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In this special backstage episode of The Built Different Podcast, recorded live from the AACC 2025 United World Conference in Nashville, TN, Dr. Zach Clinton and Joshua Broome sit down with best-selling author and renowned global minister John Bevere for a powerful and prophetic conversation. In today’s conversation John brings a timely word to the Church, addressing the spiritual realities shaping our culture and calling believers to stand firm in this critical hour. The conversation dives into: the divided culture we find ourselves in and how the enemy uses offense and division to disarm believers; exposing how distraction and compromise weaken the Church; a stirring challenge for men to rise up as spiritual leaders in their homes and communities; exploring Ephesians 2:10 and how every believer has God-given gifts to fulfill their divine purpose; why it’s time for the Church to prepare for the return of Christ with urgency and purity; how one of the most important things in life may not be what you do but who you raise and the legacy you leave behind; and a final word of hope, encouragement, and motivation for leaders to live boldly and intentionally in this cultural moment. This episode will stir your spirit, sharpen your focus, and strengthen your resolve to live faithfully and courageously in the days ahead.Mentioned in this episode:Find Out More About John: https://johnbevere.com/Pick up a Copy of one of John’s best-selling Books: https://store.messengerinternational.org/collections/books-by-john-bevere?__hstc=200411057.a8e2129780919694fa9b8c08bca59855.1761337852882.1761337852882.1761337852882.1&__hssc=200411057.1.1761337852882&__hsfp=1542494017Find Out More About Messenger International: https://messengerinternational.org/Subscribe to John’s YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@johnbeveretv?si=GtPelJKWlNjweTsAStruggling with Purpose, Anxiety, Addiction, etc.? Get Help Today: https://christiancareconnect.com/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
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Passivity is one of the absolute worst things for a man. If a man wants to kill off his masculinity and life force energy, all he has to do is be passive. Well… seeing as how this is deeply detrimental, not only to men themselves but to everyone in human society, in this video, we will be diving deep on this topic of passivity and men and what to do about it.
TODAY'S LESSONIf there's one enemy that has quietly destroyed more homes, weakened more men, and silenced more faith than anything else, it's not lust, greed, or fear. It's passivity.It started in the garden. The serpent didn't sneak up on Eve in secret — Adam was right there. He heard the lie. He watched the deception. And he said… nothing.Silence was his downfall.That same silence still poisons men today. It shows up when we see problems in our families but hope someone else will fix them. When we avoid hard conversations. When we stay “neutral” to keep the peace. When we let culture disciple our children while we stay distracted on our phones.Brother, passivity is not peacekeeping — it's surrender.Every time you avoid spiritual leadership, you leave a vacuum the enemy is all too eager to fill.A godly man doesn't wait for someone else to move. He steps up. He initiates prayer, correction, service, and love. He doesn't need perfect conditions — he obeys in imperfect moments.Because leadership isn't about convenience. It's about conviction.We need men who will confront sin, not excuse it. Men who will protect their wives and daughters from the cultural wolves. Men who will lead their homes even when it costs them comfort.Rejecting passivity doesn't mean becoming controlling or harsh — it means taking responsibility. Adam's sin wasn't what he did; it was what he refused to do.And the second Adam, Jesus Christ, reversed that curse by acting — stepping into the mess, standing in the gap, and saving humanity through obedience.You want to know what godly masculinity looks like?It looks like Jesus — active, alert, and absolutely unwilling to stand by while evil advances.
TODAY'S LESSONIf there's one enemy that has quietly destroyed more homes, weakened more men, and silenced more faith than anything else, it's not lust, greed, or fear. It's passivity.It started in the garden. The serpent didn't sneak up on Eve in secret — Adam was right there. He heard the lie. He watched the deception. And he said… nothing.Silence was his downfall.That same silence still poisons men today. It shows up when we see problems in our families but hope someone else will fix them. When we avoid hard conversations. When we stay “neutral” to keep the peace. When we let culture disciple our children while we stay distracted on our phones.Brother, passivity is not peacekeeping — it's surrender.Every time you avoid spiritual leadership, you leave a vacuum the enemy is all too eager to fill.A godly man doesn't wait for someone else to move. He steps up. He initiates prayer, correction, service, and love. He doesn't need perfect conditions — he obeys in imperfect moments.Because leadership isn't about convenience. It's about conviction.We need men who will confront sin, not excuse it. Men who will protect their wives and daughters from the cultural wolves. Men who will lead their homes even when it costs them comfort.Rejecting passivity doesn't mean becoming controlling or harsh — it means taking responsibility. Adam's sin wasn't what he did; it was what he refused to do.And the second Adam, Jesus Christ, reversed that curse by acting — stepping into the mess, standing in the gap, and saving humanity through obedience.You want to know what godly masculinity looks like?It looks like Jesus — active, alert, and absolutely unwilling to stand by while evil advances.
This sermon explores David's experience in the "Valley of the Shadow of Death," found in the later chapters of 2 Samuel, where he faces betrayal by his son Absalom and is forced to flee Jerusalem. The message outlines three critical lessons for believers navigating their own rock-bottom moments. First, it teaches that Humility is not Passivity, demonstrating how David engaged in strategic, hopeful action by sending Hushai back to the city rather than resigning himself to fate. Second, it highlights the importance of Active Hope, illustrated by David's refusal to retaliate against Shimei's curses, trusting that God would use the suffering for good. Finally, the sermon stresses the need to Not Isolate, encouraging believers to accept life-giving community and support, just as David accepted the provision of Shobi, Machir, and Barzillai in the wilderness. Ultimately, the message assures listeners that the valley is not where faith dies, but where true trust in God's fidelity thrives.
reference: Sri Aurobindo, Bases of Yoga, Chapter 1, Calm — Peace — Equality, pp. 15-16This episode is also available as a blog post at https://sriaurobindostudies.wordpress.com/2025/10/05/equality-is-not-inert-passivity-to-circumstances/Video presentations, interviews and podcast episodes are allavailable on the YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@santoshkrinsky871More information about Sri Aurobindo can be found at www.aurobindo.net The US editions and links to e-book editions of SriAurobindo's writings can be found at Lotus Press www.lotuspress.com
Simone Halpin, Kelly Brady, & John Vandervelde, and Matt Marron respond to questions from Kelly's sermon on Sunday Oct. 5, 2025.
