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He Said She Said Counseling
230 - Understanding Attachment Styles: The Key to Better Sex and Deeper Connection

He Said She Said Counseling

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2025 34:44


Purchase the Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseHow do your early childhood attachment experiences shape your physical and emotional intimacy as an adult?What common challenges do couples face when trying to communicate about sex and intimacy?Which actionable steps can partners take to break free from old patterns and foster a more secure, fulfilling connection?In this powerful episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts EJ and Tarah Kerwin unpack the fascinating connection between attachment styles developed in childhood and the complexities of adult intimacy. Drawing on real-life examples—as well as their own personal journeys—they demystify the challenges so many couples face in the bedroom and beyond. From anxious and avoidant dynamics to the lasting impact of family messages around sex, pleasure, and boundaries, EJ and Tarah provide valuable insight, practical guidance, and hope that lasting change is possible.Whether you're struggling to express your needs, longing for deeper emotional connection, or simply curious how your past might be affecting your relationship today, this episode is packed with psychoeducation, self-reflection questions, and encouragement. Don't miss the expert tips, relatable stories, and actionable strategies to help you and your partner create more freedom, safety, and satisfaction in your intimacy. Tune in now and take your next step toward a healthier, more connected partnership!Visit relationshiprenovation.com for more tips and resources to elevate your partnership and emotional well-being!Relationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Rena Malik, MD Podcast
Moment: Can These Exercises Really Make You Better in Bed? | Strength Training for a Better Sex Life ft. Dr. Mike Israetel

Rena Malik, MD Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2025 29:20


In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik, MD is joined by strength training and fitness expert Mike Isratel to explore the surprising connections between physical fitness and sexual performance. Together, they discuss how exercises like deep squats, deadlifts, hip thrusts, and abdominal workouts not only enhance endurance and strength but can also expand sexual confidence and variety in the bedroom. Dr. Malik and Dr. Isratel also touch on the complex interplay between physical attraction, confidence, and the emotional aspects of intimacy, offering practical tips for listeners looking to boost both their fitness and their sexual well-being. Schedule an appointment with me: https://www.renamalikmd.com/appointments ▶️Chapters: 00:00 Improving Sexual Performance Exercises00:54 Exercises for Thrusting Power05:06 Core & Abdominal Training06:39 Importance of Whole Body Fitness07:41 Personal Experience: Physicality & Sex14:45 Confidence and Sexual Attractiveness24:15 Physical Attraction vs. Long-Term Relationships Stay connected with Dr. Mike Israetel on social media for daily insights and updates. Don't miss out—follow him now and check out these links! Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/drmikeisraetel/?hl=en and https://www.instagram.com/drmikeclips/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/michael.israetel/ RP Strength's IG - https://www.instagram.com/rpstrength/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@renaissanceperiodization X - https://x.com/RPstrength Website - https://rpstrength.com To learn more about Dr. Mike and access free guides from RP Strength, click here: http://rpstrength.com/mike Let's Connect!: WEBSITE: http://www.renamalikmd.com YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD INSTAGRAM: http://www.instagram.com/RenaMalikMD TWITTER: http://twitter.com/RenaMalikMD FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/RenaMalikMD/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/renadmalik PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/renamalikmd/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/RenaMalikMD ------------------------------------------------------ DISCLAIMER: This podcast is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this podcast is my personal opinion, and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of information contained in this podcast including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness or death. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Unapologetic with Jannine MacKinnon
S3 Ep102 - Why Mindfulness is Essential For Better Sex

Unapologetic with Jannine MacKinnon

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2025 25:41


Did you know mindfulness can dramatically improve your sex life?Whether you're struggling with low desire, checking out during intimacy, or just know there's more available to you — this episode breaks down how mindfulness helps you reclaim your turn-on, expand your capacity for pleasure, and experience more fulfilling sex.

Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy
496: Better Sex in 30 Minutes a Day

Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2025 36:49


In today's episode, we discuss the importance of caretaking in intimate relationships. Things can go awry when one partner is looking for affection, nurture or attunement and it's read as blame. We all need to be cared for by one another and this is an important system to tend to. Join our experts, Laurie and George to learn more about the caretaking system in your relationship, your needs that you need responded to and how you can provide everyday care to your partner. So what does this have to do with sex? Laurie challenges listeners to a 30 minute emotional debrief a day. If the partner that needs this debrief is met with care and attentiveness chances to better and more sex skyrocket! Don't believe her? Give it a try and make sure to write in your results of the challenge to our listener mailbag on our website www.foreplayrst.com. Check out this episode's sponsor (and help the pod!): Uberlube.com -- Laurie's long-time favorite personal lubricant. It will help keep it hot! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Language of Love
It's Just Porn, But Why Does It Hurt So Much?

The Language of Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2025 11:48


So… your partner watches porn. Does that mean they're cheating? Or is it just harmless fantasy? If you've ever asked yourself this—or felt a pit in your stomach after finding out—this episode is for you. In this Language of Love session, I answer a powerful question from a listener named Karen. She just found out her boyfriend watches porn regularly, and she's not sure how to feel. Hurt? Angry? Insecure? Betrayed? Here's the thing—this isn't just about porn. It's about trust. Boundaries. Feeling seen and safe in your relationship. And we're going there. In this episode, we get into: Why watching porn doesn't automatically mean someone is cheating When fantasy crosses the line into a problem What porn does to the brain—and why so many people got hooked during the pandemic How too much porn can mess with intimacy (like, seriously mess with it) Why it's totally normal to feel triggered or rejected—and how to talk about it with your partner The difference between emotional safety and sexual shame—and how to move through both Real tips for navigating conversations around porn, self-pleasure, and trust Remember to visit my website to take a free quiz and explore 7 Days to Better Sex. It's not about right or wrong—it's about discovering what's true for you. I'm here to help you gain clarity on what you want, what feels right, and how to bring more honesty and connection into your relationships. And if you've ever felt alone in your struggles, know this: you're not. So many of us are navigating the same questions. Got something on your mind? A story or question you'd like to share? I'd love to hear from you. Email me anytime at languageoflovepod@gmail.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast
Episode 145: Non-Verbal and Creative Approaches to Intimacy

Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2025 33:03


Austin Cresap is therapist specialising in sex therapy and sex education in Seattle, Washington, and Hawaii.In this conversation, she shared some fantastic ideas and practical tips for making intimacy easier, more playful and that takes the pressure out of who initiates sex. She talked about using a secret signal, like a coffee cup, to indicate interest in intimacy. Austin also introduced the "No, but…" approach, as a way of overcoming the challenge of mismatched libidos - a more thoughtful way to reject an act without rejecting your partner, keeping the connection intact.For me, preparation is a big part of intimacy. Whether it's putting on something that makes me feel attractive, doing my hair, or just mentally getting into the mood, it's all part of the process. I also made the case for scheduling intimacy and we discussed why it's not unromantic. As we discussed, we schedule everything else in life, so why not prioritise time for connection? What really resonated with me was how creativity can transform intimacy. Whether it's playful signals like the coffee cup, role-playing, or simply planning ahead, it's all about keeping things fresh and fun. As Austin pointed out, these approaches help couples navigate busy lives and different arousal styles, making intimacy less about spontaneity and more about meaningful connection. You can find Austin at:http://www.icameheretotalktherapy.com00:00 Introduction to Sex Advice for Seniors01:54 Exploring Intimacy and Nonverbal Cues12:20 Understanding Female Hormones and Sexuality19:33 Cultural Perspectives on Aging and Sexuality26:00 The Pressure of Performance in Sexual Relationships30:10 Creative Approaches to IntimacyIf you enjoyed our conversation, let me know! I love to hear from my listeners (and it doesn't happen often enough). If you've found any of the tips on this or any of my shows helpful, a review on iTunes would go a very long way.If you'd like access to exclusive features like personal posts, my new 32 page booklet, Sex Toys & Supplements for Thriving in Later Life, my private chat room, direct messaging for your burning questions, and Substack Live sessions with expert guests, consider becoming a paid subscriber! Your sex life will thank you for it. :)Thousands of people are finally talking about intimacy, desire and pleasure without shame. Join them - subscribe now and you'll receive my freebie - Top 10 Overlooked Secrets to Better Sex.Annual membership is just £49.99 (a better deal than £6.99/month) and supports the work behind creating weekly podcasts, managing social media, collaborating with health professionals, and producing valuable resources. This isn't just a hobby—it's my passion and profession.Your subscription helps empower older individuals to feel sexually confident and access tools for pain-free, pleasurable intimacy.What others are saying:"I just finished listening to your podcast! I felt like I was sitting around the dinner table with friends, finally able to talk about what no one else does."“First of all, let me tell you how awesome I think you are and how valuable I think your Substack is.”“Your work is one of my new found joys. Thank you.” Get full access to Sex Advice for Seniors at www.sexadviceforseniors.com/subscribe

