The Loved-Up Effect

Stuck in a Dating Rut? Let me show you how to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days, inside The Dating Reset. Click here to join now: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset _______________________________________ I want to remind you of what love is… "Love is the strongest force the world possesses.” – Ghandi Love isn't bound by age, health, where you live, what dating app you're on, appearance…ANYTHING. Love is limitless. …until of course, we humans get involved and put limits on it left, right and center. And of course, the craziest part of this is that 99% of the time we don't even realize that we're doing this. We don't realize how the stories we tell ourselves, the beliefs that we hold are that powerful that they ultimately limit the love that we get to experience. Stories like: ‘There aren't any decent men left to date.' ‘I'm too old to find love.' ‘I don't have time to date (insert the next layer of stories here that you're lacking in time!).' ‘I'm not fully healed' ‘No one will want to love me' ‘I'm a single mum' These stories that feel SOOOOOO real, that feel like set in stone reasons that you can't get out there and date and find love are just that... Stories. Ways that you are limiting love. Inside this episode we're going to get clear about all the ways you're limiting love, and start pulling apart these stories to get you back to the truth…that love is limitless. This HAS to be the story you start telling yourself if you want to have your dream relationship come into your life. Get listening now! ...and if you find this episode helpful, please let me know by leaving a rating, or review!! ________________________________________________________ Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram

Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset ________________________________________ Where are my Husband Hunting ladies at? My ladies that are on a MISSSSSSION to find your man?!?! You get to that point, don't you? Where you've been hoping and praying that love would just happen for you like you've seen it happen for everyone else around you...and it doesn't. You thought you'd be married, with kids right now. So you do what all us, smart, successful, capable, strong and awesome women do, you decide to get out there and MAKE IT HAPPEN!! I love you for that. I seriously do...because that is also me! Here's what I learned from my years spent Husband Hunting...IT DOES NOT WORK. Husband Hunting actually stops you from finding your husband. Inside this episode I'm going to walk you through the 4 reasons that Husband Hunting isn't the approach you want to have when it comes to manifesting love...and obvs, what to do instead! Happy listening and please don't forget to leave me a review if you find this episode helpful! I always LOOOOOVE hearing from you! ________________________________________________________ Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram

Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset This is a **SERIOUSLY** important episode, especially if you've been thinking that part of manifesting your dream love is accepting your life and future as a single person. Acceptance and surrender to what is, your life RIGHT NOW, is 100% and essential step in manifesting your dream relationship, but your future?! NOOOOOOO! So, if you've been struggling with this idea of acceptance, surrender, trying to feel ok being single, you've been picturing yourself as single forever or or you're new to all of this and have NFI about what I'm talking about right now, then this episode is one you CANNOT miss. It's short, sweet and will set you straight on what acceptance and surrender are, how to practice both in your life so that you truly do manifest your dream relationship. And if you like what you hear, be sure to let me know by leaving a review! ________________________________________________________ Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram

Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset ________________________________________________________ You've heard that saying, haven't you? That Mr Right isn't going to fall into your lap on Friday night while you're chilling at home. Totally true. If you want to meet Mr Right then there is action that you need to take. I'm 100% behind this piece of advice. Where this advice gets single women into a whole lot of problems is falling into action for the sake of action. Like get out there and online date, get friends to set you up, be on the look out for genuine single men anytime you're out and about, go to speed dating events, singles events, online date some more… I was one of these women. I thought all I had to do is take action and eventually I'd HAVE to meet him…right?! Wrong. If you're taking alllllll the dating action and you're not getting any closer to having the kind of loving relationship that you want, then this, right now, is your call to stop and listen to this week's episode of The Loved-Up Effect podcast all about the Law of Inspired Action. This seriously beautiful Universal Law will help you determine what action is going to get you closer to love and what action is a big old waste of your time. If you want to learn what action is going to actually have your dream love come into your life, get listening to this episode now. And if you find what you hear helpful, please let me know by leaving a review! ________________________________________________________ Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram

Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ If you just do not feel confident dating, then first of all I want you to know that you're not alone. I remember feeling the same way myself. Simply the fact that finding love was such a struggle for me, like I was always the single friend, the one with all the relationship drama, crying on the phone to my friends, dumped and ghosted yet again, was a MASSIVE knock to my confidence. Love didn't happen easily for me, so I saw myself as someone that wasn't wanted by the awesome men I ultimately wanted a relationship with, and so whenever one of these guys came anywhere near me, I was an absolute ball of nerves, unsure of how to connect with them in a way that would lead somewhere. …which is the definition of a lack of confidence. Having confidence is literally having faith, belief, trust and certainty in yourself. I had none of that when it came to finding love. I was constantly looking for ways to fix or change myself in order to be more attractive to men. I didn't truly believe I was someone that could have her dream relationship or that it was possible for me. And even just the thought of dating and the pressure to perform that I attached to it, meant I avoided dating as much as I possibly could. I didn't think it was something I was any good at, so why bother putting myself through all the pain?! If you relate to that, and you simply don't feel confident dating then get listening to this episode now! Because as long as you don't have the confidence to get out there and date as the most awesome you that you are, you're unfortunately going to stay stuck exactly where you are. Inside this episode I'll be walking you through how to start changing how you both feel about yourself and dating so you can get out there and date with confidence, able to finally make the kind of connections you want with the kind of men you want!

Want a proven process to manifest love and support along the way? Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ It can be one of the HARDEST things to do...letting that ex go (or at least it always was in my experience!). Whether he broke up with you, you ended things and now regret it, it was a mutual break-up, you moved away, or there's some other reason why you're not in the committed relationship you ultimately want, then this is a MUST listen episode...because in holding on you're only stopping your ACTUAL dream love from coming into your life. There are 5 steps to letting that ex go once and for all: 1. Attacking it from a logical perspective 2. Taking action to let go emotionally or energetically 3. Uncovering and shifting those deeper, root survival beliefs that have you holding on for dear life 4. Taking action to break any remaining ties 5. Step into the identity of you that HAS moved on. If you found this episode helpful, please let me know by leaving a review!

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you can manifest love and the relationship of your dreams, head here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ If you want the BIG love life transformation, like to manifest your absolute dream love, then there's a practice that I'd say is pretty much essential to get you there. It's been absolutely essential for me to manifest my own dream love and the same has rung true for the many, many women I've coached in the last 5 years. The thing about this practice is that it's not what you'd expect. We so often thing that a BIG transformation, requires BIG, complicated action…when in fact the reverse is true. If you want to get fit, then it takes consistent exercise and training to get there. If you want to save to buy a house, then it takes consistent saving to get there. A giant oak tree starts off as a tiny green shoot and grows consistency year after year until it becomes the giant tree. Get the theme here? Consistency. What do you need to do consistently to manifest your dream relationship?? This is exactly what you're going to learn inside this episode! Get listening now and don't forget to leave me a review if you find what you hear helpful! xx

Join Stop The Soul Destroying Struggle To Find Love here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/stsds-registration For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ It's the million-dollar question, isn't it?! Why is it that you can want love more than anything, you can be doing ALLLLL the things (swiping till your thumbs bleed, wearing red dresses on first dates, not initiating contact, following all the rules, looking your best any time you're out and about…) and trying your absolute hardest and still be stuck, no closer to finding love or having your dream relationship... …attracting all the less than awesome non-committal men, on the merry go round of first dates that go nowhere, situationships that you give your all to and that leave you heartbroken, constantly ‘the one before The One'… While your friends simply have to exist and they have the most incredible men fall into their laps and end up in the most loving and epic of relationships. Like WTF?! What's the deal? Does life just hate you? Do you have some made karma from your past you're now being punished for? Are you simply unlucky in love? …and not meant to ever have the kind of loving relationship you want? Girl, let me assure you it's NONE of those things. Inside this episode I'm going into exactly why finding love seems to easy for everyone else while it's the battle of a lifetime for you, so that you know what it is you need to do in order to have love happen just as easily for you! Because finding love isn't meant to be a struggle! If you find this episode helpful, please leave me a review to let me know!! With so much love,Em xx

