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New Life Live! is America's #1 Christian counseling call-in show. Author and New Life Ministries founder, Steve Arterburn, along with his tag-team of co-hosts, offer advice and address issues concerning spiritual, relational and emotional issues within our culture today. Tag-team counselors: Dr. Hen…

New Life Ministries

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    The New Life Live with Steve Arterburn podcast is an incredible resource for anyone looking to learn more about life, relationships, and personal growth. The hosts of the show offer a wealth of knowledge and wisdom, and their compassionate and empathetic approach makes them some of the best counselors I have ever heard on the radio. I am constantly learning something new or reinforcing previously learned truths about healthy relating every time I listen to this show. Whether you're going through a hard time or struggling with a relationship or addiction, New Life Live is the podcast to listen to.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is the grace, compassion, empathy, and truth that the hosts provide in their counseling. They have a deep understanding of human psychology and behavior, as well as a strong faith that guides their advice. The combination of secular counseling and Christian ethics that they bring to each episode makes their advice applicable to people from all walks of life.

    However, one downside to this podcast is that they still acknowledge homosexuality and other non-heterosexual orientations as a sin and something to be avoided. This can be alienating for listeners who identify as LGBTQ+ or have loved ones who do. While they do address questions related to LGBTQ+ issues when callers bring them up, it seems that they often sidestep these questions or attribute them to neglect or abuse rather than acknowledging the validity of different sexual orientations.

    In conclusion, despite its shortcomings in handling LGBTQ+ issues, The New Life Live with Steve Arterburn podcast is an excellent resource for anyone seeking guidance and support in their personal growth journey. The hosts provide timely and inspired advice for all kinds of relationships and life challenges. Their combined experience and knowledge make for an incredibly valuable listening experience whether you are Christian yourself or not.



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    Latest episodes from New Life Live with Steve Arterburn

    New Life LIVE: August 29, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Becky talks about National Grief Awareness Day on August 30th. I'm in a wheelchair and can't get out; how do I get food after leaving prison last week? My verbally abusive husband days he'll stay married to me, but only if I'll have sex with him even though it's painful for […]

    New Life LIVE: August 28, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui talks about letting others share their perspective without telling them they are wrong. I haven't been able to reconnect with God after my mom passed away 8 years ago. Can I ever come back from feeling my marriage is over? My husband acts like a teen boy, and I […]

    New Life LIVE: August 27, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses how to transform your anxiety struggles into success by connecting with God and safe people. My wife and I have been separated for 5yrs; any recommendations on us trying to give it a go again? We adopted our great-granddaughter when she was born a meth baby; what can […]

    New Life LIVE: August 26, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: JJ discusses three ways you can become part of a healing community by doing and not being. How can I deal with my angry, narcissistic, 34-year-old daughter? I lost my 47-year-old son 9 months ago, and I feel like I just got the news yesterday; is this normal? My husband and […]

    New Life LIVE: August 25, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Marc encourages couples to tell the story of their love for one another to rekindle their marriage. How do I move forward if we just had our 35th wedding anniversary, but our divorce is almost final? What should I do if I am extremely anxious over my neighbor cutting down some […]

    New Life LIVE: August 22, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice shares how anxiety is like a cold and needs comfort, challenge, and a medical evaluation. Every Man's Battle was life-changing for my husband, and our intimacy has never been better! Does my 18yo daughter need to know that her father and I were sued by her sexual abuser? She […]

    New Life LIVE: August 21, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how to set boundaries by stating your preference and if they don't respect it, get firmer. I am concerned about my 26yo daughter-in-law who is not functioning since she didn't qualify to graduate from nursing school. My wife's father molested her, and it is affecting our marriage greatly. […]

    New Life LIVE: August 20, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim discusses how letting go of your need to be right will help your relationships. What do you recommend for my shy 14yo granddaughter who is changing schools and struggles to make friends? How do I handle my brother who lives with my mom and always takes her side? What […]

    New Life LIVE: August 19, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Chris explains what it means to be a benevolent witness. How do I help my 36-year-old daughter who's being physically abused by her husband? I lost my savings helping my 54-year-old son who's homeless and I can't stop sending him money. There's no place for my son with special needs to […]

