Podcast appearances and mentions of kristin fry

Tune in for a special message from our friend, Kristin Fry, all about the importance of growing and strengthening deep community in our church.

Online dating can be tough. With thousands of apps and websites available, it can be difficult to know what to do. Am I ready for online dating? Where do I start? Does this stuff really work? How do I avoid the dreaded catfish?!   On this week's episode, you'll hear from Christian author and friend of the show, Kristin Fry. Kristin's book "Beyond the Swipe" helps readers navigate the do's and don'ts of online dating, and how to navigate that process as believers. Kristin will give you some practical tips on how to get started, common pitfalls that you'd want to avoid, and how to properly transition the relationship to reality.   Enjoy today's episode? Don't forget to subscribe, share, and leave us a review!   Produced by KCBI Radio. Music by audionautix.com.   Kristin's Book, Beyond the Swipe: https://www.amazon.com/Beyond-Swipe-Honoring-Respecting-Yourself-ebook/dp/B078NDDX53/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=beyond+the+swipe&qid=1677159532&s=books&sprefix=beyond+the+swi%2Cstripbooks%2C167&sr=1-1   Connect with Kristin here!  -https://kristinfry.com/ -IG: @kfrygirl

In today's podcast, our COO, Jennifer Paulson sits down with Kristin Fry, our Executive Search Consultant. They discuss the importance of maintaining a healthy Work and Life Balance. Kristin shares a few of her personal tips for prioritizing a strong mental capacity space while also maximizing her work efficiency. https://www.vanderbloemen.com/blog/modeling-work-life-balance-podcast

This one gets personal. Co-host Julie Graham has already shared a bit of her story—a difficult childhood, married at 21, widowed at 33, and spending the last three years as a single, working mom to her spunky little boy. Back in the dating world, she discovered a gap. There wasn’t much for single Christian women wanting to date online, much less for moms. It seemed like the message was that it was wrong or unsafe, to be avoided at all costs. But, she found her way, employing the advice of a friend of the show and Licensed Therapist, Dr. Zoe Shaw. Now, she’s preparing to become Mrs. Julie Bender, marrying the newly found love of her life during a pandemic in front of their closest family and friends. In this episode, she shares this part of her story, how she met "D" and when she knew he was "the one." Darlene explores the pitfalls she faced while dating and how they’ve grown as a couple as they become not just husband and wife, but also a family of three. Whether you’ve experienced divorce or widowhood, you'll find nuggets of truth in this episode—a testimony of how our very own Julie Graham found redemptive love. It just might be there for you, too. Viewing in an app? Full show notes here! Articles We Mentioned or Know You'll Love When Will I Be Ready to Date After My Husband’s Death? This Is a Window Into My Widowhood Is Marriage Just a Piece of Paper? Or Is It Something More? When a Strong Woman Is Quitting, But Not Failing 10 Things You Need to Know Before You Try Online Dating From a Therapist: This Is Why Your Self-Talk Matters Quote of the episode: "I don't know exactly what the future holds, but I'm stepping forward with grit, anchored in grace." -Julie Graham Check out the episode we mentioned: Can You Really Leave Your Past Behind You? – 028, What Today’s Dating Scene is Really Like – 094, Julie Graham’s Untold Story of Heartbreak, Healing and Hope – 101 and Single? How to Thrive in the Online Dating World with Kristin Fry – 037! Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife

This one gets personal. Co-host Julie Graham has already shared a bit of her story—a difficult childhood, married at 21, widowed at 33, and spending the last three years as a single, working mom to her spunky little boy. Back in the dating world, she discovered a gap. There wasn’t much for single Christian women wanting to date online, much less for moms. It seemed like the message was that it was wrong or unsafe, to be avoided at all costs. But, she found her way, employing the advice of a friend of the show and Licensed Therapist, Dr. Zoe Shaw. Now, she’s preparing to become Mrs. Julie Bender, marrying the newly found love of her life during a pandemic in front of their closest family and friends. In this episode, she shares this part of her story, how she met "D" and when she knew he was "the one." Darlene explores the pitfalls she faced while dating and how they’ve grown as a couple as they become not just husband and wife, but also a family of three. Whether you’ve experienced divorce or widowhood, you'll find nuggets of truth in this episode—a testimony of how our very own Julie Graham found redemptive love. It just might be there for you, too. Viewing in an app? Full show notes here!   Articles We Mentioned or Know You'll Love When Will I Be Ready to Date After My Husband’s Death? When my husband passed away suddenly, I knew fairly quickly I would want to date again. For some, that Read more This Is a Window Into My Widowhood I remember getting the call. “Paul has had an accident and it’s not good. We need to get over Read more Is Marriage Just a Piece of Paper? Or Is It Something More? It appears a lot of women are waiting for their man to propose. They have been a couple for Read more When a Strong Woman Is Quitting, But Not Failing You’re reading this because there is something in your life that you have an inkling you need to let Read more 10 Things You Need to Know Before You Try Online Dating Let’s be realistic. I’d love to sit here and write about how to avoid the nightmare of online dating. Read more From a Therapist: This Is Why Your Self-Talk Matters Most people get it wrong when they think about who their greatest influence is. It’s not your mom, your Read more Quote of the episode: "I don't know exactly what the future holds, but I'm stepping forward with grit, anchored in grace." -Julie Graham Check out the episode we mentioned: Can You Really Leave Your Past Behind You? – 028, What Today’s Dating Scene is Really Like – 094, Julie Graham’s Untold Story of Heartbreak, Healing and Hope – 101 and Single? How to Thrive in the Online Dating World with Kristin Fry – 037! Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife

Some days, it feels like we’re facing battles alone. But the truth is, God is always with us. And He shows His presence through the connections we have with others. Today’s guests share how cultivating strong friendships over time have transformed their lives. TV actor Jeremy Miller (best known as Ben Seaver on Growing Pains) and pediatric cardiologist Brandon Lane Phillips met when they were kids, and eventually, Brandon’s fight for Jeremy would end up saving his life. Indiana friends and contractors Josh Arnett and Aaron Gray were propelled to fame when they put aside their tools to record a spontaneous hymn of worship—and one Facebook video later, the viral singing sensations “The Singing Contractors” were born. With these stories, we remember that when we step outside our comfort zone and reach out to others, God can use those people and those moments for His purpose.   Links, Products and Resources Mentioned: Sarah Young Jesus Calling Podcast Jesus Calling books Jesus Calling weekly prayer call NEW! Jesus Calling Magazine  The Unfailing Kindness of Christ: Candace Cameron Buré and Kristin Fry   Jeremy Miller & Brandon Lande Phillips When I Wished Upon a Star book IMDB: Jeremy Miller, ‘Ben Seaver on Growing Pains’ IMDB: Kirk Cameron  IMDB: Alan Thicke Congenital Heart Defect Tetralogy of Fallot Starlight Children’s Foundation    The Singing Contractors  “How Great Thou Art” song “Working on a Building” CD   Interview Quotes: “If I could go from my little town in Louisiana to meet these people in Hollywood, then as far as I was concerned, I could do anything.” - Brandon Lane Phillips “I started running from God. I wasn't angry at God, I was just ashamed. I knew I was doing everything wrong. I quit going to church. I quit praying. I quit everything. I just ran the other direction. And it was a miserable way to live, I can tell you that. “ - Jeremy Miller “My family, my faith, and my recovery are the center of my life every single day.” - Jeremy Miller “[I am] able to utilize all the hurts, all the problems, all the horrors that I went through in my addiction, and even growing up, to help others.” - Jeremy Miller “The fact that God gives us that opportunity to take that pain and those struggles and use them for something good and give them a purpose is such a blessing. And in my mind, it makes all of it worth it.” - Jeremy Miller  “God's plan—good, bad, or indifferent as it's affecting our life at that moment—is exactly how He meant it to be. So wherever we are, whatever we're dealing with right now, at this moment, is exactly perfect.” - Jeremy Miller “What did Jesus do? He equipped the unequipped . . . I feel it's what He's doing with us. We're unequipped, but He's helping us every step we take.” - Aaron Gray, The Singing Contractors “What keeps us going is when we know that something as little as what we're doing can encourage somebody else—that encourages us to keep going and to keep pressing on. That's why we do it.” - Josh Arnett, The Singing Contractors “The ultimate friend and the ultimate encourager is Jesus himself.” - Josh Arnett, The Singing Contractors “When tools, beards, Jesus, and our music collide—it's fun to talk about the tools and beards and everything. But at the end of the day, we just want to uplift Jesus’ name.” - Aaron Gray, The Singing Contractors ________________________ Enjoy these videos on Jesus Calling YouTube channel: Audio podcast: https://bit.ly/2uCnNM0  Original Series video podcast: https://bit.ly/2WzFY0O  ________________________  Connect with Jesus Calling Instagram Facebook Twitter Pinterest YouTube Jesus Calling Website

