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Send us a textIt's one thing to want a healthy relationship—it's another to actually build one. In Part II of their deep dive on relationship dynamics, Anna and Tim break down the practical, research-backed habits that make healthy couples thrive.Join Anna and Tim as they explore the concept of "bids for connection" from Gottman theory, how to turn toward (instead of away or against) your partner, and the small daily actions that strengthen emotional intimacy. Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just starting out, this episode is packed with tools to help you connect better and fight smarter.This episode covers:What “bids for connection” are and how to respond to themThe difference between turning toward, away, and against your partnerHow distractions, dismissal, and criticism damage connectionWays to deepen emotional intimacy through small daily actionsHow to bring this practice into parenting, friendships, and work lifeGottman's Four Horsemen and what they predict about relationshipsWhy communication skills matter more than compatibilityUntil next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth.Mad love!The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYqu__________________________________________Don't forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform!CONNECT WITH ANNA:Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolinEmail hello@annamarcolin.comWebsite https://www.annamarcolin.com__________________________________________And for all your nutritional supplement needs, go to https://www.DrinkAG1.com/ANNA for five free travel packs and a free one-year supply of Vitamin D/K2

In this episode, we explore how recommitting to daily conversations and weekly date nights can reignite emotional intimacy and transform your relationship with your partner.• Gottman research shows mapping your partner's inner world is crucial for emotional connection• People constantly change and evolve—nobody remains the same person they were when you married• Commit to 20 minutes of daily connection through walking and meaningful conversation• Move beyond transactional topics (kids, chores, schedules) to discover what excites or stresses your partner• Ask questions like "What are you learning right now?" or "Who are you enjoying talking to lately?"• Use weekly date nights to explore the origins of beliefs about sex, money, relationships• Investigate childhood experiences to understand where your partner's core beliefs originated• "Weed out" unhealthy beliefs and intentionally plant new ideas in your relationship garden• Emotional connection naturally enhances all other forms of intimacy• Utilize resources like card decks, apps, and games for inspiration if you're struggling with conversation startersI invite you to go for a walk with your spouse every single day, start mapping their inner world with really good questions, and make sure you're getting date night on the calendar every week. I promise it will make a huge difference in the connection, closeness and emotional intimacy you feel with your partner.Send us a text

Kelley Brower, New York based licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) and center rehabilitation counselor riffs about the Gottman methods she has learned and practiced, understanding emotional intelligence, assessment technique and empathy development.  Visit www.psychinthecity.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/success-made-to-last-legends--4302039/support.

Agradece a este podcast tantas horas de entretenimiento y disfruta de episodios exclusivos como éste. ¡Apóyale en iVoox! En este episodio especial para fans del podcast Cómo resolver tus problemas de pareja, exploramos los 7 principios fundamentales del Dr. John Gottman, uno de los mayores expertos en relaciones de pareja a nivel mundial, junto a su esposa Julie Schwartz Gottman. Descubre cómo mejorar la conexión emocional, resolver conflictos de manera saludable y construir una relación con propósito. Acompáñame en este recorrido práctico, profundo y cercano por las claves que pueden cambiar la forma en que vives tus relaciones. Con ejemplos, reflexiones y herramientas concretas para aplicar desde hoy mismo. Inspirado en el libro Los 7 principios para hacer que el matrimonio funcione, este episodio es una guía clara para amar con más conciencia, respeto y comprensión. 📝Reserva tu CONSULTA gratuita en 👇 mi web: https://emocioteca.com/contacto/ mi WhatsApp: https://linktr.ee/emocioteca Soy Mercedes Cobo, Psicóloga colegiada M-23793 😘 #PodcastDePareja #RelacionesConscientes #AmorConPropósito #VínculosSanos #PsicologíaDePareja #ParejasFelices #ComunicaciónEnPareja #TerapiaDePareja #RelacionesQueSuman #AmorConsciente #JohnGottman #7PrincipiosDeGottman #MapaDelAmor #AdmiraciónYRespeto #AceptarInfluencia #SentidoCompartido #ResolverConflictos #CrearIntimidad #GottmanEnEspañol #InteligenciaEmocional #DesarrolloPersonal #CrecimientoEnPareja #RelacionesConEmpatía #AmorYConciencia #PsicologíaHumanista #BienestarEmocional #AmaMejor #AprenderAAmar #AmorReal #SanarEnPareja #CuidarElVínculo #EscúchateYConecta Escucha el episodio completo en la app de iVoox, o descubre todo el catálogo de iVoox Originals

Sara Ades es licenciada en Comunicación Humana, con maestría y doctorado en Psicoterapia Individual y de Pareja por el Instituto Mexicano de la Pareja. Cuenta con formación en la metodología Gottman y está certificada en Terapia Asistida con Psicodélicos.Salomón Cohen es licenciado en Lengua y Literaturas Hispánicas, maestría en Filosofía y maestría en Psicoterapia Psicoanalítica. Cuenta con formación en el Método Gottman y en Psicoterapia Asistida con Psicodélicos. Junto con Sara su esposa de más de 40 años llevan un espacio terapéutico para parejas.Sara y Salo no solo son pareja desde hace más de cuatro décadas, también son coterapeutas y cómplices en el arte de escuchar. En este episodio hablamos de cómo el amor cambia con el tiempo, de las contradicciones inevitables en las relaciones largas, y de cómo la terapia de pareja puede ser, al mismo tiempo, un oficio, un espejo y una forma de cultivar el erotismo.Conversamos sobre la infidelidad como síntoma y no como culpa, sobre el erotismo como vitalidad cotidiana, y sobre cómo aprender a vivir con versiones múltiples de la verdad. Sara y Salo comparten con generosidad su experiencia como padres, abuelos, terapeutas y amantes, abriendo un espacio donde las palabras son fascinantes cuando se entiende que el espacio clínico no está hecho para corregir, sino para comprender.Como siempre, tus comentarios son muy valiosos para mí. Gracias por compartir y co-crear conmigo mejores preguntas. Con cariño,Victor____¿No quieres perderte el estreno de nuevos episodios?Recíbelos directamente en tu correo. Regístrate aquí: unique-author-3554.kit.com/volver-al-futuroMás contenido en:

In this episode, the host reconnects with Angus Scott to discuss his journey from financial planning to relatonship coaching after experiencing two divorces.  Through deep self-reflection, he uncovered patterns that held him back and discovered powerful tools for transformation.  Now, alongside his partner Maya, he helps men and women heal, attract helathy relationships, and create "10 out of 10 Epic Love Stories."  Using techniques like Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Hypnosis, and Dr. Gottman's research, they speacialize in identifying "Energetic Leaks" that unknowingly sabotage relationships.  Their clients gain clarity, confidence and the tools to build lasting, fulfilling love. Connect with Angus +1 (928)225-9617  azangus@protonmail.com FB https://www.facebook.com/AngusRScott IG https://www.instagram.com/theangusscott/ Website https://yourepiclove.com/

