Fleekazoid

For large transitions, and when you're scared you're not going to be ok. This episode recounts the events I mentally went through when moving out, and how I came to develop my sense of "I'm gonna be ok no matter what" over a 2 year time span, after moving out of my moms house. Follow me everywhere for real time content ❤ IG - fleeksie Tiktok - fleeksie Twitch - fleeksie

While I've always had an inclination for solitude, I still found myself occasionally buying into the narrative, during my youth and adulthood, where I believed it was one of the worst things that could ever happen to me. Today's episode is about acceptance of isolation, whether it was self-induced or randomly brought upon you, and how to know when you found peace with it and can even celebrate it. This episode starts at 0 and goes to 100 around 12 minutes in.

Listen to this when you can't get over how much you hate a person, place or thing and want to take your mind back.

Re-romanticizing is the name we're going with today because this shit is a life practice that never stops. Today's topic covers 11 talking points of how to treat it like one. Whether you arrived at this place from heartbreak, job woes, toxic circles and surroundings, or just pure ennui. This is for embracing inner, outer, audible and tangible change.

Nothing I say can ever prepare you for the logic that will inevitably fly out the window if you feel even a slither of emotion for someone you're trying to move on from. Let's start there. However, I am not going to make you feel bad about it. Here's my indepth thoughts on how to deal, heal and self talk when you're dealing with a man who won't let you move on.

So you went through a breakup. Now what? Well, it's time to decide who you are (you know, after you peel away from all the parts of you that you became while dating that person). No, this isn't a long episode about how you need to “just love yourself”. Infact, I didn't even say that phrase once in the entire episode. This is for anyone who is grappling with all the little things. Like, do you stay friends with their friends? Do you go back to the girl friends they dubbed as “hoes”? And all those things you loved that they called lame, were they really that lame? Spoiler alert, no, yes, and no! But listen anyways just to remind yourself

You don't want to move on, but everyone around you is telling you it's been time to. And yet, here we are. I'm not here to shame you, because I've been you. Outer circle of people begging me to move on and all. Here's an understanding take on how to move on when you secretly don't want too, and what it takes to get you to that place. https://www.patreon.com/fleeksie

The infamous topic of ghosting has arrived. Ghosting sucks and you're totally normal for being affected by it. In today's episode, I attempt to address the need for feedback, closure, answers, an apology, and how to make sense of it all and bounce back when you're sitting in the feeling of rejection. I also talk about the types of ghosters, reasons they do it, and how it's not your job to make them unghost you.

In today's episode we discuss making an identity out of pain and how we end up letting moments of rejection, separation or unfortunate situations unnecessarily define us. How this can be harmful to us, why we shouldn't do it, and allowing ourselves to move forward with self forgiveness and fluidity. This is discussed in relation to breakups, losing jobs, and any jarring life event that feels like we'll never be able to let go or move on from. Support the patreon: https://www.patreon.com/fleeksie

Moving out of your parents for the first time? This video podcast starts with financial expectations and the general amount to have saved. We discuss moving (getting boxes, moving companies vs task rabbits and renting a van). The topic then expands into requirements to anticipate based on wherever you are applying to move. How to apartment shop online, how to prepare documents to send on your application, and what to expect on your application. We try to cover every little corner and address every fear about leaving your parents and living alone. Each segment of topics contains responses to questions from a live audience chat. This topic is geared from the perspective of being absolutely confused and starting from ground zero and with very little to spend. It also includes the personal experience of myself and the stressors i went through, and how I self soothed through my anxiety. This is all about how to move and how to find an apartment in the hellish year of 2022 and how it's completely normal to be stressed out by all of this. Please consider supporting the patreon if you enjoy my content! https://www.patreon.com/fleeksie

Moving out of your parents for the first time? This video podcast starts with financial expectations and the general amount to have saved. We discuss moving (getting boxes, moving companies vs task rabbits and renting a van). The topic then expands into requirements to anticipate based on wherever you are applying to move. How to apartment shop online, how to prepare documents to send on your application, and what to expect on your application. We try to cover every little corner and address every fear about leaving your parents and living alone. Each segment of topics contains responses to questions from a live audience chat. This topic is geared from the perspective of being absolutely confused and starting from ground zero and with very little to spend. It also includes the personal experience of myself and the stressors i went through, and how I self soothed through my anxiety. This is all about how to move and how to find an apartment in the hellish year of 2022 and how it's completely normal to be stressed out by all of this. Please consider supporting the patreon if you enjoy my content! https://www.patreon.com/fleeksie

You might not even realize you're in one. You might be thinking "he said he likes me" or "he said he loves me", and you might think that situationships are only for the people in one sided dynamics. Well my friend, I'm here to expand your view. I'm also here to explain how situationships exist on a plane of emotional ab**se. Today's episode is also packed with advice as well.