“Helper” in Genesis 2:18 isn't a downgrade—it's ezer kenegdo: a powerful ally corresponding to. Steve & Colleen explore God's original design, how sin distorted it, and how Jesus restores mutuality (Gal 3:28). Practical for marriage, ministry, friendships, and singles—plus a Zechariah 2:5 prayer of protection and presence.Here's the link to prayer of protection: https://embracingbrokenness.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/A-Wall-of-Fire-Around-Us-Crafted-Prayer-Zechariah-2-5.pdfChapters0:00 – Opening: generational context & show intro1:42 – Welcome back; why Genesis; episode title set-up3:52 – Prayer of protection (Zechariah 2:5)5:19 – Why pray aloud; prison context; PDF mention7:26 – Genesis 2:18 read; intro to ezer kenegdo9:45 – “Helper” and identity: Colleen's story12:03 – God as ezer (rescuer/ally)13:07 – Psalm 33:20 (ESV) — “he is our help and our shield”14:30 – Kenegdo = corresponding/face-to-face; headship/submission clarified15:17 – Misuse of “submission”; weight of responsibility on the head17:11 – The Fall's fracture (Genesis 3:16)18:44 – Consequences vs “curse” explained22:28 – Passivity & cultural misuse (lighthearted “15:1 words” moment)23:55 – Missing female leadership; global harms (trafficking/war)28:13 – Restoration in Christ (Galatians 3:28)30:13 – Jesus' model: children, Samaritan woman, bleeding woman; Deborah34:45 – Personal stories: upbringing & marriage dynamics36:38 – Complementary gifts in ministry (“professor” bit)38:38 – Serving posture & witness; mission snapshots42:35 – Partnership anecdotes & outside observations44:53 – For singles & spiritual companionship (Ecclesiastes 4:9–10)46:53 – Abiding in Christ & finding community47:29 – “Tapestry” metaphor & New Jerusalem vision51:16 – Closing reflections51:36 – Outro / blessings
Hitting rock bottom is one of the most painful human experiences - when the future is blurry, the past feels heavy, and you barely recognize the person staring back in the mirror. Maybe it’s the end of a relationship, losing your job, battling addiction, or simply feeling like everything you built has crumbled. In this episode, we explore what those lowest points really feel like, why we sometimes end up there, and how, against all odds, they can become the very place where healing and transformation begin. We explore: • What rock bottom feels like• The role of identity collapse and self-concept clarity• Passivity, external locus of control, and addiction as routes to rock bottom• Our dark night of the soul and searching for meaning• Why rock bottom can motivate change• 5 tips climbing out and rebuilding self-concept If you’ve ever felt like you’ve lost control, lost yourself, or lost your way - this episode is for you. ORDER MY BOOK Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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From the very beginning, passivity has been man's greatest temptation. Adam's first failure in the garden wasn't eating the fruit—it was standing silent while the serpent deceived his wife. And that same temptation still stalks men today. It whispers, “Stay quiet. Don't rock the boat. Don't get involved.” But passivity leaves gaps the enemy loves to exploit. God is calling His men to reject passivity, to step up, and to lead with courage even when it feels uncomfortable.Our springboard for today's discussion is:“Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.” — 1 Corinthians 16:13 (ESV)Passivity shows up in all kinds of ways. Sometimes it's staying silent when your family needs your voice. Sometimes it's ignoring sin instead of confronting it. Other times, it's choosing the easy road of comfort instead of stepping into the hard work of responsibility.But the call of God on a man's life is the exact opposite. Paul's words here are active, not passive: Be watchful. Stand firm. Act like men. Be strong. These are battle commands. They're reminders that following Christ means taking action when others shrink back.Rejecting passivity doesn't mean being loud or aggressive. It means being alert, engaged, and willing to take responsibility. It means initiating prayer in your home, stepping into leadership in your church, and protecting your family spiritually when the enemy comes knocking.Brother, passivity may feel safe, but it always costs more in the end. Silence today can turn into bondage tomorrow. When men refuse to lead, the enemy gladly will. But when you stand firm in faith, speak truth in love, and act with strength, you slam the door in the enemy's face.The world says, “Do nothing and keep the peace.” God says, “Stand up and fight for what matters.”Question of the Day:Where are you tempted to stay passive right now—and how is God calling you to step in with strength?Mini Call to Action:Take one step of initiative today. Lead a prayer, start a conversation, or confront a compromise you've been avoiding.Prayer:Lord, forgive me for the times I've chosen silence over courage. Teach me to be watchful, to stand firm, and to step up when You call. Make me a man who rejects passivity and embraces responsibility.Let's Get To Work!Passivity builds weakness. Responsibility builds warriors. Step up, Brother—the world needs men who will not stand silent.Thanks for reading My Reasons To Believe! This post is public so feel free to share it.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
