New Life Live with Steve Arterburn

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jill discusses character development using habit stacking: identifying a habit you already do and adding another habit to it. I'm 32 and feel very insecure because I'm single, have no kids, and everyone around me is married with children. How do I stop being addicted to creativity? I have bipolar I, have been to the psych ward four times, and feel withdrawal when I don't do art. How do I set boundaries with my husband of 10 years? He uses alcohol, watches porn, and won't talk through conflicts with me. I've been divorced for 5 years and have been dating a woman exclusively for 2 months, but her actions don't match her words. What should I do?

Caller Questions & Discussion: JJ shares how to break free from old habits, behaviors, and identity patterns that keep you stuck. It has been hard for me to find housing because of incorrect items reported on my credit report. I've gone through my savings and am now living in a shelter. If God can do all things, what will it take for me to move forward? If someone is viewing and downloading child pornography online, how could that person receive counseling? Would telling a therapist automatically be reported to authorities and likely result in arrest? Brian asks the hosts if Philippians 2:12 says to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, what is needed to work out a marriage?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Special guest and clinical psychologist Dr. John Townsend discusses the Townsend Institute at Concordia University Irvine. My ex-husband was emotionally abusive. Now my son is getting a master's in counseling and tells me I need healing and I need to comfort him. How can I respond in love? How do I cope with vulnerability, loneliness, and feeling inferior after being bullied as a child and now being single? I recently fell victim to a scammer on a dating site. I've been married for more than 40 years, and my husband micromanages me. When he triggers me, how should I respond? Our 15-year-old grandson is transitioning to a girl. We were told not to discuss it and to use female pronouns. After I shared my concerns with my stepdaughter, the whole family cut me off.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Chris explains that our tendency to block, defend, and deny the truth about our brokenness keeps us from fully experiencing God's goodness. What, if anything, should I do to intervene in my 81-year-old mother's shopping addiction? She likely has borderline personality disorder and has spent tens of thousands of dollars. I'm 37 and live in India. I've struggled with years of sleeplessness and significant trauma. What should I do next? My friend is a Christian with a newborn and is living with her boyfriend. She recently discovered he has a sex addiction—what is the best way to advise her? I wanted to share what helps me fall back asleep: a therapist once told me to say the Lord's Prayer ten times. Start at a normal pace, then gradually slow down.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Marc discusses the three essential steps a partner who has betrayed trust must take to begin restoring it in a marriage or relationship. I went to Every Man's Battle and Intimacy in Marriage, but I have a big problem with lying, and my wife can't believe a word that I say. Our 51-year-old son lives with us, and he drinks twice a week to the point that he blacks out. I can't seem to handle the demons that come out when he drinks; how do I respond? After I discovered that my husband has inappropriate pictures of women on his phone, he said I invaded his privacy, and he doesn't seem remorseful; are there any books you'd recommend?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jim discusses the principle of leading with love, especially with parents whose children have strayed from their faith. My son is married to a woman he met in foster care, and the relationship is very toxic. What are some ways to help him? I've been married for 40 years to a man who has narcissistic personality disorder and is a sex addict. If I go to Restore, how do I tell my husband that I will be away for three days?

