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Meet Dana Che, a no-nonsense, yet compassionate relationship coach who shares the trials and triumphs from her 21-year marriage with a refreshing rawness. Each episode is created to give you hope and practical relationship advice for your marriage, family, and friendships. You'll feel like you're sitting across a table, sipping on a latte together as you hear Dana Che and her guests share from their heart to yours . . . real stories and real solutions that will help strengthen and deepen your most important relationships. This podcast is for married people, those who want to be married, those who used to be married, and those who wish they weren't married! Press play and let's talk about how to rebuild, renew, and restore your relationships one episode at a time.

Dana Che


    • Jun 18, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
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    The Real Relationship Talk podcast is truly a blessing and a source of encouragement for anyone who listens. Each episode is designed to provide the perfect words and insight, making it feel like it was specifically made for the listener. The host, Pastor Dana Che, has a way of touching the heart and soul with her words and leaves listeners feeling refreshed and motivated after each episode. There is one particular episode that stood out, where Pastor Dana shared about her friend's passing, which brought the listener into her shoes and evoked deep emotions. It's evident that God uses Pastor Dana in these podcasts to provide comfort and guidance.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is Pastor Dana's ability to be open, honest, and relatable. She shares personal stories and experiences that resonate with listeners on a deep level. Her transparency creates a safe space for listeners to reflect on their own lives and relationships, leading to self-discovery and growth. The practical advice given in each episode is valuable and applicable to various aspects of life - from marriage to mental health.

    However, as with any podcast, there may be some areas that can be improved upon. While it's clear that Pastor Dana speaks from a place of love and understanding, there may be instances where certain perspectives or beliefs might not resonate with every listener. It's important to approach these episodes with an open mind while also staying true to one's own values.

    In conclusion, The Real Relationship Talk podcast is an amazing source of inspiration, motivation, and guidance for anyone seeking to improve their relationships - whether it be marriages, friendships, or even professional relationships. Pastor Dana's authenticity shines through in every episode, creating a sense of connection between herself and the listener. The practical advice given helps listeners navigate through challenging circumstances while empowering them to take control of their own lives. This podcast is highly recommended for anyone looking for real conversations about relationships with a touch of faith-based wisdom.



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    Latest episodes from Real Relationship Talk

    Do You Need a Hug, Help, or to Be Heard?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2024 31:19


    When someone we love needs support, jumping into advice-giving mode is easy. Instead, we should ask these three powerful questions before dishing out solutions: Do you need a hug? Do you need help? Do you need to be heard? Beginning conversations with these questions deepens our connection and communicates respect, trust, and genuine concern. Recently, one of my marriage coaching clients shared that he started asking his wife three questions when he felt she needed his support. I'm calling it the "hug, help, hear" framework.  Listen to today's episode as I share personal stories about maintaining boundaries, empathic listening, and fostering genuine connections in relationships.   Resources Mentioned in this Episode:  Get your FREE Conversation Starters Guide for Communicating in Conflict here.  Episode 89: 7 Steps to Become a Better Listener    Find the full show notes at rebuildinguspodcast.com.  **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Remember to  SUBSCRIBE to the Podcast! Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Q & A: How Do I Tell My Spouse I Want a Divorce?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2024 12:41


    Today's Q&A is from a listener who believes their marriage is at a breaking point and needs advice on how to tell their spouse they want a divorce. Knowing little about the fallout of this marriage, I first encourage every couple in this situation to re-evaluate your marriage. Oftentimes, your marriage is not as far gone as you may believe. The fact that one spouse is asking how to tell their spouse they want a divorce leads me to believe the divorce is not mutual. Listen as I share a perspective on this very important conversation.  ALSO LISTEN TO: Ep. 245: 5 Boxes to Check Before You Divorce - with Dr. Kim Kimberling Links Mentioned in this Episode:

    From Destruction to Restoration: 3 Keys to Rebuilding Your Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 24:42


    Many marriages face problems and losses that test the very fabric of their relationships. From communication breakdowns to deep-rooted conflicts, navigating through the complexities of a marriage can be difficult. But there is hope. In this episode, we will explore the crucial concept of tearing down and building up in the context of a struggling marriage. Ecclesiastes 3:3 says, “There is a time to tear down and time to build up.” I believe as you work on rebuilding your marriage, there are three keys to taking a marriage from destruction to restoration. Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Get your FREE Conversation Starters for Communicating in Conflict Here. Find the full show notes at rebuildinguspodcast.com. Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast**If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Q & A: My Husband is Looking at Semi-Nude Pics of Women Online

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2024 9:55


    In today's digital age, many affairs start online. Today's question is from a wife whose husband looks at semi-nude pics of women online and gets angry when she confronts him. This listener wants to know how to set boundaries with her husband to change his behavior. Take a listen as I explain how boundaries work in marriage and what she can do if her husband doesn't change his behavior.  Have a question you'd like answered on the show? Send an email here or direct message me on Instagram.  Resources Mentioned in this Episode:  Take my "Affair Proof" Quiz Here Ep. 231: 10 Warning Signs + 12 Digital Signs of an Affair  **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Live Coaching a Couple Reconnecting After Separation

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2024 34:48


    Have you ever wondered what happens in a marriage coaching session? Will and Jo, a husband and wife married for three years need help reconnecting after a separation. They willingly discuss the challenges that led them to separate and what they're doing today to make version two of their marriage work. Jo and her husband navigated through financial struggles, boundaries, and the complexities of a blended family. Listen as I guide them through conversations on communication, finances, and the power of feedback. Through live coaching with the couple, Will and Joe, we witness the transformative potential of open communication, understanding, and willingness to rebuild a marriage. This episode is a testament to the resilience of love and the possibilities of healing and growth in relationships. Let's dive into this relatable journey of rebuilding a marriage.   Links Mentioned in this Episode:

    Q & A: How Do I Pray Scripture Over My Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2024 12:02


