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Question: How do you know if your D or P game is trash? Answer: Listen to Robert and Candace!

In honor of Halloween, we discuss the scariest thing for single people...Dating in your Thirties!

Rob and Candace went to a Charity Ball and shared a meal with Dr. Anita Hill! They discuss their week and Rob talks about his problem with having to share food all the time with Candace. There's some fukery of the week and they also answer an intriguing "would you rather".

Candace doesn't really like being married, her and Rob discuss it.

Candace is back with Rob and they go in depth on how their relationship REALLY works while they are both in school, handling long work hours, building businesses....and not really seeing each other much

Candace aint around so Rob does his first solo podcast!

We brought in some outside help! Our friends Slim and Hayley came in to talk getting it with co-workers relationships. are they a good idea, a bad idea? What's the best way to get in and out of one? We discuss

This week we talk about withholding sex as punishment. Is it justifiable? Does it work? What about masturbation in relationships. Is it okay? When is it okay? We discuss it!

We got a listener letter with a really good question: "How do you get to know your partner when you're already in a relationship?" We give our thoughts, discuss some updates, talk about our week and more! Send emails to info@BlackMarriedFly.com

www.BlackMarriedFly.com We discuss a bad restaurant experience we had (it was the people, not the food). We talk about a woman that was trying to divorce her husband because he was "too nice". We also try another "would you rather."

This week Rob and Candace introduce a new segment called 'Would You Rather'. In the main topic, they discuss strip clubs. Are they okay if you're in a relationship? What if your s/o is opposed to them? Is okay to go anyway? Rob has a new road to immortality entry and the couple discuss some new fukery. Press Play!

Welcome to Season 3 of BlackMarriedFly! This episode we catch you guys up on what we've been up during our season break and some of what we have planned for this season. We also discuss some of the pet peeves of our spouse (it gets heated toward the end). Send your questions and comments to info@BlackMarriedFly.com

April Danielle and Darnell of Talkin Greasy invited Rob and Candace and some other couples to have some real convos around marriage. They split up the guys and the ladies and we talked about why we got married, why marriage ain't for everybody and some of the issues we've encountered.

In the final episode of the season, Rob and Candace discuss Millennial vs. Old School which way works best for getting and keeping a spouse Rob will be in ATL on June 8th as part of the IAMKING event and Panel buy your tickets here: www.eventbrite.com/e/i-am-king-tickets-59028996317 For 10% off use discount code: ROB

Candace has a terrible time at the dentist, Rob is trying to stay motivated in his fit life. We attended our first Passover Seder (thx Jazz!). We shared a baby update, and in our main topic discussed what it takes to level up in your relationship and how we've grown in ours. Rob hijacks the Yum Yum review and speaks on new music he's been listening to.

Rob fell off his fitness kick and had one cheat meal too many and feels like crap about it, and Candace details why she is looking forward to the summer. We have a special guest Omini Ewah, co-owner of Obia Naturals, a hair care and skin products company. He details how he and his sister founded the company, how he juggles being an Entrepreneur with having a Girlfriend, the cultural differences of as a Nigerian-American man dating an America Woman and picks our brains about marriage and dating. Candace DeNea reviews Anderson Paak's latest project and some great happy hour spots. Rob will be in ATL on June 4th as part of the IAMKING event and Panel buy your tickets here: www.eventbrite.com/e/i-am-king-tickets-59028996317 For 10% off use discount code: ROB Check out Obia Natural Skin and Body Products: https://www.obianaturals.com/

Candace's school went on lockdown and Rob gives a health update. In the main topic we discuss dating as you age. Why is it getting harder to find good people, should your requirements list for a man/woman get shorter or longer, and what to do when you can't seem to find a good one. Candace gives a Yum Yum review, and as always we discuss what we've been listening to this week. Rob will be in ATL on June 4th as part of the IAMKING event and Panel buy your tickets here: www.eventbrite.com/e/i-am-king-tickets-59028996317 For 10% off use discount code: ROB

Candace is still trying not to strangle people. Rob has a big announcement. In the main topic, Candace and Rob talk about going Dutch, if they've done it, if it's ever okay to do, and what it can really mean. Candace has a new Yum Yum review and the couple discuss music they've been listening to this week. Rob will be in ATL on June 4th as part of the IAMKING event and Panel buy your tickets here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/i-am-king-tickets-59028996317 For 10% off use discount code: ROB

Candace and Rob talk about their week, an awesome time they had at a Millennial Wives Club event, and more. Jayden Hollywood, a financial professional and owner of LetsMakeMoneyMoves.com joins us to do an on-air financial consultation with us. He also talks about his debuting financial podcast and an event he is hosting to empower other content creators. Black Married Fly - www.BlackMarriedFly.com Jayden Hollywood - www.LetsMakeMoneyMoves.com

Rob talks about a new job he's started and Candace DeNea is coming off the Spring Break Blues. We read a listener letter and details some events we'll be attending. In the main topic we discuss Work Spouses. Is it Bullshxt or Nah? and what our rules are concerning them. Candace has a Yum Yum review and the couple discuss what they've been watching this week.