From the very beginning, passivity has been man's greatest temptation. Adam's first failure in the garden wasn't eating the fruit—it was standing silent while the serpent deceived his wife. And that same temptation still stalks men today. It whispers, “Stay quiet. Don't rock the boat. Don't get involved.” But passivity leaves gaps the enemy loves to exploit. God is calling His men to reject passivity, to step up, and to lead with courage even when it feels uncomfortable.Our springboard for today's discussion is:“Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.” — 1 Corinthians 16:13 (ESV)Passivity shows up in all kinds of ways. Sometimes it's staying silent when your family needs your voice. Sometimes it's ignoring sin instead of confronting it. Other times, it's choosing the easy road of comfort instead of stepping into the hard work of responsibility.But the call of God on a man's life is the exact opposite. Paul's words here are active, not passive: Be watchful. Stand firm. Act like men. Be strong. These are battle commands. They're reminders that following Christ means taking action when others shrink back.Rejecting passivity doesn't mean being loud or aggressive. It means being alert, engaged, and willing to take responsibility. It means initiating prayer in your home, stepping into leadership in your church, and protecting your family spiritually when the enemy comes knocking.Brother, passivity may feel safe, but it always costs more in the end. Silence today can turn into bondage tomorrow. When men refuse to lead, the enemy gladly will. But when you stand firm in faith, speak truth in love, and act with strength, you slam the door in the enemy's face.The world says, “Do nothing and keep the peace.” God says, “Stand up and fight for what matters.”Question of the Day:Where are you tempted to stay passive right now—and how is God calling you to step in with strength?Mini Call to Action:Take one step of initiative today. Lead a prayer, start a conversation, or confront a compromise you've been avoiding.Prayer:Lord, forgive me for the times I've chosen silence over courage. Teach me to be watchful, to stand firm, and to step up when You call. Make me a man who rejects passivity and embraces responsibility.Let's Get To Work!Passivity builds weakness. Responsibility builds warriors. Step up, Brother—the world needs men who will not stand silent.Thanks for reading My Reasons To Believe! This post is public so feel free to share it.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
Welcome to The Daily, where we study the Bible verse by verse, chapter by chapter, every day. Get behind our through the Bible project. Read more here Project23. Our text today is Judges 5:13–18. “Then down marched the remnant of the noble; the people of the LORD marched down for me against the mighty. From Ephraim their root they marched down into the valley, following you, Benjamin, with your kinsmen; from Machir marched down the commanders, and from Zebulun those who bear the lieutenant's staff; the princes of Issachar came with Deborah, and Issachar faithful to Barak; into the valley they rushed at his heels. Among the clans of Reuben there were great searchings of heart. Why did you sit still among the sheepfolds, to hear the whistling for the flocks? Among the clans of Reuben there were great searchings of heart. Gilead stayed beyond the Jordan; and Dan, why did he stay with the ships? Asher sat still at the coast of the sea, staying by his landings. Zebulun is a people who risked their lives to the death; Naphtali, too, on the heights of the field.” — Judges 5:13-18 Deborah draws a clear line between two groups. Group one: On one side are the tribes who stepped up — Ephraim, Benjamin, Machir, Zebulun, Issachar, Naphtali. They marched into the valley without hesitation, shoulder to shoulder, risking everything for God's mission. Group two: On the other side are those who stayed home — Reuben, Gilead, Dan, Asher. Reuben stalled in “great searchings of heart,” paralyzed by indecision. Gilead stayed put across the river. Dan clung to his ships. Asher kept his feet planted on the shoreline. The difference wasn't ability. It wasn't opportunity. It was willingness. In every generation, God calls His people to step up — but not everyone answers. Some run toward the fight. Others cling to the familiar. Some seize the moment. Others think about it until the moment passes. When God calls, the greatest tragedy isn't weakness — it's unwillingness. The tribes who stayed home had the same God, the same history, and the same opportunity as those who stepped up. But they missed their moment because they chose comfort over courage. You and I face the same choice. God's mission is still moving forward. The only question is — will you march into the valley, or watch from the shoreline? ASK THIS: In what areas of life has God been calling you to step up? What “great searchings of heart” have delayed your obedience? Whose courage could grow because you decided to step forward? How do you want to be remembered when God's story is told? DO THIS: Identify one step of obedience you've been delaying. Take it today — even if it feels risky — and trust God with the outcome. PRAY THIS: Lord, keep me from standing on the sidelines when You call. Give me the courage to step up, and the faith to follow You into the fight. Amen. PLAY THIS: "I Will Go."
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Welcome to the COTM Brotherhood Podcast. Join us in hearing Matt Sullivan's message from our September breakfast. Brotherhood Breakfasts occur on the first Friday of each month. If you would like to attend search for COTM Brotherhood Breakfast on www.eventbrite.com to see our upcoming events. To learn more about the Brotherhood go to www.cotmbrotherhood.com or follow us on social media facebook: /cotmbrotherhood instagram: @cotmbrotherhood https://linktr.ee/cotmbrotherhood To learn more about Church on the Move go to www.churchonthemove.com
As promised, here is the post-breakfast video with Matt and Lee talking about some of the practical elements they didn't get to at the September breakfast.
Lionshare's Dave Buehring helps us look at the life of Abraham and talks about how to foster the heart of a spiritual father. Clarissa Moll, author of "Hope Comes to Stay," shares about the suddon loss of her first husband and the grief she and her children endured. She helps us understand the grieving process and how to she and her children found hope in the midst of the loss. Faith Radio podcasts are made possible by your support. Give now: Click here
Pastor David concludes our prayer series with a message from Matthew 9 and 10.