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#237 | Why Just Talking About It Isn't Working - Moving From Conflict to Connection

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2025 13:21


Ever wonder why talking about relationship problems sometimes makes things worse? In this  episode, Todd Creager therapist and relationship expert shares why "just talking about it" isn't always the solution – and what you can do instead. He's seen countless couples struggle with communication, only to end up more frustrated than when they started. But there's hope, and he's here to show you a better way.In this episode, you'll discover:- The crucial difference between "venting" and "sharing," and why one builds connection while the other creates distance- How to move past surface-level "secondary emotions" like anger and frustration to reach the vulnerable, primary emotions that lead to real understanding- Simple techniques to create a safe space for authentic communication, including non-verbal cues that can transform your conversationsWhether you're struggling with constant arguments or just want to enhance your relationship's communication, this episode offers practical insights to help you and your partner truly connect. Join Todd Creager as he explains how to make your conversations count and create the deep, meaningful connection you've been seeking. Because when we communicate with the right intent, amazing things happen. As always, I'm here to make the world safe for love.Want to go deeper? Check out my comprehensive program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" where I share even more tools for lasting relationship transformation right here: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlifeJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

The Language of Love
The One Question That Could Make or Break Your Relationship

The Language of Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2025 8:31


They say love is enough—but is it really? What if one simple question could reveal whether your relationship is built for long-term growth… or destined to quietly fall apart? In this Language of Love Bite, we explore the subtle but powerful force that separates short-lived connection from lasting partnership: mutual inspiration. This isn't about how often you laugh together or whether you share a Spotify playlist. It's about whether you feel proud of who you're becoming with this person—and if your future selves are being shaped by love, not stifled by it. You'll also learn a 2-minute reflection exercise (called “The Mirror Test”) that just might change the way you look at your relationship forever. Let's dive in! What You'll Learn: The one question that can predict whether your relationship is built to last Why growth—not just chemistry—is the real glue in long-term love Key signs your partner supports your evolution (and red flags they might not) How admiration and inspiration fuel deeper connection Simple ways to check in on growth—monthly rituals, vision sharing, and more How to use journaling to reinforce love, even in small everyday moments “The Mirror Test”: A quick exercise to assess who you've become in this relationship—and who you're becoming Because true love doesn't just feel good. It helps you grow. Want to see how your relationship is really doing? Start with my free quiz and explore 7 Days to Better Sex, a gentle path toward more connection, honesty, and intimacy. Got a question or a story to share? I'd love to hear from you at languageoflovepod@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex With Emily
How to Ask for What You Want in Bed (For Better Sex)

Sex With Emily

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2025 27:08


In this captivating episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily welcomes back adult film legend and author Joanna Angel to discuss her brilliant new choose-your-own-adventure erotic novel "Club 42." From her transformative days as a stripper to building a porn empire, Joanna shares how embracing her sexuality became the foundation of her confidence and success We dive into Joanna's fascinating journey of sexual self-discovery, exploring how stripping taught her to embrace her femininity, develop unshakeable confidence, and connect authentically with others. Her new book takes readers on multiple erotic adventures through a strip club setting, allowing you to choose your own path through various sexual scenarios—from hooking up with fellow dancers to exploring BDSM and everything in between. This episode is packed with practical advice on dirty talk, sexting, and vocal expression during intimacy. Joanna breaks down why authentic communication is crucial for great sex, how to move beyond performative sounds influenced by porn, and why being genuinely expressive enhances pleasure for everyone involved. We also explore her weakness for "band guys" and how sexual attraction doesn't always align with our feminist ideals. Key Topics Covered: How stripping transformed Joanna's confidence and sexuality The art of choose-your-own-adventure erotica Dirty talk vs. sexting: different skills for different situations Moving beyond porn-influenced sexual performance Why authentic vocalization enhances pleasure Sexual confidence and embracing your desires The psychology behind attraction to "bad boys" Creating inclusive, diverse sexual narratives Joanna's refreshing honesty about sexuality, combined with her literary talents, offers listeners both inspiration and practical tools for expanding their own sexual adventures. Whether you're looking to spice up your relationship or explore new fantasies, this episode celebrates the power of choice, authenticity, and unapologetic pleasure. Show Notes:  00:00:00 - Joanna's journey from stripper to porn entrepreneur 08:00:00 - How stripping built unshakeable sexual confidence15:00:00 - "Club 42": Choose-your-own-adventure erotica 23:00:00 - The art of authentic dirty talk and sexting 31:00:00 - Moving beyond performative sexuality 38:00:00 - Listener questions and practical advice This episode reminds us that great sex starts with knowing yourself, embracing your desires, and having the confidence to ask for what you want—whether in the bedroom or on the page. Join the SmartSX Membership : ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx  ⁠Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ ⁠ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!:https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/ ⁠ Let's get social:  Instagram ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/⁠  X ⁠https://twitter.com/sexwithemily⁠ Facebook ⁠https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily⁠ TikTok ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily ⁠ Threads https:⁠//www.threads.net/@sexwithemily  ⁠ Let's text: Sign up here ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/text 

Live From Love
Episode 372 - Better Sex Isn't About Technique

Live From Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2025 13:29


What I often see from those who listen to this podcast, or even from my clients, is that they want a quick fix to their problems in the bedroom. They think that if they learn the right position, or the perfect rhythm, or how to last longer, that it will magically fix all the issues they're having. So let me say again….Better sex is not about technique. Technique won't spark your desire again. Technique won't make you feel wanted again. But it does feel like the easy answer. So if technique won't do those things, what will? Let's talk about what the harder work actually looks like, why we avoid it, and what's possible when we stop skimming the surface and go deeper.

Reclaim Your Radiance
44 | The Top 5 Tips For Better Sex

Reclaim Your Radiance

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2025 39:38


Better sex does not require fancy toys, lingerie, or a new partner! In this episode, I'm sharing the 5 most foundational tools for better, deeper, more connected sex—whether you're flying solo or diving in with a lover.These are the same tools I use in my own sex life and with my coaching clients to create mind-blowing intimacy, unleash full-body orgasms, and turn up the dial on pleasure in a grounded, embodied way.We cover:What safety actually means—and how to feel it in your bodyThe #1 most underrated orgasmic tool (hint: you're doing it right now)How sounding like a wild animal is a portal to better sexWhat “sexual energy” is and how to move it through your bodyWhy setting an intention (yes, even solo) changes everythingThese 5 practices are simple, powerful, and available to you right now.This episode is perfect for you if you're ready to drop deeper into your body, wake up your pleasure, and experience sex as sacred, playful, powerful, and healing.Listen now and start transforming your sex life—one breath, sound, and swirl of the hips at a time!Like this episode? Leave a review and share it with someone who needs to hear this.—Practice all these tools with your free 15 minute pleasure breathwork audio guide! https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal Join our newsletter:www.krishall.ca  Instagram:@illhavewhatsheshaving_podcast Work with Kris 1:1 to uplevel your sex life! https://www.krishall.ca/coaching Join our intimate sacred sexuality retreat: Wild Women Rising! https://www.krishall.ca/wild-women-rising-bowen Create the relationship of your dreams - join our couples course Love That Lasts!https://www.krishall.ca/love-that-lasts Use code KRIS10 for 10% your next pleasure toy! https://waands.com/?ref=illhavewhatsheshaving 

Ask A Sex Therapist with Heather Shannon
EP. 133: No More BV, UTIs and Yeast: Restore Your Vaginal Health for Better Sex—with Wendy Strgar.

