TEX TALKS: on the BRAIN, Changing BEHAVIOR, HAPPINESS, LIFE and more

Are you looking for evidence that a skill, training or technique won't work? This week, Tex gives a brief talk on this topic. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

You may have heard the saying, "chasing the dragon?" This week, Tex Talks about chasing the feeling; a parallel context for other things in life. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

Tex talks about how our illusions create our reality and how you can step back to tune in to what is. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week, Tex Talks about how nature maintains a system of Homeostasis for consistency and compares how this translates into family or relationship dynamics. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

A short one this week with Tex as he talks about problems being opportunities. Hey, don't give us no guff here. Just watch it and really think about how you think about your problems. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week, Tex dives into a common myth about Cluster B personality disorders. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024 Building on prior episodes, Tex talks about how splitting and black and white thinking can impact your personal relationships and your interactions with them. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

You know the type. They constantly tell you had broke they are or how bad their lives are.... what's the deal with this scheme. And it is a scheme. Let's have a listen to what Tex has to say this week. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

Last week, Tex talked about recognizing covert narcissism since it doesn't manifest in the same way of overt narcissism. This week, Tex gives you his best advice about dealing with one. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week, Tex Talks about the other type of narcissism that can confuse people and create discomfort. He shares how to recognize this personality disorder and the warning to keep you safe. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week's talk relates the idea of how it is easy to get stuck in the cycle of confirming your beliefs and a narrowing of perspective -- everything from who you associate with to books you read or movies you watch. This narrowing of mindset can often eliminate your ability to see new, fresh solutions to your problems. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. REFERENCED IN THE VIDEO The Allegory of the Cave https://youtu.be/QFi8JUIwu2s The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz https://a.co/d/04jlGk4N For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week's episode is how crazy and rude grocery store shoppers can make you want to punch them in the face or push their carts into the backs of their legs. Fear not. Tex says this is a learning opportunity on dealing with these irritating people through active concentration and watching.... sort of like going on a safari to watch humans in the wild. Welcome to the Jungle. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

Tex talks about how many work through their decision process and tips to be more focused for better outcome. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

Tex talks about the subversive actions parents use to manipulate their kids, poison their thoughts or just wheedle out compliance to meet the parent's needs. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

A common theme in many of his sessions, Tex Talks this week about the worst enemy you have and touches on how to defeat this one. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week, Tex answers a viewer's question about crossing lines to socialize outside of work with superiors. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week's episode has Tex talking about speaking -- on purpose, with purpose and with clarity. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

Have you ever had someone talk to you--or yell at you--and you were blown away because you couldn't understand what they believed about a topic while you tried to talk to them about it.... and you still couldn't get them to comprehend or see another point of view? Yeah, this happens a lot and what a mess it leads to and conflict! Geez.... This episode Tex talks about this and shares some thoughts about understanding and handling it. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

What triggers you and why? Tex gives an exercise to practice in this week's episode of Tex Talks. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

There is a difference between happiness and joy. Do you know what it is? Take a listen as Tex talks about the differences and how to hold each one. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024 Resources mentioned in the episode: The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living, by the Dalai Lama The Book of Joy: Lasting Happiness in a Changing World, by the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu The Essential Fromm: Life Between Having and Being, by Eric Fromm, Ph.D

his week, Tex talks about three wishes and how you'd use them and to what affect and end the results. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

Tex hops up on the soap box to talk about solutions to the mental health crisis. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week, Tex talks about respect and good manners and how this all works. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week, Tex talks about a topic that arose in several sessions on finding that instant fix for everything. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week, Tex continues on the topic the Narcisstic Personality Disorder... Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week, Tex launches into the topic of NPD -- Narcissistic Personality Disorder – first in a proposed series to follow. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

In this week's episode, Tex talks about how our representations manifest. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week, Tex talks follows up on last week's episode about bipolar diagnosis and how this could affect you. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week, Tex talks about those who are diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder and what you really must know. (This is part one of a two part talk.) Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week, Tex is asking "are you bossy?" Do you offer unsolicited advice? Do you tell everyone what they 'should' do because you think you know what is best for them? Are you looking for control in that bossy attitude?Tex talks about that bossy inclination in this week's episode.Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

Tex answers a question posed to him from a prior session: How do I know if I'm getting better? Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

Tex talks about the "lock & key" theory of why there may be attraction between people. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

Tex answers a viewer's relationship question. There are a lot of things packed into this one. Strap in and watch.... twice. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week, Tex talks about a personality trait that crosses several personality disorders — clinginess. In the search for validation, acceptance, love and security, this trait actually pushes away people you want in your life. It can lead to your object of love feeling suffocated and wanting to escape. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

In this episode, Tex talks about understanding meanings. This goes beyond definitions. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2024

This week, Tex elaborates further on last week's episode on the difference between symptoms versus traits and "observable ego." Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

This week, Tex delves into the difference between symptoms versus traits and impact to the diagnosis. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

This week, Tex addresses a question about therapy styles and how you need to evaluate on your needs against the therapist's style of therapy. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

In tune with the holidays, Tex Talks about the upcoming family gatherings, feelings and issues that arise from these gatherings. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

We've all done it. Said something impulsively that starts a fight, creates hurt feelings or we regret something that we begin to ruminate on. This week, Tex gives you some techniques to stop the blurting. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

In this week's episode, Tex Talks about the way we allow ourselves to be knocked off track when drawn into our emotions. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

This week, Tex talks about S.M.A.R.T. goals and using the same approach to achieve progress as a parent with your kiddos. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

This week, Tex revisits the topic of anger and the frequency that this topic arises in sessions. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

This week, Tex Talks about the challenge of finding a psychotherapist. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

This week, Tex continues his thoughts on a viewer's question: "how can I help others understand my mental health problems." Watch this episode on assertive communications. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

This week, Tex answers a viewer's question, "how can I help others understand my mental health problems." Watch this episode and stay tuned for the followup next week. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

This week, Tex talks about how the demand for your child to be obedient to everything, are you creating a future of unhealthy subservience in their adult relationships? Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

This week, Tex flags several phrases that are most used by people who want to control you or invalidate your autonomy. These are not helpful phrases but what Tex likes to term "set-up" phrases designed to assert an agenda on you. When you hear them, heads up. You are about to be a target of someone who devalues you and wants to assert their authority over you. Many people adopt these phrases because their parents used them but these should be avoided. If you use them, stop it. Watch, listen and learn. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

This week, Tex talks about how most people are sleeping through life. They aren't really here and paying attention to who they are, why they think the way that they do and just accepting everything as it is. If you saw the movie "The Matrix," this is a theme of the movie based on a philosophic premise between higher consciousness and awakening. Watch the video Tex refers to in this talk:    • THIS IS WATER! by David Foster Wallace   Get the book that Tex mentions: https://a.co/d/256P51Q Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

This week, Tex talks about two personality disorders that need to be accurately diagnosed to avoid improper treatment. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

Tex talks gaslighting and watching for the clues. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023

Building on last week's episode, Tex continues with a recurring theme this past week — handling relationship hurts and mistakes to build a stronger relationship. Tex Ellis is the managing clinical psychotherapist at Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC in Annapolis MD. For more information: www.ChangingPatternsPsychotherapyServices.com (443) 261-5950 Office DISCLAIMER: Information contained in this video is for educational purposes only. It should not be perceived as a substitution for professional medical or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. It does not take the place of psychological or medical services. If you are experiencing any conditions or have specific symptoms and you might suspect that you are suffering from a mental or medical problem that would require mental health or medical services, please seek out the appropriate specialist for assistance. Changing Patterns Psychotherapy Services, LLC © 2023