DIORBECCA's Thoughts

I had some questions for my friend. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/support

Know your partner before making a baby with them, and having a baby will not keep a man that doesn't want to be kept. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/support

Take control of Your Year! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/support

Whatever category your wife belongs to, You created it. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dior-becca/support

Setting boundaries in 2023 will bring about a healthier life ( with focus your mental health). You're the very best

What are you willing to give up for the life you want? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Always comes with a manual. Read in between the lines and apply some wisdom. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

There's no reason your husband should have a female bestie/work wife that isn't you. Men are most vulnerable around such females because they seem to trust them a lot. Without any hesitation, that friendship must be discontinued. #justmyonecent --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

As much as You can, try not to marry wrong. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Bride brags to her friend about her husband, then friend had somethings to share. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

....and leave it with Him. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Awwwnnn... social Media is such a darling

The biggest reason for breakup is cheating and domestic violence. Most likely, your friend won't cheat on you or assault you in any way because they don't want to see you hurt. They already feel a high level of commitment and affection towards you . --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Shouldn't you give Lemons first before asking what a woman can make out of lemons? Depending on the quantity and available ingredients, she could make a lemonade, slice some into a glass of magarita or just simply squeeze on Oysters. But give her the lemons first! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Sleep with one Eye open. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Know the category your man belongs to first before putting unnecessary pressure on yourself. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Let's touch on duties and obligations. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Coming back from a failed marriage is okay, coming back in a coffin is NOT. Do not stay for the sake of the kids, leave because of them so you can Live to raise your children. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Will Smith set himself on fire to keep his wife warm. He got really burned, while his wife said she didn't need his warmth, She is capable of keeping herself warm. In the end, He got a 10yr ban from the academy. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

I watched the show Young, Famous and African and I had somethings to say about it

Ms Delena (a pastor's daughter) was happy to share her experience regarding premarital counseling in her church. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

This is an introductory episode to premarital counseling. Who you should talk to and why. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Let's tap into the difference.

Errmmm, I have a ton of questions. Let's talk at diorbeccathoughts@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Our wokeness today enables all the very wrong things. Deciding to have children out of wedlock and against your partner's wishes is the most common of all. I was thinking aloud about the consequences of such decisions and most of all, it's effect on the innocent babies. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Men want what they want. We can't help them determine what is important in a relationship. So if 20% at the loss of 80% is more important, let them have it. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

The picture of my box is on my Instagram page @diorbecca. HAPPY NEW YEAR!

In my mother's tongue....Be grateful for all that happened this year, count your lessons and blessings. Actively plan for a great 2022 and rock it like the super star that you are! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

This is my for dirty-thirties! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

A lot of people often want to share a life in the name of marriage without actually "sharing" any part of it. They run marriages like relationships where no commitment is required. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Today's men wants to know what you're bringing to the empty table they provided. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Out of six types of intimacy that exists, Why do you practice just ONE? Is it because it is the most enjoyable that requires the least work? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

You can't teach what you haven't learned. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

You teach people in general and your lover specifically how to treat you by what you allow, accept, tolerate, communicate and demand. By not teaching these lessons effectively, you set yourself up for heartbreak and disrespect. Therefore, you have to accept your role as the teacher and realize that you are responsible to set the parameters for what is acceptable and preferred treatment by your partner.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Is it really love if there's no trust? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Our moral standards, views and perceptions varies due to our individual differences. However one thing that remains constant is the truth and fact. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

I recently joined club house and it went like..... --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Before either gender decides to get married, there's always a tale of gut feelings (from men). For women, they always require a kind of thoughtfulness that money can't buy. As you have heard from my friends, the certainty of marriage after courtship doesn't require a set of rules written in stone (especially when you feel your money, sex or domestic duties will guarantee marriage). To the best of my knowledge, God and your character will guarantee you marriage before LOVE does. THANK YOU ALL FOR SUPPORTING ME.

Tell me what you think. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

This is me not minding my business

Let's go a little deep into commitments that comes with friendship. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

What's your New Year's resolutions looking like? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

When they tell you who they are, don't just ignore it. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

"Don't throw stones if you live in a glass house". --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

"Being a good man is something you do, not something you are". --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

"Fear is like a rocking chair. It will keep you busy but take you nowhere". --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Be safe this holiday season so you can celebrate many more holiday seasons to come. Be the reason someone smiles today. Pay kindness forward. Make it rain SURPRISES!

Don't worry about people waltzing in and out of your life. They're either helping you discover new sides to you, or they are leaving you lessons to learn from. Either way, you are growing into an amazing version of yourself. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Studies into inter-personal connectivity have shown that friendships are the most important relationships we have in terms of our health and happiness, and cultivating them into old age could even help us live longer. Here is our shared experiences so far... --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support

Old enough to get married? Then act like it for your sake.

How about testing yourself to know if you're ready to share your personal space, push your patience limit, practice having a mature conversation and above learning conflict management with your other half. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dior-becca/support