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Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife
The Surprising Truth About BDSM with Sir Leezus | Ep. 93, Part 2

Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife

Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 15:38


Some people say kink is just about pain. Others think it's only for people with trauma. Some have never given it a second thought—and then there are those who know exactly what their kink is… or at least think they do. But what if kink is about more than any of that?In this episode, I sit down with Sir Leezus, a sensual sadist and erotic power exchange expert, to talk about what really draws people into kink. Is it healing? Is it about control? Is it even sex at all? For some, kink happens without a single touch below the belt—but the emotional intimacy? That can run deeper than any bedroom encounter.We explore why so many people—especially in midlife—start to unlock new layers of desire after years of silence or shame. And how things like spanking, submission, and even humiliation can become powerful tools for rediscovering connection, pleasure, and self-trust.If you've ever felt like something's missing, or like your desires don't fit the standard mold… this conversation might make more sense than you expect. Let's get into it.Timestamps:In This Episode:(00:00) - Introduction(00:40) - Sir Leezus: His roles as sex educator, kink advisor, and "sensual sadist dominant."(01:13) - What is a sensual sadist dominant?(02:20) - BDSM vocab 101: Bondage, Dominance, Submission & Sadomasochism(04:00) - Can kink be healing from past trauma?(07:20) - Does BDSM always involve sex?(09:06) - Pain and pleasure: Understanding masochism(11:42) - How midlife women discover kink (and what opens them up)(15:25) - Safety, vetting, and how to trust a partner in kink(19:16) - Definitions: Dom vs. Top, Sub vs. Bottom, Switches(21:46) - What's a Stag and Vixen dynamic?(22:54) - Hotwifing vs. Cuckolding(24:50) - Penis humiliation? Understanding the mental side of masochism(25:58) Relationship between certain kinks and past trauma(26:06) - Reclaiming trauma through consensual non-consent(27:35) - Sir Leezus defines sex in his own words(28:18) - Where to find and work with Sir LeezusKaren Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastAbout the Guest:Sir Leezus is a performance artist, sensual sadist, and BDSM educator with years of experience in erotic power exchange and kink dynamics. He offers private sessions, coaching, and education to individuals and couples who want to explore new layers of intimacy, pleasure, and consent. Known for his approachable yet deeply knowledgeable style, he's on a mission...

Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife
The Surprising Truth About BDSM with Sir Leezus | Ep. 93, Part 1

Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 15:08


Some people say kink is just about pain. Others think it's only for people with trauma. Some have never given it a second thought—and then there are those who know exactly what their kink is… or at least think they do. But what if kink is about more than any of that?In this episode, I sit down with Sir Leezus, a sensual sadist and erotic power exchange expert, to talk about what really draws people into kink. Is it healing? Is it about control? Is it even sex at all? For some, kink happens without a single touch below the belt—but the emotional intimacy? That can run deeper than any bedroom encounter.We explore why so many people—especially in midlife—start to unlock new layers of desire after years of silence or shame. And how things like spanking, submission, and even humiliation can become powerful tools for rediscovering connection, pleasure, and self-trust.If you've ever felt like something's missing, or like your desires don't fit the standard mold… this conversation might make more sense than you expect. Let's get into it.Timestamps:(00:00) - Introduction(00:47) - Sir Leezus: His roles as sex educator, kink advisor, and "sensual sadist dominant."(01:18) - What is a sensual sadist dominant?(02:23) - BDSM vocab 101: Bondage, Dominance, Submission & Sadomasochism(03:53) - Can kink be healing from past trauma?(07:18) - Does kink always involve sex?(08:37) - Pain and pleasure: Understanding masochism(10:42) - How midlife women discover kink (and what opens them up)Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastAbout the Guest:Sir Leezus is a performance artist, sensual sadist, and BDSM educator with years of experience in erotic power exchange and kink dynamics. He offers private sessions, coaching, and education to individuals and couples who want to explore new layers of intimacy, pleasure, and consent. Known for his approachable yet deeply knowledgeable style, he's on a mission to break down shame and open up new paths to pleasure.Connect with Sir Leezus:Website: https://sirleezus.com/Instagram: https://instagram.com/sirr.leezusAvailable for sessions, performances, and kink consultations.Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative...

You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist
130. Queers for Palestine? The Paradoxes of Woke Sadomasochism with Maral Salmassi

You Must Be Some Kind of Therapist

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 30:33


Have you ever wondered why far left Gen Z activists idealize foreign cultures halfway across the planet while diminishing their own, to the point of holding beliefs that seem paradoxical or even delusional? Today's brilliant guest, Maral Salmassi, helps us explore the complex dynamics of the "Queers for Palestine" movement and the sadomasochistic interpersonal dynamics that can emerge within woke culture.Maral draws on the psychological frameworks of Erich Fromm to unpack the internal conflicts that fuel these behaviors. Are we witnessing a projection of powerlessness that leads to sadistic control over dissenting voices? As we navigate these intricate themes, we also touch on the implications of cluster B personality traits in social movements. In order to better understand ideologically captured youth, what do mature thinkers need to know about psychological phenomena such as splitting, projection, idealization and devaluation, and the Karpman Drama Triangle of victim, rescuer and persecutor? What role does social media play in amplifying these dynamics, and how does it contribute to identity fragmentation among vulnerable individuals?Join us as we dissect the paradoxes of ideological purity and the logical fallacies that can arise in the pursuit of social justice. Tune in to discover Maral's insights and my reflections on these pressing questions that resonate deeply in today's cultural landscape. Today's format deviates from the norm as Maral reads a thoughtfully scripted monologue prepared exclusively for my listeners, and I respond with my asynchronous reflections.Maral Salmassi was born in Tehran, Iran, and spent her early years in Iran, Jordan, and Israel, where her father was a diplomat under the Shah. Her mother, a literature teacher, nurtured her appreciation for culture and the arts. Following the fall of the Shah and the outbreak of the Iran-Iraq war, her family fled Iran in 1986, settling in Germany. Salmassi pursued an education in Media Art in Cologne, which provided a foundation for her future endeavors. She is also a self-taught music producer and sound engineer. Since 1997, she has shaped culture as an artist, producer, and entrepreneur, initially in Cologne and later in Berlin. Her work is influenced by her diverse cultural background and a strong interest in sociopolitics and psychology. She also spent a brief period living in France, contributing to her multicultural perspective.Books mentioned in this episode:The Anatomy of Human Destructiveness by Erich FrommEscape from Freedom by Erich FrommThe Coddling of the American Mind by Jonathan Haidt and Greg Lukianoff00:00 Start[00:00:10] Ideological purity in woke culture.[00:05:06] Sadomasochism in Queers for Palestine.[00:08:07] Polarizing content and identity.[00:12:20] Gameable heuristics in society.[00:17:34] Victim mentality and self-interest.[00:20:10] Reaction formation and its implications.[00:24:46] Woke beliefs and self-interest.[00:27:25] Sadomasochism and entitlement dynamics.ROGD REPAIR Course + Community for Parents is available now! Are you concerned about an adolescent or young adult with Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria? Join at ROGDrepair.com and get instant access to over 100 lessons designed to equip you with the psychological insights and communication tools you need to get through to your kid. Use code SOMETHERAPIST2024 to take 50% off your first month.TALK TO ME: book a discovery call.LOCALS: Ask questions of me & guests; get early access to new episodes + exclusive content. Join my community.SUPPORT THE SHOW: subscribe, like, comment, & share or donate.EIGHTSLEEP: Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST.ORGANIFI: Take 20% off Organifi with code SOMETHERAPIST.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration. SHOW NOTES & transcript with help from SwellAI.MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission.PRODUCTION: Looking for your own podcast producer? Visit PodsByNick.com and mention my podcast for 20% off your initial services. To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel. Or recommend this to a friend!Learn more about Do No Harm.Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com.Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi.Check out my shop for book recommendations + wellness products.Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI.Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? Join my Locals community! Members get to ask questions I will respond to in exclusive, members-only livestreams, post questions for upcoming guests to answer, plus other perks TBD. ★ Support th...

