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With Oz kink Fest only one sleep away, MisKnickers ventured into the heart of Brunswick to visit Q Space, an integral part of Oz Kink Fest 2018. Q Space will host workshops, exhibitions, events, and the Oz Kink Fest Launch Party. While the OKF crew were busy setting up for the week ahead, MisKnickers got some one-on-one time with Mz Mallice (Oz Kink Fest Creator and Organiser), Wayne Nicol (owner of Lucrezia & DeSade, Q Space major sponsor and long time OKF Collaborator), and Angela Biscotti (artist and curator of Oz Kink Fest Exhibition Sex on your Sleeve). If you're getting hyped for Oz Kink Fest 2018 and want to hear more about what to expect, events to look out for, and gain a unique insight into OKF from the perspective of its creators, sponsors, and participants, dive into this latest Our Kink podcast and get the goss!

In Episode 34 of the Our Kink Podcast, MisKnickers catches up with Peter Martin and Dani Natale from PM Leather to talk about PM Leather, and how they have grown to be much more than a supplier of quality leather hobble belts. Hear about the history and growth of PM Leather, and the remarkable ability both Peter and Dani to reach people via social media. And of course, they share their plans for Oz Kink Fest, and the wonder that is Fetish Expo. We also catch up with ProDom/me, rope artist, rock star, and recent Our Kink Sponsor, Sai Jaiden Lillith, who gives us a sneak peak into some of the shenanigans they hope to encourage with performances and presentations throughout Oz Kink Fest. Listen in to find out what they're bringing to the party this year, and why they're so glad to be back.   And of course, we have another giveaway for subscribers… This time a double pass to Hellfire Resurrection – Friday September 21st. To win all you need to do is have a valid Our Kink Subscription, and email us with the answer to this very simple question: Where is Hellfire Resurrection being held in 2018? admin@ourkink.com Entries close Sunday night at 6pm. Please only enter if you can definitely use the pass.

Listen in as MisKnickers catches up with Sprinkle from Sprinkle Emporium (recorded live from the very stunning shop and studio on Lygon st) to discuss her new leather range for fetish fashionistas - Yes Mz by Sprinkle and what it's like to be facing the Fetish Expo 2018 Grand Fashion Parade for the very first time... In contrast, we also talk to long-time Fashion Parade contributor, Aunty EJ from Fantasy Fair Adult Play Wear, who's been part of the parade since day one. Learn more about these wonderful individuals and their contribution to the worlds of both kink and fashion, and discover why we love them.

In this episode MisKnickers is joined by resident Our Kink button-pusher Loke, to discuss an incredible innovation in kink safety. We speak with special guest Elle, who is part of team developing a new app called No Grey. In what is more than likely a world first, No Grey aims to enhance the way we negotiate, and gives users the opportunity to lay out the framework and boundaries of each scene negotiation for all participants with ease. We were really excited to learn more about No Grey, and Elle talked us through its features, as well as giving us some examples of how the app can be used, from sharing broad interests to begin a discussion to negotiating specifics of a scene, indicating our experience levels with different tools and types of play, through setting limits and goals to ensure participants understand their roles and responsibilities thoroughly. We also delved into some background to understand better how the idea came about, why Elle thinks you should try the app, and what you can expect in terms of ease of use, accessibility, and security of the app. Curious? So were we! Have a listen, and visit nogrey.club/ to learn more, and to download the app!

This week, MisKnickers and Miss Jane returned to one of their favourite haunts to spend some time with one of our favourite sponsors, the inimitable Wayne from Lucrezia & De Sade. Wayne is never short of a story or twelve and he doesn't disappoint in this podcast, taking us on a winding, non-linear journey through the history of L&D, including a time when he had never dreamed of retailing kink and leather goods, and how all that changed in one night, thanks to a certain pop sensation. Interest piqued? There's more ... latex nuns and reasonable men, a purple dungeon, duelling policemen, and some lessons on how to combat bureaucracy from left of centre. Oh, and there's the sex, religion, and politics. Just listen. You'll regret it if you don't.

