Love Thy Neighborhood presents: The EnneaCast

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk about how Type 1s can move beyond their core type patterns by incorporating tools from Type 4 and Type 7. Raising Boys and Girls, David Thomas, from Daystar Counseling joins the show and shares how he came to realize he was a Type 1 and the ways he uses tools from other types in his life and counseling practice. LEAVE A REVIEW FOR "HOW WE RELATE" ON... Amazon: www.amazon.com/How-We-Relate-Und…1687805660&sr=8-1 GoodReads: www.goodreads.com/book/show/60693284-how-we-relate Barnes & Noble: www.barnesandnoble.com/w/how-we-rela…ks/1141293005 Target: www.target.com/p/how-we-relate-b…over/-/A-86919825

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey begin a new series on Moving Beyond Your Core Type. Marilyn Vancil joins the show to discuss her new book, Beyond the Enneagram. Together they discuss the need for inner transformation and soul restoration on the Enneagram journey and how to move from self-orientation to God-centered living.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey wrap up the series on The Enneagram and Desire with CrossPoint Director, Clif Roth. Jesse and Lindsey hear what Clif is currently thinking about desire: how it has grown and how it is impacting relationships.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to have peace and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 9. Singer-songwriter and professional high-fiver Andy Gullahorn joins the show and shares how the desire to be at peace has shaped his life as well as his journey to tell the difference between peace and comfort. Everyone plays Trial by Trolley, where Andy will save the world from either hungry Kraken or flying sharks.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to protect yourself and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 8. Adam Young of The Place We Find Ourselves podcast joins the show and shares how the desire to be protective has shaped his life as well as his journey to tell the difference between protection and control. Everyone plays Your Worst Nightmare, where Lindsey will try to predict Adam's fears.

Some claim the enneagram comes from ancient Christians while others claim it's from demons. Is the enneagram a gift from God or a Trojan horse of self-deception? Three stories of people who discover shocking truths about the enneagram that lead them to unexpected places. Connect with Michelle: michellenebel.com Connect with Tyler: tylerzach.com/history Connect with Lindsey: relatebetter.com

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to have happiness and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 7. Author and Enneagram coach Jackie Brewster joins the show and shares how the desire to be happy has shaped her life as well as her journey to tell the difference between joy and momentary pleasures. Lindsey and Jackie play Two Truths and A Lie, where they each learn something new.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to have security and how this is expressed in the qualities of the Enneagram Type 6. Singer-songwriter and licensed therapist Jill Phillips joins the show and shares how the desire to be secure has shaped her life as well as her journey to tell the difference between security and safety. Everyone plays You've Got Problems, where Jill may choose to eat a bowl of teeth.

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In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to have competency and how this is expressed in the qualities of the Enneagram Type 5. Phil Vischer of The Holy Post and creator of VeggieTales joins the show and shares how the desire to be competent has shaped his story as well as his journey to tell the difference between being competent versus all-knowing. Everyone plays Your Worst Nightmare, where they discover if Phil has any secret fears.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to have authenticity and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 4. Author and counselor Aundi Kolber joins the show and shares how the desire to be authentic has shaped her life as well as her journey to tell the difference between authenticity and being unique. Everyone plays Show Me You Know Me, where Jesse tries to channel all his fourness to read Aundi's mind.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to have value and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 3. Psychologist, author and podcaster Dr. Alison Cook joins the show and shares how the desire to be valuable has shaped her life as well as her journey to tell the difference between value and success. Lindsey and Dr. Alison play Lie Detector, where they show off their story-telling skills true and otherwise.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to be loved and wanted and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 2. Singer, song-writer, Andrew Greer joins the show and shares how the desire to be loved has shaped his life as well as his struggle to tell the difference between being loved and being needed. Everyone plays What's Your Number, where Jesse and Lindsey try to guess what Andrew likes and dislikes.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to be good and how this is expressed in Type 1s. Kendra shares about how in the past, it was hard to tell the difference between goodness and perfection. Everyone plays Best Story Wins, where the group attempts to beat-box.

In today's episode, Jesse and Lindsey explore what it means to be people created by God to desire. They answer the question, “How do I know whether or not to act on my desires?” They also explore the nine key motives that shape us.