    One of the most powerful ways to pray is to use the Word of God in your prayers. Scripture teaches us how to enact God's kingdom here on Earth in our lives, including our marriages. Today's question comes from a listener who listened to another episode I recently shared about prayer and wanted to know how exactly to pray the Scripture over her marriage. Take a listen and employ this simple solution to praying God's words in faith as you expect Him to work on your behalf.    Other Helpful Episodes:  #242: I Don't Want My Husband But I Don't Want a Divorce Either  #210: 5 Prayers to Pray for Your Husband  #208: 5 Prayers to Pray for Your Wife    **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! **   Remember to  SUBSCRIBE to the Podcast! Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    5 Boxes to Check Before You Divorce - with Dr. Kim Kimberling

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 36:14


    I don't know where you are in your marriage today, but I believe God led you to this episode for a purpose. If we're honest, most married people have thought about divorce at some point in their relationship. Perhaps, right now, you might be about to file papers or maybe you desperately want to help a friend or loved one who is considering divorce.  Our culture says divorce is a necessary solution to a broken marriage. But what if it's not? What if restoration is easier than you think?  Our guest today is Dr. Kim Kimberling of the Awesome Marriage podcast, and he's going to walk us through a checklist of sorts . . . five critical things to do before you divorce.  Find the full show notes at rebuildinguspodcast.com   Links Mentioned in this Episode: 

    Q & A: We Have a Blended Family But My Wife is Too Strict!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2024 9:57


    Whether you have a blended family or not, agreeing on how to parent the kids can be a challenge. Today's question comes from a listener who wants to know how to handle when his wife is too strict with the kids. He's tried bringing the issue to her attention but she gives him the silent treatment. Listen as I share three thoughts on how to agree with your spouse on values even when you disagree on parenting methods.  ALSO LISTEN TO: 157: When You Disagree on How to Discipline the Kids Resource Mentioned in this Episode:  Take the "Is My Relationship at Risk for an Affair?" Quiz today!   Got a marriage or relationship question you'd like answered on the podcast? Submit your questions at rebuildinguspodcast.com or DM on Instagram. **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Remember to  SUBSCRIBE to the Podcast! Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    When Your Husband Won't Lead Spiritually

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2024 29:58


    Are you frustrated with a husband who isn't taking the lead spiritually in your marriage? In this episode, I provide practical, empowering solutions for wives, giving you the keys to unlocking spiritual intimacy and building a stronger, deeper connection with your husband. From fostering open conversations to offering support and love, I'm sharing three do's and don'ts to help end the tension in your marriage due to mismatched spiritual paths. We also briefly discuss gender roles in Christianity and how they intersect with spiritual leadership in marriage. I believe in balanced partnership and male leadership within the marriage, inspired by the example of the Holy Trinity. This episode will encourage any wife who wants to see her husband lead spiritually.    Links Mentioned in this Episode: 

    Q & A: I Don't Want My Husband But I Don't Want a Divorce Either

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2024 12:46


    Have you ever experienced resentment or boredom in your relationship? A listener wants to know how to overcome feeling stuck between not wanting to be around her husband and not wanting to divorce him either. She acknowledges that while she's trying to work on communication, she's struggling to find motivation and is unsure about the next steps for her marriage. Listen in as we discuss how resentment happens, its relationship to unforgiveness, and some practical steps to take when living in a boring marriage.  Links Mentioned in this Episode:

    Holy Hormones! Can Hormone Imbalance Affect Your Relationship?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 32:26


    Hormones are those sneaky, hidden chemicals that can wreak havoc on our bodies . . . and on our relationships. Our guest, Becky Yawn, is helping us understand why it's important that women, especially, understand how certain hormones affect our mood and communication. What if the conflict you're facing in your marriage is more than meets the eye? What if the internal changes in your hormones are partly to blame?  Join us for this fun and informative conversation with Bekah, a fertility coach and For the Love of Hormones podcast host. Bekah also shares about non-conventional ways to conceive without medication or drugs and shares her heartbreaking yet redemptive stories of miscarriage. Turn up the volume and bring all your personalities to this episode! For the full show notes, visit rebuildinguspodcast.com. Links Mentioned in this Episode:

    Q & A: Should I Come Clean About this Secret in My Marriage?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2024 9:51


    Carrying secrets in marriage can cause you to live in fear and disconnection. A listener asks if she should come clean about some shady behavior when she and her husband were on bad terms. The weight of carrying this secret is weighing her down. What should you do if you're keeping a secret in your marriage or relationship? Should everything be brought to the light or are some things better off hidden? We're discussing this question and asking what the Bible says (if anything) about secrets in relationships.  Got a marriage or relationship question you'd like answered on the podcast? Submit your questions at rebuildinguspodcast.com or DM on Instagram.   **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Remember to  SUBSCRIBE to the Podcast! Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Shameless Hope After an Affair [Affair-Proof] - with Shaun Williams

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2024 32:56


    All is not lost after an affair. You and your marriage can become more resilient and stronger from what could've destroyed you. Shame says, “You are damaged. You are bad.” But that is not true. You can truly rise above shame and have hope even after an affair. Shaun is back on the podcast today, and we're discussing what we learned from our affairs. This conversation will help all who have been affected by the impact of infidelity in your relationship and will help you believe the journey toward healing and rebuilding trust is attainable.  In this episode, Shaun and I talk about some “hidden blessings” we've learned along the way and encourage you to do the same. As Maya Angelou says, “I can be changed by what happens to me, but I refuse to be reduced by it.” Your marriage may have gone through infidelity, but infidelity does not have to be the end.  My infidelity intensive course helps individuals and couples to finally heal from the shame and pain of infidelity.  Learn more about Infidelity Intensive here. **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! **  Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Full show notes are at rebuildinguspodcast.com. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Q & A: How Do We Escape Complacency In Our Marriage?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2024 11:18


