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In this episode, I review a video by Moral Revolution on “waiting on the Lord” vs. active participation in God's will and purpose for your life. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.kingofkings.org/2024/02/07/the-story-of-saint-valentine/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vI23PwnDEfc&t=138sTo become a subscriber of this podcast, visit:https://anchor.fm/seth-hensley/subscribe
Passivity is always a temptation for men. Have you thought about how Aaron's passivity might have affected his children? Listen in.To read the original post, visit https://www.thedisciplemakingparent.com/aaron-and-his-sons/
You are not neutral. You are not safe. You are in a war.In Part II of our Spiritual Warfare series, we move from awareness to intelligence. The battle is real. Now it is time to know the enemy.Demons are not myths, metaphors, or psychological projections. They are fallen angels. Pure intellect. Pure will. Vastly superior to us in nature. And they hate you.We do not fight flesh and blood. We fight principalities and powers. We fight rulers of this present darkness.Demons cannot read your thoughts. They cannot override your free will. They cannot act without permission. But they are strategic. They observe. They apply pressure where you are weakest.Pornography. Pride. Sloth. Anger. Passivity.When men abdicate authority, demons fill the vacuum.Your home is ground zero. Your vocation is the target. If they destabilize you, they destabilize everything beneath you.This episode is battlefield intel. We expose the structure of hell, the tactics of the enemy, and the immediate counterattacks you must implement today.Three immediate actions:Name your vice. Stop being vague. Identify it so you can fight it.Get to confession. State of grace or bust.Invoke your guardian angel daily. Angels go where they are summoned. Demons go where they are not resisted.Order crushes chaos. Discipline weakens demonic influence. A man in a state of grace is not easy prey.Jesus has already won the war. But you must fight your battle.This is not entertainment. This is formation.Push play. Take notes. Then act.Products and References MentionedMystic Monk CoffeeBishop Thomas Olmsted, Into the Breach3 Powerful Quotes from the Episode“If you deny angels, you deny Christ.”“Demons will go where they are not resisted.”“State of grace or bust.”Key Takeaway for Immediate ActionGet to confession immediately if you are in mortal sin. Do not delay. Confession revokes demonic rights and restores you to sanctifying grace. That is sacrament combat.Thank you for your prayers and support!Consider supporting the podcast on our Buy Me A Coffee page (https://buymeacoffee.com/tmc) to help grow the show to reach as many men as possible!Download TAN Digital to access the incredible TAN Library! Use code ‘MANLYCATHOLIC' to get 50% OFF your subscription!Subscribe to our YouTube page: (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxrRLZNk4WqPdgcac5vuWEQ)Check out our website (www.themanlycatholic.com)Contact us at themanlycatholic@gmail.com
February 22, 2026People are going to people… We are around people all the time, whether we are at home, school, or our workplace. We often consider our places of work as mundane—a place we have to go to earn a paycheck. When it comes to the people in these spaces, we can be passive in how we engage our coworkers or bosses. Passivity can breed contempt in us, and we can begin to speak and act toward those around us as if they are “the problem.” What if we viewed our workplace as an opportunity to show the work of Christ in our lives? What if, instead of responding passively to our work and our bosses, we sought to live in a way that glorifies Christ and generates gospel conversations among the people around us? We have been called into this good gospel work, so let's be people who don't simply view work as work, but rather see our workplaces as opportunities to show Christ.1 Peter 2:18-25
Join Leilani and Kimberlyn as they dig into the ways in which religious and spiritual practices can be used to sidestep dealing with difficult truths and looking at what needs to be really seen.Their check-ins: Kimberlyn makes a gift of biodegradable, holographic glitter to Leilani; Leilani shares her adventures as she learns Spanish.Mentioned in the episode: John Welwood; Ingrid Clayton, Recovering Spirituality: Achieving Emotional Sobriety in Your Spiritual Practice; Ellen Bass, “Getting into Bed on a December Night.” Get exclusive content and support us on Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/WitchyWit Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/WitchyWitPodcast Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/Witchy_Wit Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/3azUkFVlECTlTZQVX5jl1X?si=8WufnXueQrugGDIYWbgc3A Apple Podcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/witchy-wit/id1533482466 Pandora:https://pandora.app.link/nNsuNrSKneb Google Podcast:Witchy Wit (google.com)
The good fightMuch of the modern church has forgotten how to fight. We're living off the fumes of the faithful who went before us, but God is awakening His people to take back ground surrendered by passivity.The two deadly imbalances crippling many believers:The "only Grace" Error - Passive Christians who spiritualize their defeat as humility, refusing to engage while blaming darkness on "God's mysterious will." Grace without faith is spiritual paralysis disguised as surrender.The "Only Faith" Error - Religious strivers manufacturing their own agendas, demanding God bless their flesh-driven ambitions, then burning out when their prayers go unanswered. Faith without grace is exhausting self-effort that produces nothing eternal.God's Balance: Grace + FaithGrace is the ammunition God stockpiled through Christ's finished work. Faith is the trigger finger that activates what's already been provided. Every spiritual blessing exists RIGHT NOW in the heavenly realms (Ephesians 1:3)—not waiting to materialize, but waiting for you to ACCESS them.Passivity doesn't honor God's grace—it insults it by leaving His weapons in the armory while the enemy advances.This is the best time in history to spread the gospel AND the worst time to be spiritually asleep. The martyrs shed their blood so we could stand in blessing. Now it's our turn to stand.The fight is real.
In this message, we continue our semester-long series on Freedom by confronting two major barriers to walking in spiritual authority: fear and passivity. While fear is often internalized as anxiety or anticipation of danger, passivity is frequently dismissed as a personality trait rather than recognized as spiritual rebellion.We explore the subtle nature of these strongholds and how to combat them by knowing your identity in Christ and learning to "hide behind the Word" of God. This teaching examines Biblical examples of how passivity leads to destruction and offers a call to active obedience.Key Topics Covered:• The Subtlety of Fear: Moving beyond outward fright to understanding fear as a tormenting anticipation of danger or rejection.• Identity and Authority: An illustration from Ethiopia on how understanding your citizenship changes your confidence in hostile environments.• The Sin of Passivity: Why knowing the good you ought to do and not doing it is a form of rebellion (James 4:17).• Biblical Case Studies:• Adam (Genesis 3:6): Passivity in spiritual leadership.• Eli (1 Samuel 3:13): Failure to restrain sin due to a lack of conviction.• David (2 Samuel 11:1): Seeking comfort instead of the battle.
A jacked 23-year-old put me in a chokehold last Friday. I'm 45. Most people call Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu a hobby. I've started seeing it as elder training.Eldership isn't formed in a seminary classroom or a church board meeting. It's formed in the ordinary rhythms you refuse to quit — the budget meetings, the bedtime Bible readings, the conversations with your kids you'd rather avoid.In this episode, I walk through five weekly habits that are shaping me as I steward my home today and prepare for the authority I'll be trusted with in the Kingdom to come. These aren't theoretical. They're what my family actually does, including the parts I'm still figuring out.If you're a man who senses God is calling you to more than just "being a good dad," this is where that journey gets practical.
Have you ever told yourself you're “at peace”… but deep down, you're just staying quiet to avoid conflict?In this episode of Dare to Be Free, we explore the difference between true peace and passivity disguised as peace — and why so many women confuse being “easy” with being free. Peace isn't self-silencing. It's integrity. It's self-leadership. And sometimes, it requires rocking the boat.You'll learn how to tell the difference in your body, stop calling self-abandonment “calm,” and start speaking truth without aggression or collapse.Want more insights on wealth, freedom, and embodied leadership?Join my weekly newsletter at carriebradley.com.
