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Welcome to The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast! This podcast is for brides, grooms and anyone else who doesn't feel represented in mainstream wedding media. Haven't been dreaming of your big day since you were six? Don't care about chair covers or personalized napkins? Thinking about eloping, nixing the wedding party or only spending $5000? You're in the right place! From engagement to honeymoon and everything in between, join me as we plan weddings that are about what we really want - not what Instagram tells us we should want. NEW EPISODE EVERY WEDNESDAY (if not sooner!)

Ashley C


    • May 20, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 32m AVG DURATION
    • 161 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast

    How to Navigate Tricky Family Relationships on Your Wedding Day

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 39:39


    Wedding planning is hard enough when you remember that you're combining two families, spending more money than you ever have and planning a once in a lifetime event that's supposed to perfectly sum up your entire relationship and personality. Now add onto that family drama! In today's episode, I'm replying to a listener, Jack, who wrote in with some tricky family dynamics that are at play at his wedding. How do you make it less obvious that you're closer to your in-laws than your parents? What do you do if guests wonder why certain people aren't attending your wedding? And how do you avoid unnecessary drama around a family member you're no-contact with?Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    What Actually Happens If You Go Over Your Wedding Budget

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 29:53


    There's a lot of wedding content out there about how to stay on budget for your wedding - how to save money, how to set your budget, how to be under budget, etc. But no one really talks about going over budget. What happens when you overspend and blow it?In this week's episode, I'm diving into the taboo reality that many couples find themselves in: spending more than their wedding budget allows. I'll talk about what this reality looks like, how you can try and fix it, and what you can do to avoid going over budget in the first place. Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility, pregnancy or parenthood journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqaThis episode is inspired by: https://junebugweddings.com/wedding-blog/i-went-over-my-wedding-budget-now-what/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    11 Wedding Vendor Red Flags to Watch Out For

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2025 39:57


    So you think you've found an amazing wedding vendor. You've been fawning over their social media pages for years and they just so happen to be available for your wedding date. You should just book, right?Well, maybe not. You want to make sure you're not missing any of these wedding vendor red flags before you sign on the dotted line or send over your deposit. Tune in to hear about 11 red flags that should send you screaming and running in the opposite direction of your vendors. Or maybe these red flags aren't deal breakers for you, but they're still important to note. Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility, pregnancy or parenthood journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqaThis episode is inspired by: https://www.theknot.com/content/how-to-choose-wedding-vendors & https://www.brides.com/wedding-vendor-red-flags-8610876 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Answering More of Your Wedding Planning Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025 31:57


    This week we're diving into three listener wedding planning questions tackling subjects like wedding weekends and what your guests expect, how to plan a reception when your partner hates the dance floor, and when is too late to ask someone to be in your bridal party - plus what to do if someone volunteers to be a bridesmaid (red flag alert!). Have a wedding planning question you want me to discuss on the podcast? Fill out this quick form: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility, pregnancy or parenthood journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    I Want to Elope and He Wants a Big Wedding. Now What?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2025 43:49


    What happens when you want to elope and your partner wants a big wedding? Or when you've always dreamt of a destination wedding and your fiance prefers to keep things local? Or when your ideal budget is $100K and theirs is $5K?Compromising on a wedding is difficult, because the truth is you're two people with your own visions but you're only planning one wedding. In this week's episode, I'm going to talk through the important conversations you need to have before you start planning your wedding, options for compromising when your wedding visions are drastically different, and how to stand up for yourself if you're feeling pressured into a wedding you don't want. PS: Thanks to listener Mara for suggesting this episode! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility, pregnancy or parenthood journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    14 More Wedding Details to Cut From Your Budget

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2025 54:47


    Looking to save money, time and stress? Aren't we all! This week I'm back with even more wedding details and extras that you can CUT from your budget. Not only will cutting these things help you save money, but they'll also save you all of the time and energy that would go into organizing them in the first place.From welcome drinks and after parties to second wedding outfits and activities for kids, let's get real about our wedding priorities and save you some $$! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/pregnancy journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    15 Wedding Details to STOP Spending Money On