Caller Questions & Discussion: JJ discusses why we must do self-examination and pay attention to what's happening inside of our hearts to discover our leaks, emotional pain, and points of vulnerability. I can't confront someone in person but can put it down in writing; how do I approach it effectively? I'm in my mid-70s and dream a lot about my husband who abandoned our marriage 30 years ago; why is this still happening and how can I find healing? Last week I overheard my mom saying mean things about me and my children behind my back; is it okay for me to move on? How do I deal with my 24-year-old daughter who struggles with addiction and refuses to get help?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Sheri shares insights from reaching out to thousands of women about the impact of pornography in their lives and how their churches responded when they sought help. I called you last week, and you helped me find a counselor. Without your guidance, I wouldn't have been able to take that step! My 19-year-old daughter is in art school and started taking testosterone; how do I approach this as a parent? What is a clinical therapist? I'm seeing a counselor, but I'm looking for the “magic bullet” to fix my marriage. My husband has Asperger's, is obsessed with the End Times, and even hands out cards; how can I navigate this?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jacqui discusses depression and changes to look for; ask the person how they’re doing and even if they have had thoughts of suicide. My wife says she doesn't trust me anymore after she discovered I was messaging an 18-year-old woman; my wife and I haven’t kissed for years. Is it biblical for leaders in the church to call themselves apostles? I’m church shopping; is this a red flag? I've gone no contact with my parents, and my dad is in the hospital. Do I just go see him? My 27-year-old son lives with me and is having a hard time on his job as a substitute teacher; should I give him my opinion or let him figure it out? He has mental health struggles.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jill discusses the Olympics and how her stepfather nearly made the track team. In our lives and relationships, we shouldn't settle; we should keep working on them. My grandson in the first grade is really struggling and plays a lot of video games; do I say anything? I was diagnosed with PTSD and tried going to the VA, but secular isn't helping me. Are there any spiritual resources? I just turned 63 and have been battling compulsive behaviors like turning to porn, massage parlors, and masturbation to self-soothe. My dad gave me the green light on these behaviors as a kid.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Marc discusses how emotionally secure people face past experiences and commit to growth. My people-pleasing son has been married for over 20 years to a wife who dominates, he puts everyone else first, and texted us about being stressed. Do I text him back? It's very painful for me to be estranged from my children, and talking to my sister has triggered me. My husband and I haven't had sex in 15 years and I'm resentful; how do I deal with it? I want to stay connected to my sister more than she does; will I be emotionally okay to be detached after cutting her off?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jacqui shares how understanding your past brings clarity to your present. Any thoughts on how to combat deep trauma so I can be a healthy grandparent? I am challenged with a lot of past trauma, but worldly therapists do not seem to help. Is self-therapy okay? For example, some people are influencers who use social media to vent their emotions in videos. As an associate pastor, how do I handle feelings of disappointment and the sense of apathy within the church community? I was in an emotionally abusive marriage and have been divorced for ten years. My two teen kids don't want to date or get married; how can I change their perspective?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Alice asks two thought-provoking questions: Have you built the kind of life that you don't want to escape from? If not, what is keeping you from building that life? I struggle with masturbating every day and feel embarrassed about it; do you have any advice? I'm dating a man who says he was addicted to porn a year ago and has stopped; can someone fully recover from porn addiction without counseling or accountability? My daughter stayed with us and shared that her husband drinks until he passes out every time he comes home; how do I approach my son-in-law when he loves our daughter and their newborn? I'm almost 69, single, and want to share what I've learned that has helped me embrace singleness and replace self-pleasuring.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Alice discusses how excessive screen time and doomscrolling can lead to “brain rot,” and how parents can set a healthy example for their kids. I'm pregnant. Do I invite my mother-in-law to my baby shower even though she didn't attend our wedding? I went to a rehab center that felt like a horror show and experienced serious health struggles. How do I regain my hope, as it says in Jeremiah 29:11? I'm not able to attend your Intimacy in Marriage Weekend; how else can we get help? There's a lot of emotional and physical disconnection in our marriage of more than 20 years.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Becky discusses one of life’s most dangerous challenges: justifiable resentment. She explains the key signs that may indicate you are struggling with it. When should my husband and I step in if our daughter-in-law struggles with severe anxiety and a germ phobia? I feel deep resentment toward my husband of 30yrs. He is a retired cop, very controlling, and has little emotional intelligence. My husband had an affair. How do I know if God wants me to be released from this marriage or stay in it? My mom grew up in foster homes and never met my emotional needs. How can I move past my resentment and grieve what my mom can’t be?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jill discusses a simple exercise: list your fears, reflect on how they affect you, and determine if there's an action you can take. The stronger my relationship with God gets, the more I feel attacked by anxiety, depression, and fear. As a believer, how can I combat this? My friend's husband continues to be unfaithful, but she wants to wait until her 6-year-old graduates high school before leaving him. How can I help her?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Laura Mangin-McDonald shares how God designed us for connection and outlines three key steps we must take to heal in community. What should I do in my marriage if my husband of five years is hard to get along with? He is a veteran, complains constantly, and is very sarcastic. I called the police when my 12-year-old son with ADHD hit me in the face, and now he is sending alarming text messages about sex—what should I do? Laura previews the upcoming Betrayal Webinar and the many types of betrayal that will be addressed for the men and women who attend.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Becky Brown discusses the launch of New Life's 9941 program, inspired by Luke 15, offering a new way to bring hope to the lost. How do I determine if—or when—to introduce my seven children (ages 13 to 6 months) to my estranged mom? My 42-year-old sister struggles with alcohol, is in a homeless shelter, and now has a brain tumor. Do I tell my mom she has a brain tumor?