    Today's marriage advice is for a listener struggling with the feeling of complacency and stagnation in a long-term marriage. Here's the question she asked:  I really need good sound advice I've been with my husband for 25 yrs & I find myself thinking of a different life. Everything is the same ole same ole. Money is always tight. We work, come home, connected with our phones (more than each other). I am not sure if I can take another 25 yrs of this. He feels the marriage is fine, so clearly it's me. Any advice would be great. Many thanks, Mrs. Mathers Listen as I share with our listener four practical steps that she (yes, she) can take to get out of the marriage rut she's in.  Got a marriage or relationship question you'd like answered on the podcast? Submit your questions at rebuildinguspodcast.com or DM on Instagram.   **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Remember to  SUBSCRIBE to the Podcast!       Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    6 Keys to Rebuild Trust After an Affair [Affair-Proof]

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2024 30:38


    Let's talk about what it takes to heal and rebuild trust after the devastating impact of infidelity. In this episode, we break down the critical steps for both the cheating spouse and the wounded spouse. You may be familiar with the main themes in this episode like the importance of open and honest communication and a no-contact rule. Other factors that fly under the radar, however, like what good boundaries are and initiated accountability aren't always so obvious, though equally essential. The cheating spouse must take the proactive approach of being humble, transparent, and responsible for their actions.  Get the full show notes at rebuildinguspodcast.com.    Special Offer  Get Access to the "Infidelity Intensive" Guide Here. **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Remember to SUBSCRIBE! Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Q & A: When is Enough If My Spouse Has Had Multiple Affairs?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2024 9:10


    If your spouse has had multiple affairs, it can be hard to believe they have truly repented. When is enough enough? This was the question from a listener named Greg: Dana, I am so thankful you are doing the series on affairs. As a man, it's really hard to admit that my wife does not find me desirable. She has found love in the arms of another. The problem is she keeps saying that she's sorry. I found out a few months ago that she is involved in yet another of these situations. I'm sure you can understand what that must do to a man. I love her. She's a great mother. But I'm wondering how many times I should take her back? My heart goes out to Greg and others who find themselves locked in a revolving door marriage with other people. Infidelity is hard enough the first time; multiple affairs are devastating. Listen in as I share some challenging words of advice about how to know when enough is enough after repeated infidelity.  Have a relationship question you'd like answered on the podcast? Submit your question at rebuildinguspodcast.com or DM me on Instagram.  **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Remember to  SUBSCRIBE to the Podcast! Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Shame on You? Who's Really to Blame for an Affair? [Affair-Proof]

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 32:15


    We're getting real about navigating through the mess of shame and blame in the aftermath of infidelity. It's a deep, emotional rollercoaster of an episode but so needed. So, buckle up, because it's about to get raw and honest. First off, it's important to note that while either or both spouses may feel blame; shame is never productive. There is a stark difference between guilt and shame. Guilt says “I did something bad.” Shame says, “I am someone bad.”  This episode is for any person who has ever suffered the betrayal of their partner and it's also for the one who has betrayed. No shame on you. Just hope and healing. Listen in.  Find the full show notes at rebuildinguspodcast.com.  Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Take the FREE "How Connected a Partner Are You?" Quiz Ep. 233: Discovering Your Spouse Has Been Unfaithful: Now What? **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify  Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Q & A: How Do I Get in the Mood for Sexy Time?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2024 10:06


    Today's question comes from one of my Instagram followers who wants some suggestions on how to get in the mood for sex. Low libido or lack of sexual desire is a very common issue. Here's the question:  I have a question about intimacy. I have a hard time getting in the mood for sex. This has been a recurring issue for me. I just don't think I've ever had a high sex drive. But I want him to be happy. I know it's important to him. I've listened to some of your podcast episodes in the shameless sex series. You did a while back. Are there any quick fixes you can give for those of us who struggle in this department?  Listen in as I share my suggestions using the analogy of "getting your head in the game." Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Take the "How Connected a Partner Are You?" Quiz here. **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Please Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Discovering Your Spouse Has Been Unfaithful: Now What? [Affair- Proof]

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2024 26:21


    As you deal with the shock of discovering your spouse's infidelity, it can feel like a collision with a semi-truck, leaving you paralyzed, numb, and drowning in a sea of emotions. You have been traumatized. Your initial response to such devastating news can be paralyzing, leaving you grappling with disbelief, pain, and confusion. It's a sensitive yet profoundly significant topic – navigating the aftermath of discovering a partner's infidelity. Let's unravel the emotional journey, practical steps, and the pathway to healing after the shattering revelation of a spouse's unfaithfulness. Respond, Don't React: In the midst of this emotional turbulence, it's better to embrace a strategic approach – responding, not reacting. The distinction between these two responses will be critical as you navigate in the storm. Impulsively reacting, no matter how temporarily satisfying it may seem, only compounds the situation. Instead, choosing a thoughtful and intentional response lays the groundwork for healing and restoration. Listen as I share some suggestions to help accelerate the healing process.  Find the full show notes at rebuildinguspodcast.com.    Resources Mentioned in this Episode:  Download your “Conversation Starters for Couples in Conflict” guide here.  Book suggestion: Good Grief by Granger Westberg Ep. 229: Hubby Talks: What Caused Infidelity in Our Marriage [Affair-Proof]   **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify  Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Q & A: I Feel Nothing For My Spouse & We're Living Separate Lives

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2024 12:42


    We're addressing a listener's question about having no feelings for her husband anymore. She still has some desire to rebuild her marriage despite feeling empty and detached. If you've ever felt similarly about your spouse, you, too, will benefit from what I share. I explain how to "reignite" the loving feelings for your spouse with three responses:  feelings, forgiveness, and faith. The fact is that feelings are not final, and they are fickle. They are precious but not the priority. Instead of being led by our feelings, there are healthier and more effective ways to handle our lack of feelings toward our spouse. Listen in to learn the pathway forward.  Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