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2025 49:57


    If you want to chop your wedding budget in half, you're going to need to make some drastic cuts. But what if you just want to save yourself a couple hundred or maybe even thousands of dollars?In part one of this series, I'm sharing 15 wedding details you can STOP spending time, energy and money on. These are often overlooked parts of a wedding that everyone just assumes they have to do. But the truth is, you don't! Your guests won't miss them and you sure as heck won't miss the time and money spent on them.Stay tuned for part two next week with 14 more things you can cut!This episode was inspired by: https://www.brides.com/wedding-details-money-saving-tips-8665181Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/pregnancy journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How and When to Ask People to Be in Your Wedding Party

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2025 44:29


    If you're newly engaged, it can be so easy to get swept up in the excitement as you share your news with all of your friends and family. But then all of a sudden, you realize you promised 10 people they can be in your wedding party! Only you have no idea when your wedding is, if you'll still be friends with these people by then or even if you want a wedding party at all...In this week's episode I'm talking all about exactly when and how to ask someone to be your bridesmaid, maid of honor, groomsman, best man, person of honor, attendant, best person, etc. As exciting as this time is, I strongly recommend you slow things down and listen to this episode. It'll help you avoid a lot of wedding party drama in the future! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/pregnancy journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    12 Wedding After Party Mistakes You Don't Want to Make

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 48:59


    Once upon a time weddings were just ceremonies. Then came receptions. And now we've got welcome parties, rehearsal dinners, next day brunches and, of course, wedding after parties.If you're planning to host an after party - whether you want to keep the dance floor fun flowing or you want to change up the vibe and enjoy some casual drinks with friends - listen in for 12 mistakes you don't want to make. We're talking food, alcohol, entertainment, decor and more - plus the best timing and use of your after party budget! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/pregnancy journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqaInspired by: https://www.brides.com/wedding-after-party-mistakes-8714937 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Is It Just Cold Feet or Something More Serious?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2025 46:12


    Good news, wedding planners! I used a new recording platform to record this episode and I think the audio is way better! Let me know what you think (contact form below) or if you have any other feedback for the show, episode suggestions, etc.In less happy news, today we've got a pretty tough topic: cold feet. What's the difference between normal pre-wedding nerves and jitters (aka cold feet) vs a more serious problem that could mean you need to call off your wedding and end your relationship?No one likes to think about this scary part of wedding planning, but the fact is that many couples (over 80%) deal with cold feet. You owe it to yourself and your partner to figure out if your feelings are normal ones that are wrapped up in wedding stress or if you need to make the tough call to cancel your wedding.Inspired by: https://www.theknot.com/content/dealing-with-cold-feet Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/pregnancy journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    What You Actually Need to Include on Your Wedding Website

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2025 48:35


    Welcome to episode #150, wedding planners - we made it! It only took us 150 episodes to finally talk all about the wedding website. But we're here now, so let's do it.In this episode I'm sharing the things you actually need to have on your wedding website. What are the required elements and what do you guests actually need to know? I'm also sharing 5 optional extras you can add to your website plus 5 things you definitely want to avoid putting on there! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/pregnancy journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    10 Things Wedding Party Members Should NOT Have to Do

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2025 49:46


    If you're planning to have a wedding party (aka bridal party with bridesmaids, groomsmen, people of honor, etc.) at your wedding, you need to listen to this episode! Today I'm sharing some tough love and reminding you that as much as your wedding party members love you and want to help make your wedding awesome, there are certain things they should NOT have to do. Wear an itchy outfit? Nope! Give up all their free time and money for your wedding? Also nope! Tune in to hear what you should and should not expect from your wedding party so you can avoid the drama and leave your wedding with all of your relationships intact! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/pregnancy journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to Plan a Wedding When You're Short on Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2025 58:38