Are you dating or do you have a friend who is? If you haven’t been in the dating world for the last decade, the cultural shift that has hit will leave your head spinning. For those who are currently single, we realize you’re going to face challenges your married friends may not understand. In this episode, co-hosts Darlene Brock (happily married for several decades) and Julie Graham (widowed after 11 years of marriage to her college sweetheart....and currently dating) talk through some of the stereotypes in the dating scene. First, they discuss how to know if you’re ready to date. Then, Darlene gets Julie’s inside scoop on what it’s like to navigate the often scary online dating world. In their signature style, they take a few minutes to get personal: unpacking how to support a friend who’s looking for a partner. And these ladies cannot leave this subject without sharing how to make a list of the qualities you’re looking for in a date before you consider meeting anyone new—pulling from sage advice Julie got from Dr. Zoe Shaw. Whether you’re dating, know someone who’s dating, or haven’t had a date in 15 years, this week you’re bound to learn something new! If you're looking to make your own list of what you're looking for in a potential date, feel free to pull from Julie's top 5: 1) Loves Jesus 2) Has integrity and is well spoken of 3) Emotionally Supportive 4) Common interests and chemistry 5) Supports my goals/dreams and wants to see me succeed Viewing in an app? Full show notes here! Quote of the episode: "When it comes to dating you want the whole meal deal" Darlene Brock Check out these episodes we mentioned: Single? How to Thrive in the Online Dating World with Kristin Fry – 037, Single Again? How to Know When to Date After Death or Divorce with Ashby Duval – 056, and Dating? What to Look for in a Man – 073. Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife

Are you dating or do you have a friend who is? If you haven’t been in the dating world for the last decade, the cultural shift that has hit will leave your head spinning. For those who are currently single, we realize you’re going to face challenges your married friends may not understand. In this episode, co-hosts Darlene Brock (happily married for several decades) and Julie Graham (widowed after 11 years of marriage to her college sweetheart....and currently dating) talk through some of the stereotypes in the dating scene. First, they discuss how to know if you’re ready to date. Then, Darlene gets Julie’s inside scoop on what it’s like to navigate the often scary online dating world. In their signature style, they take a few minutes to get personal: unpacking how to support a friend who’s looking for a partner. And these ladies cannot leave this subject without sharing how to make a list of the qualities you’re looking for in a date before you consider meeting anyone new—pulling from sage advice Julie got from Dr. Zoe Shaw. Whether you’re dating, know someone who’s dating, or haven’t had a date in 15 years, this week you’re bound to learn something new! If you're looking to make your own list of what you're looking for in a potential date, feel free to pull from Julie's top 5: 1) Loves Jesus 2) Has integrity and is well spoken of 3) Emotionally Supportive 4) Common interests and chemistry 5) Supports my goals/dreams and wants to see me succeed Viewing in an app? Full show notes here! Articles We Mentioned or Know You'll Love When Will I Be Ready to Date After My Husband’s Death? When my husband passed away suddenly, I knew fairly quickly I would want to date again. For some, that might seem odd. You see, I love marriage. So much so that I even began an online community for wives (and Read more 5 Guys to Avoid (That Your Mother Warned You About) Navigating the dating world at any age is difficult. We come into our own as teenagers, when many of us experience the first taste of what it is to go on a date. Perhaps your parents pick your date Read more Here’s a Quick Way to Know If You Should Keep Dating Him “All the single ladies. All the single ladies. All the single ladies, now put your hands up!” Most of us have heard this now infamous song whether playing it on our iPod after a breakup or at a wedding Read more Should You Ask Him Out? Alright, ladies, let’s tackle one of the biggest questions in our minds when we’re interested in a guy: Should we ask him out? He’s really handsome, funny, you enjoy hanging out with him, and you want to take it Read more Dear Friend, He Doesn’t See Your Worth But I Do As adults, we tend to be multi-track minded. So, I’m sorry I haven’t been as frequent in checking in on you as I could be. I promise to try and do better, but speak up when you’re struggling, OK? Read more Quote of the episode: "When it comes to dating you want the whole meal deal" Darlene Brock Check out these episodes we mentioned: Single? How to Thrive in the Online Dating World with Kristin Fry – 037, Single Again? How to Know When to Date After Death or Divorce with Ashby Duval – 056, and Dating? What to Look for in a Man – 073. Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife

Most women are looking for a healthy, secure, and romantic relationship with the man in their life. Sometimes we do things that, instead of making it better, are killing it. Now, we know that men can be relationship killers too, but we will leave that for another discussion. So, we're asking you, are you making these common mistakes that undermine the foundation of the relationship you hold so dear? We all do them, but if we don't have a bestie who tells it to us straight, sometimes we don’t even know that we're doing anything wrong. In this episode, Darlene Brock (happily married for an undisclosed number of decades) and Julie Graham (widowed single mom, dating again after her loss) talk through these deadly relationship killers, and how to avoid them. They also share a few insights on what you might do instead to build a strong, thriving partnership. Listen now, you and your man will both be glad you did! Have you heard Darlene on the Jesus Calling Podcast yet? We know you'll enjoy the episode! Click the link or the image to listen now. Viewing in an app? Full show notes here! Quote of the episode: “The couples that are meant to be are the ones that go through everything that is meant to tear them apart and come out even stronger." Check out these episodes we mentioned: Single? How to Thrive in the Online Dating World with Kristin Fry – 037, Miss Independent: Can You Be Healthy, Strong and Dependent? – 047, and Dating? What to Look for in a Man – 073. Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife

Women are faced with decisions every day—from the tiny, seemingly insignificant ones like what to wear, eat or watch, to the big ones. You may be deciding what job to take, where to move or how to deal with friendships gone awry. Our lives can change by the decisions we make, and they even can be affected by those we refuse to make. With that in mind, co-hosts Darlene Brock and Julie Graham take this episode to outline five steps that help when making a decision. They also spend a little time on two of the tough ones facing women today—when to walk away from a dating relationship that is going nowhere and what do you do when dealing with an unplanned pregnancy. These five points will help in any decision facing women today, big or small. Follow them, trust your gut and make that decision, applying a bit of grit and grace. Here are the 5 steps for making a decision: 1. Identify your goal or the decision that needs to be made. 2. Gather information. 3. Find alternatives, evaluate and eliminate. 4. Choose! Make your decision and commit. 5. Review and adjust as needed. If you're facing an unplanned pregnancy and want more information we recommend: Pregnancy Decision Line 1-855-910-9123 pregnancydecisionsonline.com OptionLine 1-800-712-4357 or text HELPLINE to 313131 Viewing in an app? Full show notes here! Quote of the episode: "When you wake up every day, it's like a new birthday: it's a new chance to be great again and make great decisions." Winnie The Pooh Check out these episodes we mentioned: Single? How to Thrive in the Online Dating World with Kristin Fry – 037 and Dating? What to Look for in a Man – 073. Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife

Women are faced with decisions every day—from the tiny, seemingly insignificant ones like what to wear, eat or watch, to the big ones. You may be deciding what job to take, where to move or how to deal with friendships gone awry. Our lives can change by the decisions we make, and they even can be affected by those we refuse to make. With that in mind, co-hosts Darlene Brock and Julie Graham take this episode to outline five steps that help when making a decision. They also spend a little time on two of the tough ones facing women today—when to walk away from a dating relationship that is going nowhere and what do you do when dealing with an unplanned pregnancy. These five points will help in any decision facing women today, big or small. Follow them, trust your gut and make that decision, applying a bit of grit and grace. Here are the 5 steps for making a decision: 1. Identify your goal or the decision that needs to be made. 2. Gather information. 3. Find alternatives, evaluate and eliminate. 4. Choose! Make your decision and commit. 5. Review and adjust as needed. If you're facing an unplanned pregnancy and want more information we recommend: Pregnancy Decision Line 1-855-910-9123 pregnancydecisionsonline.com OptionLine 1-800-712-4357 or text HELPLINE to 313131 Viewing in an app? Full show notes here! Articles We Mentioned or Know You'll Love 2 Ways to Break Free From Self-Sabotage In a podcast episode of This Grit and Grace Life, Julie and Darlene talk about ruts that women fall into. (You can listen to that episode here.) You know, those tricky little potholes we run over from time Read more Make the Decision to Be a Woman of Strength “You can make today great or not—the choice is yours!” With a quick wink and point at the camera, our beloved elementary school P.E. teacher slides out of the shot. The camera then pans over to the fifth-grade anchors to Read more 4 Things You Need to Know About Pre-Wedding Jitters Getting married is one of the biggest decisions you will ever make because it really is life-changing. As well as you might know the person to whom you’re pledging your love and loyalty—for better or worse—you simply cannot know Read more 3 Keys to Successful Leadership in the Midst of Chaos Have you ever found yourself in a situation where the answer just wasn’t clear? Maybe it was a decision to take a new job in a different city. Maybe it was a really confusing or Read more A Strong Woman Has These 7 Things on Her Bucket List If you’re in search of more meaning in life, crossing off a few extra items on your bucket list can be the very thing that sends you on a journey of self-discovery. For some of us, bucket lists contain Read more Quote of the episode: "When you wake up every day, it's like a new birthday: it's a new chance to be great again and make great decisions." Winnie The Pooh Check out these episodes we mentioned: Single? How to Thrive in the Online Dating World with Kristin Fry – 037 and Dating? What to Look for in a Man – 073. Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife

Are you single? The dating waters can be treacherous, but they don’t have to take you under! You’re looking for a good man. Maybe you already have a list of must-haves and deal-breakers. Or perhaps you need to make one. Does this current dating world scare you? Do you assume online dating doesn’t work? What qualities do you find in a good man? Co-hosts Darlene (who is “very married”, as she puts it), and Julie (widowed boy mom re-entering the dating scene) discuss how to find a man worth your time. To gain answers, they tapped into a great resource: the team of writers at The Grit and Grace Project online magazine, who had some excellent tips. Whether you’re looking for love or think you’re over dating altogether, these insights will have you ready to mingle. (Send it to your single friend if you’re “very married” too!) Viewing in an app? Full show notes here! Quote of the episode: "You have a choice, you don’t have to go out with them just because they ask you or you’re feeling lonely. Know yourself and love yourself enough to say ‘no’ to someone who isn’t for you.” -Ashby Duval   Check out these episodes we mentioned: When to Leave an Unhealthy Relationship with Your Man – with Dr. Zoe Shaw – 024, Single? How to Thrive in the Online Dating World with Kristin Fry – 037, and Single Again? How to Know When to Date After Death or Divorce with Ashby Duval – 056! Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife

Are you single? The dating waters can be treacherous, but they don’t have to take you under! You’re looking for a good man. Maybe you already have a list of must-haves and deal-breakers. Or perhaps you need to make one. Does this current dating world scare you? Do you assume online dating doesn’t work? What qualities do you find in a good man? Co-hosts Darlene (who is “very married”, as she puts it), and Julie (widowed boy mom re-entering the dating scene) discuss how to find a man worth your time. To gain answers, they tapped into a great resource: the team of writers at The Grit and Grace Project online magazine, who had some excellent tips. Whether you’re looking for love or think you’re over dating altogether, these insights will have you ready to mingle. (Send it to your single friend if you’re “very married” too!) Viewing in an app? Full show notes here! Articles We Mentioned or Know You'll Love What is Whole30 and How to Get Started Ever since I completed my first month of Whole30 back in January, many have asked me, “What do I need to know in order to get started?” Melissa Hartwig, the co-creator of Whole30, wants us all to say and Read more 5 Guys to Avoid (That Your Mother Warned You About) Navigating the dating world at any age is difficult. We come into our own as teenagers, when many of us experience the first taste of what it is to go on a date. Perhaps your parents pick your date Read more When Will I Be Ready to Date After My Husband’s Death? When my husband passed away suddenly, I knew fairly quickly I would want to date again. For some, that might seem odd. You see, I love marriage. So much so that I even began an online community for wives (and Read more 10 Things You Need to Know Before You Try Online Dating Let’s be realistic. I’d love to sit here and write about how to avoid the nightmare of online dating. It’s scary, can be depressing, and unbelievably frustrating. When we feel like we have tried everything else, we turn to Read more Establishing Healthy Boundaries in the Grit and Grace Life Healthy personal boundaries are the key to healthy relationships. Without them, healthy relationships are impossible. Yes, you heard that right. Impossible. That is because boundaries provide a necessary and very important distinction between yourself and Read more How the 5 Love Languages Can Change Your Relationship After 30+ years of marriage, you think I would have figured out a long time ago what is the best way to interact with my husband. But apparently I’m stubborn and sometimes selfish and would much prefer to keep doing Read more Quote of the episode: "You have a choice, you don’t have to go out with them just because they ask you or you’re feeling lonely. Know yourself and love yourself enough to say ‘no’ to someone who isn’t for you.” -Ashby Duval   Check out these episodes we mentioned: When to Leave an Unhealthy Relationship with Your Man – with Dr. Zoe Shaw – 024, Single? How to Thrive in the Online Dating World with Kristin Fry – 037, and Single Again? How to Know When to Date After Death or Divorce with Ashby Duval – 056! Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife

As followers of Christ, we all have the opportunity to treat others with integrity and love, making a difference in a sometimes unkind world. Full House and Dancing with the Stars actress Candace Cameron Buré is putting this into practice in her daily life by seeking ways to show little kindnesses to the people around her daily--even if only through a smile. Author and speaker Kristin Fry knows the challenges of being a single Christian woman in a community that prizes marriage and family. She gives her perspective on how to date with compassion and integrity--never forgetting that despite our marital status--God has chosen us for His purposes and loves us just as we are.  

This week, author Kristin Fry joins us to discuss her new book on online dating, Beyond the Swipe, and shares why singles should not "waste your wait". The Praisecast team determines whether smart phones are ruining relationships, they discuss the social importance of Chris Pratt's recent speech at the MTV Music Awards, and a few people intervieWednesday on the street chronicle their experiences with online dating. Online dating tip #57: Never tell someone you are going to make them your "trophy wife" upon introducing yourself.

Dating is complicated enough, let alone when you add money into the mix. On this episode, I interview the author of "Beyond the Swipe", Kristin Fry, about dating and money. We talk about whether the guy should pay for everything and non-negotiables when it comes to relationships and money. Enter the giveaway here - https://www.findyourmoneypath.com/beyond-the-swipe You can buy Kristin's book over on Amazon - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B078NDDX53/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1 Intro music by Jeff Kaale & Andrew Applepie. Check them out: Jeff Kaale: soundcloud.com/jeff-kaale instagram.com/jeffkaale/ Andrew Applepie: soundcloud.com/andrewapplepie facebook.com/andrewapplepie

