Podcasts about dysregulation

In today's episode, Gina interviews Anna Runkle, the Crappy Childhood Fairy! Anna reveals much about her often traumatic life history and shares some of her most helpful tools for re-regulating the nervous system to find more peace and calm. Finding stability for our brain and nervous system now can have a substantial effect on our life both now and into the future. Listen in for Anna's interesting story and invaluable advice, find more peace and calm today!Please visit our Sponsor Page to find all the links and codes for our awesome sponsors!https://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.com/sponsors/ Thank you for supporting The Anxiety Coaches Podcast. FREE MUST-HAVE RESOURCE FOR Calming Your Anxious Mind10-Minute Body-Scan Meditation for Anxiety Anxiety Coaches Podcast Group Coaching linkACPGroupCoaching.comTo learn more, go to:Website https://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.comJoin our Group Coaching Full or Mini Membership ProgramLearn more about our One-on-One Coaching What is anxiety? Find even more peace and calm with our Supercast premium access membership:For $5 a month, all episodes are ad-free! https://anxietycoaches.supercast.com/Here's what's included for $5/month:❤ New Ad-Free episodes every Sunday and Wednesday❤ Access to the entire Ad-free back-catalog with over 600 episodes❤ Premium meditations recorded with you in mind❤ And more fun surprises along the way!All this in your favorite podcast app!Chapters0:26 Introduction to the Crappy Childhood Fairy2:38 Anna's Journey Through Trauma6:19 The Impact of PTSD13:13 Techniques for Healing19:05 Finding Peace Through Writing22:42 Embracing the Hand We're DealtSummaryAnna Runkle, known as the "crappy childhood fairy," joins the Anxiety Coaches Podcast to discuss her journey of healing from childhood trauma and her innovative approaches to overcoming the adverse effects of such experiences. With a significant online following, Anna has dedicated over three decades to helping those affected by childhood trauma, enabling them to lead happier, more fulfilling lives. Her forthcoming book, "Connectability: Heal the Hidden Ways You Isolate, Find Your People, and Feel, at Last, Like You Belong," focuses on overcoming feelings of disconnection—a common issue both among trauma survivors and those with normal childhoods. Anna highlights that many individuals crave connection and understanding but often feel isolated, leading to loneliness and strained relationships.During the discussion, Anna shares her personal background of growing up in a commune with a mother plagued by addiction, which subjected her and her family to violence, poverty, and neglect. Despite these challenges, she managed to remain a high-functioning student throughout her childhood and early adulthood. However, a series of traumatic events in her 30s, including the death of her mother, a serious heartbreak, and a violent attack, left her with profound psychological effects, specifically post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). At that time, the concept of PTSD was not well understood outside military contexts, leaving Anna feeling isolated and struggling with her mental health amidst overwhelming shame and fear.In her conversation with Gina Ryan, Anna explains the significant misdiagnosis of childhood trauma symptoms, revealing her struggle with emotional dysregulation and her eventual journey to recovery. After initially finding therapy unhelpful, Anna serendipitously discovered effective techniques for managing her anxiety and depression through support from a friend who had also endured severe life struggles. These techniques, which included writing down her anxious and angry thoughts and feelings—effectively releasing them—and practicing meditation, became transformative tools for her.#CPTSD, #ComplexPTSD, #ChildhoodTrauma, #TraumaHealing, #Dysregulation, #NeurologicalDysregulation, #EmotionalRegulation, #Connectability, #Disconnection, #Isolation, #AnnaRunkle, #CrappyChildhoodFairy, #AnxietyCoachesPodcast, #DailyPractice, #Reregulated, #ReRegulation, #TraumaRecovery, #HealingTechniques, #SelfHelp, #LifeSkills, #SocialSkills, #Meditation, #AnxietyRelief, #MentalHealth, #SelfCare, #PersonalGrowth, #HealingJourney, #InnerPeace, #Belonging, #GinaRyan, #ACPSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why does brain inflammation happen during the freeze response? How do you explain the difference between stress and trauma to patients? What's the single most important starting point for nervous system regulation? This episode answers these critical questions while revealing why emotional eating isn't a willpower problem and introducing the simple three-day tracking tool that changes everything for healing. You'll discover the critical line of overwhelm - that invisible threshold where stress becomes trauma - and learn practical strategies you can implement immediately to support your nervous system and begin the repair process. In this episode you'll learn: [01:19] The Biggest Myth: Why confusing stress and trauma leads to minimizing experiences and self-shame  [02:11] Physician's Lens on Trauma: If it makes you sick 20 years later, it wasn't just stress  [06:04] Three Nervous System States: Understanding polyvagal theory and the critical line of overwhelm  [09:52] Brain Inflammation During Freeze: Why immune cells unleash inflammation as protective survival strategy  [13:25] Dysregulation Multiplied by Time: Why autoimmunity takes 20 years of nervous system dysregulation to appear  [14:40] Three-Day Nervous System Journal: Simple hourly tracking tool that reveals hidden patterns  [19:00] The Gut-Brain Connection: Why your gut is inseparable from brain health and trauma loops  [21:22] Emotional Eating and Functional Freeze: Understanding food's hidden functions beyond willpower  [24:40] The #1 Starting Point: Why quality sleep has greatest impact on nervous system regulation  [25:44] Aligning with Circadian Rhythm: Morning sunlight, red light therapy, and working with your body's healing strategies Main Takeaways: Stress vs. Trauma Requires Different Repair: If it makes you sick 20 years later, it was trauma requiring fundamentally different approaches than stress management The Critical Line of Overwhelm: Personal capacity threshold where activation becomes trauma and the body automatically hits emergency brake Brain Inflammation Serves Protection: Immune cells unleash inflammation during freeze to facilitate disconnection and energy conservation for survival Time Compounds Dysregulation: Autoimmunity requires approximately 20 years of nervous system dysregulation to manifest as diagnosable disease Three-Day Tracking Creates Awareness: Hourly nervous system tracking reveals patterns showing time spent in shutdown, stress, or calm aliveness Innate Healing Requires Right Conditions: Surgical incisions prove the body heals itself when blocks are removed and proper support provided Gut-Brain Creates Stuck Points: Imbalanced gut causes neurochemical problems feeding back to worsen gut issues, limiting therapy progress Food Function Reveals Need: Emotional eating serves specific purposes - staying awake, avoiding feelings, managing energy - not willpower failure Sleep Impacts Everything: Quality sleep has greatest single effect on nervous system regulation and reduces sugar cravings Notable Quotes: "If it makes you sick 20 years later, that was not just stress. That was trauma your body was experiencing in childhood. You're looking at it through the lens of your adult self now, but that's not how you were experiencing it back then." "The critical line of overwhelm is where you've done your best. Your best wasn't good enough, and hitting the wall means there's no point in trying anymore." "Brain inflammation is part of a trauma response. Sometimes it triggers it. Sometimes it's triggered by the freeze response, but they always happen together." "Dysregulation multiplied by time becomes diagnoses. It's predictable." "Track your nervous system, and you'll be amazed at how much you learn about yourself in a week."   Episode Takeaway: The critical line of overwhelm represents your personal threshold where stress becomes trauma and your body automatically engages the emergency brake. Brain inflammation during freeze is part of the deliberate survival strategy - helping you disconnect, go numb, and conserve energy for survival. The insight: dysregulation multiplied by time becomes disease. Autoimmunity takes approximately 20 years of compounded nervous system dysregulation to manifest. This explains why short-term stress doesn't cause chronic illness but prolonged trauma patterns do. The three-day nervous system journal - tracking your inner state hourly - reveals patterns invisible to both practitioners and clients. This tracking tool shows how much time you spend in each of the three states and guides targeted intervention. Quality sleep stands as the single most powerful starting point for nervous system regulation. Better sleep reduces emotional eating, decreases sugar cravings, and increases your capacity to handle stress before crossing that critical line into trauma territory. Resources/Guides: The Biology of Trauma book - Available now everywhere books are sold. Get your copy Foundational Journey - If you are ready to create your inner safety and shift your nervous system, join me and my team for this 6 week journey of practical somatic and mind-body inner child practices. Lay your foundation to do the deeper work safely and is the pre-requisite for becoming a Biology of Trauma® professional.  Related Episodes: Episode 101: Brain Inflammation: Addressing The Overlooked Gatekeeper To Trauma Release with. Dr Austin Perlmutter Your host: Dr. Aimie Apigian, double board-certified physician (Preventive/Addiction Medicine) with master's degrees in biochemistry and public health, and author of the national bestselling book "The Biology of Trauma" (foreword by Gabor Maté) that transforms our understanding of how the body experiences and holds trauma. After foster-adopting a child during medical school sparked her journey, she desperately sought for answers that would only continue as she developed chronic health issues. Through her practitioner training, podcast, YouTube channel, and international speaking, she bridges functional medicine, attachment and trauma therapy, facilitating accelerated repair of trauma's impact on the mind, body and biology. Disclaimer: By listening to this podcast, you agree not to use this podcast as medical, psychological, or mental health advice to treat any medical or psychological condition in yourself or others. This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and does not constitute professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your own physician, therapist, psychiatrist, or other qualified health provider regarding any physical or mental health issues you may be experiencing. Comment Etiquette: I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode. Please share and use your name or initials so that we can keep this space spam-free and the discussion positive

