Podcast appearances and mentions of kayla lords

#065 There's no guidebook for BDSM - but what if you could learn from experienced kinksters?

Whips, chains, and... legal pads? In this episode of Taboo Science, we dive deep into the world of BDSM to explore its long history, the science behind subspace, the submissive rich guy stereotype, and why aftercare is essential for everyone (even vanilla folks!). With help from paraphilia researcher Dr. Christian Joyal, the Ask a Sub podcast's Lina Dune, and the Loving BDSM podcast's Kayla Lords and John Brownstone, we're debunking misconceptions and shedding light on the reality of safe, consensual BDSM practices. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode is a must-listen. Hey, it's way better than Fifty Shades of Grey.Resources from Christian Joyal:University of Quebec faculty page: https://oraprdnt.uqtr.uquebec.ca/pls/public/genw050.afficher_fiche_perso?owa_cd_secteur=0800&owa_cd_fonction=49&owa_no_personne=134064&owa_contexte=$211-37Philippe-Pinel Institute faculty page: https://pinel.qc.ca/christian-joyal-ph-d/ Research on Google Scholar: https://scholar.google.ca/scholar?hl=en&as_sdt=0,5&q=c+joyal&oq=Resources from Lina Dune:Ask a Sub podcast: https://askasub.substack.com/podcastNewsletter: https://askasub.substack.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0/ Resources from Kayla Lords & John Brownstone:Loving BDSM podcast: https://lovingbdsm.net/loving-bdsm-podcast/Website: https://lovingbdsm.net/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovingds1/ See citations and a transcript here: https://www.tabooscience.show/040-bdsm/Need music for a project? Use my Epidemic Sound referral link: https://share.epidemicsound.com/kbva2hConnect with the show: Newsletter: https://www.tabooscience.show/newsletter Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tabooscience YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tabooscience Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/tabooscience Website: https://www.tabooscience.show/ Loved this episode? Leave a review and rating here:

Listen to an old fan favourite about the world of full-time BDSM with fellow podcasters and IRL couple Kayla Lords and John Brownstone (JB). The husband and wife duo met on the internet before sparking up a 24/7 Daddy Dom/sub dynamic in their shared home in Florida. Hosts Anna & Gregor get the lowdown on what it takes to make a kinky partnership work all day – every day. From the domestic to the downright dirty, Kayla (affectionately dubbed the ‘coffee sub') and JB lift the lid on round-the-clock BDSM. Check out Kayla and John's podcast Loving BDSM here. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Explore the world of full-time BDSM with fellow podcasters and IRL couple Kayla Lords and John Brownstone (JB). The husband and wife duo met on the internet before sparking up a 24/7 Daddy Dom/sub dynamic in their shared home in Florida. Hosts Anna & Gregor get the lowdown on what it takes to make a kinky partnership work all day – every day. From the domestic to the downright dirty, Kayla (affectionately dubbed the ‘coffee sub') and JB lift the lid on round-the-clock BDSM. 

Get ready for the hottest homework of this season! In this episode, the Wives report back on their sexy homework with Bondage. But first, if summer shenanigans are making you feel run down, check out this episode's cocktail: the Bourbon Elixir.  And trust us, you will want a drink in hand when you listen to Kat's hot tale, steamy foreplay with not one, not two, BUT THREE men.  Then, the Wives share their sexy homework with bondage, including a sexy foursome, Dom/sub play and the kink that cannot be named (...pssst, between you and I, it's a GANG BANG!!!) Finally, it's Just the Tips for anyone who wants to explore bondage and restraint play. Four popular types of restraints are: rope,  binders, bondage tape and shackles. Shackles/Cuffs– a great place to start. Shackles refer to cloth, leather or metal ankle or wrist restraints. They are easy to put on and do an excellent job of keeping your partner immobilized.  Rope– is super versatile, but a little tricky to use. The material and type of rope matters. Cotton rope may be a good starting point, because it's softer on skin. It can involve suspension. It can be paired with all kinds of other erotic play. Can change the position of your body so you experience sensation differently. Binders- Not for Bondage newbies.   The most common form of binders are arm binders, which completely immobilize the wearer's arms (unlike handcuffs which still give them a little bit of wiggle room). Another option are leather leg binders, which keep the wearer from bending their knee or moving on their own. Bondage Tape- If you are looking for sometime quick and pretty.  Unlike regular tape, it only sticks to itself.  Not skin or hair  Bondage tape can be used to create makeshift hand or ankle cuffs, to secure someone's hands, legs or almost any body part. Safety note: with tape play, you need to be careful of nearby candles or heat of any kind.  Some adhesives will become too sticky when heated, pulling the top layer of skin off when you go to remove the tape. To get the low-down on all things Bondage, listen to Part 1 where the Wives interview Kayla Lords, cohost of the podcast Loving  BDSM.   A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode!  You can check out Abbey's podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/.  WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT BONDAGE Check out our Season 1 episode on Impact Play Our two-part episode on Dungeons (Part 1 and Part 2) And our BSDM Articles: Five Myths about Impact Play Your Sweet, Kinky, Embraceable You Essential Items for a Home Dungeon.  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE UNDER THE BED RESTRAINTS EVERYTHING BONDAGE KIT SHIBARI ROPE HITACHI WAND MASSAGE TABLE EYE SHADES This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something we may earn a commission. Thanks