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2526: Watching children grow into adulthood is both heartwarming and bittersweet. Shantel Patu beautifully captures the rollercoaster of emotions that come with parenting adult children, reminiscing on their childhood while embracing their independence. With humor and deep reflection, she reminds parents that while the job is never truly done, the greatest reward is witnessing the seeds of love and guidance bloom into thoughtful, capable adults. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-joys-and-tears-of-parenting-my-adult-children/ Quotes to ponder: “Raising a child seems to be a lifetime psychological and physiological commitment that I signed in blood, the day she was born.” “We, the parents, have so many roles that we didn't know we were signing up for. So much was left out of the job description.” “That's what parenting adult children is all about, learning to watch them figure it out, and of course, waiting in the wings to swoop down like the superheroes that we are.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's episode was inspired by our personal experiences and a blog post from The Gottman Institute all about perpetual versus solvable problems in long-relationships. As close friends, we've had a front seat to the common disagreements and issues that we each have in our 10-year long marriages. We often will talk through something and try to see the other partner's side, while also working towards solutions - which is what you'll get to hear in today's episode. The Gottman blog post was so interesting to us because it made us realize that what may be a solvable problem for Abby and Colin, may be a perpetual problem for Amy and Drew and vice versa. According to The Gottman Institute, 69% of problems in relationships are perpetual with the most common topics being household chores, parenting, sex, and in-law relationships. We are digging into a couple of these topics today and breaking down whether this is a perpetual or solvable problem in our own relationship and what we've done to work on it together as a couple. We hope that from listening to our personal experiences in today's episode, you're able to reflect if your marital arguments are perpetual or solvable problems in order to evolve with your partner and be in a really happy marriage.Links & Resources:20% off your order of Cymbiotika PLUS free shipping 20% off your first order at Vuori ClothingCheck out the Maui Nui Venison products we're loving!The Gottman Institute Blog Post, “Managing Conflict: Solvable vs Perpetual Problems”Let's connect!HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcastHERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcastMEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskieferMEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreenThis episode was brought to you by the Pivot Ball Change Network.

Purchase Relationship Renovation at HomeWhat skills are essential to break away from the cycle of blame and defensiveness in relationships?How can vulnerability and open communication transform your connection with your partner?What are practical steps for repairing and reconnecting with your partner after a conflict?In this insightful episode of "Relationship Renovation," hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin delve deep into a topic many couples struggle with – the blame game. Understanding how criticism and defensiveness can erode trust and emotional safety in a relationship is crucial. Tarah and EJ share personal anecdotes, like their recent challenge with their children's cell phone use, to illustrate how easy it is to slip into these patterns and how damaging they can be if left unchecked. They stress the importance of identifying these patterns and offer practical, actionable advice on how to pause, reflect, and transform these negative cycles into opportunities for deeper understanding and connection.Furthermore, listeners will learn about the Gottman's "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" – criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling – and receive guidance on how to counteract these relationship-killers. Whether you're navigating trust issues rooted in past hurts or simply seeking more empathy from your partner, this episode is packed with strategies to foster mutual respect and resilience. Join Tarah and EJ on this journey to develop healthier communication skills and increase emotional intimacy in your relationship. Don't miss out on this opportunity to learn how to build a relationship where both partners feel heard, valued, and deeply connected.For more detailed support, Purchase Relationship Renovation at Home Online CourseRelationship Renovation YoutubeContact UsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session   In this episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," hosted by licensed marriage and family therapists Tim and Ruth Olson, listeners are taken on an insightful journey into John Gottman's seventh principle for building healthy relationships: Creating Shared Meaning. As experienced trauma experts, the Olsons provide practical strategies and exercises to help couples develop a deeper, more meaningful connection with each other. The episode delves into several key strategies, including identifying shared and individual values, creating and nurturing rituals, and understanding dreams within conflicts. The Olsons emphasize the importance of adapting and evolving rituals over time to match the couple's evolving relationship and life circumstances. They also highlight the significance of shared symbols and narratives, such as inside jokes and household decor, that can serve as tangible reminders of the couple's bond. Listeners will discover how taking collaborative action towards shared goals can foster a sense of closeness and purpose. By setting and revisiting yearly or quarterly goals, couples can ensure a aligned path, adapting plans as needed to accommodate individual aspirations and life changes. Throughout the episode, Tim and Ruth encourage listeners to not only build a functional partnership but also find deep purpose and value in their relationships. They conclude with a recap of all seven principles of Gottman's relationship-building framework, urging couples to embrace one principle at a time for a lasting, loving connection. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

Couples therapy isn't just about fixing relationship problems—it can also play a huge role in improving mental health. Many people think of therapy as a last resort when things are falling apart, but research shows that relationship support can also help with anxiety, depression, trauma, and emotional regulation.I'm joined by Trish Purnell-Webb, a clinical psychologist, certified Gottman therapist, and trainer for the Gottman Institute, to discuss how couples therapy strengthens connection and supports mental well-being.Key TakeawaysCouples therapy can lead to better mental health outcomes than individual therapy in some cases.A strong, supportive relationship can help regulate emotions and ease stress.Many people with mental health struggles feel isolated—even in relationships.Learning skills like emotional attunement and validation can reduce distress.Therapy teaches couples how to navigate challenges together rather than suffering alone.ResourcesThe Gottman Institute's research on couples therapy effectiveness – www.gottman.comEmotionally Focused Therapy by Sue JohnsonIf this episode resonates with you, share it with someone who might find it helpful. I'd love to hear your thoughts—reach out and let me know what stood out to you.Contact Trish Purnell-Webb:www.trishpurnell-webb.com.au www.relationshipinstitute.com.auConnected Teens https://marievakakis.com.au/connected-teens/ Connect with Marie https://thetherapyhub.com.au/ https://marievakakis.com.au/ https://www.instagram.com/marievakakis/Submit a question to the Podcasthttps://forms.gle/nvNQyw9gJXMNnveY6

The Gottman Institute identified "The 4 Horseman of the Apocolypse", which can supposedly predict the end of a relationship. We shed some biblical light on these ideas as well as some helpful antidotes. We pray it blesses you!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

In this episode of Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc, Dr. Pamela Kreiser, Meredith Edwards Nagle, and Teighlor Polendo explore the concept of stonewalling in relationships. They discuss common misconceptions, Gottman's Four Horsemen, and the damaging effects stonewalling can have on relationships. The conversation includes personal anecdotes, practical advice on how to manage and recognize stonewalling, and effective strategies like planning discussions to avoid emotional flooding. Tune in for insightful tips and real-life experiences to improve your communication and relational dynamics. Music by epidemic sound. SHOW NOTES: Experts :  Dr. John Gottman, Gottman Institute https://www.gottman.com/ Listen Here: Shut Down Mode Episode #005: https://pod.link/afafwithtalkdoc/episode/100334e9de176a1fa5f53be4503458cf Watch and Listen Here: AFAF REWIND "How to Manage Stonewalling" Episode #094: https://youtu.be/lTGfidapgAo