What if having the same gene as your sister doesn't mean you'll have the same outcome? What if trauma and nervous system dysregulation could be the difference between expressing a genetic disease—or not? In this mini episode, Dr. Aimie Apigian answers a question from Rachel in Texas, who discovered she carries the BRCA gene mutation. Despite making the same lifestyle changes as her sister—who also has the mutation—Rachel developed breast cancer while her sister remained healthy. Why? Dr. Aimie reveals the biological mechanism that connects nervous system dysregulation to genetic expression: oxidative stress. This episode offers a scientifically grounded yet hopeful perspective on why two people with identical genetics can have vastly different health outcomes—and what you can do about it. In this episode you'll hear more about: Why BRCA mutation carriers have a 45-72% lifetime breast cancer risk (versus 12-13% in the general population)—but not everyone with the gene develops cancer The biological link between nervous system dysregulation and oxidative damage to DNA How BRCA genes interact with NRF2 antioxidant pathways, creating increased vulnerability to oxidative stress Why both sympathetic activation (stress/anxiety) and dorsal vagal shutdown (depression/numbness) decrease your body's ability to clear oxidative stress The "calm alive" state: when your body naturally engages its healing and antioxidant repair mechanisms Dana's story from The Biology of Trauma—a physician with childhood trauma who found a breast lump and learned to repair nervous system dysregulation Practical tools: why vitamin C and antioxidant-rich foods (broccoli, blueberries) matter for genetic conditions How somatic self-practices can quickly shift your nervous system state and support cellular repair Why having a genetic condition doesn't mean you're powerless—epigenetics shows us DNA expression can change Genetics load the gun, but environment and nervous system state pull the trigger. This episode is a powerful reminder that even when you carry genetic risk, your nervous system regulation, oxidative stress levels, and daily practices can dramatically influence whether those genes are expressed. Your biology is not a life sentence.

Think your bloating is just about food? Your anxiety is just in your head? Your chronic constipation is just bad luck? In this episode of The Wellness Effect, we dive deep into why your nervous system is literally the foundation of every single symptom you're experiencing - and why you can't heal anything long-term without addressing it first. From the 500-million-year evolution of our fight-or-flight response to why your body creates a "calcium shell" when you're chronically stressed, we're connecting dots that will completely shift how you approach your healing journey. Whether you've been spinning your wheels trying every supplement and protocol or you're just realizing that your "type A" personality might be keeping you sick, this conversation will give you the tools to finally address the root cause behind the root cause.   In this episode, you'll hear: 16:35 - Why your nervous system is literally responsible for your sensations, feelings, behaviors, thoughts, and how you perceive the world 19:12 - The shocking truth: your nervous system has been around for 500 million years and scans every present moment against past experiences 21:34 - Breaking down the autonomic nervous system: sympathetic (fight/flight) vs parasympathetic (rest/digest) and why you need both 32:48 - The bi-directional gut-brain connection: why 80% of communication flows from body to brain, not the other way around 37:10 - Why talk therapy stops working 39:29 - The brutal signs your nervous system is dysregulated 56:50 - Why nervous system work isn't a one-time fix   Key Takeaways: Your nervous system's only job is to keep you safe - when it feels threatened, it shuts down everything non-essential (digestion, detox, reproduction, healing) You can't out-supplement a dysregulated nervous system - the root cause of most chronic symptoms is energetic, not nutritional Most people are addicted to chaos because their nervous system finds the familiar "unsafe" safer than the unfamiliar calm Simple awareness practices like honoring your basic needs (hunger, thirst, bathroom breaks) are the foundation of nervous system healing Nervous system work requires daily tending like a garden - some days you just peek out the window, other days you spend hours weeding and watering   Resources: Kate (Osteopath) - https://www.dynamichealinginc.ca/ FREE Nervous System Tool Kit - https://bit.ly/nervous-system-toolkit   Want more from us? Visit our website: https://www.lifestyleucoaching.ca/ Follow us on Instagram: @wellnesseffectpod Lacey Iskra - @laceeiskk Jensen - @wellnesswjensen Kira Iskra - @kiraiskk Lifestyle U have helped over 1,000+ women transform their mind and body and become the best version of themselves. Want to be next? Click Here to Apply! - https://www.lifestyleucoaching.ca/apply If you loved this episode and want to hear more, subscribe and leave a review! Share this episode with a friend who's ready to start their own wellness journey. Follow us on Instagram at @wellnesseffectpod to stay up-to-date with the latest episodes and tips.  

Burnout recovery isn't about pushing harder. Learn why proving yourself leads to nervous system dysregulation, not fulfillment — and how identity-level recalibration shifts you from performance pressure to peace.So many high-capacity humans quietly admit: “I've built the life, hit the goals — but why does success still feel empty?”In this episode of The Recalibration, Julie Holly explores the proving reflex — the nervous system's default to override exhaustion, anxiety, or signals of fatigue — and why it leaves leaders feeling hollow. What most people call burnout is often something deeper: nervous system dysregulation rooted in childhood patterns and identity scripts that demand more, no matter the cost.Through the lens of Dr. Linnea Passaler's groundbreaking work on nervous system regulation, Julie unpacks why success without recalibration only multiplies pressure. Dr. Passaler's own story — from high-achieving surgeon to founder of Heal Your Nervous System — shows how ignoring stress signals can trigger chronic dysregulation, and how shifting at the identity level rewires the story we carry in our bodies.This isn't another productivity hack or mindset tactic. Identity-Level Recalibration (ILR) goes beneath the habits and strategies to address the root: who you believe you must be in order to belong. When you recalibrate there, presence replaces proving, and peace replaces pressure.Today's Micro Recalibration:Where am I still trying to earn my place?What would shift if I measured proximity, not proof?Leadership extension: Where have I created a culture of proving on my team?If you've been navigating burnout recovery, decision fatigue, role confusion, or the hollow ache of success without fulfillment — this episode will help you see why identity, not effort, is the missing piece.If this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.

So you've tried to diet your way to control, but instead, you end up feeling more out of control than ever. Why is that? It's not just about willpower or “falling off track.” Dieting actually dysregulates your entire system — your hunger cues, your emotions, your hormones, even your nervous system. The very rules you're following are what cause you to swing back and forth on the pendulum: restrict, rebel, repeat. In episode 257 of Fitness & Sushi, we'll show you why dieting keeps you stuck in chaos, and how to finally break free by learning to stay regulated instead. In this episode — “How Dieting Dysregulates Your Body and Mind (And What to Do Instead)” — you'll learn…

Wir können uns noch so sehr regulieren -wenn wir nie hinschauen, was die Dysregulation eigentlich auslöst, bleibt es nur Symptombehandlung.In dieser Folge geht's darum, dass Nervensystem-Arbeit viel tiefer geht als nur Regulation. Sie kann uns mehr geben, als einfach nur Symptome zu heilen oder wieder „funktionieren“ zu können.Für mich bedeutet das: Ich lerne, wer ich wirklich bin, was ich vom Leben will und was mich glücklich macht. Ich vergleiche mich viel weniger, kann leichter Entscheidungen treffen und bin generell viel zufriedener – auch wenn nicht alles perfekt ist, und das muss es auch gar nicht sein.Meine Beziehungen sind tiefer, weil ich mehr Kapazität habe, mich zu öffnen, andere zu halten und für mich einzustehen. Und ich bin einfach viel mehr.. ich! :)

