moving beyond grief

In our final installment of the3-part series "I'm Afraid of Dying!" - Amanda Holland and I will talk about the sensations and feelings we experience in our bodies and that we decide we cannot control, change or overcome. What if you never had to be a victim to those sensations and feelings ever again? What if you actually have the power to change anything going on with your body and with fear, and what choices do you have around death, dying and LIVING that you've never considered?

Amanda and I will pick up from where we left of at Part 1 - "What is fear of death and can you change it?" When Amanda started using some different tools and asking questions about her fears, about death, and about living, the anxiety in her life began to unravel and whole new areas of possibilities began to open up. What is that you know about life, living and joy that you have been hiding with the fear of dying?

My next guest, Amanda Holland, is joining me for a 3-part series on a very touchy subject - the fear of death and dying. Amanda had panic attacks about dying since she was 5 years old. She did her best to cope, thinking up strategies along the way, but basically concluded she would have anxiety her whole life! When she came across the tools of Access, this whole area changed dynamically and unexpectedly.  We will talk today about Amanda's story, why it's not uncommon and how she began to change it.

I would love to invite you to a interview  I will be having on the 7th OCt 8am (AUS Time ) and the 6th Oct 5pm ( USA Time )  with Dr SUE Hegel BF.DC. Sue is this amazing facilitator , who has been working with people and bodies for many years  as a chiropractor. She has this capacity and brilliance that invites others to new possibilities. Whether Dr Sue is facilitating  her own classes or hosting other leaders, she is always bringing out each persons special talents and skills. What can this call contribute to you ? and What if now was the time to stop! .... stopping your brilliance ! If you have any questions ,please feel free to email  me on  swmulder@bigpond.net.au or contact me via my websites www.wendymulder.accessconsciousness / www.kindnesswithgrief.com . Thank you and gratitude Wendy

Grief & Disease Done Different - Wendy Mulder & Liam Phillips . We both have experienced Grief and Disease in our own separate ways . Today we will be chatting  together about  our  3 day telecall which is coming up on the 16th/ 17th/ 18th July.  Liam and I  have books  written about these topics and  would love to share with you our combimed knowledge and gifts we have recieved, from the questions and choices we have made. Send any questions beforehand to either:  Wendy Mulder at swmulder@bigpond.net.au or liam Phillips at liamphillips@yahoo.com Hugs & gratitude Liam and Wendy In July Wendy and Liam have a telecall series to give the tools and processes to unlocking disease and grief in a totally different way, click HERE 

Most people define nurturing as self care . What if that is just the start? When there is loss, there are also new possibilities for creating  something different . Something beyond what you knew was possible before your life changed . What if grief could be a catalyst for new choices that create even more for you and your life ? Join me as I interview Lisa Murray, Founder of Creativity Lab about ways we can begin to nuture a new life into being .  What is it that your grief is contributing to you? Lets find out! and have some fun with Lisa . A little about Lisa Today I've invited Lisa Murray from Creativity lab to join me in an exploration  of the contribution that grief can be to our life if we will allow it .  What could  be different if you would nuture new possibilities into place with ease? Grief often comes from loss. Lisa lost much of her old life within a very short time, including her job, her house, her dog , and her relationship.as she states " She didn't quite lose her mind but it was close ". Lisa plays with people to nuture ideas into reality. She offers events and online adventures which invite you to create your life from a kinder, gentler space . How did we get  so lucky to have the Gift that Lisa is in the world ! You can find Lisa Murray at www.CreativityLab.tv Any Questions please feel free to email me at swmulder@bigpond.net.au

Hi , This is such a big area though on Monday we will be lightly touching, and exploring   these subjects . My special guests I will be chatting with are Amanda Holland and Andrea Holland. I am so looking forward to discussing these topics . Andrea is a Speech Pathologist who has worked with the elderly for over 20 yrs . She has been  intimately involved in her mothers care, who was diagnosed with Alzheimers 4 yrs ago . Amanda is a Social Anthropologist , writer and advocate for change in our cultural approach for Health, education and caring . Any questions beforehand please feel free to email me on swmulder@bigpond.net.au . Look forward to talking to you all soon . Ease and gratitude Wendy Mulder www.kindnesswithgrief.com  www.wendymulder.accessconsciousness.com  