    10 Warning Signs of a Cheating Spouse + 12 Digital Signs to Be Aware Of [Affair-Proof]

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2024 30:33


    A staggering 40% of marriages will experience Infidelity at some point, Inevitably, infidelity leaves clues. Here are 10 warning signs plus 12 bonus digital red flags to be aware of that a spouse might be having an affair in person or online. It's a hard topic to discuss, but I want you to be aware of these potential adultery indicators that may need to be addressed sooner than later. The purpose of this podcast is not to make you paranoid or suspicious of your spouse but to shed light on any deception in your marriage you may be unaware of. Remember, you can't fix what you don't face.  My husband, Shaun, and I shared our own story of infidelity on last week's episode. Many of the warning signs we discussed during today's show were present in my marriage. I've also witnessed these signs in the marriages of those I coach who are or have healed from infidelity. With nearly 25 years of marriage experience, I'm passionate about providing valuable insights into rebuilding relationships after infidelity and fostering open, honest conversations.   Resources Mentioned in this Episode:  Download your FREE Conversation Starters for Couples in Conflict  Take the “How Connected Are You” Partner Quiz Today  Episode 229: Hubby Talks: What Caused Infidelity in Our Marriage    Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Q & A: Should I Confront the Other Woman in the Affair?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2024 11:22


    Learning your spouse is having an affair is devastating. One of our listeners wants to know if she should confront the other woman her husband was unfaithful with. This is an honest and vulnerable question that many betrayed spouses have when they are trying to make sense of the infidelity. I am sharing my best relationship advice with this listener and hope that you, too, will find answers should you find yourself in this unfortunate situation.  Have a marriage or relationship question you want to submit for the show? Do so at rebuildinguspodcast.com/contact or send me a message on Instagram.  **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages nd relationships grow too! **  Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Hubby Talks: What Caused Infidelity in Our Marriage [Affair-Proof]

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 32:52


    We're starting a new series on how to rebuild your marriage after an affair. My hubby, Shaun, and I are telling our story of what caused us to be unfaithful in our marriage, what we learned, and what safety nets we've put in place to keep another affair from happening. Christian couples are not immune to adultery, unfortunately. Most marriages have little to no boundaries, so it's no wonder couples find themselves cheating on their spouses against their good intentions.  This conversation is as real as it gets. If you want to protect your marriage from infidelity or are in the middle of trying to rebuild trust after an affair, this episode is for you.  Find the full show notes at https://rebuildinguspodcast.com.    Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Episode 3: Rebuilding Our Marriage; Rebuilding Our Trust Take the FREE "How Connected Are You" Partner Quiz    **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Q & A: How Do I Tell My Husband I Changed My Mind About Having Kids?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2024 8:58


    As we grow older, our desires often change. One of our listeners has changed her mind about having kids and wants to know how to tell her husband. This conversation is coming up more and more, especially with younger couples. It's one thing to decide not to have kids before getting married, but often, something changes when you see someone else's cute baby or realize your biological clock is ticking quickly.  Listen as I share my perspective on how to have a conversation with your spouse if your desire for children changes.  Submit Your Questions Have a marriage or relationship question you want to submit for the show? Do so at rebuildinguspodcast.com/contact or send me a message on Instagram.  **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Rebuilding Us Podcast Trailer

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2024 2:59


    Welcome to the all-new "Rebuilding Us Marriage Podcast, formerly known as Real Relationship Talk.  I'm your host, Dana Che, marriage coach, and your guide on this journey to rediscovering the beauty and strength of your marriage. In a world where relationships are easily broken and discarded, this podcast is your lighthouse. All is not lost.  Join us as we explore the stories of couples who have overcome all kinds of adversity, reignited their love, and rebuilt their marriages from the ground up. Oh, and I'm not shy about my own marriage being restored from adultery. It's why I do this podcast. If we made it, so can you. We couldn't have made it without God on our side. His word is my guiding light. But on this podcast, we dig beyond surface-level Christian talk to see God at the center of our most messy spaces. From infidelity to intimacy struggles or just everyday marriage conflicts, we share practical tips and relevant advice to help you get unstuck and rebuild your life. Whether you're newlyweds adjusting to your new life or long-term partners seeking to reignite the flame, this podcast is for you. Together, let's embark on a journey of honest discovery, forgiveness, truth, and grace. Let's gather the tools for a thriving marriage with renewed love and unwavering commitment. The first letter in us is u, so to rebuild us, we have to rebuild you.  Subscribe to or follow the "Rebuilding Us Marriage Podcast today. Because no matter where you are, it's never too late to rediscover a resilient, renewed relationship. Get ready for the rebuild!   Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Big News Alert! Say Hello to Our Podcast's New Name & Features

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2024 29:33


    I am thrilled to share some incredibly exciting news with you. The podcast is undergoing a major rebranding to better serve our listeners and community. I am happy to introduce you to the all-new Rebuilding Us podcast! This decision came after lots of prayer, input, thoughts, more prayer, more thoughts . . . it was a process. There is significance in the naming of something. Real Relationship Talk served us well, and now, we're hitting full throttle with Rebuilding Us. As I reflect on the challenges and triumphs of my own marriage, I recognize the need to create a more intentional space where individuals and couples can reclaim the goodness in their relationships, restore what was lost, and magnify the positive aspects of their marriages. This realization propelled me to reimagine the podcast to align it with my life's calling, as expressed in Isaiah 61:4 - a scripture that signifies a continuous, active process of rebuilding in the context of marriage. In this episode, I reveal the why behind the new name and the new features you can expect to hear beginning next week! For a full rundown on what's changing and what's not, see the show notes at rebuildinguspodcast.com. Join my e-mail list and get first dibs on news, promotions, coaching, and updates!   **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    [Sweet Repeat]: Stop Avoiding Conflict! Communicate Confidently Instead