So many reasons to dislike them, where does a girl even start? Today's episode is a rant styled list of reasons of why I dislike dating apps and have discontinued my use of them.

In today's episode, we talk about how we find ourselves in situationships. How they thrive under our noses, and how we can either push them forward or keep it pushing all together. The main theme: it's not about how they feel about you, it's about how you feel about you and what you feel like you're worth (which is so much more than a situationship).

No, we're not just talking about a dollar value and who you date. This is about the intrinsic value of your time and mental energy and being intentional with it across the board of whoever you deal with, and how to recognize when it's being drained or even exploited. This is meant to hype you up to gtf away from these mofo's, or to atleast set boundaries with them. It's also me voicing my frustrations to a certain degree. Yeah, sorry about that in advance.

That tense, heightened, intense feeling that makes you wonder if you're crazy? Yeah, that's your needs and emotions demanding to be recognized. Today we break it down, and talk about how you can recognize yours.

What they said was kinda mean, but that's just how they are… SIKE! They're a**holes. Today's episode is talking about negging, and people who use flaw finding and flaw exploiting as a conversational device. This addresses a range of people, i.e; those who you just met, long term relationships, friendships, and co workers. Why you should shut that sh*t down, and let it burnnnnnn (the connection that is). Because you shouldn't have to gaslight yourself another second longer. It's not normal, cute, or funny and I'm done pretending like it is!

Ok, literally *everyone* says this. But seriously, a large part of moving on is acceptance, and today's episode is a walk down the brutal streets of acceptance lane. Why leaving someone alone who doesn't want you in their life is the nicest thing you can do for them, and why you can't love another person into loving you back.

It's a trying *ss time to be a positive person. Is this what living through history feels like? Today we're talking about spiraling into a doom mindset and being a doomer. Making doom your identity and the center of all your conversations (without dismissing the times).

Today's episode is answering FAQ and is a pre-episode as an intro to season 2 of the Fleekazoid podcast. We discuss where I've been, where I'd like to go, and give an update on my personal life (trigger warning: scorpio mention jump scare alert). The purpose is to set the mood for what's to come and to provide background context and personal notes behind the episodes and my content.

So you blocked and unblocked him? Maybe you've done this more than once. Maybe you've even done it over the course of years. Whether you did it unprompted or if he resurfaced and elicited you to do it, today's episode is for the girls who are stuck in this pattern, and we talk about how to break it and come to your senses (with love and compassion!).

Today's episode addresses the topic of feeling like we don't have value until a man decides to see it in us by dating, or committing to us. This episode fights back against the idea that you can't have excitement, purpose, and fulfillment in your world without a man in it. Why you CAN have all these things, and how waiting for man to fulfill that role can be codependent and toxic to your sense of self and progress.

Debating on if it's time to block that man? Today's episode will push you over that cliff you're staring down. But first, two personal story times by Fleeksie! One based off a man from a previous podcast episode (Limerence and emotional dysregulation ft. the felon) and a second story time that inspired this episode specifically. This is meant to motivate you to stop holding out false hope that THAT man will ever change (spoiler alert - he wont) and to slam that door on his face once and for all.

The word dusty gets thrown around so often, but what does it even mean? It seems like the ultimate insult, but is it an actual archetype? Today's episode defines dusty in the way fleeksie uses it and the ways it can be embodied by a man. We also discuss how these various embodiments of a dusty can affect your life, and what you should watch out for if you are dealing with this type of individual. We also discuss why it is so much more than a man who is just broke or 50/50 minded, and how your life path can be forever altered by one.