    How do you plan a full-scale wedding when you only have

    The 7 2025 Wedding Trends I Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2024 51:44


    After hating on 2025 wedding trends a couple of weeks ago, I thought I'd end the year with a little love and share the 2025 wedding trends I'm excited about (plus a few that I'm a bit more on the fence about). Tune in to hear which trends I hope will be seen at many weddings in 2025 and beyond!Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqaThis episode was inspired by: https://www.brides.com/bridal-fashion-week-fall-2025-wedding-dress-trends-8728743https://www.msn.com/en-ie/lifestyle/wedding/wedding-trends-that-well-be-raising-a-glass-to-in-2025/ar-AA1sdGGC?apiversion=v2&noservercache=1&domshim=1&renderwebcomponents=1&wcseo=1&batchservertelemetry=1&noservertelemetry=1https://www.hitched.co.uk/wedding-planning/organising-and-planning/wedding-trends/ https://thewed.com/magazine/major-trends-for-2025-weddings https://jessicafosterevents.com/2025-wedding-trends-an-early-look/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The 15 2025 Wedding Trends I Hate

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2024 48:01


    With 2024 coming to an end, it's time to look ahead at the biggest wedding trends for 2025! I'm starting things off with a little hate sharing the 2025 wedding trends I am NOT into (dramatic drapery and monochrome food tables, really?). There are a few controversial ones on this list so just remember, we don't have to agree on everything when it comes to wedding planning!Plus, stay tuned for a future episode where I talk the 2025 wedding trends I love!Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqaInspired by these articles:https://www.brides.com/bridal-fashion-week-fall-2025-wedding-dress-trends-8728743https://www.msn.com/en-ie/lifestyle/wedding/wedding-trends-that-well-be-raising-a-glass-to-in-2025/ar-AA1sdGGChttps://www.hitched.co.uk/wedding-planning/organising-and-planning/wedding-trends/ https://thewed.com/magazine/major-trends-for-2025-weddings https://jessicafosterevents.com/2025-wedding-trends-an-early-look/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Part 2: 13 More Wedding Etiquette Rules All Guests Should Follow

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2024 45:48


    I'm back with part two of my wedding etiquette rules all guests should follow. In this episode, we're talking about rules for the reception and after the wedding. Figure out how to stop people from over-indulging at an open bar, ignoring your carefully curated seating chart and totally forgetting about your wedding as soon as it's over.If you missed part one, go back an episode and check it out!Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77Source: https://www.brides.com/wedding-etiquette-tips-for-guests-4704983 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Part 1: 14 Wedding Etiquette Rules All Guests Should Follow

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2024 42:18


    As people planning a wedding, it can be really annoying when your wedding guests don't follow what we assume are basic wedding etiquette rules. Why can't they RSVP on time? Why do they keep asking about a plus one? Why do they think it's okay to show up late to the ceremony?On this episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast, we're covering the first 14 of 27 wedding etiquette rules that guests should follow before the wedding and at the ceremony. PLUS how you, as the married couple to-be, can make life easier for your guests and encourage them to actually follow these rules!PS: This was originally going to be all 27 rules in one episode, but I got chatty. So stay tuned for part two where we talk rules for the reception and after the wedding!Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqaSource: https://www.brides.com/wedding-etiquette-tips-for-guests-4704983 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to Combine the Spiritual and Secular in Your Wedding

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 34:34


    What happens if you're religious and your partner isn't? Or they're secular and you're spiritual? Or you're both religious, but they're Pagan while you're Protestant? In today's episode, I'm tackling the big issue of how to combine religious (and non-religious) beliefs into one wedding day that truly represents you both. Listen in as I give you some big things to consider and lots of options for expressing your values throughout your ceremony and reception. Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    What to Include in Your Wedding Backup Plan