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2024 36:19


    We're bringing back one of your favorite conversations about conflict . . . specifically how to stop avoiding it and how to communicate confidently instead. In this encore episode, we're discussing why we avoid conflict and how our different upbringings play into this dilemma. Many people confuse peacemaking with avoiding conflict. I dispell this myth and so much more, helping you to finally step up, speak up and be heard in your relationships. Plus I'm sharing five affirmations you can say every day to help you to have more courageous conversations.This episode was from our Communication 101 series and previously aired in May of 2022. Even still, it's still one I get feedback on to this day. Find the OG show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/96. Resources Mentioned in this Episode:  Get Your FREE Conversation Starters to Bash Conflict Here Let's Connect on Instagram **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Respect, Security, and Leadership: Navigating Core Needs in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2024 27:37


    My hubby, Shaun, is back! We're engaging in a candid conversation about the fundamental needs of both men and women in marriage, shedding light on respect, security, and leadership within relationships. Sharing some of our personal stories and insights that can help couples foster a deeper understanding of each other's needs and strengthen their bond is what we're after.  Men can learn what women truly mean when they say they need security (it's not always what you think). Women can learn how to respect their husbands even when they disagree. Both spouses can learn what healthy leadership looks like in a marriage. This episode is one you'll want to refer to again when disagreements about needs arise.  Find the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/225. Resources and Links in this Episode:  Get your FREE Conversation Starters for Couples in Conflict  Learn more about my marriage and premarital coaching here   **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    [Sweet Repeat]: Baggage Claim: Releasing the Weight of Relationship Baggage

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2024 32:27


    Today's episode is an oldie but goodie . . . one of your faves: relationship baggage. In this encore episode, I'm bringing us back to the conversation about relationship baggage and the toll its weight takes on our marriages and relationships. This episode previously aired in August 2023, but it's well worth a sweet repeat.  We're talking about five types of relationship baggage, how emotional baggage shows up in our relationships, and how to release the baggage so our new and/or current relationship has a chance to stand on its own outside of the shadows of what was.  Find the OG show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/167. LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Take my FREE 'How Connected a Partner Are You?" Quiz Episode 39- Understanding Your Core Wounds & Avoiding Toxic Relationships-Dr. Janie Lacy Get your Love Is Devotional here!   **If you like the show, please leave a review! This helps other marriages and relationships grow too! ** Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media.   Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Connection Crisis: Secrets to an Awesomely Attentive Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2024 27:03


    Are you ready to have an awesome marriage? Transform your marriage into a flourishing and connected union by practicing these four secrets to cultivating an awesomely attentive marriage. Today, we're exploring key takeaways and four actionable tips for infusing your relationship with attentiveness, support, and joy. Having an awesome marriage takes work, but it's good work. Great marriages don't happen by chance; they happen by choice. The four secrets to cultivating a strong, loving, connected (and yes, awesome) marriage center around presence, support, anticipating needs, and noticing the little things.  Read the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/223.    Links and Resources in this Episode:  Take the “How Connected Are You?” Partner Quiz Marriage Advice from Real-World Couples  Ep. 221 - The Power of the Available Spouse Need Marriage Coaching? Schedule Your Discovery Call Today   Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    ✝️ New Beginnings: Hearing Well Done (Plus the End of Faith Talks)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2024 9:04


    In this farewell Faith Talks episode, we are discussing our goal to hear "well done" from God for stewarding well what He entrusted us with when we reach the end of our life's journey. A well-known parable in scripture, found in Matthew chapter 25 emphasizes the significance of stewarding our time, talents, and resources well. The parable centers on a master who entrusts different amounts of responsibility to his servants before embarking on a journey. Upon his return, he evaluates their stewardship. The servant who eagerly invested and doubled the silver entrusted to him hears the words, "Well done, my good and faithful servant." This narrative serves as a poignant reminder that our choices and actions echo far beyond their immediate impact. Visit realrelationshiptalk.com/222 for the full show notes.   Resources Mentioned in this Episode  Get Your Free “Speak Life” Audio Affirmations Here.    Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Connection Crisis: The Power of the Available Spouse

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2024 28:18


    In this episode, we're discussing what it means to be "aptly available" in a marriage. I outline five keys that can help take a marriage to the next level for couples already present and engaged in their relationships. I emphasize the importance of intentionality, curiosity, vocalizing appreciation, time-blocking, and praying together. Plus, I'm sharing some personal anecdotes and practical advice to help couples strengthen their connection and move from being just available to being "awesomely attentive." **Key Points:**- The meaning of "apt" and how it applies to marriage.- The importance of intentionality in maintaining a strong marriage and avoiding complacency.- Staying curious about each other, vocalizing appreciation, and time-blocking to ensure quality time together. The episode ends with a powerful affirmation for prioritizing marriage intentionally and putting in the work to maintain a successful relationship. Find the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/221 Resources and Links in this Episode:  Take My Free Quiz: How Connected a Partner Are You  Ep 119: Connection Crisis: The Absentee Spouse Ep 117: Connection Crisis: Apathy - When Love Grows Cold Want to suggest a new name for my new podcast? Take the survey here!   Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeart Radio | Google Podcasts | Podcast Addict | Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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    ✝️ One Prayer God Always Answers

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2024 9:40


    Have you ever wondered why it feels like God sometimes ignores our prayers? We just can't wrap our heads around God's ways. I've been there, wondering why things don't seem to be going as planned. But there is one prayer that God always answers: the prayer for mercy. In this episode, we're exploring the unwavering presence of mercy in the Bible and embracing the abundant mercy God offers us each day. Lamentations 3:222-23 puts it this way: Through the Lord's mercies, we are not consumed because his compassions fail not. They are new every morning. Great is his faithfulness.  I want to remind you that nowhere in scripture when anyone prayed for mercy were they denied, not one person.  I wrap up the episode with a heartfelt prayer, asking God to remind us that he showers His mercies upon us. Get the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/220.   Resources and Links in this Episode:  Listen to Episode 170: When Heaven is Silent: The Truth Behind Unanswered Prayer Listen to Episode 171: Why Do I Still Feel Anxious After Praying? Download your Speak Life Audio Affirmations here.   Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Connection Crisis: The Absentee Spouse