Caller Questions & Discussion: JJ discusses the story in Exodus 18 where Moses' father-in-law, Jethro, advises Moses to delegate his responsibilities instead of handling everything alone. My 11-year-old daughter is terrified of vomiting. Should I seek professional help? Sometimes she refuses to eat because she feels nauseous. During the Superbowl, what advice do you have for people who have a tendency to overindulge with food, alcohol, or betting? How much help should I provide my 34-year-old son, who has struggled with bipolar disorder and psychosis? I'm considering renting an apartment for him. I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, but I think it caused my diabetes. Can I stop taking my medication?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Marc shares the phases of a romantic relationship and the tipping point where the relationship deepens or fades. My husband is a former opioid addict and currently uses pornography, but I don't want to divorce. What should I do? I want to share about the New Life Recovery Group we're starting at our church and the benefits of being part of a recovery group. What should I do if my pastor is telling me I have to stay in my marriage even though we're unhappy and don't like each other?

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Sheri discusses betrayal blindness and how pornography can be like a gateway drug that can lead to even worse things. Do I get out of my marriage? My husband and I have lived like roommates for the last 20 years, even after we've seen three counselors. I want to be a life-giver, but I'm blind and live in a nursing home. How can I help people here? How can I stop being affected by profanity? I struggle when I hear curse words because I feel cursing is sinful.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jill shares that, like the Titanic, which received multiple warnings to turn back, we can miss the warning signs people in our lives send. How can we help our 14-year-old granddaughter who has an autoimmune disease? She struggles with suicidal thoughts and is already seeing a counselor. My 12-year-old granddaughter disclosed that she was sexually abused by her brother and is engaging in self-harm. What steps should we take? How do I connect with my 18-year-old son who does well at school but isolates himself at home and emotionally shuts me out? I saw handwriting on the ceiling of my hotel room that said, “I love you,” but when I looked again, it was gone. Could that have been God?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Alice discusses how to overcome unhealthy habits, attitudes or behaviors; confession is the key. Is my friend doing the right thing by divorcing her husband of nearly 14 years? He has been in a long-term relationship with another woman and doesn’t contribute to the household finances. After enduring several narcissistic, abusive relationships, I'm now enjoying being alone since my children are grown. Is this normal, or is it just a season of life? What can we do for our 6-year-old grandson who has lost family members? He talks about death several times a day and has even said he wants to die. 1