Good Marriages Require Good Fights 11 Rules for Fighting Without Losing Your Temper, Your Leadership, or Your Wife Episode Summary Most marriages do not fall apart because of conflict. They fall apart because men do not know how to handle it. In this episode, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon lays out a hard but hopeful truth. Conflict in marriage is inevitable. Chaos is not. God has given clear rules for fighting that protect authority, preserve peace, and strengthen unity when a husband leads instead of checks out or explodes. This is not marriage therapy. This is biblical leadership. You will learn why passivity poisons marriages, why egalitarian fighting never resolves anything, and how patriarchy done God’s way makes real peace possible. If your home feels like a constant battlefield or a cold ceasefire, this episode gives you a way forward. Chapter Breaks 00:00 – Why marriage keeps turning into World War III02:05 – Scripture, anger, and why men lose control04:20 – The myth of “peace” without conflict06:40 – Passivity, silence, and why resentment explodes09:00 – What “good fights” actually are11:30 – Choosing the right battles as a leader14:00 – The Tunnel of Chaos explained16:20 – Rule #1: No violence, no intimidation18:45 – Rule #2: Divorce talk is forbidden21:15 – Rule #3: No insults or character assassination23:40 – Rule #4: Stick to the issue at hand26:00 – Rule #5: No checking out28:30 – Rule #6: Timeouts are allowed, abandonment is not32:50 – Rule #7: No mind-reading or motive assigning35:20 – Rule #8: Admit sin quickly and clearly37:45 – Rule #9: Fight for truth, not ego39:55 – Rule #10: Uphold biblical order in the fight44:50 – Why patriarchy makes conflict possible, not oppressive49:40 – Leadership, repentance, and restoring peace About the Show The Patriarchy Podcast features in-depth conversations on faith, culture, theology, and leadership. Each episode equips Christians to live boldly and biblically in an age of compromise. Support the Mission We are raising funds to expand Sovereign King Academy and keep tuition affordable for families.Give here: https://sovereignkingacademy.com Connect with The Patriarchy Podcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePatriarchyPodcastSpotify: https://tinyurl.com/58tm5zjzApple Podcasts: https://tinyurl.com/f3ruzrsaWebsite and all links: https://linktr.ee/thepatriarchypodcast Follow Joseph SpurgeonX: https://x.com/PatriarchyPodInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepatriarchypodcastGab: https://gab.com/thepatriarchypodcast Sponsored By Steadfast Cigars – For men who reject passivity and take dominionOrder: https://steadfastcigars.com Fit Father Project – Stop drifting. Get disciplined. Get strong for life.Start here: https://secure.fitfatherproject.com/a/transformation/4539 Books by Joseph SpurgeonIt’s Good to Be a Boy – https://a.co/d/7zpEh5DIt’s Good to Be a Girl – https://a.co/d/6VlBTzS Final Call to Action Subscribe for more conversations that sharpen men for battle.Turn on notifications so you never miss an episode.Like and share to support biblical masculinity. Until next time, build, fight, protect, and lead. This is the Patriarchy. biblical marriage, Christian marriage, marriage conflict, fighting in marriage, how to fight fair in marriage, biblical headship, patriarchy, Christian masculinity, leadership in marriage, husbands leading, marriage arguments, conflict resolution for couples, biblical authority, marriage roles, rejecting passivity, Christian manhood, masculine leadership, marriage advice for men, patriarchy podcast, Joseph Spurgeon, fighting without divorce, anger control for men, biblical conflict resolution, marriage discipleship, Christian patriarchy
Modern masculinity isn't about dominance, passivity, or burnout hustle—it's about self-command, emotional mastery, and disciplined strength aligned with purpose. Table of Contents Toggle Strength Without Extremes: Reclaiming Modern MasculinityWhat Modern Masculinity Actually RequiresThe Dominance Trap: Power Without StabilityThe Nice Guy Illusion: Avoidance Disguised as VirtueHustle Masculinity: Performance Without PresenceSelf-Command: The Core of Modern MasculinityWhy Modern Masculinity Requires StructureThe Cost of Getting Masculinity WrongThe Point of the PathFrequently Asked Questions About Modern Masculinity Strength Without Extremes: Reclaiming Modern Masculinity Modern masculinity is often described as “lost,” “toxic,” or “under attack.” Those explanations are convenient, dramatic, and mostly wrong. Masculinity isn't disappearing; it's fragmenting. Men are not confused because strength is obsolete, but because the definitions they were handed no longer work in real life. What once promised certainty now produces inner conflict, emotional volatility, or quiet resignation. Modern masculinity is not failing because men are weak—it's failing because the models they're offered are incoherent. If the old versions of masculinity feel too rigid, too hollow, or too extreme in opposite directions, this is where a corrective framework becomes necessary. Not a motivational fix. Not a cultural argument. A recalibration. What I call the Alpha Blueprint is simply a name for this shift: modern masculinity rebuilt from the inside out. Identity before behavior. Self-command before performance. Emotional regulation before dominance. It is not something to buy into or perform. It is something men recognize when they see that modern masculinity must be internally governed before it can ever be externally expressed. What Modern Masculinity Actually Requires At its core, modern masculinity is not a political stance, a personality type, or a social trend. It is a functional orientation to pressure. It answers one essential question: can a man remain grounded, decisive, and emotionally steady when things do not go his way? Any definition of masculinity that collapses under stress is not strength—it is costume. Modern masculinity demands integration. Strength without rigidity. Sensitivity without collapse. Discipline without self-erasure. When masculinity is fragmented, men swing between extremes, overcorrecting instead of stabilizing. The result is not growth but oscillation—power followed by burnout, confidence followed by self-doubt, certainty followed by withdrawal. The current cultural conversation does not suffer from a lack of opinions about masculinity. It suffers from a lack of usable models. Most frameworks train behavior while ignoring the internal operating system that drives it. Modern masculinity requires the opposite approach: internal mastery first, expression second. The Dominance Trap: Power Without Stability One of the loudest distortions of modern masculinity is dominance masculinity—the belief that strength is proven through control. Control of outcomes. Control of others. Control of narrative. This model often masquerades as confidence, but beneath it is an anxious relationship with power. When authority is challenged or outcomes cannot be forced, anger fills the gap. Emotional suppression is praised as discipline. Aggression is mislabeled as strength. Dominance produces men who appear powerful until they encounter resistance they cannot overpower: emotional intimacy, moral ambiguity, or internal doubt. When control fails, collapse follows. Rage, withdrawal, or compulsive proving replace clarity. This is not strength; it is dependency on external leverage. Modern masculinity cannot be built on domination because domination requires an enemy. It demands constant opposition to feel legitimate. Self-command does not. A man grounded in modern masculinity does not need to overpower others to feel anchored in himself. The Nice Guy Illusion: Avoidance Disguised as Virtue At the opposite extreme sits passive masculinity, often framed as being evolved, enlightened, or emotionally intelligent. In reality, it is fear dressed up as virtue. Conflict is avoided. Needs are suppressed. Boundaries dissolve. Approval replaces authority. These men pride themselves on being harmless, yet quietly accumulate resentment and self-doubt. Passivity is not emotional mastery. It is emotional avoidance. Over time, the cost becomes internal erosion: diminished self-respect, muted desire, and anger that leaks out sideways through sarcasm, withdrawal, or self-sabotage. Modern masculinity requires the capacity to say no, to disappoint, and to hold ground without cruelty or collapse. A man who cannot tolerate tension cannot lead himself. Modern masculinity demands the ability to stay present in discomfort rather than retreat into politeness or invisibility. Hustle Masculinity: Performance Without Presence Another distortion of modern masculinity is hustle-only identity—the belief that worth is earned exclusively through output. Grind harder. Sleep less. Produce more. In this model, masculinity becomes a scoreboard, and a man is only as valuable as his most recent win. This approach often looks disciplined on the surface, but it is driven by avoidance of stillness. Identity is outsourced to achievement. When momentum slows or the body breaks down, meaning evaporates. Burnout is reframed as weakness instead of information. Modern masculinity collapses here because performance alone cannot provide orientation or purpose. Without internal alignment, hustle becomes compulsion. Discipline becomes self-punishment. Modern masculinity requires presence, not just productivity. Self-Command: The Core of Modern Masculinity What replaces dominance, passivity, and burnout is self-command. The ability to govern one's inner world before attempting to shape the outer one. Emotional regulation replaces suppression. Discipline replaces compulsion. Strength becomes the capacity to remain steady under pressure rather than reactive under stress. Modern masculinity is not about being emotionless. It is about being emotionally literate without being emotionally ruled. A man with self-command can feel anger without becoming it, fear without obeying it, and desire without being consumed by it. This distinction matters because most failures attributed to masculinity are not failures of intent, but failures of regulation. When emotion runs unchecked, decision-making collapses. Self-command shows up most clearly under emotional load. When a man is criticized, challenged, or disappointed, does he react or respond? Reaction is automatic and externally driven. Response is deliberate and internally governed. Modern masculinity is defined by the space between stimulus and action, where choice replaces impulse. Restraint is often misunderstood as repression. They are not the same. Repression denies emotion and stores it for later explosion. Restraint acknowledges emotion and channels it without letting it dictate behavior. This is a trained capacity, not a personality trait. Men are not born with self-command; they develop it through practice, reflection, and corrective feedback. Discipline, in modern masculinity, is no longer about force or punishment. It is about consistency aligned with values. A disciplined man does not grind himself into exhaustion to prove worth. He applies effort where it matters and withdraws effort where it does not. This creates clarity instead of chaos, sustainability instead of burnout. A man grounded in modern masculinity does not outsource authority to trends, ideologies, or validation. He develops internal standards and lives by them consistently. This is not rigidity; it is coherence. Why Modern Masculinity Requires Structure Insight alone rarely changes behavior. Most men already sense that something is off. What they lack is structure: a way to observe patterns, interrupt defaults, and practice new responses under real-world pressure. Modern masculinity is forged through deliberate training, not passive understanding. This is why structured guidance matters. Not because men need to be told what to think, but because they need environments that expose blind spots and reinforce self-command. Without structure, insight stays theoretical. With structure, identity shifts. The Cost of Getting Masculinity Wrong When masculinity is misdirected, the cost is rarely immediate. It accumulates quietly, then surfaces as anxiety, resentment, or exhaustion. Men operating from dominance live in constant vigilance, always scanning for threats to status or control. Men operating from passivity live in chronic self-betrayal, silencing needs to preserve approval. Men trapped in hustle live disconnected from meaning, confusing motion with direction. The psychological cost is instability. Mood swings, suppressed anger, decision fatigue, and identity confusion become normal. The relational cost is distance. Intimacy requires presence and emotional steadiness, both of which erode when a man is reactive, avoidant, or chronically depleted. Over time, relationships suffer not from lack of effort, but from lack of internal alignment. The existential cost is drift. Without a coherent definition of modern masculinity, men default to external metrics to measure worth. Productivity replaces purpose. Validation replaces values. Eventually, even success feels hollow because it is not anchored to identity. This is why many men report feeling empty at the very moment they are supposed to feel accomplished. Modern masculinity corrects this by restoring internal orientation. When self-command is established, pressure no longer destabilizes identity. Challenges are met without collapse. Responsibility is carried without resentment. This is not self-improvement. It is self-governance. The Point of the Path Modern masculinity is not about returning to the past or surrendering to the present. It is about integration. Strength without brutality. Sensitivity without collapse. Discipline without self-erasure. A man anchored in self-command does not need to dominate, disappear, or exhaust himself to feel worthy. The future of modern masculinity belongs to men who can hold tension without fracturing, power without abuse, and responsibility without resentment. Not louder men. Not harder men. More integrated ones. Frequently Asked Questions About Modern Masculinity What is modern masculinity? Modern masculinity is the capacity for self-command under pressure, integrating strength, emotional regulation, and discipline without relying on dominance, passivity, or constant performance. It matters because men today face complex psychological and social demands that outdated models cannot handle. For example, dominance collapses under intimacy, while passivity erodes self-respect. Modern masculinity provides a stable internal framework rather than a behavioral mask. Is modern masculinity anti-strength? No. Modern masculinity redefines strength as internal stability rather than external control. Physical capability, discipline, and assertiveness still matter, but they are governed by self-awareness and restraint. Without regulation, strength becomes volatility. With regulation, strength becomes reliable and precise. How does modern masculinity differ from traditional masculinity? Traditional masculinity emphasized toughness and provision but often ignored emotional literacy and internal alignment. Modern masculinity retains discipline and responsibility while adding self-regulation and psychological coherence. It evolves the model instead of rejecting it, making strength sustainable rather than brittle. Why do many men struggle with modern masculinity? Many men struggle because they were taught to perform masculinity rather than embody it. They learned behaviors without learning how to regulate emotions, set boundaries, or maintain identity under stress. This creates confusion when old scripts fail. Modern masculinity requires retraining the internal operating system, not adopting another persona. Why is coaching important for developing modern masculinity? Coaching matters because modern masculinity is built through feedback and practice, not insight alone. A coach provides structure, reflection, and accountability that expose blind spots and interrupt unconscious patterns. 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1 Samuel 17 isn't just about a giant in a valley, it's about the conversations that happen long before the battle ever begins.Before David ever picked up a stone, he had to shut down four deadly dialogues that stop most people before they ever reach their calling.The enemy rarely starts with a sword, he starts with a sentence.In this message from 1 Samuel 17, we uncover how David defeated Goliath by refusing to entertain the wrong voices:- Fear that shrinks your worth and exaggerates your obstacles- Passivity that listens but never moves- Critics whose words are loudest when faith rises- Comparison that pressures you to fight battles in armor that doesn't fitIsrael didn't lose because Goliath was big, they stalled because they agreed with him on the inside.David shows us that:- If the enemy can defeat you in your mind, he never has to meet you in the field- Ignored problems don't disappear, THEY GROW.- Faith doesn't just feel, IT MOVES.- Passivity is disobedience in slow motionAs Goliath is still shouting and the valley is still waiting, the question remains:Which voice are you listening to?