Are you navigating the single scene? Do your emotions range from fear to embarrassment at the thought of trying online dating? Author of the book “Beyond the Swipe,” Kristin Fry joins Darlene (married for a million years, her words) and Julie (a newly single widow after her 15-year relationship) to discuss navigating the digital dating waters in an honorable way. In a warm, conversational style, Fry’s book tackles a broad range of topics from evaluating profiles to first dates to maintaining healthy peer friendships even while dating. In this episode, the three engage in enlightening, encouraging and entertaining girl talk about the single scene today. Since your co-hosts learned a lot about this subject, they are sure you will too. This one is a great episode to share with a single friend you know-it could help! Viewing in an app? Full show notes here. You can follow Kristin by finding her on Facebook and Instagram. You can get her book, here!      You'll also enjoy this episode: When to Leave an Unhealthy Relationship With Your Man (with Dr. Zoe Shaw) – 024 Quote of the episode: "If he doesn't bring out the best in you, he's not the best for you" Kristin Fry Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife  

Are you navigating the single scene? Do your emotions range from fear to embarrassment at the thought of trying online dating? Author of the book “Beyond the Swipe,” Kristin Fry joins Darlene (married for a million years, her words) and Julie (a newly single widow after her 15-year relationship) to discuss navigating the digital dating waters in an honorable way. In a warm, conversational style, Fry’s book tackles a broad range of topics from evaluating profiles to first dates to maintaining healthy peer friendships even while dating. In this episode, the three engage in enlightening, encouraging and entertaining girl talk about the single scene today. Since your co-hosts learned a lot about this subject, they are sure you will too. This one is a great episode to share with a single friend you know-it could help! Viewing in an app? Full show notes here. You can follow Kristin by finding her on Facebook and Instagram. You can get her book, here!     Articles We Mentioned or Know You'll Love Stop Saying These Things to Your Single Friend, Now You know how there are those golden rules of what you do not, under any circumstances, ask a woman? Questions Read more How Breaking Up Made Me a Stronger Woman Once upon a time, I was in a five-year relationship. There were good times and bad times, but overall—it was just a lot of time. A lot of shared Read more How to Know if Your Boyfriend is a Charity Case Defining a Fixer  What is a “fixer”? A fixer is someone who feels best when helping others. If they see someone who is less fortunate, their first inclination is to try to remedy the situation. They have a keen sense of Read more My Story, Daring to Date After Divorce I was talking with one of my besties from high school while the kiddos played with their toys on the floor. We were just about to hang up the phone when she quickly interjected that she thinks that she Read more You'll also enjoy this episode: When to Leave an Unhealthy Relationship With Your Man (with Dr. Zoe Shaw) – 024 Quote of the episode: "If he doesn't bring out the best in you, he's not the best for you" Kristin Fry Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife  

Kristin Fry joins me for Episode 82 to talk about surviving singlehood. She has worked in full-time ministry for many years. She is a confident, ambitious woman who has a strong desire to help women be self-assured and secure. I invited her to the show so that we could have a conversation about single life. We talk about how to deal with self doubt and insecurity, hurdles to the current dating scene and what it looks like for her to balance her current circumstances with a desire to be married. Links: Creativity, INC by Ed Catmull Takeaways From Our Conversation: Even though this was a conversation about surviving single life, I feel like there is so much application for women in general. Many of us find ourselves in holding patterns—waiting for what’s next. Her advice to just make the best next decision is so good. Or another thing that really hit me was the truth that we need to operate out of a sense of who you are rather than waiting for a man or relationship or child or job or status to make you complete. That is sometimes so hard, isn’t it? Another thing that Brene Brown talks about it is how we sometimes operate out of a sense of scarcity rather than operating from a place of being enough--that you are enough and that you have enough for today. How to deal with insecurity--remember that God has created you on purpose for a purpose. No one else can do what God has proposed you to do What did you enjoy about this episode? What was your takeaway. Let's continue the conversation  on Instagram or Twitter or you can send me an email here.  Thank you for following along life with me. I love being apart of your day. And as always, I hope this show helps you survive a little easier.

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