Back To Manhood

With Thanksgiving this week, we talk about thankfulness on this episode as we also bring season 2 to a close for the remainder of 2019. Join in to listen to Joey’s bold (made up) percentages regarding Thanksgiving get-togethers and Justin’s dislike for decorating for Christmas prior to the Thanksgiving holiday. We hope you have enjoyed season 2 and we look forward to season 3 coming in 2020. God Bless!

Have you ever found yourself feeling jealous or angry of other people when they get a promotion at work? When They are working on a cool new project or when just regular ole good things happen to them and not you? We tend to feel that it happens quite frequently but it shouldn’t be this way. We need to start being happy for others, not bitter. Listen in to hear our take.

We live in such a fast paced, hurry from one thing to the next, more-more-more society. But is that really the way we ought to be living? Or more deeply put, is that really the way we were created to live? We think not. In this episode Joey and Justin talk about some of the detrimental effects of living in a constant state of busy and on the flip side, why we should learn to slow down, unplug, and enjoy life at hand.

Communication is key to any relationship be it romantic, friendship, work related, acquaintance, or just casual small talk. But it seems as though our interactions are far too often geared around giving our responses rather than really listening to what the other person has to say. In today’s episode, Joey and Justin talk about why we need to be really good at listening rather than just saying what we “think”.

As the times continue to change, so do the ways we operate within the world. How we interact and communicate. The things we do for leisure. And the things we value. But we don’t always tend to think that all changes are necessarily for the good and that the way things have been done in the past should be salvaged and passed on to the generations to come. Listen in to hear Joey and Justin’s takes on some of these topics.

There is a world of knowledge that we can find simply by reading good books. No matter what your interests are, there is an abundance of written material out there available to you just waiting to be read. And yes, there are other forms of learning and entertainment but the benefits of reading are unmatched and stand the test of time. So go put down your devices and pick up a good book!

Sometimes life throws us curve balls and things happen unexpectedly. Unfortunately at times, that means losing loved ones before “it was time”. Today we are joined by Mike Yarborough of Wolf&Iron to discuss some ways of coping with those feelings from his own experience and some ways to go about preparing for the inevitable. This is a heavy topic that no one likes to discuss but it is one that applies to most anybody listening.You can find Mike on Instagram @wolfandiron or @rusticandmain for his beautiful, handmade wood rings.

Passivity and manliness arne’t necessarily synonymous with each other but we are seeing the lines blurred in today’s society. And topics like this are the reason for Back To Manhood. To bring up the discussions to get you thinking and examining your own life because, after-all, yours is the only life you have any control over. So listen in and don’t take the passive approach to life. Be bold. Be noble. Be assertive. Be a man.

Being a man doesn’t mean that you grunt, crush cans on your head, only dress a certain way, and that you have a beard. There is so much that makes a man, manly. And that’s what we’re after at Back To Manhood, being real men. And not just that but being really GOOD men. So in this episode Joey and Justin break down some of their thoughts on the push for “machoism” compared to just plain old manhood.

Social media, as we can all probably agree, can be a tool for many great things and it can also be a weapon of mass destruction, depending on how it is used. Today, Joey and Justin are talking about the things that we view on platforms such as Instagram, mainly, the next-to-pornographic pictures of women who are not your wife.

Today’s episode is just some open conversation between Joey and Justin. There was a topic planned but things just weren’t feeling right. So, instead, the record button was hit and just some real and honest talking went on. Not to worry, it isn’t pointless conversation. More-so just the guys being transparent about different things that life deals us.

The battles of depression, stress, anxiety, and thoughts of suicide are something that far more people deal with than what any of us are aware of. As men, we most often try to hide our struggles for many reasons. But todays guest, Erik Robinson has started an organization that helps men in their struggles of mental health. From his own experiences of depression, attempt of suicide, and prison time, Erik has founded Building A Refuge where the focus is building real relationships with men through honesty and transparency so that each individual has the chance for their own redemption story. Listen to this conversation and if you need, take action and if you know someone else who does, share this with them.

Men and women naturally take on different roles within the household. It’s been that way since the beginning of time. But as the man of the house, are you putting certain expectations on your spouse that may have been better left at home when you moved out of your parents house? Listen in to get our take on a habit plaguing many homes.

Today’s topic of discussion is a tricky one. That’s because the conversation about ones own drinking habits may be a bit hard to come to terms with. Simply put, we don’t always realize when something is becoming a problem in our own lives. But today’s guest, Mrs. Belle Robertson of Tired of Thinking About Drinking, an anonymous support system to quit drinking, talks about how to decide if that’s you, how to go about it, and the benefits of giving up the over indulgence. Belle’s service has been featured in Good Housekeeping, BBC Radio, and Thrive Global. So if you or someone you know needs to hear this message and take some action, listen all the way through for some powerful encouragement.You can find Belle and the help that you may need at www.tiredofthinkingaboutdrinking.com or on Facebook at Tired of thinking about drinking.