This week MisKnickers and Mistress Jane visited Counsellor, Sex Therapist, Educator, Author, Workshop Facilitator, and wearer of one thousand hats, Jeremy Shub. They could have talked for days about every topic under the Sun, but specifically they wanted to talk with Jeremy about his upcoming Queer Flirting workshop. Starting with the basics of what actually constitutes flirting, how it differs between people and cultures, and moving to the unique challenges for Queer identifying people, how the principles of consent impact our flirting, navigating the vast range of different attractions and desires and more, including Jeremy's upcoming book, Sex Positive Now. Learn more about Jeremy, his work, and his services here. Check out the Queer Flirting workshop here.

In this episode MisKnickers and Miss Jane will enter your earholes once again, this time to blow up some BDSM bullshit... Join them as they don the Mythbuster Moustache and light the dynamite on some of our favourites myths, exploring both what they are, and where they come from. Have a giggle, an eyeroll, and a 'pffft' with us as we examine the idea that all kinksters are crazy, and ponder upon the 'weakness' often thought to make up submission. And as promised, there's some links below to keep you busy with some more facts and figures. Enjoy!

Yes, May is Masturbation month, so there's no better time to shine a light on what can be some pretty adventurous sexy times, be it alone or with a partner. This week MisKnickers and Mistress Jane try not to make too many bad puns as we discuss the benefits and drawbacks of the One-Handed Devil Dance... For more information to enjoy in your own time: MisKnickers Guide To Buying Beginner Sex Toys MisKnickers Guide For Happy Handjobs MisKnickers  Guide To Pussy Play For Couples And for more information on the Adult Match Maker 'Under the Covers' survey, and the results re-masturbation, take a look at this great piece from Dr Michelle Mars: Masturbation Under the Covers: Fap Vs Fiddle   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

You may have heard about the Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act (FOSTA) and the Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act (SESTA) - legislation recently signed into law by the US Congress. What you may not have heard, is that this wet blanket approach to meant to stop sex trafficking will in effect do much more harm that good. This week Miss Jane and MisKnickers chat with lawyer Kathryn Adams (aka KateOnTheGo) and pro-kinkster, sex worker, and all round amazing human being Gala Vanting to try and make sense of these confusing and dangerous new laws - laws that potentially affect us all. Whether you work in the sex industry, indulge in its many pleasures, or simply appreciate it exists, or if you're someone who just enjoys basic internet freedoms, this is an episode NOT TO MISS. Grab your beverage of choice, your brain, and a comfy spot - critical thinking is required! More information on people and resources mentioned within the podcast: Our guests, Gala Vanting and KateOnTheGo are both extremely well read, and as eloquent on this topic as their personal perspectives and experiences allow. Both are also happy to talk more… As of the podcast air date, Kate is about to give birth (Happy thoughts!!!) and Gala is struggling for professional survival. If you’re not able to book a session with her, Gala will gladly accept sponsorship via PayPal – fundsensatefilms@gmail.com - but bank transfer, cash, or online gift cards are also welcome. #HireAHo   For the best general information we’ve been able to find, check out Survivors Against SESTA. This US-based site is a great place to refine your general knowledge on SESTA, find support and education resources, tech advice, and self-care tips for workers, wherever you are in the world. Looking for places to list? Contact us! We list ANY sex-positive kink-friendly business! Some other options to consider… Brand new and SWer owned and run… Crockor has gone slightly gangbusters on the classifieds over the last couple of weeks. But to make this venture really work, they need non-kink and non-sex related listings to get moving up the Google rankings. Next time you want to list on Facebook or GumTree, why not give Crockor a try? Sex Work Australia also take listings and have links to a range of other adult directories on their site. RhED also has a range of information, and space for brothels, fetish and sex workers to advertise.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

Somewhere near, and at times bridging the boundaries between sex therapy, coaching, kinesiology, and tantra, is Sexological Bodywork. MisKnickers and Miss Jane took some time out to talk with Louis Luckhurst of Intentional Touch to learn more about exactly what sexological bodywork is, and to to hear Louis' professional and personal story. Louis helps clients learn about and understand their bodies, and to strengthen their connection to sexual and sensual self. Louis also works with people who have experienced trauma, and with people who have experienced a disconnection from their sexual experiences, and hopes to use her work to benefit survivors of genital mutilation and others in need of healing. Learn more about Louis' practice at intentionaltouch.net   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

