey of unlearning shame, learning how to speak up for her needs, and rewriting her sexual story. From navigating body confidence to overcoming a sex-negative upbringing, this conversation is a powerful reminder that healing is possible—and your pleasure matters. Whether you're struggling with desire, communication, or emotional intimacy, Vanessa's insights will leave you encouraged, empowered, and equipped.Links and Resources:Download the Core Emotion Wheel: ⁠⁠https://connectioncodes.co/get-the-cew⁠⁠Find out how to become a Certified Coach: ⁠⁠https://connectioncodes.co/certified-coaching⁠⁠Find a coach: ⁠⁠https://connectioncodes.co/all-coaches⁠⁠Vanessa Marin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessaandxander/?hl=enWebsite: https://vmtherapy.com/Chapters:00:00:00 – A Warm Welcome + A Quick Note on Therapy00:00:50 – Meet Vanessa Marin: Sex Therapist, Real Talker, Freedom Fighter00:01:39 – Growing Up Silent: How Shame Shaped Our Sexual Narratives00:04:32 – From Shame to Liberation: Vanessa's Personal Turning Point00:06:11 – The Call to Sex Therapy: Where Curiosity Meets Calling00:11:01 – Kids, Chaos & Connection: Keeping Intimacy Alive in Parenthood00:17:21 – Desire Decoded: What Your Libido Might Be Telling You00:23:02 – Let's Talk Initiation: Who Starts, Why It Matters00:29:42 – Spicing It Up: Creating a More Playful Sexual Menu00:30:09 – What Actually Works for You? Redefining Sexual Connection00:31:13 – Vanessa's Go-To Tools & Practices for Better Sex00:32:58 – Sex Positions: Myths, Pressure & What to Let Go Of00:33:26 – Fresh Energy: How to Stay Curious in Long-Term Love00:36:16 – Permission to Laugh: Why Playfulness Belongs in the Bedroom00:42:38 – Too Busy for Sex? Why Prioritizing It Changes Everything00:46:55 – It's More Than Just the Act: The Deeper Value of Sex00:47:52 – Orgasm Isn't the Goal: Navigating Challenges Without Shame00:50:38 – Where Emotional Safety Meets Sexual Connection