Amy Color is an intimacy coach, TED speaker, and author of the Intimacy Game Plan, who helps successful men and couples achieve deeper connection through evidence-based techniques that bypass traditional talk therapy.Through her solutions-based coaching programs, Amy combines multiple certifications in methods like Imago, Gottman, PACT, and Tantra to create revolutionary approaches that work with the brain's neurology. Her techniques help rewire the nervous system for better connection and trust.Amy's approach was developed through nearly two decades of research and experience, targeting the gap between conventional therapy and real intimacy needs. Her success in helping thousands of clients, particularly high-achieving men, demonstrates how combining neuroscience with practical techniques can create lasting change in relationships. Her ability to make "every-body" feel safe while addressing sensitive topics shows how expertise and approachability can work together to achieve transformative results.Here's where to find more:Amy: https://www.amycolor.comTED https://youtu.be/UkQ6FBltdYUIG: @amycolor.intimacycoachFB: https://www.facebook.com/amycolorintimacycoachFB GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/aJ7T82rxDH4WofwX
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session   Welcome to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy. Join Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts, as they delve deeper into Gottman's seven principles, specifically focusing on overcoming gridlock in relationships. Building on the previous episode's exploration of solvable versus perpetual problems, this discussion provides listeners with practical steps to break free from entrenched conflicts and nurture deeper empathy and understanding. Tim and Ruth guide you through the process of identifying hidden dreams within conflicts, illustrating how these core values can often be the root of recurring issues. Through the example of a couple grappling with the decision of having a larger family, they highlight the importance of recognizing personal motivations and values. By exploring each other's dreams and fears, couples can transform arguments into opportunities for connection, allowing for meaningful discussions rather than reactive exchanges. The episode offers strategies for self-soothing and emotional regulation, emphasizing the importance of taking pauses during heated discussions to foster calmer and more constructive dialogues. Tim and Ruth illustrate the significance of validating each other's emotions and encourage listeners to engage in ongoing dialogues rather than seeking one-time solutions. Listeners are invited to explore temporary compromises and structured conversations to navigate perpetual issues adeptly. The Olsons stress the value of professional help in facilitating these discussions, underscoring that the journey to overcoming relationship gridlocks is about understanding each other's inner world, not just fixing issues superficially. As the episode concludes, Tim and Ruth provide a preview of the next episode focusing on creating shared meaning, promising more valuable insights. Tune in to transform relationship gridlocks into pathways of growth and deeper connection, and be sure to share your thoughts and experiences in the Facebook group linked in the description. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}  

The second and most destructive of the four “horseman” that the Gottmans identify as a relationship killer is contempt. Contempt involves taking a one-up position of superiority and shaming the other person. The antidote to contempt is a culture of appreciation in the relationship. Aaron Potratz & Nathan Hawkins are behavioral health experts, licensed counselors, and clinical supervisors with over 35 years of experience. They each own a private group therapy practice and co-own a third one together. Aaron is also a business consultant for therapists in private practice wanting to start, grow, or expand their business. *Watch this episode: https://youtu.be/QmOqghcAoOU *Now on YouTube: @shrink-think *Sign up for our FREE email course on overcoming fear and insecurity at: https://www.shrinkthink.com/podcast -------------- *Member of the PsychCraft Podcast Network* https://psychcraftnetwork.com/

Mauert dein Partner, wenn es ernst wird? Oder bist du derjenige, der dichtmacht, wenn es zu viel wird? Dann ist diese Folge genau für dich. Mauern – dieses Schweigen, der Rückzug, die unsichtbare Mauer zwischen euch – kann eine Beziehung langsam zerstören. Aber warum passiert das eigentlich? Und vor allem: Wie kommt ihr da wieder raus? In dieser Folge erfährst du:

We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session   Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, delve into the intricacies of overcoming relationship gridlock. In this episode, they focus on the sixth of Gottman's Seven Principles, exploring the concept of gridlock in relationships where fundamental conflicts recur without resolution over months or even years. The episode begins with a discussion on how unresolved perpetual problems—such as disagreements about wanting children, religious differences, or lifestyle choices—can leave couples feeling entrenched and hopeless. Tim and Ruth engage listeners by sharing insights into the emotional complexities beneath these ongoing conflicts, emphasizing the need for deeper understanding and the importance of addressing not just the surface issues but the underlying dreams, needs, and values. The hosts guide couples through various pitfalls like ignoring emotions, rushing for quick solutions, and failing to revisit difficult topics leading to blame and resentment. They stress the significance of emotional intimacy alongside conflict resolution and offer practical advice on utilizing check-ins, patience, and empathy to manage differences more peacefully. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationships, identifying recurring issues and the emotions tied to them. With the promise of more strategies in the next episode, this installment empowers couples to break free from gridlock, fostering meaningful and fulfilling connections. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2506: Stacy Hubbard explains how these systems, rooted in neuroscience, shape our behaviors, relationships, and personal well-being. By recognizing and balancing these emotional drives, you can foster deeper connections, navigate conflicts, and create harmony in both personal and professional relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/understanding-your-emotional-command-systems/ Quotes to ponder: "‘Our environment actually affects the way nervous pathways in the brain get built.'" "‘By understanding your emotional command systems as well as the systems of your romantic partner, you can learn how to navigate the differences in a way that meets both partners' needs.'" "‘When your preferred level of activation of a certain command system is not being met, you will feel distressed.'" Episode references: The Relationship Cure: https://www.amazon.com/Relationship-Cure-5-Step-Guide-Improving/dp/0609809539 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session     Welcome to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, delve into Gottman's fifth principle of "Solving Your Solvable Problems." In this episode, they explore how identifying and managing solvable issues can lead to healthier and more fulfilling relationships. Tim and Ruth begin by reviewing the foundational four principles from Gottman's research: building love maps, nurturing fondness and admiration, turning towards each other, and letting your partner influence you. These steps, they emphasize, are crucial in forming a strong relationship base before tackling problems. The episode further explains the distinction between solvable and perpetual problems. Solvable issues are situational conflicts such as chores, scheduling, and financial management, which can be addressed with practical solutions. On the other hand, perpetual problems often arise from core personality traits or values and require ongoing management and acceptance. Listeners are encouraged to distinguish between these two types of problems, focusing their energy on resolving solvable issues to prevent resentment and build confidence within the relationship. Tim and Ruth highlight the importance of protecting emotional bandwidth by managing everyday stressors, allowing couples to be better equipped for tackling deeper, more complex challenges. In this engaging discussion, Tim and Ruth provide listeners with strategies for identifying their unique solvable and perpetual problems, laying the groundwork for further resolution in upcoming episodes. This episode is essential for anyone looking to enhance their relationship dynamics through effective problem-solving techniques.   [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

In this episode of Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc, Dr. Pamela Kreiser, Meredith Edwards Nagle, and Teighlor Polendo take a deep dive into defensiveness in relationships. They explore how defensiveness affects communication, relationships, and even children, drawing from personal experiences and research by Dr. John Gottman. The hosts break down Gottman's 'Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse' and discuss practical strategies to reduce defensiveness, including taking responsibility, seeking clarity, and reframing interactions. Tune in for expert insights and actionable tools to strengthen your communication and relationships. Music by epidemic sound.

En este episodio de Pinturas y Cuentos, Cristina conversa con Michelle Charfardett sobre cómo las parejas pueden identificar y trabajar sus problemas y carencias. Hablamos del Método Gottman, los famosos cuatro jinetes del apocalipsis en una relación y cómo reconocerlos antes de que afecten tu vida en pareja.