This week MisKnickers and Mistress Jane plan to talk some Senses into you. All of them in fact. How to take advantage of them, manipulate them, deprive your partner of them. How to get started and what you can use at home to do so.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

In this podcast MisKnickers and Mistress Jane are joined by kittens, Lola and KittenRose to further explore this soft and fluffy form of play, and examine some of the stigma surrounding it. Riding the momentum from their appearance on Triple J's The Hook Up , the team discuss the realities of delving into this form of play. We explore what draws people to Petplay (as Owner/Handlers AND pets!) and offer some tips on how to start, where to make connections, and finding events that are friendly to Petplayers. Added to this, we look at some of the feedback from the Triple J audience and have just a bit of fun with it. And don't forget The Guild of Claws and Hooves Munch is on March 3rd, 6pm til late, The Scratching Parlour is open March 17th from 6-10pm, and March 18th is the Fundraiser extravaganza for girl ang. Tickets $15.00 ($10.00 for Our Kink Subscribers - see your email for the code). IMPORTANT NOTE: As much as we've had our issues with the feedback from The J's audience, it's important we state it's with their audience only. The production team we worked with for The Hook Up were fantastic - engaged, curious, supportive, and happy to work within our comfort zones. We have the utmost respect for the way they treated us, and for the finished product. We also appreciate the moderation that went into social media. We thank them for the opportunity to contribute, and for their permission to use the video here.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

This week, MisKnickers traveled to the fair city of Castlemaine to sit down with Angela Saide (aka girl ang) to discuss leather. Angela discusses her experience working with leather and her involvement with the Leather Community. Our Kink is also supporting Angela in her bid to claim the International Ms Leather (IMsL) title in California this year, and MisKnickers talked with her about what's involved in running for the title, how her campaign is progressing, who is supporting her, and her excitement at the chance to win an international title and, in the process, give something back to the Victorian Leather Community. Learn more about IMsL and IMsBB (International Ms Bootblack) here Find Angela on: Twitter Facebook Instagram And check out Little Miss Leather on Facebook   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

MisKnickers and Mistress Jane address some of the questions you might have if you're exploring a newly awakened interest in kink. Starting with the big "Where do I even start?" conundrum, they move on to avenues for education, events for beginners, tips on how to play safe, and red flags to look out for in the kink world. Chances are, if you're beginning your journey into kink, the Our Kinksters are addressing issues and concepts that you're beginning to experience. Some resources for beginning your kink journey, as mentioned in the podcast: Podcasts Kink Clinic Dan Savage's Savage Lovecast Sunny Megatron's American Sex Podcast Events Provocation Playroom SnakePit Arkie's Munch Websites Adult Matchmaker (AMM) Dominant Guide Submissive Guide Fetlife   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

MisKnickers and Mistress Jane receive a visit from JD from Downunder Toys to talk about JD's history as a Melbourne toymaker, how the process of making sex toys works, the politics of pleasure, and about her latest creation, AVA.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

In this episode, MisKnickers and Mistress Jane sit down with multi-award winning Australian explicit filmmaker Anna Brownfield to talk about what goes into making ethical pornography, the impact of the internet and tube sites on the industry and those who work in it, the future of sex online, and craft. Anna, the creative force behind Poison Apple Productions outlines the difference between making "The Band" in a predominantly DVD age, and "The Bedroom", a film largely marketed to the online world. She also discusses how she entered the world of explicit filmmaking, the challenges presented by some archaic laws, and how she tailors her guidelines for people who want to work with her in order to achieve the highest level of informed consent. Also, there are lists!   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

This week the Our Kink mummas Mis Knickers and Mistress Jane talk all things parenting with one of our favourite guests - the delightful and sadomasochistic Jilf, who is joined by one of their spawn, Jellybean, to talk all things “Parenting” within a number of alternative lifestyles. We know this one will resonate with many of our community and we would love to hear from you if you have any tips or tricks for how to balance your identity as a parent and your identity as a kinkster. Meanwhile, sit back at home or wherever you enjoy your podcasts from, and take a listen to our take on how to make it all balance and work for everyone. And while you're at it, find out how Archer Magazine is approaching its Family Issue (on sale December 11th), which aligns quite nicely with our Parenting episode!   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