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2024 46:03


    Even the best laid plans can be totally upturned when a vendor no-shows, guests get sick, your partner breaks their leg, and it decides to rain and hail on your wedding day! That's why it's so important for you to have a wedding backup plan - not just for bad weather, but for any situation that might derail your wedding.Tune in as I discuss how to plan for bad weather, no-show vendors, guest cancellations, wedding party members who can't make it, your own personal issues that might affect the wedding and even a postponement/cancellation. Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Help! My Dad Thinks We're Being Cheap With Our Wedding

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2024 29:04


    In today's episode, I'm tackling a listener question all about wedding budgets and parents. What happens if your parents think you're being cheap or are ashamed of what you're asking guests to pay for? Do your parents have a point or is what you're planning acceptable? Tune in to find out my take, plus tips for how to analyze your decisions and repair relationships when you disagree. Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to Compromise With Your Partner When You Have Different Wedding Visions

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2024 25:00


    You've always envisioned a six-tier wedding cake while your partner wants to serve donut holes. You want an outdoor wedding and they want it indoors. You want to elope with 10 guests while they want to invite 300 of their closest friends.So what do you do when you and your partner have different wedding visions? Listen in as I share a 3-part formula for reaching a compromise that will leave you both feeling good about your decision, rather than arguing until someone gives in. PS: I forgot to give a warning about the ad break. It happens around 18:49! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to Plan a Wedding as a Parent

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2024 47:01


    Whether you're chasing after a two year old, creating a blended family with your spouse-to-be or empty nesters, planning a wedding as a parent can look a lot different than planning a wedding without kids in the picture. In this week's episodes I'm talking about the realities of wedding planning as a parent, what you need to think about in the planning and prep stage, and how to include your children in the different aspects of your wedding. Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    13 Low Cost Ways to Reduce Wedding Waste

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2024 61:46


    In this mega-episode I'm covering 13 ways you can reduce wedding waste without increasing your wedding budget. Tune in for lots of practical tips, easy changes and things to think about that will help save your wallet and the planet.Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqaSource: https://www.lbfphoto.com/blog/75-tips-zero-waste-wedding Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to STOP Being a People Pleaser With Your Own Wedding

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2024 34:12


    How do you stop being a people pleaser and prioritize your own feelings and wants in wedding planning? And how do you stop feeling guilty when you finally prioritize yourself and uphold your boundaries? That's what we're tackling on today's episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast, thanks to a listener who submitted this very question! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqaPS: As I announce in this episode, TUWPP is moving to two episodes a week. Enjoy! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Planning Your Wedding Before You're Engaged

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2024 39:39


    You may assume that most couples don't start planning their weddings until after they're engaged. But according to a study by The Knot, you'd be wrong! As many as 70-90% of couples start planning their wedding and talking about it before the proposal! So if you are not engaged (yet) but want to start planning your wedding, you're not alone. Listen in as I share what parts of marriage and wedding planning you definitely want to tackle before your engagement, what tasks you may want to avoid, good reasons to start planning early and some important questions to ask yourself if you feel like your pre-engagement planning is getting to be too much.Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC/pregnancy journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to Handle Important People Not Being at Your Wedding

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2024 33:26


    Inspired by listener Anna, today we're tackling how to handle important people not being at your wedding. Whether they're not there because you don't have a relationship with them, they're unable to travel to the wedding, they've passed away or whatever other reason, it's hard to deal with the reality that someone you thought would be or should be at your wedding, won't be. We'll dive into how to deal with your own feelings about these missing people, how to include and honour them (if you want to!), and how to acknowledge their absence and answer any questions from nosy guests. Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    18 Things to Do the Week of Your Wedding

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2024 52:32


    Last week we talked about what NOT to do the week of your wedding and this week I'm sharing what you should do instead. From finalizing your wedding timeline and planning your outfits to last minute tasks and preparing for a chill wedding morning, here are 18 things to add to your to-do list for the week of your wedding. Inspired by: https://www.theknot.com/content/week-of-wedding-planning-to-dos, https://www.brides.com/gallery/week-of-wedding-to-do-list, https://onefabday.com/week-before-wedding-timeline/ Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/pregnancy journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    17 Things NOT to Do the Week of Your Wedding

