Podcast appearances and mentions of Thomas W Phelan

On this episode, Sadie and Gavi are once again joined by Dr. Shoshana Fagen, who lends her considerable expertise to the discussion of the ubiquitous and infamous fundamentalist parenting book/child abuse manual, "To Train Up A Child," By Michael and Debi Pearl. The techniques recommended in this book have been used by fundamentalist families like the Duggars for decades. Together with Shoshana, they examine how truly horrible and harmful this book is, and what healing from this sort of upbringing might look like.TW: In general we talk about a lot of potentially triggering topics on this show, including but not limited to suicide and mental health, racism, misogyny, PTSD and PTSD symptoms, child abuse, mental, physical, and sexual abuse, and spiritual abuse including guilt, shame, and fear. In most episodes we'll mention at least a few of these topics, but we try very hard to avoid graphic detail unless it's relevant to the story we're telling, and we do our best to give the audience a heads-up before going into detail on any of these topics. This Entire Episode carries a trigger warning for child abuse, specifically, hitting, spanking, hitting with implements, what implements are recommended to hit your child, how to break a child's spirit. We will of course be validating survivors of such abuse, talking scientifically about why it's not okay, trying to use language that's less triggering, but it is the topic of the episode. We will also more briefly mention topics such as complimentarianism, wives submitting to husbands, marital rape, and briefly mention the deaths of several children which were related to the teachings put forth in this book. Parenting resources recommended by Dr. Fagen: https://healthychildren.orgHow to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish1-2-3 magic by Thomas W. Phelan, PhD The Explosive Child by Ross Green (anything by Ross Green, PhD, about Collaborative Problem Solving or Collaborative and Proactive Solutions)The Good Inside podcast, hosted by Dr. Becky Kennedy, is a weekly broadcast of parenting tools and strategies that are presented in a digestible and actionable way. www.goodinside.com (If you are willing to promote another podcast that is) National Association of School Psychologists have several publications and blogs regarding many topics that bother parents (https://www.nasponline.org/resources-and-publications/resources-and-podcasts)An extended, uncensored, and ad-free version of this podcast episode is available to subscribers at Patreon.com/LeavingEdenPodcastWE HAVE NEW MERCH AVAILABLE, AND A NEW MERCH SHOP, at https://leavingedenpodcast.threadless.comStream the Leaving Eden Podcast theme song, Rolling River of Time on Spotify! https://open.spotify.com/artist/6lB7RwSQ9X5gnt1BDNugyS?si=jVhmqFfYRSiruRxekdLgKA.Join our Facebook Discussion group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/edenexodusJoin our subreddit! Reddit.com/r/EdenExodusInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/leavingedenpodcast/https://www.instagram.com/sadiecarpentermusic/https://www.instagram.com/gavrielhacohen/Twitter:https://twitter.com/LeavingEdenPodhttps://twitter.com/HellYeahSadiehttps://twitter.com/GavrielHacohenFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/LeavingEdenPodcasthttps://www.facebook.com/GavrielHaCohen Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Tex Ellis, psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD shares more resources that get his thumbs up on helping you with self-reflection and taking back control. Books recommended in this episode are: * 1-2-3 Magic: Training Your Children to Do What You Want! by Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D available at https://amzn.to/3SpZ06t * How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish available at https://amzn.to/3NgH1i1 * Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melodie Beattie - https://amzn.to/3TWtizy * The Codependency Workbook: Simple Practices for Developing and Maintaining Your Independence - https://amzn.to/3DKHOod * How To Break Free of the Drama Triangle and Victim Consciousness - https://amzn.to/3SPLtWf * The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book) by Don Miguel Ruiz - https://amzn.to/3DJxsVr For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office Telephone DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2022