Do you know what allowance is ? Are you willing to know more ? What if we could all  start off 2015 with a phenomenal presence and possibility of allowance for ourselves and others ! Iam excited and grateful   to introduce you to Pepa Demasson .Pepa lives here on the sunshine Coast and  is a Certified Access Consciousness Facilitator as well as a Right Relationship Facilitator for You , as well as many other hats . Pepa to me   IS   the walking gift of allowance.!  Love to hear you from you  all online  this Wednesday the 7th March   from 2pm-2.30pm.    If you have any questions please feel free to email on swmulder@bigpond.net.au. As a follow on from this interview and you would like to know more .  I will be having a 90 minute telecall on the 7th march 2015. To  find me  go to  www.wendymulder.accessconsciousness.com..  click onto classes ... Grief done Differently .  

What is living and dying? Does anyone really know what it means and how much does it bring up? In this special interview with Rebecca Hulse we will be exploring this topic and answering your questions - what would you life be like if you truly knew what living was for you? About Rebecca Rebecca Hulse is a Life Coach, Speaker, Access Consciousness® Facilitator and Author of three books;Love Me For Real – Self-Care You'll Actually Do (and want to), 69 Shades of Pleasure and The Big Bad(ass) Book of Judgement.

What if the death, or loss of someone or something could allow for more choices and possibilities? What if this is the beginning again ? I would love to invite you to a interview  I will be having this friday with Georgia Watson. Georgia lives in Houston America and is a Artist, Hynotist, Addiction and Recovery therapist and much more . Her story is such a inspiration  , she has spoken to me briefly  about how she lost her dad at 15 yrs of age and how his passing created and contributed   so much  of  who she is today .I can't wait to connect with her and hear more of her story  and what is being created. Look forward to talking to you soon . Hugs and Delight Wendy If you have any questions please feel free to email me at swmulder@bigpond.net.au

What does choice mean to you? Is  it   Commitment ? is it unchangeable? Can you change your choice within minutes? or do stay with your choice so as not to upset others? Would love to invite you to a interview  with Siemon mulder. He talks about as a male how difficult it has been for him to choose for him and what he is doing now that is making it easier to choose. Thank you . If you have any questions please feel free to email  swmulder@bigpond.net.au

What is that for you I wonder? How much is it in this society that it is the other way around less for yourself and doing more for others? I would love to invite you to a conversation I will be having with Shennan Rae. Amazing Shennan has turned a lot of things around in her life and living . She has truly changed  from less of herself to truly having more of herself with everything in her work, family and relationships.Her change has truly being the magic of the questions .! Any questions please free to email me on swmulder@bigpond.net.au

"I watched my mothers skin age overnight when my younger brother had a motorbike accident " says Deborah Riddle Would you  like to know more about what Debs knows with skin and how we can reverse the signs of ageing from grief ? Love for you all to come and join us today at 4pm . What else could be possible that we haven't even imagined could be possible ? Hugs Wendy Ps if you would like to know more and book in for a session for a   energetic facelift! please email me at swmulder@bigpond.net.au  

What if there is no right or wrong way to grieve? What if you could be in allowance for yourself? I would love to invite you to a conversation I will be having with Alison Wright .Alison  is a great invitation to what else?...and is  presently going through some grief with her daughter and Dad . She is willing to talk and contribute to others what has changed for her and how it has become easier to be free to grieve. Any questions feel free to e-mail  swmulder@bigpond.net.au  

Check out these 2 amazing  calls part 1 and Part2  with Michelle Foyle. We were having so much fun  that we keep going. Exploring and discovering different possibilities and awarenesses that can create more ease in your bodies. Also part 2 of this call has the amazing Mel Mazing joining our discussion.   If you would like to have more awareness and possibilities with grief, please check out my monthly telecall which is  running at the moment called Grief done Differently.  For more information and to register go to: http://www.accessconsciousness.com/class_details.asp?cid=38624

Check out these 2 amazing  calls part 1 and Part2  with Michelle Foyle. We were having so much fun  that we keep going. Exploring and discovering different possibilities and awarenesses that can create more ease in your bodies. Also part 2 of this call has the amazing Mel Mazing joining our discussion.   If you would like to have more awareness and possibilities with grief, please check out my monthly telecall which is  running at the moment called Grief done Differently.  For more information and to register go to: http://www.accessconsciousness.com/class_details.asp?cid=38624

What if it is truly possible? And with that ease what else could be created? Would you like to join me for  a truly  inspiring  conversation  I had with Michelle Edhouse.  Michelles clarity with the ease of  grief totally changed the energy of what grief is for her and her children.  It is truly such a great example of how, like Michelle, using the tools of Access Consciousness can totally change your point of view of grief.