What do you desire? Should you embolden or ignore your desires? What if your desires are signs pointing toward something deeper? On this episode of The EnneaCast, Jesse Eubanks and Lindsey Lewis kick off a brand new series on desire. They're joined by renowned psychiatrist and author Dr. Curt Thompson as they explore the nature of desire and what happens when people see their longings only as immoral or irrelevant. How do we wield our desires in all their power and magnitude as followers of Jesus? What do we do with our broken dreams? Listen in as they explore Jesus' first words in the gospel of John: “What do you want?”

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Join Lindsey for the last preview of Jesse's new book "How We Relate." They talk about how the Enneagram can help us see the areas of our lives that need healing and repentance. Jesse gives some final thoughts and answers Lindsey's final questions. The book is out now! Get your copy at howwerelatebook.com

Join Lindsey for another preview of Jesse's new book "How We Relate." They talk about how they address someone who is skeptical about the Enneagram and they give some tips and rules on how to get started. The book is out today! Get your copy at howwerelatebook.com

Join Lindsey to get an exclusive preview of Jesse's new upcoming book "How We Relate." They talk about what readers should know before diving into the Enneagram and about the purpose of life.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk about how Type 1s tend to relate to God. Then they interview Todd Engstrom, Executive Pastor of Ministry Strategies at The Austin Stone Community Church in Austin, Texas. Todd talks about how 1s can experience routine frustration with God and how he has come to experience God's patience and joy. Everyone plays Your Worst Nightmare, Jesse and Lindsey almost seem to be working together on this game. Also, which scares Todd more: clowns or toilets overflowing? Connect with Todd: Instagram - @tengstrom Web - http://toddengstrom.com/

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how Type 9s tend to relate to God. Then they interview Jasmine Mullen, lead singer of The New Respects. Jasmine talks about how 9s can experience God's peace by engaging with conflict. She also shares how she has come to experience God showing up for her specifically and directly. Everyone plays Best Story Wins, where Jasmine shares about how one time, she lost a cruise ship. Connect with Jasmine and The New Respects: Instagram - @jasminemullen @thenewrespects Web - https://www.thenewrespects.com/

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In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how Type 8s tend to relate to God. Then they interview the vice president of digital strategy at Reach Records, Dee Diaz. Dee talks about how 8s experience God easily through a lens of justice and power, but not as easily through a lens of intimacy. She also shares how she has come to see God as a defender of her heart. Everyone plays You've Got Problems, Lindsey offers immunity from all diseases, Jesse pitches a real-life mute button for people. Connect with Dee - Instagram: @deediaz_

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how Type 7s tend to relate to God. Then they interview certified Enneagram coach and podcaster Amy Wicks. Amy talks about how 7s experience God through adventure and celebration. She also shares how she is learning about God's characteristics as a true and good father. Everyone plays Pick Your Poison, will Amy be on the Truman show? Connect with Amy - https://simplywholehearted.mykajabi.com/ Instagram: @wholeheartedenneagram

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how Type 6s tend to relate to God. Then they interview business strategist and writer Jeff McCord. Jeff talks about how 6s relate to God while feeling a lot of internal competing emotions, desires, and thoughts. He also shares about how his role as an executive pastor showed him how even loyalty to a good thing can have mixed motivations. Everyone plays What's Your Number, where Jeff reveals his feelings about shark tanks, clowns, and surprises. Connect with Jeff - https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/jeffmccord Instagram: @reverendjefe

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how Type 5s tend to relate to God. Then they interview writer and podcaster Mike Cosper. Mike talks about how the 5s skill to devour ideas and information can sometimes become the way to define righteousness. He also shares about how walking through grief has taught him how to sit with people through emotionally heavy experiences. Everyone plays Super Fight, where Jesse and Lindsey pit a Type 8 and a counter-phobic Type 6 against each other. Connect with Mike - https://mikecosper.net/ Twitter: @mikecosper