Felicia Molano, a certified sex therapist and trauma specialist, discussed her extensive training, including 90 credits in sexuality, 50 hours of supervision, and 300 hours of direct client contact and professional membership of AASECT. She specializes in EMDR for trauma, including sexual trauma, and works with adults and older teens. Felicia also counsels sex offenders, emphasizing rehabilitation and prevention. She highlighted common issues like betrayal trauma, libido mismatches, and problematic sexual behaviors. Felicia advocates for comprehensive sexual education and healthy relationships, using tools like the Gottman method and resources like Meet Rosy and "The Great Sex Rescue" for Christian couples.0:00:00 - Intro0:00:21 - Training & Certification Requirements of Sex Therapists0:02:05 - Explanation of EMDR & It's Applications 0:03:39 - Challenges & Emotional Impact of Working with Trauma 0:04:50 - Working with Sex Offenders 0:09:50 - Common Issues for Sex Therapists 0:12:40 - Myths & Facts with Pornography 0:16:10 - Healthy Sex & Principles 0:24:00 - Asexuality 0:25:56 - Working Past Trauma 0:29:30 - Fetishes & Power 0:33:45 - Better Sex for Average Couple 0:35:30 - Resources for Sex Information 0:37:02 - Sexuality, Religion & God 0:40:15 - Female Orgasm & Psychological Blocks 0:42:01 - Single People, Apps & Casual Sex 0:43:05 - Relationships That Go the Distance 0:44:15 - When One Partner Can't Have Sex 0:45:55 - Technology & Sex 0:47:50 - Older Females with Minors 0:52:40 - Trans & Gender Dysphoria 0:57:53 - Erectile Dysfunction, Health & Treatment 1:02:07 - Pacific Behavioral Health 1:04:05 - Outro Pacific Behavioral Health website:https://www.pacificbehavioralhealth.com/therapists/felicia-molanoChuck Shute link tree:https://linktr.ee/chuck_shuteSupport the showThanks for Listening & Shute for the Moon!

How can couples maintain a strong marriage through both simple daily interactions and handling bigger challenges? In this Valentine's month, host Rebecca Greene and her husband Seth discuss Dr. John Gottman's seven principles for making marriage work, sharing their experiences and insights from their 21-year relationship and a recent marriage workshop they attended. They explore how these principles play out in real-life situations, from handling communication challenges to building shared meaning as a couple. Key Takeaways:  ➞ Love maps are dynamic and require continuous updating as partners grow and change - couples need to stay curious about their partner's evolving interests, preferences, and dreams ➞ "Turning towards" your partner in daily moments of attempted connection is crucial - even small acknowledgments of your partner's comments or concerns build emotional bank accounts ➞ Taking a 20-minute "adult timeout" when emotionally flooded helps partners regulate and return to discussions more productively ➞ Having a 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions helps maintain relationship health and emotional connection ➞ Creating shared meaning through rituals, goals, and activities (like reading the same books) strengthens the relationship's foundation Memorable Quotes: Rebecca Greene: "I think I have a secret decoder ring for marriage...and I think that the code is to really like your partner. We love them, we fell in love with them, we need to stay in love with them. But I like who Seth is." Seth Greene: "I learned that all those times of us mentioning stuff during the day is us attempting to connect with each other, and if we respond, then we're putting deposits into our emotions." How to Connect: Website: https://www.whinypaluza.com/ Facebook Group: Whinypaluza Mom Newsletter: https://whinypaluza.beehiiv.com/ Follow https://linktr.ee/whinypaluzamom The episode provides practical relationship wisdom by combining research-based principles with real-life examples from Rebecca and Seth's marriage, giving listeners actionable insights for strengthening their own relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fourth and final of the Gottman “horsemen” is stonewalling-withdrawing and disengaging from the conversation to build a kind of “wall” between you and your partner. This usually comes from physiological overwhelm called “flooding,” where the stonewaller shuts down and chooses to disengage. The antidote to stonewalling is taking time to calm down and re-engaging. Aaron Potratz & Nathan Hawkins are behavioral health experts, licensed counselors, and clinical supervisors with over 35 years of experience. They each own a private group therapy practice and co-own a third one together. Aaron is also a business consultant for therapists in private practice wanting to start, grow, or expand their business. *Watch this episode: https://youtu.be/pZxY1vhhWlU *Now on YouTube: @shrink-think *Sign up for our FREE email course on overcoming fear and insecurity at: https://www.shrinkthink.com/podcast -------------- *Member of the PsychCraft Podcast Network* https://psychcraftnetwork.com/

We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session   Welcome to another enlightening episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where seasoned therapists Tim and Ruth Olson delve into the intricacies of Gottman's Seven Principles. In this episode, they focus on the principle of letting your partner influence you. Tim and Ruth explore the transformative power of openness, respect, and collaboration in relationships. This conversation is all about the importance of being receptive to your partner's ideas and feelings, and how setting aside control and ego can foster mutual respect and intimacy. Drawing from their expertise, they discuss practical strategies for overcoming obstacles in marriages and how embracing each other's perspectives can lead to personal and relational growth. The episode highlights key signs of resistance to partner influence, including an "I know best" attitude, stonewalling, dismissiveness, and rigid control. Tim and Ruth share personal anecdotes to illustrate how avoiding these pitfalls and embracing your partner's influence can reduce power struggles, lower tension, and build resilience in relationships. As the discussion unfolds, listeners will gain insights into how collaborative efforts in areas like parenting can lead to more effective solutions and foster an environment where both partners feel valued and respected. Tune in to learn how to navigate these dynamics with humility and grace, as Tim and Ruth prepare to further explore practical ways to implement these strategies in upcoming episodes. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

Love is the foundation of a happy and enduring home. However, a house is not merely the foundation only. On top of that foundation are the walls of trust and commitment. These walls contain within the house such elements (and interior dressings) as fondness and admiration, turning towards each other (not away), maintaining a positive outlook, properly managing conflict, making life dreams come true (together), and creating shared meaning. The challenges faced in marriage, however, are often the result of Marital Myths. Connect with me --> https://drmatmonharrell.bio.link/Written by Dr. Matmon HarrellReferences Carr, D., Freedman, V., Cornman, J., & Schwarz, N. (2014). Happy Marriage, Happy Life? Marital Quality and Subjective Well-being in Later Life. Journal of Marriage and Family, 76(5), 930-948. Retrieved July 13, 2021, from http://www.jstor.org/stable/24582689Links to an external site.Gottman, J. M. & J. S. Gottman. (2018) The science of couples and family therapy: Behind the scenes at the “Love Lab.” New York: W.W. Norton. (ISBN: 978-0393712742)Gottman, J.M., & Gottman, J.S. (2015). Gottman couple therapy. In A.S. Gurman, J.L. Lebow, & K. Snyder (Eds), Clinical handbook of couple therapy (5th ed), pp. 129-157. New York. Guildford.Music provided by Podcastle Become a member at https://plus.acast.com/s/themindfulpharmd. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Happy Valentine's Day, lovers! I hope you are getting showered in love, by someone else or yourself. Whether you're single and ready to mingle, or in a long-term relationship, I've been thinking about how—no matter our relationship status—we all seem to wrestle with the same thoughts: Am I too much? Am I too needy, or should I express my needs more? How can I communicate better? How do I find balance in my relationships? How do I work toward secure attachmentsThankfully, over the years, I've had incredible relationship experts and therapists on this podcast who have tackled these very questions. So today, I'm bringing you a roundup of the best relationship advice I've learned from three amazing guests.Tune in to hear from:❤️ Dr. Morgan Cutlip, Relationship expert and PhD in Psychology: How to find balance and reciprocity in relationships, communicate your needs effectively, and understand the difference between neediness and fair expectations. (Listen to our full episode here)❤️ Liz Earnshaw, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist: Expert strategies for conflict resolution and communication, including how to handle Gottman's Four Horsemen and navigating common power struggles in relationships. (Listen to our full episode here)❤️ Jess Baum, Psychotherapist, Couples Counselor, & Author of Anxiously Attached: How our attachment styles are amplified or healed based on your relationship, breaking our anxious attachment patterns and prioritizing consistent love, recognizing red and green flags in chemistry, and moving from codependency to interdependence. (Listen to our full episode here)Wherever you are in your relationship journey… I love you guys. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