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ If you've just been dumped, ghosted, you're feeling heart broken and disappointed (yet AGAIN!) because things haven't gone as you had hoped, whether it's the end of a long term relationship, or you just haven't heard back from a guy you saw potential with, then this is the episode for you. You aren't going to find any of the usual; let time heal your wounds, get to work looking your hottest and remind him what he's missing out on, find someone new to get over him (or make him jealous) or what you can do to fix the situation and get him back, because NONE of that is actually helpful. What you're going to learn inside this episode will take you from where you are right now, which royally sucks, and have it propel you forward into your dream relationship rather than keeping you stuck experiencing the same kind of disappointment and heartbreak time and time and time again. Here are the reframe, or affirmations that you'll find inside this episode: This relationship CLEARLY wasn't the right one for me (otherwise it wouldn't have ended) This relationship ending is a gift because now I have the space for the relationship that is right for me What is meant for me, will NEVER pass me by Love is unlimited, it can happen, anywhere, anytime The relationships I have only get better and better and better My dream love is inevitable It's all happening for me. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a review to let me know! xx LINKS & RESOURCES Reality of Relationship episode: https://www.emilybucknell.com/podcasts/the-loved-up-effect/episodes/2147967004 Self-Love Series (Part 1): https://www.emilybucknell.com/podcasts/the-loved-up-effect/episodes/2148097853

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ The million dollar question - “What do I need to do to find love?" And by far the one I get asked the most. And it's a good question to be asking, because when you know what action to take then all that's left to do is take it and your dream love is yours. It's also the question that 99% of mainstream dating advice answers and in VAST volume. Like Google ‘what do I need to do to find love' and 11 BILLION results come up. There's a never-ending number of things to try to find love, online dating, making sure you have the best profile photos, speed dating, getting friends to set you up, going to sports bars, upmarket grocery stores or the gym where single guys hang out, making sure you look your best everywhere you go, scouting out naked ring fingers… It's a lot hey?! You probably feel like you've tried it all, am I right? And because you've taken so much action and it hasn't got you any closer to love, you're probably nearing that point where you're wondering if ANYTHING will EVER work for you. What I want you to know is that if that's where you're at right now, then it's simply because you've been taking the WRONG ACTION. WTF? What other action is there to take? What's the right action? The action that WILL get you into your dream relationship? I'm answering all these questions inside this episode so get listening now! And if you find what you hear helpful, please leave me a review xx LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Send me a DM on Instagram

If you're at that point where NOTHING ever seems to change for you in your love life, like you're stuck a pattern that just keeps on repeating itself… …you just keep attracting men that do NOT want kids (and you do) …you end up in the same kind of relationship where 6 months in, you still don't know where you stand with them …you can't seem to stop going to back to the ex you know isn't right for you …love is happening all around you, but never for you …you can't shake the doubts, the fear, the worry that you'll never have your dream relationship Then my beautiful girl, there is programming in your unconscious mind (so it's not something that you're actually aware of), that is keeping you stuck where you are and is stopping you from moving forward into your dream relationship. Your reality is always a perfect reflection of what is happening deep in your unconscious mind. Reality never lies. So, if you don't like what you're experiencing and you want to have that dream relationship of yours then you HAVE to stop, become aware of what's being playing on repeat in your unconscious mind and take steps to change that. Otherwise, you can spend 24/7 online dating, you can be the hottest, most attractive woman on the planet, follow every dating rule to perfection, never set a foot wrong and STILLLLL be single AF. Regardless of what action you take, what's happening in your unconscious mind is ALWAYS going to be the reality you experience. It wins every single time. Inside this episode I'm walking you through exactly how you become aware of what's happening in your unconscious mind and how to change this so that finally you break through all the patterns you're stuck in and that big old brick wall if feels like you're up against…and finally have your dream relationship. LINKS & RESOURCES: For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Come hang with me on Instagram

If you want more information about Step #1 of The Loved-Up Effect, Release Yourself, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/release-yourself-info-request You'll find the second part of the Karma Cleanse here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/karma-cleanse And if you haven't already, be sure to complete the Self-Love Self-Assessment, which you'll find here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/64983a55fac0d8001429e40d Inside this episode I'm breaking down your first step in creating the kind of deep, transformational self-love that is ESSENTIAL if you want to have your dream relationship. This is a NON-NEGOTIABLE first step when you work with me, because without this step, nothing else you do will be as effective. This is where self-love (and having your dream love!) starts. If you're feeling: - Unloved, alone, invisible, like no one could care less about you, or will ever care less about you - You get triggered really easily by things like your friend's announcing their engagement, seeing your ex in a new relationship, comments your family makes about you still being single - Or it feels like what you're experiencing in your love life is only ever getting worse; like there are fewer and fewer decent men to date, if there are any at all, the dates you go on never seem to go anywhere and it's all feeling really hopeless Then what you're going to learn inside this episode as the power to change that all. You're going to learn: - What this first step in creating deep and transformational self-love is and what makes it so FREAIN' important - What you can expect to happen when you implement this step and it becomes your new way of being - And what exactly this means that you need to do PLUS I'll also be walking you through part of an insanely powerful practice that is going to give you some insanely powerful insights… I won't say much more because I don't want to ruin the fun!! Get listening now! And if you find what you hear helpful, please leave me a review xx LINKS & RESOURCES: Come hang with me on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