There are for kinds of men. Boys, Evil men, passive men and good men. At first, it seems obvious that the evil man is the worst—but the truth is, passivity may be even more dangerous. It's sneaky. It masks itself as humility or care, but in reality, it's laziness and abdication of responsibility. In this episode, we'll help you evaluate where you fall in these categories and challenge you to step up as the kind of man who glorifies God through bold, faithful leadership. Abe's Wallet Retreat Nov 21-23 Cincinnati, OH Links in this Episode: Joe Freudenberg Episode Five Aspects of Masculinity for Young Men The Way of Men by Jack Donovan About Abraham's Wallet: Abraham's Wallet exists to inspire and equip Biblical family leaders. Please partner with us in inspiring and equipping multi-gen families at https://abrahamswallet.com/support AW website Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Facebook LinkedIn Instagram Chapters (00:00:00) - Five Aspects of Masculinity for Young Men(00:01:02) - There's a Lot of Evil in the Abrahamic Retreat(00:05:53) - Joe Freudenberg Has Expanded His Pickleball Camp(00:09:14) - A Day to Review and Organize Our Podcast(00:14:01) - A Taste of the Abraham Slate(00:14:56) - 4 Types of Men For Boys(00:19:16) - Boyhood and the Christian Church(00:21:20) - The Good Men and the Evil Men(00:26:24) - 3 Types of Passive Men(00:29:08) - Steve Doesn't Think He Looks Like An Old Man(00:30:21) - The Passive Man(00:33:23) - Are You a Passive Man?(00:37:10) - 3 The Good Man(00:41:35) - How to Admit Sin to Your Guy(00:43:19) - Controversy Over Men's Duties(00:48:54) - A Biblical Coach: Keep the Vision in Front of Me
The Patriarchy Podcast | Abortion Is Still Legal—And It’s the ‘Pro-Life’ Organizations’ Fault Roe fell. We cheered. But the killing never stopped. In this episode, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon sits down with Ben Zeisloft, author of Forsakers of the Fatherless, to expose how the pro-life establishment has betrayed the very children it claims to defend. From sabotaging abolition bills to playing politics with preborn lives, the truth is darker than most Christians realize. Ben pulls back the curtain. We talk treachery, cowardice, and why equal justice for the unborn isn’t optional—it’s commanded by God. This isn’t about pro-life vs. pro-choice. This is about justice vs. compromise. And it’s time for men of God to take their stand. Topics Covered ✅ Why Roe’s fall didn’t end abortion.✅ How “pro-life” groups block abolition bills.✅ The danger of a feminized compassion that neuters justice.✅ Should mothers who abort face prosecution?✅ Incrementalism vs. abolition—what honors God?✅ The role of fathers and pastors in ending abortion.✅ Why men must lead the fight without compromise. Chapters 00:00 – Cold Open: The War After Roe02:15 – Who Is Ben Zeisloft?06:00 – What the Pro-Life Establishment Won’t Tell You10:45 – Real Examples of Treachery15:00 – When “Compassion” Becomes Cowardice22:30 – Fathers, Passivity, and Abortion Culture28:10 – Should Women Be Prosecuted?35:00 – How Pro-Life Politics Rewards Compromise42:20 – Strategy: Wisdom or Cowardice?50:00 – Why Men Must Take the Lead57:00 – Final Thoughts & Call to Arms Join the Conversation Do you believe pro-life leaders have betrayed the cause?What does equal justice for the preborn look like in your state?Comment below or share your thoughts with us. Find Us on Social Media:
The Patriarchy Podcast | Abortion Is Still Legal—And It’s the ‘Pro-Life’ Organizations’ Fault Roe fell. We cheered. But the killing never stopped. In this episode, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon sits down with Ben Zeisloft, author of Forsakers of the Fatherless, to expose how the pro-life establishment has betrayed the very children it claims to defend. From sabotaging abolition bills to playing politics with preborn lives, the truth is darker than most Christians realize. Ben pulls back the curtain. We talk treachery, cowardice, and why equal justice for the unborn isn’t optional—it’s commanded by God. This isn’t about pro-life vs. pro-choice. This is about justice vs. compromise. And it’s time for men of God to take their stand. Topics Covered ✅ Why Roe’s fall didn’t end abortion.✅ How “pro-life” groups block abolition bills.✅ The danger of a feminized compassion that neuters justice.✅ Should mothers who abort face prosecution?✅ Incrementalism vs. abolition—what honors God?✅ The role of fathers and pastors in ending abortion.✅ Why men must lead the fight without compromise. Chapters 00:00 – Cold Open: The War After Roe02:15 – Who Is Ben Zeisloft?06:00 – What the Pro-Life Establishment Won’t Tell You10:45 – Real Examples of Treachery15:00 – When “Compassion” Becomes Cowardice22:30 – Fathers, Passivity, and Abortion Culture28:10 – Should Women Be Prosecuted?35:00 – How Pro-Life Politics Rewards Compromise42:20 – Strategy: Wisdom or Cowardice?50:00 – Why Men Must Take the Lead57:00 – Final Thoughts & Call to Arms Join the Conversation Do you believe pro-life leaders have betrayed the cause?What does equal justice for the preborn look like in your state?Comment below or share your thoughts with us. Find Us on Social Media:
Are modern men slowly losing their grip on what it means to truly lead?You're working hard. You're showing up. You're providing. But still—your marriage feels off. You're getting blindsided by disconnection, resentment, or even divorce. You're trying to be a good man, yet nothing seems to be enough. Why is it that despite doing “everything right,” so many men are silently failing in the one place that matters most—at home?In this powerful conversation, we dive deep with Quentin Hafner, therapist, author of Black Belt Husband, and coach to high-performing men. What makes Quentin different? He's not your typical therapist—he's a former corporate climber who hit rock bottom after a divorce, did the inner work, and made it his life's mission to help other men heal, lead, and thrive. And he's brutally honest about what's wrong with traditional therapy and how it can actually keep men stuck.Quotes:"My mission field is to really serve men in that capacity, help men heal so they can be highly effective in their families."- Quentin Hafner"There's a time to sit in that pain, not to wallow in it and be miserable, but to be self-reflective and contemplative. - Quentin Hafner"When you trust yourself, other people trust you more too." - Matt BeaudreauKey Takeaways:Most “marriage problems” are personal problems in disguise.According to Quentin, couples often don't have relationship issues—they have individual wounds and unresolved trauma showing up in the marriage.70% of divorces are initiated by women.The most common reason? A deep emotional pain: “I didn't feel like I mattered.” Men often don't realize their wives are emotionally disconnecting until it's too late.Men underestimate the power of emotional safety.Many men believe being a good provider and father is enough. But their wives are craving emotional connection—not just physical security.Passivity is killing modern marriages.High-performing men often become passive or conflict-avoidant in their relationships, fearing they'll come off as controlling. Quentin calls this “fear-based passivity,” and it erodes trust and respect.Conclusion:This episode is a powerful wake-up call for any man who wants to lead—not just at work, but where it matters most: at home. Quentin Hafner doesn't sugarcoat the truth—he reveals how being a passive, well-intentioned husband can still lead to emotional disconnection and even divorce.But there's hope.Leadership in marriage isn't about being dominant or controlling—it's about creating emotional safety, setting the tone, and becoming the kind of man your wife and children naturally trust and follow. Quentin reminds us that real strength isn't found in aggression or avoidance—it's found in presence, purpose, and self-awareness.If you're ready to stop reacting and start leading—with clarity, confidence, and connection—this conversation is your blueprint.Because becoming a Black Belt Husband isn't about perfection. It's about transformation.And it starts with you.Call to Action:Ready to step into your role as a strong, emotionally safe, and purpose-driven leader in your home?
The crew explores the multifaceted concept of what makes a good man, examining perspectives from cultural, societal, and biblical viewpoints. The hosts discuss the dangers of passivity, the importance of pursuing one's calling with passion, and the challenge of balancing personal ambitions with family responsibilities. They emphasize that being a good man is fundamentally about loving God, staying true to one's purpose, and continually moving forward despite challenges. The conversation highlights the significance of identity, strength, courage, and influence in defining masculinity. Ultimately, the episode suggests that being a good man is less about meeting external expectations and more about authentically following God's guidance and purpose. Chapters: 1. Introduction to the Topic (00:00:00) - The podcast hosts introduce the question "What makes a good man?" and discuss how perspectives on this can vary based on cultural, societal, and biblical expectations. 2. Defining Goodness (00:05:48) - The hosts explore the complexity of defining "good" and how different perspectives (cultural, Christian, Biblical) can shape understanding of what makes a good man. 3. Passivity vs. Pursuit (00:25:50) - The discussion centers on the dangers of passivity and the importance of moving forward, pursuing one's calling, and not being paralyzed by fear of making mistakes. 4. Balancing Family and Calling (00:31:02) - The hosts discuss the challenge of pursuing one's God-given purpose while maintaining strong family relationships, challenging the notion that these are separate paths. 5. Personal Experiences and Reflections (00:50:43) - Caleb shares a personal story about his father's approach to work and family, illustrating what he believes makes a good man. 6. Closing Thoughts (01:06:56) - Jason concludes the episode by recommending Rudyard Kipling's poem "If" and encouraging listeners to keep faith and stay in the fight.
A short introduction to Erich Fromm's work. A call to look “under the hood.” Encouragement to live the vita contemplativa, the contemplative life.
In this episode of the Man Warrior King podcast, host Matt Hallock explores how the desire to please God can accidentally lead to passivity in marriage. He emphasizes the importance of taking action and partnering with God rather than constantly waiting FOR God. Through biblical examples, particularly the story of Jonathan, Matt encourages men to take initiative in their marriages and lives. He also discusses practical steps for change and highlights resources available for men seeking transformation.TakeawaysYour desire to please God can lead to inaction.Passivity in marriage can lead to deterioration.Women are attracted to men who take action.God desires partnership with us in our actions.Moses was rebuked for inaction; God wants us to move forward.Jonathan took initiative without direct revelation from God.Taking action can initiate God's miraculous work.You have a green light to act until told otherwise.Transformation can feel effortless with the right mindset.Resources like the Masculine Husband program can facilitate change.Pick up your copy of The DNA of a Man here: https://thrive.manwarriorking.com/dna-2025Join The Masculine Husband 3-month Marriage Intensive here: https://thrive.manwarriorking.com/masculinehusbandSubscribe to Matt and Man Warrior King on Youtube here: https://www.youtube.com/@manwarriorking/Chapters00:00 The Desire to Please God: A Double-Edged Sword07:25 Partnership with God: Action vs. Inaction12:56 Taking Initiative: The Story of Jonathan18:50 Practical Steps for Marital Improvement25:07 Transformative Change: The Masculine Husband Program27:27 Outro exported.mp3
