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Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how to set boundaries by stating your preference and if they don't respect it, get firmer. I am concerned about my 26yo daughter-in-law who is not functioning since she didn't qualify to graduate from nursing school. My wife's father molested her, and it is affecting our marriage greatly. […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim discusses how letting go of your need to be right will help your relationships. What do you recommend for my shy 14yo granddaughter who is changing schools and struggles to make friends? How do I handle my brother who lives with my mom and always takes her side? What […]
Caller Questions & More: Chris explains what it means to be a benevolent witness. How do I help my 36-year-old daughter who's being physically abused by her husband? I lost my savings helping my 54-year-old son who's homeless and I can't stop sending him money. There's no place for my son with special needs to […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim shares three simple things that he and his wife did that changed everything in their marriage. I called you in February about my husband kissing another woman and wanted to share about how much you've helped me through your intensives! How do I deal with my 25 year-old son […]
Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses four steps to focusing on your Internal State. I have bipolar disorder and I depended on my mom who died 2yrs ago; how can I keep working if I try to work but get filled with dread? My son is facing incarceration and wants me to check with his […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses the importance of boundaries and why it's okay to stand up for yourself, even if you felt unworthy in childhood. I am 53 year-old and my covert narcissistic mom won't talk to me because of something my husband said to her. My husband of 12yrs committed suicide, and […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Sheri discusses why someone may try to love bomb you. I'm 48 year-old and am happily married with kids, but my younger sister always holds things against me. I'm married to a younger woman and have given her everything, but she is not affectionate. Is the man I've been dating […]
Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses being overwhelmed with information and how being rooted in love will guide us. How do I help my 28 year-old son who lives at home, has depression, and threatens to kill himself? I have nightmares from my betrayal trauma and they're getting worse; how can I minimize them? My […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui shares Scriptures that talk about calming anxiety through prayer and meditation. How do I deal with feeling guilty when I am successful or experience joy? People around me seem jealous. My son died from fentanyl; how do I improve my relationship with my 9 year-old grandson's critical mom? My […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how we're all called to do something each day to help ourselves or to help others. How can we help my 32yo niece who is a parent and may have mental illness? My mom makes me feel like she doesn't care; how can I trust her if I've […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim discusses imperfect marriages and “Don't tackle someone wearing the same jersey.” How do I help my 18yo grandson who is living with me? He got arrested last week, uses marijuana, and he's staying with me because he has no place to go. I suffer from avoidance behaviors and the […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how our childhood shapes our attitude and our attitude shapes our future; take time to reflect and look inside yourself. I let my dad live with me even though he denied abusing me when I was a child. How do I stop having nightmares after he died? My […]
Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses the markers we put in our lives to remind us of the hurts and issues that need fixing. What do you need to go back and repair? How do I deal with my Bible study partner who asks me invasive questions? I'm 65yo and married to a narcissist; how […]
Caller Questions & More: Chris explains why Philippians 4:13 is the most misunderstood verse in the Bible. How do I honor God and deal with ending the relationship with my borderline and narcissistic mom? Because my parents were dangerous, I haven't seen them for 20yrs; how do I handle reconnecting again? I'm 66yo and feel […]
Caller Questions & More: Becky shares how the weekend went at Intimacy in Marriage in Washington, DC. I divorced 20yrs ago, and my ex lives in my basement. I forgave him, but how do I forget? My sister goes to a church where a couple lost two daughters and parents in the Texas flood; what […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill shares how self-talk can help with anxiety and depression. I've spent 38yrs in a loveless marriage because my husband does not have conversations. My sister was born with sickle cell anemia, and a judge ordered her son to be taken away from her, which has left her with anger […]
Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses how embracing the challenge of discomfort will help you grow. How do I handle my daughter having power of attorney and controlling everything? My son may adopt a child whose mother has bipolar disorder; is bipolar hereditary, and can anything be done? My son is vaping, but he said […]
Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses her marriage of 41yrs and asks, “What is your plan for your marriage?” I was unfaithful and my husband struggled with sex addiction; how can I stop trying to catch him doing something wrong? How do I accept God's love if I came from a broken family, was sexually […]
Caller Questions & More: JJ shares how grateful he is for all the men who attend Every Man's Battle. I was at Every Man's Battle last weekend, and my wife and I just registered for Intimacy in Marriage! I got involved with musicians on Facebook, and now they are asking me for money. What should […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses how boundaries are designed to protect us. How do I move forward from my divorce and deal with the hurt from financial betrayal? He drained most of our retirement accounts. Most Christians and pastors say it was Adam's fault for eating the fruit, but it wasn't Adam's fault […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses the rupture and repair of friendship. How can you become friends with someone who is of a different religion? How can two walk together unless they agree? My husband said he wasn't cheating on me constantly, but he was; how do I forgive him? How do I handle […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui shares wisdom from the book Let Them about letting people have their negative opinions about your life without being imprisoned by them. How do I help my twin 25yo daughters who are making poor life choices? My wife passed away, but I don't know what she passed away from […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice shares a few ways that she and her husband manage their children's squabbling. I feel guilty for wanting to put my elderly mom with dementia in a nursing home so that I can have a life; what does God think? My 37yo daughter in Europe had a meltdown after […]