Timesuck with Dan Cummins
417 - The Slavemaster: Serial Killer John Edward Robinson

Timesuck with Dan Cummins

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 172:24


This one is a doozy! John Edward Robinson may be the most intelligent serial killer I've ever come across. This guy fooled so, so many people with over 40 years of brazen crimes. Doctors, psychiatrists, detectives, and so, so many victims. In addition to being a serial killer, this BDSM-obsessed dirtbag, scammed hundreds if not thousands of people for four decades. Merch and more: www.badmagicproductions.com Timesuck Discord! https://discord.gg/tqzH89vWant to join the Cult of the Curious PrivateFacebook Group? Go directly to Facebook and search for "Cult of the Curious" to locate whatever happens to be our most current page :)For all merch-related questions/problems: store@badmagicproductions.com (copy and paste)Please rate and subscribe on Apple Podcasts and elsewhere and follow the suck on social media!! @timesuckpodcast on IG and http://www.facebook.com/timesuckpodcastWanna become a Space Lizard? Click here: https://www.patreon.com/timesuckpodcast.Sign up through Patreon, and for $5 a month, you get access to the entire Secret Suck catalog (295 episodes) PLUS the entire catalog of Timesuck, AD FREE. You'll also get 20% off of all regular Timesuck merch PLUS access to exclusive Space Lizard merch. And you get the download link for my secret standup album, Feel the Heat.

The Dildorks
When Hard Feelings Make You Hard

The Dildorks

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 58:52


Sadomasochism isn't just physical – many kinksters play with pain and discomfort in the emotional and psychological realms, too. This week we're discussing the art of emotional S&M! What is Emotional S&M? | Enough to Make You Blush | Emotional vs. Psychological | Hot Ones | Hurts So Good | Grown-Up Playtime | Healing | Winning | Topping | Communication Tools | Channeling Bad Impulses | Abuse | Generating Ideas Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.

Sex Help for Smart People
Exploring BDSM: Interview with Femme Domme Thistle Rose

Sex Help for Smart People

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2024 45:23


This episode is a must for anyone diving into or interested in dipping a toe into the world of BDSM. We cover everything from basic definitions: what is BDSM? How is it different from kink? What are the differences among Dom(mme)/Sub play, Sadomasochism, and Bondage and Discipline? How do you find a local scene or partners? What are some things to watch out for? What are some of the best things about BDSM and what kind of freedom might you find in that type of sexual play? I'm joined by Femme Domme and fellow coach Thistle AKA Coach Rose. You can find her at: https://www.thistleandrosecoaching.com/ or on Fetlife under Coach Thistle. Get the free guide Find Your Secret Turn Ons to discover the roadmap to your best sex life at https://laurajurgens.com. You can also learn more about me and how to inquire about coaching availability. Get a transcript of this episode by going to https://sexhelpforsmartpeople.buzzsprout.com/ Click on the episode, then choose the transcript tab.

Sex med Dr. Brochmann

For noen er BDSM et krydder i hverdagen, for andre en livsstil. Er verden blitt helt fucka eller er vi endelig på vei mot frigjort sex?Dagens gjester er sexforsker Nantje Fischer og fetisjist Henriette Aurtande.Kilder:● Langdridge & Barker, Ed. Safe, Sane and Consensual: Contemporary Perspectives on Sadomasochism. Palgrave Macmillan, 2007● Eric Berkowitz. Sex and Punishment: 4000 Years of Judging Desire. The Westbourne Press, 2012.● Will McMorran. ‘The most impure tale ever written': how The 120 Days of Sodom became a ‘classic.'The Guardian, 7 Oct 2016.● Herbenick et al. “What Is Rough Sex, Who Does It, and Who Likes It? Findings from a Probability Sample of U.S. Undergraduate Students.” Arch Sex Behav, 2021.● Herbenick et al. “Diverse Sexual Behaviors in Undergraduate Students.” J Sex Med, 2021.● Herbenick et al. “Prevalence and characteristics of choking/strangulation during sex.” J Am Coll Health, 2023.● Træen, Fischer & Kvalem. “Sexual Variety in Norwegian Men and Women of Different Sexual Orientations and Ages.” Journal of Sex Research, 2021.● Kutchinsky. «Erotik, erotika og pornografi. Et essay om køn, kultur, kærlighed og kiosklitteratur.» Nordisk Sexologi,1988.● Bente Træen. “Norwegian young adults' attitudes toward and experience with kinky sexual activities.” Psykologisk.no, 2016.

Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast
Ep 37: BDSM Basics – Sadomasochism

Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 19:52


In this episode of BDSM Basics, we're taking it back to basics... literally. Sadomasochism: what is it? Where did it come from? How can you explore it? Listen now, you sadistic/masochistic freaks! Timestamps:00:00:03 - Introduction to BDSM Basics00:01:44 - Defining Sadism and Masochism00:02:32 - Origins of Sadism00:03:46 - Marquis de Sade's Novel "Justine"00:04:30 - Historical Context of Sadism00:05:36 - Marquis de Sade's Reputation00:06:21 - Origins of Masochism00:07:25 - Psychiatry and BDSM in History00:08:11 - Therapy and BDSM Today00:09:07 - Power Dynamics in Sadism00:09:38 - Control and Submission in Masochism00:11:00 - The Sensation of Pain in BDSM00:12:04 - Differentiating BDSM Pain from Other Pain00:12:44 - Importance of Consent and Control00:13:48 - Psychological Aspects of Pain Enjoyment00:14:53 - Sexual Arousal and Pain00:15:28 - BDSM Play Without Sexual Context00:16:09 - Advice for Exploring BDSM00:17:02 - Choosing the Right Play Partner00:17:38 - Blood Play and Safety Precautions00:18:19 - Closing Remarks and Contact InformationFollow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter.Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. 