Caller Questions & Discussion: Chris discusses how our attempts to control situations can come across as judgmental, and he reminds us that Romans 2:1 serves as a warning. What does healing from spiritual and sexual abuse look like? I struggled with same-sex attraction and confided in a man I dated, who ultimately abused me. I was sexually abused by my father, and it’s like my mom blamed me. How can I navigate this difficult relationship with her? How can I help my 46-year-old daughter who feels hopeless and struggles with suicidal thoughts? My granddaughter isn't inviting certain family members to her wedding, which is hurting my cousin's feelings. How can I address this family conflict?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Becky discusses how our culture has become obsessed with certainty, but we must ensure that the need for certainty doesn't replace our dependence on God. My husband and I have been separated for six years due to his abuse, and he is now seeing someone else. What should I do? My firstborn daughter died from fentanyl five years ago, and I'm still in complete shock. How can I cope? My mom says she won't attend my daughter's Quinceañera if we play secular dance music. What's the best way to handle this? What should I do if my 35-year-old daughter struggles with serious mental health challenges and even threw a plate at me? How can I motivate my aging father? He doesn't shower, drinks alcohol, and rarely changes his clothes after my mother died 3 years ago.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Henry Cloud shares the biggest lesson he's learned from decades as an acclaimed psychologist, author, and leadership expert. Am I making the right decision to leave my husband of six years? He is a pastor but refuses to share his finances or provide financial support. My husband of 36 years is a high-functioning alcoholic. I tried to leave, but it caused constant conflict—how do I stop letting him push my buttons? I'm in a friendship with a Christian man who kisses me on the lips, and we give each other massages, but I want a committed relationship. Should I go no contact and move on?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jim discusses why parents need to allow their adult children to learn through natural consequences and be careful not to enable them. My husband asked for a divorce the day before Thanksgiving, and it scares me that his family might turn my kids against me. What should my next step be to connect with a woman in my Bible study who has anxiety? I asked her to go out to eat, but she canceled. My daughter is divorced from an abusive marriage, and she has recently been swept off her feet by a man who is here on a work visa. As a dad, what is my role? What is the next step after I had an affair 25 years ago that my husband keeps bringing up?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Alice discusses common reasons marriages decay, with a focus on physical intimacy. How do I enjoy being close to my husband again when his anger and yelling make me withdraw from physical intimacy? I was married for 20 years, and my ex-husband said he was never physically attracted to me. Why would someone marry a spouse they aren't attracted to? I believe my family may be involved with a harmful organization, and someone broke into my storage unit. I contacted the FBI, but nothing happened; what should I do next?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Henry Cloud discusses his personal journey of faith and how the science of psychology affirms the truth of the Bible. My 26-year-old son with Asperger's lives with me after leaving the Army and often reacts strongly to what others say. His siblings want me to create a contract with him; how should I respond? My adult son struggles with alcohol and possibly Adderall. He becomes angry when I confront him. Is this my responsibility, or is it something he and his wife need to address? How do I help my 13-year-old son? His father is trying to coerce him into living with him, and my son has colitis and has said he doesn't deserve to live.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jacqui explains why it's important to read Scripture for yourself; don’t let your Bible understanding come from the pulpit only. My husband and I have been living in separate rooms for 20 years, and I'm in recovery. How should I handle him being constantly angry at me? My brother has become a hoarder and has been scammed out of $400,000. What can I do to help him? I'm providing financially for my wife and want to make her happy, but she has served me divorce papers. Should I stop providing?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Laura discusses why love is free, but trust must be earned. What are the three key steps to rebuild trust after someone has hurt us? What are some practical tips for navigating parenting in a blended family? Our young adult daughters are struggling to begin launching into adulthood.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jill explains why John Ortberg's book Steps: A Guide to Transforming Your Life When Willpower Isn’t Enough is a helpful reminder that the 12 Steps originated from the Bible and within a church community. I see how my mom was, and I don't want to be like her. What do you recommend I do to reconnect with my husband if he thinks I'm a vacillator? I'm in my 60s, engaged, and want to do thorough premarital counseling, but my fiancé wants to move through it quickly.” My 7-year-old grandson has been touching his cousin inappropriately. My daughter is very defensive and lets him do what he wants—what should I do? What is wrong with me that I can't stand up for myself with my boss and my boyfriend? My twin sister says she would never put up with what I put up with. The foster son I raised has moved to Texas, and it's been an adjustment for me.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Alice explains responses like “You're so sensitive” can be like poison ivy for a relationship because it comes across as defensive. I'm from a country where arranged marriages are common, and I married a man and moved to America. Am I wrong if I started seeing someone else while we were separated and want a divorce? Is it wrong to send money each month to my ungrateful brother? He was codependent with my mom and then deported to another country. After my mom revealed she was sexually abused and became pregnant with me, I lost all respect for my dad. As a Christian, how should I navigate this? My 8-year-old granddaughter with severe anxiety believes she's going to hell because she hit her mom. What can I do? I used drugs since I was 8 years old, but I found Christ and walked away from drugs last August!