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2024 38:29


    The final countdown to your wedding is on with only a week to go. But there are certain things you want to be sure NOT to do this week. Listen in as I share 17 things to avoid doing the final week before your wedding - and stay tuned for next week's episode where I'll talk about the things you should be doing instead! Inspired by: https://www.theknot.com/content/what-not-to-do-the-week-of-your-weddingHave a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to DIY Your Wedding (Without Making It Tacky!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2024 33:37


    So you want to DIY your wedding - either because you want to save money, you're a crafter or you've been inspired by Pinterest. But how do you make sure your DIYs stay on the nice side of tacky? How do you ensure your craft projects don't come off looking cheap or leave you pulling out your hair the night before your wedding?In this episode, I'm sharing some tips to keep you grounded and to help you escape a crafting rabbit hole and remember the overall goal for your wedding. Put down that glue gun and listen up! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    14 Seating Chart Mistakes You Don't Want to Make

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2024 49:04


    Before you start planning out your seating chart, making table arrangements or writing escort cards, take a listen to this week's episode so you avoid some major reception mistakes. Is assigned seating necessary? What about escort cards vs place cards? Should you have a kids' table and a singles' table? Find out! Inspired by https://www.theknot.com/content/wedding-reception-seating-nightmares-solved Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    More Wedding Planning Q&A

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 38:12


    I'm back with another Q&A episode to answer all of your wedding planning questions! Want in on the next episode or just have an episode suggestion for me? Fill out the Google form below! This week we're answering how to handle mixed-language speeches at an intercultural wedding, how to earn more money to afford a dream wedding, and how to plan a low key wedding weekend. Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Wedding Gift FAQs

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 49:13


    Inspired by a listener question, I'm answering some of the most common questions couples have about their wedding gifts. When should they send thank you cards (and what the heck do they write in them)? When should they set up a registry? How do they ask for cash? And what do they do with a gift they don't like? Tune in to find out! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to Navigate Family Dynamics Before, During & After Your Wedding

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2024 29:08


    Whether it's an over-involved mother-in-law who thinks this is her wedding, a mom who doesn't seem to care about your wedding, a stepmom who isn't on speaking terms with half of your guests, or not a mom issue at all, it's hard to deal with all of the family dynamics that come up when planning a wedding! In this episode, I share my advice for how to deal with an uninvolved, over-involved or overly dramatic family member before, during and after your wedding. We discuss how to set boundaries, redirect, communicate clearly and rely on your partner for support. Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own family journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to Pay Tribute to Passed Loved Ones at Your Wedding

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 39:38


    How do you honour a loved one who is no longer with us on your wedding day? How do you pay tribute to them, without it being a major downer? How do you adjust your wedding plans if someone pivotal won't be there? Listen in as I give suggestions for creative and personal ways to pay tribute to your deceased loved ones and offer alternatives to wedding traditions where a loved one usually has a major role. I'm also reminding you that it's okay to feel your feels about this shitty situation and skip any traditions that make you uncomfortable. Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    6 More Wedding Photography Mistakes You Don't Want to Make

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 38:11


    In part two of last week's episode, I'm back with six more wedding photography mistakes I learned the hard way that you definitely don't want to make at your wedding. From rushing through your portrait session to not asking your wedding photographer enough questions, listen up so you avoid these photo disasters! Inspired by https://www.brides.com/wedding-photography-mistakes-7100254 Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    7 Wedding Photography Mistakes to Avoid

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2024 35:33


    Even unconventional wedding planners want really beautiful wedding photos! That's why you need to tune in and learn the 7 wedding photography mistakes to NOT make with your wedding photographer. From only looking at social media to (controversially) sending a shot list, here are 7 things you should not do. And sadly, I made a lot of these mistakes at my own wedding - so learn from me! And stay tuned for six more mistakes coming next week. Inspired by https://www.brides.com/wedding-photography-mistakes-7100254 Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to Plan a Semi Destination Wedding