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In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how Type 4s tend to relate to God. Then they interview author and speaker Laurie Krieg. Laurie talks about how she has been learning how to relate to God as her mind leads, instead leading with her emotions. She also shares about how her personality influences her sexuality. Everyone plays what's your number, Laurie tell the gang how she really feels about planning vacations. Connect with Laurie - https://lauriekrieg.com/ IG: @laurie_krieg

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how Type 3s tend to relate to God. Then they interview Pastor AJ Sherrill. AJ talks about how comparison and the need to control outcomes is often a pitfall for many 3s. He also shares about how 3s often experience God as someone who is consistently judging their performance in life. Jesse and AJ play Type Detective. Categories are "Youth Group Superstar and Culinary Champion." Connect with AJ - https://www.ajsherrill.org

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how Type 2s tend to relate to God. Then they interview musician Joy Ike. Joy talks about how she has often viewed service to be transactional and how that has carried over into her work as a musician. Everyone plays Trial By Trolley, will Joy allow knitting grannies to become zombies? Connect with Joy - https://www.joyike.com/ IG: @joyikemusic

Does our personality impact our view of God? Jesse and Lindsey are kicking off a new series about how our Enneagram Type influences our faith! First, they look at how each tends to relate to God. Then they interview Enneagram coach Lisa Vischer, who talks about how psychology informs theology. She and Jesse compare notes on how each of the 9 Types reflect a divine characteristic of God. Learn more from Lisa: www.lisavischer.com

We are gearing up for a new series about how each Type relates to God! In the meantime check out this episode from Your Enneagram Coach, the Podcast where Jesse was featured on a Type 4 panel. New series begins September 6th!

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how 9s prefer to approach and resolve conflict. Then they interview singer-songwriter and podcast host Seth Abram about handling conflict as a Type 9. Seth talks about how important time is for 9s in conflict. Everyone also plays Name That Type, where the team gives each Type a mode of transportation. Find more from Seth - IG: @integratedenneagram Fathoms Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fathoms-an-enneagram-podcast/id1508239925 This episode is part of our Conflict & the Enneagram series.

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In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how 8s prefer to approach and resolve conflict. Then they interview theologian and author Dr. Todd Wilson about handling conflict as a Type 8. Todd talks about the vibrancy he receives when duking it out in conflict, but how he also has a very tender side. Everyone also plays What's Your Number, where Lindsey does her best impression of a nature documentary. Find more from Todd: https://www.toddawilson.com/ This episode is part of our Conflict & the Enneagram series.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how 7s prefer to approach and resolve conflict. Then they interview actor and filmmaker Nathan Clarkson about handling conflict as a Type 7. Nathan talks about striking the balance between assertiveness and avoidance and about how gentleness is key for engaging with 7s. Everyone also plays Pick Your Poison, where Nathan discloses his caffeine tolerance. Find more from Nathan: http://www.nathanclarkson.me/ This episode is part of our Conflict & the Enneagram series.

Join us for our next in-person Enneagram Workshop here in Louisville, KY! Mapping Your Enneagram Story session - Friday, July 1st Enneagram 101 Workshop - Saturday, July 2nd We'll have teaching times, breakout sessions, games, Q & A and more! Plus each person will receive a personalized Enneagram 101 binder! Sign up to attend here: https://lovethyneighborhood.org/workshops/

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how 6s prefer to approach and resolve conflict. Then they interview pastor and author John Driver about handling conflict as a Type 6. John talks about conflicts that happened within his church and how he dealt with them in both unhealthy and healthy ways. Everyone also plays Name That Type, where John displays his kitchen creativity. Find more from John: https://johndriver.com/ This episode is part of our Conflict & the Enneagram series.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how 5s prefer to approach and resolve conflict. Then they interview podcast producer Elizabeth Evans about handling conflict as a Type 5. Elizabeth talks about the gift of being able to pause before responding but how sometimes that can be viewed as apathy or disinterest. Everyone also plays What's Your Number, where Elizabeth gets introduced to a new art form. Find more from Elizabeth: https://elizabethevans.co/ This episode is part of our Conflict & the Enneagram series.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how 4s prefer to approach and resolve conflict. Then they interview podcaster Eric Nevins about handling conflict as a Type 4. Eric talks about the ups and downs of not speaking up or speaking up too much and how healthy conflict includes the right levels of both emotion and conviction. Everyone also plays Pick Your Poison, where Eric's love of dad jokes gets involved. Eric's podcast: https://ericnevins.com/series/halfwaythere/ More from Eric: https://ericnevins.com/ This episode is part of our Conflict & the Enneagram series.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how 3s prefer to approach and resolve conflict. They interview “America's government teacher” Sharon McMahon, from the viral Instagram account Sharon Says So. Sharon talks about engaging with conflict online and the importance as a 3 to sometimes take a step back instead of always charging full steam ahead. Everyone also plays What's Your Number, where of course Sharon is asked about her popular term “hard pants” - anything without a stretchy waistband. Hear more from Sharon at https://www.sharonmcmahon.com/