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2024 30:11


    There are times in marriage when the connection between spouses starts to fade, leaving one or both feeling distant or even absent. Understanding the reasons behind this disconnection is crucial to finding the path back to a fulfilling and loving relationship In this episode, we address four common reasons for a spouse's absence and provide practical solutions to reignite the flame of connection. I'll give you a teaser. The first reason a spouse goes absent is due to chronic disappointment. One of the primary reasons for marital disconnection is chronic disappointment. When expectations are unmet, a gap forms between what we anticipate in our relationships and the reality we experience. This disappointment can lead to bitterness and resentment. Find the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/219. Resources and Links in this Episode: Join our Christian Marriages & Relationships Group. Take the “How Connected Are You?” Partner Quiz. Listen to Episode 134: “Feeling, Healing, and Dealing with Rejection” Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeart Radio | Google Podcasts | Podcast Addict | Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    ✝️ Ezer Kenegdo: The True Meaning of Helpmeet

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2024 11:16


    DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE SPEAK LIFE AUDIO AFFIRMATIONS HERE. There is a beautiful Hebrew word Ezer Kenegdo that describes the concept of being a "Helpmeet" in the Bible. This characteristic reaches far beyond gender boundaries. Understanding its proper meaning helps us to discover the strength and purpose of women. Join me as I challenge common ideas and help you foster an understanding of the woman's vital role, contributing to a balanced and biblical concept of man and woman. After listening to this episode, I hope you will understand the powerful and often misunderstood concept of "Ezer Kenegdo" and its true meaning in the context of marriage, partnership, and individual purpose.  Visit realrelationshiptalk.com/218 for the full show notes.    Like this Podcast? Please Leave a Rating and a Review!  And Be Sure to Subscribe! Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media.   Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Connection Crisis: Apathy - When Love Grows Cold

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2024 28:35


    It's common in marriage to face issues that lead to apathy and eventually detachment. In this episode, I share helpful insights and practical steps to help couples overcome connection crises and rediscover their connection when the love has grown cold.  There are warning signs that exist when a person or couple is becoming apathetic. We'll discuss what apathy looks like in a relationship, its causes, and how to overcome it and get your love back. No matter where you are in your marriage or relationship, I believe there is potential for redemption and renewal in any marriage or relationship that makes a genuine effort. A connection crisis does not condemn a relationship to perpetual apathy. It may be just the invitation you need to go from a love that's grown cold to a love that is more passionate than ever before.  For the full show notes, visit realrelationshiptalk.com/217. Resources and Links in this Episode: Take my “How Connected a Partner Are You” Quiz Learn to Re-Connect in Just 3 Weeks with my Online Connection Course. Also Listen to: Help! My Husband Won't Work on Our Marriage  Also Listen to: Loving an Emotionally Unavailable Partner  Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeart Radio | Google Podcasts | Podcast Addict | Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    ✝️ How to Walk By Faith When Life Is Hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2024 8:51


    The Christian life can be hard at times. Can I get an amen? This episode will help you to hold fast to your faith during times of uncertainty. We must walk by faith in this journey filled with unpredictable twists and turns that test the very essence of what we believe. It's easy to become despondent and get off course. It's during these difficult times that the concept of walking in faith becomes not just a spiritual ideology, but a daily decision to maintain our trust in God in the face of adversity. Walking by faith during hard times is a sign of a mature Christian because it requires us to hold onto our beliefs and trust in the unseen when everything around us seems to be crumbling. It demands an unwavering commitment to hope and perseverance in the midst of despair and uncertainty. This is a challenge even for the strongest of Christians. This episode shows us how.  See the full show notes at https://realrelationshiptalk.com/216.    Resources and Links Mentioned in this Episode: Get Your Free Speak Life Audio Affirmations Also, listen to Episode 214: If God is for Me, Why Am I Suffering? Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeart Radio | Google Podcasts | Podcast Addict  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Valentine's Day Solutions for Struggling Marriages: 5 Tips to Reconnection

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2024 27:06


    We're getting real about the struggles many couples face on Valentine's Day. I've been married for almost 25 years, so I know firsthand the challenges this holiday can bring, especially if your relationship is on shaky ground. I'm sharing five down-to-earth tips to help you navigate this tough time, from injecting some laughter into your day to confronting issues head-on and shaking things up a bit. So, join me as I dish out actionable advice & strategies to turn a tricky Valentine's Day into a memorable and meaningful one for you and your spouse/partner. Timestamps (times are approximate):  [5:00] How celebrating holidays like Valentine's Day creates connection  [8:46] How humor helps lighten the load in marriage  [11:32] Loving others who have supported your marriage  [21:35] Shock your marriage by doing something new  [24:05] How to love anyway    Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Join our Thrive Wives group coaching - launching Feb. 19th! Episode 96: I'm Married and Bored to Death - Pt. 1 Episode 97: Quick Tips on Fixing Your Boring Marriage - Pt. 2   Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify |  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    ✝️ If God is For Me, Why Am I Suffering?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2024 8:24


    What happens when suffering comes? Often, we feel that God is against us or that we've done something wrong. In this episode, we explore conventional perspectives on suffering from the principles in the Book of Job in the Bible and other relevant scriptures. Understanding the purpose behind suffering and how faith can be a guiding light in our darkest times will help us to endure the suffering seasons when they come.  I offer a comforting prayer toward the end of the podcast for those facing suffering, acknowledging that God's plans are always good. We are taught the importance of trusting God even when the reasons for our pain remain unclear. As we surrender our will to God's will, we can find solace in the assurance that God is working all things together for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).   Resources and Links Download Your Speak Life Audio Affirmations Find the story of Job in Job 1-42. Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeart Radio | Google Podcasts | Podcast Addict  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Help! My Husband Isn't Interested in Working on Our Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2024 28:37