Ask A Sex Therapist with Heather Shannon

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2025 46:08 Transcription Available


DEEPEN YOUR INTIMACY & WELL-BEINGApply for a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call to learn about Heather's Pathway to Passion coaching method: https://heathershannon.co/new-clients/Unveiling the Secrets of Vaginal Microbiome Health with Wendy StrgarIn this episode of 'Ask a Sex Therapist,' I welcome Wendy Strgar, founder of Good Clean Love and Womankind Care. Wendy dives deep into her journey of creating products to improve vaginal health, emphasizing the crucial importance of a balanced vaginal microbiome. We discuss key topics like the role of osmolality, the surprising impact of many conventional products on your vaginal health, and her groundbreaking Bio-Match technology. Wendy also shares insights on the broader connections between vaginal issues and overall well-being, offering practical tips for maintaining a healthy microbiome. You won't want to miss this one!About our guest:Wendy Strgar is an award-winning, serial entrepreneur and the Founder of Good Clean Love, Vaginal Biome Science, and Womankind Care. Strgar's commitment to vaginal health led to the development of patented BioMatched technology, an innovative scientific approach applying biomimicry to the formulation of women's health products. As CIO at Good Clean Love and CEO at Vaginal Biome Science and Womankind Care, she has developed a quantitative microbiota panel and the most advanced and effective product technologies to stabilize vaginal microbiome health and has effected change in both osmolality and animal testing requirements at the FDA. Exclusive Offer: Get 20% off Good Clean Love products with code (askasextherapist20) Book A Quickie (micro coaching package) - Get Unstuck In Your Sex Life!Website - https://HeatherShannon.co RATE & REVIEW US!Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here. https://podfollow.com/AskASexTherapistThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#236 | What Your Parents Never Taught You About Healthy Love - The Truth Revealed

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2025 13:35


In this episode,  Therapist and relationship expert Todd Creager dives deep into what our parents (and society) never taught us about healthy love. Just like we take golf lessons to improve our swing or attend medical school to become doctors, shouldn't we learn how to create and maintain healthy relationships? Drawing from my 40+ years of experience as a relationship expert, I share why most of us weren't taught the essential skills for lasting love and what we can do about it.Key takeaways from this episode:- Discover the three pillars of healthy love: repair, attunement, and curiosity - and how to implement them in your relationship- Learn why conflict feels so unsafe and how to transform your connection to be stronger than your pain- Understand how to express yourself authentically instead of just presenting what you think others want to see- Find out why it's never too late to learn healthy love skills, regardless of your age or relationship historyWhether you're struggling with communication, feeling disconnected, or simply want to enhance your relationship, this episode provides practical insights to help you create the loving partnership you desire. Join me in making the world safer for healthy love - one relationship at a time. Want to go deeper? Check out my comprehensive program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" where I share even more tools for lasting relationship transformation right here: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlifeJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

New Breed
Intimacy Unlocked: Building Better Sex in Relationships

New Breed

Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2025 41:33


In this unapologetically real episode of Enlighten Me, Julian dives deep into the heart of intimacy—beyond performance, beyond pressure, and beyond surface-level connection. "Intimacy Unlocked" explores what it truly takes to build a better sex life with your partner: emotional safety, honest communication, vulnerability, and trust. If you've ever struggled to feel seen, desired, or understood in the bedroom, this conversation will challenge you, heal you, and empower you. It's time to unlearn shame, rewrite the script, and unlock deeper pleasure—together.

The Language of Love
Is It Still Love If Touch Feels Like a Risk?

The Language of Love

Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 58:16


Love after trauma isn't just about passion—it's about patience. The quiet moments between kisses, the hesitation in a held hand, the unspoken fear that lingers in intimacy… These are the places where love is tested—and where it can be rebuilt. In this Language of Love Session, we return to Brian and Stacey's raw, unfolding story. If you've been with us, you know: this isn't just about sex. It's about two hearts trying to find safety in each other—while wrestling with the ghosts of their pasts. (If you're new here, make sure to listen to my past sessions with Brian and Stacy to learn about the heartache, the fights, the small victories that brought them here.) So what happens when healing almost feels within reach? When the arguments soften, the warmth returns… and then—out of nowhere—the old pain rushes back in? Here's What You'll Take Away: “I want to, but I can't”—why this conflict is more common than we admit (and how to move through it) How childhood wounds whisper in adult intimacy—and how to quiet them When even loving touch feels like pressure—and how to rewrite that story Why watching porn together became a bridge, not a wall The moment a simple kiss became the bravest act of all How couples accidentally retraumatize each other—and how to stop The shift that helped Stacey reclaim her body—and her voice Why Brian is learning that patience isn't passive—it's love in action Want to feel safe in your own skin—and in your partner's arms? Start with my free quiz and then delve into 7 Days to Better Sex. If you're navigating deeper wounds, explore EMDR therapy or dive into the Drama Triangle—because real love shouldn't reopen old scars. Your story isn't over. In fact, the most healing chapters may be just ahead. Questions or thoughts? I'd love to hear from you: languageoflovepod@gmail.com And if this episode moved you, share it. Healing is contagious when we do it together. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast
Episode 143: Intimacy Issues - Understanding and Overcoming Barriers

Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 33:12


Indigo Stray Conger has been a therapist since 2008 and has completed over a decade of therapeutic training. She is one of less than ten AASECT certified sex therapists at a supervisory level in the state of Colorado.During our conversation, we delve into what somatic psychotherapy entails and also the role of EMDR in trauma healing, and the challenges of intimacy in relationships.As we discuss, trauma can turn up in relationships in many forms can impact on both the psychological and physical barriers to intimacy, which can prevent singles and couples from fully exploring the many ways to experience sexual pleasure.EMDR is a tool I have used myself to try and overcome phobias and also behaviours that don't serve me well. If you're unfamiliar with the technique, EMDR, or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing is most commonly used to treat PTSD, but now is used to solve a range of issues. It involves recalling the traumatic episode, or the particular fear, and then through specific eye movements and some other type of stimulation (talking, for example), the brain reprocesses the memory and reduces its significance in your mind. It may sound woo-woo, but it's actually not and very quickly can help in situations where the traumatic episode is quite specific (at least, that was my own experience).We also touch on the importance of consent, proper sex eduction and how sexual orientations such as asexuality and demisexuality are gaining recognition.You can find Indigo here:https://milehighpsychotherapy.com/meet-the-therapistsIf you'd like access to exclusive features like personal posts, my new 32 page booklet, Sex Toys & Supplements for Thriving in Later Life, my private chat room, direct messaging for your burning questions, and Substack Live sessions with expert guests, consider becoming a paid subscriber! Your sex life will thank you for it. :)Annual membership is just £49.99 (a better deal than £6.99/month) and supports the work behind creating weekly podcasts, managing social media, collaborating with health professionals, and producing valuable resources. This isn't just a hobby—it's my passion and profession.Thousands of people are finally talking about intimacy, desire and pleasure without shame. Join them - subscribe now and you'll receive my freebie - Top 10 Overlooked Secrets to Better Sex.Your subscription helps empower older individuals to feel sexually confident and access tools for pain-free, pleasurable intimacy.What others are saying:"I just finished listening to your podcast! I felt like I was sitting around the dinner table with friends, finally able to talk about what no one else does."“First of all, let me tell you how awesome I think you are and how valuable I think your Substack is.”“Your work is one of my new found joys. Thank you.” Get full access to Sex Advice for Seniors at www.sexadviceforseniors.com/subscribe

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#234 | Stopping Arguments Before They Escalate

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity

Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 15:00


Have you ever wished you could stop an argument with your partner before it spirals out of control? In this episode, I share powerful insights on how to hit the pause button on conflicts before they even begin. Drawing from my 40 years of experience as a relationship therapist, I'll show you how to transform potentially explosive situations into opportunities for deeper connection.In this episode, you'll discover:• Why your brain tricks you into overreacting during arguments and the simple breathing technique to regain control• The game-changing difference between "clean intentions" and defensive reactions that can instantly defuse tension• How to share your feelings vulnerably without blame, even when you're angry or hurt• Practical steps to break free from triggering patterns that lead to fightsHere's the truth: fights don't just happen - we create them through unconscious patterns and reactions. But with the right tools and awareness, you can learn to pause, reset, and respond in ways that bring you closer rather than push you apart. The impact of mastering this skill goes beyond just avoiding arguments - it creates a foundation of safety and connection that benefits your whole family.Ready to transform your relationship dynamics? Join me for this insightful episode where I'll teach you exactly how to catch yourself before reactions take over and create the loving connection you desire.Want to go deeper? Check out my comprehensive program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" where I share even more tools for lasting relationship transformation right here: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlifeJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast
Episode 142: The Taboo of No Sex: A New Perspective

Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2025 40:27


What happens when you're no longer having sex in a relationship and is there a space for a different type of intimacy when sexual intercourse is no longer present in it.This is the topic I discussed with Leora Lightwoman, whom I have met previously, both on the show and in real life! As a tantric practitioner, Leora is familiar with meeting couples whom struggle with sexual desire but want to remain intimate with each other.We delve into the liberation from traditional sexual roles, the importance of redefining sexual energy and connection, and the need to create space for intimacy. Leora emphasises curiosity and mystery in long-term relationships, the challenges of communication, and the significance of making intimacy a priority. She also highlights the importance of playfulness, devotion, and honouring the body as it changes, ultimately celebrating transformation and new beginnings in sexual relationships.I enjoyed hearing her practical tips for how to build and sustain a close relationship with one's partner. Thousands of people are finally talking about intimacy, desire and pleasure without shame. Join them - subscribe now and you'll receive my freebie - Top 10 Overlooked Secrets to Better Sex.If you'd like access to exclusive features like personal posts, my new and well received 32 page booklet, Sex Toys & Supplements for Thriving in Later Life, my private chat room, direct messaging for your burning questions, and Substack Live sessions with expert guests, consider becoming a paid subscriber! Your sex life will thank you for it. :)Annual membership is just £49.99 (a better deal than £6.99/month) and supports the work behind creating weekly podcasts, managing social media, collaborating with health professionals, and producing valuable resources. This isn't just a hobby—it's my passion and profession.Your subscription helps empower older individuals to feel sexually confident and access tools for pain-free, pleasurable intimacy.What others are saying:"I just finished listening to your podcast! I felt like I was sitting around the dinner table with friends, finally able to talk about what no one else does."“First of all, let me tell you how awesome I think you are and how valuable I think your Substack is.”“Your work is one of my new found joys. Thank you.” Get full access to Sex Advice for Seniors at www.sexadviceforseniors.com/subscribe

What I Love about Men!
#388 Want a Better Sex Life? Start With This Brutal Question

What I Love about Men!

Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 44:54


"High Agency in 30 minutes" (article) by George Mackhttps://www.highagency.com/Work with me 1:1 and I will help you with your sex performance:https://app.stephanieganowski.com/high-performing-men-still-struggle-in-bed 

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#233 | Why Your Partner Doesn't Hear You - It's All About Brain Chemistry

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity

Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 11:56


Ever wonder why your partner seems to be listening but isn't really hearing you? In this eye-opening episode, I reveal the fascinating neurochemical reason behind why your partner tunes out during conversations or gets defensive when you're trying to communicate.As someone who's worked with countless couples (and experienced this in my own marriage!), I'll explain why it's not just about "not caring" - it's actually about what's happening in your partner's brain.In this episode, you'll discover:- The surprising role dopamine plays in why your partner might choose their phone over listening to you (and what to do about it)- Why defensive reactions are actually fear responses in disguise, and how understanding this can transform your conversations- A practical approach to breaking the cycle of poor communication that creates lasting, sustainable change in your relationshipIf you're tired of feeling unheard or want to become a better listener yourself, this episode offers real solutions that go beyond simple communication techniques. I'll share personal examples from my own marriage and clinical practice that will help you create deeper connection with your partner.Join me as we explore the chemistry behind communication and learn how to make your partner feel truly heard. Because when we understand the "why" behind our behaviors, we can create the loving, attentive relationship we all desire.This is Todd Creager, making the world safe for love - one conversation at a time.Want to go deeper? Check out my comprehensive program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" where I share even more tools for lasting relationship transformation right here: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlifeJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

Sex With Emily
The Ultimate Guide to Having Better Sex

Sex With Emily

Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2025 65:43


This podcast episode tackles five common sex questions: communicating about sex and trying new things; improving oral sex; spicing up the sex life; increasing sex drive; and lasting longer. The episode emphasizes open communication as key to better sex, offering practical advice on navigating awkward conversations, addressing defensive responses, and prioritizing individual needs. Specific techniques for improving oral sex, addressing low libido (including medical and psychological factors), and dealing with differing sex drives are discussed. Several listener emails are addressed, providing personalized advice on various sexual challenges, including premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and overcoming discomfort with oral sex. The episode also recommends resources like Ian Kerner's work and suggests strategies for increasing sexual satisfaction and communication within relationships. Timestamps: 00:00:16 - Top 5 Sex Questions 00:03:30 - Improving Sex Communication 06:57 - Overcoming Barriers to Sex Talks 09:33 - Communicating Sexual Needs 15:43 - Boosting Sex Drive 18:49 - Libido & Relationship Issues 21:29 - Spice Up Your Sex Life 24:19 - Relationship Sex Issues 29:40 - Mastering Oral Sex 44:04 - Listener Questions & Intimacy 55:49 - Premature Ejaculation Issues Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/  Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!:https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ  (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Let's get social:  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/  X https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily  Threads https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily   Let's text: Sign up here https://sexwithemily.com/text  https://sexwithemily.com/the-ultimate-gui…aving-better-sex/

Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast
Episode 141: What's all the Fuss about Pubic Hair

Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 32:22


If you're not a frequent TikTok user, you may have missed the buzz around the hashtag #bushtok, a lively debate about whether to embrace a full lady garden, opt for a Hollywood (take it all off), or go Brazilian (leave a small landing strip).Most of the women weighing in on this debate are younger, many of whom likely grew up in the shadow of pornography. Let's be honest, unless you're into vintage 70s ‘Behind the Green Door' type material, pubic hair is rarely seen on performers. This cultural backdrop fuels the assumption that pubic hair serves no purpose (which it absolutely does) and, therefore, should come off.But the resurgence of the bush signals a shift. Women are waking up to the idea that they do have a choice when it comes to their pubic hair, and many are choosing to keep it.For us older women, it's a different story. Some of my friends have never touched it, while others prefer to take it all off. In Cap d'Agde, the naturist village I've often visited in France, the trend is clear: French women of all ages go for the full Hollywood, total hair removal, no matter what their age. In fact, it's rare to see anyone there with pubic hair, as both men and women have embraced the completely hairless look.This week on the podcast, I sit down with Sam Feldman, author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances, to share our opinions on pubic hair. And let me tell you—you might be surprised by where Sam stands on it all!Thousands of people are finally talking about intimacy, desire and pleasure without shame. Join them - subscribe now and you'll receive my freebie - Top 10 Overlooked Secrets to Better Sex.If you'd like access to exclusive features like personal posts, my new 32 page booklet, Sex Toys & Supplements for Thriving in Later Life, my private chat room, direct messaging for your burning questions, and Substack Live sessions with expert guests, consider becoming a paid subscriber! Your sex life will thank you for it. :)Annual membership is just £49.99 (a better deal than £6.99/month) and supports the work behind creating weekly podcasts, managing social media, collaborating with health professionals, and producing valuable resources. This isn't just a hobby—it's my passion and profession.Your subscription helps empower older individuals to feel sexually confident and access tools for pain-free, pleasurable intimacy.What others are saying:"I just finished listening to your podcast! I felt like I was sitting around the dinner table with friends, finally able to talk about what no one else does."“First of all, let me tell you how awesome I think you are and how valuable I think your Substack is.”“Your work is one of my new found joys. Thank you.”Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances is a collection of erotic short stories that capture the spirit of the era when attitudes toward sex were being redefined. Set in the wild, libertine world of the 60s and 70s, Sam's stories follow the character of Butch, a man admired by both men and women for his unapologetic embrace of sexual freedom. The book explores encounters that celebrate human desire, autonomy, and mutual pleasure, offering a refreshing and boundary-pushing perspective on relationships.You can buy it here.Find Sam on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sam.l.feldman Get full access to Sex Advice for Seniors at www.sexadviceforseniors.com/subscribe

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#232 | How Better Communication Leads to Better Sex - Expert Tips

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity

Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 6:20


In this episode, I'm diving deep into the intimate connection between communication and sexual satisfaction. As a sex therapist, I've seen how great communication can transform couples' sex lives - and it's not just about talking! I'll show you how both verbal and non-verbal communication can create the intensity and connection needed for an extraordinary intimate relationship.What you'll discover in this episode:- Why being "right" is killing your sex life, and how to shift from debate mode to deep connection- The power of non-verbal communication (93% of all communication!) and practical ways to use eye contact, touch, and tone to create sexual chemistry- My proven techniques for conscious flirting and keeping the spark alive, especially in long-term relationships- How to use both pleasant and challenging conversations to deepen intimacy and reach your sexual potentialHere's the truth: as your communication opens up, so do the different parts of your body required for great sex. Whether you're struggling with intimate conversations or looking to take your relationship to the next level, this episode will give you practical tools to create more passion and connection in your relationship.Join me as we make the world safe for love, one conversation at a time. Trust me - your relationship will thank you for listening to this one.Want to go deeper? Check out my comprehensive program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" where I share even more tools for lasting relationship transformation right here: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlifeJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy
491: How Being More Vulnerable Can Lead to Better Sex

Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2025 40:35


In today's episode we are joined again by Dr. Ryan Rana, director of the Joshua Center in Arkansas and partners with George in the online EFT school for therapists, 'Success in Vulnerability.' Ryan joins our hosts in an in depth conversation discussing how to be more vulnerable in your sexual relationship. A relationship that centers on logistics and mechanics functions but doesn't access the power of attachment energy. To risk being seen, heard and understood deepens connection and harnesses a powerful energy. This 'soul connection' is the benefit from taking risks to be vulnerable with your partner by expressing feelings and needs. Come along with us today to learn more about what it looks like to be more vulnerable, how vulnerability can take your sex life from drab to fab and why deep connection with your partner is one of life's greatest stress reducers. Vulnerability can feel scary but on the flipside of feeling scared is feeling excited! Vulnerability is a major turn on! Check out this episode's sponsor (and help the pod!): OneSkin - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast
Episode 140: Pain Free Penetration

Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2025 31:37


Once whispered about in hushed tones, the topic of painful penetration is finally finding its voice. It's surprising, as well as alarming, how many women endure this struggle in silence, putting up with traditional sexual intercourse through gritted teeth, simply because it hurts too much.For older women, pain during penetration is often blamed on hormonal change but it's not just about biology. There's the fear that can be as a result of trauma, an accident, for example, that can make penetration feel like an insurmountable hurdle. And it doesn't matter whether it's a partner or something as clinical as a speculum; the result is the same. For some, like my guest Dr. Amanda Olson, it was an accident so severe it turned intimacy into agony. Her journey, though, led her to something remarkable: retraining as a pelvic floor therapist and founding Intimate Rose, a company that creates vaginal dilators and other tools designed not just to heal, but to rediscover pleasure.When Amanda and I spoke, we dived headfirst into the subject of dilators - how they work, who they help, and why they matter. We explored their role in managing conditions like vaginismus, that frustratingly misunderstood tightrope between mind and body. Amanda explained how combining dilators with carefully guided exercises can be life-changing, transforming what once felt impossible into something empowering.But here's the issue that comes up so often during my podcast conversations which is that so many women struggle to access this kind of support. Why? A shocking lack of education among healthcare professionals. The resources are there, the tools exist, but too often the system leaves women fumbling in the dark, feeling dismissed or ashamed for even asking.It's a conversation long overdue, and one that's only just beginning.If you have enjoyed this podcast, please comment, subscribe, share. The more people I can reach about how to enjoy sex in later life, the more likely I am to help remove the stigma around this topic. 00:00 Introduction to Intimate Health Solutions02:54 Understanding Vaginal Dilators06:05 Addressing Pain and Mobility Issues09:02 The Role of Breathing Techniques11:59 Supporting Emotional and Physical Healing15:06 Collaboration with Healthcare Professionals17:59 Advocating for Sexual Health21:01 Impact of Cancer on Sexual Health23:52 The Importance of Early InterventionThousands of people are finally talking about intimacy, desire and pleasure without shame. Join them - subscribe now and you'll receive my freebie - Top 10 Overlooked Secrets to Better Sex.If you'd like access to exclusive features like personal posts, my upcoming guide Getting Started with Sex Toys, a chat room, direct messaging for your burning questions, and Substack Live sessions with expert guests, consider becoming a paid subscriber!Annual membership is just £49.99 (a better deal than £9.99/month) and supports the work behind creating weekly podcasts, managing social media, collaborating with health professionals, and producing valuable resources. This isn't just a hobby—it's my passion and profession.Your subscription helps empower older individuals to feel sexually confident and access tools for pain-free, pleasurable intimacy.What others are saying:"I just finished listening to your podcast! I felt like I was sitting around the dinner table with friends, finally able to talk about what no one else does."“First of all, let me tell you how awesome I think you are and how valuable I think your Substack is.”“Your work is one of my new found joys. Thank you.” Get full access to Sex Advice for Seniors at www.sexadviceforseniors.com/subscribe

Men's Alliance
Why Real Men Ask Their Wives First (And Have Better Sex Because of It)

Men's Alliance

Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 9:54


Every guy's heard it: “I gotta run it by my wife first.” It's the punchline of every guy's night—but is it actually the secret to a happy marriage and better sex? In this Mission Brief, Goose shares a personal story about how buying a gun taught him a powerful lesson about emotional connection, communication, and why smart husbands always check with their wives first. Forget the jokes. This is what mature men really understand.✅ How emotional connection boosts your marriage✅ Why guys who don't ask… usually aren't having great sexSubscribe for more real talk about marriage, masculinity, and how not to sleep on the couch.Follow Men's AllianceInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/mensalliancetribe/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mensalliancetribeTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mensalliancetribeWebsite - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/Order the Book - Answer With Truth: The Ambassador's Field Manual for Leading Your Family Spiritually - https://amzn.to/3BmnuKV

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity
#231 | Relationship Playfulness: The Key to Lasting Love

Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity

Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 5:11


In this episode, I'm diving into something that's absolutely crucial for keeping your relationship vibrant and alive - playfulness! While we're naturally playful during courtship, many couples lose that spark once they settle into the routine of committed life. But here's the thing - playfulness isn't about expensive vacations or grand gestures; it's about using your imagination to create magical moments in everyday life.In this episode, you'll discover:- Why maintaining playfulness is vital for long-term relationship satisfaction, and how the "functionality trap" can slowly drain the joy from your partnership- Simple, practical ways to inject spontaneity into your relationship - from impromptu dance sessions to surprise love notes (even if being playful doesn't come naturally to you)- How committed relationships can actually become a safe space for exploring new sides of yourself and taking chances with your partnerHere's something I've noticed in my years as a marriage therapist: I've never seen a couple's relationship get worse from adding more playfulness - it always improves! Whether you're naturally playful or not, this episode will give you actionable ways to bring more joy, spontaneity, and connection into your relationship, even on a regular Tuesday at 6 PM.Join me as we explore how to keep that playful spark alive in your relationship. Because remember, we're not just making relationships work - we're making them thrive with love, connection, and yes, a healthy dose of fun!Time Line:00:00 The importance of playfulness in relationships00:39 Why couples become too functional01:16 Using imagination to create playful moments02:25 Making playfulness a daily priority03:21 How committed relationships can liberate usTAKE ACTION:Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a relationship expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com ✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlifeJOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/

The Secrets Women Keep
Better sex from nervous system regulation with Jessica Maguire

The Secrets Women Keep

Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 57:52


Can nervous system regulation lead to better sex for women in business? In this powerful episode, I’m joined by nervous system expert, TEDx speaker, and author of The Nervous System Reset, Jessica Maguire, to explore the intimate connection between regulation, leadership, desire, and success. We dive into why so many high-performing women feel disconnected from pleasure—and how repairing the nervous system is the key to deeper intimacy, authentic leadership, and a more powerful presence in business and the bedroom. This isn’t surface-level and nothing’s off the table. We go deep on: Nervous system patterns in women in business Libido, holding, and relationship dynamics The connection between your voice, pleasure, and power How sympathetic states aren’t the enemy—they’re part of your drive Leadership, vulnerability, and the body’s role in clarity The role of play, sound, and movement in nervous system repair Why nervous system regulation is essential for money & long-term success If you’re a woman in leadership, entrepreneurship, or creative growth—this is mandatory listening. LINKS https://www.jessicamaguire.com/ https://www.instagram.com/repairing_the_nervous_system/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Reclaim Your Radiance
42 | I Help People Have Better Sex - These Are Their First 5 Questions

Reclaim Your Radiance

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2025 57:38


Welcome to the very FIRST episode of I'll Have What She's Having!! The show that's here to boldly remind you that your pleasure is your power - and that you deserve to live your best life. In this debut solocast, I'm pulling back the curtain on why I rebranded this podcast (formerly Reclaim Your Radiance), how I went from being an environmental engineer to a sex coach, and what the secret is to revolutionizing your pleasure. By the end of this episode you'll know how to take your first step towards getting the love & sex life you've always wanted. Here's what you'll hear:My personal story: from sexual shutdown to full-body alivenessWhat a Sex Coach actually does (no, I'm not standing over the bed shouting “pound harder!!”)How somatic healing works—and why it's the secret weapon to better sexThe surprising reason your body resists the pleasure you craveThe 5 things I wish everyone knew about sex, safety, and self-worthA simple, powerful exercise to begin creating the sex life you desire—starting todayThis episode is your permission slip to want more, feel more, and heal deeper than you ever thought possible.Because you're not broken.You're just waking up.And your pleasure?It's your power.Rate & follow us to never miss a new episode! Learn more atwww.krishall.ca  Use code KRIS10 for 10% your next pleasure toy! https://waands.com/?ref=illhavewhatsheshaving Work with Kris 1:1 to uplevel your sex life! https://www.krishall.ca/coaching Get The Pleasure Portal - your 15-minute pleasure breathwork, for free!https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal Join our intimate sacred sexuality retreat: Wild Women Rising! https://www.krishall.ca/wild-women-rising-bowen 

