I’m Just Sayin’ Podcast

I think we should talk about Dating Levels!! In This Episode, I talk about my experience shooting my shot this past week and how it turned out. I then deep dive into what i think Dating Levels really are. is Dating leagues really a thing? Let's Discuss

I'm TIEEEEEDDDDDDD BOSS! I'm legit Taking a Break from Dating. Let's just say the Dating scene isn't working, so in this case, I gotta get back to the drawing board. Listen to my explanation!

I'ma keep this short and Sweet LOL. 5 Dating Expectations i'm not dealing with anymore. I'm not playing haha. Let me know what y'all think in the comments!

Ever been through something? Kind of a dumb question I know. Of Course you have! But think of the time you had to do something for yourself. That's what a "SOLO DATE" can be.In this episode I talk about how Solo Dates can be beneficial to your life and dating life. WE back baby!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! Here is my "Dating Wrapped 2024." LOL nawww I'm just playing. In this episode, I talk about my dating expectations for 2025. Mine aren't set in stone, but I think It's a good starting point to say the least,

We never talk about Yellow Flags in Dating.... A "yellow flag" in dating refers to a behavior or trait in a potential partner that might not be a dealbreaker on its own, but could signal a potential issue down the line, prompting you to pay closer attention and communicate openly about concerns before fully committing to a relationship. 

decenter dēˈsen(t)ər/ decentered; decentering; decenters to cause to lose or shift from an established center or focus. especially : to disconnect from practical or theoretical assumptions of origin, priority, or essence.

I really hate when people say they are "Single By Choice". In this episode, I explain why some of us singles have no choice but to be single. Let Me Exlpain!!!

Everything feels microwaved in our Generation. I wanted to show what I'm doing that's effectively helping me date intentionally. Here I welcome The "3-6 Month Rule" An episode about Learning the person you are talking to/dating, and the time it should really take to get to know them. As always I hope it resonates.

In Dating 101, I discuss what men should do when it comes to asking women out on Dates. Too many women have reported that us men are not trying to date, nor do we know how to date. So we gonna have to talk Fellas!! Tune In!

Pa·tience /ˈpāSH(ə)ns/ the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset. Ever rush into a situation and it not go too well because you should have been a little more patient? Well, this is what this episode is about. Being "Patient" in Dating is a skill. Listen to why!

There's a big difference between the "Talking Stage" and the "Dating Stage" In this episode I tackle the "Talking Stage" and why I DISLIKE IT VERY MUCH! Doesn't mean its not needed but we have to discuss the differences. Make sure you Like, Comment, and Share the episode. Let's talk!

Honestly, It's okay to Move on.. Whether it's from relationships or friendships. One day you will be able to move on from things or people that have you in a chokehold. Life is a funny thing. Listen to my opinion about how i struggled with moving on, and how I found a way to move on from my traumas. Hope this resonates. If not, just leave it where it is.. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brandon9211/message

I really hate being blocked. In my opinion, being blocked is like a death. If Blocking me is your only resort you never were meant for me in the first place.. Blocking unwarranted is Wild. So lets talk about it.. Hope this resonates. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brandon9211/message

Welcome to Season 5. We back!!!! Ever feel like you are done with the Dating Scene? Well Listen to this episode, and hear why I think you should keep trying to date. You have to know that your time will come. Dating is like a test, you won't always pass but you will learn from the failures and will be able to build from there. I hope this resonates. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brandon9211/message

My Season has come to an end. I felt like it was only right to talk about this topic. I mean really is Dating Trash? Listen to what i have to say, and you be the judge. As always, I hope this resonates, if it doesn't leave the rest! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brandon9211/message

I'm learning more and more about myself, and Honestly, I'm loving it. In this Episode, I explain why it's important to get out your comfort zone when it comes to going out and meeting people. Doesn't matter if you are looking for friends or a significant other. Take chances, you never really know what can happen. I hope this resonates! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brandon9211/message

In this episode, I discussed about my "singleness" and what it has taught me. This healing journey has been a wild one. So i'm hoping this hits home for you like it did for me. As always sending Love & Healing energy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brandon9211/message

In this episode, I talk about why I need a dating contract before I get into a relationship. It's all jokes but there is a some truth and validity into this. I just explain why we all should take our time when it comes to dating. This ain't first to be married love is a MARATHON! You already know the vibes. Take what resonates and leave the MF rest! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brandon9211/message

I decided to make a mini series call "Emotional Availability". I talk about what it takes to become Emotionally Available. Part 1 is about "OPENESS" and what it really means. As always take what resonates and leave the rest! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brandon9211/message

In this episode, I talk about my many different dating strategies that work for me when it comes to going on dates. I break it down into 3 different tiers of dates. There's definitely levels to this. Tune In to hear my take on it! As always, take what resonates and leave the shit that don't LOL! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brandon9211/message

HeartBent is the level or levels above being Heartbroken. I've realized I've been HeartBent for quite some time now, but it's all in the healing process. In this episode, I deep dive into the phrase. (Don't try to google it because the phrase is made up LOL!) Nether the less, I talk about my HeartBentness. I just keep making up words, but whatever! I hope this resonates, and what doesn't leave that ISH! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brandon9211/message