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2024 42:38


    In this week's episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast we're talking about semi or half destination weddings. So this would be a wedding where half or most of your guests are flying in, but it's local to you, or your guests are local, but you're flying into the destination. Most of the advice online for destination weddings imagine you and your guests all flying off to the Caribbean or Italy for a week. But what if it's just half your guests going from New Hampshire to Seattle? Tune in as I discuss how to make life easy for your out of town guests (and yourselves!), some important things to consider when planning a semi-destination wedding and how to hold your boundaries when planning solo. And shout out to the listeners who requested this topic - thank you! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to Not Feel Lonely While Planning Your Wedding

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 24:06


    In the movies wedding planning always looks like so much fun. It's trying on outfits, tasting cakes or arranging flowers with your best friends. But in real life, wedding planning can feel kind of lonely. Turns out, your friends and family don't always want to help plan your wedding - after all, it is your wedding and not theirs. And especially if you're the first or last in your friend group to get married, the whole process can feel kind of isolating.In this week's episodes, I'm sharing my tips for how to deal with the loneliness and isolation of wedding planning. Where can you find other brides/grooms to connect with, how do you involve your friends and why is being the first/last to get married actually a good thing? Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Help, My Maid of Honor Is a Flake!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2024 31:17


    Dealing with wedding party drama? This episode is for you! We hear a lot in wedding planning communities that someone's maid of honor is flaking on their responsibilities, a wedding party member is being difficult about an outfit, a best man isn't responding to texts or an attendant isn't supporting the couple like they should be. So what can you do about? Tune is as I address a listener question all about an MOH who has changed since she got a boyfriend plus my general tips for how to deal with a wedding party who is letting you down. Warning, there's about to be some tough love coming at you! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    11 Wedding Guest List Mistakes to Avoid

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2024 37:25


    In this week's episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast we're tackling guest list mistakes. From having a B list to collecting RSVPs, we'll talk about what mistakes you shouldn't make and which ones I actually think are okay. Let's solve your wedding guest list drama! Inspired by https://www.brides.com/guest-list-mistakes-expert-tips-7111928 & https://www.vogue.in/content/major-wedding-guestlist-mistakes-to-avoid-according-to-experts Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to Make Your Wedding a Safe Space for Your LGBTQ+ Guests

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2024 26:07


    On this new episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast, I'm answering a listener question all about how to make their wedding a safe, welcoming and inclusive space for their LGBTQ+ guests. Should they say something to their more conservative family members ahead of time? I'm also sharing tips on how to make your wedding less gendered and more inclusive, because regardless of who is on the guest list, that's always a good idea! Reference article: https://apracticalwedding.com/trans-non-binary-inclusive-wedding/Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The 5 Things Guests Want at Your Wedding

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2024 36:01


    Welcome back, wedding planners! On this week's episode, we're looking at things from the guest perspective. What do your wedding guests actually want? What do they care about? I've broken it down to 5 things that all begin with C. Because they're the 5 things guests want to C at your wedding (get it? I'm sorry, I'll see myself out). Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Wedding Planning Q&A

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2024 35:12


    On this week's episode I'm answering more of your wedding planning questions! We're tackling lopsided wedding parties, brunch receptions, bride self-care, pets at weddings and more! Want to have your wedding planning question answered on the next Q&A episode? Send it in through the link below! Fill out this quick form with your feedback, wedding planning qs and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    17 Unpopular Wedding Opinions You Should Consider

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2024 40:30


    Here at the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast, we're all about thinking outside the box and not trying to win a wedding popularity contest. That's why this episode is all about unpopular wedding opinions. From dress codes and guest lists to wedding songs and wedding photographer, this list covers it all. Which unpopular wedding opinions are bogus and which should you consider? Inspired by https://www.theknot.com/content/unpopular-wedding-opinionsHave a wedding planning question or episode idea? Newly engaged and want to share? Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Do You Have to Host Post-Wedding Celebrations?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 38:00