The Language of Love
The Real Reason You're Stuck in the Same Fight (Again and Again)

The Language of Love

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 58:32


Do you ever feel like your relationship is stuck in a loop? The same fights, the same frustrations, the same silent distance—even though you both want things to be better. Here's the truth: Your partner's baggage fits yours perfectly. The work isn't to change them—it's to unpack your own while holding space for theirs. In this raw and revealing Language of Love session, Brian and Stacey lay bare their struggle—blame, withdrawal, and the aching fear of not being enough. Stacey is fighting to reclaim her voice after trauma, wondering if her needs even matter.Brian admits he's been avoiding effort, hiding behind the excuse of being “too busy.” Their story is your story. The tiny misunderstandings that explode into disconnection. The love that's there but buried under frustration. The desperate hope that things could be different—if only they knew how. If you've ever felt invisible in your relationship, used "busyness" as an excuse to avoid hard conversations, wondered why affection feels like a battleground, or found yourself trapped in the blame-defend-withdraw cycle, this episode will leave you breathless—and give you the tools to break free. Here's what you'll learn in this episode:  Why “I don't have time” is often code for avoidance—and how to fix it  The silent killer of relationships: unspoken expectations around affection  How just 10 minutes of intentional time can rebuild connection  The Drama Triangle (Victim, Villain, Hero)—and how to step off it  How to ask for love without triggering defensiveness  Why childhood wounds keep replaying in your relationship—and how to stop them  Non-sexual touch: The secret to rebuilding emotional safety  How to hold space for both love and frustration (yes, it's possible!) Ready to Heal? Take my free quiz and start 7 Days to Better Sex to transform intimacy today. For deeper trauma work, explore EMDR and the Drama Triangle—because love shouldn't hurt this much. Your story isn't over yet. Let's rewrite it together. Got questions? Email me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com Share this episode—love grows when we heal together. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast
Episode 139: The Male Menopause - One Man's Journey post Prostate Cancer

Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 30:48


Bob Mizek-Menopause for men and I connected through Substack, where he's been sharing his journey following prostate cancer surgery. His writing tackles the highs and lows of that experience including dealing with medical professionals of varying skill levels and learning to advocate for his own sexual health.What I truly admire about Bob is his raw honesty. He's candid about the challenges he's faced, both in the bedroom and beyond. From navigating treatment options to rethinking assumptions about menopause and hormonal changes, Bob's journey has been one of growth, resilience, and discovery. He openly discusses how his illness has deepened the bond with his partner, especially in how they communicate about sex.Bob's determination to ensure other men don't feel overlooked or ignored, as he once did, is inspiring. He's now writing about his own version of the "Male Menopause," exploring the impact of significant hormonal changes, and inviting others to join the conversation. You can follow his insightful and moving reflections on Substack.Thank you, Bob, for your honesty and generosity in sharing your story with the Sex Advice for Seniors audience!Please leave a comment or a question as we'd love to hear your thoughts and please do share if you found our conversation of value.Thousands of people are finally talking about intimacy, desire and pleasure without shame. Join them - subscribe now and you'll receive my freebie - Top 10 Overlooked Secrets to Better Sex.If you'd like access to exclusive features like personal posts, my new and highly regarded 32 page booklet, Getting Started with Sex Toys, a chat room, direct messaging for your burning questions, and Substack Live sessions with expert guests, consider becoming a paid subscriber! Your sex life will improve as a result!Annual membership is just £49.99 (a better deal than £6.99/month) and supports the work behind creating weekly podcasts, managing social media, collaborating with health professionals, and producing valuable resources that will help you to become a better lover. This isn't just a hobby—it's my passion and profession.Your subscription helps empower older individuals to feel sexually confident and access tools for pain-free, pleasurable intimacy.What others are saying:"I just finished listening to your podcast! I felt like I was sitting around the dinner table with friends, finally able to talk about what no one else does."“First of all, let me tell you how awesome I think you are and how valuable I think your Substack is.”“Your work is one of my new found joys. Thank you.” Get full access to Sex Advice for Seniors at www.sexadviceforseniors.com/subscribe

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com
9 Days to a Better Sex Life (Part Two) - Dave and Ashley Willis

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 28:44


In this podcast episode, Dave and Ashley Willis return to discuss their ministry, "Naked Marriage," with hosts Dave and Ann Wilson. They focus on the importance of emotional and spiritual openness within marriage. The episode starts with an update on their four children, including the unique characteristics of each child and how they keep the couple both young and old at the same time.The conversation then dives into the topic of “secrets” in marriage, specifically addressing the issue of pornography and its impact on relationships. The Willises explore the emotional pain caused by hidden secrets, especially when one partner reveals something like pornography use, which feels like a betrayal. Ashley shares her personal experience of battling anxiety, which she kept hidden from Dave, and the impact it had on their relationship.A major point of discussion centers around how couples can navigate such revelations, with Dave sharing his past struggles with pornography and how he dealt with them. He discusses how keeping secrets, particularly regarding pornography, can lead to guilt and shame, and how the act of keeping such secrets can create a cycle of deceit in relationships.Ashley offers advice to women who are dealing with the revelation of such secrets from their husbands, emphasizing the need to feel and process emotions like anger and grief, but also not to let those feelings dictate the future of the relationship. She underscores that it's important for couples to face the truth and the pain together. The couple also talks about how boundaries and accountability tools are critical in relationships to avoid temptation, especially in today's digital age.The conversation also touches on the importance of open communication with children about pornography and the necessity of setting up safeguards, like filtering software, to protect young minds. Dave and Ashley emphasize how their open dialogue about sex with their children has been crucial to creating a safe space for them to ask questions without shame.Finally, the episode dives into the broader theme of healing from past trauma and secrets, encouraging listeners to bring the truth into the light for healing and freedom. They discuss the importance of not keeping any secret that might weigh heavily on the relationship, with both partners sharing their past struggles and the power of vulnerability in marriage. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

The Language of Love
Tiny Relationship Rituals That Bring Back the Spark

The Language of Love

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 7:04


Have you ever felt like the spark between you and your partner has… well, fizzled out? Like, maybe you're sitting on opposite ends of the couch scrolling through your phones instead of actually talking ? Or worse, you've started avoiding conversations because they feel too heavy or awkward? Trust me, you're not alone. What if I told you that fixing this disconnect doesn't require hours of deep talks, expensive date nights, or some grand romantic gesture? What if all it takes is just five minutes a day? In this Language of Love Bite, we're diving into why disconnection happens—and more importantly, how you can fix it faster than you think. By the end of this episode, you'll have an easy-to-follow ritual that will reignite intimacy and bring you closer than ever before.  Here's what we dive into: The 3 most common stealth disconnection culprits A powerful 60 second technique that will maximize your connection  How to turn mundane moments into micro-connections  The "gratitude hug" that doubles as relationship armor against stress Active listening tricks that make your partner feel truly heard The heart-to-heart hold ritual that synchronizes your emotional wavelengths Don't miss out on 7 Days to Better Sex —a game-changing guide designed to bring more passion and connection into your relationship. Plus, take my  Free  quiz to discover new ways to strengthen your bond and take your relationship to the next level. And be sure to check out my newest  book, Sex Magic, to take your sex life to an entirely new level.  Your love life deserves this! Have a love language success story or a challenge you're facing? I'd love to hear from you! Email me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com —your story might just inspire others in a future episode. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com
9 Days to a Better Sex Life (Part One) - Dave and Ashley Willis