Caller Questions & Discussion: Becky shares that there's power in the story you tell yourself, but it can keep you stuck. I got married despite my mentors telling me not to, and my husband has anger issues and a hard time staying employed; how do I do this day in and day out? I walked in on my wife of 10yrs talking to a man on the phone, and I believe she's cheating. Is this grounds for divorce? How do I learn to trust my current husband if my first husband was addicted to porn? I don't know how to trust again.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Marc discusses how we all have emotional blind spots and why becoming defensive can block personal growth. My husband of 10yrs has struggled with a porn addiction that has escalated to massage parlors and voyeuristic behavior. We have young children—should I leave my marriage? I believe my wife shows narcissistic traits, and it feels like everything I do is wrong. How do I deal with a controlling spouse? I've been diagnosed with brain delirium and have intense anxiety. Could my anxiety be related to PTSD?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jacqui explains how to pray and why your relationship with God matters. My daughter has asked me not to interact with my grandsons when they are with their father. Do I need to comply with her wishes? I recently discovered that my daughter was sexually abused by my son, beginning when she was 5 years old. Where do I even start? What does ‘one flesh' in marriage really mean? Does it mean two individuals working together as a team, or does it mean the husband makes all the decisions? My accountant wants to borrow $1,000 from me and keep it a secret. What should I do?

Caller Questions & Discussion: JJ discusses how healthy relationships require personal responsibility and what each person must bring to the table in order to “live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12:18). My husband believes our 28-year-old son who lives at home is not managing his spending well and needs to take responsibility, but I don't agree. My 70-year-old husband is on his phone from morning until 2 a.m. and won't help around the house; what advice do you have? I struggle to maintain boundaries with women, and it may have contributed to my wife divorcing me; have you seen this before? I quit drinking alcohol last year because of my wife, but over time what I've been viewing online has repeatedly damaged my marriage.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Sheri discusses why we should offer words of affirmation to those around us. It's really important to me to stand up for what I believe is right, but I received backlash after attending an event and speaking up. Should I help my daughter and son-in-law's marriage? My son-in-law says she is showing symptoms of borderline personality disorder, similar to my ex-wife. I can't let go of the feeling that it was my fault my 22-year-old son died by suicide in 2011. I live daily with the belief that I passed on my depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, and bipolar disorder.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Becky discusses Jehoshaphat and how God gives you the strength to fulfill your calling, but not God's work. What are your thoughts on a boy under age 6 years old who wants to wear a princess dress at his cousin's house and asks to put on makeup for play? How can I help my 27-year-old son find a stable job? He is living at home and has a felony record. I joined a church and told the pastor I wanted to get involved in outreach, but I haven't heard back. Can a therapist help discern the truth in a marriage? I'm navigating a difficult marriage and recently lost my mom.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Marc discusses how to stop reacting and learn to start responding. How do you get your adult voice, like Marc talks about in Understanding Your Attachment Style? My parents never modeled it. How do I find connection after my sister was murdered? I’ve thought about suicide and think I should’ve been shot instead of her. I'm almost 60 years old and have such severe anxiety that I think I'm going to be put away; can you give me some direction?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jacqui reminds us that the divisions in our churches are not as God intended. My adult son believes whatever his narcissistic father tells him—should I tell my son the truth? This is my third marriage, and my husband threatens to leave whenever we get into an explosive argument—how do I handle it? Both of my parents tried to kill me; how does this childhood trauma affect me today as an adult?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jill discusses a few words to use instead of “resolutions” and notes that it's healthy to pause at this time of year to reflect. My daughter was a victim of sex trafficking at 14 years old and ten years later said she was pregnant, but we never saw proof. How can I stop caring so much about my adult daughter? She got involved with a man, ended up in jail, and now she and her son live with us. I am the mother of eight adult children who had a narcissistic father; what can I do to heal and renew my relationship with them? I'm in my 20s and struggling with a pornography addiction; what kind of help do I need?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Becky explains why she considers today “Mat Day” and why we must stop making excuses and pick up our mats and walk if we want to be well (John 5). How do I handle not being able to share community bread during communion at my new church? I sent my niece's husband to Every Man's Battle a year ago, and he came back a changed man! My wife hasn’t been intimate with me for 5 years; how do I deal with my anger and bitterness in a sexless marriage? Can someone who is a narcissist be truly saved?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Becky challenges us in the New Year to reduce the amount of time to get out of a bad state of mind with help from Ephesians 4. Should I separate from my husband to overcome my unforgiveness? My husband left a month ago; what can I do if he blames me and doesn’t like confrontation? How can I help my daughter-in-law? My son is a narcissist and verbally abusive to her.