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Happy New Year Everyone!In this episode I unpack why healthy male power is actually a force for good in the world and why the true danger lies in powerlessness.I trace how unacknowledged boys can grow into passive or angry men and I talk about the three most important ways that a young boy finds his healthy power as he grows up.Listen in to learn about the differences between male and female power, why being of service in the world is impossible without power, the difference between power and force, and so much more.TIMESTAMPS:00:00 — Intro: Power & Male Happiness 01:05 — Client Wins: Vision & Success 02:46 — The Healer's Story: Releasing Trauma 03:38 — The Spectrum of Powerlessness: Rage vs. Passivity 05:37 — The "Nice Guy" & People Pleasing 06:41 — Defining True Power vs. Force 08:23 — The Extreme Consequence of Isolation 10:51 — Phase 1: Affirmation from Mother 12:52 — The Trap of the "Mother's Son" 14:37 — Phase 2: The Father's Nod of Approval 16:08 — Phase 3: Self-Mastery & Purpose 17:45 — The Impact of a Critical Father 18:44 — Three Traits of an Attractive Man 20:54 — Releasing Trauma from the Body 22:21 — Female Power: Devotion to Love 24:07 — Attraction: Male Power & Female Devotion 25:39 — Balancing Internal & External Worlds 27:07 — Mastermind Announcement 28:33 — New Year Wishes30:09 — Outro___________________________If you found some value today then help me spread the word! Share this episode with a friend or leave a review. This helps the podcast grow.You can also watch the episodes on youtube hereFollow me on Instagram @anyashakhYou can book a discovery call at https://anyashakh.com/mentorship
Imagine for a second that Eckhart Tolle wasn't a spiritual teacher, but a deep cover operative with a gun to his head. And just for a second, pretend that Tolle’s Power of Now wasn't a way to find peace, but a survival mechanism used to slow down time when your reality is collapsing. And your memory has been utterly destroyed by forces beyond your control. Until a good friend helps you rebuild it from the ground up. These are the exact feelings and sense of positive transformation I tried to capture in a project I believe is critical for future autodidacts, polymaths and traditional learners: Vitamin X, a novel in which the world’s only blind memory champion helps a detective use memory techniques and eventually achieve enlightenment. It’s also a story about accomplishing big goals, even in a fast-paced and incredibly challenging world. In the Magnetic Memory Method community at large, we talk a lot about the habits of geniuses like Benjamin Franklin and Thomas Jefferson. We obsess over their reading lists and their daily routines because we want that same level of clarity and intellectual power. But there's a trap in studying genius that too many people fall into: Passivity. And helping people escape passive learning is one of several reasons I’ve studied the science behind a variety of fictional learning projects where stories have been tested as agents of change. Ready to learn more about Vitamin X and the various scientific findings I’ve uncovered in order to better help you learn? Let’s dive in! Defeating the Many Traps of Passive Learning We can read about how Lincoln sharpened his axe for hours before trying to cut down a single tree. And that's great. But something's still not quite right. To this day, tons of people nod their heads at that famous old story about Lincoln. Yet, they still never sharpen their own axes, let alone swing them. Likewise, people email me every day regarding something I've taught about focus, concentration or a particular mnemonic device. They know the techniques work, including under extreme pressure. But their minds still fracture the instant they're faced with distraction. As a result, they never wind up getting the memory improvement results I know they can achieve. So, as happy as I am with all the help my books like The Victorious Mind and SMARTER have helped create in this world, I’m fairly confident that those titles will be my final memory improvement textbooks. Instead, I am now focused on creating what you might call learning simulations. Enter Vitamin X, the Memory Detective Series & Teaching Through Immersion Because here's the thing: If I really want to teach you how to become a polymath, I can't just carry on producing yet another list of tips. I have to drop you into scenarios where you actually feel what it's like to use memory techniques. That's why I started the Memory Detective initiative. It began with a novel called Flyboy. It’s been well-received and now part two is out. And it’s as close to Eckhart Tolle meeting a Spy Thriller on LSD as I could possibly make it. Why? To teach through immersion. Except, it's not really about LSD. No, the second Memory Detective novel centers around a substance called Vitamin X. On the surface, it's a thriller about a detective named David Williams going deep undercover. In actuality, it's a cognitive training protocol disguised as a novel. But one built on a body of research that shows stories can change what people remember, believe, and do. And that's both the opportunity and the danger. To give you the memory science and learning research in one sentence: Stories are a delivery system. We see this delivery system at work in the massive success of Olly Richards’ StoryLearning books for language learners. Richards built his empire on the same mechanism Pimsleur utilized to great effect long before their famous audio recordings became the industry standard: using narrative to make raw data stick. However, a quick distinction is necessary. In the memory world, we often talk about the Story Method. This approach involves linking disparate pieces of information together in a chain using a simple narrative vignette (e.g., a giant cat eating a toaster to remember a grocery list). That is a powerful mnemonic tool, and you will see Detective Williams use short vignettes in the Memory Detective series. But Vitamin X is what I call ‘Magnetic Fiction.’ It's not a vignette. It's a macro-narrative designed to carry the weight of many memory techniques itself. It simulates the pressure required to forge the skill, showing you how and why to use the story method within a larger, immersive context. So with that in mind, let's unpack the topic of fiction and teaching a bit further. That way, you'll know more of what I have in mind for my readers. And perhaps you'll become interested in some memory science experiments I plan to run in the near future. Illustration of “Cafe Mnemonic,” a fun memory training location the Memory Detective David Williams wants to establish once he has enough funds. Fiction as a Teaching Technology: What the Research Says This intersection of story and memory isn't new territory for me. Long before I gave my popular TEDx Talk on memory or helped thousands of people through the Magnetic Memory Method Masterclass, live workshops and my books, I served as a Mercator award-winning Film Studies professor. In this role, I often analyzed and published material regarding how narratives shape our cognition. Actually, my research into the persuasion of memory goes back to my scholarly contribution to the anthology The Theme of Cultural Adaptation in American History, Literature and Film. In my chapter, “Cryptomnesia or Cryptomancy? Subconscious Adaptations of 9/11,” I examined specifically how cultural narratives influence memory formation, forgetting, and the subconscious acceptance of information. That academic background drives the thinking and the learning protocols baked into Vitamin X. As does the work of researchers who have studied narrative influence for decades. Throughout their scientific findings, one idea keeps reappearing in different forms: When a story pulls you in, you experience some kind of “transportation.” It can be that you find yourself deeply immersed in the life of a character. Or you find your palms sweating as your brain tricks you into believing you're undergoing some kind of existential threat. When such experiences happen, you stop processing information like you would an argument through critical thinking. Instead, you start processing the information in the story almost as if they were really happening. As a result, these kinds of transportation can change beliefs and intentions, sometimes without the reader noticing the change happening. That's why fiction has been used for: teaching therapy religion civic formation advertising propaganda Even many national anthems contain stories that create change, something I experienced recently when I became an Australian citizen. As I was telling John Michael Greer during our latest podcast recording, I impulsively took both the atheist and the religious oath and sang the anthem at the ceremony. All of these pieces contain stories and those stories changed how I think, feel and process the world. Another way of looking at story is summed up in this simple statement: All stories have the same basic mechanism. But many stories have wildly different ethics. My ethics: Teach memory improvement methods robustly. Protect the tradition. And help people think for themselves using the best available critical thinking tools. And story is one of them. 6 Key Research Insights on Educational Fiction Now, when it comes to the research that shows just how powerful story is, we can break it down into buckets. Some of the main categories of research on fiction for pedagogy include: 1) Narrative transportation and persuasion As these researchers explain in The Role of Transportation in the Persuasiveness of Public Narratives, transportation describes how absorbed a reader becomes in a story. Psychologists use transportation models to show how story immersion drives belief change. It works because vivid imagery paired with emotion and focused attention make story-consistent ideas easier to accept. This study of how narratives were used in helping people improve their health support the basic point: Narratives produce average shifts in attitudes, beliefs, intentions, and sometimes behavior. Of course, the exact effects vary by topic and the design of the scientific study in question. But the point remains that fiction doesn't merely entertain. It can also train and persuade. 2) Entertainment-Education (EE) EE involves deliberately embedding education into popular media, often with pro-social aims. In another health-based study, researchers found that EE can influence knowledge, attitudes, intentions, behavior, and self-efficacy. Researchers in Brazil have also used large-scale observational work on soap operas and social outcomes (like fertility). As this study demonstrates, mass narrative exposure can shape real-world behavior at scale within a population. Stories can alter norms, not just transfer facts from one mind to another. You’ll encounter this theme throughout Vitamin X, especially when Detective Williams tangles with protestors who hold beliefs he does not share, but seem to be taking over the world. 3) Narrative vs expository learning (a key warning) Here's the part most “educational fiction” ignores: Informative narratives often increase interest, but they don't automatically improve comprehension. As this study found, entertainment can actually cause readers to overestimate how well they understood the material. This is why “edutainment” often produces big problems: You can wind up feeling smarter because you enjoyed an experience. But just because you feel that way doesn't mean you gain a skill you can reliably use. That’s why I have some suggestions for you below about how to make sure Vitamin X actually helps you learn to use memory techniques better. 