Rob discusses some new developments in his professional life, Candace discusses how her spring break is going and in the main topic the couple discuss if what it REALLY takes to be married and how to know if marriage is really for you. Tune In!

Candace had a hectic week (again), Rob had a fun time at a networking invite, is in the midst of some professional growth, and talks about his mama getting on his nerves. In the main topic the couple discuss a point when their marriage was close to falling apart and what they had to do individually to fix themselves and save it.

Rob has a blast at a 70s Party, Candace DeNea tried not to strangle some people, they are joined by their friend and licensed professional counselor Latrice Sampson. She talks about the new content she's creating for BlackMarriedFly.com (Heart2Heart coming March 1, being married to a younger man, and does some on the spot counseling for Rob and Candace.

Candace Denea and Rob Immortal talked about why Black Chyna keeps winning no matter what and whether she should teach these bops her winning ways. Amanda Seales had some thoughts about dating as a millennial and how some these are effing up. We discuss whether she's tripping or not. Rob reviews some old school music and Candace Denea shares whats shes listening to. Link to Amanda Seales video https://www.instagram.com/p/BtoU9V5Amix/

Candace and Rob (he changed his name) discuss why Rob has never done anything for Candace on Valentines Day. Candace details what a perfect Valentines Day looks like and why its so important to her. Candace sister Ms. Spicy dropped in and gave her perspective on V-Day as a single black woman. The three detail what they've been listening to and how their week's have been.

We talked about our week and detailed our newest giveaway as an appreciation to all of our listeners. We talked about the Hate crime against Jussie Smolett, reactionary slactivism, and if black men are responding to the issue correctly as a whole. Treblemaka saw a music video that made him cry and has a fresh Trebs tip for everyone.

Treblemaka and Candace talk about a wedding and a gala they went to...on the same day! Candace gives updates about TWO fertility appointments she had...on the same day. The couple discusses the Male and Female version of "No Man has all Five" that's been going around on Twitter. They wrap up with what music they've been listening to this week.

Candace DeNea discusses some Teaching wins she got this week. Treb talks about how he's been processing added life stress. The couple also give some tips on how to tell if your relationship has gone south.

WE BACK YALL! After being cancelled for 4 months Candace DeNea and Treblemaka return to update everyone with what's been going on for the past 4 months. We get super real and transparent about has been going right and wrong for them. Thank you for continuing to ride with us

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Candace discussed her first day of teaching and Treb talked about the date he planned. In the main topic a listener wrote in asking about contraception in marriage and our thoughts about it. Treb has a tip for the fellas, Candace discussed a new restaurant, and the couple discussed new music they are listening to.

IT'S OUR 100th EPISODE!!! Treb and Candace reflect on how they got here, how the podcast started, and of course, give an update on how their week has been. The couple asks "Do guys do things to impress other guys" how that can affect relationships and why people do it. Candace has a Yum Yum review and they talk about what they've been listening to this week.

Treblemaka reports back from his Birthday Vacay in Vegas, Candace gives some updates on her week and the couple discuss what it's like when both spouses are transitioning into a new job/career. They also talk about the classic marriage weight and what causes couples to slack off in their pursuit of the goals.

Treb's Birthday is Friday! Candace DeNea is officially a Teacher! They learn that cheating on your spouse could cost you 8 million. The couple discuss their misadventures this week involving parked trains, friends, and weak bbq ribs. Candace has a yum yum review, and Treb hooks the guys up with a tip!

Treblemaka and Candace DeNea discuss the new Aquaman and Shazam! trailers, and discuss why some people date below there standards. Have they ever dated down, if so why, and is it okay to date someone for superficial reasons. Candace has a Yum Yum review and Treb has a tip for the guys!

Candace tries to figure out why Treb didn't spend their anniversary together, Treb wants to know why Candace decided to cut all her hair off (literally), and why they are recording with a broken AC in 100 degree weather. In the main topic the couple discuss the power of having vision in your relationships and how lack of vision can affect them.