Keys of the Kingdom
2/10/24: John 6

Keys of the Kingdom

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2024 115:00


Finishing John 4; Creeping fear; John's sequencing; "Q"uote gospels; Baptizing; John 9 blind man parental story; Doubt; Christ's system of welfare; "Corban"; "logos"; Spirit-giving life; Making God's word to none effect; Covetous practices; Sabbath; "Leviathan"; Robbing Ephesus = world bank; Witches; Christ's living water; Your available choices; God's still-small voice; The right reason of God; HHC Podcasts; Unleavened bread; Auroras; Carrington event; John 6:1; Logging story; Feeding of 5000 (men); "Make" them sit (pipto); Relating to Exodus; Who Christ came for; How the multitudes were fed; Teaching care; The bigger miracle; Organizing yourselves; John 6:11; Sharing is essential; vs Forced offerings; Be not afraid; Rice-bowl Christians; True bread from heaven; The source of life; Predestination?; Loving the light; The real Jesus; Christian cannibalism; John 6:60; Q: Abraham and his son; Long life spans; Child sacrifice?; Listening to the fallen; Giving life - pure religion; Sadomasochism; "Evil"; Extra-biblical Abraham; Haran's death penalty; Isaac's succession; Abraham's altars; Sacrificing Isaac; Priests of the family; Taxing Abraham?; Early sheriffs and support; Come together.

I Need You To Like Musicals
Little Shop of Horrors & Jekyll and Hyde: Spooky Scary Sadomasochism

I Need You To Like Musicals

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2023 128:12


Better late than never when it comes to Halloween episodes, you're welcome. I can't really remember whether or not this gets dicier than usual, so MAYBE don't listen with children? I don't know. Do whatever you feel is right and happy Thanksgiving, I guess. 

The Kinky Tavern
Episode 109: Lady Katerina's Indigenous Perspective of Cigar Service Part Two

The Kinky Tavern

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2023 41:44


Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are back with  Lady Katerina, to finish up our conversation on Sacred Tobacco and get to know the Lady herself! Lady Katerina sits with us to talk about sacred tobacco, its role in her life and in her leather journey. You'll learn what the Kinky Bibliophile herself suggests as the best books to start with BDSM and kink.  Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within): Link tree: https://linktr.ee/kinkybibliophile   Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/7562397?sp=3 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/katandi  Live to Love, Love to Live by Lady Katerina: https://a.co/d/f71CnfY  Amazon Wish List: https://amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/13U3M216571XA?ref_=wl_share Books: The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy: https://a.co/d/gvBcKMY  The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy: https://a.co/d/582aJ6c  S&M 101 by Jay Wiseman: https://a.co/d/hU4V6D5  Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller and Molly Devon: https://a.co/d/fAaFX33  Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino: https://a.co/d/4SpHzBV   Erotic Bondage by Jay Wiseman: https://a.co/d/bGiTCjK  How to Be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM by Morpheus: https://a.co/d/ao6OfXg  Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame, Jon Jacobs: https://a.co/d/0BMAJ68  Kinky History: A Rollicking Journey through Our Sexual Past, Present, and Future by Esmé Louise James: https://www.amazon.com/Kinky-History-Rollicking-Journey-through/dp/0593716906/ref=sr_1_1?crid=311G3X2CSUP11&keywords=Esme+Louise+James&qid=1700094039&sprefix=esme+louise+james%2Caps%2C291&sr=8-1  Podcasts: On Guard Salon: https://www.youtube.com/onguardcigarsalon  All That and Mo: https://allthatandmo.com/  Watts the Safeword: https://www.wattsthesafeword.com/  The Kinky Tavern: https://linktr.ee/thekinkytavern  Off the Cuffs: https://www.offthecuffs.org/  Kinky History: https://open.spotify.com/show/3IAhMsBbenZ9jJkVZGZx7I People/Organizations: Carter Johnson Leather Library: http://carterjohnsonlibrary.com/  Race Bannon: https://linktr.ee/bannonrace  Mama Viola Johnson: https://fetlife.com/users/292007?sp=1  Judy Tallwing McCarthy 1987 IMsL:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Lizzm7AgbU  A Big Thank You to our Patrons: Moon_goddess Sir Quill Lady Katerina Dopetastic Q Chris_Canned_Bread Join our ⁠Discord⁠ server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities! It's a great place to chat about sex, kink, bdsm, or whatever! You can ask questions, find out what the next episodes are going to be about, suggest topics, and just chat with us! ⁠Check out The Kinky Tavern's socials and more!⁠ If you have any questions about the kink, BDSM, or Leather public, please send them to us on whatever platform you have access to. If you ask a question and it is featured in an episode, you will get a shout-out for that account unless you request to be anonymous. Support the podcast and our efforts to bring education, discussion, and awareness to the kink, BDSM, and Leather public! ⁠Amazon Wishlist⁠ ⁠Patreon⁠ Merch --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thekinkytavern/message

F*ck Yeah
F*ck Yeah to Sadomasochism with Sheree Rose

F*ck Yeah

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2023 70:22


The legendary Sheree Rose, also know to listeners as Robin's kink root, joins us for an enlightening conversation about her Kink legacy. We discuss her Sadomasochistic musings that intertwine art, power dynamics, and pain. From her monogamous marriage, to her partnership with Bob Flanagan starting in 1980 until his death in 1996, to her more recent 12 year collaboration with Martin O-Brien, Sheree approaches kink as art and kinky art as commentary on oppressive systems. We learn about her and Bob's early exhibitions at the New Museum of NY and Santa Monica Museum, the Society of Janice, the women's group, Leather and Lace, and the inspiration Sheree pulls from the Goddess Kali. This conversation is rich with queer, feminist and kink history. CW: this episode explores heavy BDSM, cock and ball torture, and cystic fibrosis. Take cate while listening. We close out the episode with Sarah introducing Robin to one of Bob Flanagan's pieces, "Why," that she uses when training professionals about Kink dynamics. The piece was featured in the documentary Sick: The Life and Death of Bob Flanagan, Supermasochist (1997) Dir. Kirby Dick. You can watch it here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nWtgdnuNiKQDon't forget to follow up on IG & TT @fuckyeahpod.Sign up for our newsletter at www.fuckyeahpod.comEmail us at fyeahpod@gmail.com

Psykoterapeuter pratar på
#28: Sadomasochism - mycket mer än sex

Psykoterapeuter pratar på

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2023 47:49


Vi har alla sadistiska och masochistiska sidor i vår personlighet. Vi pratar om vilka uttryck detta kan ta sig i både yttre och inre värld. Uppläsning: Jan Coster Inspelning, mix och vinjett av Anders Augustsson. Musik: Dom andra med Kent och Lift me up med Rihanna Bild: Bilder av Markis de Sade och Leopold von Sacher-Masoch

The Horror Project Podcast
Episode 89 - Hellraiser (1987)

The Horror Project Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2023 55:09


Welcome to the Horror Project Podcast. Join hosts Phil and Laura as they review Hellraiser (1987).We are introduced to Frank and his extreme quest to discover the next level of pleasure, which as you can guess is probably not worth it (possibly)!?!?The chalk and cheese family dynamic between brothers, Larry and Frank. And of course we discuss the Cenobite's, a colourful bunch of demonic beings summoned by the incomprehensible - Lament Configuration.Plus we shall be finding a place on the leaderboard for the movie during our Ranking.We hope you enjoy the show, thanks for listening!Email - Horrorprojectpodcast@hotmail.com  Twitter - @TheHorrorProje1Instagram - horrorprojectpodcastTikTok - @horrorprojectpodcast