Episode 1, Season 2: Dysregulation and Three Faces. Strategies for families, with handy visuals to support understanding.In this season our hosts Jane and Matt return with all episodes available to watch as well as listen to! This season has been commissioned by East Sussex County Council - so a huge thanks to them for their support.Over the course of this season we'll be sharing a range of strategies that families can use to start making a positive change to their situation, so do tune in each week and see if you can find some useful support. More about Capa First Response CIC: We provides online, compassionate, expert support for both families and professionals navigating child to parent aggression and and/or harmful behaviours. This is often referred to as ‘CAPVA' – Child or Adolescent to Parent Violence and Abuse.Find out more about us on our website:⁠Capafirstresponse.org⁠Book a ⁠FREE drop in session for parents/carers⁠We already have season one of our podcast explaining in more depth about 'CAPVA' and these behaviours, as well as talking about how it can effect siblings, education and so much more. Podcast editor: AJ LaasMore info: info@capafirstresponse.org

If you don't know who you are as a soul, then you are likely identifying yourself as your wounded self, and you are not your wounded self. Learn how to know your own true self and validate your goodness. 

Today is all about parental dysregulation- what is is, how it shows up, and the impact it has on our children.  To have this powerful and insightful conversation with me today on Yoga | Birth | Babies, I have Dr. Amber Thornton, a licensed Clinical Psychologist and author of A Parent's Guide to Self-Regulation: A Practical Framework for Breaking the Cycle of Dysregulation and Mastering Emotions for Parents and Children. Listen in as we unpack common myths around dysregulation and discuss how to break the cycle. If you've ever felt overwhelmed, anxious, or reactive as a parent, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and strategies to help you feel more grounded and connected. Get the most out of each episode by checking out the show notes with links, resources and other related podcasts at: prenatalyogacenter.com (*hyperlink episode link from Wordpress!) Don't forget to grab your FREE guide, 5 Simple Solutions to the Most Common Pregnancy Pains HERE  If you love what you've been listening to, please leave a rating and review! Yoga| Birth|Babies (Apple) or on Spotify! To connect with Deb and the PYC Community:  Instagram & Facebook: @prenatalyogacenter Youtube: Prenatal Yoga Center Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Gefühle als Kompass: Wie wir sie nutzen können, um echte innere Stärke zu entwickeln. In dieser bewegenden Episode von HEALTHWISE spricht Nils Behrens mit Bestsellerautorin und somatischer Trainerin Jeannine Mik über die stille Kraft der kleinen Schritte.

What if your overwhelm isn't from doing too much but from not getting what you actually need?Breaks down what nervous system dysregulation really is and why it goes undiagnosed in high-functioning womenHighlights overlooked signs of dysregulation like executive dysfunction, emotional reactivity, and rejection sensitivityDives deep into how internalized ableism keeps you stuck in burnout and self-blameUncovers five key areas of life (work, relationships, environment, mental health, goals) that silently sabotage your regulationWalks through practical, deeply validating ways to start identifying your needs and setting boundaries that actually stickLinks mentioned:

Subscribe here or wherever you get your podcasts. Today's guide is Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, expert in helping parents work with their kids who have emotional and behavioral challenges. She will present at the NRBS conference on a growing epidemic of emotional dysregulation among young people, and what we can do about it.If you enjoy this podcast, join NRBS for our annual conference, October 24-26 in New York City. Check out our free webinars and continuing eduction series.Please rate us and leave reviews. It really helps get us to more listeners.This podcast is produced by the Northeast Region Biofeedback Society. NRBS is an organization for professionals, students, and everyone interested in neurofeedback, biofeedback, and whole body health.Learn more about Dr. Saul Rosenthal at advancedbehavioral.care.Contact us at healthybrain@nrbs.org.Our theme music is Catch It by Coma-MediaThe Healthy Brain Happy Body logo was designed by Alexandra VanDerlyke. Our heartfelt thanks to her and the rest of the team at Collectively Rooted.#biofeedback #neurofeedback #nrbsMentioned in this episode:NRBS Conference 2025

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Have you ever wondered why your child melts down after the smallest stressor—no matter what strategies you try? It can leave you drained, second-guessing yourself, and wondering if you're doing something wrong. You're not alone. It's not bad parenting—it's a dysregulated brain.In this episode, we uncover the hidden link between gut issues and emotional dysregulation in kids. You'll learn how the gut-brain connection affects mood, behavior, and focus—and discover practical steps to support both your child's emotional well-being and their gut microbiome at home.Why does my child melt down after eating certain foods?Many parents tell me they notice their child's behavior shifts right after meals—but what they don't realize is that the gut microbiome plays a significant role in emotional regulation.Food sensitivities like gluten, dairy, and artificial dyes can spark systemic inflammation, which shows up as mood swings and behavior changes.Constipation and poor gut health allow toxins to recirculate, affecting both emotional well-being and even pain perception.A leaky gut—or increased intestinal permeability—lets harmful substances enter the bloodstream, disrupting the brain and nervous system.So if your child melts down after eating, it may not be “just behavior.” It's communication from the gut-brain axis—and your child's body is asking for help.If you're tired of walking on eggshells or feeling like nothing works…Get the FREE Regulation Rescue Kit and finally learn what to say and do in the heat of the moment.Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP at www.drroseann.com/newsletter and take the first step to a calmer home.How are gut issues connected to emotional dysregulation?Most parents assume the gut is only about digestion, but it actually has a direct line to the central nervous system and your child's mental health. When the gut is off balance, your child's ability to regulate emotions, focus, and cope with stress takes a hit too.Did you know that up to 90% of serotonin, the neurotransmitter that helps regulate mood and attention, is made in the digestive tract? That means your child's gut isn't just helping them process food—it's helping them manage emotions and stay calm.When there's gut dysbiosis (an imbalance of beneficial gut bacteria), kids are more likely to struggle with heightened anxiety, depressive symptoms, and poor emotional regulation.Chronic stress and an unhealthy gut microbiome create a feedback loop that keeps kids stuck in cycles of emotional distress and behavioral challenges.

Dysregulation during sex made early intimacy challenging for Emily Zawadzki and her now wife – until a diagnosis changed everything. Kat's Asperger's made romantic relationships tricky, until she met her wife. Rachael Rose navigates polyamory as an ADHD person, and sees how her drive for dopamine and lack of a sense of time (“time blindness”) affects sex and dating.   Download Emily's free workbook, Redefining Sex and Communication as a Neuro-Queer: emilyzedsexed.com/newsletter   Learn more from Rachael Rose: https://hedonish.com/   IG: @GirlBonerMedia   FB: @MyGirlBoner  TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.