    Working on your marriage where your husband appears disinterested in investing effort can be a frustrating and disheartening experience. In this episode, my hubby, Shaun, and I discuss practical strategies to address this common concern among wives and how both spouses can work together to alleviate their marriage problems by putting in the necessary energy and effort.  Before delving into solutions, it's crucial to understand the heart of the matter. Shaun suggests wives take a moment to reflect on when they first noticed the change in their husband's engagement. Identify potential triggers or stressors that might have contributed to his disinterest. This understanding will help wives to tailor their approach to rebuilding the connection. New See chapter markers on the timeline! For the full show notes, visit realrelationshiptalk.com/213   Resources and Links Join Thrive Wives Group Coaching Episode 210: 5 Prayers to Pray for Your Husband To Be a Man song by Dax featuring Darius Rucker    Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeart Radio | Google Podcasts | Podcast Addict | Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    ✝️ 5 Prayers to Pray for Your Wife

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2024 8:51


    Most women crave the prayers of their husbands. Most Christian wives strongly desire their husbands to lead spiritually, but at the very least, as a husband, you can pray for your wife. Inspired by my previous episode where the wives were given five prayers to pray for their husbands, I am now highlighting the five essential prayers that husbands can pray for their wives. These prayers delve into the core aspects of a woman's life—mind, purpose, emotions, body, and even the husband himself. Now, let's uncover these simple yet powerful prayers that every husband can offer for their wives. Get the full list and show notes at https://realrelationshiptalk.com/212.    Resources and Links Mentioned in this Episode Have you heard about our Thrive Wives Group Coaching? Episode 210 - 5 Prayers to Pray Over Your Husband   Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeart Radio | Google Podcasts | Podcast Addict | Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Sextimacy: From Awkward to Authentic Conversations About Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2024 30:37


    Married couples often find themselves in the midst of conversations with friends that touch upon intimate topics such as sex. Learn to have authentic not awkward conversations with the one you love. While sharing experiences and seeking advice from friends can be beneficial, it's crucial to navigate these discussions with sensitivity and respect. In this episode  Dan and Emily Purcell of the Get Your Marriage On! Podcast join me and my hubby, Shaun, as we explore the importance of setting boundaries in conversations about sex, a “no-churchy” Christian perspective on discussing intimate matters with friends, and the significance of openness and authenticity between spouses.  The Sextimacy Challenge Invitation: Dan shared about the genesis of the Intimately Us app, a tool designed to help couples intentionally build intimacy. Acknowledging the discomfort some couples feel when broaching these conversations, the app provides a platform for guided challenges, making it easier for couples to initiate discussions about their desires, needs, and preferences. The Sextimacy Challenge— is an exciting opportunity for couples to focus on strengthening their relationships for 14 days. Couples can sync their apps, complete daily challenges, and earn points for a chance to win prizes, including a grand prize of airfare for two to anywhere in the country this Valentine's, 2024! Find the full show notes at https://realrelationshiptalk.com/211 Resources and Links Join Our Thrive Wives Community! Intimately Us App Dan's Podcast- Get Your Marriage On Podcast   Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeart Radio | Google Podcasts | Podcast Addict  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media.   Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    ✝️ 5 Prayers to Pray Over Your Husband

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2024 8:13


    Prayer is essential to a healthy, Christian marriage. It fortifies the bond between husband and wife like nothing else. As a loving wife, lifting your husband up in prayer can be very impactful on his life and your marriage. Knowing what to pray for, however, can sometimes be challenging, especially if your husband doesn't readily share his innermost thoughts and struggles.  In this episode we share five heartfelt prayers you can incorporate into your daily routine to cover your husband in God's grace and support him in various aspects of his life. Get the full list and show notes at https://realrelationshiptalk.com/210.    Resources and Links Mentioned in this Episode Thrive Wives Group Coaching   Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeart Radio | Google Podcasts | Podcast Addict  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    The Value of a Wife Tribe Like Thrive Wives

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2024 29:22


    Marriage comes with its fair share of ups and downs. And finding a support system . . . a tribe, like Thrive Wives, is essential. I believe every wife needs a tribe. Mine is called Thrive Wives. In this episode, I talk about the profound impact of wife tribes – a network of supportive women who share their experiences, insights, and encouragement. We uncover the transformative power of wife tribes, including the importance of embracing vulnerability, breaking free from isolation, and fostering intentional connections for personal and relational growth. Just like a healthy marriage, a cornerstone of any successful wife tribe is vulnerability. Opening up to others about our struggles can be intimidating. Fear of judgment or others' expectations often leads many wives to keep their marriage problems hidden. In Thrive Wives, women are encouraged to embrace vulnerability and share their experiences within a trusted community. This not only brings solutions and healing but also forges beautiful, meaningful friendships. Thrive Wives is accepting applications now. Learn more at https://danache.com/thrivewives.    Get the full show notes at https://realrelationshiptalk.com/209. Resources and Links Mentioned in this Episode Thrive Wives Group Conversation Starters Download   Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeart Radio | Google Podcasts | Podcast Addict | Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    ✝️ Overcoming Church Hurt

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2024 22:47


    In the healthiest of families, disagreements surface, and the church, as a spiritual family, is no exception. Join us in this edition of Faith Friday as we draw inspiration from the word of God to help us navigate the path toward healing church hurt. Is It Church Hurt or Offense? Church hurt involves intentional or unintentional actions that cause pain, such as abuse, slander, or betrayal within the church community. On the other hand, offense is a perceived insult, a feeling of being disregarded or left out. Understanding this is important. Knowing the difference lays the foundation for the healing process. It helps individuals discern whether they actually need healing from hurt or if they need to learn how to live unoffendably.  Learn how to confront situations, aim for restoration, healthily leave a church, and much more in this episode! Get the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/208.   Resources and Links Mentioned in this Episode Speak Life Audio Affirmations Other Episodes in this Church Series: How to Find a Good Church Do I Really Need to Go to Church?   Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeart Radio | Google Podcasts | Podcast Addict    Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    How to Heal Your Broken Heart