The third “horseman” of the relational apocalypse is defensiveness, usually as a response to criticism. Defensiveness is a form of self-protection from a perceived attack, usually from a place of righteous indignation or innocent victimhood. The antidote to defensiveness is accepting responsibility for your role in the conflict or situation. Aaron Potratz & Nathan Hawkins are behavioral health experts, licensed counselors, and clinical supervisors with over 35 years of experience. They each own a private group therapy practice and co-own a third one together. Aaron is also a business consultant for therapists in private practice wanting to start, grow, or expand their business. *Watch this episode: *Now on YouTube: @shrink-think *Sign up for our FREE email course on overcoming fear and insecurity at: https://www.shrinkthink.com/podcast -------------- *Member of the PsychCraft Podcast Network* https://psychcraftnetwork.com/

Timing can make or break a crucial conversation in marriage. Learn the science-backed best times for difficult discussions, understand your partner's readiness signals, and discover type-specific approaches to timing-sensitive conversations. Transform potential conflicts into opportunities for deeper connection. We talk about the tips through the lens of the most powerful marriage systems, Gottman, EFT, CBT, IFS, and of course, Enneagram! Listen here! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/YHHpXgjh3PE Join the Enneagram Relationship Intensive (Limited Space!) https://enneagramandmarriage.myflodesk.com/intensive For more freebies and fun, check out the website, www.EnneagramandMarriage.com and our Instagram @EnneagramandMarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, Tim and Ruth Olson dive deep into the challenges of fostering fondness and admiration in relationships despite obstacles like resentment, stress, and complacency. Drawing insights from Gottman's 7 Principles for Healthy Relationships, they explore how unresolved conflicts can build barriers to appreciation between partners. The Olsons share practical strategies to help couples address these issues, emphasizing the importance of consistent positive actions even when emotions don't align. Through engaging discussions, they highlight how minor conflicts can escalate if not addressed, ultimately leading to deeper resentment. Listeners are invited to implement small daily practices to combat these challenges, such as expressing gratitude and rediscovering their partner's admirable qualities. With the episode's guidance, couples can transform their relationships, reconnect on deeper levels, and nurture a renewed sense of admiration and fondness.

Welcome to the Personal Development Trailblazers Podcast! In today's episode, we'll dive into the proven strategies to build deep connections, attract the right partner, and create a thriving relationship that supports every part of your life. Angus, and his partner Mayan, believe in Love... and they are passionate about helping people find it and thrive in it! After experiencing two divorces, Angus was committed to uncovering what was at the root of what wasn't working for him. Along the way he found proven and effective tools and techniques that could create change in moments, where he had been struggling for years. Inspired, he began pursuing a path for knowledge and wisdom and now loves helping men and women heal, so they can magnetically attract a healthier partner and thrive in their relationships. They are creating a movement of couples experiencing 10 out of 10 Epic Love Stories.   While they use multiple modalities such as Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Hypnosis, Mental and Emotional Release, and have expertise in Dr. Gottman's relationship research, Masculine/Feminine Dynamics and Attachment Styles, they start their work as experts in finding the Energetic Leaks that most people are unaware of, tainting each of their relationships. Their clients walk away being energetically cleared, having let go of their past traumatic experiences and limiting beliefs about love, with a clear vision of what they want in a relationship, and the confidence to attract healthy, fulfilling relationships with partners who have the qualities they are looking for, and the support to build an Epic Love.  Connect with Angus here:  Angus Scott - Love & Relationship Coach  https://www.instagram.com/theangusscott/  https://x.com/theangusscott https://www.facebook.com/AngusRScott https://www.linkedin.com/in/angusrscott/ https://yourepiclove.com/ Grab the freebie here: https://yourepiclove.com/Hotspots =================================== If you enjoyed this episode, remember to hit the like button and subscribe. Then share this episode with your friends. Thanks for watching the Personal Development Trailblazers Podcast. This podcast is part of the Digital Trailblazer family of podcasts. To learn more about Digital Trailblazer and what we do to help entrepreneurs, go to DigitalTrailblazer.com. Are you a coach, consultant, expert, or online course creator? Then we'd love to invite you to our FREE Facebook Group where you can learn the best strategies to land more high-ticket clients and customers.  QUICK LINKS:  APPLY TO BE FEATURED: https://app.digitaltrailblazer.com/podcast-guest-application DIGITAL TRAILBLAZER: https://digitaltrailblazer.com/

We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session   Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts, guide you in transforming life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. In this insightful episode, Tim and Ruth explore Gottman's second principle: nurturing fondness and admiration, a key to cherishing your partner and celebrating their good qualities. Discover how couples can deepen their connection and resilience through consistent fondness and admiration, offering a cushion during conflicts and stress. Whether navigating trauma or difficult transitions, these practices help maintain a positive outlook towards your partner's attributes and intentions. The episode covers practical strategies like daily appreciation moments, creating a fondness and admiration jar, mindful compliments, memory lane conversations, and check-ins. These tactics are designed to reinforce positive interactions, making you and your partner lean into a loving and supportive relationship. The conversation sets the stage for a deeper dive in the next episode, focusing on overcoming obstacles to fondness and admiration. Tune in and start practicing the art of seeing your partner through a positive lens, making a profound impact on your relationship. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}  

In this episode, I'll be breaking down common challenges experienced by couples and I'll be exploring the 1986 film The Money Pit as we journey through these common challenges. SPOILER ALERT for anyone who has not seen this movie (as I will be discussing specific moments in the film). Also, my utilization of this film is not an endorsement of its content nor its themes.  Connect with me --> https://drmatmonharrell.bio.link/Written by Dr. Matmon HarrellReferencesBenjamin, R. (1986). The Money Pit. Amblin EntertainmentBorresen, K. (2024). Therapists are sharing what impacts married people's happiness the most, and its important for anyone in a relationship right now. Huffington Post. Accessed from https://www.buzzfeed.com/kelseyborresen/hurts-married-peoples-happiness-therapists-7544035-scGottman, J. M. & J. S. Gottman. (2018) The science of couples and family therapy: Behind the scenes at the “Love Lab.” New York: W.W. Norton. (ISBN: 978-0393712742)Gottman, J.M., & Gottman, J.S. (2015). Gottman couple therapy. In A.S. Gurman, J.L. Lebow, & K. Snyder (Eds), Clinical handbook of couple therapy (5th ed), pp. 129-157. New York. Guildford.Lebow, J. L., Chambers, A. L., Christensen, A., & Johnson, S. M. (2012). Research on the treatment of couple distress. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 38(1), 145–168.Loyola Marymount University's Department of Psychology. (2019). Integrative behavioral couple therapy (IBCT), Andrew Christensen, PhD. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=RiGd3-9snqk&feature=emb_logoMiller, R. B., Yorgason, J. B., Sandberg, J. G., & White, M. B. (2012). Problems that couples bring to therapy: A view across the family life cycle. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 31(5), 395–407. Become a member at https://plus.acast.com/s/themindfulpharmd. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session   Join hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, as they take you on a journey to deepen your connection through the art of love mapping. Based on the research of Dr. John Gottman, this episode explores the importance of understanding your partner's inner world, from their likes and dislikes to their dreams and fears. You will discover practical tips for strengthening your love map, such as creating rituals, practicing active listening, and checking in after conflicts. The Olsons also delve into common pitfalls to avoid, like assuming you know everything, turning love mapping into an interrogation, and forgetting to reciprocate. If you're seeking to enhance your relationship, improve communication, and build lasting love, listen in as Tim and Ruth share their expert insights and strategies. Don't miss the next episode, where they will dive into nurturing fondness and admiration, another critical aspect of Gottman's relationship success principles. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