    New Life Live: August 18, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses adult children cutting off their parents. How do you get through your mom taking her own life? I was just 12 years old when I lost my mom. Am I wrong to cut off a parent who isn't a good person to have around my children? How do […]

    New Life Live: August 15, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Marc shares how having the right type of emotional tolerance shows maturity. My husband revealed he went online and shared sexual videos of me and him; should I believe him that he hasn't had an affair? Since I had a disorder in childhood and the doctor told me I wouldn't live […]

    New Life Live: August 14, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Becky announces the new New Life website is launching today! Kissing my wife is like kissing a mannequin because she doesn't really like it. My son struggles with substance abuse, and I track him by using a phone app; is this the right thing for me to do? What kind of […]

    New Life Live: August 13, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim shares three simple things that he and his wife did that changed everything in their marriage. I called you in February about my husband kissing another woman and wanted to share about how much you've helped me through your intensives! How do I deal with my 25 year-old son […]

    New Life Live: August 13, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2025 48:04


    Topics: Affairs, Adult Children, Resentment, Mother Issues, Boundaries, Finances Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jim Burns, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim shares three simple things that he and his wife did that changed everything in their marriage. I called you in February about my husband kissing another woman and wanted to share about how much you've helped me through The post New Life Live: August 13, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: August 12, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses four steps to focusing on your Internal State. I have bipolar disorder and I depended on my mom who died 2yrs ago; how can I keep working if I try to work but get filled with dread? My son is facing incarceration and wants me to check with his […]

    New Life Live: August 12, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2025 48:04


    Topics: Recovery, Bipolar, Incarceration, Racism, Church Life, Adult Children Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses four steps to focusing on your Internal State. I have bipolar disorder and I depended on my mom who died 2yrs ago; how can I keep working if I try to work but get filled with dread? My son is The post New Life Live: August 12, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: August 11, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses the importance of boundaries and why it's okay to stand up for yourself, even if you felt unworthy in childhood. I am 53 year-old and my covert narcissistic mom won't talk to me because of something my husband said to her. My husband of 12yrs committed suicide, and […]

    New Life Live: August 11, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2025 48:04


    Topics: Boundaries, Self Worth, Mother Issues, Suicide, Guilt, Siblings, Same-sex Attraction, Estrangement, Separation Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses the importance of boundaries and why it's okay to stand up for yourself, even if you felt unworthy in childhood. I am 53yo and my covert narcissistic mom won't talk to me because of something my husband The post New Life Live: August 11, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: August 8, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2025 48:04


    Topics: Love Bombing, Siblings, Grudges, Intimacy, Avoiders, Dating, Enabling, Adult Children Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Denham Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Dr. Sheri discusses why someone may try to love bomb you. I'm 48yo and am happily married with kids, but my younger sister always holds things against me. I'm married to a younger woman and have given her everything, The post New Life Live: August 8, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: August 8, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Sheri discusses why someone may try to love bomb you. I'm 48 year-old and am happily married with kids, but my younger sister always holds things against me. I'm married to a younger woman and have given her everything, but she is not affectionate. Is the man I've been dating […]

    New Life Live: August 7, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2025 48:04


    Topics: Overwhelm, Adult Children, Failure To Launch, Betrayal, Nightmares, Boundaries, Alcohol, Childhood Abuse, Drug Addiction, Emotional Abuse Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses being overwhelmed with information and how being rooted in love will guide us. How do I help my 28yo son who lives at home, has depression, and threatens to kill himself? I have nightmares from my The post New Life Live: August 7, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: August 7, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses being overwhelmed with information and how being rooted in love will guide us. How do I help my 28 year-old son who lives at home, has depression, and threatens to kill himself? I have nightmares from my betrayal trauma and they're getting worse; how can I minimize them? My […]

    New Life Live: August 6, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui shares Scriptures that talk about calming anxiety through prayer and meditation. How do I deal with feeling guilty when I am successful or experience joy? People around me seem jealous. My son died from fentanyl; how do I improve my relationship with my 9 year-old grandson's critical mom? My […]

    New Life Live: August 6, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2025 48:04


    Topics: Anxiety, Guilt, Jealousy, In-laws, Difficult Conversations, Divorce, Reconciliation Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Sheri Denham Keffer Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui shares Scriptures that talk about calming anxiety through prayer and meditation. How do I deal with feeling guilty when I am successful or experience joy? People around me seem jealous. My son died from fentanyl; how do The post New Life Live: August 6, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: August 5, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2025 48:04