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In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how 2s prefer to approach and resolve conflict. Then they interview musician Sawyer Whitted about handling conflict as a Type 2. Sawyer talks about his tendency to be absorbed by the needs of others, and about a healthy conflict where he stopped to consider his own needs as well. Everyone also plays Name That Type, where Sawyer introduces Jesse to a new band. Sawyer's Enneagram coaching: https://www.byfcoaching.com/ Hear Sawyer's EnneaSongs: https://www.instagram.com/soyjoy96/?hl=en This episode is part of our Conflict & the Enneagram series.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through how 1s prefer to approach and resolve conflict. Then they interview entrepreneur John Meese about handling conflict as a Type 1. John talks about the importance of protocol, but how following the rules doesn't always bring the desired result. Everyone also plays Pick Your Poison, where John has a surprising secret up his… throat? This episode is part of our Conflict & the Enneagram series.

What is conflict, and how can we approach it as disciples of Jesus? Join Jesse and Lindsey as they kick off a new series all about the Enneagram and conflict! First, they look at three truths about conflict that we see in the life of Jesus. Then they interview psychologist and theologian Dr. Dan Allender, who talks about where conflict comes from, what the purpose of conflict is, and how the Enneagram can help us take a step back and be kind to those around us. Hear more from Dr. Dan Allender: https://theallendercenter.org/

Have you ever said something in a conversation only to realize that your words immediately caused the other person to go on the defensive? How do we find ourselves in conflict without even meaning to? Today Jesse and Lindsey talk with pastor and Ennagram coach Nate Bebout about the words that will automatically pick a fight with each of the Types. Nate also offers some better words to use in order to keep your conversations and confrontations healthy. Then, in the spirit of conflict, Jesse and Lindsey square up in a game of SuperFight, where they argue why their Type would win in an actual fight.

We are currently hiring for the position of Program Director. Learn more and apply: https://lovethyneighborhood.org/ltn-is-hiring-a-program-director/ LTN launched back in 2014 as an urban missions program for young adults. While we've expanded since then, the program is still at the heart of all that we do - building up young adults in the areas of service, community and discipleship. The Program Director oversees our urban missions program and the young adults who come serve with us. Please help us spread the word about this crucial position!

What does our personality have to do with the way we perceive, process and practice justice? Jesse and Lindsey are joined by author and pastor Sean Palmer as they discuss what each Type brings to the table, as well as pitfalls to avoid, when it comes to doing justice. Then everyone plays Show Me You Know Me, where Sean reveals his zombie apocalypse strategy. Everyone also answers listener questions about justice and the Enneagram.

Jesse Eubanks and Sam Stevenson explore the topic of boundaries by interviewing LTN's Operations Administrator Kiana Brown (Type 2). Kiana talks from personal experience about the need for healthy relational boundaries and practical ways to build them using the "circle of concern" model. Everyone then plays SuperFight, where Jesse and Sam try to storm Kiana's fortress with a series of ridiculous characters. Also, everyone answers listener questions about boundaries. This episode originally aired May 2019.

Jesse Eubanks and Sam Stevenson explore concerns about Christians using the Enneagram. They interview pastor and Enneagram coach Tyler Zach, who walks them through two popular objections: the Enneagram's occultist roots and use of spiritual language. The crew then shows off their persuasion tactics in a round of Type Detective. Everyone also answers listener questions about dangers in using the Enneagram. This episode originally aired June 2020.