John & Julie Gottman founded the Love Lab at the UW in Seattle, WA which can predict with 94% accuracy whether a couple will stay together based on observing the first several minutes of their argument. The Gottmans discovered four relationship killers called “the four horsemen”; the first one being criticism. Criticism is when you attack the person or character rather than address the behaviors. The relationship antidote to criticism is a soft startup. Aaron Potratz & Nathan Hawkins are behavioral health experts, licensed counselors, and clinical supervisors with over 35 years of experience. They each own a private group therapy practice and co-own a third one together. Aaron is also a business consultant for therapists in private practice wanting to start, grow, or expand their business. *Watch this episode: https://youtu.be/2PUwgGAViUE *Now on YouTube: @shrink-think *Sign up for our FREE email course on overcoming fear and insecurity at: https://www.shrinkthink.com/podcast -------------- *Member of the PsychCraft Podcast Network* https://psychcraftnetwork.com/

Súmate a la lista de espera del RETO de meditación PARA PAREJAS aquí: https://www.mardelcerro.com/pareja¿Sabías que una relación sana tiene como base la amistad? ¿Qué puedes hacer para fortalecer el vínculo con tu pareja cada día? ¿Estás dispuesto a cuestionar las creencias que limitan tu relación para mejorarla?En este episodio, Judith de la Serna Nasser nos enseña cómo dejar atrás los mitos del amor romántico y construir relaciones reales y saludables. Descubre herramientas prácticas basadas en ciencia como el Método Gottman para manejar conflictos, fortalecer la conexión y crear un vínculo auténtico desde la co-regulación emocional y cognitiva.Más acerca de Judy:IG Judy: https://www.instagram.com/en_las_buenas_y_en_las_malas/IG su proyecto: https://www.instagram.com/psicologia_paraelcorazon/Taller: https://hotmart.com/es/marketplace/productos/aprender-a-vivir-juntos/D86741697M*Recuerda que Judy nos regala un 20% de descuento en el taller con el código MARDELCERROSi te gustó este episodio te invito a escuchar:Gracias amor. Día #022 l Agradecida Podcast https://youtu.be/EpNxP8TMdqQMDT370: ¿Cómo sanar un corazón roto con ayuda de mis ángeles? Entrevista con Alejandra Cuadros https://youtu.be/lKrlyDqcIHQ?si=l0wizahvj_1_SQsV¿Conoces a alguien a quien le podría gustar este episodio? COMPARTE

On this episode: Nate and Aaron talk about experiences at the 2024 Italian Samson Retreat with nuns. Our Guest: Zach Brittle, who is the only Gottman and RLT trained couples therapist in the world. He is also a cohost of Marriage Therapy Radio, a husband, father, teacher, and four years sober, recovering alcoholic. Zach discusses getting married at 23 and being happily married for 24 of the 27 years. He works for the Gottman Institute and tells us the origins of the Gottman method and why it's so effective in therapy. Zach encourages us to be curious about the possibilities for our relationship beyond repairing the issue that brought us to therapy. Also, being curious about what's not being said, and the origins of addiction and shame. He shares the science behind successful marriage repair. He leaves us with many hopeful and positive resources as well. Links:   Zach Brittle Books: Marriage Therapy Journal By: Zach Brittle The Relationship Alphabet: A Practical Guide to Better connection for Couples: By Zach Brittle Reconnect: A Marriage Counseling Workbook: Guided Conversations and Exercises for Long-Lasting Relationship By: Zach Brittle and Laura Heck Other Books Mentioned: I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression By: Terrence Real Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship By: Terrence Real How Can I get Through to You: Reconnecting Men and Women By: Terrence Real The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work By: John Gottman and Nan Silver Summit: 2025 Samson Summit Sponsor: Life Works Counseling   If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.   The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society and www.fiftysounds.com. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com.  Support for the women who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com. The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To help support the vision, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

In this episode of Birth, Baby! Podcast, host Ciarra Morgan discusses the challenges of postpartum relationships with guest Shelley Scotka, a certified childbirth educator and postpartum doula. They explore the 'Bringing Baby Home' program developed by the Gottmans, which focuses on improving couple relationships during the transition to parenthood. The conversation highlights the importance of communication, conflict resolution, and the need for couples to prioritize their relationship amidst the challenges of parenting. Shelley shares insights on the structure of her workshops and the benefits of evidence-based practices in supporting families during this critical time.Shelley Scotka is a certified Gottman Bringing Baby Home Instructor, a certified Childbirth Educator and a certified birth and postpartum doula. She has been supporting families since 1998 through prenatal education, labor and birth support and postpartum care, and is so excited to be adding the Love Strong After Baby workshops to her offerings. She recognizes bringing a baby home can be one of life's most amazing and challenging journeys and is dedicated to helping families navigate this bumpy territory! She has been married for over 35 years and has grown "babies" of her own (ages 28/31)Instagram @‌ShelleyScotka Website: www.shelleyscotka.com (Info about these workshops is under parent education)Workshop inquiry email lovestrongafterbaby@gmail.comPlease feel free to reach out to us with any recommendations for show episode ideas. If you'd like to be a guest, email us with some information about yourself and what type of podcast you'd like to record together. Thank you for all of your support and don't forget to follow and review our podcast, Birth, Baby!Instagram: @‌BirthBabyPodcastEmail: BirthBabyPodcast@gmail.comWebsite: www.BirthBabyPodcast.comIntro and Outro music by Longing for Orpheus. You can find them on Spotify! (00:00) - Introduction and Overview of the Podcast (02:31) - Introducing Shelley Scotka and Her Expertise (03:00) - Understanding the 'Bringing Baby Home' Program (06:36) - Challenges of Postpartum Relationships (10:44) - Navigating Perpetual Conflicts in Relationships (14:58) - The Importance of Communication in Parenting (17:39) - Adapting the Program for Postpartum Couples (22:54) - Workshop Structure and Goals (26:51) - Options for Remote Learning and Support (28:39) - Conclusion and Future Workshops

Apply for a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call to learn about Heather's Pathway to Passion coaching method. https://heathershannon.co/new-clients/ Listener Q&A: Secrets of Squirting, Becoming a Sex Therapist, My Method for Couples in Conflict and More!Join Heather Shannon for a fun and informative listener Q&A episode! Heather dives into a lively debate on whether squirting is pee, shares the comprehensive process of becoming a certified sex therapist, addresses low sex drive during perimenopause, and offers tips to reignite the spark in your relationship. Plus, special shoutouts to international listeners and important insights on the role of hormones in libido. Don't forget to submit your anonymous questions and follow the show for more insightful discussions!00:00 Introduction and Listener Q&A Setup00:42 Shoutout to International Listeners01:47 Debunking Myths: Is Squirting Pee?04:52 Becoming a Certified Sex Therapist12:54 Addressing Low Sex Drive During Perimenopause16:09 Reigniting the Spark in Your Relationship19:52 Conclusion and FarewellWORK WITH HEATHER:Apply for a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call to learn about Heather's Pathway to Passion coaching method. https://heathershannon.co/new-clients/ LET'S CONNECT! FIND HEATHER HERE ⤵️:Heather's Website - https://HeatherShannon.co Heather's Instagram - https://instagram.com/AskASexTherapist Heather's YouTube - Check out the video version of this podcast & more! - https://www.youtube.com/@AskASexCoach SIMILARLY AWESOME EPISODES:Liked the episode? Here's a few more episodes of Ask A Sex Therapist that you'll enjoy:How to Squirt Episode https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0cKR2ToX910 Perimenopause Episode https://youtu.be/3ayLTcHr66I?si=slNcqAlJ1bOLDDbX AASECT Website: https://www.aasect.org/Unlock my Pathway to Passion Method https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/pathway Gottman's book on marriage https://www.amazon.com/Lessons-Transform-Your-Marriage-Strengthening/dp/1400050197 RATE & REVIEW US!Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here. https://podfollow.com/AskASexTherapist This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac -...