It's our ANNIVERSARY. Treb and Candace DeNea are celebrating their marriage anniversary. The Couple discusses how they met, how their relationship evolved, what they could've done better in the relationship, and peel back the layers of their relationship.

Treb and Candace discuss what can happen when a woman is bringing home the bacon in a relationship and how pressures each partner has to play to their own strengths. They also went to some networking events this past weekend and discussed why women dominate blogging and men seem to dominate podcasting. Candace and Treb are also starting a new challenge!

Treb went to his Therapist and discusses some things he discovered about himself. Candace had an "adventurous" week, and the couple get to play with someone else's baby. The couple reads a listener letter that turns into the main topic of the show: How come guys can't communicate worth a crap. Treb has a tip and the couple discuss what they've been listening to!

Treb and Candace regale (old school word) each other with updates on their week. The Couple reveal that physically they aren't really each other's first pick physically. Everyone has a type but is it fair to hold that against each other? They go in depth on what is universally attractive and whats needed to work in EVERY relationship. Treb reviews the new Nas project and Candace reveals a new artist she discovered. Press Play!

Treb and Candace are back from California and talk about seeing their nephew for the first first time. The Couple discuss the concern some guys have of getting finessed on a date, Treb has a tip for the guys and Candace gives her thoughts on the Kids see Ghosts project

Treb and Candace discuss this weeks developments as they travel to visit family. In the Main Topic the couple discuss the f*ck boy. Who is he, why does he exist? How do you get rid of him? Treb has a tip for the fellas and they discuss then (apparent) conclusion of the Pusha T/Drake Beef. Shouts out to this week's sponsor www.ADaddyslove.com Your source for all natural skin and hair products!

This week Treblemaka and Candace had the Drankin Patnaz crew in studio for the show. We talked about their experiences in relationships, how they formed their podcast and what it means to bring something to the table in a relationship. Candace had a Yum Yum review and we talked about some of the new developments in hip hop and music!

Treb and Candace Denea discuss how to dodge getting dropped as cuffing season comes to a hard stop and people getting into summertime fun. Treb discusses something about his job that is pissing him off, Candace DeNea has half a bottle of wine, Treb has a tip for the fellas, and they discuss what they've been listening to.

Treb and Candace discuss this past week, and the awesome weekend they were able to spend together. Treb discusses his progress in therapy, and Candace discusses some progress they made with their garden. In the Main topic the couple discuss what Self Doubt and Self Esteem issues can do in a relationship and ways to overcome them. Treb has a tip for the guys and the couple conclude with what they are listening to this week.

Treb and Candace discuss their week. Treb was away on business for over a week and is now back in town with Candace. While away Treb came up with 7 ways to keep a relationship fresh and ways to deal with distance. Candace tried an awesome Turkish restaurant and the couple discuss Childish Gambino's latest music at length!

Candace is BACK! We announce our giveaway winner and catch up on our week. Candace discusses the ways that double dating and hanging out with other couples can help you grow in your own relationship. Then the couple discuss what they are listening to this week!

Jazzmyn is back again this week! After discussing their week Treb and Jazz dive into Black Feminism and Toxic Masculinity. Is BlaWhat are they? How do they affect relationships? Is Toxic Masculinity just a buzz phrase? They discuss J Cole's KOD album and what is the root cause of mumble rap?

Jazzmyn Blu sat in for Candace, who's got some class work to wrap up. She (Jazzmyn) talked about her week helping children in a new program she started, Treb discussed some progress he's had in his therapy sessions, they discussed the new avenger film and the potential impact Black Panther will have on the new movie. Some how the subject of Wings and Strip club buffet specials came up. Treb and Jazzmyn discussed the Hart family (not Kevin) controversy, and the kid that was shot at trying to ask for directions. Jazzmyn gave her thoughts on Beyonce's Cochella performance, plus Jazz and Treb discussed how individualism has created a chasm between men and women, and what can be done about it.

Candace was out this week so new member of the BYNK Radio family, Jazzmyn Blu filled in and brought her beau, Ronjay. The couple met via a dating app. The group discussed why there is a perception that men and women hate each other on social media, the latest controversy with Stephon Clark surronding his social media accounts. The group discusses Cardi B's new album and how Jazzmyn is going to be contributing to the site. Thank you to our Sponsors! Latrice Sampson Richards - https://latricesampsonrichards.com/empowheryourvision.html A Daddys Loves - http://www.adaddyslove.com/Products.html

Treb had a seizure and completely disrupted Candace's week (Treb's okay now). Treb and Candace discuss head of household. Is it it necessary for millennials? What does it look like in the modern relationship? Is it even necessary? The couple also discuss the music they're listening to this week.