We talk a lot about what example you set for others in every walk of life but none more important than your family. Today we discuss the standards in which you set, teach, and lead with because the standard you set now is the legacy you’ll leave when you’re gone.

Fur babies. Dog parent. Doggy birthday parties with the rest of the neighborgood dogs in attendance….Guys; come on let’s get real. Our animals are wonderful and yeah even a part of the family. But they are just pets. We discuss the issue with our societal obsession with animals in relation to how we view actual other human beings in this episode. Listen in and as Joey says, if this one is stepping on your toes, then move your feet!

Forgiveness is one of the most powerful things that a person can experience, no matter what end of it you are on. But it is also one of the most difficult things to do. It requires so much humility, honesty, strength, vulnerability, and so many other emotions and mindsets. BUT, it is possible no matter how awful someone has been or done to you. Today’s guest is a living and “walking” testament to exactly that. Andrew O’Brien who went on a journey to forgive his mother for committing murder has such a powerful message that you are guarenteed to be inspired to take action in your own life. Be on the lookout for the complete documentary of Andrew’s journey and keep updated on what’s going on currently by following This Crazy Journey on Facebook, @acrazyjourney on Instagram, or the website thiscrazyjourney.com

Our guest today is founder of the Tattered Beans Coffee, Jason Jean, a company dedicated to putting cash-money directly into the pockets of military active duty, veterans, and first responders. We hit on a lot of areas important in life during this conversation; marriage/parenthood, entrepreneurship, success, failure, and the mindset to overcome it all. You are definitely going to want to hear this one…AND, buy some coffee and support a vet, active duty or first responder.

Do you find that you and your significant other keep getting at each others throat over the same thing…your plans? Be it your weekend dinner date, guys night, rec league basketball, or whatever. The two of your plans just don’t seem to be on the same page and it causes tension in the relationship, because it keeps happening. If that’s you, this episode is for you. Let’s chat about keeping your spouse informed and involved. You’ll thank us when you are’t fighting as much anymore.

It seems like these days that anytime a business or company does or doesn’t do something that brings some opposition, it’s time to bring the outrage and of course, boycott. Not that all boycotts are for not, but is it always necessary and is it getting overdone? Listen in to hear Joey and Justin discuss some differing opinions on the subject.

Having a bad day? Unhappy at work? Feel like you’re in a rut? I’m sure we’ve all been there at times, but have you taken a moment to realize how truly blessed your really are? It will change your entire perspective. That’s our discussion topic for this episode.

Life is happening all around you, but it seems that everyone is looking for ways to escape reality. Sports obsessions, video games, TV/movies, you name it. Those aren’t all bad but there needs to be balance. That is the direction of today’s discussion.

Let’s say someone tells you something important. Then what? Do you find yourself sharing things that others may not really want you passing on to someone else? That is the topic in today’s conversation; keeping your word and keeping things to yourself when it isn’t your info to share.

In this episode we discuss one of the driving forces behind our inspiration and passion for Back To Manhood. Sometimes all you need is a nudge in the right direction in order to become a better you. Let this discussion be that for you.

Starting off season 2, Jim Muir joins us to discuss some of his life’s journey’s of the past, present, and future. All which have had part in leading him to his newest venture of writing his first book “Offerings-A Daily Collection of Wit and Wisdom wrapped in an Attitude of Gratitude. This is a great way to kick off season 2 because Jim brings some inspiring perspective that we can all use in our own lives.

Join us for episode 50! We do a recap of getting things started with BTM and looking forward of what’s to come.

Coming at you again with some of life’s “little things” that are often overlooked but oh so easy to apply. The important thing is, when we are aware of things like the ones we discuss in this episode, it makes an impact on the world around us. Listen and apply.

In life, we all wear different hats. Work, personal, romantic, or whatever. Those all require different characteristics from us but we should always be true to who we actually are. Instead, we tend to put on different masks and conform who we are to appeal to others (boss, women, peers). Let’s take off the masks and be ourselves, but not without doing some self evaluation first.

Let’s do this again! Is it manly or not to……..??..Subscribe, download and listen to find out

People pleasers of the world, this one is for you! Giving the answer, No, can be a major challenge. We don’t want to let anyone down, make them mad or upset, or even miss out on anything. However, turning things down is sometimes what is necessary for you and your family. So it’s time to get comfortable telling people no.