What's more important, forgiving yourself or forgiving others? How do you heal? In this episode, I talk about healing and being heartbroken from past relationships/situationships. Here are the steps I take in my journey. Like always, I hope this resonates, and leave the rest! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brandon9211/message

I make my return for SEASON 4. Sorry I've been away for soooo LONG! But In this episode, I talk about what we need to do to make dating fun again. It was never meant to be trash, but hey, here we are! I hope you find validity in this episode. You know the vibes. Take what resonates and leave the rest! Please Follow me on Instagram: @imjustsayinpod_ @clv.bean Love you all! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brandon9211/message

This episode is all about deciding if Closure matters or not. I'ma let y'all decide. I hope this resonates. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Part 2. To one of my favorite episodes.. Antoinette and I go into more depth about spinning the block. Tune in to hear our Conclusion. Spinning the Block Pt2!!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

So for those who don't know. The phrase "Spinning the Block" means to revisit an old relationship with someone. Also can be in other forms like situationships, hook ups, or even just random encounters. To each his own LOL. I have my homegirl Antionette back to discuss the different types of "Spinning the Block" situations. Probably one of the most funniest episodes to date. As well as, probably the most open.. Check out our Convo. And as always... I hope this resonates and hits the soul! Enjoy. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Do y'all Lurk on other people's lives or Social Media pages? Asking for a friend. LoL! In this episode, I talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly when it comes to Lurking on other peoples pages. I want to give it a new name. Can we call it "Checking in?" Even though Lurking is usually negative, there can be good sides to Lurking as well... I mean Checking In. I hope this resonates.. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

This episode was inspired by the events that took place in Showtime's "The Chi". In this episode, I discuss what Dating looks like in 2022. If we get out of our own way, we can really find the ones we are supposed to be with. I'm Just Sayin' --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

What are the ingredients to a healthy relationship? In this episode, I talk about my top 5 ingredients to a "Healthy Relationship". I want to be clear here. I AM NOT AN EXPERT! LOL. Take what resonates, and modify the rest ha! However, I definitely believe that this "Recipe" is the one that will help us achieve longevity in our relationships.. #ImJustSayin' --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Nobody Ever Really Dies. In this episode, I talk about my trip back to Virginia. I also talk about the losing of my grandmother, and how I've been taking it all in. Life after Death, How do we keep living after a lost? Come hear my thoughts and I hope this resonates...  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

**VULNARABILITY ALERT** In this episode, I explain my experience with the transition from being single to being in a relationship. I Just want to make this clear. This ain't for the weak.. LOL. I hope you all can relate to what I'm feeling, and I hope this helps you on your journey. If you're single or even in a relationship. HMU on all socials, I really want to know what y'all think!! ENJOY!!! Twitter: @Haitis_baby IG's: @Imjustsayinpod_ & @z.beanz --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

In this episode, I express how being super single can be detrimental to your potential relationships. I also introduce the new segments to the Podcast. Hope you enjoy the vibes!!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I'm BAAAAAACK!!!!!! This is just an introductory episode to my return to the Microphone! I'm happy to be back and I give you some updates on what's to come in the future.. I hope y'all are as happy as I am LOL!!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Ladies and Gents we have reached the Season FINALE!!!!!  I end this season with a bang bruh! In this episode I talk about letting go of people and moving on with my life. My Trip to Virginia was very eye-opening and came up with the conclusion that it's finally time to move the HELL ON! This episode is about how to handle people that don't rock with you anymore. LEARN FROM ME! Tune in, this episode is the one... I hope this resonates!  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

This week is another throwback when I pulled up for the first time with the Beautiful ladies of the HighKey Podcast. We had some real interesting thoughts when it came to Red Flags with Women. here is the original podcast notes from their episode that I featured on. MAKE SURE YOU FOLLOW THEM!!!! "The Highkey Co-hosts are joined with a male counterpart, Brandon David from I'm Just Sayin' Podcast, to discuss red flags in females. They chat real shit about spotting cheaters, gold diggers, and bums! Who should we have on next?! FOLLOW Highkey on Instagram: https://bit.ly/2lUJCp4 FOLLOW Highkey on Twitter: https://bit.ly/2kmmShB Email Highkey: highkeythepodcast@gmail.com FOLLOW Alisha on Instagram: https://bit.ly/2lCrHU3 FOLLOW Alisha on Twitter: https://bit.ly/2k5RwLW SUBSCRIBE to Alisha's Channel: https://bit.ly/2lFnAGG FOLLOW Yvanna on Instagram: https://bit.ly/2lxylLj FOLLOW Yvanna on Twitter: https://bit.ly/2klb8fi SUBSCRIBE to Yvanna's Channel:https: //bit.ly/2lULkXw " --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Here is a Throwback with my Homies @ the 8 More Than 92 Podcast. Harrison and Banks let me bless their podcast, and we was st8 clowning. We discussed a lot in this episode from police brutality to the Godfather himself Kevin Samuels. Check in!!!!  Make sure you follow my brothas!!!  @ 8mt92_podcast  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