Bondage: what was once considered a taboo, dangerous kink is now a commonplace sex act that you can find in many a suburban bedroom.  But is restraint play for you?  Tune in to find out.   Bondage, or restraint play, is a common sexual fantasy, but how can you safely make it into a very hot reality?  In this episode, the Wives discuss what bondage is (including some sexy past experiences), who restraint play is for, and how to safely play with different forms of restraints.  But first, cool off with a Summer Brazilian (no waxing necessary) while Ams shares her Hot Tale: a fantasy threesome with Peloton instructor Denis Morton. Spoiler-alert - Denis wasn't actually involved, but sometimes a little fantasy goes a long way in the bedroom (and the basement).   Then, the Wives define and explore some bondage basics.  Bondage is a form of kinky sex play that involves tying up, pinning down, or otherwise restraining a partner.  It can be combined with other forms of BDSM play, such as impact play or orgasm control, or just used as a way to spice up an otherwise vanilla sexual experience.  Bondage was once considered very taboo and even a little dangerous: something that only Kinksters do in the privacy of their local sex dungeon.  But if you check out the nightstand drawer of many a suburban mom, you just might find a blindfold and some cuffs. Bondage has become a much more mainstream sexual activity (who didn't read Fifty Shades of Grey?), and it's actually quite accessible to the curious couple.  Four popular types of restraints are: rope,  binders, bondage tape and shackles. Shackles/Cuffs- a great place to start. Shackles refer to cloth, leather or metal ankle or wrist restraints. They are easy to put on and do an excellent job of keeping your partner immobilized.  Rope- is super versatile, but a little tricky to use. The material and type of rope matters. Cotton rope may be a good starting point, because it's softer on skin. It can involve suspension. It can be paired with all kinds of other erotic play. Can change the position of your body so you experience sensation differently. Binders- Not for Bondage newbies.   The most common form of binders are arm binders, which completely immobilize the wearer's arms (unlike handcuffs which still give them a little bit of wiggle room). Another option are leather leg binders, which keep the wearer from bending their knee or moving on their own. Bondage Tape- If you are looking for sometime quick and pretty.  Unlike regular tape, it only sticks to itself.  Not skin or hair  Bondage tape can be used to create makeshift hand or ankle cuffs, to secure someone's hands, legs or almost any body part. Safety note: with tape play, you need to be careful of nearby candles or heat of any kind.  Some adhesives will become too sticky when heated, pulling the top layer of skin off when you go to remove the tape. To get the low-down on all things Bondage, the Wives interview Kayla Lords, cohost of the podcast Loving  BDSM.   Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: Ams wants to be tied to the bed, spread eagle-style, while Mr. Ams applies some delicious torture.  While Kat wants to take it up a notch with three sexy gentlemen (wait, isn't that called a gang bang???) A very special thanks to Abbey Snider for editing assistance on this episode!  You can check out Abbey's podcast, Sweet Baby Gay at https://abbeydotproductions.com/.  Want to learn more about BDSM? Check out our Season 1 episode on Impact Play Our two-part episode on Dungeons (Part 1 and Part 2) And our BSDM Articles: Five Myths about Impact Play Your Sweet, Kinky, Embraceable You Essential Items for a Home Dungeon. 

Taking the plunge and writing about my experiences with D/s, and my thoughts on certain kink topics. Thanks to John Brownstone and Kayla Lords of the Loving BDSM podcast/community for thinking this prompt idea up. If y'all want more of these just let me know. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/subheart/message

For the final minisode (for now?), John Brownstone and Kayla Lords are together, sharing bare-handed spanking tips. This episode assumes you know the basics — connect bare hand to bare butt. After that, what... The post Podcast Minisode 12: Bare-Handed Spanking Tips appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and Molly Moore answer smutlancer questions in episode 52 of the Smutlancers podcast. Topics include blog monetization, branding, stockphotos, about pages, and more! The post July 2019 Mailbag appeared first on The Smutlancers.