Day 3 of 57 | Mind Empowerment: The Difference Between Passivity and Humility
The phrase “If it's meant to happen, it will” has become really popular in the spiritual community. And while I believe there's some truth in it, I also feel like a lot of people use it as an excuse to not take any action and to passively watch their life unfold, thinking that everything is planned out already anyway. To sit and wait, because “if it's meant to be, surely it will happen at some point, right?”In this episode, I discuss: Why waiting for the Universe to “deliver” without action can keep you stuckThe difference between surrendering and pushing away responsibilityHow aligned action plays a crucial role in manifesting your dreamsMy personal experiencesThe power of co-creationGIVEAWAY ANNOUNCEMENTTo celebrate the Soul Alignment podcast's 2nd birthday, I'm running a giveaway from Friday, July 18, until Friday, July 24! You'll receive all the info on my Instagram and via e-mail if you're on my email list! You can win free access to my light language course ‘Echoes of Light', channelled guidance on a question of your choice, as well as personalized light language transmissions!-------------------------------------------------To join the next round of Divine Soul Alignment: https://www.chiaranaala.com/divinesoulalignmentTo join a 4-week activation journey for those who are ready to remember the language of their soul, join my course Echoes of Light here: https://www.chiaranaala.com/echoesoflightFor more inspiring content, follow me on IG @chiaranaala: https://www.instagram.com/chiaranaala/If you're ready to go deeper or you want to know what working with me is like, sign up for one or several of my free offerings:*Free* healing & activation session The Portal: heal your womb, activate your soul gifts and open up your channel: https://www.chiaranaala.com/the-portal-replay*Free* 2-part healing and activation journey “Liberated” to heal your fear of being seen, reclaim ancient gifts & soul codes and drop deeper into your psychic abilities. https://www.chiaranaala.com/liberated-replay-optin*Free* Open to Receive Meditation to strengthen your intuition, deepen the connection with your soul & your guides, raise your vibration and open up to receiving: https://www.chiaranaala.com/opentoreceive*Free* 2-day immersion “Soul Awakening” to remember your soul's essence, activate your psychic abilities and start embodying your magic: https://www.chiaranaala.com/soulawakeningreplay-optin*Free* past life and witch wound healing session "Breaking Free" to heal the witch wound, your fear of being seen and the blocks that are holding you back from stepping into your power https://www.chiaranaala.com/breakingfree-replay-optin*Free* Codes Of Isis to reconnect with your psychic abilities, ignite your priestess blueprint and awaken your mystical self while anchoring in your highest timeline: https://www.chiaranaala.com/codes-of-isis-replay-optin* Free* Womb Healing Session “Sacred Womb”: https://www.chiaranaala.com/sacredwombreplayoptin*Free* Cosmic Connection Meditation: https://www.chiaranaala.com/cosmic-connection
82% of Christians Fall Into This Demonic Trap With Toxic PeopleEver stayed quiet to “keep the peace”?Forgiven without real repentance?Stayed in a toxic relationship thinking it was “Christlike”?
Thriving Relationships For His Kingdom | Godly Dating, Christian Marriage Advice, Relationship Tips
Think submission means silence or leadership means control? Think again. In this episode, we break down God's true design for marriage roles—and how they lead to unity, not dysfunction.-Next Steps:>> Join the waitlist for the next Thriving Kingdom Marriage Mastery 6-month cohort — a powerful journey to radically transform your marriage from the inside out (2025 start dates TBA): MARRIAGE MASTERY PROGRAM>> Be a part of our Facebook community here: FB Group (PS: must answer all questions in order to join).>> Have a question for us? Reach out on Instagram: @thrivingkingdommarriageLoving The Content? Please support us by leaving us a 5 star rating, leaving a review & sharing the podcast with those you love!With love, Nick & Haley.
In this sermon, Pastor Keith examines Joab's scheme, Absalom's return, and David's hesitant kiss, exposing the tragic results of manipulated mercy, sentimentalism, and unresolved sin. Through a fake parable, a forced return, false beauty, and a feeble kiss, we see that every shortcut to peace—without repentance and justice—only results in greater division. Pastor Keith urges us to seek true restoration not in human schemes, but in the righteous and gracious King Jesus, who alone brings peace with God and men through the cross.
Our Passivity is Crippling our Breakthrough!by Simply Jecker
Does passivity tempt you? Do you act or react? Are you willing to take responsibility? In today's episode, Patrick shares how 2 Samuel 14 encourages us to repent of our passivity and turn to the God of action, who sets us free to do right in the world. If you're listening on Spotify, tell us about yourself and where you're listening from! Read the Bible with us in 2025! This year, we're exploring the Historical Books—Joshua, Judges, 1 & 2 Samuel, and 1 & 2 Kings. Download your reading plan now. Your support makes TMBT possible. Ten Minute Bible Talks is a crowd-funded project. Join the TMBTeam to reach more people with the Bible. Give now. Like this content? Make sure to leave us a rating and share it so that others can find it, too. Use #asktmbt to connect with us, ask questions, and suggest topics. We'd love to hear from you! To learn more, visit our website and follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter @TenMinuteBibleTalks. Don't forget to subscribe to the TMBT Newsletter here. Passages: 2 Samuel 14