Take the Self-Love Self-Assessment and gain unexpected insights into how self-loving you are and in doing so, discover your path from here into the relationship of your dreams. Click here to complete the Self-Assessment now: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/64983a55fac0d8001429e40d If you've been putting your all into having the loving relationship of your dreams, yet no matter how much you want it, what you do, or how hard you try, you're still single, so now… …it feels like there's something wrong with you, that you're not good enough and that you're failing at life because you can't seem to find your dream relationship …or when you get ghosted by a guy you barely know, it throws you into despair, overthinking and anxiety about your future that never really goes away …and as more time passes, it feels less and less likely that you'll ever find love Then I want you to know that self-love is the answer to allll your prayers. Most likely it's the unexpected answer...but it 100%, is the thing that is going to change this all for you and get you into the relationship of your dreams. Self-love is one of the most underrated and misunderstood concepts of all time. I plan to change that with this 5-part podcast series, completely dedicated to self-love. Inside this series you're going to learn exactly how is self-love can and will get you into the relationships of your dreams:

I feel like I've come home. Self-love was something I used to speak about constantly when I first started a dating coach 5 years ago...that self-love is the absolute key, all you need to focus on in order to have your dream relationship. Because it truly is. Like Lucille Ball said, ‘Love yourself first and everything falls into line' …including your love life. I'm not sure when or why I really stopped speaking explicitly about self-love, but just as this message came to me time and time and time again about 5 years ago, it's done the same thing in the last few months and I know I have to pay attention. As of this podcast episode, expect to hear me talking A LOT more about self-love… …why self-love is ESSENTIAL if you want to have your dream relationship …how to know if you are self-loving …how to be more self-loving …all the misconceptions and misinformation out there about self-love …ultimately have the epic love you've always wanted through self-love. Inside this episode you'll find both a really powerful practice to do and a bunch of questions for you to ask yourself and journal on that are going to illuminate just how self-loving you are…and why that matters so much when you want to have your dream relationship. I'm really excited to be having this conversation with you and to be speaking about self-love again, because it truly is the least complicated and fastest way into having your dream relationship. LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

The last thing you want to do is waste your time in a relationship that isn't going where you want it to go, right? It's the worst, when you spend 6 months with someone, you feel like you're their girlfriend and when you finally build up the courage to get the clarity you want, you learn they aren't actually sure what they want/they aren't looking for commitment/they don't see themselves having kids ever/or they say they're in and then ghost you a few weeks later…and BOOM, you find out you've just spent 6 months with someone who wasn't ever going to give you what you want! Inside this episode, I'm going to give you 4 super empowering (and potentially scary, in the best possible way) steps to take that will stop you getting stuck in dead end relationships, where you're confused, not really sure where you stand and that leave you disappointed and heartbroken. If you're asking any of these questions… - When do you have the ‘where's this going' conversation? - When do you bring up that you want a committed relationship and a family one day? - How do you know where you stand with someone? Then you're going to find this episode extremely helpful, because not only will I be giving you the answers to these questions, you're also going to get a clear plan to use straight up when you're dating and in those early states of a relationship. LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

Maybe you're just not meant to find love...is that something you're thinking more and more? Have you hit that point where you're seriously doubting that you'll ever find love? That even though you have this deep desire to love someone and be loved in return, you're now at a point where you're thinking that perhaps it's just not meant to be? Have you spent the last 5 or more years, looking everywhere for answers, taking on the endless dating advice; to online date, be on Bumble instead of Tinder, on the lookout for single men anytime you're out and about, to flirt with your eyes, give off the 'girl next-door vibe' be more in your feminine energy, to not initiate contact, wear red dresses on first dates...so it feels like there's literally isn't much left that you have tried to find love. And despite taking all this action and putting your heart and soul into trying to find love…here you are, without the love you so badly want. If that's where you're at, then it's completely understandable that you're questioning whether it is possible for you to have love. There's quote from Einstein that I love to remind myself of anytime I'm faced with a problem that seems impossible to overcome. “No problem can be solved by the same level of consciousness that created it.” Every single problem out there (including the relationship sized hole in your life) as a solution. You are meant to have love. The fact that you have this desire, means it's 100% possible for you to experience it, otherwise you simply wouldn't desire it. That dream relationship of yours, doesn't have to remain just a dream. All we gotta do (thank you Einstein) is approach this problem of trying to find love from an entirely different perspective. That's exactly what you're going to get inside this episode... ...a whole new mindset, new perspective to finding love that is going to change everything for you. What I'm about to walk you through is going to give your hope and optimism back, that you can have love, because it's going to become clear what you need to focus on and what action you need to take in order to have love. Action that is aligned with the way the Universe works. Action that is WILL work. Get ready for the biggest breath of fresh air your soul has ever taken!! Enjoy xx ...and if you do enjoy this episode and find it helpful, please let me know by leaving a review! LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram xx For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