In dieser Folge nehme ich dich mit in eine Livesession zum Thema Ressourcen, die ich vor einer Weile in meiner NI Ausbildung gehalten habe.  In dieser Folge erfährst du: wodurch sich Ressourcen und Kompensationsstrategien unterscheiden weshalb es wichtig ist, die Gründe für Kompensationsstrategien zu erforschen wann Erinnerungen Ressourcen sind und wann sie zur Kompensationsstrategie werden warum Dysregulation ein ansteckender Zustand sein kann wie stabil eine Begleiterin oder ein Begleiter sein muss. Shownotes: Kompensation oder Selbstregulation? // Podcast #190 Erstarren & Funktionieren als Traumafolge // Podcast #131 Dissoziation- Rettung und Bürde // Podcast #63 Die Kraft der Selbstregulation // Podcast #83 // #290 Umgang mit starken Gefühlen // Podcast #139 Wie Selbstregulation gelingt // Podcast #209 Interessierst du dich für meine Ausbildung NI Neurosystemische Integration®? Melde dich bis zum 09.09.25 23.59 Uhr an und werde Teil einer heilsamen Bewegung!: https://www.verenakoenig.de/akademie/ni-ausbildung/  Möchtest du wissen, ob die Ausbildung in NI Neurosystemische Integration® traumasensibles Coaching, ganzheitlich-integrative Traumaarbeit passend für dich ist? Dann sieh dir gerne die Aufzeichnung unserer kostenlosen Infoveranstaltung zur Ausbildung an: https://youtube.com/live/4RjJcE-wVVI    Ich freue mich sehr, dir meinen neuen Postkartenkalender vorzustellen! Ab sofort ist es möglich, diesen vorzubestellen: https://www.verenakoenig.de/buecher/postkartenkalender-verbunden-mit-dir/  Interessierst du dich für mein neues Buch „Trauma und Beziehungen”? Hier findest du mehr Informationen dazu: www.verenakoenig.de/buecher/trauma-und-beziehungen/  3 traumasensible Meditationen – Komme im Hier und Jetzt an und finde Sicherheit in deiner Präsenz. Trage dich hier ein und wir schicken dir den Link zu den Meditationen zu: https://www.verenakoenig.de/geschenke/3-traumasensible-meditationen/  Kennst du schon mein wunderschönes, neues Kartendeck? Ob in akuten Stresssituationen, als tägliches Ritual oder spontane Inspiration – 56 Impulse helfen dir zu mehr Selbstregulation und Sicherheit im Hier und Jetzt: https://www.verenakoenig.de/buecher/kartendeck-verbinde-dich-mit-dir-selbst/  Wünschst du dir mehr Nervensystem-Regulation und Selbstbestimmung? Dann trage dich in unsere unverbindliche Interessentenliste für den Kurs „Nervensystemkompass“ ein: https://www.verenakoenig.de/online-kurse/nervensystemkompass/   Wenn du teilen möchtest, was dich in dieser Folge bewegt hat oder wenn du gerne etwas anmerken möchtest, dann folge mir auf Instagram oder Facebook. Dort findest du jede Menge weiterführende Inspiration.  Verena auf Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/verenakoenig.official/   Verena auf Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/verenakoenig.de   Verpasse keine Neuigkeiten mehr! Erhalte jeden Freitag eine Mail mit dem aktuellen Podcast und interessanter Inspiration: https://verenakoenig.de/tinlanmeldung 

You know those days when your timing is off, your focus is fuzzy, and your dog's picking up on something you can't quite name? That might not be mindset or nerves — it might be nervous system dysregulation. In this episode, Julie unpacks what regulation really means, how it affects performance, and why both you and your dog need support in this area. Includes a quick breakdown of the science, real-life examples, simple tools to get regulated, and a bonus riff on dopamine's role in all of this.

What if dysregulation isn't the problem? I know I know- that's really hard to wrap our brain around! At least, it was for me. In this episode, I continue the conversation from last week's interview with Deb Dana and take a deeper dive into one of her most powerful insights: that dysregulation is simply part of being human—and it's the absence of repair that becomes the real challenge.But I think for parents of kids with big, baffling behaviors, we need to pause and explore that a little more. Because- in your home- dysregulation is a real problem!!!In this episode, you'll learn:Why dysregulation is a natural part of being human, and how polyvagal theory reframes it with compassion and hopeThe difference between dysregulation itself and the behaviors that can emerge from itHow offering repair—even when it isn't received—can create powerful shifts in your child's nervous system and in your ownResources mentioned in this podcast:Polyvagal Theory as a Path to Hope: Regulation, Repair, and Connection with guest Deb Dana {EP 233}The Club – my online parent community with resources, events, and connections!!!!The Attachment Series - eBookFree Resource Library Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/polyvagalhope***Apply now for the BBTI's Immersion Program for Professionals!Read all the details about the program and submit your application at RobynGobbel.com/Immersion*** :::Grab a copy of my book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/bookJoin us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClubApply for the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) robyngobbel.com/ImmersionFollow Me On:FacebookInstagram Over on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute's (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)

Ever feel like your emotions are stuck on full blast… and the remote's gone missing? Yeah, me too!In this episode of Navigating Adult ADHD, I'm diving into six ways emotional dysregulation can show up in adult life, from going from 0–100 in seconds to struggling to calm down long after the moment has passed.We'll explore:What emotional regulation actually is (and how it's like having a remote control for your feelings)Why emotional dysregulation is such a core ADHD challengeReal-life examples you'll probably relate toHow these intense, “loud” emotions can impact work, relationships, and daily lifePlus I share a little life update from my trip to Hawaii, and details on my upcoming keynote at the New Zealand ADHD Conference in Auckland.*Get your ADHD Conference tickets here: myspiritedchild.com *Grab the free 1-page episode cheat sheet: navigatingadultadhd.com/cheatsheetEmotional regulation isn't something we were taught in school - but it is something we can learn.For more support visit: www.navigatingadultadhd.com

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In this reflection I consider the ways Giftedness, INTJness and Type 8-ness overlap. Supporting themes: Perceptivity; Divergency; Entelechy; Sensitivity; Excitability; Power and the matrix; Taking action; Autism; Dysregulation; Education; Social Institutions and the socialization process; Banking and customer service; Christianity and proselytizing;. This reflection was influenced in part by the Bible (John 1:1-3); and Howard Gardner ("Multiple Intelligence"). Typology: Cognitive functions of the INTJ; Core values of Enneagram Type 8.

Does it feel like no matter what you try—therapy, medication, behavior plans, or new routines—your child still can't calm down, stay focused, or manage big emotions? You're not alone—and you're certainly not failing as a parent.So many families come to me after trying everything, only to watch their child continue to spiral. That's when we stop chasing symptoms and start addressing the root cause: a dysregulated nervous system.In this episode, I'm walking you through what actually works to create lasting change. From calming the brain and building emotional safety to using science-backed, sensory-based tools, you'll learn how to help your child regulate from the inside out.Why Doesn't Traditional Therapy Work for a Dysregulated Child?It's heartbreaking when therapy doesn't help, but the problem isn't the therapist—it's the timing. A dysregulated brain simply can't process insight.Talk therapy assumes the brain is ready to reason. But when kids are in chronic fight, flight, or freeze, that thinking part of the brain is offline.What Works Instead:Start with nervous system regulation—then therapy becomes effective.Use play, movement, and sensory input for younger or highly dysregulated kids.Don't expect meds to teach skills. They may reduce symptoms but don't build regulation.Regulation is a skill, not a switch. It develops with practice, connection, and safety—not punishment or over-verbalizing.Want to stay calm when your child pushes every button?Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP and get the FREE Regulation Rescue Kit—your step-by-step guide to stop oppositional behaviors without yelling or giving in.Go to www.drroseann.com/newsletter and grab your kit today.What Brain-Based Tools Can Help Regulate Emotional Reactivity?You don't need a complicated treatment plan filled with charts, timers, or new rewards every week. What your child really needs is simple, brain-friendly tools used consistently—tools that calm the nervous system and support regulation from the inside out.The key is working with your child's biology, not against it. When the nervous system feels safe and supported, the brain becomes more flexible, and emotional reactivity begins to settle. That's when your child can finally start to pause, think, and respond—not just react.One powerful option is neurofeedback or PEMF therapy, which helps the brain learn how to shift into more regulated patterns over time. These tools gently retrain the brain for calm and focus, creating lasting changes without side effects.Daily breathwork and grounding exercises are another game-changer. Long, slow exhales activate the vagus nerve, signaling to the body that it's safe. Even just a few minutes a day can make a big impact.Here are a few simple grounding strategies to try:Lying flat on the floor to reconnect with the bodyTapping each arm gently in a slow, calming rhythmDoing a body scan before bed to release tension and improve sleepSensory integration activities are incredibly effective for resetting a dysregulated brain. These movements strengthen the communication between both sides of the brain and support mood, focus, and behavior.Try incorporating:Cross-body movements (like cross crawls or opposite elbow-to-knee taps)Rhythm games (clapping, drumming, or patterned jumping)Deep pressure input (weighted blankets, bear hugs, or joint compressions)Biofeedback is another helpful tool. It teaches kids how to control automatic...