This week, Tex Ellis, psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD delves into more skills you can use as a parent to help with your children and save you from frustration and escalating confrontation. Books recommended in this episode are: * 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children ages 2 to 12 by Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D available at https://amzn.to/3z8Wdb8 * 1-2-3 Magic: Gentle 3-Step Child & Toddler Discipline for Calm, Effective, and Happy Parenting by Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D available at https://amzn.to/3TM5X2T * Tantrums! (1-2-3 Magic Parenting) by Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D available at https://amzn.to/3Sz9bWh * 1-2-3 Magic Teen by Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D available at https://amzn.to/3z3lcN1* 1-2-3 Magic: Training Your Children to Do What You Want! by Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D available at https://amzn.to/3SpZ06t * I Never Get Anything!: How to Keep Your Kids from Running Your Life by Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D available at https://amzn.to/3N2DEuP * How to Talk When Kids Won't Listen: Whining, Fighting, Meltdowns, Defiance, and Other Challenges of Childhood by Joanna Faber available at https://amzn.to/3TM4KIT * How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish available at https://amzn.to/3TMucy2 For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2022

A registered clinical psychologist, Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D., has worked with children, adults and families for over 40 years. The author of numerous books, DVDs and audios, he is best known for his ground-breaking book, 1-2-3 Magic: 3 Step Discipline for Calm, Effective, and Happy Parenting, which has sold over 2 million copies and is now in its 6th edition.https://www.123magic.com/

Today on the Dads with Daughters Podcast we spoke with Dr. Tom Phelan, founder and author the 1-2-3 Magic series of trainings and books about his company and resources as well as his experiences as a father.  About Dr. Tom Phelan A registered clinical psychologist, Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D. has worked with children, adults and families for over 35 years. He is a member of the American Psychological Association and the Illinois Psychological Association. In addition to writing and producing, Dr. Phelan maintains an active schedule of international lectures, and is a frequent guest on radio and television. His articles appear in numerous regional and national publications. Dr. Phelan received his Doctorate from Loyola University Chicago in 1970 after completing his internship at the Loyola Child Guidance Center. He worked at the DuPage County Mental Health Center until 1972 and then entered private practice. He has also served on the boards of directors for both ADDA and CHADD, two national organizations for the parents of children with ADD/ADHD. He was inducted into the CHADD Hall of Fame in 1997. Some of his books 1-2-3 Magic for Kids: Helping Your Kids Understand the New Rules 1-2-3 Magic (Effective Discipline for Children 2-12) 1-2-3 Magic Workbook: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 1-2-3 Magic Teen: Communicate, Connect, and Guide Your Teen to Adulthood 1-2-3 Magic Workbook: An Interactive Parenting Resource Tantrums!: Managing Meltdowns in Public and Private (1-2-3 Magic Parenting) 1-2-3 Magic in the Classroom: Effective Discipline for Pre-K through Grade 8 1-2-3 Parenting with Heart: Three-Step Discipline for a Calm and Godly Household 1-2-3 Magia: Disciplina Efectiva para Niños de 2 a 12 (Spanish Edition) 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 If you've enjoyed today's episode of the Dads With Daughters podcast we invite you to check out the Fatherhood Insider. The Fatherhood Insider is the essential resource for any dad that wants to be the best dad that he can be. We know that no child comes with an instruction manual and most are figuring it out as they go along. The Fatherhood Insider is full of valuable resources and information that will up your game on fatherhood. Through our extensive course library, interactive forum, step-by-step roadmaps and more you will engage and learn with experts but more importantly with dads like you. So check it out today!

Alex is going through some stress in his life right now and wants to be open and transparent with you on how he's handling it. In every situation, life is not about what happens to you, but how you choose to respond. These words ring truer than ever before and Alex shares why.   Key Takeaways: Alex has been dealing with some stress lately. Life is not about what happens to you, but how you choose to respond. As an entrepreneur, we all go through certain seasons. Alex's children are getting older and they are testing their authority. Alex strives every day to be the best husband and father he can be. Why do we sometimes make choices that are not good for us? The quality of life is determined by the decisions we make. Monitor what you're focusing on. What meaning do you give to things when they are happening to you? Alex shares an example of hearing a message and taking it in wrong. COVID-19 has been the biggest blessing for a lot of people. What are you going to do about what's in front of you? Whatever is going on in your life, Alex is confident that you have the ability to completely change what's going on. If you'd like to help Alex out, share this podcast! MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The Flip Empire Experience in the Florida Keys: Flipempire.com/private RECOMMENDED RESOURCES: 1-2-3 Magic Book by Thomas W. Phelan THE Z-CODE: Groundbreaking 2020 Money-Making Secret Exposed…“Zillow Income Hack” How an Average Joe from Saint Louis 'Cracked the Code' on Earning Income Using Zillow Without Buying & Selling Real Estate .