With so much great content gathered at Sexpo Australia, we invite you to join us yet again, and listen in to some of the voices that make up these four fairly epic days. In Episode 17 we asked people what kink means to them... This week we explore The Big 'C' and ask people how consent fits into their lives; the importance, the relevance, and what defines a violation. This is one we'd really value your thoughts on. It's a huge thing for us all.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

MisKnickers, Mistress Jane and Loke take a look back at the weekend just gone as we revisit some of the highlights and chat with stallholders, performers, staff and members of the public over the four day extravaganza that was Sexpo Melbourne 2017. You'll hear from Peter and Dani at PM Leather, BJ from Eagle Leather and Jeebus Fuck from the Eagle Leather Fetish Playroom, Gil and Tanya from JuJu Jezebel, Ella Hall of Tantra Ella, JJ of PicPuck Photography, members of the public attending Sexpo, and Bentleigh Gibson, National Events Director for Sexpo Australia.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

Join us this week as we delve into the world that is Sexpo, and find out exactly what it has to offer we kinksters. We chat to Pepper and Bee Jay from Eagle Leather, and get a sneak peak at some of the delights this year's Fetish Playroom has on offer - and we know you'll be happily surprised! We'll also share a few insights into some of our amazing plans and ideas for our first ever gig as Sexpo Exhibitors - including a guest interview with a very special surprise someone who'll be helping us out at the event.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

In the latest instalment of the Our Kink Podcast, MisKnickers and Mistress Jane dive into the world of objectification, which is many different things to many different people. They discuss the different forms objectification can take, the differing drives (both from the top and bottom perspectives), and they sit down with robodoll, a creation of Kink Technologies. Robodoll explains their creation, operation, and motivation, and helps the Our Kink team understand more about objectification, and why it's such a prominent feature in a lot of BDSM play.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

On Wednesday, September 20th, Our Kink in partnership with Oz Kink Fest and Mistress Electra Amore, and sponsored by Lucrezia and De Sade, hosted a gathering of nine Pro-BDSM, Fetish, and Kink Workers for a panel discussion. Part One of the discussion, which you can find here, focused on the panelists' introduction to the world of pro-kink, work/life balance, the pros and cons of stage names vs real names, and some travel tips for kinksters. In part two, the participants discuss their training and experiences, technology and the evolution of the industry, advice for newcomers, and they also look at some of the improvements they have witnessed, or been a part of, in their work. This includes some rare insights into the history of professional BDSM and kink work in Australia. The discussion was informative, passionate, funny at times, and engaging throughout. We would like to offer a heartfelt thank you to everyone who participated in this first Our Kink public event, from the panelists themselves to our enthusiastic audience members, to everyone who played a role in setting up, hosting, and running the event. We hope you all enjoyed yourselves as much as we did - and for those of you who couldn't be there, we are proud to be able to let you experience the discussion through these podcasts. Our very eclectic line-up includes professionals from a range of backgrounds, styles, and generations, including: Mistress Electra Amore Sai Jaiden Lilith Mz Asha Luna Ignixia (USA) Mistress Tokyo (SYD) Jane Untamed Marina Lee Charlotte Sway Apprentice Leighton   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

On Wednesday, September 20th, Our Kink in partnership with Oz Kink Fest and Mistress Electra Amore, and sponsored by Lucrezia and De Sade, hosted a gathering of nine Pro-BDSM, Fetish, and Kink Workers to discuss their their experiences in the industry. This forum Q & A, planned to be the first of many, is aimed at bringing healthy discussion to the table in an offline environment. In a world dominated by online communication and social media, we feel that one way to promote accountability in the kink community is to encourage face to face discussion, where the anonymity of the internet is stripped away. In what’s been a traditionally underground industry, recent technology, pop-culture, and psychiatry have created some massive changes for the whole BDSM/Kink Community. In this fascinating Panel Q&A and Forum Event we opened the door and invited you in to join an exploration into the pro-BDSM, fetish and kink world, and discuss how these changes affect those who have careers within it. We were pleasantly surprised and very pleased to be able to present a booked out event and those who attended were treated to an entertaining and engaging evening from our illustrious panel of pro-kink/BDSM experts as we look at some of their history and experiences in the industry, explored developments such as the evolution of pro-kink training and the lessons learned over time, discussed the impact of the internet, and much, much more. Our very eclectic line-up includes professionals from a range of backgrounds, styles, and generations, including: Mistress Electra Amore Sai Jaiden Lilith Mz Asha Luna Ignixia (USA) Mistress Tokyo (SYD) Jane Untamed Marina Lee Charlotte Sway Apprentice Leighton This special edition podcast presents the first part of that panel discussion, in which the participants talk about their introductions to the industry, their work/life balance, stage names vs real names, and what it’s like to go through airport security as a professional kink worker. We hope you enjoy part one of Frisky Business: Working in Kink.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