What if the “peace” you're protecting in your marriage… is actually costing you real connection?In this episode, we're unpacking how passivity can disguise itself as love—especially in Christian marriages. We've seen it in our own relationship: moments when silence looked like patience, but it was actually fear. Times when we avoided conflict, convinced we were being kind or godly, but bitterness was the fruit.We explore:Why passivity is not the same as peacekeepingHow we can accidentally mislabel people-pleasing & call it love Why stuffing your voice for the sake of love can slowly erode intimacy3 self-reflection questions :
https://www.youtube.com/@FamilyGoalsPod?sub_confirmation=1On this week's episode, David Pollack and Pastor J discuss one of the most important enemies of every man leading his household: Passivity. Passiveness. Whichever word you want to use, it has to die if you want to lead your family the way God designed.You are listening to David Pollack, former College GameDay Analyst, and Jonathan Howes, Lead Pastor of Graystone Church, have a weekly conversation about God, Family, and Sports.#familygoalspodcast #familygoals #christianfamilyRespond in the comments, SUBSCRIBE and CLICK THE BELL for notificationsSUBSCRIBE to The Family Goals Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/family-goals-with-david-pollack-and-pastor-j/id1585214791X: https://x.com/familygoalspodInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/familygoalspod/Pollack Family Foundation Banquet of Blessings: https://www.pollackfamilyfoundation.com/banquet-of-blessingsCompassion International: compassion.com/familygoalsToney Financial Services: https://www.toneyfinancialinc.com/
https://www.youtube.com/@FamilyGoalsPod?sub_confirmation=1On this week's episode, David Pollack and Pastor J discuss one of the most important enemies of every man leading his household: Passivity. Passiveness. Whichever word you want to use, it has to die if you want to lead your family the way God designed.You are listening to David Pollack, former College GameDay Analyst, and Jonathan Howes, Lead Pastor of Graystone Church, have a weekly conversation about God, Family, and Sports.#familygoalspodcast #familygoals #christianfamilyRespond in the comments, SUBSCRIBE and CLICK THE BELL for notificationsSUBSCRIBE to The Family Goals Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/family-goals-with-david-pollack-and-pastor-j/id1585214791X: https://x.com/familygoalspodInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/familygoalspod/Pollack Family Foundation Banquet of Blessings: https://www.pollackfamilyfoundation.com/banquet-of-blessingsCompassion International: compassion.com/familygoalsToney Financial Services: https://www.toneyfinancialinc.com/
Adult survivors of SRA have layers of mind control programming that lead them into a life of passivity. They must be passive to themselves to protect their family and the group of origin to grow up (that's their job), and as adults, they internalize that job as it comes through in many other areas of life that get justified as necessary. They may find themselves playacting to look a certain way to people, blocking off feelings to keep others from truly knowing them or knowing themselves, refusing to protect themselves by having no boundaries, a refusal of self compassion, or holding onto dissociation as a coping mechanism when instead they could choose dealing with situations to get out. Instead of taking self on to cope, learn, and grow, the survivor gets stuck due to internalizing the original programming. The original purpose of the programming was to protect the family at all costs, and this lie continues with the need to protect something, as the survivor continues to fill in the blank with endless reasons. In today's discussion, John talks about passivity towards himself, how he noticed this in his life, how he is working to fight the programming and lies, and what a life of walking out of this mind control looks like. Past episodes with John: Writing a Memoir: https://youtu.be/JmdwBoz3b9AJohn Smith: SRA Victor: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0RsTgO6KWltk7ndjj1rj25?si=FNbCbygfTG6QlwnxJyptDwOnly God Rescued Me: Website: www.onlygodrescuedme.com Contact Lisa:lisa@onlygodrescuedme.comTo help support this podcast: PayPal @Lisa453Venmo @lisameister4242 Square https://square.link/u/kQLAozvVBuy Me a Coffee https://buymeacoffee.com/onlygodrescuedme.com
Men take responsibility for themselves and their community. Thank you for listening to Encourage-Mint. If you've been refreshed, don't forget to subscribe, Leave a review on iTunes, and share a little Encourage-Mint with someone you love. Encourage-Mint is a podcast from Family Radio. These moments are just a taste of what you can hear every day. Listen at FamilyRadio.org or find more encouragement on the Family Radio app. Get daily Scripture and encouragement by following Family Radio on your favorite social media platforms:FacebookInstagram Twitter
Jerry examines more behaviors that keep us receiving God's promises––including healing––from coming to pass in our lives. Recognize if you're caught in passive or prideful patterns and how to take steps to move forward. MORE... « Jesus Disciple » God is calling believers EVERYWHERE to be a part of fulfilling the Great Commission, making disciples around the world. Get free resources and find out more at BeJesusDisciple.com. « Solid Lives » To find out more about the ministry of Solid Lives, visit https://solidlives.com/ « Support » Help us get free resources out to more people. To support the ministry of Solid Lives, please visit https://solidlives.com/give/ « Podcasts » Listen to weekly messages, or a daily episode from The New Testament Daily on podcast here: https://solidlives.com/podcast/ Support the show
Holding onto grudges and past hurts not only affects our relationships but also prevents us from experiencing true peace and freedom. Pastor Jerry unpacks how unforgiveness and offense can act as major barriers to emotional, spiritual, and physical healing.