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 26:20


    Getting your heart broken hurts like heck and they can be hard to heal from. Though heartbreaks are a painful part of the human experience, you can heal a broken heart and come out stronger and more resilient because of it. Whether it's the end of a romantic relationship, the loss of a loved one, or the shattering of a deep friendship, the emotional toll can be overwhelming. As painful as it may be, heartbreak offers an opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth. When you don't acknowledge what was done, you can't heal from what was done. However, just as the heart can break, it also has an incredible capacity to heal. In this episode, I share how to mend a broken heart with practical tips that may help expedite the healing process. Resources and Links Mentioned in this Episode: Episode 13:  The Power of Forgiveness Episode 163: Beyond Mistakes: Modeling Responsibility & the Steps of Forgiveness  Take the Partner Quiz Here Join our Christian Marriages & Relationships Facebook Community Good Grief: A Companion for Every Loss by Granger Westberg    Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeart Radio | Google Podcasts | Podcast Addict    Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    How to Find a Good Church

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2024 13:24


    Are you in search of a new church? Starting the process of finding the right church where you belong spiritually can be daunting. It's like discovering a home for your spirit, where you can contribute, grow, and connect. The local church not only shapes our sense of belonging but also our sense of believing. In this episode, we'll look into four practical questions to ask when looking for a new church. These questions are aligned with biblical teachings that can help with finding the right church for you. Finding a good church is not just about preferences; it's about fostering a deep sense of belonging. The call to active participation, denominational freedom, and reliance on divine wisdom will empower you to discover not just a congregation but a spiritual home where you truly belong.   Links and Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Download your Speak Life Audio Affirmations Listen to Episode 158: The Body of Christ in Motion Listen to Episode 204: Do I Really Need to Go to Church?   Leave a Review and Subscribe to the Podcast Apple Podcasts | Spotify | iHeart Radio | Google Podcasts | Podcast Addict  Remember, sharing is caring! Share this episode via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Landscaping Your Marriage: Rehabbing a Sexually Broken Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2024 40:17


    How would you describe the landscape of your marriage? Most married couples aren't so intentional about designing the marriage they actually want but rather they respond to the marriage they seem to have. Today, our guests Gary and Tamra Andress vulnerably share their story of rehabilitating their sexually broken marriage. They shed light on the intricate challenges and intentional growth they experienced in their marriage as they weeded out what wasn't helping them and, instead, planted seeds that have now grown into a loving, safe, and healthy marriage.  This episode is for those who have struggled with infidelity, sexual addictions, or just need a tune-up in your marriage.  Find the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/205.   Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Learn How to Start Better Conversations When in Conflict - FREE PDF Download The book that helped led to Tamra's healing from sexual brokenness:  No Stones: Women Redeemed from Sexual Addiction  Connect with Tamra and learn about her business coaching   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Do I Really Need to Go to Church?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2024 10:03


    In the wake of a new year, resolutions often include a commitment to attend church services. Yet the question for many lingers, "Do I really need to go to church?" In this episode of Faith Fridays on Real Relationship Talk,  we address this question, grounding our discussion in the scripture Hebrews 10:24-25. The Purpose of Church Attending church is not merely a religious obligation. It goes beyond rituals and traditions, the early church, as depicted in the scriptures, gathered primarily for prayer, fellowship, and mutual encouragement. Other than corporate worship, learning the truth of God's Word, and praying, the main purpose of church is to build courage among believers in the face of life's challenges. The core tenets of the early church were not centered around modern concepts of preaching and worship but revolved around prayer and fellowship. In unpacking the scripture from Hebrews, the importance of courage is derived from the root word of "encouragement." Christians find strength and motivation through the mutual encouragement they receive within the church community. Key Scripture: Hebrews 10:24-25 (NIV): 24 And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, 25 not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.   Find the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/204.  Links Mentioned in this Episode: Download Your Free Speak Life Audio Affirmations Here.   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Ladies, You Are More than a Sex Object!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2024 26:20


    If there's one thing that pushes my buttons, it's the objectification of women. Women have been indoctrinated to believe their worth is in their bodies alone. But there is so much more to the worth and value of a woman! In the sea of opinions, philosophies, and societal pressures, it's easy to get lost in the noise and lose sight of what truly matters – our self-worth. Whether you're a Christian woman, a non-Christian, young, old, black, white, thin, or heavy, the pervasive issue of objectification affects all of us. In a world inundated with messages about power, success, and beauty, we must pause and reflect on what truly defines our essence as women. The culture around us incessantly screams sex as the ultimate idol; it's interwoven into every aspect of our lives. From power women on TV to seemingly glamorous “power couples,” the narrative often revolves around the objectification of women. Let's talk about it.  Find the full show notes at realrelationshiptalk.com/203.    Links Mentioned in this Episode: Get Your Free Conversation Starters Guide Here  Watch the podcast on YouTube!    SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Leaving A Legacy of a Life Well- Lived

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2023 7:28


    In today's world, with all its uncertainties, we need to reflect more on the legacy we are leaving for the next generation. As Christians, we have a responsibility to pass on not only material wealth but also spiritual guidance and values. Our legacy should be one of purpose, integrity, and faith, inspiring those who come after us to serve, honor, and fear the Lord. In this episode, we will explore the importance of leaving a rich inheritance that goes beyond money and discuss practical ways to shape a legacy that truly matters. We all have the power to choose the kind of legacy we want to leave behind. Will our legacy be one of promise and purpose, or will it be one of sorrow and selfishness? It's a decision only we can make. By aligning our actions, choices, and priorities with the legacy we desire to live, we shape a future filled with hope, inspiration, and positive change. BIBLICAL REFERENCE: PROVERBS 13:22:  "A good person leaves an inheritance for their children's children, but a sinner's wealth is stored up for the righteous." (NIV) PSALMS 145: 4: “One generation commends your works to another; they tell of your mighty acts.”(NIV)   Links Mentioned in this Episode: Get Your Speak Life Affirmation Audio   SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT  To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe or follow on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! Thank you for sharing these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

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