    Topics: Taking Action, Ministry, Mother Issues, Estrangement, Adult Children, Incarceration, Bipolar, Schizophrenia, Same-Sex Attraction Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how we're all called to do something each day to help ourselves or to help others. How can we help my 32yo niece who is a parent and may have mental illness? My mom makes me The post New Life Live: August 5, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: August 5, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how we're all called to do something each day to help ourselves or to help others. How can we help my 32yo niece who is a parent and may have mental illness? My mom makes me feel like she doesn't care; how can I trust her if I've […]

    New Life LIVE: August 4, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses neuro pathway building which makes learning to use your non-dominant hand possible with practice. How can I coparent my young kids during this transition of getting divorced last month? I have two children with autism, and having a non-verbal 14yo autistic daughter has been very hard. Any tips to […]

    New Life Live: August 1, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Marriage, Grandparenting, Young Adults, Marijuana, Boundaries, Avoiders, Anxiety, Empty Nest, Church Abuse Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jim Burns, Becky Brown Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim discusses imperfect marriages and "Don't tackle someone wearing the same jersey." How do I help my 18yo grandson who is living with me? He got arrested last week, uses marijuana, The post New Life Live: August 1, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: August 1, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2025 48:03


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim discusses imperfect marriages and “Don't tackle someone wearing the same jersey.” How do I help my 18yo grandson who is living with me? He got arrested last week, uses marijuana, and he's staying with me because he has no place to go. I suffer from avoidance behaviors and the […]

    New Life Live: July 31, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2025 48:06


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Reflection, Father Issues, Childhood Abuse, Forgiveness, Addictions, Verbal Abuse, Codependency, Adult Children, Estrangement, Anxiety, Caregiving, Grief Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how our childhood shapes our attitude and our attitude shapes our future; take time to reflect and look inside yourself. I let my dad live with me even The post New Life Live: July 31, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: July 31, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2025 48:06


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how our childhood shapes our attitude and our attitude shapes our future; take time to reflect and look inside yourself. I let my dad live with me even though he denied abusing me when I was a child. How do I stop having nightmares after he died? My […]

    New Life Live: July 30, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2025 48:04


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Emotional Growth, Friendship, Narcissists, Remarriage, Divorce, Alcohol, Adult Children, Inheritance Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses the markers we put in our lives to remind us of the hurts and issues that need fixing. What do you need to go back and repair? How do I deal The post New Life Live: July 30, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: July 30, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses the markers we put in our lives to remind us of the hurts and issues that need fixing. What do you need to go back and repair? How do I deal with my Bible study partner who asks me invasive questions? I'm 65yo and married to a narcissist; how […]

    New Life Live: July 29, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Chris explains why Philippians 4:13 is the most misunderstood verse in the Bible. How do I honor God and deal with ending the relationship with my borderline and narcissistic mom? Because my parents were dangerous, I haven't seen them for 20yrs; how do I handle reconnecting again? I'm 66yo and feel […]

    New Life Live: July 29, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2025 48:04


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Discontentment, Mother Issues, Reconnection, Self Worth, Getting Unstuck, Spiritual Growth, Weight Issues Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: Chris explains why Philippians 4:13 is the most misunderstood verse in the Bible. How do I honor God and deal with ending the relationship with my borderline and narcissistic mom? Because The post New Life Live: July 29, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: July 28, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2025 48:04


    Topics: Intimacy, Divorce, Forgiveness, Grief, Disasters, Suicide, Witnessing, Dating Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Becky shares how the weekend went at Intimacy in Marriage in Washington, DC. I divorced 20yrs ago, and my ex lives in my basement. I forgave him, but how do I forget? My sister goes to a church where a couple lost two daughters The post New Life Live: July 28, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: July 28, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Becky shares how the weekend went at Intimacy in Marriage in Washington, DC. I divorced 20yrs ago, and my ex lives in my basement. I forgave him, but how do I forget? My sister goes to a church where a couple lost two daughters and parents in the Texas flood; what […]

    New Life Live: July 25, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2025 48:04