4) Seductive details (another warning) There's also the problem of effects created by what scientists call seductive details. Unlike the “luminous details” I discussed with Brad Kelly on his Madness and Method podcast, seductive details are interesting but irrelevant material. They typically distract attention and reduce learning of what actually matters. As a result, these details divert attention through interference and by adding working memory demands. The research I’ve read suggests that when story authors don't engineer their work with learning targets in mind, their efforts backfire. What was intended to help learners actually becomes a sabotage device. I've done my best to avoid sabotaging my own pedagogical efforts in the Memory Detective stories so far. That's why they include study guides and simulations of using the Memory Palace technique, linking and number mnemonics like the Major System. In the series finale, which is just entering the third draft now, the 00-99 PAO and Giordano Bruno's Statue technique are the learning targets I’ve set up for you. They are much harder, and that’s why even though there are inevitable seductive details throughout the Memory Detective series, the focus on memory techniques gets increasingly more advanced. My hope is that your focus and attention will be sharpened as a result. 5) Learning misinformation from fiction (the dark side) People don't just learn from fiction. They learn false facts from fiction too. In this study, researchers found that participants often treated story-embedded misinformation as if it were true knowledge. This is one reason using narrative as a teaching tool is so ethically loaded. It can bypass the mental posture we use for skepticism. 6) Narrative “correctives” (using story against misinformation) The good news is that narratives can also reduce misbelief. This study on “narrative correctives” found that stories can sometimes decrease false beliefs and misinformed intentions, though results are mixed. The key point is that story itself is neither “good” or “bad.” It's a tool for leverage, and this is one of the major themes I built into Vitamin X. My key concern is that people would confuse me with any of my characters. Rather, I was trying to create a portrait of our perilous world where many conflicts unfold every day. Some people use tools for bad, others for good, and even that binary can be difficult for people to agree upon. Pros & Cons of Teaching with Fiction Let’s start with the pros. Attention and completion: A good story can keep people engaged, which is a prerequisite for any learning to occur. The transportation model I cited above helps explain why. The Positive Side of Escapism Entering a simulation also creates escapism that is actually valuable. This is because fiction gives you “experience” without real-world consequences when it comes to facing judgment, ethics, identity, and pressure-handling. This is one reason why story has always been used for moral education, not just entertainment. However, I’ve also used story in my Memory Detective games, such as “The Velo Gang Murders.” Just because story was involved did not mean people did not face judgement. But it was lower than my experiments with “Magnetic Variety,” a non-narrative game I’ll be releasing in the future. Lower Reactance Stories can reduce counterarguing compared with overt persuasion, which can be useful for resistant audiences. In other words, you’re on your own in the narrative world. Worst case scenario, you’ll have a bone to pick with the author. This happened to me the other day when someone emailed to “complain” about how I sometimes discuss Sherlock Holmes. Fortunately, the exchange turned into a good-hearted debate, something I attribute to having story as the core foundation of our exchange. Compare this to Reddit discussions like this one, where discussing aspects of the techniques in a mostly abstract way leads to ad hominem attacks. Now for the cons: Propaganda Risk The same reduction in counterarguing and squabbling with groups that you experience when reading stories is exactly what makes narratives useful for manipulation. When you’re not discussing what you’re reading with others, you can wind up ruminating on certain ideas. This can lead to negative outcomes where people not only believe incorrect things. They sometimes act out negatively in the world. The Illusion of Understanding Informative narratives can produce high interest but weaker comprehension and inflated metacomprehension. I’ve certainly had this myself, thinking I understand various points in logic after reading Alice in Wonderland. In reality, I still needed to do a lot more study. And still need more. In fact, “understanding” is not a destination so much as it is a process. Misinformation Uptake People sometimes acquire false beliefs from stories and struggle to discount fiction as a source. We see this often in religion due to implicit memory. Darrel Ray has shown how this happens extensively in his book, The God Virus: How Religion Infects Our Lives and Culture. His book helped explain something that happened to me after I first started memorizing Sanskrit phrases and feeling the benefits of long-form meditation. For a brief period, implicit memory and the primacy effect made me start to consider that the religion I’d grown up with was in fact true and real. Luckily, I shook that temporary effect. But many others aren’t quite so lucky. And in case it isn’t obvious, I’ll point out that the Bible is not only packed with stories. Some of those stories contain mnemonic properties, something Eran Katz pointed out in his excellent book, Where Did Noah Park the Ark? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhQlcMHhF3w The “Reefer Madness” Problem While working on Vitamin X, I thought often about Reefer Madness. In case you haven’t seen it, Reefer Madness began as an “educational” morality tale about cannabis. It's now famous largely because it's an over-the-top artifact of moral panic, an example of how fear-based fiction can be used to shape public belief under the guise of protection. I don’t want to make that mistake in my Memory Detective series. But there is a relationship because Vitamin X does tackle nootropics, a realm of substances for memory I am asked to comment on frequently. In this case, I'm not trying to protect people from nootropics, per se. But as I have regularly talked about over the years, tackling issues like brain fog by taking memory supplements or vitamins for memory is fraught with danger. And since fiction is one of the most efficient way to smuggle ideas past the mind's filters, I am trying to raise some critical thinking around supplementation for memory. But to do it in a way that's educational without trying to exploit anyone. I did my best to create the story so that you wind up thinking for yourself. What I'm doing differently with Vitamin X & the Memory Detective Series I'm not pretending fiction automatically teaches. I'm treating fiction as a delivery system for how various mnemonic methods work and as a kind of cheerleading mechanism that encourages you to engage in proper, deliberate practice. Practice of what? 1) Concentration meditation. Throughout the story, Detective Williams struggles to learn and embrace the memory-based meditation methods of his mentor, Jerome. You get to learn more about these as you read the story. 2) Memory Palaces as anchors for sanity, not party tricks. In the library sequence, Williams tries to launch a mnemonic “boomerang” into a Memory Palace while hallucinatory imagery floods the environment. Taking influence from the ancient mnemonist, Hugh of St. Victor, Noah's Ark becomes a mnemonic structure. Mnemonic images surge and help Detective Williams combat his PTSD. To make this concrete, I've utilized the illustrations within the book itself. Just as the ancients used paintings and architectural drawings to encode knowledge, the artwork in Vitamin X isn’t just decoration. During the live bootcamp I’m running to celebrate the launch, I show you how to treat the illustrations as ‘Painting Memory Palaces.’ This effectively turns the book in your hands into a functioning mnemonic device, allowing you to practice the method of loci on the page before you even step out into the real world. Then there’s the self-help element, which takes the form of how memory work can help restore sanity. A PTSD theme runs throughout the Memory Detective series for two deliberate reasons. First, Detective Williams is partly based on Nic Castle. He's a former police officer who found symptom relief for his PTSD from using memory techniques. He shared his story on this episode of the Magnetic Memory Method Podcast years ago. Second, Nic's anecdotal experience is backed up by research. And even if you don't have PTSD, the modern world is attacking many of us in ways that clearly create similar symptom-like issues far worse than the digital amnesia I've been warning about for years. We get mentally hijacked by feeds, anxiety loops, and synthetic urgency. We lose our grip on reality and wonder why we can't remember what we read five minutes ago. That's just one more reason I made memory techniques function as reality-tests inside Vitamin X. 3) The critical safeguard: I explicitly separate fiction from technique. In Flyboy's afterword, I put it plainly: The plot is fictional, but the memory techniques are real. And because they're real, they require study and practice. I believe this boundary matters because research shows how easily readers absorb false “facts” from fiction. 4) To help you practice, I included a study guide. At the end of both Flyboy and Vitamin X, there are study guides. In Vitamin X, you'll find a concrete method for creating a Mnemonic Calendar. This is not the world's most perfect memory technique. But it's helpful and a bit more advanced than a technique I learned from Jim Samuels many years ago. In his version, he had his clients divide the days of the week into a Memory Palace. For his senior citizens in particular, he had them divide the kitchen. So if they had to take a particular pill on Monday, they would imagine the pill as a giant moon in the sink. Using the method of loci, this location would always serve as their mnemonic station for Monday. In Vitamin X, the detective uses a number-shape system. Either way, these kinds of techniques for remembering schedules are the antidote to the “illusion of understanding” problem, provided that you put them to use. They can be very difficult to understand if you don't. Why My Magnetic Fiction Solves the “Hobbyist” Problem A lot of memory training fails for one reason: People treat it as a hobby. They “learn” techniques the way people “learn” guitar: By watching a few videos and buying a book. While the study material sits on a shelf or lost in a hard drive, the consumer winds up never rehearsing. Never putting any skill to the test. And as a result, never enjoying integration with the techniques. What fiction can do is create: emotional stakes situational context identity consistency (“this is what I do now”) and enough momentum to carry you into real practice That's the point of the simulation. You're not just reading about a detective and his mentor using Memory Palaces and other memory techniques. You're watching what happens when a mind uses a Memory Palace to stay oriented. And you can feel that urgency in your own nervous system while you read. That's the “cognitive gym” effect, I'm going for. It's also why I love this note from Andy, because it highlights the exact design target I'm going for: “I finished Flyboy last night. Great book! I thought it was eminently creative, working the memory lessons into a surprisingly intricate and entertaining crime mystery. Well done!” Or as the real-life Sherlock Holmes Ben Cardall put it the Memory Detective stories are: …rare pieces of fiction that encourages reflection in the reader. You don’t just get the drama, the tension and the excitement