In this episode MisKnickers and Miss Jane will enter your earholes once again, this time to blow up some BDSM bullshit... Join them as they don the Mythbuster Moustache and light the dynamite on some of our favourites myths, exploring both what they are, and where they come from. Have a giggle, an eyeroll, and a 'pffft' with us as we examine the idea that all kinksters are crazy, and ponder upon the 'weakness' often thought to make up submission. And as promised, there's some links below to keep you busy with some more facts and figures. Enjoy!

  This week we are talking about Souther Sir's article about how he came to terms with his kink and learned it was OK to hit someone if they asked for it. For those who don't know Souther Sir is one half of LovingBDSM a podcast where he and Kayla Lords discuss everything Kink and BDSM related. It is a brilliant show and they are well worth checking out. Rants Centre Parcs pulls ads from the Daily Mail over homophobic column Centre Parcs has pulled adverts from The Daily Mail after Richard Littlejohn wrote a homophobic article on how he couldn't accept it was normal for two men to parent a baby. Read more Florida shootings There is no specific article to point to here just the sensless loss of human life that was the shooting in Florida. Our hearts go out to all the families involved and we hope this is the turning point that will make American politicians see there needs to be change. How I learned it was OK to hit a willing submissive This is a really great article from Southern Sir on how coming to terms with what you like isn't always straight forward and even when you do accept it, sometimes your feelings take a while to catch up. But with a little education and understanding you can push past your problems and be who you want to be.

Podcasting, as we know it today, is still a relatively new medium. The word itself is a portmanteau, devised by a BBC journalist named Ben Hammersley back in 2004 – pod (as in the brand name of that very familiar MP3 player) plus broadcast. Although others prefer using “Portable on Demand” to avoid a direct reference to the company behind that famous MP3 player – which makes sense as download and play isn’t restricted to it alone. And it is, in 2017, a medium in very rude health. Whether you were one of the millions of listeners addicted to Serial, or can’t imagine not starting your week with Ira Glass and This American Life, the last few years have seen a firm resurgence in podcast popularity. It’s not hard to see why. Podcasts make a trusty companion on a dreary commute or long drive, whether as a source of entertainment (think of Mark Kermode’s hilariously ranty reviews on the Wittertainment film podcast, or the behemoth popularity of My Dad Wrote a Porno), a ground-breaking method of storytelling (like the mysterious world of Welcome to Night Vale, The Black Tapes, or Homecoming) or a font of knowledge on pretty much every subject you can imagine. And yes, that includes the worlds of kink, fetish and BDSM, with podcasts a-plenty to provide an education for your ears only. Which makes it an ideal medium for beginning kinksters wanting to explore and learn on their own terms, in their own time. There’s a big degree of privacy, it’s free, and all you need is a way of streaming and a pair of headphones. Voila – at your fingertips is a world full of kinksters sharing with you their personal knowledge, thoughts and feelings, as well as educational facts and impassioned rants and raves. So, if you’re a fledgling kinkster wanting to broaden your knowledge, have some questions answered or just generally immerse yourself in chatter from likeminded voices, these five podcasts provide a solid foundation to your kinky learnings. The Dildorks After connecting on social media, bloggers Bex Caputo and Kate Sloan met in person back in 2015, and a beautifully dorky friendship was born. They are the hosts of The Dildorks, an antidote to media depicting sex as “naughty,” mysterious, gross, indecent, or self-explanatory. Their shared enthusiasm and curiosity for the subjects they tackle (which span the gamut from sex to kink to porn and beyond) is utterly infectious, and with episode titles like The Dom Before the Storm and Aftercare Laughtercare... well, you know you’re in for a wonderfully fun (not to mention incredibly dorky) time. Join Bex and Kate every week if you’re into rhapsodic raves and impassioned rants about everything that’s engaging their hearts, brains, and genitals (as they put it on the website). The People of Kink What started out as one podcast – The People of Kink, or TPoK, as it’s also known – has evolved into an educational network setting out to educate and reduce stigma on all topics of sexuality. The message here: “you’re not alone”, which is something many fledgling kinksters (no matter what floats your boat) need to hear. The episodes of the original TPoK podcast are still available to listen to on the website (185 of them, no less) in addition to all the new shows and content, and they form a great basis for people wanting to gain some kinky knowledge in addition to some reassurance. Practically Kinky Wondering just how to incorporate kink into your life and making it work on your own terms? Then browse the archives of Practically Kinky, a podcast devoted to... well, exactly that: hands-on, practical discussions about kink. Sydney and Logan Hart tackle topics like roles in kink, body worshipping and emotional labour. The show seems to be on a bit of a hiatus (the last episode released back in February) but fortunately there’s plenty of back catalogue there to help expand your kink knowledge. Why Are People into That?! Writer, teacher, media-maker and all-round powerhouse of awesome Tina Horn is the host of the wonderfully titled podcast Why Are People into That?! (or YAPiT, for short). Let’s face it, at one point you will have thought this exact same question: what is it that attracts people to this fetish, or that kink? Each episode sees Tina and a guest interviewee (guests have included Reid Mihalko, Nikki Silver, Micky Mod, Rachel Kramer Bussel, James Darling, Tristan Taormino... seriously, it’s a who’s who of brilliant) non-judgementally explore the nitty-gritty of a particular topic. Want to know what it is that attracts people to spanking, or butt plugs, or pegging? Craving to sate your curiosity on matters of sexting or humiliation play? It’s all there, and Tina is more than happy to tell you just why people are into it. Loving BDSM Blogging powerhouse Kayla Lords and her Sir, John Brownstone host the Loving BDSM podcast, a mix of opinions, rants and ramblings, and insights into one couple’s 24/7 D/s relationship. Kayla always speaks frankly and openly about her continuing journey of evolution into her sexuality and her life as a submissive babygirl, and brings that frankness, along with a solid pinch of her special own-brand cuteness (it is their superpower, after all) to the podcast. Fun fact – they also have a Redbubble shop for the podcast, in which you can buy some adorable Loving BDSM-themed goodies. Of course, there’s also Kink Craft’s very own podcast, in which Pixie and Andrew talk about sex news, things seen around the internet, and the latest posts on the Kink Craft blog. Which, when you think about it... kind of makes this a bit of an Inception moment, doesn’t it? Find out more about us Check out the website http://kinkcraft.co Follow us on Twitter @KinkCraft Find us on on Pinterest @KinkCraft Talk to us on Facebook http://facebook.com/MyKinkCraft Follow us on instagram https://www.instagram.com/kink_craft/ Send us an email podcast [at] kinkcraft.co

This week we are doing something a little different. We have two very special guests: Kayla Lords and John Brownston from the amazing LovingBDSM podcast. We are talking about this weeks article on protectors. Are protectors a good thing? A lot of people coming into the kinky scene (female subs especially) can think it is a good idea to have someone look after them. There are plenty in the scene who are willing to help them. But are they really doing it for the right reasons and is it really healthy? That is what we are talking about. Find out more about us Check out the website http://kinkcraft.co Follow us on Twitter @KinkCraft Find us on on Pinterest @KinkCraft Talk to us on Facebook http://facebook.com/MyKinkCraft Follow us on instagram https://www.instagram.com/kink_craft/ Send us an email podcast [at] kinkcraft.co

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone, hosts of the Loving BDSM Podcast, are our guests this week. Not only do they host a podcast, but they each have their own blog, and Loving BDSM has it’s own site with a great community feel to it, helped by the forum and other additions such as their monthly book club.   We discuss how Kayla and John met and how their dynamic works for them, with Kayla identifying as a Babygirl and John being a Daddy Dom. They also identify as having a 24/7 dynamic, but how they manage and maintain that may not be the same as how other people do. We are big fans of sharing experiences and inviting other people to take from that what is useful to them, and Kayla and John do a wonderful job of sharing their thoughts in an open, honest and inviting manner.   Reading someone’s blog can be a great insight into who they are and what they are interested in. As their blogs played a key part in how they got together, it leads us to talk about both John and Bakji did their research before wooing their respective partners. Lots of friendships have been built through blogs and social media too, and we ponder how we are meant to make friends with someone who isn’t baring their soul on the internet on a daily basis. When you are a proud and self confessed social media whore.   Evolution of kinks and kink identities is a huge part of being a kinky person. Almost everyone within the kink community has a got a story of how they have changed since joining the scene. This usually means more fun and a better understanding of both ourselves and kink as a whole. Kayla and John share how their relationship has evolved, their online presence has evolved and also how their kinks have evolved, both individually and as a couple.   Part of what makes Loving BDSM a must listen podcast is the fact John and Kayla allow fun and silliness not only into their lives but also into their D/s. While there is a lot of serious conversations that need to be had when you are engaging in BDSM, it is also meant to be fun. This comes up in the podcast through the various points raised, including what our various approaches to aftercare look like, and it isn’t necessarily how you’d imagine it look, especially if you are new to kink.   There is so much more that we cover in this episode, but I think I shall let you discover the rest for yourself, or the blog post will be a mammoth essay rather than a little round-up. You can find all the links to Loving BDSM below, as well as links to other resources mentioned within this episode.   As well as Loving BDSM, you can also listen to the other fab podcast that our part of our little Podcast Jukebox Network. Off the Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God and Parking Lot Radio. We are all on iTunes and we will love you forever if you leave us a star rating and review. You can also wing by our Patreon site and see what is going on their for our Patrons. The most exciting of which is access to our spin-off podcast FemDom and Fetish fun, to check that out use this link https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky. You can also follow us on Instagram, Twitter, Fetlife and Facebook, just use the seqarch term ‘proudtobekinky’.