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Anxiety, Depression, Intimacy, Separation, Custody, Medical Issues, Anger, Trust, Friendship, Boundaries, Adult Children, Affairs Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill shares how self-talk can help with anxiety and depression. I've spent 38yrs in a loveless marriage because my husband does not have conversations. My sister was born with sickle cell anemia, The post New Life Live: July 25, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: July 25, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill shares how self-talk can help with anxiety and depression. I've spent 38yrs in a loveless marriage because my husband does not have conversations. My sister was born with sickle cell anemia, and a judge ordered her son to be taken away from her, which has left her with anger […]

    New Life Live: July 24, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2025 48:04


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Challenges, Power Of Attorney, Adult Children, Bipolar, Marijuana, Teens, Taking Risks, Fear, Shame Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses how embracing the challenge of discomfort will help you grow. How do I handle my daughter having power of attorney and controlling everything? My son may adopt a child The post New Life Live: July 24, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: July 24, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses how embracing the challenge of discomfort will help you grow. How do I handle my daughter having power of attorney and controlling everything? My son may adopt a child whose mother has bipolar disorder; is bipolar hereditary, and can anything be done? My son is vaping, but he said […]

    New Life Live: July 23, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses her marriage of 41yrs and asks, “What is your plan for your marriage?” I was unfaithful and my husband struggled with sex addiction; how can I stop trying to catch him doing something wrong? How do I accept God's love if I came from a broken family, was sexually […]

    New Life Live: July 23, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2025 48:04


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Marriage, Affairs, Trust, Father Issues, Sexual Abuse, Narcissists, Christian Walk, Beliefs Hosts: Brian Perez, Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses her marriage of 41yrs and asks, "What is your plan for your marriage?" I was unfaithful and my husband struggled with sex addiction; how can I stop trying to catch The post New Life Live: July 23, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: July 22, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2025 48:04


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Sexual Addiction, Connection, Scams, Forgiveness, Grief, Power of Attorney, Adult Children Hosts: Brian Perez, JJ West, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: JJ shares how grateful he is for all the men who attend Every Man's Battle. I was at Every Man's Battle last weekend, and my wife and I just registered for The post New Life Live: July 22, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: July 22, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: JJ shares how grateful he is for all the men who attend Every Man's Battle. I was at Every Man's Battle last weekend, and my wife and I just registered for Intimacy in Marriage! I got involved with musicians on Facebook, and now they are asking me for money. What should […]

    New Life Live: July 21, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Boundaries, Divorce, Finances, Betrayal, Christian Walk, Sin, Connection, Avoiders, Ministry Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses how boundaries are designed to protect us. How do I move forward from my divorce and deal with the hurt from financial betrayal? He drained most of our retirement The post New Life Live: July 21, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: July 21, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2025 48:03


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses how boundaries are designed to protect us. How do I move forward from my divorce and deal with the hurt from financial betrayal? He drained most of our retirement accounts. Most Christians and pastors say it was Adam's fault for eating the fruit, but it wasn't Adam's fault […]

    New Life Live: July 18, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2025 48:03


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Friendship, Connection, Affairs, Lying, Forgiveness, Adult Children, Anger, Communication, Medical Issues, Leadership, Alcohol, Siblings Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses the rupture and repair of friendship. How can you become friends with someone who is of a different religion? How can two walk together unless they agree? My husband said he The post New Life Live: July 18, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

    New Life Live: July 18, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2025 48:03


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses the rupture and repair of friendship. How can you become friends with someone who is of a different religion? How can two walk together unless they agree? My husband said he wasn't cheating on me constantly, but he was; how do I forgive him? How do I handle […]

    New Life Live: July 17, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2025 48:04


    Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui shares wisdom from the book Let Them about letting people have their negative opinions about your life without being imprisoned by them. How do I help my twin 25yo daughters who are making poor life choices? My wife passed away, but I don't know what she passed away from […]

    New Life Live: July 17, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2025 48:04


    Watch on YouTube Topics: Self Worth, Negative Thoughts, Adult Children, Grief, Dating, Scams, Childhood Trauma, Mother Issues Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui shares wisdom from the book Let Them about letting people have their negative opinions about your life without being imprisoned by them. How do I help my The post New Life Live: July 17, 2025 appeared first on New Life.

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