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Watch on YouTube Topics: Self-Control, Trust, Gaslighting, Abandonment, Forgiveness, Anxiety, Separation Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how self-control is one of the hardest fruits of the spirit to develop. Is it lying or gaslighting if my friend tells me my experience is not what I say it is? The post New Life Live: June 20, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Watch on YouTube Topics: Caregiving, Christian Walk, Borderline, Self-harm, Adult Children, Gender Identity Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how caregiving causes weariness, and you don't need to feel guilty for how you feel. I was raised in a strong Christian family, but a friend asked how I The post New Life Live: June 12, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Watch on YouTube Topics: Caregiving, Christian Walk, Borderline, Self-harm, Adult Children, Gender Identity Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how caregiving causes weariness, and you don't need to feel guilty for how you feel. I was raised in a strong Christian family, but a friend asked how I The post New Life Live: June 12, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Hope, Newlyweds, Physical Abuse, Divorce, Adult Children, Estrangement, Aging Parents, Young Adults Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim shares thoughts about peace for the past, joy for today, and hope for the future. We are newlyweds, but my wife physically assaulted me and filed for divorce. What is my next move? My son and The post New Life Live: June 3, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Hope, Newlyweds, Physical Abuse, Divorce, Adult Children, Estrangement, Aging Parents, Young Adults Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions More: Dr. Jim shares thoughts about peace for the past, joy for today, and hope for the future. We are newlyweds, but my wife physically assaulted me and filed for divorce. What is my next move? My son and daughter-in-law don't want connection with me, so I wrote a letter. Should I let it go? I didn't attend my ex-husband's funeral, and my adult children are upset about that. How do I encourage my 17yo son to get a job to prepare for trade school in the fall?The post New Life Live: June 3, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Hope, Newlyweds, Physical Abuse, Divorce, Adult Children, Estrangement, Aging Parents, Young Adults Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim shares thoughts about peace for the past, joy for today, and hope for the future. We are newlyweds, but my wife physically assaulted me and filed for divorce. What is my next move? My son and The post New Life Live: June 3, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Watch on YouTube Topics: Anxiety, Procrastination, Siblings, Estrangement, Triggers, Custody, Boundaries Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses planners and procrastinators; your style relates to anxiety. How can I move forward with my estranged sister? I gave her everything, and all she ever did was take. I was married almost The post New Life Live: May 29, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Watch on YouTube Topics: Anxiety, Procrastination, Siblings, Estrangement, Triggers, Custody, Boundaries Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses planners and procrastinators; your style relates to anxiety. How can I move forward with my estranged sister? I gave her everything, and all she ever did was take. I was married almost The post New Life Live: May 29, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Watch on YouTube Topics: Anxiety, Procrastination, Siblings, Estrangement, Triggers, Custody, Boundaries Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions More: Dr. Jill discusses planners and procrastinators; your style relates to anxiety. How can I move forward with my estranged sister? I gave her everything, and all she ever did was take. I was married almost 40yrs to an abusive man and am still triggered 8 months after his death. My 38yo daughter is in an abusive marriage and I have joint conservatorship of my grandkids; if I drop my conservatorship, will the children go with their father if they get a divorce? Should I tell my husband that I won't go to a party where his daughter and his ex-wife will be?The post New Life Live: May 29, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Watch on YouTube Topics: Guilt, Fear, Depression, Adult Children, Grandparenting, Boundaries, Procrastination Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill shares about guilt, greed, gratitude, girth, and good things. I've struggled with depression for the last 3yrs from my dad beating my mom, my son being murdered, and being married three times. The post New Life Live: May 22, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Guilt, Fear, Depression, Adult Children, Grandparenting, Boundaries, Procrastination Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions More: Dr. Jill shares about guilt, greed, gratitude, girth, and good things. I've struggled with depression for the last 3yrs from my dad beating my mom, my son being murdered, and being married three times. My daughter abandoned her kids for drugs and went to prison; now she spoils her grandkids out of guilt. I live in Montana and struggle with people who flag me down and want to talk for two hours; how do I approach this? I'd never call myself lazy, but I put off doing a task and then don't do a good job at it.The post New Life Live: May 22, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Watch on YouTube Topics: Guilt, Fear, Depression, Adult Children, Grandparenting, Boundaries, Procrastination Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill shares about guilt, greed, gratitude, girth, and good things. I've struggled with depression for the last 3yrs from my dad beating my mom, my son being murdered, and being married three times. The post New Life Live: May 22, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Watch on YouTube Topics: Christian Walk, Adult Children, Boundaries, Drug Addiction, Counseling, Confession, Affairs, Teens, Sexual Integrity, Gender Identity Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill suggests when we feel powerless, reflect on what is our part and what is God's part. Is it appropriate to tell my 34yo son to leave my house? The post New Life Live: May 9, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Watch on YouTube. Topics: Christian Walk, Adult Children, Boundaries, Drug Addiction, Counseling, Confession, Affairs, Teens, Sexual Integrity, Gender Identity. Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West. Caller Questions More: Dr. Jill suggests when we feel powerless, reflect on what is our part and what is God's part. Is it appropriate to tell my 34yo son to leave my house? He had a heart attack 3mos ago and smokes meth. The courts sent me to group therapy; how therapeutic is it to have to repeat what I was accused of to every new member of the group? It has been more than 5yrs since my wife cheated on me, and I blame myself for being gone so much for work. How do I help my naïve 16yo daughter who sent inappropriate pictures to a boy? My son is in college and says he's non-binary; do young men move out of this lifestyle?The post New Life Live: May 9, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Watch on YouTube Topics: Self Worth, Affairs, Depression, Dating, Church Life, Weddings, In-laws, Physical Abuse Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: JJ discusses why you should challenge yourself without letting the challenge define your worth. What's the next step for me if my husband had a 10yr affair, and I didn't handle it The post New Life Live: May 6, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Self Worth, Affairs, Depression, Dating, Church Life, Weddings, In-laws, Physical Abuse. Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West. Caller Questions More: JJ discusses why you should challenge yourself without letting the challenge define your worth. What's the next step for me if my husband had a 10yr affair, and I didn't handle it the right way? A man from church says he likes me, but we haven't gone on a date; how do I wait confidently on God? Having trouble finding a church because I only get voicemail, and they never call me back. How do I get over my son's mother-in-law hitting me violently at his wedding reception six months ago? The post New Life Live: May 6, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Watch on YouTube Topics: Addiction, Narcissists, Depression, Dating, Adult Children, Bipolar, Grief, Hoarding, Communication, Friendship Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses the overlap between addiction, trauma, and narcissism. Our son dropped out of college to take care of his fiancée with terminal cancer. She had lied about the cancer. Should I stay The post New Life Live: May 1, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Addiction, Narcissists, Depression, Dating, Adult Children, Bipolar, Grief, Hoarding, Communication, Friendship. Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller. Questions More: Dr. Jill discusses the overlap between addiction, trauma, and narcissism. Our son dropped out of college to take care of his fiance with terminal cancer. She had lied about the cancer. Should I stay with my bipolar daughter to make sure she's safe now that she is about to be released from the hospital? My wife struggles with hoarding after having a miscarriage. How do I help my 30yo son who has communication problems and wants to have friends? I was abducted and forced to marry; since my daughter doesn't want to acknowledge it, should I tell my granddaughter what happened to me? The post New Life Live: May 1, 2025 appeared first on New Life. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/451/29
Topics: Expectations, Dysfunctional Families, Medical Issues, Caregiving, Siblings, Codependency, Adult Children, Estrangement, Grief, Finances Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses Easter gatherings with hurts, habits, and hangups, and encourages us to keep loving and keep moving forward. My husband has terminal kidney disease and insists he leave his facility and have me care for him at home. The post New Life Live: April 24, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Easter, Long Suffering, Anxiety, Technology, Avoiders, Intimacy Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill shares her thoughts on Holy Week and long suffering. My 34yo friend is a computer programmer and is anxious about AI and how it will impact him. My husband and I will agree about something, but then he won't do The post New Life Live: April 17, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Discontentment, Anxiety, Grandparenting, Christian Walk, Adult Children, Church Life, Dating, Free Will Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses endings, beginnings, and the discontentment that can happen in between. What should I do if I am anxious and feeling guilty after I threw a box of pastries in anger and it accidentally hit my 6yo The post New Life Live: April 10, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Criticism, Same-Sex Attraction, Teens, Dating, Mother Issues, Communication Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses a critical spirit, which is an outward expression of what is going on internally. My daughter struggled with same-sex attraction in middle school, and I don't know if she still struggles in high school. Is it a The post New Life Live: March 28, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Willingness, Boundaries, Dating, Adult Children, Drug Addiction, Incarceration, Getting Unstuck, Addictions, Reconciliation Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses hardened hearts vs. humbled hearts, and JJ shares how guarding your heart is different. The hosts discuss dating and the importance of sharing differences before marriage, including political viewpoints. How do I help my 40yo son who The post New Life Live: March 13, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Social