from the exploits of its characters. You also get a look at your own capabilities as though Anthony is able to make you hold a mirror up to yourself and think ‘what else am I capable of’? A Practical Way to Read These Novels for Memory Training If you want the benefits without the traps we've discussed today: Read Vitamin X for immersion first (let transportation do its job). Then read it again with a simple study goal. This re-reading strategy is important because study-goal framing will improve comprehension and reduce overconfidence. During this second read-through, actually use the Mnemonic Calendar. Then, test yourself by writing out what you remember from the story. If you make a mistake, don't judge yourself. Simply use analytical thinking to determine what went wrong and work out how you can improve. The Future: Learning Through Story is About to Intensify Here's the uncomfortable forecast: Even though I’m generally pro-AI for all kinds of outcomes and grateful for my discussions with Andrew Mayne about it (host of the OpenAI Podcast), AI could make the generation of personalized narratives that target your fears, identity, and desires trivial. That means there’s the risk that AI will also easily transform your beliefs. The same machinery that can create “education you can't stop reading” can also create persuasion you barely notice. Or, as Michael Connelly described in his novel, The Proving Ground, we might notice the effects of this persuasion far more than we’d like. My research on narrative persuasion and misinformation underscores why this potential outcome is not hypothetical. So the real question isn't “Should we teach with fiction?” The question is: Will we build fiction that creates personal agency… or engineer stories that steal it? My aim with Flyboy, Vitamin X and the series finale is simple and focused on optimizing your ability: to use story as a motivation engine to convert that motivation into deliberate practice to make a wide range of memory techniques feel as exciting for you as they are for me and to give your attention interesting tests in a world engineered to fragment it. If you want better memory, this is your challenge: Don't read Vitamin X for entertainment alone. Read it to see if you can hold on to reality while the world spins out of control. When you do, you'll be doing something far rarer than collecting tips. You'll be swinging the axe. A very sharp axe indeed. And best of all, your axe for learning and remembering more information at greater speed will be Magnetic.
Are you tired of feeling stuck, passive, and unsure how to step into the call of God on your life? In this Prophetic Spiritual Warfare teaching, Kathy DeGraw exposes the enemy's tactic of delay and equips you to activate your destiny, birth your vision, and stop wasting your God-given potential. Purchase Kathy's book Healed at Last – Overcome Sickness to Receive your Physical Healing on Amazon https://a.co/d/6a6mt8w or at: https://www.kathydegrawministries.org/healed-at-last/ Purchase Anointing Oil with a prayer cloth that Kathy has personally mixed and prayed over on Kathy's Website or Amazon. Order anointing oil by Kathy on Amazon look for her brand here https://amzn.to/3PC6l3R or Kathy DeGraw Ministries https://www.kathydegrawministries.org/product-category/oils/ Training, Mentorship and Deliverance! Personal coaching, deliverance, ecourses, training for ministry, and mentorships! https://www.kathydegrawministries.org/training/# Too many believers are anointed, but neutralized by passivity, delay, and fear of the unknown. In this powerful message, Kathy DeGraw calls you out of spiritual stagnation and into your full kingdom destiny. Through real-life stories of launching products, getting books published, stepping into television and podcasting, and birthing ministry from her own living room, Kathy shows you how to partner with the Holy Spirit and the right mentorship to activate your calling and break passivity for good. You'll discover why unused potential is not just unfortunate—it's disobedience that can open doors to procrastination, fear, and generational strongholds. Kathy challenges you to stop waiting for the perfect building, budget, or platform and start taking prophetic action with what you have in your hands right now. Whether God is stirring you to write a book, launch a podcast, start a business, or serve more deeply in your local church, this episode will ignite your faith, confront excuses, and give you practical steps to move from hearing to doing. It is time to rise up, get your boots on, and run hard after your God-given purpose. #propheticspiritualwarfare #activateyourcalling #breakpassivity #kathydegraw #kingdompurpose **Connect with Us** - Website: https://www.kathydegrawministries.org/ - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kathydegraw/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kathydegraw/ Podcast - Subscribe to our YouTube channel and listen to Kathy's Podcast called Prophetic Spiritual Warfare, or on Spotify at https://open.spotify.com/show/3mYPPkP28xqcTzdeoucJZu or Apple podcasts at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/prophetic-spiritual-warfare/id1474710499 **Recommended Resources:** - Receive a free prayer pdf on Warfare Prayer Declarations at https://kathydegrawministries.org/declarations-download - Kathy's training, mentoring and ecourses on Spiritual Warfare, Deliverance and the Prophetic: https://training.kathydegrawministries.org/ - Healed At Last ~ Overcome Sickness and Receive your Physical Healing: https://www.kathydegrawministries.org/healed-at-last/ - Mind Battles – Root Out Mental Triggers to Release Peace!: https://www.kathydegrawministries.org/product/mind-battles-pre-order-available-january-2023/ -Kathy has several books available on Amazon or kathydegrawministries.org **Support Kathy DeGraw Ministries:** - Give a one-time love offering or consider partnering with us for $15, $35, $75 or any amount! Every dollar helps us help others! - Website: https://www.kathydegrawministries.org/donate/ - CashApp $KDMGLORY - Venmo @KD-Ministries - Paypal.me/KDeGrawMinistries or donate to email admin@degrawministries.org - Mail a check to: Kathy DeGraw Ministries ~ PO Box 65 ~ Grandville MI 49468
Hello EICherries. We imagine you're all quietly quitting your work obligations right now, as we slither towards the end of 2025... but today we're going to be talking about the women who are quietly quitting their husbands.What is quiet quitting a marriage? It's the slow, silent retreat that often happens behind closed doors when one partner, often a woman in midlife, simply checks out. Despite the fact that divorce rates among older adults have climbed over the past few decades, countless couples are staying together, because separation feels too exhausting, too financially risky, or too disruptive to the lives they've built. And in many cases, their husbands don't even realise how far things have drifted until it's too late.Monica Corcoran Harel writes ‘Passivity came up again and again in my reporting: Husbands tune out their disenchanted wives like Charlie Brown deflects the monotonous drone of his schoolteacher. They make flimsy promises to engage more on an emotional level or to help out around the house. Maybe they vacuum for a month or two. Or act all intrigued when a partner vents about an incapable colleague. But eventually, the extra-credit effort falls by the wayside or just doesn't feel like enough. In some cases, the man's need to be lauded for taking on a fraction of the physical load only punctuates how much a woman has to accomplish every single day.'We get into it!Thank you so much for your takes on this topic, we love being in conversation with you all and hope you enjoy the episode, O,R,B xxThe Women Quietly Quitting Their Husbands Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this powerful shortcast of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett and Nick expose one of the most dangerous forces shaping modern men: passivity. Drawing from Scripture, real leadership experience, and hard-earned battlefield lessons, they dismantle the seven lies that keep men stuck, ineffective, and spiritually asleep.Modern culture celebrates “go with the flow” attitudes, conflict avoidance, and emotional softness — but none of that looks like Jesus. Garrett reminds us that Christ was never passive. He confronted lies, protected truth, and led with courage. Real masculinity creates strength, protection, and flourishing — not weakness or drift. Inside this episode, you'll discover: The Top 7 Passive Lies Men Believe Each lie is unpacked with practical examples and Biblical clarity:“I'm just being patient.” Learn the difference between godly patience and spiritual laziness.“I don't want to make things worse.” How fear of conflict quietly destroys families, marriages, and leadership.“I'm just laid back.” Why “laid back” can actually be a denial of responsibility.“It's not a big deal.” The massive danger of minimizing problems.“I don't feel motivated.” How children follow feelings — men follow truth.“I don't want to be controlling.” Why real leadership is invitation, not domination.“If God wants it to change, He'll change it.” One of the most damaging forms of spiritual passivity.Sign up for the 2026 New Year's Day Ice Bath event hereGet the Purpose Playbook by clicking hereGet the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking hereJoin us in Mindset Mastery by clicking hereIf you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here.Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking hereGET IN TOUCHSocial Media - @theimpossiblelifeEmail - info@theimpossible.life
Being passive, doing nothing and turning a blind eye to the harm, abuse and injustice that lives on the planet is one of the many forms of collective powerlessness that locks us all into living on the old earth. In this podcast Ellie & Danny go into how and why this shows up in our reality. The Masters of Self University PODCAST is your highest source of Sacred Truth and Universal Wisdom, offered by Rachel Fiori, mystical teacher, psycho-energetic healer, & CEO. Join our journey of soul transformation with hosts Ellie Lee, Danny Morley, and the rest of our amazing Certified Mystical Coaches of Oneness™.Student Enrollment Information: https://www.mastersofselfuniversity.com/university-enrollmentENTER THE PORTAL TO ONENESS https://www.mastersofselfuniversity.com/portal-to-onenessRachel's Book on Amazon: https://shorturl.at/hkyLRMasters of Self University: https://mastersofselfuniversity.com/Ellie's Social Media: https://www.tiktok.com/@ellieyjlee https://www.instagram.com/ellieyjleeDanny's Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/dannyfmorley https://www.tiktok.com/@dannyfmorley www.youtube.com/@DannyfMorley
For years, we've taught that the mission can't be confined to a building or reduced to seasonal events. Mission must be lived out daily — where disciples live, work, learn, and play. But here's the challenge most churches never talk about: when we shift the weight of mission onto personal, everyday responsibility, some disciples don't step deeper into mission… they step back from it.Not because the vision is wrong — but because without clear on-ramps and shared moments of united effort, passion can fade and passivity can creep in.In this episode, Kris and Ken unpack what a holistic missional culture really looks like. They explore why individual missional living must remain the primary engine of the Great Commission, and how wisely-designed corporate efforts can ignite, reinforce, and accelerate that personal passion without falling back into event-driven evangelism.If you're trying to build a missional church without creating spectators or complacency, this conversation offers the clarity and practical insight your team needs.