Samuel 131. We are called to action, not passivity2. Three reasons we choose passivity -Shame -Uncertainty -Fear of Conflict3. Avoidance does not solve the problem4. If you do not lead, someone else will5. Avoidance Compounds Issues6. Change is a Process
BOOK:LIONHEARTEDhttps://lionhearted.com/WHY THIS BOOK WHY NOW? WHY YOU? WHY LIONHEARTED? EXPLAIN HOW THE HEART IS THE CENTERPIECE OF OUR MANHOODSTATE OF MANHOOD? There is no such thing as neutrality in the life of faith. Jesus said, “The kingdom of heaven has suffered violence, and the violent take it by force." Passivity is not an option. Inactivity is a vote to go back to living and looking like the old you. It's the easiest thing in the world for a Christian man to be too passive, and hardness sets in as a result.WHAT FEARS DO YOU HAVE ABOUT THE LITTLE C CHURCH? FULL OF BOX-CHECKING POSERS? RELIGIOUS LABELS PRESSED AND PLEATED WHEN/HOW DID YOU OWN YOUR FAITH?QUOTES: “Going to church is a dangerous hobby. You are operating on the mistaken assumption that putting yourself in proximity to truth will be enough to provoke positive incremental change in you. “ “Your spiritual outlook is the equivalent of the college student sleeping with a textbook under his pillow, hoping he can prepare for the exam by osmosis. The problem is that hearing God's Word without taking the dramatic action that it demands is doing damage to your soul. “ “Doing spiritual things” - you know that's what a Christian is supposed to do - you are playing games with life-and-death truth. Your docile disposition is killing the potential work of God in you.” “And what's so dangerous about that way of living is that the longer you allow that to continue unchecked, the more difficult it becomes to break the cycle. Passivity perpetuates passivity.”TUNA HEARTWHAT DOES A FINELY TUNED HEART LOOK LIKE?HOW DO WE KNOW OUR HEART IS OUT OF TUNE?WHAT ARE INFLUENCES THAT GIVE US FALSE INFORMATION ABOUT HOW IN TUNE OUR HEARTS ARE?TOOLS THAT FINELY TUNE OUR HEARTS?HOW DO WE DEFEND AGAINST THIS COMPLACENCY?You will always need men in your life who can call you out, who can tell you that something is off. And it will always take humility to listen, but as you lean into the tuning and retuning process, your hear will grow, and you will progressively unlock the potential that it possesses.HOW DO WE FIND THE RIGHT MEN TO HOLD US ACCOUNTABLE?CH 5 HE(ART) OF DECEPTION Many men willfully choose to view themselves, their mo-tivations, their decisions, and their actions through a lens that is detached from reality. Your self-assessment is detached from reality. We would prefer to believe that our intentions are what's most im-portant. We live from a mantra that it's what we meant to do that actually matters. All of this speaks to our preference for nonreality. WHY DO WE JUDGE OTHERS ON THEIR ACTIONS BUT WE JUDGE OURSELVES ON OUR INTENTIONS ?SELF-DECEPTION & VICTIM MENTALITY WE CAN JUSTIFY ANYTHING WE CAN TALK OURSELVES INTO OUR OUT OF ANYTHING WHY IS THERE FAKE FREEDOM ASSIGNED TO THIS DENIAL?SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESSQUOTES:LION HEARTEDNESS HAS one polar opposite: self-righteousness. Self-righteousness IS BORN OUT OF SPIRITUAL INSECURITY SELF-RIGHTEOUS PEOPLE: You are "spiritual," but primarily in relationship to yourself, not your relationship with God. You engage in lots of self-sacrifice without real obedience,HOW DID CHURCH GET SO FULL OF THIS? THOUGHTS ON THIS BEING WHAT HAS KEPT MEN OUT OF CHURCH
Johnnette Williams talks about how God works through His people by looking at the life of the Blessed Virgin Mary and her Fiat — her yes to God. A caller's question leads to a conversation about St. Louis de Montfort and his deep devotion to Mary. We explore what it means to live with faith, trust God without needing all the answers, and let our Blessed Mother lead us closer to Him.
Johnnette Williams talks about how God works through His people by looking at the life of the Blessed Virgin Mary and her Fiat — her yes to God. A caller's question leads to a conversation about St. Louis de Montfort and his deep devotion to Mary.
In this message, Pastor Gregory Dickow reveals how Jesus dismantled the system of passivity that's kept you stuck—waiting, spectating, and doubting your worth. Through the tearing of the veil, Jesus gave you bold access to God and broke the lie that says you're not enough. The excuse is gone. The distance is gone. It's time to get up and move forward.Sunday | May 4, 2025 | 10:30 AMWATCH ON YOUTUBESubscribe to the Gregory Dickow YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/@gregorydickowSUPPORTYou can tithe or donate to help us reach more lives around the world here: https://www.lifechangerschurch.com/giveCONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/gregorydickowInstagram:http://www.instagram.com/gregorydickowTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gregorydickowYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@gregorydickowTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/gregorydickowPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/gregorydickowoffical/
Too many men find themselves drifting through life, stuck in a cycle of passivity rather than stepping up to take control. But what if you could design your life with purpose instead of just reacting to whatever comes your way? Mark Collins joins us today to challenge men to do exactly that—to lead boldly, break free from self-doubt, and unlock the full potential of who they were created to be.In this episode of Manlihood, host Josh Hatcher sits down with Mark Collins, a business and life coach, pastor, and author of Life Mastery: Living Life by Design, Not by Default. For over 17 years, Mark has helped men break through fear, uncertainty, and limiting beliefs to step into confident leadership in every area of life. He's sharing the wisdom he's gained through hard-earned experience—covering everything from faith and marriage to personal growth and mindset shifts that will help you build a life with intention.If you're ready to stop drifting and start designing the life you were meant to live, this episode will equip you with the strategies and perspective to make it happen. Let's get into it.Episode Summary:In this episode of Manlihood, host Josh Hatcher sits down with Mark Collins, a business and life coach, pastor, and the founder of Life Mastery. Mark shares how he overcame personal struggles with fear, doubt, and imposter syndrome to develop a framework that helps men break free from passivity and step into bold leadership.Mark discusses the difference between success and fulfillment, how men can overcome disempowering emotions like anxiety and fear, and the importance of identity in personal development. He provides practical tools for creating an identity statement, transforming your thoughts, and building a life by design rather than by default.Throughout the episode, Josh and Mark break down how internal beliefs shape external outcomes, how past experiences can create false identity statements, and how men can shift their mindset to unlock the "hero in hiding." Mark shares wisdom from his Life Mastery course and book, emphasizing the power of self-awareness, personal responsibility, and taking action toward becoming the man you were created to be.Timestamps:
