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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are back with Lady Katerina, to finish up our conversation on Sacred Tobacco and get to know the Lady herself! Lady Katerina sits with us to talk about sacred tobacco, its role in her life and in her leather journey. You'll learn what the Kinky Bibliophile herself suggests as the best books to start with BDSM and kink. Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within): Link tree: https://linktr.ee/kinkybibliophile Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/7562397?sp=3 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/katandi Live to Love, Love to Live by Lady Katerina: https://a.co/d/f71CnfY Amazon Wish List: https://amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/13U3M216571XA?ref_=wl_share Books: The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy: https://a.co/d/gvBcKMY The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy: https://a.co/d/582aJ6c S&M 101 by Jay Wiseman: https://a.co/d/hU4V6D5 Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller and Molly Devon: https://a.co/d/fAaFX33 Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino: https://a.co/d/4SpHzBV Erotic Bondage by Jay Wiseman: https://a.co/d/bGiTCjK How to Be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM by Morpheus: https://a.co/d/ao6OfXg Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame, Jon Jacobs: https://a.co/d/0BMAJ68 Kinky History: A Rollicking Journey through Our Sexual Past, Present, and Future by Esmé Louise James: https://www.amazon.com/Kinky-History-Rollicking-Journey-through/dp/0593716906/ref=sr_1_1?crid=311G3X2CSUP11&keywords=Esme+Louise+James&qid=1700094039&sprefix=esme+louise+james%2Caps%2C291&sr=8-1 Podcasts: On Guard Salon: https://www.youtube.com/onguardcigarsalon All That and Mo: https://allthatandmo.com/ Watts the Safeword: https://www.wattsthesafeword.com/ The Kinky Tavern: https://linktr.ee/thekinkytavern Off the Cuffs: https://www.offthecuffs.org/ Kinky History: https://open.spotify.com/show/3IAhMsBbenZ9jJkVZGZx7I People/Organizations: Carter Johnson Leather Library: http://carterjohnsonlibrary.com/ Race Bannon: https://linktr.ee/bannonrace Mama Viola Johnson: https://fetlife.com/users/292007?sp=1 Judy Tallwing McCarthy 1987 IMsL: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Lizzm7AgbU A Big Thank You to our Patrons: Moon_goddess Sir Quill Lady Katerina Dopetastic Q Chris_Canned_Bread Join our Discord server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities! It's a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us! Check out The Kinky Tavern's socials and more! If you have any questions about the kink, BDSM, or Leather public, please send them to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. Support the podcast and our efforts to bring education, discussion, and awareness to the kink, BDSM, and Leather public! Amazon Wishlist Patreon Merch --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thekinkytavern/message
How do you live your authentic kink life when your needs don't match up with the BDSM community status quo? In part 1 (ep 203) Mollena Williams-Haas told us how returning to the leather community after parting ways sparked an unexpected journey of healing and growth. In this discussion, Mollena shares practical advice for digging past the stereotypical BDSM “supposed to's” in order to identify your needs and honor them. D/s relationships are about making life better for both doms and subs -- but how exactly do we go about that? Mollena has some helpful answers … Mollena Williams-Haas Bio Mollena is a writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller, sobriety fiend since March 2007, and Award-Winning Executive Pervert. Owned & collared by renowned contemporary composer Georg Friedrich Haas, she serves as his beloved slave, submissive, wife, servant, and Muse. February 2016 saw a groundbreaking piece about their relationship featured in the New York Times. They are also both the subject of the documentary The Artist and The Pervert. As a two-time leather title holder and kink educator, Mollena's viewpoints on Kink-related issues are frequently sought after by sources like The New York Times, Newsweek, Essence, Ebony, etc. A frequent guest expert on Dan Savage's “Savage Lovecast,” Tristan Taormino's “Sex Out Loud”, and Margaret Cho's “Monsters of Talk” podcast, she's even spoken about Kink at Harvard, Yale, and Princeton. Mollena is also the co-author of the “Toybag Guide: Taboo Play” and “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities”. A professional stage performer since age 5, Mollena's credits include The Wiz and co-starring with Danny Bonaduce in underground cult-classic America's Deadliest Home Video. Her short film, IMPACT, won “Cinekink's Best Experimental Film." Mollena's latest performance piece and movie is Hyena, a collaboration with her husband. Mollena also appeared on Sex with Sunny Megatron on Showtime. Her latest endeavor is The Kink Doula. (Mollena's Full Bio: http://www.mollena.com/about/ ) Episode 204 Helpful Links & Resources Part 1 of this discussion, Episode 203 https://sunnymegatron.com/mollena-williams-haas-bdsm-leather-community/ All That and Mo, Podcast hosted by Mollena Lee Williams Haas https://allthatandmo.com/ Kink Doula https://kinkdoula.com/ Mollena Lee Williams Haas Website http://www.mollena.com/ Mollena Lee Williams Haas Facebook https://www.facebook.com/mollena Mollena Lee Williams Haas Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mollena_lee_williams_haas/ Mollena Lee Williams Haas Twitter https://twitter.com/mollena Mollena Lee Williams Haas Patreon https://www.patreon.com/MollenaLeeWilliamsHaas Mollena on RISK! Episode 442 “Slave” https://soundcloud.com/riskshow/slave-by-mollena-williams-from-episode-442-slave Hyena Teaser Trailer https://youtu.be/UrAJji7qdwk The Artist and the Pervert Trailer https://youtu.be/ko_6bGeADGU The Artist and the Pervert Documentary on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Artist-Pervert-Georg-Friedrich-Haas/dp/B08NC5C1PK The Restrict Act Bill S. 686 https://www.congress.gov/bill/118th-congress/senate-bill/686/text ResistBot https://resist.bot/petitions Find & Contact your Legislators https://www.govtrack.us/congress/bills/118/s686/comment Chat GPT https://chat.openai.com/chat Sunny's Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/l/negotiationwb Sunny Megatron TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Episode 204 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 40% off Beducated's yearly pass https://beducate.me/pd2317-sunny and use code SUNNY Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Go to http://GreenChef.com/sunny60 and use code sunny60 to get 60% off plus free shipping Pleasure Podcasts Network https://www.pleasurepodcasts.com/ Sunny's On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/ 15% off most items from Stockroom https://bit.ly/sunnystockroom15 with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education: http://patreon.com/americansex
Do you need permission to ask for exactly what you want? When nonbinary queer switch and writer Leland Carina interviews Sarge and the GangBang Girls for an article in Leatherati.com, she is so impressed with what they do. As Leland marvels at 1) The 100% Consent-based Fantasy Fulfillment 2) The Negotiation that goes into each Scene 3) The Menu of Gang Bang styles that they offer, Leland realize that this is more than a mere writing assignment. This is a way to introduce someone they love to some next level pleasure (with their consent, of course) - and a chance to experience it, too! #Safe #Celebratory #Cathartic #Surprise #Public #Private #MilitaryTakedown Song: ‘Religion' (Zand) About the Storyteller: Leland Carina is a Bay Area artist, writer, performer, and teacher. She first came into leather over a decade ago in San Francisco. She has authored an extensive number of articles that have been published by Leatherati.com, PQ Monthly, SALACIOUS magazine, Kink.com, and more. Her photography has been shown at the Mark I Chester gallery, in SF Weekly, and in countless sexy PR campaigns. She has modeled for Folsom Street Fair, the Portland Dykes on Bikes, graced the cover of the SF Bay Guardian, and has been a bondage and fetish model for many photographers. She was named Leather Marshal of the SF Pride Parade in 2012 and Ms Oregon State Leather in 2018. Leland identifies as a non-binary queer switch and She/her or they/them pronouns work. She's a Femme Daddy and a power bottom who deeply enjoys D/s dynamics and hard play. In her spare time, she enjoys designing and creating her own latex outfits, beekeeping, and indulging her fetish for collecting plants. Episode links: Uberlube: Uberlube is a luxurious, high-grade silicone lubricant made from clean, body-friendly ingredients; it's just silicone with a little Vitamin E. Uberlube is Dixie's favorite lube, and they're offering Bawdy Storytelling listeners a special offer – 10% off and free shipping when you use my code “Dixie” at UberLube.com. That's 10% off and free shipping! LIVE SHOWS: SEATTLE: Bawdy Storytelling's ‘Feels like the First Time' is happening on Saturday, October 15th! It's been almost 3 years since we did Bawdy in Seattle, and this puppy is gonna sell out soon. We've got a new venue, new storytellers who are flying in to be on the Bawdy stage cause they've heard the Seattle audience is incredible. We're so excited about this joyful reunion with our Seattle community! Tell your friends about this Bawdy Live Event in 2 weeks, and Buy your Tickets now at https://bit.ly/BawdySeattle2022 PORTLAND AREA: I'm considering a Portland Meetup as I pass thru on my way to the Seattle show. Are you a Bawdy Storytelling fan who's interested in seeing Bawdy come to Portland? Do you wanna meet Dixie? Email Dix at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and if there's enough interest, we'll plan a Happy Hour gathering. Tell your friends to email me too - help us spread the word cause this will only work if there's adequate interest in a gathering (and in a Live Bawdy at a later date). Thanks! Patreon: Live shows are so hit and miss lately, and as we get close to a new year, I'm trying to figure out where to focus my energy. Do I spend money on equipment for online shows? Do I spend money on the exorbitant venues rate increases? There's so safety net for Performers, esp after the pandemic. As a Bawdy Patreon member, you support this important work and ensure that it continues. Join Bawdy's Patreon now and you get exclusive rewards when you join (like monthly free livestream tickets at the $10/mo level and ad-free podcast episodes) Bawdy needs your support, now more than ever. Join the family now at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Want to support Bawdy in another way? Every bit helps, and it's easy. Our donation links are: Venmo: Venmo.com/BawdyStorytelling Paypal: paypal.me/bawdystorytelling Zelle: BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com CashApp: $DixieDeLaTour And THANK YOU! Wanna get Motorboated onstage at our next live Bawdy? Become an #ApplauseTiddies Sponsor! As a sponsor, you choose the bra, you'll get a sneak peek at it onstage, and you'll get Motorboated in it, plus you get to name my bewbs for that month (they are currently named RedBear and Michael, can you do better?). I have a Bra Registry at A Revelation in Fit in Oakland CA, so let's do this thing, y'all! Contact BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com and let's make a plan. Wanna work with Dixie? Do you want to learn to tell a compelling, relatable personal true story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Whether it's getting onstage, Writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. 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Just answer 3 simple questions and you're IN! https://www.facebook.com/groups/360169851578316/ ProTip: Subscribe to the Bawdy Storytelling email list & you'll be notified of all upcoming storytelling workshops, livestreams, podcasts, live shows and Special Events first at https://bawdystorytelling.com/subscribe Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible! Team Bawdy is: Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker Sound Engineer: David Grosof Archivist / Video: Joe Moore Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney Live-streaming by Rubeun Tan and Ty McKenzie Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith & Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour & Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 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Lieutenant Uhura is up for a promotion – and she’s willing to EARN it! When the online registration form for the International Ms Leather conference requests a personal fantasy as part of your profile for the weekend, burlesque legend (and career Trekkie) Alotta Boutté types in one line: “To be Lieutenant Uhura, getting banged by Captain Kirk while sucking off Spock.” Oh, it’s on! Alotta’s friends and fellow freaks band together to make her Star Trek dreams come true in IMsL’s notorious dungeon. But should she let an emotionless Vulcan top her? Hmm, let’s find out! #HotelCon #Cosplay Song: ‘S & M’ by Rihanna Hosted by Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour Opening Music: 8 Miles Wide by Storm Large Sponsor: This episode brought to you by Clone-A-Willy. Take advantage of this special offer for Bawdy Storytelling podcast listeners: 20% off your entire order! Go to CloneAWilly.com and enter promo coded DIXIE at checkout to save Wanna feel beautiful? Check out Dark Garden corsetry! They just hit their goal on Kickstarter so they’ll be opening a store in New Orleans soon. They’re a San Francisco landmark, and Dixie will be wearing one of their creations onstage at this week’s 12 Year Anniversary shows Their website is at https://www.darkgarden.com/corsets/demicup-victorian (hey, that’s Alotta Boutté!) Love Bawdy Storytelling? Keep this podcast going by supporting our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy (new rewards are on the way, sign up now!) Or make a one-time donation via Paypal at BawdyStorytelling@gmail.com Shout-out to our Bang-O prize sponsors: You can win sexy prizes from Good Vibrations and Babeland at Bawdy’s live shows – or you can get your own at Good Vibrations https://www.goodvibes.com/ Babeland https://www.babeland.com/ Ain’t nothin’ on Earth like a LIVE Bawdy Storytelling! Here’s what’s coming up (we tend to sell out, so get your tickets in advance/right now): : February 23rd 2019: Bawdy’s Dirty Dozen 12 Year Anniversary (7 PM, San Francisco) http://bit.ly/Bawdy12YearAnniv February 23rd 2019: the Best of Bawdy (10 PM in San Francisco) http://bit.ly/BawdyBOBSF2019 Tickets and more info are available at BawdyStorytelling.com Want more Bawdy? www.BawdyStorytelling.com Follow us on Twitter: @Bawdy On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Like us at www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling Join us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/groups/46341 Support us on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Buy Dixie a Coffee at ko-fi.com/thanksbawdy Watch us on YouTube at http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Find out about upcoming podcast episodes – and if we’re coming to your city! – at www.BawdyStorytelling.com/subscribe (personal notes to Dixie are highly encouraged because I love hearing from you) Thank you to Team Bawdy: Podcast Producer: Marty Garcia Sound Engineer: David Grosof Project Manager: Dana Hanna Archivist /Video: Joe Moore
This week, MisKnickers traveled to the fair city of Castlemaine to sit down with Angela Saide (aka girl ang) to discuss leather. Angela discusses her experience working with leather and her involvement with the Leather Community. Our Kink is also supporting Angela in her bid to claim the International Ms Leather (IMsL) title in California this year, and MisKnickers talked with her about what's involved in running for the title, how her campaign is progressing, who is supporting her, and her excitement at the chance to win an international title and, in the process, give something back to the Victorian Leather Community. Learn more about IMsL and IMsBB (International Ms Bootblack) here Find Angela on: Twitter Facebook Instagram And check out Little Miss Leather on Facebook kofiwidget2.init('Buy Us A Covfefe?', '#77081a', 'G2G1DJ37');kofiwidget2.draw();
This week Woody & the Beast found a very interesting lady. May Waters, aka LadySkyDive, has been involved in the lifestyle (BDSM and Swing) for a few years now with her husband MrSkydive. We were surprised how out in the open she was with her life, so we wanted to learn more. She has been roped and suspended and found she truly loved it. The feeling of being nude, bound, exposed and totally vulnerable is something it's hard for her to even describe. With her love of rope, she ventured into flogging and enjoyed it, leading to electro… And so much more. May is a moderate pain level submissive. Never afraid to try new things but do prefer more of the pleasure part vs the pain part. Follow the link to here site. Part two of today’s show… At the SouthEast LeatherFest 2017 Girl Complex speaks with the Beast, in one of her first interviews since winning the 2017 IMsL title. GC talks about her journey blazing trails to traditional male only clubs on her way to the title. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/190---lady-skydive--girl.html
There is something so delicious in talking about something that I have so little experience with. This week's chat with Princess Kali is just that - a fun, playful talk about erotic humiliation, objectification, mastering kink, and being a Dominatrix. It's rich, it's approachable, and it's terribly intriguing. Throughout the episode, Princess Kali drops truthbomb after truthbomb. I adore her story of how she got started as a stripper and Dominatrix. It's not often you find a woman who recognizes that men will be objectifying her simply because she's a woman, and so decides to make a profit off of that behavior. We dig into what humiliation is and why people crave it, how you can tap into your inner Dominant, and what happens when people stifle and ignore their deep sexual desires. Plus, tips for getting your submissive involved in scene planning! As Princess Kali says, kink is a team sport. I can't wait for you to hear this chat. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. Resources discussed in this episode KinkAcademy.com - over 1400 educational videos on kink "Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation" About Princess Kali Princess Kali takes her kink seriously and has spent over fourteen years exploring not only the how but the why of alternative lifestyles. Her experience working as a professional dominatrix has given her a unique understanding of the motivations behind erotic humiliation play as well as a passion for helping people participate in it more safely and enjoyably. Her dynamic and engaging style of presenting has been welcomed at more than 150 venues including kink events such as Dark Odyssey, Fetish Fair Fleamarket, Kink in the Caribbean, and IMsL as well as mainstream venues such as Harvard University and SXSW. Princess Kali is currently focusing on personal coaching and group workshops to help people safely discover their own style of kink with the benefit of her experience and guidance. Kali resides in the San Francisco area but travels often for workshops and events. You can also follower her on Twitter @princess_kali. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". You know I love hearing from you, so here's how to reach the show Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)
I had a great time talking to Pat and Sharrin from The International Ms Leather event talking about the history of the event, bootblacks, their extraordinary experiences in the Leather scene, community, old guard and so much more. IMSL is […]