In this episode of Mindfully Masculine, Charles and Dan dive deep into conflict resolution strategies inspired by The Man's Guide to Women by the Gottmans. This episode isn't just about fighting—it's about learning how to navigate disagreements with greater empathy, patience, and self-awareness.Key Highlights:Understanding Conflict: Why conflict is inevitable in relationships and how to embrace it as part of healthy connection.Biological Differences: How men and women experience and process anger differently—and why understanding this can improve communication.Self-Soothing for Men: Practical techniques like deep breathing, taking breaks, and diaphragmatic breathing to regulate emotional responses during heated moments.Critical Questions to Ask: The three essential questions to uncover the root of your partner's frustration— "What do you need?", "What are you concerned about?", and "What are you feeling?"Managing Defensiveness: How to avoid the common trap of defensiveness by validating your partner's emotions without jumping to solutions or rebuttals.The Power of Taking Breaks: Why a 20-30 minute break during conflict can lead to better outcomes, and how to effectively communicate the need for space.Why You Should Listen:This episode isn't about "winning" arguments—it's about mastering the art of managing emotions and building stronger, more connected relationships. If you've ever struggled with feeling misunderstood or defensive during disagreements, Charles and Dan offer actionable insights that will help you fight smarter, not harder.Listen Now to Discover:How to break free from destructive fight-or-flight patterns.Simple yet powerful habits that can transform your approach to relationship conflict.Why emotional regulation is key to fostering long-term relationship success.Tune in and learn why "fighting like a girl" might just be the best relationship advice you've ever received.Keywords for Search Optimization:Relationship conflict resolution, men's emotional health, healthy fighting in relationships, Gottman relationship advice, conflict management for men, improving communication in relationships, relationship podcast for men, self-soothing techniques, emotional intelligence for men.Support the show

AFTERNOON DELIGHT PART 3! How can we build healthier, happier relationships that withstand the test of time? In this episode, we delve into the groundbreaking research of Dr. John Gottman, a pioneer in understanding what makes relationships thrive. We'll explore the infamous 'Four Horsemen' of relationship doom: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling. These behaviors can derail even the strongest bonds, and recognizing them is the first step toward fostering a more secure and loving connection. What sets the Gottman Method apart from traditional couples therapy? Unlike many approaches that focus primarily on past traumas, Gottman's method is rooted in extensive empirical research. He has studied thousands of couples to identify specific, measurable behaviors that predict relationship success. Instead of avoiding conflict, Gottman emphasizes constructive conflict resolution, equipping couples with effective communication skills to navigate disagreements positively. We'll introduce the Sound Relationship House Theory, a structured framework that outlines essential levels for strengthening relationships, such as building love maps, nurturing fondness, and creating shared goals. This clear roadmap is unique to the Gottman Method, providing couples with actionable steps toward improvement. Did you know that according to Gottman's research, couples who regularly exhibit the Four Horsemen are 80% more likely to break up? However, couples who practice his techniques experience a 94% success rate in improving their relationship satisfaction! Join us as we share three actionable tips to help you build a stronger foundation: Practice Appreciation – Make it a habit to express gratitude for your partner. Learn to Repair – Develop skills to recognize and address conflicts before they escalate. Foster Emotional Connection – Prioritize meaningful conversations and engage in shared activities. Tune in to discover how understanding and applying Gottman's principles can transform your relationship into a thriving partnership!

On this episode: This week, it's Friday to Aaron. Our Guest: Kimberly Panganiban is a Gottman-trained LMFT with a Filipino last name. She tells her story of being curious about people and her parent's divorce that led her to the therapy field. Kimberly shares that many sexual problems in marriage are simply misalignments and are repairable with the help of an outsider. She discusses the importance of sexual communication, so that a couple is connecting, not merely having a mechanical event. How pressure, rejection, and one-sided pursuit all kill libido and cause resentment. Kimberly tells us that it is important to discuss uncommunicated expectations explicitly. She also encourages everyone to shop around for therapists or counselors -- you are not obligated to the first one. Links:   Kimberly Panganiban Therapy Coach at Gottman Institute Sponsor: Life Works Counseling   If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.   The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society and www.fiftysounds.com. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com.  Support for the women who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com. The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To help support the vision, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

Let's talk about the essential elements that contribute to a thriving marriage or long term partnership. Kristen and Relationship Coach Kam discuss the importance of trust, commitment, and friendship, as well as the role of empathy and communication in resolving conflicts. Kameran shares her journey into relationship coaching, the science behind the Gottman method, and practical advice for couples looking to strengthen their relationships to foster emotional intimacy and connection. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Kameron Thompson Alarique 04:28 Building a Strong Foundation: Commitment, Trust, and Friendship 07:31 The Role of Repair in Building Trust 10:13 The Importance of Empathy and Open-Ended Conversations 13:13 Understanding the Stages of Relationships 15:49 Disconnection Leads to Conflict 17:55 Continuous Effort and Growth in Marriage 21:55 Building Emotional Safety and Connection 25:54 The Importance of Turning Towards Each Other 28:48 Navigating Communication Through Text Messages 33:54 Working on Yourself to Improve Your Relationship 37:35 Private Coaching and Courses for Relationship Improvement 41:09 Overcoming Overthinking: Strategies for Mental Clarity Kameran Thompson Al-Arequi is a Gottman certified marriage coach, the host of the Divorce Proof Marriage podcast, and the founder of the Recognizing Potential coaching program. In her coaching, Kameron meets monogamous couples where they're at to help them strengthen their marriage by coaching them to deepen connection, improve communication, and apply tools needed to create The healthy marriage they envision and desire. Recognizingpotential.com The Sound Relationship House graphic Learn more about coaching with Kristen: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.coachwithkristen.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/coachwithkristen⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kristen.odegaard.coaching/⁠⁠⁠⁠

Send us a textUnlock the secrets to a thriving relationship with the transformative Gottman Method. Discover how the powerful Sound Relationship House Theory can revolutionize the way you connect with your partner. This episode promises to teach you how to craft detailed love maps, nurture fondness and admiration, and effectively respond to emotional bids, all of which establish a robust foundation of trust and goodwill. By mastering these essential skills, you'll learn to maintain a positive perspective, even during conflict, ensuring your relationship can weather any storm.Join us as we explore practical strategies for conflict management and creating shared meaning, key components of the Gottman Method. Learn the art of accepting influence, the importance of gentle startups for solving solvable problems, and how to compassionately navigate perpetual conflicts. We also discuss the significance of building a shared purpose, where supporting each other's dreams and establishing a legacy together is paramount. Implementing these actionable steps can transform your relationship into a sturdy structure of enduring love and connection. Tune in to discover how these insights can strengthen your relationship and enrich your life.If you need to study for your national licensing exam, try the free samplers at: LicensureExamsThis podcast is not associated with the NBCC, AMFTRB, ASW, ANCC, NASP, NAADAC, CCMC, NCPG, CRCC, or any state or governmental agency responsible for licensure.