Caller Questions & Discussion: Marc discusses what it looks like for a parent to let go by offering their children freedom, and he gives the example of Jesus going missing when he was a child in Jerusalem. A few months ago, I realized I'm a covert narcissist, my family had me admitted to a mental health facility, and I threatened suicide; what do I do now? If I receive a blessing from God, but then turn around and don't accept the blessing; do you have any insight into that? I'm a single mom in love with a man in meth recovery, and I struggle with anxious attachment; what can I do? My bipolar nephew and his pregnant wife moved in with my stepmother and me; since it's her house, am I supposed to stand up for her?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Sheri explains cognitive dissonance and why it is essential to take steps to protect and ground yourself after a spouse has betrayed you. Many people wonder how men and women can survive in a world with OnlyFans and AI girlfriends, and New Life LIVE radio hosts discuss strategies for maintaining healthy relationships. January sees a rise in breakups as many couples postpone ending relationships until after the holidays, and the radio hosts explain why this trend occurs. What should I do after confessing my infidelity to my husband? How can I heal my marriage and make things right? How can you support someone who is struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts? And what can they do themselves?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Chris shares that he struggles to cry, but every Christmas Eve he gets the gift of tears. Let your tears teach you what is most important and most hopeful in life. Chris also shares that our emotions are a muscle; if his sad muscles get strengthened, then his resiliency for sadness increases. If you live your life to avoid loss, you will also avoid life. What are one or two ways to start trusting God when trusting anyone is difficult or feels impossible? I'm in a new church, and they've said you shouldn't really be in the presence of the opposite sex; how do I not let that throw me off spiritually?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Alice invites us to turn off our screens to put time and attention into our family. How do I cope with going no contact with my elderly parents for the second time? Their words aren't life-giving. I've been married for two years, and my wife is separated from me because my anxiety is stopping me from living life. Do I tell my teen kids that their mom is a narcissist so they can learn to cope? I struggled with marijuana addiction my whole life until I gave my life to Jesus!

Caller Questions & Discussion: Staying home and being isolated at Christmas? JJ shares what you can do to have joyful holidays. Should I reach out to the other grandmother of my grandson? Her son and my daughter used to date, and their young son is not living with my daughter. My son was raised by my mother as my brother, and he wants to stay with me at Christmas; should I let him? My young teen is being bullied for not using social media—how can I help? What should I do if I've been taking asthma medication that gives me suicidal thoughts?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Marc shares about family dynamics and why it is so hard to be an adult when we go home for the holidays. I have full guardianship of my wife with severe depression and she refuses treatment; how do I cope with feeling stuck after trying everything? What should I do when my marriage has no intimacy and my wife refuses counseling? How can I heal from being estranged from my son and grandchildren for over ten years, even after long-term therapy? What is the difference between Understanding Your Attachment Style by Marc Cameron and How We Love by Milan and Kay Yerkovich?

Caller Questions & Discussion: Dr. Jill shares that asking where God is in your circumstance may not be a question; it may be a protest because you want it to be different (from Dr. John Townsend's book Where Is God?). After getting sober, my young adult son has ignored me, even after he had a baby. Should I pursue a relationship with my half-sisters? My stepfather sexually abused me, and they believe him instead of me. What's the next step for moving forward with my life after my husband left to move to another state? What advice would you give your younger self just starting in counseling? I'm completing my Licensed Professional Counselor requirements this year.