Do you have control over your kids? Are you at war with them? There is a better way! In this episode, Jen and I talk about how as moms, we *wish we had control over the tiny humans in our homes (sometimes we even *think that we do), but we really don’t. Turns out, that’s a GOOD.THING. We wrestle this to the ground for you in this episode of the I Am Mother of the Year Podcast! Watch, listen, and share with a mama who needs to hear that she’s a really good mom.Episode References: Episode Blog PostDanny Silk’s Loving Our Kids on Purpose (book) 1-2-3 Magic by Thomas W. Phelan (book) Download the FREE WORKSHEET to help you implement some action steps!Love this podcast? Click here for an easy way to support the movement AND get incredible rewards and insider access. *In an effort to serve you best, this podcast is both audio AND video, so check out the full videos on Facebook and YouTube!*FOLLOW:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/iammotheroftheyearFacebook Group for moms - https://www.facebook.com/groups/iammotheroftheyearInstagram - https://instagram.com/iammotheroftheyearYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbMGstUt5NQn_ArYRBjjLyQ/CONNECT:https://www.iammotheroftheyear.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/iammotheroftheyear)

Bestseller de The New York Times. Con más de 1,500,000 ejemplares vendidos.1-2-3 por arte de magia te dice cómo recuperar el mando en tu casa y disfrutar de tus hijos.Thomas W. Phelan ofrece a los lectores herramientas para resolver casi cualquier situación sobre problemas de conducta, conflictos de interacción y chantajes infantiles a través de novedosos consejos y divertidas historias derivadas de la vida real.El objetivo es educar niños competentes, emocionalmente inteligentes y que piensen de forma asertiva. Este libro práctico y útil te ayudará a disciplinar efectivamente a tus hijos desde el día uno, aprenderás cómo tu silencio dice más que tus palabras y cómo al establecer límites mejorarás la dinámica familiar.Descubre cómo establecer límites sintetizando la compleja tarea de ser padres con tres sencillos trabajos:1. Controlar el comportamiento desagradable: aprende una técnica sorprendentemente sencilla para que tus hijos dejen los comportamientos inadecuados (quejas, discusiones, berrinches, rivalidad entre hermanos y más).2. Fomentar el buen comportamiento: aprende métodos efectivos para que tus hijos inicien los comportamientos que deseas (limpiar su cuarto, hacer la tarea, terminar su comida, irse a dormir, ayudar en los quehaceres del hogar).3. Fortalecer el vínculo con tus hijos: aprende técnicas poderosas que refuercen el lazo entre padre e hijo. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Host Dr. Marla Deibler  Being a parent is one of the most rewarding experiences in life, but every family faces challenges that can be frustrating and overwhelming. For more than twenty-five years, internationally renowned clinical psychologist Thomas W. Phelan's 1-2-3 Magic has helped millions of parents, teachers, and caregivers raise independent, emotionally intelligent children and build happier, healthier families?all through an easy-to-understand program that you'll swear "works like magic." 1-2-3 Magic helps you discipline and set limits for your children by breaking down the complex task of parenting into straightforward steps. The 1-2-3 Magic program offers parents, pediatricians, mental health professionals, grandparents, teachers and even babysitters a simple and gentle-but-firm approach to managing the behavior of 2 to 12-year-olds, whether they are average kids or special-needs children. 1-2-3 Magic books sales have crossed the 1,500,000 mark, the number of foreign translations has passed twenty, and the 1-2-3 Magic book has consistently been the #1 child-discipline book on Amazon. Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D. has worked with children, adults and families for over 35 years. He is a member of the American Psychological Association and the Illinois Psychological Association. In addition to writing and producing, Dr. Phelan maintains an active schedule of international lectures, and is a frequent guest on radio and television. His articles appear in numerous regional and national publications.