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It's 2 AM, and you're lying in bed, reliving every word of an email you sent hours earlier, your mind spinning worst-case scenarios that could ruin your business. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone—especially if you have ADHD. Entrepreneurial life magnifies our emotional intensity, for better and for worse, and in this episode, I'm getting real about a topic most business circles avoid: the double-edged sword of emotional intensity for entrepreneurs with ADHD.Running a business and being an entrepreneur with ADHD comes with a unique set of challenges, based on the fact that our emotional intensity can be both a business advantage and a potential hazard at the same time. We are talking about the fine line between passion and emotional dysregulation. Emotional dysregulation is not “being too sensitive” or being overly dramatic; it's brain mechanics. The same executive function deficits that scramble our to-do lists also juggle our emotional responses, often treating every emotion as urgent. If you wonder why advice like “just breathe” doesn't work for us the way it does for neurotypicals, this is why. Here are 5 keys you'll pick up from this episode:What Emotional Dysregulation Is: Learn why it's way more than just “being sensitive”—it's a real neurological challenge for ADHD brains.Solopreneurship's Perfect Storm: Discover how running a business solo can amplify emotional ups and downs, thanks to isolation and rejection sensitivity.How Emotional Intensity Can Hijack Business Decisions: Find out how unchecked emotions can affect your pricing, negotiations, and every tough conversation.Spotting the Difference Between Passion and Dysregulation: Learn concrete ways to tell if your drive is fueling your business or putting it at risk of burning down.Practical Tools to Build Emotional Resilience: Get real-life strategies for pause protocols, circuit breakers, sleep/nutrition hacks, boundaries, and even the right kind of professional support.Fun Fact:Did you know that your ADHD brain processes emotions more like a smoke detector than a thermostat?If you're tired of advice like “just breathe” and want strategies that actually work for our

Many women with ADHD struggle to manage their emotions. Strong feelings like anger, sadness, and guilt tend to come on fast and feel hard to control. This can make everyday life feel confusing and overwhelming.In this episode, Dr. Monica Johnson explains how ADHD makes it harder to manage emotions. Find out why feelings like anger, sadness, and frustration can feel so strong for ADHD women to manage. And learn effective strategies to help you deal with these emotions.Related resourcesTips from an ADHD Coach: Psychological safetyADHD and emotionsMissUnderstood: The ADHD in Women ChannelWe love hearing from our listeners! Email us at podcasts@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

It's 2 AM, and you're lying in bed, reliving every word of an email you sent hours earlier, your mind spinning worst-case scenarios that could ruin your business. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone—especially if you have ADHD. Entrepreneurial life magnifies our emotional intensity, for better and for worse, and in this episode, I'm getting real about a topic most business circles avoid: the double-edged sword of emotional intensity for entrepreneurs with ADHD.Running a business and being an entrepreneur with ADHD comes with a unique set of challenges, based on the fact that our emotional intensity can be both a business advantage and a potential hazard at the same time. We are talking about the fine line between passion and emotional dysregulation. Emotional dysregulation is not “being too sensitive” or being overly dramatic; it's brain mechanics. The same executive function deficits that scramble our to-do lists also juggle our emotional responses, often treating every emotion as urgent. If you wonder why advice like “just breathe” doesn't work for us the way it does for neurotypicals, this is why. Here are 5 keys you'll pick up from this episode:What Emotional Dysregulation Is: Learn why it's way more than just “being sensitive”—it's a real neurological challenge for ADHD brains.Solopreneurship's Perfect Storm: Discover how running a business solo can amplify emotional ups and downs, thanks to isolation and rejection sensitivity.How Emotional Intensity Can Hijack Business Decisions: Find out how unchecked emotions can affect your pricing, negotiations, and every tough conversation.Spotting the Difference Between Passion and Dysregulation: Learn concrete ways to tell if your drive is fueling your business or putting it at risk of burning down.Practical Tools to Build Emotional Resilience: Get real-life strategies for pause protocols, circuit breakers, sleep/nutrition hacks, boundaries, and even the right kind of professional support.Fun Fact:Did you know that your ADHD brain processes emotions more like a smoke detector than a thermostat?If you're tired of advice like “just breathe” and want strategies that actually work for our

When your child is constantly overwhelmed, melting down over transitions, or avoiding tasks altogether, it's easy to feel like they're just not trying. But the truth is much deeper than behavior. Their brain is likely dysregulated—and stuck in survival mode.Let's walk through what's really happening inside your child's brain when they can't focus, remember directions, or sit still… and what we can do to help them thrive.What Happens to the Brain When a Child Experiences Trauma or Chronic Stress?Trauma hijacks the nervous system. When a child experiences trauma or ongoing stress, their brain shifts into survival mode—fight, flight, freeze, or fawn. This automatic response shuts down the very brain regions responsible for learning, focus, and behavior regulation.One of the first areas impacted is the prefrontal cortex, which governs executive functioning. When this part of the brain goes offline, your child may struggle with impulse control, organization, memory, and attention—not because they aren't capable, but because their brain is busy trying to stay safe.At the same time, the body floods with stress hormones like cortisol, keeping your child in a hypervigilant state. They may appear jumpy, on edge, or quick to react—because their nervous system is stuck in overdrive.Sensory input also becomes overwhelming, making even routine classroom activities feel chaotic or threatening. Transitions, bright lights, or loud sounds can easily trigger a shutdown or meltdown.Focus and memory decline when the brain is in survival modeImpulsivity and disorganization are signs the prefrontal cortex is offlineSensory overwhelm makes learning environments feel unsafeMeltdowns, avoidance, or zoning out are protective—not defiant—responsesReal-Life ExampleOne mom shared how her daughter would break down in tears every time math came up—not because she didn't understand the numbers, but because her nervous system went straight into panic mode. That fear of failure was rooted in earlier struggles that left her feeling ashamed and defeated.Once they shifted the focus to calming her brain first—with simple regulation strategies—her anxiety around math began to ease, and learning became possible again.What Does Emotional Dysregulation Look Like in the Classroom?Emotional dysregulation doesn't follow one script. It shows up in so many different ways—and that's exactly why kids get so often misunderstood, misdiagnosed, or mislabeled.

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Support the show and get 50% off MCT oil with free shipping—just leave us a review on iTunes and let us know!https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/live-beyond-the-norms/id1714886566 That constant state of 'go, go, go' feels productive, even powerful, until one day you realize the engine you've been running on is actually your own survival instinct. The very drive that pushes you to succeed might be steering you directly toward burnout, hormonal chaos, and chronic stress.My guest today, Dr. Mariza Snyder, knows this cycle intimately. She spent years running from childhood trauma, channeling that energy into becoming a hyper-efficient, top-achieving machine. This state of constant alert dysregulated her entire system, leading to the same symptoms of fatigue, anxiety, and weight gain she saw in her perimenopausal patients. Except she was only 30.In today's episode, we explore how childhood experiences can wire our brains for a lifetime of hustle, why this leads to addiction to stress hormones like cortisol, and the deep mindset work required to finally get off the hamster wheel. You'll learn how to spot the signs of a dysregulated system and reclaim your calm with some powerful, in-the-moment tools."When you activate that stress response system many times a day to become more efficient in life, it's going to wear and tear on you."  ~ Dr. Mariza SnyderAbout Dr. Mariza Snyder:Dr. Mariza Snyder is a functional practitioner, perimenopause and menopause expert, and the voice behind the top-rated Energized podcast with over 12 million downloads. Her bestselling book, The Essential Oils Hormone Solution, boasts 1200+ five-star reviews, and she's been featured on The Dr. Oz Show and The Oprah Magazine. With a background as a biomechanical engineer at Lawrence Livermore National Labs, she now empowers women to break free from chronic stress and hormonal chaos through lifestyle medicine and intentional living. Connect with Dr. Mariza Snyder:- Website: https://drmariza.com   - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmariza/ - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drmarizasnyder - YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/drmarizasnyder  - Podcast: Energized: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/energized-with-dr-mariza/id1361914055 - Upcoming Book (Oct 2025): The Perimenopause Revolution Connect with Chris Burres:- Website: https://www.myvitalc.com/ - Website: http://www.livebeyondthenorms.com/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrisburres/ - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@myvitalc - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chrisburres/ 