Richard Gearhart and Elizabeth Gearhart, co-hosts of Passage to Profit Show interview “The Business Bully”, Dave Anderson, Melissa Franks from OnCall COO and life and fitness coach Derick Johnson. Dave Anderson is back — and he's not holding anything back. Seven years after his first appearance, 21 time best selling author and former radio executive "The Business Bully" returns with hard truths about discipline, identity, and why most people never reach the success they say they want. If you're tired of excuses, ready for a breakthrough, and craving a mindset reset heading into 2025, this episode is your wake-up call. Read more at: https://www.thebusinessbully.com/ Meet Melissa Franks, the powerhouse Fractional COO and founder of On Call COO, who went from administrative assistant to leading a $350M company—and now helps small businesses scale with the proven strategies that make growth faster, easier, and unstoppable. Read more at: https://www.melissafranks.com/ Meet Derick Johnson, a U.S. Army Veteran turned life and fitness coach, bestselling author, and keynote speaker who helps leaders and teams build unshakable resilience, discipline, and mental strength to thrive in every area of life. Read more at: https://fitwithderick.com/ Whether you're a seasoned entrepreneur, a startup, an inventor, an innovator, a small business or just starting your entrepreneurial journey, tune into Passage to Profit Show for compelling discussions, real-life examples, and expert advice on entrepreneurship, intellectual property, trademarks and more. Visit https://passagetoprofitshow.com/ for the latest updates and episodes. Chapters (00:00:00) - Start a Business(00:00:22) - Passage to Profit(00:01:44) - What's the Biggest Lie Entrepreneurs Tell themselves?(00:02:26) - What's the Biggest Lie Entrepreneurs Tell themselves?(00:02:59) - What's the Biggest Lie Entrepreneurs Tellselves?(00:04:07) - What separates the dreamers from the doers?(00:05:54) - The Importance of Marketing in Business(00:09:38) - Execution of a Plan(00:13:18) - How to Manage Stress(00:14:36) - Derek the Personal Trainer(00:15:54) - Killing Yesterday: How to Stop Sticking(00:18:17) - You Had Extra Skin For Burn Victims(00:19:23) - Business is a Blood Sport(00:21:09) - Dave Anderson on The Real Black Agenda(00:23:39) - Passage to Profit(00:25:08) - The Cruise Line Hotline(00:26:06) - Dave Anderson on How to Win at Life(00:29:03) - Dave on Finding His Purpose in Life(00:31:40) - Find Your Why(00:34:07) - Dave Anderson: Using AI in Business(00:36:48) - Six Ways Businesses Are Using AI(00:38:22) - How AI Is Affecting Your Life(00:39:51) - How to Build an AI-Augmented Law Firm(00:42:25) - ChatGPT and LLMs: Best AI Filmmaking(00:47:44) - "ChatGPT"(00:48:06) - Should Businesses Protect Personal Prompts?(00:49:11) - AI for Women(00:50:15) - Intellectual Property 101(00:52:02) - Passivity to Profit(00:54:38) - USPTO Cancels 52,000 Fake Trademarks In(00:57:16) - Confessions of an Accidental Entrepreneur(00:59:41) - What Does a COO Do?(01:00:56) - In the Elevator With COO(01:01:53) - How to Convince the Business Owner to Make Changes(01:06:12) - What Do Fractional COOs Look For?(01:07:53) - A C-Suite Team(01:09:14) - Building Trust in the Small Business(01:11:31) - How Much History Should a COO Know?(01:13:34) - Why Women Entrepreneurs Need Professional Advice(01:15:23) - How to Recover From Trauma(01:18:44) - 3 Tips For Overcoming Trauma As A Bullied Student(01:20:37) - What Is It That Makes Derek So Different?(01:21:46) - Social Anxiety Rescued by a Professional(01:23:14) - How Do You Manage Your Coaching and Fitness Routine?(01:25:36) - How to Win an Eating Addiction(01:28:35) - Diet and hydration for diabetes(01:29:45) - Seasons of Learning: Getting unstuck(01:30:23) - Personal Injury Lawyers(01:31:29) - More Questions Needed for Life(01:32:43) - Secret of the Entrepreneurial Mind(01:33:44) - Derek Johnson(01:35:38) - My Secret to Using AI
Join us as Pastor Mark teaches through 1 Samuel 14, comparing Jonathan and Saul's different approaches to God's plan in the battle against the Philistines. If you like what you hear, or want to learn more visit our website, www.hopeinanderson.com
Franchise ownership sounds like freedom, but most owners learn the hard way. Passivity doesn't pay unless you earn it.In this episode, Rick Mayo sits down with Erik Van Horn, veteran franchisee, franchisor, investor, and founder of Front Street Equity Partners.With decades of experience across all sides of the franchise table, Erik unpacks what it really takes to thrive in franchising.They explore the true meaning of “semi-absentee” ownership, why early-stage franchisees need a pioneer mindset, and how building strong operating partnerships is key to scale.Erik also shares his personal entrepreneurial journey from a college grad avoiding construction to running dozens of franchise units and advisory businesses.They also touch on advisory masterminds, the importance of being teachable, and the hidden cost of cheap leadership.Tune in!Key TakeawaysIntro (00:00)Erik Van Horn's background and early career (03:51)Transition to franchising and business expansion (06:49)Current business activities and franchise consulting (10:28)Character traits for successful franchisees (12:39)Semi-absentee ownership and business structure (20:32)Investing in franchises and passive income (22:06)Final thoughts and future plans (32:41)Additional Resources:- Franchise Secrets Franchise Secrets Group: https://web.facebook.com/groups/franchisesecretsfb/?_rdc=1&_rdr#Scalable Franchise: https://scalablefranchise.com/—- Alloy Personal Training- Learn About The Alloy Franchise Opportunity---------You can find the podcast on Apple, Google, Spotify, Stitcher, or wherever you listen to podcasts.If you haven't already, please rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts!