It’s a shorter-than-usual episode this week as we reminisce on the whirlwind of delights that was Oz Kink Fest 2017, and as Loke attempts the Sorboesque (aka Not quite Herculean but it’s having a go) task of editing almost two and a half hours of the Frisky Business Panel Forum for you listening pleasure next week. MisKnickers and Mistress Jane share their highlights from Oz Kink Fest, thoughts on the festival as a whole, and MisKnickers checks in with Oz Kink Fest creator and organiser Mz Mallice to find out how she’s holding up after 10 days of non-stop kinky action.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

Experience the sights and sounds of Fetish Expo 2017, as the Our Kink team run amok chatting with the people who participate in the amazing day that is the Oz Kink Fest Fetish Expo. We chat to stallholders, models, designers, volunteers, some John and Jane Q Publics, and MisKnickers shares the super, sexy IMPROMPTU serenade that made her knees wobble! We also spend some time with Mistress Tokyo, getting the goss on what her weekend has in store, and catch up with Emerging Designer Award Winner, Miss Gemma Trick from Tricksy Pixies. AND more secret treats - be sure to listen in!   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

This week we put the spotlight on the sensational Oz Kink Fest Fashion Parade, and the creative genius directing the show, Susan Illingworth. If you've experienced the Parade before, prepare to find out why this year is going to be unlike any other... and for those of you new to FETISH EXPO 2017, make sure you're in a comfy spot at 3.55pm. It's gonna go off. And later in the show, Mistress Jane and MisKnickers run through the Oz Kink Fest schedule, share memories, anticipate highlights to come, and ponder the popping of their stallholder cherry.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

In this week's exploration of all things Oz Kink Fest we visit a Dennys in Orlando, Florida, where we find international kink educator, Oz Kink Fest Workshop presenter, and Frisky Business panel member Ignixia. Misknickers talks with Ignixia about her style of play, her many (and we mean MANY) roles in the kink community, what to expect from her workshops, and her dungeon kitty. MisKnickers and Mistress Jane also catch up with author, publisher, Oz Kink Fest stallholder and volunteer, and Our Kink Sponsor KL Joy from La Bouche Books. They talk about the history of Oz Kink Fest, the importance of Fetish Expo, KL's experiences and find out what she has planned for this year's event!   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

Continuing our commitment to weekly podcasts this month - This week we continue our journey into the Oz Kink Fest experience with Lucrezia & De Sade owner, all round excellent person, Wayne Nicol. Involved in OKF from its very first year, and a repeat offender ever since, find out why Wayne and the Lucrezia and De Sade team keep coming back for more. We chat to Wayne about what goes into having a stall at the FETISH EXPO 2017, the changes he’s seen as this event develops and evolves, and his hopes for this tenth big year. Then we meet another of the VIPs who help Oz Kink Fest function. Two-time Fantasy Fair Adult Wear model and Helper Extraordinaire, Mister Ryan, spends some time with us talking about his experience as a participant in the Fetish Expo fashion parade. Who said we never talk to men?!   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

Our Kink starts its journey into Oz Kink Fest. And who better to start it with than OKF creator, producer and general Head Honcho, Mz Mallice. In this episode we chat with Mz Mallice about the birth of Oz Kink Fest, mull over how it’s changed and developed over the last ten years, and get some insights into how this year is shaping up to be the biggest yet. And then indulge a little longer as we spend some time with Fetish Expo 2017 Volunteer Co-ordinator, and all-round wonderful person, Torny. Find out what it’s like to be part of the voluntary crew who make this totally unique day actually function, and discover what it takes to be one of them. This is a huge episode featuring some big guests working on a massive event.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