This episode isn't for the WEAK LOL! I talk about women that are scared to speak their minds when they don't want to pursue a real relationship with a man. They go the hard way instead of speaking their true feelings. This for them "Let's just be Friends" head-ass chicks. I also discuss how men don't like that shit. Not all of you do this but, majority do.. Here are some solutions for y'all ass! Tune in!!! @Imjustsayinpod_ @z.Beanz --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

In this episode my brotha Jamel stops by to discuss TRUST ISSUES when it comes to dating and relationships. We talked about where some of these trust issues may come from. If you are single, sit back and think about why you are single. It may be because of the dating climate, or simply because of trust issues. Tune IN!!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

In this episode, I just wanted to celebrate and talk about my favorite episodes over the past year. I really just want to say thanks for all the Support. Also, I talked about the status of the Podcast and where I'm heading in the future. We only going up from here! LOVE Y'ALL HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

My home girl Marlita pulls up and drops knowledge and light on why getting therapy is important for the black community. We talk about stigmas in the black community and why we need to break down those barriers. We also talk about mental health in relationships, and how having the right mental state can help improve and maintain your relationships. Since its Mental Health Awareness Month, its only right that we have a healthy conversation about what Mental Health means to us. TUNE IN!!!!!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

My brotha Drew stops in to talk with me about DATING SINGLE MOM's. It's actually something to think about honestly. We discuss the positives and the negatives about dating a single Mom. We wanted to provide some steps for the single man that is actually about to date a woman with children. Like always we appreciate our single, BLACK Mom's out there that's doing it on their own, and trying figure life out as we all know it. We VALUE and LOVE you. But we gotta talk!!! COME ON IN! the water is fine! LOL --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I had to get some shit off my chest this episode. I've found myself being in a shell because I'm naturally a shy guy. But now.... It's time for a change.. Lately, dating has been super trash for me, so I have been doing some self-reflection as well as doing some real shadow work. Which leads me to be more open and trying to shoot my shot more when it comes to dating. Tap in with me after listening to the episode, and see if this resonates with you, or if you agree with what I've been feeling when it comes to this Dating Shit. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I got my first email entry! Question of the Day! Is moving on hard to do for you? I think we should all chime in on this one. The person that reached out simply asked why he got Ghosted and why is it soooooo hard to move on? I weigh in with my own personal experiences as well. I hope this episode resonates with you all and hopefully we can make a bigger conversation and learn from each others past. Continue to email me @ imjustsayinpod2020. So we can keep the convo's going! the SOCIALS: IG: @z.beanz, @imjustsayinpod_ Twitter: @haitis_baby --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

TNI (The Nigga's Intuition) Part 1. This segment is inspired by scenarios, situations, and personal experiences. ***Disclaimer this is no shade to ANYBODY! if you feel a certain way is probably because it resonates someway or somehow. All love though!*** I'm just talking my shit in this episode and speaking my mind. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

In this episode I had my homie Jessica drop in to share her opinion on "GHOSTING". We also chat it up about when its a good time to facetime a woman, and how you can tell if you are a fuck buddy or not. This was an interesting and intriguing conversation we had. TUNE IN and let me know what y'all think!!! as always, If you want me to talk about a certain topic DON'T HESITATE TO HIT ME UP!!! @email: @imjustsayinpod2020@gmail.com IG: @imjustsayinpod_ @z.beanz Twitter: @haitis_baby --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

In this Episode, I talk about New Year Resolutions, and why we don't stick with them. Since its the New Year I also dive back into dating during the holidays. For example, when is it a good time to invite a person you are dating to your family's Thanksgiving? Tune in to see my point of view. Don't forget to follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/z.beanz/ https://www.instagram.com/imjustsayinpod_/ https://twitter.com/HaItIs_BaBy and @Email me @ imjustsayinpod2020@gmail.com if you have a topic you want to discuss so I can put it on the air!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Just like my last HomeComing episode I explain how my trip back to Virginia went. This time had a little twist to it.. I ended up getting COVID-19. Tune in to hear my experience. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

My two homies Nelia and Roger slide in to discuss the idea of Ex's being FRIENDS!!! I mean can they though? I guess you guys are gonna have to tune and see! Enjoy! Question of the Week: "Can you really be friends with an Ex? What are your deciding factors? Let Me know by commenting under the post on FB, IG, Twitter, Snapchat or simply emailing me at @ imjustsayinpod2020@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Dee and I talk about Sexual Energy, and what it really means to transfer energy into someone. Some of us don't really think about the energy we transfer in the moment of sex. We just do it. Truthfully, we are consistently transferring are energy into the wrong people, and that usually causes a lot of issues in our relationships. Past, Present, and even Future. Question of the week: "Do you have a soul tie with someone? Were you able to release and move on, or are you still dealing with it?" Let Me Know!!!!!! Email me @imjustsayinpod2020 Also here is Dee's Youtube page Check her out!!: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmCaIyKLSaJu8T76oLBJYbQ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app