    Are post-wedding celebrations mandatory? Do you have to host brunch the next morning, open up your gifts in front of everyone or invite your guests to a bunch of wedding weekend activities? Since when did weddings become full-on multi-day events? In this episode, I'm talking all about post-wedding celebrations and how to handle them whether you want to have them, don't want to or are feeling forced to! (Quick note: It seems like my audio for this episode is a lot quieter than normal. Sorry! The intro/outro are regular volume but the rest is really quiet. I'll try to work on this!) Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to Plan a Restaurant Wedding Reception

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2024 32:09


    Happy new year and welcome 2024 couples! Are you considering hosting your wedding reception at a restaurant? Then this is the episode for you! A restaurant wedding reception is a great way to (possibly) save some money, embrace your inner foodie and get away from a boring wedding hall or hotel ballroom reception. Tune in and learn why a restaurant reception may be right for you and what to consider before you host your wedding at a restaurant. Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    11 Questions to Ask Your Partner About Kids Before You Walk Down the Aisle

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2023 47:06


    In today's episode I'm going through 11 questions all about kids that you and your partner should discuss before you get married. Most of us have asked or been asked the "do you want kids?" question but there's so much more for you and your fiance(e) to talk about. Based on this article: https://www.thrivecouplescoaching.com/blog/questions-about-kids-before-you-get-married***Heads up: The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast is moving to a bi-weekly schedule. Look out for a new episode in two weeks and have a great holiday! ***I want this podcast to be useful to you and to discuss the things you care about. So, let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77You can also check out my second podcast, "Any Questions? A Podcast About Conception, Pregnancy & Realistic Motherhood" if you're on your own fertility/TTC journey! https://open.spotify.com/show/7uxPpQZgfnzMxJcYhjvtqa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    13 Tips for Planning a Wedding After Party

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2023 40:15


    Are you planning a wedding after party? A way to keep the party going after your reception? Then this is the episode for you! Even if you're not sure if you want to host an after party (because they are not mandatory!) this episode will give you some great ideas about how to save money on your after party and keep it more casual, if that's more your vibe. Or if you want to go all out, I've got tips for that too! I want this wedding planning podcast to be useful to you and to discuss the things you care about. So, let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    How to Actually Get People to Help You With Your Wedding

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2023 33:28


    After missing last week I'm back with another episode inspired by a listener who asked how to delegate, assign and get people to help you with the wedding planning tasks you actually need help with. As soon as you're engaged and planning a wedding, everyone wants to help! But do they really want to? Tune in, because you might find my answer a little controversial! I want this podcast to be useful to you and to discuss the things you care about. So, let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Your Guide to Mixed Gender Wedding Parties

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2023 27:59


    In today's wedding planning podcast episode we're talking all about mixed gender wedding parties! In the year of 2023, why do we still feel forced to split wedding parties by gender? Say goodbye to only female bridesmaids and only male groomsmen and hello to your wedding crew of best people, regardless of their gender! I want this podcast to be useful to you and to discuss the things you care about. So, let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Everything You Need to Know About Bridal Showers & Bachelorette Parties

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2023 41:56


    When it comes to wedding showers, bridal showers, bachelorette parties, bachelor parties, hen do's, stag do's and any other pre-wedding events, it can be natural to have a lot of questions. Who is responsible for planning this thing? Who pays? Who gets invited? Should you be expecting gifts? And what happens if your wedding is only a few months away and no one has brought up the shower or bach yet? Tune into today's episode of the Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast for a crash course on all things showers and bach parties. I'm sharing where these parties came from, what they traditionally looked like and, most importantly, how you can make them your own. I may or may not rant about why you need to step up and help plan your own party since your friends can't read your mind...***I want this podcast to be useful to you and to discuss the things you care about. So, let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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