What are your rights? Is being allowed to enjoy your kinks one of those rights? Surprisingly the answer to these questions isn't clear. Here in the UK you can not agree to assult, and of course spanking someone is a form of assult. So technically you can never agree to it, and the one doing the spanking can be prosecuted. This week we are talking about the article written for us by Kayla Lords. Kayla writes about BDSM and other sexy matters, and has her own podcast Loving BDSM that is well worth checking out.

Back for episode 79, Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss the importance of the kinky community. Plus hear more about the new website and the online Loving BDSM community! In this episode: Is the... The post The Importance of Community LB079 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Back for episode 79, Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss the importance of the kinky community. Plus hear more about the new website and the online Loving BDSM community! In this episode: Is the... The post The Importance of Community LB079 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are together for episode 78 but (of course) Kayla does most of the talking in this one as she discusses doing the things that terrify her aka going to... The post Eroticon Follow-Up and a Big Announcement LB078 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are together again for episode 77 and they’re taking on a big topic: BDSM and mental health. Consider this the first of what will certainly be many conversations about... The post Is BDSM Good For Your Mental Health? LB077 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords is by herself for another week in episode 75. This time, she’s answering questions received from listeners. In this episode: Get your kinky fuckery on with the Unbound Kinky Gift Guide thru... The post Listener Questions Answered LB075 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords is by herself in episode 74. This week’s topic is a bit personal and multi-layered – which is kind of the point. In this episode: I’ve got a new book out! Sir... The post We All Have Multiple Layers LB074 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

For episode 73, Kayla Lords and John Brownstone took on a fun (and weirdly, sometimes a controversial topic) – oral sex in a D/s relationship. Yes, Dominants can give oral sex to their partners!... The post Oral Sex in D/s Relationships LB073 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week we are joined by Molly Moore as we talk about this weeks article written by Kayla Lords. Who is Molly Moore She is a blogger, a photographer, a published author, public speaker, and the operations director for Eroticon. She also living in a 24/7 D/s relationship with her partner DomSigns. She speaks openly about their relationship and has even been on Channel 4 to talk about how it works for them. We have been wanting to get Molly on the show for some time and this seemed like the perfect opportunity to do it. So what it is realy like being in a 24/7 relationship There is a lot of fantasy around what that sort of relationship must be like, but the reality is something very different. Like all realtionships it takes a lot of work to understand the other person in the relationship before you can even start to dive deep into the Domination and submission that both sides want. Molly talks about how it works for her. What she wants and how they get to something that works for the both of them. She also shares her thoughts on what it takes to make this sort of relationship work and gives some tips on things you can do to make it work, and things you should avoid. A lot of people in these sorts of relationships say they feel a very deep connection with their partner because opening up about how these things make you feel means you have to share a lot about who you are and what you want. But like all things, it takes work. Don't miss Eroticon Thank you too Molly Moore for coming onto the show this week. Make sure you check out Eroticon and come to this amazing event 4th - 5th March. We will be there, and we are really looking forward to it. Find out more about us Check out the website http://kinkcraft.co Follow us on Twitter @kinkcraft Find us on on Pinterest @KinkCraft Talk to us on Facebook http://facebook.com/MyKinkCraft Follow us on instagram https://www.instagram.com/kink_craft/ Send us an email podcast [at] kinkcraft.co

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host episode 71 and talk about a recent hard conversation they had to have, how it helped, and why these conversations are important in D/s relationships. In this episode:... The post Difficult Conversations in D/s Relationships LB071 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone talk about feeling low energy and no motivation and how it can impact their D/s relationship in episode 70 of Loving BDSM podcast. In this episode: John Brownstone’s having... The post Low Energy and Lack of Motivation in Your D/s Relationship LB070 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