FamilyLife Today® on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 26:40


In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis, alongside hosts David and Anne Wilson, share their journey of navigating marriage, mental health, vulnerability, and the struggles that come with facing hidden struggles, such as anxiety, depression, and pornography. The conversation is deeply personal as they explore the challenges they've faced in their own marriages, offering listeners practical advice and powerful stories of grace and healing.The episode opens with a humorous and warm exchange between the hosts and guests. Dave and Ashley Willis drive down from Atlanta to Orlando and talk about their marriage ministry, which has flourished through Facebook, podcasts, and other online resources. They began with a simple Facebook page called "Marriage," later rebranded as “Naked Marriage.” This title, while provocative, is grounded in the biblical concept of "naked and unashamed," emphasizing the importance of emotional intimacy in marriage. They highlight the idea that marriage should be a place of full vulnerability, where secrets are laid bare, and trust is developed.Ashley shares a personal story about the struggles with anxiety and depression she faced early in their marriage. For years, she kept her anxiety a secret from Dave, feeling deep shame. However, after a painful moment of realizing she couldn't carry the burden alone, she finally confided in Dave. His patient, understanding response played a pivotal role in her healing process. This moment is a beautiful example of what it looks like when partners support each other in marriage, choosing presence over the need to fix.The conversation then turns to the topic of pornography, which, despite its prevalence in society, remains a taboo subject in many marriages. Dave shares his own battle with pornography, acknowledging the secrecy and shame he felt, and how it became a significant obstacle in his marriage. He describes his initial decision to keep his struggles hidden from Ashley, believing he could overcome them on his own. However, when Ashley discovered his secret years later, the initial confrontation was intense, filled with emotions of betrayal, anger, and shame. Over time, with grace, accountability, and the support of each other, they worked through the difficulty together.The couple discusses the ongoing challenges that many couples face regarding pornography in their relationships, and they emphasize that it is a problem in and out of the church. They point out that while it's a difficult issue to confront, bringing it into the light is the key to finding freedom and healing.The episode wraps up with an invitation for listeners to access their free eBook, Nine Days to Great Sex, a resource designed to help couples break free from barriers like pornography and rediscover intimacy. It's clear from this conversation that both Dave and Ashley, as well as David and Anne, have made it their life's mission to help married couples build trust, communicate openly, and develop deeper emotional intimacy. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

Beyond the Bedroom
#57 Better Sex in Three Steps- Start Today!

Beyond the Bedroom

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2025 50:50


NEW: Watch on YouTube! You've heard it a HUNDRED TIMES- just communicate, go explore! What does that mean? Where do you even start?  In this episode of Beyond the Bedroom with Birna, I break down how to actually improve your sex life long-term in three solid steps. I guide you through where to begin exploring and how to tell your partner(s) what you really, really want.    This episode will help you get out of that rut and kickstart your journey from good to great in bed (and beyond!).  Don't miss out! Bonus content at beyondwithbirna.com  Affiliates:  UNBOUND: My favorite toys, use code BBIRNA at UnboundBabes.com/birna-gustafsson for 10% your purchase WISP: Pharmacy and Wellness, use code BBIRNA at hellowisp.com for 15% off your first purchase Find me on Instagram and Threads @beyondbedroompodcast Full archive and articles at beyondthebedroom.org BONUS content at beyondwithbirna.com

The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating and Relationship
What Is Tantra? Try These Practices For Better Sex And More Connection

The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating and Relationship

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2025 29:58


In this episode, you will learn powerful tantric sex techniques and how to channel sexual energy throughout your entire body. Discover conscious breathing methods that can help you last longer in bed and experience the heightened sensations of full-body orgasms without rushing to climax. Whether you're experiencing sexual challenges or simply seeking a deeper intimate connection with your partner, this exploration of sacred sexuality offers practical wisdom. Break free from performance-focused sex and discover the transformative power of conscious presence. This episode explores the 1,500-year-old spiritual tradition of tantra and its modern evolution, three immediately applicable practices (conscious breathing, extended arousal, and full-body awareness), techniques for resolving common sexual issues, exercises for building complementary energies in relationships, and ways to incorporate these principles regardless of your beliefs or circumstances. Ready to move beyond conventional orgasms to experience the kind of pleasure that awakens every cell in your body? These ancient tantric techniques are your gateway to unprecedented sexual mastery.

Sexual Health For Men
C60 Benefits for Men: More Energy, Better Sex

Sexual Health For Men

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2025 29:35 Transcription Available


Want to unlock peak performance naturally? Discover the incredible science behind C60, a powerful molecule that's generating buzz for its potential to boost testosterone and revolutionize your sexual performance.In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Jessica McNaughton, CEO of C60 Power, to delve into how this potent antioxidant works deep within your cells to ignite your energy and fuel your drive in all aspects of life. This is the conversation you need to hear before everyone else catches on.Tune in now and unlock your full potential!--------------About Jessica MacNaughtonJessica MacNaughton is the CEO of C60 Power, a passionate health and wellness advocate, and a leading voice in bringing Carbon 60 to the forefront of natural health solutions. With over two decades of experience in corporate America and a personal journey through burnout and recovery, Jessica discovered the life-changing benefits of C60 firsthand. Despite not coming from a science background, her curiosity and transformation led her to partner with leading researchers and eventually co-found a company dedicated to making C60 accessible and understandable for everyone.Today, she's on a mission to empower others with the knowledge and tools to reclaim their energy, health, and vitality—starting at the cellular level.--------------Resources mentioned:Good Morning Wood smoothie recipeMediterranean DietReady to experience the benefits of C60 for energy, testosterone, and performance? Visit shopc60.com and use code MODERNMAN for 10% off your order!--------------If you liked this episode, please SUBSCRIBE, like, leave a comment, and share so we can keep bringing you valuable content that gets results!--------------Follow Me On:InstagramTwitterFacebookTikTokYouTube--------------For all links and resources mentioned on the show and where to subscribe to the podcast, please visit https://sexualhealthformenpodcast.com/c60-benefits-sexual-performance-testosterone-boost--------------Want to regain control of your sex life? It's time to reverse the effects of ED on your life. Join the Modern Man Club and start your road to full recovery and community.--------------Reveal the FREE treatment most men ignore that solves thousands of erectile dysfunction cases every year, plus the 5 biggest mistakes you must avoid if you want to say goodbye to your ED. Uncover it all in my free eBook, available to download now.https://dranne.co/ebook

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice
EP 533: A Guide to Better Sex with Special Guest, Shaun Galanos

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2025 46:11


EPISODE LINKS: START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramGO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE: Dr. Morgan TVLOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN'S BOOK: GRAB YOUR COPY TODAY! FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free QuizI'm so excited to welcome Shaun Galanos, love coach and sex educator, to the podcast! We talk about vulnerability, communication, pleasure, and the real stuff that no one teaches us—like how to talk about sex, how to explore emotional intimacy (especially for men), and why self-worth and pleasure are deeply connected.This is an honest, unfiltered conversation that'll leave you feeling more empowered to express your desires, navigate the tough conversations, and show up more fully in your relationships.Inside this episode we discuss: Why vulnerability and communication are essential for emotional and sexual intimacyHow gender roles and societal expectations shape the way we show up in sex and relationshipsThe power of curiosity, boundaries, and self-worth in building a fulfilling love lifeConnect with Shaun: Website: https://shaungalanos.substack.com/Podcast: The Love Drive with Shaun GalanosInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelovedrive/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thelovedriveReady to do the work to show up securely attached? Join us inside the 8-Week Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program. This proven framework rooted in the science of attachment theory is everything you need to rewire your brain for healthy emotionally available love that lasts. Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program

Todd N Tyler Radio Empire
4/10 App 1 Shrooms = Better Sex

Todd N Tyler Radio Empire

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2025 7:44


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Holistic Alpha: Male Optimization
Incorporating Pelvic Training Into Workouts for Better Sex and Stronger Fitness

Holistic Alpha: Male Optimization

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025 6:18


One of the most beneficial times to be aware of and train your root muscle is during your workouts... you'll improve your sexual health as well as your workouts directly.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.HolisticAlpha.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Hosted by Steven Mathis. © Mathis Marketing LLC

Sex Help for Smart People
Want Better Sex & Relationships? Practice This.

Sex Help for Smart People

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 26:16 Transcription Available


A lot of people want great relationships and sex lives. Not a lot of people are doing anything useful to get there. Today's episode will walk you through a super common trap most people are stuck in -- and show you how to get out of it. I will explain exactly what you need to start practicing to get what you want. Get my free email newsletter with helpful tips, plus a free guide to Finding Your Deepest Turn-Ons, and learn how to work with me at https://laurajurgens.com.