Turn Me On
272 - Fuck My Heart - Demisexuality and Sadomasochism

Turn Me On

Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2023 53:50


Paula Dreidemie is a professional dominatrix via Kaufmich.com, a social network for sex workers. She is a 32-year-old Latina who has written a poetry book and is now in the process of writing a novel, whilst living and working in Paris as she currently owns a dungeon. The hosts chat with Paula about her chosen subject: LOVE. The hosts chat with Paula about love as a fetish and a sadomasochist act, and ponder the question, where does love lead for someone who doesn't dream of the house the dogs the kids and the happily ever after? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Good Sex
Modern Pleasure Podcast: Let's Define Kinky Sex

Good Sex

Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2023 20:38


Kim and Dr. Jenni dive into the definition of "Kinky" and discuss the pros and cons of BDSM (Bondage, Dominatrix, Sadomasochism) and learn the difference between light kink and heavy play in this very informative and real discussion.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Boreas Podcast
14 - Poverty Is Sadomasochism

Boreas Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2023 47:30


"In reaction to the continuous humiliation that is poverty, the underprivileged enter a life of self-destructive sadomasochism, which according to René Girard is the final state of all frustrated desires."The poor aren't fine. They are possessed by demons, and the demons are the privileged. So they can't pull themselves up by their bootstraps. Neither can they be healed by money alone. What they need is an exorcism.

The Kinky Tavern
Episode 78: A Meeting of Minds Pt.2 with Master Dennis and slave xiaoyi

The Kinky Tavern

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2023 39:30


This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen sit down with Master Dennis and slave xiaoyi to talk about the Crossroads Annex of the Carter Johnson Library and Collection! If you've never heard about the Carter Johnson Library and Collection, you're in for one hell of a treat! This first half of the interview will cover who Master Dennis and slave xiaoyi are and how they came to work with CJLC. The second part, next week, will contain a wealth of information about Carter Johnson Library and Collection as well as suggestions to add to your reading/following/listening/watching lists! Kinky Social Opportunity: In our Discord server(https://tr.ee/AQzGuhdsrY), we are hosting a monthly Free Fur All Q&A Social Session (the last Sunday of the month at 6:00 pm CST, donations appreciated but not required) as well as a monthly class with rotating and guest educators! Join our Discord server! Includes discussion, input for episodes, and education opportunities! Discord Guest Links and links mentioned in the episode: CrossroadsLLaC Fetlife - https://fetlife.com/users/14781283  xiaoyi  Fetlife - https://fetlife.com/users/965019  Website - https://www.slaveheartbootblack.com/  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/xiaoyi_slaveheartbootblack  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/xiaoyi.Drake  Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/xiaoyi  Twitter - https://twitter.com/XiaoyiSHBB?s=20 Master-Dennis  Fetlife - https://fetlife.com/users/104188  Email - MasterDennis736@gmail.com  Master Asriel_Rose Fetlife https://fetlife.com/users/124960  Tales from the stand - bootblack stories - within book “The Passion of Bootblacking” - https://a.co/d/hkNHJme  Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence - https://www.thesisters.org/  Dragon Clan - https://fetlife.com/groups/7078  The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love Paperback by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton - https://a.co/d/5KnmLwj  The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton - https://a.co/d/4P7HozV The New Bottoming Book by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton - https://a.co/d/4P7HozV  Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by by Molly Devon and Philip Miller - https://a.co/d/csUtsan  The Loving Dominant by John Warren - https://a.co/d/ga7T6WT Carter Johnson Library and Collection http://carterjohnsonlibrary.com/ https://www.facebook.com/CarterJohnsonLibrary https://www.pinterest.com/cjllibraries/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXsUpgtuH4WbgbV73LnuoWQ https://twitter.com/CJ_Library https://www.instagram.com/cj_library/  Librarian Speaks events - Mama Vi shares stories about the history of leather - https://fetlife.com/groups/25795/posts/22329931  Triple Hexxx - https://www.tiktok.com/@triplexhexxx The Puppy Papers: A Woman's Life and Journey into BDSM - by Puppy Sharon and Steven Toushin - https://a.co/d/5p0wIRe  Woof!: Perspectives Into The Erotic Care & Training of The Human Dog (Boner Books) by Michael Daniels - https://a.co/d/6Bl6vtD  The Passion of Bootblacking by Amelia Horo - https://a.co/d/gzzVuVP  Goddess Indigo & Dr Bob's books - ​​https://a.co/d/iJGuBXZ and https://a.co/d/2M1yOvZ  MasterWrathDaddy - https://fetlife.com/users/2808435?sp=1  The Leather Journal - https://www.theleatherjournal.com/  Support the podcast! New audio equipment is something both of our studios need! Amazon Wishlist Patreon Support Allen with the continuing costs of their wreck: CashApp: Allensworld111 Other Resources: Gynecologists who will perform a tubal sterilization BDSM/Kink Resources and Media A Big Thank You to our Patron: Moon_goddess Check out The Kinky Tavern's socials and more!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thekinkytavern/message

Boreas Podcast
12 - Sadomasochism

Boreas Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2023 55:02


According to René Girard, sadomasochists have an obsessive yet accurate understanding that all desire feeds on obstacles placed between it and its goal. The obstacle, and the pain it creates, convince desire that transcendence is within reach. For sadomasochists, this pain is the sacrament through which they partake of that evasive transcendental being that is the goal of all desire.

Skeleton Factory Podcast
Rozz Williams, Death Rock, Sadomasochism, Suicide And Fascism.

Skeleton Factory Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2023 90:58


Hello everyone! Its Adam. On this episode I review two short films. The first is PIG, co-directed by Christian Death lead singer Rozz Williams and Nico B. The second short film is 1334, a sequel of sorts to PIG. Also, I'll review Viva La Muerte. A weird as hell story about a young boy dealing with the imprisonment of his father by the anti-communist government during the Spanish Civil War. Enjoy. On This Episode: PIG (1998) 1334 (2012) Viva La Muerte (1971) *Support the show at: patreon.com/skeletonfactory --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/skeletonfactory/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/skeletonfactory/support

BDSM United Podcasts
BDSM Philosophy

BDSM United Podcasts

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2023 12:33


Think for a moment about the traditions that are commonly called Old Guard. The term itself describes a philosophy, not a group per se. A group of people existed that formed and worked toward developing this philosophy. Today we talk about the two main philosophies of BDSM that exist today and how BDSM history is unique from SM history. Recommended reading is A Lover's Pinch: A Cultural History of Sadomasochism https://amzn.to/3JUfz9Z --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bdsmunited/support

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Chronic Pain Management thru BDSM-S04E34

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2022 46:57


Recorded: 5/29/2022 / Published: 12/10/2022- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode of The Krypt we are talking about managing our pain with BDSM.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Chronic Pain Management thru BDSM-S04E34”“Why Chronic Pain Sufferers Are Turning to BDSM” by Emma Madden, September 25, 2019For some folks, pain is the default setting. BDSM offers them a way to control the volume.“No pain, no gain” is a rallying slogan employed at both the beauty parlor and at the gym. Sometimes after a workout, you might even get a massage, which is quite literally the act of inflicting pain to the point of relaxation.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/434National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Maxi, Nix_09, and DarlingTN and Sarge- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, Mr. Byond, CurtainCall, SubmissiveKay, TrinityFae, and AK-47- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Art Kitten, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, CourtsDom, Gator & Gizmo, Jon Shaw, Ben, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, FetishArtist, Frozen Moron, Kitten399, Katiee, Koitsukihime(AD), Artemis, Lily ,SirBNice, Neil, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, Rope Aficionado, Brodie, Lexa, Ashley, and MegVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

The Josh Boone Show
#27: Erik Everhard – Ayahuasca, Performance Anxiety & Life as a Porn Star

The Josh Boone Show

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2022 167:55


Mitchell Hartwell, known professionally as Erik Everhard, is a Canadian pornographic actor and director known for gonzo pornography films.Since 1995 he's performed in over 2,400 films, been featured in GQ and Playboy, and has won 15 AVN awards and over 50 other adult film industry awards.Recently he's turned author, speaker, and men's coach, holding a masters level NLP certification. After working with over 5000 women and seeing the common threads between them, he's begun helping entrepreneurs & executives learn how to master the bedroom like they dominate the boardroom.Some of the topics we dive into are:00:00:00 Introduction00:02:18 From Porn to Men's Coaching00:05:53 Neuro-Linguistic Programming00:08:37 His Ayahuasca Experiences in Ukraine0:12:18 The Differences Ayahuasca, Psilocybin, LSD, and DMT00:20:00 The Benefits of Psilocybin in Improving Relationships00:23:27 The Impact of Toxic People & Relationships00:35:03 The Porn Industry in the early 2000s00:36:18 Erik's Journey into Porn00:40:39 The Dangers of Viagra00:42:17 The Perception of Male Porn Stars00:50:38 The Negative and Positive Impacts of Porn00:53:55 The Different Flavors of Polyamory01:00:17 Tinder and Sexual Exploration in America01:02:00 Asexuality and the Desire for Intimacy01:04:50 The Pros and Cons of Monogamy vs. Polyamory01:09:48 Scarcity Mindset in Relationships01:13:04 The Mental Game of Entrepreneurship01:19:47 Letting Go and Overcoming Anxiety01:21:34 Filming a Public Sex Scene in Budapest.01:29:04 The Perks of Being a Porn Star01:37:50 The Most Difficult Sex Scene He Filmed01:39:34 Extreme Fetishes and Sadomasochism in Porn01:45:58 Sexual Exploration in Relationships01:50:23 Mental Illness in the Porn Industry01:59:42 Monogamy in the Porn Industry02:03:11 Dating While Being a Porn Star02:06:00 America's Cognitive Dissonance with Porn02:08:00 The Negative Effects of Porn on Society02:12:00 Only Fans02:17:50 NFTs and the Dangers of Relying on Platforms Like OnlyFans02:28:30 The Future of the Porn Industry02:38:47 The Impact of a Bad First Sexual Experience02:40:34 The Importance of Communication in Sexual Relationships02:42:00 Life and Purpose02:45:22 Overcoming Sexual Performance AnxietyConnect with ErikErikEverhard.com@ERIK_EVERHARD on Twitter@erikeverhardoffical on InstagramErik on LinkedInMusic by Kirby Johnston – check out his band Aldaraia on Spotify.

The A to Z of Sex
Encore: H is for History of Sadomasochism

The A to Z of Sex

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2022 49:54


Encore: H is for History of Sadomasochism with Dr Lori Beth BisbeyWe apologise again for the delay in the publishing of this episode, the editor and uploader has been havinbg internet connection issues, but these will be resolved from next week.

Shat the Movies: 80's & 90's Best Film Review

Few directors have polarized the Shat Crew's wipe scores the way David Lynch has, and few David Lynch movies are as polarizing as "Blue Velvet." With odd peccadillos, unsettling violence, over-the-top symbolism and entrancing dreamlike sequences, this 1986 had Ash gushing and the boys cringing.  But talk about a career-builder! "Blue Velvet" changed the way moviegoers saw Isabella Rossellini, Dennis Hopper, Laura Dern and Kyle MacLachlan. It gave us a more straightforward Lynch tale, and it recalibrated the Shat The Movies definition of surprise boobs. Whether you view it as a masterful depiction of primal human behavior hidden behind a suburban veneer or just a really weird movie with some of the worst dirty talk ever filmed, "Blue Velvet" is definitely one to watch ... but maybe not rewatch. SUBSCRIBE Android: https://shatpod.com/android Apple: https://shatpod.com/apple All: https://shatpod.com/subscribe CONTACT Email: hosts@shatpod.com Website: https://shatpod.com/movies Leave a Voicemail: Web: https://shatpod.com/voicemail Leave a Voicemail: Call: (914) 719-7428 SUPPORT THE PODCAST Donate or Commission: https://shatpod.com/support Shop Merchandise: https://shatpod.com/shop Theme Song - Die Hard by Guyz Nite: https://www.facebook.com/guyznite

WICKED GAY
Man Behind the (Death) Mask: Andrew Crispo

WICKED GAY

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2022 62:24


Happy (?) Halloween! Andrew Crispo liked to watch awful things. (In other news, is Ryan Murphy a Wicked Gay fan?)

WDI Podcast
RFP rps 59 - Against Sadomasochism: A Radical Feminist Analysis

WDI Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2022 59:01


Against Sadomasochism: A Radical Feminist Analysis (a 1982 radical feminist anthology) edited by Robin Ruth Linden, Darlene R. Pagano, Diana E. H. Russell, and Susan Leigh Star discussed by Marian Rutigliano & Lierre Keith Radical feminist perspectives - This series of webinars is run by radical feminists whose voices have been cancelled or silenced in universities, schools and the media. Frustrated that we cannot share what we know in these places, we are offering this online series of webinars here. Enjoy! If you have not already registered for this series, register in advance for this webinar: bit.y/wdirfp After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the webinar.

BDSM United Podcasts
Classical and Operant Conditioning

BDSM United Podcasts

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2022 12:18


Welcome to our new and improved Slave Training series. Slave Training means to adjust the slave's core attitudes and behaviors to be more in tune with the Master's attitude and way of living. On today's episode we talk about combining Ivan Pavlov's classical conditioning and B.F. Skinner's operant conditioning together with Sadomasochism. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/bdsmunited/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/bdsmunited/support

KinkyCast
#453 - Corporate Muscle - Love, Sadism, and Changing Paradigms

KinkyCast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2022 28:58


On this week's show, we bring Corporate Muscle, in his first ever Kinky Cast, this lean, mean, beating machine discusses how exactly he became Corporate Muscle and broke into the local scene. He sheds light on Sadomasochism. What it is, and isn't, and what it means to be a Sadist. Where his Dominance, Sadism, and love have led him. And how to embrace self-discovery and promote a healthy, work, life, and kink. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2022-archive/453---corporate-muscle--.html