Anxiety, Adult Children, Video Games, Childhood Trauma, Self Worth, Codependency, Pornography, Dating, Disclosure Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill warns us that the more we opt out of social activities, the worse social anxiety gets. Any advice on helping our 24yo son launch? He lives at home, won't keep a job, and only wants to The post New Life Live: February 28, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Dating, Priorities, Engagement, Sexual Addiction, Adult Children, Communication, Intimacy, Affairs Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses the Eros type of love and the four don'ts of romantic love. Now that we have a newborn, how do I prioritize my wife and my family's business? I went to Intimacy in Marriage with my fiancé and The post New Life Live: February 18, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Love, Divorce, Drug Addiction, Custody, Intimacy, Forgiveness, Regret, Health Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Becky Brown Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill talks about the fours types of love and how to redeem Valentine's Day. Should I reach out and apologize to my ex-husband? I have been sober for 2yrs and haven't seen my daughter for 5yrs. Why do I not feel The post New Life Live: February 14, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Evil, PTSD, Depression, Divorce, Guilt, Worry, Anxiety, Alcohol, Self Worth, Pleaser, Dating, Dementia Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses suicidal empathy, when we refuse to acknowledge that evil exists in the world. Do I have PTSD or depression? I've been struggling for 14yrs after my wife cheated and we divorced. I give rides to students for appointments and The post New Life Live: January 31, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Anxiety, Depression, Alcohol, Marijuana, Sexual Integrity, Pornography, Adult Children, Finances Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses low-grade depression called dysthymia and how lifestyle affects it. I drink too much, so my Christian friend told me to try marijuana; what else can I do? I've been married almost 30yrs and enjoy looking at nude women in The post New Life Live: January 28, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Counseling, Full Disclosure, Aging Parents, Dementia, End of Life, Affairs, Group Dynamics Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: JJ discusses how to find the right counselor. My 79yo husband with dementia made his son power of attorney years ago, and I want our 29yo daughter to have power of attorney instead; what should I do? Should The post New Life Live: January 21, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Disaster, Adult Children, Parenting, Verbal Abuse, Dating Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill shares her thoughts on what to do when disaster strikes. My 19yo son is in college studying psychology and has become hateful in his speech toward his mother; how do I deal with him? My wife said some unbelievably The post New Life Live: January 17, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Career, Christian Walk, Adult Children, In-laws, Forgiveness, Sexual Abuse, Childhood Trauma Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Chris Williams Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses a life lesson from Ecclesiastes: Is your life built around your career or vice versa? Is it too late to do anything about our 28yo adult son who lives in our home and doesn't engage with us? The post New Life Live: January 14, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Worry, Forgiveness, Adult Children, Anger, Bipolar Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how worry is different from anxiety and what percentage of worry never happens. Would your book Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers help me to get over my mother not letting me marry my fiancé? I still struggle with The post New Life Live: January 10, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Overloaded, Adult Children, Enabling, Sexual Integrity, Grief, Sexual Abuse, Terminal Illness Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim shares practical questions to ask yourself to help determine if your life is too busy. My 38yo daughter works, but she owes money to the IRS and has credit card debt; is it wise for me The post New Life Live: January 7, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Hope, Mother Issues, Divorce, Dating, Punctuality, Hoarding, Anger, Parenting Hosts: Chris Williams, Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about lament, longsuffering, and the greatest pain in life. My toxic mom is almost 76yo and now lives near me, and my dad is no longer around to be a buffer. After going through a hurtful divorce, how does The post New Life Live: January 3, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Goals, Accountability, Trust, Affairs, Estrangement, Adult Children, Grief, Christian Walk, Intervention Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill explains her process of making yearly intentions and how to be accountable. How do I trust my wife after she cheated five or six times? I cheated the first year. My 21yo daughter left home and cut off The post New Life Live: January 2, 2025 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Holiday, Pleaser, Guilt, Grandparenting, Discipline, In-laws, Estrangement, Father Issues Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill encourages us to take time to reflect on the places Jesus showed up in our lives this Christmas season. I have two cars and let people borrow them; why do I feel guilty for taking my car back if The post New Life Live: December 26, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Suicide, Friendship, Grief, Divorce, In-laws, Adult Children, Estrangement, Affairs Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill reads the inspiring "A Christmas letter from Jesus." How should our friend group support another friend whose son committed suicide? Should