How do you feel about online dating? ...and I ask that with a giant smile on my face because does anyone actually like online dating!?!? If you don't like online dating because it feels like a soul-destroying chore that you're putting all this effort into and getting very little in return, then this episode was made for you! Inside this episode I'll be talking all the pros and cons of online dating, including my own personal opinion. But even more important is the conversation that this question opens up... What action do you need to take to find love? Like, what action is ACTUALLY going to get you the results you want? There is endless action to take to find love, whether it's online dating, speed dating, going to single's events, tweaking your online dating profile, the way you look, the way you interact with men, not to mention the 89,342,456 dating rules you'll find to follow… It's no wonder then that you feel like deciding what action to take to find love is like throwing spaghetti at the wall, hoping that eventually something sticks, you meet your dream man and ride off into the sunset together. It doesn't have to feel so hit and miss (or so miss and miss!). Inside this episode I touch on a mindset shift that is ESSENTIAL for you to make if you want to find love. It's through this shift that you'll find the clarity you're looking for. You'll know what action YOU need to take to find YOUR dream love. LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

If you have a biological click that is TICKING!!!! and you're feeling all the fear, worry, anxiety, desperation, like you're running out of time to have the family you always wanted, then this episode is going to give you an entirely new way forward. Your biological clocks seem like an insurmountable problem, doesn't it? Because you can't change science, the fact that you're getting older and that the window for you to reproduce is getting smaller. Inside this episode, we're going to let the science be what it is. Instead we're going to focus on what you can change and start working WITH life (following the 5 steps that I'm going to walk you through), which will enable you to create the life you truly want…partner, family, it all. LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

This episode is super exciting to me because from a personal perspective, this is me FINALLY moving past a lot of my own stuff when it comes to the Law of Attraction. When I first learned about the Law of Attraction back when The Secret came out and Oprah was all about it, my immediate thoughts were ‘what total BS…like as if you can sit around and think of what you want and it appears.' I didn't know that some years later I'd meet the Law of Attraction through my never ending and horribly painful journey to find love…and that my understanding of it would change everything for me. Because for real, understanding all the Universal Laws (including the Law of Attraction!) has been life changing. It's why I now have the incredible relationship with my husband, the family, the whole life that for a while there I thought would never be mine. And it's why SOOOOO many of the women I've had the pleasure of working with over the last 5 years have had the same experience. The principles of the Universal Laws underpin EVERYTHING I teach. Until now I've never explicitly said that. Why? Mainly because of my own stuff. I used to see the people that ‘believed' (I now know it isn't actually something you believe in or not!) in the Law of Attraction and manifestation as weirdos and crazy people and I didn't want to be thought about like that as well. And it's definitely never been something anyone around talks about…and who likes to be the odd one out?! The other reason is because honestly, I haven't wanted to put you off what I teach either. I've had these beliefs that if I was all ‘come use the Law of Attraction' with me, then immediately you'd shut down and say no thank you. So this episode is my ‘f!@# it' moment…understanding and working with the Law of Attraction (and all the other Universal Laws) will get you into your dream relationship. Like for real. No ifs, ands or buts about it. Get listening now to learn exactly how the Law of Attraction works, why it works and how to get it working for you so that you're finally able to attract your dream man into your life! LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