Today, I am delighted to reconnect with Dr. Roseann, an integrative children's mental health expert and the founder of the Global Institute of Children's Mental Health. Over the last 30 years, Dr. Roseann has helped thousands of children and families overcome the most challenging behavioral and mental health conditions. In our conversation today, we take a deep dive into emotional dysregulation, exploring the biology behind it and the origin of emotional triggers. We discuss parenting and boundaries, the effects of rumination and negative thinking, the value of mindset changes, the role of gut health, vagal tone, and the connection between the gut and brain. Dr. Roseann also walks us through QEEG brain testing, touching on pharmacological options, lifestyle, AI, and tech, and sharing her favorite supplement for mental health.  As always, this discussion with Dr. Roseann is rich and insightful, and I know you will enjoy it as much as I did. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL LEARN: What emotional dysregulation is, and what it takes to break free from emotionally dysregulated patterns  How the brain's perception of safety can either support or block emotional regulation Steps to take if you find yourself in a pattern of dysregulation The importance of teaching children about boundaries How changing your mindset can help you break free from negative thought patterns How subliminal negative messaging from parents trickles down to the children The link between rumination and emotional dysregulation How stress affects gut bacteria and impacts brain function The benefits of QEEG brain mapping AI technologies that can help regulate the nervous system Bio: A mental health trailblazer, media personality, and founder of The Global Institute of Children's Mental Health and Dr. Roseann, LLC, who is on a mission to change the way we view and treat mental health, showing people it's gonna be ok with science-backed tools that calm the brain. With her trademarked BrainBehaviorResetTM Program, she has helped thousands address the most challenging conditions affecting kids and families today, including PANS/PANDAS, OCD, anxiety, mood/behavior, and ADHD/executive functioning. Connect with Cynthia Thurlow   Follow on X Instagram LinkedIn Check out Cynthia's website Submit your questions to support@cynthiathurlow.com Connect with Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge On her website Podcast: Science Fact Solutions for Dysregulated Kids 

Emotional dysregulation is one of the most common but often misunderstood signs of trauma in children. And trauma isn't always obvious and the signs can be easy to miss at first—explosive outbursts, sudden shutdowns, anxiety, panic, or even unexpected perfectionism. For today's episode, we're diving into the link between trauma and emotional dysregulation. We'll talk about how trauma impacts a child's developing brain and behavior, what red flags to look for, and most importantly, what tools and therapies actually help kids feel safe and regulated again.How Does Trauma Affect a Child's Brain and Behavior?Trauma keeps a child's brain locked in survival mode—where logic goes offline and calm feels out of reach. When the nervous system is overwhelmed, even small stressors can feel huge. That's why a forgotten homework assignment or a simple change in routine can trigger a full-blown meltdown.Emotional dysregulation is often the first and loudest clue that something deeper is going on. With cortisol and adrenaline flooding their system, it's harder for kids to focus, connect, or calm themselves down.And trauma isn't always what you think. It doesn't have to be one big event. It can be chronic stress, bullying, emotionally unsafe environments, or even ongoing family conflict. Every child's brain responds differently—but all of it matters.And the good news is: you can help calm their brain and get them back to feeling safe.Real-Life ExampleOne mom noticed her 10-year-old suddenly refusing to go to school. She was crying over forgotten pencils, melting down over tiny mistakes, and nothing seemed to make sense. The first response she got? “It's just anxiety.” But after digging deeper, they discovered unresolved trauma from a recent car accident was at the root of it all.What you're seeing isn't misbehavior. It's a dysregulated brain doing exactly what it's designed to do: protect your child.You don't have to figure this out alone. Grab your FREE Regulation Rescue Kit and learn exactly what to say and do in the heat of the moment.No more guessing. No more guilt. Just clear, step-by-step support to help your child—and yourself—stay calm.Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP at www.drroseann.com/newsletterTake the first step toward a more peaceful, connected home.What Are the Signs of Trauma-Based Behavior in Children?Trauma doesn't always look how you expect. It often shows up as behavior that seems “off,” extreme, or out of proportion.If your child's reactions feel too big for the moment—or they're constantly withdrawing, shutting down, or clinging to control—that's a sign their nervous system may be stuck in survival mode.Here are some of the most common trauma-linked behaviors:Explosive reactions to small stressors — what looks like overreacting is actually a brain that doesn't feel safe.Shutting down or emotionally withdrawing — especially in response to demands or social situations.Sudden perfectionism or people-pleasing — some kids try to avoid chaos by being “extra good.”Over-controlling behavior and obsessive thinking — unpredictability feels dangerous to a dysregulated brain.Emotional outbursts followed by guilt or shame — they're not trying to be dramatic; they're overwhelmed.Increased sensitivity to noise, touch, or change — these aren't overreactions, they're nervous system red flags.Behavior is communication. And when trauma overlaps with ADHD,...

In this article, professional trainer Jason Carter writes about techniques and strategies for shifting excitable, anxious, and emotionally dysregulated dogs into “neutral.”Paradigm Sporting Dog offers veterinarian-designed field and truck first aid keeps to keep you and your dog prepared for the unknown. Check out paradigmsportingdog.com.Read more at projectupland.com.

Ever wondered why ADHD meltdowns seem so extreme and hard to manage? The answer lies in a crucial but often overlooked aspect of ADHD—emotional dysregulation—which surprisingly isn't even included in diagnostic criteria.We dive into some neuroscience behind these emotional challenges, exploring fascinating brain differences that explain why criticism can trigger an emotional tsunami in someone with ADHD. With approximately 80% of adolescents and adults with ADHD experiencing rejection-sensitive dysphoria, understanding these brain-based reactions transforms how we respond to emotional outbursts.Through a real-life parenting example about screen time limits, we demonstrate practical strategies for navigating boundaries without triggering meltdowns. You'll learn why co-regulation (bringing calm to emotional fire) works better than punishment, how to teach responsibility rather than enforce compliance, and why narrowing choices helps ADHD brains make decisions when they're paralyzed by too many options.Most importantly, we reframe discipline as teaching rather than punishment. The word "discipline" comes from "disciple," meaning to teach—and our goal should be equipping those with ADHD with skills to navigate their emotional landscape independently. We explain why consistency and repetition are crucial, and why working memory, long-term memory, and processing speed deficits (not just attention issues) create everyday challenges.Whether you're raising a child with ADHD or managing it yourself, this episode offers compassionate understanding alongside practical, science-backed strategies to transform your approach to emotional dysregulation. Come away with tools to turn frustrating interactions into opportunities for growth and learning.CONNECT WITH US: Website: www.TheBrainyMoms.com Email: info@TheBrainyMoms.com Social Media: @TheBrainyMoms Our sponsor's website: www.LearningRx.comSandy's TikTok: @TheBrainTrainerLadyDr. Amy's brand new IG: @DrAmySaysGraceDr. Amy's website: www.AmyMoorePhD.com

In this episode of the Conscious Fertility Podcast, Lorne Brown speaks with Dr. Jeffrey Rutstein, a clinical psychologist with over 40 years of experience, about trauma and its deep connection to the nervous system. They explore how trauma impacts our mental, emotional, and physical health, with a focus on the importance of nervous system regulation for healing and fertility. Dr. Rutstein shares practical tools and techniques, like breathwork and self-regulation methods, to help individuals manage dysregulated nervous systems and cultivate a sense of peace and resilience in their daily lives. They also discuss generational trauma, the body's capacity for healing, and how small shifts in awareness can have a profound impact on one's well-being and fertility journey.Key takeaways:Trauma impacts the nervous system: Even low-level traumas can disrupt emotional and physical health.Nervous system dysregulation: Chronic stress affects immune function, emotions, and overall well-being.Self-regulation techniques: Practices like deep breathing and self-hugs can help restore balance.Co-regulation: Connection with others or pets can aid emotional healing.Generational trauma: Trauma can be passed down through generations, impacting future health.Dr. Jeffrey Rutstein's Bio:Jeffrey Rutstein, Psy.D., CHT, is a clinical psychologist, an expert in the treatment of trauma, a certified Hakomi Mindfulness-Centered Somatic psychotherapist, and a meditation teacher who has been in private practice for over 40 years. He has practiced meditation for over 56 years, profoundly impacting every aspect of his work. Additionally, Dr Rutstein is the creator, host, and lead teacher of Sounds True's Healing Trauma Program. He has devoted his professional life to helping people reduce their suffering and struggle while empowering them to claim their strengths, talents, and unique abilities to live a more fulfilling and rich life. Where To Find Dr. Jeffrey Rutstein: Website: https://www.drjeffreyrutstein.com/Healing Trauma Program by Sounds True: https://www.soundstrue.com/collections/authors-jeffrey-rutsteinHow to connect to Lorne Brown online and in person (Vancouver, BC)Acubalance.ca book virtual or in person conscious work sessions with Dr. Lorne Brown Lornebrown.comConscious hacks and tools to optimize your fertility by Dr. Lorne Brown:https://acubalance.ca/conscious-work/Download a free copy of the Acubalance Fertility Diet & Recipes and a copy of the ebook 5 Ways to Maximize Your Chances of Getting Pregnant from Acubalance.caConnect with Lorne and the podcast on Instagram:@acubalancewellnesscentre

Emotional dysregulation and anxiety can turn everyday moments into massive meltdowns. You try everything you know: staying calm, explaining consequences, offering choices. But nothing sticks and the spiral keeps happening—again and again.Let me help you stop the spiral. In this article, we'll break down how to put the CALMS Dysregulation Protocol into action during real-life parenting moments. You'll learn tools that empower you to respond with calm—even when your child is melting down, anxious, or seemingly unreachable.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com. If you're looking for practical tools to help your child manage anxiety and big emotions, check out our Anxiety Parent Kit. It's packed with easy-to-use strategies designed to support both you and your child through those tough moments.