Sex With Emily
Forget These Myths for Better Sex

Sex With Emily

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2025 25:24


What's a common stereotype you've heard about sex? Maybe it's that “guys just want one thing” or that “once you have kids, say goodbye to your sex life.” But not only are these stereotypes tiresome on a societal level, they actually hurt your sex life. Why? Because if you buy them, they limit your pleasure potential.  So on today's show, I reveal the top 3 sexual stereotypes penis owners and vulva owners told me they were tired of, and the new truths that are going to empower you in bed. I also give you quick communication hacks to help you get curious with any partner, whether they're long-term or brand new, so that you can have the sex you actually want.  Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let's text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

The Language of Love
Can Love Survive the Shadows of the Past?

The Language of Love

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2025 49:51


Can love truly heal the wounds of the past? It's a question many of us ask ourselves when past traumas creep into our relationships, casting long shadows over the love we're trying to build. For Brian and Stacey, one of the amazing couples who come on the show to get support, this question isn't just philosophical—it's a daily reality. How do you rebuild trust when intimacy feels like a minefield? How do you show affection when touch triggers painful memories? And can love, no matter how strong, truly heal the wounds of the past? In this Language of Love Session, we dive deeper into the emotional rollercoaster of Brian and Stacey's relationship. Will they find a way to bridge the growing distance between them, or will past traumas continue to pull them apart? If you've been following their journey, you know this is a story filled with raw emotion, vulnerability, and the struggle to heal. If you're new, buckle up—this is a journey you won't want to miss. And if you would like to come on the show to get some support, make sure to email us at languageoflovepod@gmail.com Here's what you'll learn in this episode: How past sexual trauma can distort feelings of love and connection Why physical affection can feel both comforting and threatening The double bind of wanting closeness but fearing intimacy How to create non-sexual physical touch that fosters connection The importance of tuning into your partner's emotional needs Practical tools for building warmth and trust in a relationship How to navigate the Drama Triangle without blaming each other The power of pausing and shifting energy during conflicts Why avoiding each other can feel safer—but isn't the answer Check out my free quiz and 7 Days to Better Sex to start improving intimacy today. Healing and connection are journeys best taken with the right tools. For trauma recovery, tools like EMDR and the Drama Triangle can be incredibly helpful.  Got questions or stories to share? Email me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com—and don't forget to share this episode, because love is a journey we take together. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Luvbites by Dr. Tara
How to Have Better Sex by Understanding Your Erotic Blueprint | Dr. Tara & Caitlin V Neal

Luvbites by Dr. Tara

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 40:57


In this episode of Luvbites by Dr. Tara Podcast, Caitlin V Neal (sex coach and host of Good Sex on Max) joins Dr. Tara to share all about erotic blueprints. They discuss the 5 different blueprints and how to use them to level up your sex life. #drtara #sexeducation #relationshipadvice Connect with Dr. Tara on www.luvbites.coDr. Tara's Sex Academy | Grow Your Sexual Confidencehttps://www.luvbites.co/coursesMyONE Condoms | Custom Fit Condoms with 52 Sizeshttps://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=2361413&u=3161291&m=143155&urllink=&afftrack=Connect with our guest at:@caitlinvictoriousx

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The Language of Love
The 5 Mistakes That Could Be Sabotaging Your Intimacy

The Language of Love

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 7:52


Are you unknowingly sabotaging your relationship? Are you caught in a cycle of recurring arguments, wondering why the spark that once brought you together feels like it's slipping away? The truth is we often blame our partner for the growing distance between us, convinced they're the one creating tension—when in reality, it might be the subtle, unnoticed mistakes we're both making.  In this Language of Love Bite, I dive deep into the five common mistakes that could be quietly eroding the connection between you and your partner. I also reveal simple, actionable tips to turn things around and reignite that spark. Plus, stick around until the end for a transformational question you can ask your partner tonight that could change everything. Ready to uncover what's been holding you back? Let's get started! Also, don't miss out on the 7 Days to Better Sex program and the Free quiz, What Do You Want Out of Love? — both designed to guide you on your journey to deeper connection and fulfillment. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Mel Robbins Podcast
Your Guide to Better Sex, Intimacy, & Love From a World-Leading Sex Therapist

The Mel Robbins Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2025 80:21


In this episode, you are going to learn how to have amazing sex, deeper intimacy, and create real, lasting love. If you feel like intimacy with your partner is rare, your desire is low, or that your marriage is even sexless, this conversation is for you. Here to deliver the most important sex advice you need to hear is renowned sex therapist and bestselling author, Vanessa Marin.  Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist and a sex therapist with over 20 years of clinical experience helping people have healthier, more satisfying sex lives. She is known for her viral, no-shame, straight-to-the-point advice on how to have the best sex of your life. This conversation tackles everything you weren't taught—and probably aren't talking about—when it comes to sex. Mel also shares openly about her own sex life, difficulties with intimacy, and speaks openly in a way you've never heard before.Whether you are single, in a relationship, or married, this conversation is going to make you think differently about sex and inspire you to prioritize pleasure and connection in bed, no matter your age, relationship status, or gender. You'll learn:-The real reason you feel disconnected in your sex life-The two different types of sex drives and why it matters -What to do if you're on your way to a dry bedroom-What exactly to say if you're not in the mood when your partner initiates sexIf you feel like you can't talk about sex, if you can't ask for what you want, don't know how to bring it up, are going through a dry spell, or want to have more sex but you're exhausted, this episode is for you. For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. If you enjoyed this personal and practical episode, listen to this one next: How To Create Better Relationships: 6 Surprising Lessons From 28 Years Of MarriageConnect with Mel:  Get Mel's #1 bestselling book, The Let Them TheoryWatch the episodes on YouTubeFollow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast InstagramMel's TikTok Sign up for Mel's personal letter Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes ad-freeDisclaimer

The Rubin Report
Bill Burr's Bizarre Elon Musk Rant Accidentally Exposed His Hypocrisy | Co-Host Jillian Michaels

The Rubin Report

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2025 38:12


Dave Rubin of "The Rubin Report" talks to special co-host Jillian Michaels about Bill Burr's bizarre rant about Elon Musk where he accused him of being a Nazi; Burr's unexpected support of United Healthcare CEO murderer Luigi Mangione; Rosie O'Donnell's first message after leaving the USA for Ireland to escape Donald Trump; Irish Prime Minister Micheál Martin's meeting with Donald Trump where he admitted that he had no idea who Rosie O'Donnell was; Gavin Newsom having his interview with Steve Bannon on the "This Is Gavin Newsom Podcast" blow up in his face; Michelle Obama latest pathetic attempt at getting into the podcast game with “IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson”; and much more. WATCH the MEMBER-EXCLUSIVE segment of the show here: https://rubinreport.locals.com/ Check out the NEW RUBIN REPORT MERCH here: https://daverubin.store/ ---------- Today's Sponsors: Nature's Blend - Stop feeding your dog with this one potentially dangerous substance which is found in many dog foods. Learn exactly which foods you should stop feeding your dog and why you need to be feeding your dog Nature's Blend. Go to: https://HealthyDog1.com/Rubin BlueChew - BlueChew is the original brand offering chewable tablets for Better Sex combining the active ingredients of Viagra and Cialis into ONE chewable. Try your first month of Blue Chew tablets FREE when you use promo code RUBIN Got to: http://bluechew.com/ and use promo code RUBIN Ground News - Avoid the agenda-driven narratives and outright manipulation of the facts from Mainstream Media. Ground News is not a news publisher, they are an independent app and website that simply aggregates every source on a story, so you can compare coverage and see through mainstream media spin. Rubin Report viewers get 40% off their best plan Go to: https://Ground.News/Rubin ---------- Jillian Michaels Host, Keeping It Real Jillian on X: https://x.com/JillianMichaels Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Blonde Files Podcast
377: The Key to Keeping the Spark Alive, Having Better Sex and Why It's Ok to Not Want Kids with Vanessa and Xander Marin

The Blonde Files Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2025 65:11


Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander, her husband, is a self proclaimed “regular dude who's been married to a sex therapist for over a decade.” Together, they help people stop feeling so embarrassed about sex, start having more fun in the bedroom and communicate better. They join the show to talk how to *actually* keep the spark alive in long term relationships, being child-free by choice, how to discern between true incompatibility and just poor communication, the two types of desire and sex drives, relationship and sex myths and how to talk to your partner about sex.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Go to clearstem.com/WELL and use code WELL at checkout for 20% off. Save 15% off my favorite red light face mask at boncharge.com and use code BLONDE.Go to www.YNAB.com/well for an exclusive three-month free trial with no credit card required.Visit hungryroot.com/blonde to get 40% off your first box and a free item of your choice.Visit opositiv.com/blonde for 25% off your first order.Visit nutrafol.com and use code BLONDE to get $10 off your first month's subscription & free shipping.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.