In episode 68, the last of 2016, John Brownstone and Kayla Lords treat the whole thing like one big bonus section. Not a lot of education, but plenty of conversation. In this episode: The... The post One Big Bonus Episode LB068 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone talk about subfrenzy in episode 67 – what is it, how does it happen, and what are the problems that subfrenzy can cause. In this episode: What is subfrenzy?... The post Dealing With and Understanding Subfrenzy LB067 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone talk about how normal it is for the vanilla stuff to make you feel less your D/s self – and what to do about it. In this episode:  ... The post Feeling More Vanilla Than D/s LB066 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss the toys that added to their kinky fuckery in 2016 (so far!). In this episode: Check out the Holiday Gift Guides from Unbound Box – one for kinky... The post Our Favorite Sex Toys: 2016 Edition LB065 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are together again for episode 64 of Loving BDSM. This week, they’re discussing D/s contracts. In this episode: The latest video is available through Patreon or membership to KaylaLords.com!... The post Understanding D/s Contracts LB064 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

In episode 63, Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss the things that happen, what you can expect, and some of the fun you can have at BDSM dungeons and play parties. In this episode:... The post Dungeons and Play Parties, Oh My! LB063 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss boundaries and limits in episode 62 of the Loving BDSM podcast. In this episode: Save 10 percent on the HUM vibe with coupon code: kaylalords What are limits... The post Understanding Boundaries and Limits LB062 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss sadism and masochism in a D/s relationship in episode 61 of the Loving BDSM podcast. In this episode: John Brownstone is having a sale on his (very vanilla)... The post Sadism and Masochism in a D/s Relationship LB061 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

In episode 60, Kayla Lords discusses the myths and lies submissives believe about themselves, especially after a break-up. In this episode: Our spanking videos are now available through my website via a paid membership... The post Myths Submissives Believe About Themselves appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss spankings in episode 59. There’s much more to it than a hand and an ass. In this episode: Become our kinky patron at the $5 and up level,... The post Spankings LB059 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Hosted by Kayla Lords and John Brownstone, episode 58 of the Loving BDSM podcast focuses on discipline, punishment, and consequences for submissives in D/s relationships. In this episode: Buy my books and help send... The post Discipline, Punishment, and Consequences in D/s LB058 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host episode 57 and tackle a topic that doesn’t get much attention – how exactly does a submissive hold their Dominant accountable for their bad behavior? In this episode:... The post How to Hold Your Dominant Accountable appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 56 and talks about labels, how they can help you figure yourself out, using them to find a community, and rejecting labels for different reasons. In this episode: You can... The post Using Labels to Figure Out Your Kink LB056 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host episode 55 and talk about how expectations, wants, and needs in your D/s relationship can change over time – and what to do when that happens. And they... The post When Your Kinky Wants and Needs Change LB055 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are back for episode 54 of the Loving BDSM podcast. This week’s topic is about D/s breakups and how to (hopefully) make them suck a little less. In this... The post D/s Breakups LB054 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

John Brownstone joins Kayla Lords in episode 53 of the Loving BDSM podcast. This week they’ve taken a topic suggestion from a reader who wanted to know how to figure out when to safeword... The post When to Use Your Safeword LB053 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 52 of the Loving BDSM podcast and discusses low self esteem, trust issues, fear of being alone, and mental health issues and why none of these things should make you... The post You Deserve a Healthy D/s Relationship No Matter What Your Issues Are LB052 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host episode 51 also known as the one year anniversary of the Loving BDSM podcast! This week, in keeping with the one year anniversary theme, they discuss reviewing your... The post Reviewing Your D/s Relationship LB051 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

John Brownstone joins Kayla Lords in episode 50 to discuss a popular idea in most local kink communities – a submissive’s behavior is a reflection of their Dominant. In this episode: The Loving BDSM... The post Why Submissives are a Reflection of Their Dominant LB050 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 49 and discusses why dominants should express their emotions – good and bad, but especially the bad – and why it’s important to a long-term loving D/s relationship. In this... The post Why Dominants Should Express Their Emotions LB049 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

John Brownstone joins Kayla Lords in episode 48 to talk about training in a D/s relationship. In this episode: We’re planning for the one year anniversary of the podcast at the end of August... The post Training a Submissive in a D/s Relationship LB048 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 47, and it focuses on a lot of emails and messages that have come through about what’s okay and what’s not in a D/s relationship. In this episode: No John... The post Signs of a Bad or Failing D/s Relationship LB047 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 46 and takes on the topic of being both a parent and a kinkster in a D/s relationship. In this episode: I’m taking some time to slow down and regroup... The post Being a Parent in a D/s Relationship LB046 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 45 and talks about how a Dominant or submissive can take care of themselves, in or out of a relationship. In this episode: I’m feeling better because of John Brownstone’s... The post Self Care for Dominants and Submissives LB045 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