In this powerful episode, Liz sits down with trauma recovery coach Tania Khazaal to explore how unresolved trauma and nervous system dysregulation impact gut health, hormone balance, and overall well-being. Tania breaks down the science of survival responses, the truth about toxic positivity, and why many women stay stuck in healing loops despite doing “everything right.” From childhood triggers to high-functioning burnout, this conversation uncovers what might really be keeping your body in fight-or-flight mode—and how to finally break free. Connect with Tania: Instagram | She's In Power Community *** Early Bird Tickets: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠FitMom | Own It! : The Women's Health & Mindset Summit Live⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***

Have you ever watched your child's meltdown and felt completely lost on how to help? Those intense outbursts, shutdowns, or explosive reactions can be heartbreaking and exhausting — yet they often get misunderstood as just “bad behavior” or defiance. The truth is, emotional dysregulation runs much deeper, and without the right support, both kids and parents can feel stuck in a frustrating cycle that no one wants.Understanding the signs and causes of emotional dysregulation is the first step. That's why I'm here! In this episode, I'll guide you through what emotional dysregulation looks like, why it happens, and share practical ways to help your child learn to regulate their emotions.If you want extra guidance, both the CALMS Dysregulation Protocol™ and my Quick Calm program offer structured plans to help you apply these strategies in everyday life. Remember, your calm presence is the foundation for your child's emotional regulation. When you learn to regulate yourself first, you hold the key to helping your child find their way back to calm.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

So many kids struggle with emotional dysregulation, but too often their struggles fly under the radar or get misunderstood. Instead of recognizing a child overwhelmed by feelings they can't control, they're labeled as “just being difficult” or even misdiagnosed. But beneath those behaviors lies a nervous system stuck in overdrive, quietly crying out for help.If we don't recognize what's really going on, these kids miss out on the understanding and support that could change everything for them. In today's episode, we're breaking down emotional dysregulation—what it looks like, why it happens, and how we can help our kids find calm and emotional balance again.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com. Unlock your child's potential in just one week! Check out our Quick Calm: https://drroseann.com/quickcalm/

This episode has themes of: Culture Conditioning, Control, brainwashing, intuitive awareness, awarenss, ego, healing, healing jounrey's, mental programming, religion and personal responsibility.Who runs the show in your life?Why do you think the way you think?When is the destination going to arrive?Why is everyone on a healing jounrey right now?What narratives are popular and controlling your behaviour?Who is influencing your life, emotional state and behaviour?This episode is the biggest deep dive I have ever taken into Intuitive Awareness and how the program is always spinning and running YOUR SHOW!!We unpack a TON of conditioning and I help you with tangible action steps you can start taking RIGHT NOW so you can keep waking up and stay awake!Want to join the Breath Into Being Breathwork membership? Use CODE: ELISA and get 1 free month.https://soulinspiredgurl.com/membershipFor all other links to all things Elisa Unfiltered click HERE

When aggression, rage, or emotional outbursts take over your child's world, it can feel like everything is spiraling out of control. But what if I told you that beneath those extreme behaviors lies a nervous system crying out for help? Today, we're diving into an incredibly serious and heartbreaking case—one that underscores what can happen when emotional dysregulation is missed, misunderstood, or left unsupported.If you suspect emotional dysregulation, don't wait—take action early, seek guidance, and remember you can find help at https://drroseann.com/help/.Unlock your child's potential in just one week! Check out our Quick Calm: https://drroseann.com/quickcalm/

In this episode, Kreed delves into the feelings of disrespect that parents often experience when their adult children assert their independence, linking these feelings to unresolved childhood traumas. The discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own emotional triggers and the need for healing to foster healthier relationships. Kreed  encourages parents to reflect on their past experiences and to seek support in their journey towards emotional safety and connection with their children.TakeawaysThe feeling of disrespect often stems from unresolved childhood issues.Parents may interpret their adult child's independence as disrespect due to past experiences.Dysregulation in adult children can be misinterpreted as disrespect by parents.Control in parenting often arises from a desire for emotional safety.Respect demanded through control is actually fear-based, not love-based.Reactivity in parents can signal deeper emotional issues from their past.Self-regulation is a skill that can be learned and practiced.Estrangement can reveal underlying childhood wounds that need attention.Support and healing are crucial for both parents and children in estranged relationships.www.TheEstrangedHeart.comEmail: hello@TheEstrangedHeart.comWork with Kreed: https://theestrangedheart.com/services(private coaching, mediation, support groups, webinars, etc.)THE HEART COLLECTIVEEstranged Moms ONLY - https://theheartcollective.app.clientclub.net/communities/groups/estranged-momsReconciled Moms ONLY - https://theheartcollective.app.clientclub.net/communities/groups/estranged-heart-membersTo support the podcast and Kreed's work with estranged and reconciled parents and adult children: https://buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere

When your child struggles with dysregulation, OCD, or anxiety, it's easy to assume these challenges are purely mental or behavioral issues. But what if there's a hidden medical mystery behind what you're seeing? Oftentimes, underlying factors quietly influence your child's brain and body, turning their typical behaviors into overwhelming struggles. These causes often go unnoticed, leaving families stuck searching for answers and feeling frustrated by treatments that don't seem to work. I'm here to help you navigate this complex journey, shedding light on the hidden medical factors that might be driving your child's struggles. Together, we can move beyond surface-level symptoms to uncover the true roots of their challenges, paving the way for real healing and lasting change.Not sure where to start? We'll help you find the right solution tailored to your needs. Take our FREE Brain and Behavior Solutions Matcher today! Experience real change with our 1-on-1 BrainBehaviorReset™ Program designed to soothe your child's nervous system and unlock their full potential.Discover science-backed mental health solutions and gain valuable insights by exploring the resources available at www.drroseann.com.

189  (This episode goes hand in hand with episode 190) Being a highly sensitive person obviously means we are more sensitive than others. This has real ramifications in our love lives— both wonderful and challenging.  Listen in to this VERY revised (almost totally new) version of an older topic, where you will learn that, luckily, you can support your sensitive self in ways that amplify the best parts of your sensitivity, and make the challenges of it so much easier.   . . .and how this will involve caretaking your sensitive Mind Body Heart System, (starting with your nervous system) MORE deeply and consistently than non-HSPs (like it or not!).In other words, even if you resist the idea, the truth is, in order to have an intimate relationship (and life) that feels deeply satisfying, nourishing, and fulfilling as an HSP, you need to attend more to your emotional well-being and nervous system regulation than non-HSPs.  In this episode you will hear my own story around this, and how, as I've accepted this, and learned how to caretake my sensitive nervous system (and sensitive mind, body, heart, and emotions), I've fallen in love with doing it. AND how doing so changed EVERYTHING for the better forever in my love life.This can be true for you, too. You'll also learn:why love and marriage can be so hard as HSP without truly caretaking your sensitive system in the right wayswhy accepting your higher need for emotional caretaking can be difficult, and why it's more than worth it to do sothe 4 simple but essential foundational steps to get started with right away to be able to truly caretake your sensitive systemAnd the best way to truly regulate the most foundational aspect of your emotional well-being (your nervous system) so you can always be able to guide yourself back to that calm, steady, connected-to-your-heart-and-wisdom place from which you'll best relate to your significant other in ways that lead to the deepest connection, love, and collaboration, and the most fulfilling intimacy. Without this emotional tending, the kind of relationship you most want – full of love, lightheartedness, attraction, effective and connecting communication, and mutual supportiveness – is likely to remain elusive.But with it? You set the stage for what can feel like magic to  happen in your relationship. Dive in to begin.SHOW NOTES:Take the Dysregulation quiz in the next episode (190) via podcast (it's live!), or here in written format.Learn all about Foundations of Emotional Well-Being Course; The Root Of A Better Relationship  here. Doors close June 22nd, 2025 .ENJOYING THE SHOW?Don't miss an episode! Subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or Stitcher. Leave  a review in Apple Podcasts--we are SO grateful!Get the Podcast Map by becoming a Podcast Supporter, so you can quickly identify the episodes most helpful for your unique relationship, by supporting the podcast (for as little as $3) HERE.