Beyond Synth
Beyond Synth - 331 - Marko And Andy Watched Blood Rage

Beyond Synth

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2022 115:50


Andy and Marko team up again to bring you new music and talk nonsense! Today, Marko forgets Andy's name immediately, and then the pair talk about Andy's trip to a poutine festival, Sadomasochism and the upcoming game Evil West. Marko tries to convince Andy to watch New York Ripper, and then these two goofs review the 80s slasher film Blood Rage. Andy discovers Tubi and watched The Lost Worlds of Gerry Anderson. Plus an exciting update on patreon rewards! Please consider Supporting Beyond Synth on Patreon: www.patreon.com/beyondsynth or PayPal: www.paypal.com/paypalme/beyondsynth And don't forget to check out ALL the artists featured on today's show: Sonic Gap and Canape Lee - “The Temple” https://soundcloud.com/sonicgap-music https://sonicgap.bandcamp.com/ https://open.spotify.com/artist/6QRr0IwTkKmxqIv5jPAEwq https://www.instagram.com/sonicgapmusic/?hl=en Canape Lee https://soundcloud.com/canapelee https://twitter.com/canapelee https://open.spotify.com/artist/76y14k92bNATjGuNOiykTT STARBOUND - “Vector Overdrive” https://soundcloud.com/STARBOUNDJAMS https://starboundjams.bandcamp.com/releases https://twitter.com/starboundjams https://open.spotify.com/artist/483MP4poG1UEcoOack6dDu George Ergemlidze - “I Can Be” https://soundcloud.com/georgeergemlidze https://ergemlidze.bandcamp.com/ https://www.facebook.com/Ergemlidzeart/ https://twitter.com/georgeergemlidz https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbDZdxBZY1x55fJJmcR31jQ https://www.instagram.com/georgeergemlidze/ https://open.spotify.com/artist/38LvPFlgQ19IPv07bvI32H Jarend - “My Energy” https://jarend.bandcamp.com/album/express https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCALwGpA8CTI5HXH_bN_UZNQ https://twitter.com/Jarend14 https://open.spotify.com/artist/3IxafWjImUR7Zuph0znQKD SCATTLE - “Fresh to Death” https://scattle.bandcamp.com/ https://www.youtube.com/c/scattle https://www.instagram.com/scattlemusic/ https://open.spotify.com/artist/31tVXduq7FmEznjanEBQJA Dream Invaders - “Cyborg” https://on.soundcloud.com/xjoS https://dreaminvaders.bandcamp.com/releases https://www.facebook.com/Dream.Invaders80s https://www.instagram.com/dream.invaders https://open.spotify.com/artist/3onTvEvpTe24h7UBh0Tlhp Sunglasses Kid and Jamythyst - “Totally” https://soundcloud.com/sunglasseskid http://sunglasseskid.bandcamp.com/ https://twitter.com/sunglasseskid https://www.facebook.com/SunglassesKid https://www.instagram.com/sunglasseskidmusic https://open.spotify.com/artist/0jn6ofLtVkXpuH2mmV8J82 Jamythyst ​​https://soundcloud.com/jamythyst https://www.instagram.com/jamythyst/ https://open.spotify.com/artist/2Xe6HUggf7s8eTbcktYbLo Mark Dee - “Falkor Flight” https://soundcloud.com/mark-dee-house-device http://markdee.bandcamp.com https://www.facebook.com/markdee.housedevice https://www.instagram.com/mark_dee_productions/ Turbo Knight and Edictum - “Eleos” https://turboknight.bandcamp.com/ https://soundcloud.com/turboknight https://twitter.com/turbo_knight https://www.facebook.com/turboknightsynthwave/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIGyZEpogIK7b7RgHF6a2cQ https://open.spotify.com/artist/7hsyLArBqyxYqQF2ODoT3c https://www.instagram.com/turboknightsynthwave/?hl=en Edictum https://soundcloud.com/simon-24-1 https://edictum.bandcamp.com/releases https://twitter.com/Edictum303 https://www.instagram.com/edictum303/ https://open.spotify.com/artist/11e1I6BUAcdUOAf7AJUXWd L'Avenue - “Boulevard” https://soundcloud.com/lavenue https://lavenue.bandcamp.com/ https://www.instagram.com/lavenuemusic/ https://twitter.com/lavenuemusic http://www.lavenuemusic.com/ https://open.spotify.com/artist/1DsWJUaiNHafDjEXvYQAga Pastel Graphics - “Data Lake” https://soundcloud.com/pastelgraphics https://pastelgraphics.bandcamp.com/music https://twitter.com/pastelgraphics https://open.spotify.com/artist/3OevtZjGNSMHNuprg3Iiva Cassetter - “City of Dreams” https://soundcloud.com/cassetter https://cassetter.bandcamp.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCU8y7EzijNWUAPdAfae0rEg https://twitter.com/Cassetter1

BDSM United Podcasts
What is a Sadist and Masochist?

BDSM United Podcasts

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2022 16:16


Sadism and Masochism were originally medical terms that designated aberrant sexual behaviors exhibited by individuals. Sadomasochism and fetishism became visible in the late nineteenth century because certain people were being aroused by things that did not fit the standard definition of “normal” sex. But what do those terms mean today? To answer that we look at four classes of modern Sadists. And then seven uses for Masochistic pain and how to separate what is pleasurable from what is harmful, as we wrap up our look at the SM from our BDSM acronym. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/bdsmunited/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/bdsmunited/support

All the Things That Keep Us Up at Night
124. Colin Ireland: British Slayer of Gay Men

All the Things That Keep Us Up at Night

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2022 54:13


A teen mom and her newborn son, Colin Ireland, didn't have the easiest life. They moved around from home to home, homeless shelters, they were financially struggling, and Colin attended many different schools where he was constantly harassed. All throughout his childhood, pedophiles seemed to be everywhere. Colin grew to be angry, unsure how to handle his strong emotions, and mental anguish about being preyed on by these men at every turn. When he got older, instead of attempting to work on those issues, he made a New Years Resolution to become a serial killer in 1993.Promo: The Murder in My FamilyThank you to today's sponsor, Athletic Greens! Go to https://www.athleticgreens.com/emerging to get your one year supply of immune supporting vitamin D supplements and 5 travel packs with your first purchase!Follow the socials!https://www.Twitter.com/ReverieCrimePodhttps://www.Instagram.com/ReverieTrueCrimehttps://reverietruecrime.tumblr.comhttps://www.Facebook.com/ReverieTrueCrimeContact me: ReverieTrueCrime@gmail.comWebsite: https://reverietruecrime.wixsite.com/podcastPatreon: https://www.Patreon.com/ReverieTrueCrimeMerch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/reverie-true-crime-store?ref_id=17247SOURCES:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gd_MadOBVxchttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VRQ44fcwDEQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2eKcxDtnQTI https://murderpedia.org/male.I/i/ireland-colin.htm https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Colin_Ireland https://www.crimeandinvestigation.co.uk/crime-files/colin-ireland https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-17117441 https://www.examinerlive.co.uk/news/west-yorkshire-news/monster-mansions-serial-killer-colin-22023621 https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5070423/Colin-Ireland-serial-killer-gay-men-famous.html https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2017/11/14/serial-killer-colin-ireland-said-he-murdered-five-gay-men-because-he-wanted-to-be-famous/ https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1993-12-21-mn-4196-story.html http://www.absolutecrime.com/the-gay-slayer-the-life-of-serial-killer-colin-ireland.html#.Ys2qFHbMLIV https://en-academic.com/dic.nsf/enwiki/500442#Peter_Walker https://wickedwe.com/colin-ireland/ https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/gay-slayer-serial-killer-tortured-11512812 https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2012/02/29/exercise-yard-fall-contributed-to-death-of-gay-slayer-inquest-hears/