How often do we do that  go to 'Why' 'Why did this happen'? It's not fair ....'WHy' can't this be different ? I would like to invite you to a conversation  I will be having  with Chrissie Shirley,on how she changed her  "why" trying to understand) to GRATITUDE. Chrissie now lives in New Zealand and has her own business in Hamilton inspiring others to a different possibility from surviving to thriving . If you would like more information on 'Living beyond Grief' you  can go to my websites below www.kindnesswithgrief.com or www.wendymulder.accessconsciousness.com Thank you everyone!          

What is your point of view about being a care giver? What is caring to you? Is it fun? Is it a gift? or is it what you should do? Would you like to find out and discover more about being the carer that works for you>  Would love to invite you to come  and listen in  and ask questions as I talk with Lisa. At present Lisa is caring for her husband at home while still running her buisness .I wonder what else could be possible for her, her husband and her family?

Have you found yourself in any of the boxes called "grieving widow'," single mum",divorced partner or "he did me wrong so now I!m a victim".What if they are just definitions,and what if they aren't truly who we be> Come and join us online . My Guest for next week will be Ali Greenway talking about the role she defined herself as and what is different now.

Would you like some simple  ideas for creating different possibilities and choices for moving forward? What if you would stop making yourself wrong for what hasn't changed yet? What if you could move past the ways you define yourself,move beyond grief and create a life you would love to live?

Is money from the past keeping you  stuck and confined?How much have you gone into the wrongness for the money you spent or should not have? Have you spent all your money on bills?or the kids?or investments gone wrong? Come and join us online and lets let go of as many points of views and decisions as possible around money and you. My special Guest Madonna will be coming on and I will be facilitating her as an example of what else is possible?

What amount of grief and the assumptions of what grief is do we hold in our body? Would you like to know more about how to release these thoughts and feelings that hold these patterns in place . Please join me on the 24th June at 1pm and lets see what we change together We also will have a suprise Guest . .If you have any questions please e-mail swmulder@bigpond.net.au or skype on wendymulders

I wonder what is it that we like doubting ourself more than  trusting  what it is we know and be? How much do we listen and trust others before ourself?  Please Join us live on  monday the 27th May where I will be facilitating a Guest called Lisa Goodenough about  Doubt versus Trust with her living. if you have any questions please feel free contact me via  www.wendymulder.accessconsciousness.com

Do you have gratitude for you?or is that being selfish? Can judgement exist when there is gratitude? Have you ever acknowledged the gratitude you have for you? What could that change if you did? Please join me on online, if you have any questions please e-mail on swmulder@bigpond.net.au or skype wendymulders or more informationon classes go to www.wendymulder.accessconsciousness.com  

Are you checking out of your life? What if you could stop judging yourself? Are you grateful for you today? Do  you relax? or are you clogged down with responsibilities? Please join us online if you have any questions please  e-mail me on swmulder@bigpond.net.au  

What are you tired of ? what if that tiredness wasn't yours?  Would you like to find out about  2 amazing tools that can totally change your tiredness into so much more ease  and clarity? Please join us online, if you have questions on tiredness and what is the value of having tiredness. if you can't be on live , please e-mail Wendy Mulder  with your questions before the show Would you like to come to an Access Consciousness® Bars, Foundation or Level 1? Click HERE for more details

 Are you ever kind to you? What is it that you have defined kindness is? Are you kind to everyone else first before yourself? What could you change if you were willing to put you first? Please join us online if you have questions on kindness and what is the value of having kindness for yourself.....lots to explore and discover. And if you can't be on live , please e-mail Wendy Mulder with your questions before the show. Would you like to come to an Access Consciousness® Bars, Foundation or Level 1? Click HERE for more details