In this special backstage episode of The Built Different Podcast, recorded live from the AACC 2025 United World Conference in Nashville, TN, Dr. Zach Clinton and Joshua Broome sit down with best-selling author and renowned global minister John Bevere for a powerful and prophetic conversation. In today’s conversation John brings a timely word to the Church, addressing the spiritual realities shaping our culture and calling believers to stand firm in this critical hour. The conversation dives into: the divided culture we find ourselves in and how the enemy uses offense and division to disarm believers; exposing how distraction and compromise weaken the Church; a stirring challenge for men to rise up as spiritual leaders in their homes and communities; exploring Ephesians 2:10 and how every believer has God-given gifts to fulfill their divine purpose; why it’s time for the Church to prepare for the return of Christ with urgency and purity; how one of the most important things in life may not be what you do but who you raise and the legacy you leave behind; and a final word of hope, encouragement, and motivation for leaders to live boldly and intentionally in this cultural moment. This episode will stir your spirit, sharpen your focus, and strengthen your resolve to live faithfully and courageously in the days ahead.Mentioned in this episode:Find Out More About John: https://johnbevere.com/Pick up a Copy of one of John’s best-selling Books: https://store.messengerinternational.org/collections/books-by-john-bevere?__hstc=200411057.a8e2129780919694fa9b8c08bca59855.1761337852882.1761337852882.1761337852882.1&__hssc=200411057.1.1761337852882&__hsfp=1542494017Find Out More About Messenger International: https://messengerinternational.org/Subscribe to John’s YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@johnbeveretv?si=GtPelJKWlNjweTsAStruggling with Purpose, Anxiety, Addiction, etc.? Get Help Today: https://christiancareconnect.com/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
7 Lies That Destroy Men 7 Lies That Destroy Men. (1:33) #1 - Pornography, what's the big deal? (3:01) #2 - Video games, they're fun. (12:39) #3 - Consumerism. (18:55) #4 - Your value is connected to how much you can earn. (22:07) #5 – Passivity. (26:06) #6 – Alpha male/False masculinity. (30:32) #7 - Chase lots of women. (32:06) Related Links/Products Mentioned Here's How To Break Free From Porn, Restore Intimacy In Your Relationships & Live A Life of Freedom Using The DeepClean™ System. Access to masterclasses on intimacy, purpose, and healthy relationships. A private brotherhood community for daily accountability and support. Visit: https://deepcleancoaching.com/mindpump **Plus, all members who join get MAPS 15 for free . There's a 30-day money-back guarantee, so you've got nothing to lose. ** October Special: MAPS GLP-1 50% off! ** Code GLP50 at checkout. ** Mind Pump Store Mind Pump #2705: How to Quit Pornography with Sathiya Sam Mind Pump #2132: Six Reasons Men Today are Weak Here's Proof Buying More Stuff Actually Makes You Miserable The Impact on Kids of Dad's Faith and Church Attendance Mind Pump Podcast – YouTube Mind Pump Free Resources People Mentioned Dan Bilzerian (@danbilzerian) Instagram
In this episode, host Etienne Nichols and guest Dr. Allison Komiyama, CEO and Founder of Blue Stocking Health, dive into a fascinating dialogue about the language used in healthcare and MedTech, particularly the terms patient, customer, and user. They explore how these words influence the perception of care, service, and the entire medical device development process. The conversation touches on the friction and inefficiencies that arise when the relationship dynamic is unclear, highlighting the different nuances between passively receiving treatment and being an active consumer of health services.The discussion delves into the historical context of the word "patient," which is rooted in the Latin patior, meaning 'to suffer.' Dr. Komiyama shares insights from industry conferences, noting that many individuals prefer to be called a "person" or an "empowered patient" rather than a passive sufferer. This ties directly into the growing movement of individuals seeking to own their health and be active participants in their care, fueled by readily available information and a focus on health span over just disease treatment.Ultimately, the key takeaway for MedTech innovators is the importance of understanding their end-user and tailoring their language—in labeling, clinical studies, and human factors testing—to align with the user's preferred terminology. The shift from "caregiver" to "care partner" is highlighted as a prime example of evolving language that acknowledges a collaborative, mutual relationship, moving away from a hierarchical structure to one of shared purpose.Key Timestamps[0:01:25] - Introduction to Dr. Allison Komiyama and Blue Stocking Health's mission to amplify the good of MedTech.[0:04:14] - Discussion begins: Patient vs. Customer vs. User in MedTech.[0:06:05] - The etymology of "patient" (patior, to suffer) and the push for "person" or "empowered patient."[0:08:22] - Historical context: Passivity of the patient role and the doctor's assumed knowledge.[0:09:50] - The impact of consumerism, AI, and the "health span" movement on patient empowerment.[0:12:35] - The value of seeking multiple opinions and the role of patient priorities in customizing care.[0:15:30] - Shifting terminology: Why "caregiver" is moving toward "care partner."[0:18:22] - How language diversity enriches the conversation and enhances communication.[0:21:00] - Tying diverse language use to MedTech innovation and product development.[0:22:15] - The importance of understanding end-user biases and assumptions in MedTech.[0:24:25] - Impactful personal stories: How specific interactions define a positive care experience.[0:29:10] - Concluding thoughts: Why plurality and qualifiers (e.g., "empowered patient") may be the ideal goal.Quotes"I think there's a lot of folks at FDA even that we're like, we don't want to use the word patient. We want to use the word person. And patient actually comes from the term patior, which means to suffer." - Dr. Allison KomiyamaTakeawaysRegulatory & Clinical Strategy: When defining the target population for your device—in 510k, IDE, or PMA submissions—be mindful of the terminology. Consider using terms like "end-user," "person living with [condition]," or "care partner" alongside "patient" to reflect a modern, inclusive understanding of...
Passivity is one of the absolute worst things for a man. If a man wants to kill off his masculinity and life force energy, all he has to do is be passive. Well… seeing as how this is deeply detrimental, not only to men themselves but to everyone in human society, in this video, we will be diving deep on this topic of passivity and men and what to do about it.
TODAY'S LESSONIf there's one enemy that has quietly destroyed more homes, weakened more men, and silenced more faith than anything else, it's not lust, greed, or fear. It's passivity.It started in the garden. The serpent didn't sneak up on Eve in secret — Adam was right there. He heard the lie. He watched the deception. And he said… nothing.Silence was his downfall.That same silence still poisons men today. It shows up when we see problems in our families but hope someone else will fix them. When we avoid hard conversations. When we stay “neutral” to keep the peace. When we let culture disciple our children while we stay distracted on our phones.Brother, passivity is not peacekeeping — it's surrender.Every time you avoid spiritual leadership, you leave a vacuum the enemy is all too eager to fill.A godly man doesn't wait for someone else to move. He steps up. He initiates prayer, correction, service, and love. He doesn't need perfect conditions — he obeys in imperfect moments.Because leadership isn't about convenience. It's about conviction.We need men who will confront sin, not excuse it. Men who will protect their wives and daughters from the cultural wolves. Men who will lead their homes even when it costs them comfort.Rejecting passivity doesn't mean becoming controlling or harsh — it means taking responsibility. Adam's sin wasn't what he did; it was what he refused to do.And the second Adam, Jesus Christ, reversed that curse by acting — stepping into the mess, standing in the gap, and saving humanity through obedience.You want to know what godly masculinity looks like?It looks like Jesus — active, alert, and absolutely unwilling to stand by while evil advances.
This sermon explores David's experience in the "Valley of the Shadow of Death," found in the later chapters of 2 Samuel, where he faces betrayal by his son Absalom and is forced to flee Jerusalem. The message outlines three critical lessons for believers navigating their own rock-bottom moments. First, it teaches that Humility is not Passivity, demonstrating how David engaged in strategic, hopeful action by sending Hushai back to the city rather than resigning himself to fate. Second, it highlights the importance of Active Hope, illustrated by David's refusal to retaliate against Shimei's curses, trusting that God would use the suffering for good. Finally, the sermon stresses the need to Not Isolate, encouraging believers to accept life-giving community and support, just as David accepted the provision of Shobi, Machir, and Barzillai in the wilderness. Ultimately, the message assures listeners that the valley is not where faith dies, but where true trust in God's fidelity thrives.
reference: Sri Aurobindo, Bases of Yoga, Chapter 1, Calm — Peace — Equality, pp. 15-16This episode is also available as a blog post at https://sriaurobindostudies.wordpress.com/2025/10/05/equality-is-not-inert-passivity-to-circumstances/Video presentations, interviews and podcast episodes are allavailable on the YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@santoshkrinsky871More information about Sri Aurobindo can be found at www.aurobindo.net The US editions and links to e-book editions of SriAurobindo's writings can be found at Lotus Press www.lotuspress.com
Simone Halpin, Kelly Brady, & John Vandervelde, and Matt Marron respond to questions from Kelly's sermon on Sunday Oct. 5, 2025.
“Helper” in Genesis 2:18 isn't a downgrade—it's ezer kenegdo: a powerful ally corresponding to. Steve & Colleen explore God's original design, how sin distorted it, and how Jesus restores mutuality (Gal 3:28). Practical for marriage, ministry, friendships, and singles—plus a Zechariah 2:5 prayer of protection and presence.Here's the link to prayer of protection: https://embracingbrokenness.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/A-Wall-of-Fire-Around-Us-Crafted-Prayer-Zechariah-2-5.pdfChapters0:00 – Opening: generational context & show intro1:42 – Welcome back; why Genesis; episode title set-up3:52 – Prayer of protection (Zechariah 2:5)5:19 – Why pray aloud; prison context; PDF mention7:26 – Genesis 2:18 read; intro to ezer kenegdo9:45 – “Helper” and identity: Colleen's story12:03 – God as ezer (rescuer/ally)13:07 – Psalm 33:20 (ESV) — “he is our help and our shield”14:30 – Kenegdo = corresponding/face-to-face; headship/submission clarified15:17 – Misuse of “submission”; weight of responsibility on the head17:11 – The Fall's fracture (Genesis 3:16)18:44 – Consequences vs “curse” explained22:28 – Passivity & cultural misuse (lighthearted “15:1 words” moment)23:55 – Missing female leadership; global harms (trafficking/war)28:13 – Restoration in Christ (Galatians 3:28)30:13 – Jesus' model: children, Samaritan woman, bleeding woman; Deborah34:45 – Personal stories: upbringing & marriage dynamics36:38 – Complementary gifts in ministry (“professor” bit)38:38 – Serving posture & witness; mission snapshots42:35 – Partnership anecdotes & outside observations44:53 – For singles & spiritual companionship (Ecclesiastes 4:9–10)46:53 – Abiding in Christ & finding community47:29 – “Tapestry” metaphor & New Jerusalem vision51:16 – Closing reflections51:36 – Outro / blessings