we just love her or say something? What do I say to my daughter-in-law after my son asked her for The post New Life Live: December 24, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Holidays, Betrayal, Aging Parents, Dementia, Adult Children, Controllers, Boundaries Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Marc shares about being an adult child around your family this holiday. I was betrayed when my brother slept with my girlfriend 31yrs ago; is there a book that can help me with my feelings? My 88yo mother is in the The post New Life Live: December 23, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Holidays, Christian Walk, Adult Children, Schizophrenia, Sexual Addiction, Triggers, Sexual Integrity, Dating Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: JJ reminds us to call upon the Lord and He will give us rest during the busyness of the holidays. My adult son struggles with schizophrenia and bipolar disorder but lives on his own and isolates; how much do I The post New Life Live: December 17, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Forgiveness, Self-care, Sexual Integrity, Self Worth, Adult Children, Anxiety, Medical Issues Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Guest Host Brian Perez Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses the difficulty that people have forgiving themselves. I am tormented with same-sex attraction, masturbation, suicidal thoughts, and my sons do not talk to me; I know God loves me, but I think I'm not valuable. The post New Life Live: December 13, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Counseling, Ministry, Trauma, Incarceration, Organization, Grief Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Guest Host Brian Perez Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses the mental barriers people have that keep them from seeing a counselor. How do I know when it's the right time for God to use me in a ministry setting even though I've had past traumas? Counseling is The post New Life Live: December 10, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Community, Feelings, Intimacy, Adult Children, Finances, Controllers Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses the grieving process for tragedies which impact society. How do I deal with all of my emotions? There's no physical intimacy with my wife of over 30yrs. We don't like that our 24yo daughter lives with her boyfriend and is The post New Life Live: December 6, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Connection, Marijuana, Affairs, Lying, Finances, Peacemakers, Father Issues Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill suggests we set aside our differences to break bread together this Thanksgiving. Why can't I give up marijuana and my affair after they ruined my marriage and devastated my kids? What is the best way forward for my daughter The post New Life Live: November 26, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Intimacy, Communication, Divorce, Adult Children, Finances, Enabling, Grief, PTSD, Drug Addiction Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: JJ explains how the comfort circle helps couples communicate and calm down. I went to Restore and found my voice; how do I not let my ex trigger me when he doesn't communicate with me regarding the kids? My husband's 48yo stepdaughter The post New Life Live: November 21, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Addictions, Dating, Sexual Integrity, Childhood Trauma, Forgiveness, Negative Thoughts Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: JJ shares a tip about getting off course in recovery; you don't have to start over, just get back on track where you lost your way. Why does my fiancé say we are married when he hasn't even asked me to The post New Life Live: November 19, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Christian Walk, Dating, In-laws, Adult Children, Alcohol, Drug Addiction, Gambling, Church Life, Apology Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: JJ shares insight on what love looks like in Scripture. How do I navigate my boyfriend's stepmother telling me it's okay for me to spend time with her stepson as long as it doesn't infringe upon the time she spends The post New Life Live: November 14, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Father Issues, Parenting, Gender Identity, Adult Children, Medical Issues, Fear, Counseling, Mother Issues Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill shares how to navigate post-election wins and woes with those around you. How do I address my concerns with my father that his sex change will confuse my young son? My 24yo daughter dropped half of her The post New Life Live: November 12, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Estrangement, Divorce, Pornography, Dating, Anxiety, Aging Parents, Hallucinations, Betrayal, Church Life Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses the estrangement trend in families. After my divorce a year ago from a porn addict, I don't trust myself to date. How do I help my sister deal with the anxiety and panic attacks caused by the sale of The post New Life Live: November 7, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Christian Walk, Siblings, Alzheimer's, Caregiving, Work Issues, Fear, Boundaries, Same-Sex Attraction, Adult Children Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim discusses making each day count by building deep roots in the character of God. How can I get some help for my brother who has been diagnosed with dementia and Alzheimer's? I take care of The post New Life Live: November 5, 2024 appeared first on New Life.
Topics: Acceptance, Adult Children, Bipolar, Enabling, Single Parenting, Affairs, Sexual Integrity, Estrangement Hosts: Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Marc shares the steps it takes to accept a bad situation. Do you have any suggestions for my bipolar son and his schizophrenic wife who are living with a friend and will soon be left homeless? My 76yo friend has let The post New Life Live: November 4, 2024 appeared first on New Life.