John Brownstone joins Kayla Lords for episode 44 where they discuss the different types of responsibilities a Dominant and a submissive can have in a relationship. In this episode: Get a free book on... The post The Responsibilities of a Dominant and a Submissive LB044 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 43 and answers a listener’s question: what are the rules for being a submissive? In this episode: Kinky patrons are always welcome. Support the podcast through Patreon! The sarcastic answer... The post Are There Rules for Being a Submissive? LB043 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 42 and answers a question a lot of listeners have been asking lately: “Where do I find a good Dominant?” In this episode: Want something to spice up your e-reader?... The post Where and How to Find a Good Dominant LB042 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

In episode 41, Kayla Lords answers a listener’s question – how do you handle the different roles in your life as a submissive, especially when those roles conflict or cause stress? In this episode:... The post How to Handle Multiple Roles as a Submissive LB041 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

After a week away, Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are back with a big topic. Episode 40 goes over tips and advice on how to effectively communicate in your D/s relationship. In this episode: Thanks to... The post Effective Communication in Your D/s Relationship LB040 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are together for episode 39 discussing both sub drop and Dom drop (yes, that’s a real thing): what it feels like, how to handle it, and how to help... The post Dealing with Drop for Subs and Doms LB039 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

In episode 38, Kayla Lords discusses what submissives and Dominants can do when vanilla life gets in the way and reminds everyone just how normal it is. Everyone has experienced some level of outside... The post When Vanilla Life Interferes With Your D/s Relationship LB038 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host this week’s episode and talk all about masturbation as a D/s couple! In this episode: We have a new microphone, and it is beautiful! Pictures are below. You... The post Masturbation as Part of a D/s Relationship LB037 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone come together for another episode together. They keep it short and sweet and discuss a big moment in their lives that created a disconnect and then a reconnect. In... The post Disconnecting and Reconnecting…and an Announcement LB036 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone team up again for another long episode covering a big topic – your needs in your D/s relationship. What to do when they’re not being met, how to handle... The post When Your Needs Aren’t Being Met LB035 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 34 and with Mother’s Day right around the corner in the U.S., she’s sharing how you can have kinky fun with sex toys – and gift ideas for the kinky... The post Kinky Sex Toy Fun for Mother’s Day LB034 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 33 and discusses a personal problem that probably affects other kinksters – she’s not able to do some of her favorite kinky things because she’s out of shape. In this... The post Being Physically Fit for Kink LB033 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

John Brownstone and Kayla Lords team up again in episode 32. This week’s episode takes on a question from a listener: what is the difference between a Daddy and a Sir? In this episode:... The post What’s the Difference Between a Daddy and a Sir? LB032 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are back again for another long, winding conversation. Episode 31 focuses on trust – building it and maintaining it – in a D/s relationship. From the show: Trust issues... The post Building and Maintaining Trust in a D/s Relationship LB031 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