Hitting rock bottom is one of the most painful human experiences - when the future is blurry, the past feels heavy, and you barely recognize the person staring back in the mirror. Maybe it’s the end of a relationship, losing your job, battling addiction, or simply feeling like everything you built has crumbled. In this episode, we explore what those lowest points really feel like, why we sometimes end up there, and how, against all odds, they can become the very place where healing and transformation begin. We explore: • What rock bottom feels like• The role of identity collapse and self-concept clarity• Passivity, external locus of control, and addiction as routes to rock bottom• Our dark night of the soul and searching for meaning• Why rock bottom can motivate change• 5 tips climbing out and rebuilding self-concept If you’ve ever felt like you’ve lost control, lost yourself, or lost your way - this episode is for you. ORDER MY BOOK Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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From the very beginning, passivity has been man's greatest temptation. Adam's first failure in the garden wasn't eating the fruit—it was standing silent while the serpent deceived his wife. And that same temptation still stalks men today. It whispers, “Stay quiet. Don't rock the boat. Don't get involved.” But passivity leaves gaps the enemy loves to exploit. God is calling His men to reject passivity, to step up, and to lead with courage even when it feels uncomfortable.Our springboard for today's discussion is:“Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.” — 1 Corinthians 16:13 (ESV)Passivity shows up in all kinds of ways. Sometimes it's staying silent when your family needs your voice. Sometimes it's ignoring sin instead of confronting it. Other times, it's choosing the easy road of comfort instead of stepping into the hard work of responsibility.But the call of God on a man's life is the exact opposite. Paul's words here are active, not passive: Be watchful. Stand firm. Act like men. Be strong. These are battle commands. They're reminders that following Christ means taking action when others shrink back.Rejecting passivity doesn't mean being loud or aggressive. It means being alert, engaged, and willing to take responsibility. It means initiating prayer in your home, stepping into leadership in your church, and protecting your family spiritually when the enemy comes knocking.Brother, passivity may feel safe, but it always costs more in the end. Silence today can turn into bondage tomorrow. When men refuse to lead, the enemy gladly will. But when you stand firm in faith, speak truth in love, and act with strength, you slam the door in the enemy's face.The world says, “Do nothing and keep the peace.” God says, “Stand up and fight for what matters.”Question of the Day:Where are you tempted to stay passive right now—and how is God calling you to step in with strength?Mini Call to Action:Take one step of initiative today. Lead a prayer, start a conversation, or confront a compromise you've been avoiding.Prayer:Lord, forgive me for the times I've chosen silence over courage. Teach me to be watchful, to stand firm, and to step up when You call. Make me a man who rejects passivity and embraces responsibility.Let's Get To Work!Passivity builds weakness. Responsibility builds warriors. Step up, Brother—the world needs men who will not stand silent.Thanks for reading My Reasons To Believe! This post is public so feel free to share it.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Welcome to The Daily, where we study the Bible verse by verse, chapter by chapter, every day. Get behind our through the Bible project. Read more here Project23. Our text today is Judges 5:13–18. “Then down marched the remnant of the noble; the people of the LORD marched down for me against the mighty. From Ephraim their root they marched down into the valley, following you, Benjamin, with your kinsmen; from Machir marched down the commanders, and from Zebulun those who bear the lieutenant's staff; the princes of Issachar came with Deborah, and Issachar faithful to Barak; into the valley they rushed at his heels. Among the clans of Reuben there were great searchings of heart. Why did you sit still among the sheepfolds, to hear the whistling for the flocks? Among the clans of Reuben there were great searchings of heart. Gilead stayed beyond the Jordan; and Dan, why did he stay with the ships? Asher sat still at the coast of the sea, staying by his landings. Zebulun is a people who risked their lives to the death; Naphtali, too, on the heights of the field.” — Judges 5:13-18 Deborah draws a clear line between two groups. Group one: On one side are the tribes who stepped up — Ephraim, Benjamin, Machir, Zebulun, Issachar, Naphtali. They marched into the valley without hesitation, shoulder to shoulder, risking everything for God's mission. Group two: On the other side are those who stayed home — Reuben, Gilead, Dan, Asher. Reuben stalled in “great searchings of heart,” paralyzed by indecision. Gilead stayed put across the river. Dan clung to his ships. Asher kept his feet planted on the shoreline. The difference wasn't ability. It wasn't opportunity. It was willingness. In every generation, God calls His people to step up — but not everyone answers. Some run toward the fight. Others cling to the familiar. Some seize the moment. Others think about it until the moment passes. When God calls, the greatest tragedy isn't weakness — it's unwillingness. The tribes who stayed home had the same God, the same history, and the same opportunity as those who stepped up. But they missed their moment because they chose comfort over courage. You and I face the same choice. God's mission is still moving forward. The only question is — will you march into the valley, or watch from the shoreline? ASK THIS: In what areas of life has God been calling you to step up? What “great searchings of heart” have delayed your obedience? Whose courage could grow because you decided to step forward? How do you want to be remembered when God's story is told? DO THIS: Identify one step of obedience you've been delaying. Take it today — even if it feels risky — and trust God with the outcome. PRAY THIS: Lord, keep me from standing on the sidelines when You call. Give me the courage to step up, and the faith to follow You into the fight. Amen. PLAY THIS: "I Will Go."
As promised, here is the post-breakfast video with Matt and Lee talking about some of the practical elements they didn't get to at the September breakfast.
Welcome to the COTM Brotherhood Podcast. Join us in hearing Matt Sullivan's message from our September breakfast. Brotherhood Breakfasts occur on the first Friday of each month. If you would like to attend search for COTM Brotherhood Breakfast on www.eventbrite.com to see our upcoming events. To learn more about the Brotherhood go to www.cotmbrotherhood.com or follow us on social media facebook: /cotmbrotherhood instagram: @cotmbrotherhood https://linktr.ee/cotmbrotherhood To learn more about Church on the Move go to www.churchonthemove.com
Lionshare's Dave Buehring helps us look at the life of Abraham and talks about how to foster the heart of a spiritual father. Clarissa Moll, author of "Hope Comes to Stay," shares about the suddon loss of her first husband and the grief she and her children endured. She helps us understand the grieving process and how to she and her children found hope in the midst of the loss. Faith Radio podcasts are made possible by your support. Give now: Click here
Pastor David concludes our prayer series with a message from Matthew 9 and 10.
There are for kinds of men. Boys, Evil men, passive men and good men. At first, it seems obvious that the evil man is the worst—but the truth is, passivity may be even more dangerous. It's sneaky. It masks itself as humility or care, but in reality, it's laziness and abdication of responsibility. In this episode, we'll help you evaluate where you fall in these categories and challenge you to step up as the kind of man who glorifies God through bold, faithful leadership. Abe's Wallet Retreat Nov 21-23 Cincinnati, OH Links in this Episode: Joe Freudenberg Episode Five Aspects of Masculinity for Young Men The Way of Men by Jack Donovan About Abraham's Wallet: Abraham's Wallet exists to inspire and equip Biblical family leaders. Please partner with us in inspiring and equipping multi-gen families at https://abrahamswallet.com/support AW website Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Facebook LinkedIn Instagram Chapters (00:00:00) - Five Aspects of Masculinity for Young Men(00:01:02) - There's a Lot of Evil in the Abrahamic Retreat(00:05:53) - Joe Freudenberg Has Expanded His Pickleball Camp(00:09:14) - A Day to Review and Organize Our Podcast(00:14:01) - A Taste of the Abraham Slate(00:14:56) - 4 Types of Men For Boys(00:19:16) - Boyhood and the Christian Church(00:21:20) - The Good Men and the Evil Men(00:26:24) - 3 Types of Passive Men(00:29:08) - Steve Doesn't Think He Looks Like An Old Man(00:30:21) - The Passive Man(00:33:23) - Are You a Passive Man?(00:37:10) - 3 The Good Man(00:41:35) - How to Admit Sin to Your Guy(00:43:19) - Controversy Over Men's Duties(00:48:54) - A Biblical Coach: Keep the Vision in Front of Me
82% of Christians Fall Into This Demonic Trap With Toxic PeopleEver stayed quiet to “keep the peace”?Forgiven without real repentance?Stayed in a toxic relationship thinking it was “Christlike”?
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Think submission means silence or leadership means control? Think again. In this episode, we break down God's true design for marriage roles—and how they lead to unity, not dysfunction.-Next Steps:>> Join the waitlist for the next Thriving Kingdom Marriage Mastery 6-month cohort — a powerful journey to radically transform your marriage from the inside out (2025 start dates TBA): MARRIAGE MASTERY PROGRAM>> Be a part of our Facebook community here: FB Group (PS: must answer all questions in order to join).>> Have a question for us? Reach out on Instagram: @thrivingkingdommarriageLoving The Content? Please support us by leaving us a 5 star rating, leaving a review & sharing the podcast with those you love!With love, Nick & Haley.
Does passivity tempt you? Do you act or react? Are you willing to take responsibility? In today's episode, Patrick shares how 2 Samuel 14 encourages us to repent of our passivity and turn to the God of action, who sets us free to do right in the world. If you're listening on Spotify, tell us about yourself and where you're listening from! Read the Bible with us in 2025! This year, we're exploring the Historical Books—Joshua, Judges, 1 & 2 Samuel, and 1 & 2 Kings. Download your reading plan now. Your support makes TMBT possible. Ten Minute Bible Talks is a crowd-funded project. Join the TMBTeam to reach more people with the Bible. Give now. Like this content? Make sure to leave us a rating and share it so that others can find it, too. Use #asktmbt to connect with us, ask questions, and suggest topics. We'd love to hear from you! To learn more, visit our website and follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter @TenMinuteBibleTalks. Don't forget to subscribe to the TMBT Newsletter here. Passages: 2 Samuel 14
What if the “peace” you're protecting in your marriage… is actually costing you real connection?In this episode, we're unpacking how passivity can disguise itself as love—especially in Christian marriages. We've seen it in our own relationship: moments when silence looked like patience, but it was actually fear. Times when we avoided conflict, convinced we were being kind or godly, but bitterness was the fruit.We explore:Why passivity is not the same as peacekeepingHow we can accidentally mislabel people-pleasing & call it love Why stuffing your voice for the sake of love can slowly erode intimacy3 self-reflection questions :
https://www.youtube.com/@FamilyGoalsPod?sub_confirmation=1On this week's episode, David Pollack and Pastor J discuss one of the most important enemies of every man leading his household: Passivity. Passiveness. Whichever word you want to use, it has to die if you want to lead your family the way God designed.You are listening to David Pollack, former College GameDay Analyst, and Jonathan Howes, Lead Pastor of Graystone Church, have a weekly conversation about God, Family, and Sports.#familygoalspodcast #familygoals #christianfamilyRespond in the comments, SUBSCRIBE and CLICK THE BELL for notificationsSUBSCRIBE to The Family Goals Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/family-goals-with-david-pollack-and-pastor-j/id1585214791X: https://x.com/familygoalspodInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/familygoalspod/Pollack Family Foundation Banquet of Blessings: https://www.pollackfamilyfoundation.com/banquet-of-blessingsCompassion International: compassion.com/familygoalsToney Financial Services: https://www.toneyfinancialinc.com/
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