In this episode, recorded during MisKnickers’ Birthday Party, Mistress Jane and The Knickered One play wax with a willing bunny. Mistress Jane provides colour commentary and questions as MisKnickers provides answers and applies the waxy artwork to bunny's skin. We cover types of wax, methods of application, safety tips, and “artistic method” among other things. Oh … and we’ll be adding photos. Also, a special guest joins us by phone from across the other side of the country for a VERY exciting announcement! Our Kink, in partnership with Oz Kink Fest and Mistress Electra Amore, will be presenting a panel discussion with audience Q & A as part of Oz Kink Fest on Wednesday, September 20th. Check our Events Calendar for more details, and listen as Mistress Electra explains her role in the event and her excitement to visit Melbourne and be a part of Oz Kink Fest!   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

In this episode, MisKnickers and Mistress Jane welcome back professional age player, kinkster, and little Marina Lee to discuss age play. We discuss what defines age play, its place in the kink community, and how prevailing attitudes shape our perception of what is and isn't acceptable both within and beyond the world of kink and fetish. The discussion begins, as it should, with an outline of what age play is, and the variety of roles that exist within the dynamic. We take a look at what the players actually get out of their kink and how the goal-setting exercises that often exist within age play can benefit other areas of the player's life, and the place of age play within a broader range of D/s dynamics. We devote time to the controversy that has typically surrounded the idea of age play, and in doing so try to break down some of the misconceptions that exist even within the kink community. We also tackle the issue of sexualisation of younger females in mainstream society and the part that plays in fuelling those misconceptions, as well as the gender imbalance that tends to arise as a result. We ask Marina about the little side of her personal life and about how she developed the professional aspect of her age play, and don't forget you can find out - if you so desire - how to engage her services as an age player.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

This episode OurKink is sadomasochism and who better to join Mistress Jane and MisKnickers for an unfiltered discussion of SnM than the incredible poly sadomasochistic top, Jilf. Known mostly for her sadistic topping, and repeated entries to FetLife's 'Kinky and Popular' for images resulting from her play, Jilf chats to the OurKink team about her style of sadism, and her more recent explorations into the world of masochism. For our edgier kinksters, this is a truly unmissable episode!   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

As always, this week Mistress Jane and MisKnickers are joined by another delightful guest. This time it's Aussie escort, pro-submissive, kinkster and international porn star, Marina Lee. Together we discuss Marina's brand of submission and love of sex work, and explore how these two passions culminated to craft a niche that seeks to both satisfy and educate. And of course, there's some juicy talk on the sexiness that is negotiation, and lots of chat on safety and sex worker rights.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

For Episode Two, MisKnickers and Mistress Jane are joined by Dance/Movement Psychotherapist, Frank Farrugia to talk self care - why it’s so important, how we can enable it, and how it can change our lives when we do. Frank’s journey is fascinating to say the least, identifying as agender (or even postgender ) and recounting their upbringing in a cult-like environment through their self-discovery experience and beyond, their insights into self-care are hugely valuable. Find Frank in our Connections Kink-Friendly Directory here. Or visit intuitivepantomime.com.   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

Welcome to Episode One! In this podcast Mistress Jane and MisKnickers chat with award-winning Melbourne filmmaker, Anna Brownfield about her latest creation, The Bedroom. We find out exactly what goes into making such spectacular smut, and investigate some of the ideals that go into creating Ethical Porn. There may also be some talk of suburban depravity and horror zombie porn...   kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();

...and the crowds grew still. The birds fell quiet in the trees, and traffic stopped in the streets. An old man ceased yelling at the small child on his lawn, and gazed to the heavens in wonder. The clouds parted and a light shone through, as something wondrous is about to occ... okay, none of that actually happened. But the Our Kink Podcast Pilot Episode is ready, in which the team pitches their idea and hopes to be picked up for a first season. Also, MisKnickers and Mistress Jane introduce themselves, and even Loke gets a look in as we talk about our backgrounds, and the events and ideas that led to the creation of the Our Kink Project. Have a listen! What harm can it do?