Savona church in Port St Lucie
Radio Program: July 10 (Question on Sadomasochism; Movies and Violence; Who defines Mental Health)

Savona church in Port St Lucie

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2022 60:05


Listen to We Are Just Christians Radio Program – Savona church in Port St Lucie
Radio Program: July 10 (Question on Sadomasochism; Movies and Violence; Who defines Mental Health)

Listen to We Are Just Christians Radio Program – Savona church in Port St Lucie

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2022 60:05


Let's THINK about it
Escape from Freedom (pt 2)

Let's THINK about it

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2022 20:25


Why would anyone want to escape from Freedom?Psychologically freedom is a tremendous burden, especially in a competitive society commoditizing your individuality. Erich Fromm in “Escape from Freedom” maps out three means to escape the anxiety, isolation, and doubt of the Modern Age: Sadomasochism (aka authoritarianism), Destruction, and Automaton Conformity.The burden to be uniquely you within a society demanding submission or conformity leads people to want freedom, and one response is “negative freedom” which is like a man on an island, free from external restraint, governments, or social life. However, if his goal in life is to be beneficial to others, he must re-enter society while finding a way to maintain his individual integrity and find the means to realize his goals. This is “positive freedom,” or internally motivated agency.People often want both positive and negative freedom, but in a society, the freedoms of others constrain your freedoms. As well, positive freedom often takes the path of libidinal desires being liberated, but if we are manipulated by mimetic desire, then our desires are not truly our own.In short, how can an individual be assured they are authentic and thinking genuine thoughts, instead of pseudo thoughts? And how do we protect democracy from those escaping freedom? Fromm says it is through integrated individuals practicing spontaneity.

Let's THINK about it
Escape from Freedom (pt 1)

Let's THINK about it

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2022 24:15


Why would anyone want to escape from Freedom? Well, in a complex system, any move will produce countermanding forces, and humans are slow-evolving creatures, and by merely shouting “you are free” we encounter some problems: 1) now what? and 2) it doesn't line up with the reality of working every day and still falling behind.While freedom is held up as an ideological holy grail, the reality on the ground is different: People do want to escape from freedom because having to “know who you are” is a tremendous strain when you are supposed to be an “authentic autonomous individual.” The strain to be free conversely leaves us feeling like frauds, isolated and alone, which hurts our socially evolved self. Written around 1941, Erich Fromm‘s “Escape from Freedom” compares Socialist, Fascist Nazism and Hitler to America's Liberal Democracy and the types of people it produces and those, in turn, who produce those systems. But he starts out with some history, so we can see what it looks like to move from (as Karl Popper calls it) a tribal ‘closed society‘ to a free ‘open society' and why that move causes so many problems. In the next episode, Escape from Freedom (pt 2), we will look at these “escape mechanisms” and Fromm's solution: which is to be a genuine individual, an authentic self, which involves independent thinking (which most of us don't do) and spontaneity (which I have some arguments against.) But until then, this episode maps a historical path that lays the groundwork for why modern man has so many problems. We cover medieval feudal society altering into a competition for middle-class ascendency, contenting between the crown, the tradesman, and risk. This is echoed in Martin Luther's character, as a stand-in for the psychological and social character of the times, and his confusion and hatred giving rise to reformation. The dissolution of the church authority came at a higher cost: the need to lovingly submit to God, giving away your newfound freedom from authority. In modern times, we have confused merchants in an industrial capitalist society attempting to find their "self" but viewing themselves as a commodity. This highlights the strain of individuality in a socially competitive world, leading to a burden of freedom and unique autonomy that many people shed, as they feel hollowed out and left behind by progress. Mickey Mouse, created by Walt Disney, is an apt character for the times: a tiny creature combating nature and predatory with near escapes. Part 2 will cover the psychological escape mechanisms people undertake to justify giving away their freedom. 

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast
Mindfucking Mindfully with Sir Ezra-S04E16

Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2022 70:35


Recorded: 11/28/2021 / Published: 6/3/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week's episode of The Krypt we are talking to Sir Ezra of House Algos about his new book “Minfucking Mindfully: A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Mindfucking Mindfully with Sir Ezra-S04E16”Sir Ezra is a Pansexual, Polyamorous, Dominant, and Sexual Sadist. When not volunteering at DomCon, the AVN's, LA Pride, and Threshold or teaching classes like whipping, fire, negotiation, and, of course Mindfucking, he is an Intimacy Coach, Educator, and Author of “Mindfucking Mindfully”.- "Ten Licks”How long have been into Kink?Top, bottom, or switch?Relationship Status?Favorite Position?Favorite Implement?Favorite Roleplay?Favorite kink or fetish?Favorite place for kink?Strangest Place you've had sex?Something you want to try?What is mindfucking and what do you mean by “doing it mindfully”?What mindfucking is not: Pg. 22 para. 2.Types of Mindfucks:IllusionsHumiliationExpectationPerceived PowerAsymmetric Information (Midori)Perception AlterationDegrading or EnnoblingNegotiation Types:SpammingExpectations and Conditional AskTrauma-Informed MindfuckingEMDRPg. 74 Negotiating Trauma.Nonconsensual MindfucksPoliticsTV/MarketingCorporate Culture (Raises/Family)Cautions and Warnings:Mistakes HappenPotholes Vs LandminesKinky BlackjackImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/416National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92- Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, and Frozen Moron- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and AshleyVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Dirty Talk Podcast
Kinky History With Stephen Stein- Ep 174

Dirty Talk Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2022 44:45


This week we welcome a special guest, Professor Stephen K. Stein who has published a new book: Sadomasochism and the BDSM Community in the United States: Kinky People Unite. Join us for our conversation about the past, present, and future … Continued Join The Dirty Talk Podcast Community On Patreon or Donate On PayPal Get Your Dirty Talk Podcast Merch Here Follow The Dirty Talk Podcast on Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, Reddit, or YouTube The post Kinky History With Stephen Stein- Ep 174 appeared first on dirtytalkpodcast.com

San Francisco Damn Podcast with Dee Dee Lefrak
“Compassion” really means sadomasochism in San Francisco

San Francisco Damn Podcast with Dee Dee Lefrak

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2022 7:42


It's been a long day here in Sexist Womanist bohemian land… More visits with feline Stevie Wonderful's vet who could show City Hall a thing or two about REAL compassion! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sanfranciscodamn/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sanfranciscodamn/support

Meet the Rockadopoleis!: Sex, Love, and Power
Season II, Episode 30: Emotional Sadomasochism

Meet the Rockadopoleis!: Sex, Love, and Power

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2022 28:20


In this last episode of Season II, we discuss various ways that we derive pleasure from hurting Lance's feelings.   :(   :(   :( Episode Art: Detail: "Weeping Woman," Pablo Picasso, 1937Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Jislaaik)

Off the Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast
301 - Hurts So Good: a conversation about masochism

Off the Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2022 85:36


This week we sat down with Leigh Cowart, author of Hurts So Good: the Science and Culture Behind Pain on Purpose. Their book explores why people all over the world like to engage in pain on purpose, from ballerinas dancing on broken bones to people choking down spicy peppers until they cry. We discuss the difference between self-harm and masochism, how their traumatic experience as a ballet dancer informed their life and their kinks, and more.  If you're able to help, you can find Gwen's computer fundraiser here. Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episodes 206, 138, and 053. Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our newest blog posts Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Pussy Trap here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you'll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, masochism, sadomasochism, pain, play, self, harm, ballet, athletes, author

Seriously, What the Frick?
CONSPIRACY: George Hodel

Seriously, What the Frick?