Caller Questions & More: Chris shares how changing the way he thought of himself, from a general sinner to a specific sinner, transformed his life. My boyfriend has late-stage prostate and bone cancer, and the side effects from his medication make him irritable and jealous. Can you shed some light? How do I deal with […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses a line of poetry that says, “Why do you stay in prison when the prison door is open?” What should I do to maintain a relationship with my 9yo niece and her mother after my brother passed away? Any suggestions on how to watch my sister waste away […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill shares that grief is the emotion you feel, but grieving is the process of learning in the letting go. Am I enabling my 28yo grandson by sending him money to buy a new car? His father was a police officer who abused him. I take care of my 16yo […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim shares a prescription for refreshing and restoring our souls. What is dissociative identity disorder and what do you do if your spouse has it? Am I crazy to believe God has released me from my short marriage? Are we enabling our adult daughter? My son-in-law told me that I […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice shares a parable about a king who purposefully put an enormous boulder on the path to town to see how his people would respond. How do I deal with my husband not telling the truth? It started 15yrs into our marriage when I started caring for my deathly-ill daughter, […]
Caller Questions & More: JJ asks the thought-provoking question, “What are you known for?” Should I talk with my daughter about her husband who seems to have fallen back into his old patterns? My 17yo granddaughter wants to model and had professional photos taken while her mother was present; what do I say now that […]
Caller Questions & More: Becky asks, “What do you do with all of the devastating news when there is a disaster?” I've had chronic pain with vomiting and nausea for a decade; my counselor and coaches have dropped me; everyone in my life is dead. After I found out I was autistic and told my […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses living day to day with ADHD. How do I balance boundaries with my family and being present with them? My mom tells me that I don't make time for her. How do I support my husband in a healthy way when he hates his job? He comes home […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses the importance of evaluating medication over time because the risk may start to outweigh the benefit. My 17yo son is hanging out with guys who have threatened suicide; how do I find a counselor he will feel comfortable with? How do I confront injustice in church? My husband […]
Caller Questions: Becky discusses recovery as an action or process of regaining possession of something that was stolen or lost. I called last month about my unequally-yoked boyfriend; I broke up with him the same day as the radio call! What do I do if my husband of 3yrs struggles with porn addiction and says […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim discusses how to rise above your circumstances. My two best friends passed away in June; can you give me any help to get through this? My adult daughter won't forgive me for asking her to move out 9yrs ago, and she thinks everyone hates me; what do I do? […]
Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses what to do if you're estranged from a loved one. Where do I go from here if my 12yo son has had anger issues since he was 2yo? He will jump up and down when he argues and hates talking about his feelings. AA has helped me stay clean […]
Caller Questions & More: JJ discusses how to deal with disappointment, like a car wreck that prevented him from cohosting recently. I struggle with sex addiction and have panic attacks. How does one go about finding healing when some people tell you to trust God, but others say to go to doctors? I am 62yo […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Sheri shares how a triggering incident can cause negative thoughts to flood your brain. What caused rumors about me on my job, and how do I prevent them in my new job? I am in a custody battle over my 11mo baby, and I think the father is in a […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice shares how delegating can help parents who try to take on everything by themselves. I'm handicapped and in recovery, so it's hard for me to read the Bible. Is there a recovery Bible that's in larger print? My 5yo twins reported their nanny molested them, and she was arrested. […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim shares how Jesus models the power of presence. Am I more protective of my adopted son than my biological children? Another parent told me I was being excessive. How do I fix my relationship with my adult son who didn't visit me after I fell down the steps and […]
Caller Questions & More: Marc offers practical tips for avoiders, people pleasers, and vacillators. Is it important for me to attend my grandson's court hearings? He is in jail and faces domestic violence charges. How can I cope with surrendering to God when He asks me to do hard things, like getting rid of all […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how self-control is one of the hardest fruits of the spirit to develop. Is it lying or gaslighting if my friend tells me my experience is not what I say it is? My dad wasn't safe, and I wonder if my friend isn't safe either. How can I […]
Caller Questions & More: Becky shares about looking at a situation and reframing your perspective. My 29yo daughter was molested when she was a child and admits to being queer and open to marrying a woman; am I in denial? What can I do if my dear friend constantly brings up political issues all the […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui shares from the book A New Kind of Diversity and instead of having conversations about our generational differences, we are becoming estranged. How should I respond when my husband gets easily offended and mumbles to himself? Is there a way to reassure our adult adopted daughter who has been […]
Caller Questions & More: Chris shares the obsessive and preoccupied minds of Mary and Martha; who chose better? Will my unequally-yoked boyfriend become a Christian like my friend's husband? My parents died 3yrs ago, and I can't get over it; what can I do? Thank you for everyone on New Life Live! You are there […]
Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses Father's Day and the wounds that can be stirred up. I don't trust my 22yo adopted daughter who is demanding and tried to manipulate me by cosigning a loan. Should I bring it up to my counselor that I can't be with him any longer? He came to my […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui discusses how the older generation needs to bridge the gap with the younger generation. One of my four adult children struggles with substance abuse and anger; as a Christian parent, I wanted to share that all of us just want to be loved and respected. I often had to […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how caregiving causes weariness, and you don't need to feel guilty for how you feel. I was raised in a strong Christian family, but a friend asked how I know I am a Christian if I don't have a miraculous testimony? How do I become the Christian I […]
Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice discusses the power of our words and the damage they can do. I have distanced myself from my father and my ex-husband because of abuse; what is the best way to honor them on Father's Day? How do I pray and ask God for His will to be done […]
Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses how blame is a defense mechanism that takes away our power to heal, to resolve, to get free. I am a chaplain at a major hospital; after going on four dates, I saw red flags, and now I'm in a dark valley. How do I handle my daughter-in-law who […]
Caller Questions & More: Becky shares how God loves you and how He uses your successes and your failures for His glory. I don't understand why my anxious husband of 46yrs has two different personalities. He's confident at church, where he's an elder, but very critical of me at home. How do we protect our […]