190 I made you a special short quiz to determine the level of dysregulation in your unique nervous system.  (This episode goes hand in hand with episode 189, so I highly recommend listening to it first, or after you take the quiz.)Why should you take it? Because as highly sensitive people (and really, as just regular human beings on this planet in these modern times), our nervous systems are often chronically dysregulated.And this has a major impact in a not-so-great way on our lives in general and especially on our relationships. So you need to understand if you have a nervous system that is dysregulated chronically or that tends to get easily dysregulated.Unfortunately this can happen even more easily for us than non-HSPs. When we are dysregulated, we react more strongly than we normally would, in one way or another, and that leads to much more drama, much more struggle in our relationships, and a lot less clear, effective communication, a lot less getting through to our spouses, and being able to really hear each other, a lot less open-heartedness and connection, and a lot less feeling the mutual supportiveness and sense of being on the same team.So there really are many different ways that nervous system dysregulation can show up to the detriment of your relationship and to the detriment of your life in general.And you do want to know if it is happening for you so that you can make the necessary changes. Because that's the really good news: you have so much sway over your nervous system regulation or dysregulation. It just can take a little bit of learning and attention to it.Dive in now with pen and paper in hand.SHOW NOTES:Take the Dysregualtion quiz here in written format.Learn all about Foundations of Emotional Well-Being Course; The Root Of A Better Relationship  here. Doors close June 22nd, 2025 .ENJOYING THE SHOW?Don't miss an episode! Subscribe via Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or Stitcher. Leave  a review in Apple Podcasts--we are SO grateful!Get the Podcast Map by becoming a Podcast Supporter, so you can quickly identify the episodes most helpful for your unique relationship, by supporting the podcast (for as little as $3) HERE.

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Learn more about HRV and the INSiGHT Scanning Technology HERE.In this episode of the Experience Miracles podcast, Dr. Tony Ebel addresses the alarming rise in teen anxiety and depression, challenging the conventional "chemical imbalance" theory promoted by traditional medicine. He explains how nervous system dysregulation—not chemical imbalances—is the true root cause of these mental health challenges. Dr. Ebel introduces the concept of the "perfect storm" that creates sympathetic nervous system dominance and discusses practical solutions, including HRV testing and nervous system-focused care.[00:01:00] - The Teen Mental Health CrisisAnxiety and depression hitting teens at unprecedented rates44% of high schoolers report persistent sadness and hopelessness1 in 3 teenage girls have contemplated suicide[00:03:00] - The Perfect StormTechnology addiction and social media creating 24/7 stressAnxiety rates doubled since 2011, spiked again during COVIDWhen basic health interventions fail for severely dysregulated teens[00:05:00] - Challenging the Chemical Imbalance TheoryBreaking down the serotonin/dopamine mythStudies show simple interventions outperform medications[00:08:00] - The Real Root Cause: Nervous System DysregulationKids stuck in sympathetic fight-or-flight modeFour components of the perfect storm:[00:12:00] - Understanding Dysautonomia and the Vagus NerveGas pedal (sympathetic) vs. brake pedal (parasympathetic) analogyThree stages: stress/anxiety → focus problems → neurological exhaustionConnection between POTS, anxiety, and depression[00:15:00] - The Testing ProblemTraditional medicine provides no testing for "chemical imbalance"Billions spent on medications without measuring actual neurotransmitter levelsComparison to other medical conditions that require diagnostic testing[00:17:00] - HRV: The SolutionHeart Rate Variability technology measures nervous system function3-5 minute exam identifies dysautonomia and vagus nerve dysfunctionActivating the vagus nerve to restore nervous system balance-- Follow us on Socials: Instagram: @pxdocs Facebook: Dr. Tony Ebel & The PX Docs Network Youtube: The PX Docs For more information, visit PXDocs.com to read informative articles about the power of Neurologically-Focused Chiropractic Care. Find a PX Doc Office near me: PX DOCS DirectoryTo watch Dr. Tony's 30 min Perfect Storm Webinar: Click HereSubscribe, share, and stay tuned for more incredible episodes unpacking the power of Nervous System focused care for children!

Welcome back to Day 2 of the Hormone Real Talk Bootcamp! If you've ever wondered why your energy is up and down and if your stress is REALLY affecting you negatively...this one is for you!In this episode, I'm sharing the link between low energy and hormone imbalances: stress. Chronic stress puts the body in "survival mode" where it prioritizes stress hormones over sex hormones, leading to issues like low progesterone. Blood sugar imbalance can also trigger cortisol spikes and leave us feeling drained.The good news is nourishment can help reset this cycle. Tune in and find out how!Still not signed up for the pop up bootcamp group? Don't miss it - You'll get to work through the action steps + takeaways from these episodes with Leisha personally AND we have giveaways only happening there! JOIN US HERE FOR FREEIn this episode:What is normal vs not in terms of ENERGYWhat good energy actually looks likeWhat happens in your body when you're under constant stress (it's not as harmless as you think)Balancing hormones naturally through nourishment and stress management can be doable even with a busy lifeSend us a text with episode feedback or ideas! (We can't respond to texts unless you include contact info but always read them)Don't forget to subscribe, share this episode, and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more women looking for answers.Disclaimer: Nothing in this podcast is to be taken as medical advice, please take informed accountability and speak to your provider before making changes to your health routine.This podcast is for women and moms to learn how to balance hormones naturally in motherhood, to have pain-free periods, increased fertility, to decrease PMS mood swings, and to increase energy without restrictive diet plans. You'll learn how to balance blood sugar, increase progesterone naturally, understand the root cause of estrogen dominance, irregular periods, PCOS, insulin resistance, hormonal acne, post birth-control syndrome, and conceive naturally. We use a pro-metabolic, whole food, root cause approach to functional women's health and focus on truly holistic health and mind-body connection.If you listen to any of the following shows, we're sure you'll like ours too! Pursuit of Wellness with Mari Llewellyn, Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark, Found My Fitness with Rhonda Patrick, Just Ingredients Podcast, Wellness Mama, The Dr Josh Axe Show, Are You Menstrual Podcast, The Model Health Show, Grounded Wellness By Primally Pure, Be Well By Kelly Leveque, The Freely Rooted Podcast with Kori Meloy, Simple Farmhouse Life with Lisa Bass

Do you find yourself feeling dysregulated more often than you'd like? Dr. Amber Thorton, licensed Clinical Psychologist, is on the show today to talk with us about how we can recognize and work with the different triggers that can set us off. If you are someone who tends to stress about worst case scenarios that “might” happen, she has some tips for you. Or maybe you dread the infamous 2nd shift of parenthood; that time between school/daycare and bedtime? Dr. Thornton shares some strategies to help us cope with the overwhelm that can come at that time of day. She leaves us with realistic expectations we should be setting for ourselves and reminds us that at the end of the day, we aren't going to be able to meet every single one of our child's needs, and that's okay. Links & Resources:LMNT: Free Sample Pack with purchase:  drinkLMNT.com/HERSELF MAUI NUI: mauinuivenison.com/herselfCYMBIOTIKA: 20% off and free shipping on first order  https://partners.cymbiotika.com/HERSELFFollow Dr. Amber Thorton on InstagramDr. Amber's WebsiteOrder Dr. Amber's Book; A Parent's Guide to Self-RegulationLet's connect!HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcastJoin our exclusive community for bonus episodes, extra video content, book club and more!HERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcastMEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskieferMEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreenThis episode was brought to you by the Pivot Ball Change Network.