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about marital conflict and Gottman's Four Horsemen.This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comMerch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/Facebook Official Page: https://www.facebook.com/PsychologyInSeattle/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kirk.hondaApril 20, 2018The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

In this episode, Alisa Grace and special guest Willa Williams, a licensed marriage and family therapist, discuss the “Top 6 Relationship Killers” that often hinder our closest connections. They explore common destructive habits, such as taking things personally, assuming the worst, and failing to show empathy, offering practical insights to help listeners build stronger, healthier relationships. Whether you're navigating friendships, family dynamics, or romantic partnerships, this episode provides valuable advice to transform your interactions.Resources Mentioned:The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller – Explores the principles of speaking truth in love, helping couples build deeper, more authentic relationships.Gottman's Four Horsemen – An overview of harmful behaviors in relationships, with tools for recognizing and replacing these behaviors. Connect with Us:Website: cmr.biola.eduFacebook: facebook.com/biolacmrInstagram: instagram.com/biolacmrTwitter: twitter.com/biolacmrJoin the Conversation:Subscribe to The Art of Relationships Podcast to never miss an episode.Leave a review on your preferred podcast platform to help others discover the show.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from these relationship insights.Sign up for weekly updates and resources from the Center for Marriage and Relationships! http://eepurl.com/bgsuQvAbout the Hosts:Chris Grace, Ph.D., and Alisa Grace are dedicated to helping people build and sustain healthy relationships. As leaders of the Biola University Center for Marriage and Relationships, they combine the wisdom of Scripture with scholarly research to offer practical advice and insights. Learn more about their work at cmr.biola.edu.

What if the problem in your relationship isn't you or your partner but the mountain of stress you're both dealing with? It's a no-brainer to say that too much stress kills intimacy, but what do we really mean when we say “stress”? And what can we actually do about it? In this podcast, Tami Simon speaks with couples therapist and author Elizabeth Earnshaw about her new book, 'Til Stress Do Us Part: How to Heal the #1 Issue in Our Relationships.  Give a listen for a wealth of actionable insights and wise approaches to navigate and manage the stressors in your relationship, including how to comfort a partner under stress; the art of nervous system co-regulation; awareness: the prerequisite for change; learning the signs of dysregulation and how to self-soothe; Gottman's “Four Horsemen”: criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling, and contempt; stress as a physiological cycle; step one: identify your own stressors; the narrative of a gap between who you are and who you want to be; intentional sacrifice; making structural changes that make life less stressful; discernment around what we can and cannot control; and more. Note: This episode originally aired on Sounds True One, where these special episodes of Insights at the Edge are available to watch live on video and with exclusive access to Q&As with our guests. Learn more at join.soundstrue.com.

After 50 years of research, the Gottmans can predict with 90% accuracy if a relationship is doomed for divorce, these are the answers to love you've been searching for  Drs. John and Julie Gottman are professional relationship researchers that have published over 200 academic journal articles and 46 books. They are the co-founders of The Gottman Institute and Love Lab. In this conversation, the Gottmans and Steven discuss topics such as, how to repair from an affair, why dating apps are broken, the facts behind an awful sex life, and why to stop chasing the idea of 'the one'.  (00:00) Intro (02:28) What Do You Do? (05:08) What We Doing Wrong About Dating (09:55) How Do We Find True Love? (11:39) What Is The Most Attractive Thing In A Person? (13:51) The Role Of Self Esteem In How Attractive You Come Across (16:13) There Isn'T 'The One' (18:30) Are We Attracted To People Different To Us? (21:11) Do We Need To Lower Our Expectations (24:52) It'S A Red Flag When They Want To Rush Things (29:06) Can You Fake Confidence? (31:25) Science Know If People Connect Well Or Not (35:13) How To Build Confidence (38:04) Differences Between Gender In Attraction (39:37) Why People Need Alcohol When Dating (44:29) Is Good Enough, Enough To Be With Soemone? (48:06) The Role Of Sex In Attraction (53:40) How To Spice Things Up (57:46) How Much Sex Should We Be Having? (01:03:21) Men Struggle To Talk About Their Feelings (01:09:36) Expressing Gratitude To Your Partner (01:15:55) How To Know If You Should Break Up (01:19:24) The 4 Horsemen Of The Apocalpse In A Relationship (01:25:02) Insecure People Are More Defensive (01:32:19) Do Homosexuals Relationships Last Longer? (01:33:45) Gaslighting (01:38:32) Why People Stay With Gashlighter Or Abusers (01:41:24) How To Help People Going Through Domestic Violence (01:45:01) Treating Affairs (01:47:45) What Percentage Of People Have Affairs? (02:00:42) Does Cheating Help A Relationship? (02:03:34) The Importance Of Connection Follow the Gottmans:  Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/66wXYNo5QMb  Twitter - https://g2ul0.app.link/5htmCbr5QMb  The Gottman Institute - https://g2ul0.app.link/KlYOelu5QMb  YouTube: You can purchase the Gottmans' book, ‘Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict into Connection', here: https://amzn.to/4emRC7u  Spotify: You can purchase the Gottmans' book, ‘Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict into Connection', here: https://g2ul0.app.link/KosccZE5QMb  Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes  My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook  Follow me: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb  Get your hands on the brand new Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards here: https://appurl.io/iUUJeYn25v Sponsors: Shopify - http://shopify.com/bartlett

Relationship Experts Drs. John & Julie Gottman EXPOSE the SHOCKING REASON Why Relationships Fail. 94% Accurate Divorce Predictions: Discover the biggest predictors that guarantee which marriages will crumble and how to get the LOVE you WANT! The Gottman duo are world leading relationship researchers that have been studying couples for over 40 years, publishing over 200 academic journal articles and 46 books. They are the co-founders of The Gottman Institute and Love Lab. Drs Gottman drop the ULTIMATE Relationship Bombshells, including the 4 Horsemen of Relationship Apocalypse (Spot these 4 predictors of relationship demise before they DESTROY your love life!), PLUS....learn the #1 skill for Connection and BETTER SEX! Your relationship is either HELPING or HARMING you HEALTH, and is a big factor in how you fight disease. The Gottmans also break down:- The #1 Cause of CHEATING & how it can lead to PTSD- Childhood Trauma's Hidden Role in Relationships: How a lack of positive relationship role models can WRECK your marriage- Ways to better support your partner's trauma- Why Addiction can spell disaster for even the strongest of relationships- Phases of recovery from affairs & other forms of betrayal- How to argue with your partner in a healthy way- Why today's culture seems to be afraid of long term commitment- Codependency: Is it really as HORRIBLE as it sounds, or could it be the key to your marriage's survival & your own longevity?- Why Women Are UNHAPPY: The unsettling reason behind women's relationship dissatisfaction and the FEARS they face daily- Men's Emotional Needs: How today's involved dads are CHANGING EVERYTHING- Social Media's Role in Cheating: How it's fueling nonmonogamy and screwing up your communication- Effects of porn addiction on the other partner- Key communication factors in healthy partnerships- The Managerial Marriage: Why losing PLAYTIME is the nail in the coffin for happy marriages- The Power of a 6-SECOND KISS: This simple act could SAVE your relationship! TUNE IN to MBB now & learn how to turn around your relationship before it's too late! The latest version of The New Marriage Clinic: https://wwnorton.com/books/9781324016311BialikBreakdown.comYouTube.com/mayimbialik