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2021 27:12


Happy Friday, Y'all! This week it's a little different, we talk about a conspiracy about George Hodel being many infamous serial killers, especially the killer of The Black Dahlia. S O C I A L S:https://seriouslywhatthefrick.com/Twitter: seriouslywhatthefrickEmail: seriouslywhatthefrick33@gmail.comInstagram: seriously_what_the_frickPatreon:  https://www.patreon.com/seriouslywhatthefrickYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYpr2EzAO2RBuFiXRy1yL1wS O U R C E S :2  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Hodel 3  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common-law_marriage 2  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Huston 5  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sadomasochism 3  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Garrote 1  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hemicorporectomy   Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/seriouslywhatthefrick)

High Profile Life Podcast
The Hankie Pankie Podcast - Sir Ezra Interview

High Profile Life Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2021 38:08


Today's guest is Sir Ezra Algos. Sir Ezra is involved in BDSM Education and is the Director of Education for Sanctuary LAX Studios. He is the co-founder of the Triskelion Scholarship, the first scholarship available for students pursuing courses and training in the BDSM field. In addition Sir Ezra offers professional sub/Dom Training, BDSM/Sex Coaching and is the author of the Mindfucking Mindfully: A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism; The first ethical guide to mind-fucking ever published. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/high-profile-podcast/support

Sex, Sin & Sensibility
BDSM Ins and Outs with Sex Educator Phoenix Mandel

Sex, Sin & Sensibility

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2021 56:07


Ever wonder what BDSM does for your brain? What is subspace/ topspace? What is sub drop? What is a successful play negotiation? What are all the various dynamics of D/s relationships? How important is aftercare and how do you go about it for the top and the bottom? Listen in to an evening of entertainment and education as we discuss the fundamentals of BDSM with Sex Educator Phoenix Mandel as they take us on a journey through the body, the brain, and the emotional and healing impacts of play.

Joint Dynamics - Intelligent Movement Series
episode 23 - Colin Symmonds - Pain, sometimes you have to poke the bear!

Joint Dynamics - Intelligent Movement Series

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2021 74:05


In this conversation Andrew chats with Colin Symmonds, a clinician of over 30 years in practice, on the multifactorial nature of pain. This is an incredibly candid, at times surprising, deep dive into a subject that effects individuals, teams and corporations. Costing individuals and industry billions of dollars, taxing relationships, and changing human behaviour daily on a massive scale!Some highlights were - what is there to learn, and what we must question, from science?-what does Sadomasochism tell us about the way we process pain?-some of Colin's suggestions to move away from pain and towards incrementally increasing levels of freedom and confidence in movementCertainly grab a pen and paper for this one and share with your friends, family and colleagues who are plagued with pain.RELEVANT AND HELPFUL LINKS:Colin Symmonds - https://www.jointdynamics.com.hk/the-team/physios/colin-symmondsGray Institute Fellowship of Applied Functional Science - https://grayinstitute.com/courses/gift-functional-transformation-mentorship-programLorrimer Moseley TedX Talkhttps://youtu.be/gwd-wLdIHjsLorrimer Moseley - The Pain revolutionhttps://youtu.be/oji2mfcjiskPeter O'Sullivans - Challenging common beliefs about painhttps://youtu.be/5bCzajs5VZkPeter O'Sullivan - Cognitive functional therapyhttps://youtu.be/ySJ5O2NnnuE

The Safe Word w./ Mystique and Mr. Everlasting

**Trigger Warning*** This episode contains sensitive subject matter Join Mystique, Mr. Everlasting, and a Special Guest for a serious conversation about Kink Misconceptions regarding the fine line between Sadomasochism, Stockholm Syndrome and Domestic Violence within a BDSM dynamic. 

A Murderess Affair
Cecile Brossard: The Bondage Dominatrix Gone Bad

A Murderess Affair

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2020 18:10


This week our murderess is a woman who killed her billionaire lover, and who's sex life seems to be more radical and focused on than the murder she committed. Her name is Cecile Brossard. 

The Aquarian Spirals Podcast
Episode 6: The Psychology of SadoMasochism

The Aquarian Spirals Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2019 32:40


This week, I start off with a little baby discussion of Samhain and then head into the meat of the episode: The Psychology of Sadomasochism. I discuss the how this psychological process has taken root as a primary force of control in our culture and why its relevant. As always, you can find me at: www.aquarianspirals.com. Your support is much appreciated! If you wanna support the podcast AND get powerful, rad and regular tools for self growth go here: www.patreon.com/aquarianspirals Questions? Comments? Wanna submit an astro question? Email me: amanda@aquarianspirals.com Guidelines for questions: Please provide your birth date, place and time alongside your consent to read those deets aloud on the show (or just say you'd rather I not share your specific chart information). You're also welcome to send questions about being an 'empath,' depth psychology, dream work, ritual, alternative relationship styles or anything else you think is in my wheel house. Upcoming classes (including those Intros to Evolutionary Astrology) can be found here: www.aquarianspirals.com/classes One-time donations and support gratefully accepted at: www.paypal.me/aquarianspirals --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aquarianspirals/support

The Wildness with Tiff & Manda
The Wildness Ep 9: ‘To Spank Or Not To Spank', chatting BDSM with Fadzai

The Wildness with Tiff & Manda

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2018 62:39


This week the Wild Ones have a sit down with an awesome guest to chat Bondage, Domination, Sadomasochism and Masochism (BDSM). What's in a name? Does all kink have to be called BDSM? Does it have to hurt? What the hell is a hard no and a soft yes? Also consent my people...C.O.N.S.E.N.T. Grab your homies and a glass of wine and lets chat kink and BDSM. A podcast by two queer African girls trying to get through life. Follow The Wildness on Instagram @the.wildness and Facebook: The Wildness with Tiff & Manda Amanda on Twitter @manda_hodge and Instagram: @manda_hodge Fadzai on Twitter @inorangemoom and Instagram: @vhunzemoto HOLAAfrica: www.holaafrica.org IG: @insta_holaa Twitter and Facebook: HOLAAfrica Links to check out: - 25 Facts About BDSM That You Won't Learn In "Fifty Shades Of Grey"- https://www.buzzfeed.com/caseygueren/ultimate-guide-to-bdsm?utm_term=.fu5bK89Ed#.vnZ5PN92X - How to Make Sex and Relationships Work When Only One of You Is Kinky - https://www.vice.com/en_ca/article/avy9d4/how-to-make-sex-and-relationships-work-when-only-one-of-you-is-kinky - What It's Like to Be a Black Woman Into Kink - https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/3b4qkn/what-its-like-to-be-a-black-woman-into-kink