John Brownstone joins Kayla Lords for episode 30 and this week’s topic is a big one: consent. Join them in a long and winding conversation about what consent means and look like in a... The post Consent Is More Than Yes or No in BDSM LB030 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, in episode 29, Kayla Lords hosts with a question: Why do subs have such a hard time accepting help from our Dominants? The question comes straight from a listener, and for once,... The post Why Do Subs Have a Hard Time Accepting Help from Our Doms? LB029 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 28 and discusses the big and small ways you can reconnect in your D/s relationship whether you’ve been apart for a while or your routine has been thrown off for... The post How to Reconnect In Your D/s Relationship LB028 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week, Kayla Lords is separated from John Brownstone by 600+ miles, and for six days, it’s back to the way things were in the long distance days. In episode 27, Kayla discusses how... The post Maintaining Your D/s Connection Even When Apart LB027 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 26 and instead of talking about how Dominants can get things very wrong, she takes on submissives and the red flags, poor behavior, and signs of misinformation that submissives can... The post Bad Behavior and Red Flags of Submissives LB026 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Welcome to episode 25 of the Loving BDSM podcast. This week’s show is hosted by Kayla Lords, and she’s discussing disagreements and arguments in D/s relationships. In this episode: Arguments and disagreements are completely... The post Disagreements and Arguments in D/s Relationships LB025 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts this week’s episode and discusses the common signs and red flags of a bad Dominant, when it’s abuse and not D/s, and what you can do if you find yourself in... The post Signs and Red Flags of a Bad Dominant LB024 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 23 and discusses a topic on the mind of most single kinky people: how do I find the right Dominant or submissive for me? In this episode: Sponsorships are available... The post Finding the Right D/s Partner for You LB023 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts this week’s episode and, through her stuffy nose and achy body, she discusses how Dominants and submissives should handle their D/s relationship during cold and flu season. In this episode: This... The post Being D/s During Cold and Flu Season LB021 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts this week’s show, and she’s discussing the very real truth that Dominants are (gasp!) not perfect, prone to normal human flaws, and shouldn’t be put up on a pedestal by submissives... The post Don’t Put Your Dominant on a Pedestal LB020 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host a special New Year’s Day episode dedicated to kinky resolutions – from silly to serious. In this show: Kayla shares her resolution ideas for submissives. John shares his... The post Make Your Kinky New Year’s Resolutions LB019 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone host this week’s episode of Loving BDSM. A quick “Merry Christmas” for all the listeners, and a little fun, kinking up a few Christmas songs. In this episode: Kayla... The post Kinking Our Favorite Christmas Songs LB018 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Late for Hanukkah and almost too late for Christmas, Kayla Lords hosts this week’s episode and discusses favorite toys for sexy, kinky fun that make great gifts to surprise your partner with – no... The post A Few of Our Favorite Sex Toys LB017 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week’s episode is hosted by Kayla Lords and shares advice with listeners on how to go about making the switch from a strictly vanilla relationship to D/s. A listener asked for a step-by-step... The post Making the Switch from Vanilla to D/s LB016 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts episode 15 and answers a listener’s questions about resets, something she’s referred to in passing several times. What is a reset? How do you know you need one? And what does... The post Resetting a Submissive’s Noisy Mind LB015 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are together for episode 14 and doing something a little different. In an unscripted episode, listeners can hear what negotiating changes can sound like in one D/s couple. They’ve... The post What Negotiations Can Sound Like LB014 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts this week’s episode and discusses the kind of financial control practiced in her D/s relationship with John Brownstone. The decision to give up or take financial control in any relationship isn’t... The post Financial Control In Our D/s Relationship LB013 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

In episode 12, Kayla Lords touches on one of the most important topics in the D/s and BDSM lifestyle – safety. From alcohol to safewords, she explains her views on what it means to... The post Staying Safe While Getting Kinky LB012 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

In episode 11, Kayla Lords answers a question from a listener about pubic hair in a D/s relationship, whether it’s a normal expectation of Dominants, and if it’s okay for a submissive to make... The post Baring it All: Discussing the Hair Down There LB011 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

John Brownstone and Kayla Lords are together again. This week the topic is sex and kinky fuckery in a D/s relationship. The episode is a question and answer format with plenty of talk about... The post Sex and Kink in a D/s Relationship LB010 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords talks about a special feature of her D/s relationship with John Brownstone – the Tough Love clause. It’s what allows her to “tell” her Daddy Dominant what she thinks he needs to... The post Adding a Tough Love Clause to a D/s Relationship LB009 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords discusses that moment when taking care of your Dominant makes you feel less submissive because you’re in charge of so much. It’s all about perception, and it may require thinking about what... The post When Taking Care of Your Dominant Makes You Feel Less Submissive LB008 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts this week’s episode, and it’s her longest solo show to date. She spends nearly 20 minutes discussing her tasks as a submissive in a D/s relationship. While there are no “correct”... The post Tasks in a D/s Relationship – LB007 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Hosted by both Kayla Lords and John Brownstone, episode six of Loving BDSM focuses on making the switch from a D/s to Daddy Dom/little dynamic. Many submissives admit to recognizing themselves in the descriptions... The post Making the Switch to a Daddy Dom/Little Dynamic – LB006 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week’s episode, hosted by Kayla Lords, addresses some common questions she receives from submissives about communication with their Dominants. Basically, submissives want to know if certain behaviors are normal or okay. Kayla’s answer?... The post LB005: Submissives Ask if Communication Issues are OK appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Kayla Lords hosts the third episode of Loving BDSM. This week’s topic: what does a good Dominant look like? And no, we’re not talking physical features. Instead of focusing on the bad Doms, this... The post What Does a Good Dominant Look Like? LB003 appeared first on Loving BDSM.

The second episode of Loving BDSM focuses on communicating with your Dominant partner. Another week with host Kayla Lords, but John Brownstone promises to make an appearance soon. From this episode… John Brownstone isn’t... The post Communicating With Your Dominant – LB002 appeared first on Loving BDSM.