Alright guys, let go of the ego a bit here and join us as we discuss male fashion. Yeah, we know it’s not a topic that most men think is a big deal, but we would disagree with that. The clothes you wear, and how you wear them matter. So if you don’t give it much thought or “just don’t care”, this episode is for you.

Are you stuck in a rut? Have you passed up on dreams you had in your past or trying to sift through new developing aspirations? Maybe you just stick to the same old routine day in and out. Well, we think it’s time to put an end to that junk and step into the unknown.

Do you know that person that always butts into a conversation or cuts you off while you are in the middle a story or making a statement? You know you do. Maybe it’s you. Maybe you’re not sure if it is you. In either case, it’s something to be mindful of because nobody likes to be interrupted. So listen in, and wait your turn to talk.

Ok, we get it. Memes are meant to be funny. They’re honest. Just jokes. But are you using them at the expense of other people? in this case, your wife/significant other. Listen in so you know exactly what we meme.

Are you fully aware of your surroundings when you’re out and about? Do you ever even think about these things? If not, you should. For you and for your loved ones. Listen up, protectors of your family.

Today we discuss how we conduct ourselves while at work. This can be a challenging thing for many people. Dealing with co-worker relationships, management, new employees; there are always times that can present themselves where we may not act according to who we are and should be. But we need to be honest with ourselves and address any issues that may be compromising our integrity.

Come on guys, you know you get just as annoyed by group texts that are never-ending, off topic, and at the worst possible times. You feel trapped and it makes you want to throw your phone against the wall. Listen in to hear what we think is the best way to operate group texting.

Cell phone addiction is haunting most all of us; let’s just call it like it is. It’s a problem and we all know it. So let’s get real and chat about it for a bit. And then let’s make the conscious effort to make some changes with our technology usage.

It’s that time of the month again! Time for another round of “manly or not”. Always fun. Always enlightening. And hopefully always challenging to how manly you really are.

Toxic masculinity is one of the hottest topics and points of attack in today’s mixed up, crazy world. So, we are going to take a stab at discussing our views related to the topic. Spoiler alert…masculinity isn’t toxic. Some people are just buttholes!

First official FRIEND ZONE FRIDAY episode! We are joined by two of our very closest friends and the topics discussed are completely off the cuff and range from light-hearted to much deeper. Tune in and enjoy.

We all know we are aging by the day but you aren’t dead until you’re dead. So many people complain of the aches and pains and the lack of energy they have compared to their teen years. Well you can do something about it and it starts with your mindset. As men and leaders, we have to change the way we view that in ourselves because we are imposing self limitations. That’s what we will be discussing in this episode.

Does your female counterpart ever complain that “we never do anything I want do?” That may be because you’ve been selfish and always do the things together that you like the most. We say, take care of your relationships and do some of the things that she loves to do, together. You may learn to like something new while you’re at it…crazy thought.

Right to the point fellas, is it necessary to leave the sink disgustingly full of your facial hair? We’re guessing not. We are also sure that the woman in your life will 100% agree with us. Listen up!

Did you really have a bad day or did you just experience a few minutes that didn’t go your way that you let ruin the rest of your day? On this episode we discuss when we run into that problem and how we can avoid that.

We believe that doing the little things in life make a big difference in the world around us and most of the time they don’t require much extra effort. So in this episode, we are discussing a few of those things and how to easily make a change by taking the time to do simple tasks.

We are continuing the conversation with our guest, Joseph Kosma. The topic of leaving our self limitations behind, stepping out into the unknown, and chasing down your goals. As men, it is important that we change our mindset on these things in order to lead our families to thrive. You will be inspired by Joseph’s perspective and his infectious personality.

Another round of “manly or not.” Always fun. Always enjoyable. Always challenging to your manhood…maybe

We are joined by the awesome Mr. Joseph Kosma in today’s episode. Joseph brings in some incredible insight into the topic of living life without limitations. After a tragic accident nearly 20 years ago, where he shouldn’t have even lived, Joseph has taken what some would say are limitations or handicaps and he has blown the doors off of that life-sentence. From photography to traveling around the world, Joseph will leave you inspired to get off your butt and get out and live!

Time is valuable so we shouldn’t waste it. Especially someone else’s time. So are you someone who is always on time or do you tend to show up when it’s most convenient for you? Check out what we think about showing up on time.

The discussion of forgiveness seems easy but the application, no so much. We discuss the challenges of offering and receiving forgiveness in today’s episode and why it it crucial to be able to truly forgive someone and anyone who has ever done you wrong; for absolutely anything. Yes, anything. Listen in to hear why.