Today's episode discusses emotional unavailability in dating! How it can be socially ingrained, and why it's not your job to make a man who's emotionally unavailable, to available.

In todays episode, we discuss why you should operate ruthlessly in favor of yourself and make it everyone else's problem! How this mindset plays into dating, self validation, and sense of self worth. We also discuss being judged, how you will never be able to avoid it, and why trying to mitigate and minimize judgement from outsiders is a band aid on an issue that will never go away.

Today's episode addresses the highly sought out question of "Where did you get so much confidence?". We discuss misconceptions of confidence and self esteem, knowing who you are, defining yourself, and addressing the topic of putting yourself online on a social media platform when you have people in your sphere who might judge you for it. We discuss why those people are wrong and stupid, and why you should cut them all off! This episode also shares a small story time of fleeksie's upbringing as a child, and how parents who coddle you from negativity and bullies are not a factor of your present self esteem.

Has a man ever seemed like they were doing something kind, thoughtful, and in your favor, only for you to find out it was an action that secretly benefited him? Or worse, was being done to facilitate a false sense of trust, closeness, or to make himself seem more likable than he actually is? Today's episode details a list of actions men engage in that have secret hidden intentions that are gross, lame, or outright manipulative. Throughout each point, the questions are asked: why do they do this? How to spot it, and how to avoid it.

Ever wondered if the man you're entertaining on a dating app is a dusty minded man who's entitled, before deciding to meet him? Today's episode looks at tell tale signs and nuances that give away when a man is approaching you with a self serving attitude, who could potentially be a thirsty MF who will try your life (online and in person). This episode is inspired by and recounts a story time with an entitled dusty fleeksie met up with, a week before this podcast was recorded, and another entitled dusty she almost met up with. The mutual behaviors they both displayed, the red flags she ignored, and how you can avoid these types of individuals by spotting the signs of their character and nature early on.

Today's episode takes a look at what it means to be "love drunk", or rather, the psychological terms for it, being limerent or even emotionally dysregulated. Defining both, how to manage if you deal with these things, and how these aspects of ourselves play into post vaccination desperation. Then, a personal story time of Fleeksie's experience dating a felon in her own post vaccination desperation episode (for comedic relief and a lesson in dating).

Todays podcast is about the dusties of 2021. This episode is inspired and based on a very recent story time of a 25 year old, 5'7, self proclaimed money having man, who feigned to be things such as a "provider and protector" to speed run getting me (fleeksie) into the sheets, days before this was recorded. This is also an educational break down of the 2021 dusties who are learning tactics from red pill spaces that encourage conning, lying, conspicuous spending, and pretending to be something they are not to have access to women romantically and physically.

Today's podcast is for the women who are new to having standards. A non sugar themed episode! The themes are centered on scouting out incompetence, behaviors of men who are of dusty-mindset, and on knowing when you are dealing with someone who is not genuinely interested in you. The goal is to empower and normalize dating as a woman for your own benefit and betterment, and to do so with Machiavellian like ruthlessness. To listen to the uncensored version of this podcast, go to the official fleekazoid youtube channel.

This podcast episode focuses on friendships. Discussing why those we admire, call our friends, family, and coworkers do not distance themselves from those who are deemed bad by others or by ourselves.

This podcast episode discusses sugaring terms, and includes advice that will helps those who are new to this world or those looking for affirmation on what they already know.

This podcast discusses the allegations made towards Michaela within the sugar community. This attempts to have a fair, balanced, and direct conversation about the events that have transpired. Please do not send any hate to the creator being discussed. This upload is for entertainment and all allegations (as of the date of this upload) are just that, allegations. Since the original upload of this video (2/28/2021) Michaela is on bail and no longer in jail (5/1/2021). original youtube video upload - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lYvybVrCoQY&ab_channel=fleeksie

This episode discusses scams, red flags, and things to look for when dating beneficially and sugaring. These are things that cross over into vanilla dating and can be helpful in scenario's outside of just regular sugaring. link to the original youtube upload to see the visuals https://youtu.be/15cPWSS3fyI Attached are links to reddit forums discussing other scams and red flags that exist in the sugarverse. https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifesty... https://www.reddit.com/r/TheGirlSurvi... https://www.reddit.com/r/onlyfansadvi...