‘How to be more attractive to men' ‘What do men find attractive in women' How many times have you asked Google those questions? Because these (and many variations of these!) were on steady rotation for me back in the day, when I was trying my hardest to attract the quality men I wanted into my life. Inside this episode I'm going to give you the absolute truth when it comes to what you need to do to be more attractive to men, which I can almost guarantee does not include anything that you're currently doing to be more attractive to men and isn't ANYTHING that you'll find in those Google search results. Why? Because most of what you think makes you more attractive to men generally, actually makes you LESS attractive to the quality men that you want to attract into your life…and unfortunately it also pulls you to piece in the process. So if you're someone that's wondering what's wrong with you, what you need to fix and change about yourself in order to be more attractive to the men you want in your life, if you're feeling insignificant, unseen, invisible, like you're always fighting for their attention and only getting scrap in return , then you need to hear what I'm going to say to you in this episode. It cuts close to my heart still, 10 years later. Let's get into it! LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

I thought this would be an EPIC follow on from episodes 9, 10 & 11 where we've been diving deeper into what actually works when you want to change who you're attracting, from the non-committal, emotionally unavailable guy, the ones that only want 1 thing, are still hung up on their ex, or attracting no one at all or the incredible, relationship worthy men who are there, waiting to love you to absolute bits! Be sure to give them a listen before you get into this episode so you understand just how important the practice is that I'm giving you today inside this episode. More than the way you look or how you interact with men, your energy is what determines who you attract into your life. This means that if you want to attract quality men into your life, then the action you have to take to make that happen has to focus on healing, clearing, grounding and regulating your energy so that you become a vibrational match to your dream man. And how exactly do you do that?! This is what you'll learn inside Release Yourself, Step #1 of my proven framework to find love, The Loved-Up Effect. There is also a sneak peek waiting for you inside this episode where I'll be guiding you through one of my fave practices (of the 40+ you'll find inside Release Yourself) which will get you into the vibration of love. Get ready to feel love, like love in the biggest and most expansive sense of the word. You're going to feel incredible energetic shifts in doing this practice (which amplify the more you do it!), which are the first step in changing who it is you're attracting. I'd love to know how this practice feels for you! Leave me a review and let me know xx LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

PART 3: The Attraction Series Welcome to the final episode in this 3 part series all about solving that problem, where no matter how hard you're looking, where you're looking, how hard you try to be attractive and who you think men want…you're swiping through the same kind of men that give you the ick, attracting all the emotionally unavailable, non committal guys with 45,000 red flags, month after month, year after year…so it feel like you'll NEVER have your dream relationship because you're struggling to get a half decent date. And it's true, you will NEVER have your dream relationship until you figure out how to attract the quality men you want a relationship with (and who want one with you) into your life. Like I've said in the previous episodes of this series (episode #9 and episode #10), "no problem can be solved by the same level of consciousness that create it" (thank you Einstein!). A new understanding unlocks new action. New action gets you new results. You got that new understanding of attraction in Ep #10, and inside this episode we're getting into the action that this means that you need to take. Because if you're serious about having your dream love, you seriously want to attract quality men into your life, then your step from here is to focus whole heartedly on your changing your energy so that you change who you attract...and the rest will flow from there. Focus whole heartedly on your energy? What exactly does that mean you do?? Get listening to find out! Did you find this series on attraction helpful? Please leave a review to let me know xx LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

PART 2: The Attraction Series Before you get into this episode, make sure you've listened to Episode #9 - The problem you HAVE to solve if you want to find love. Inside today's episode we're getting into the conversation you've likely never had before about attraction. Like, the real deal on attraction. There's a reason not every stunningly beautiful woman is in the relationship of her dreams and there are less attractive or 'perfect' women who are. Because unlike mainstream dating advice would have you believe, attraction has very little to do with what you look like physically, how good you are at playing the game of being who you think men want. Be sure to listen to this episode a few times because I can't stress how important it is that you understand these principle of attraction, because like I said, this understanding is going to totally change up the action you've been taking (and hasn't been working) to attract quality men into your life. And as long as you continue to do what you have been doing to attract quality men, you're going to continue to attract the same less than awesome guys and your dream relationship will remain just a dream. You need a new strategy, a new proven plan that is based on how attraction actually works...and this is exactly what you're about to get, so get listening now! LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

PART 1: The Attraction Series You're here because you want to find love, to have the incredible relationship, where you're creating the most epic life with the most epic man, right? And you probably wanted that love to come into your life like 5 or more years ago…so knowing that you're probably at that point of total frustration that it hasn't happened yet, I want to get you taking MASSIVE steps towards having what you want, that relationship, ASAP. If you're all about doing that, then this is the episode for you! ...actually the next 3 episodes are for you as they're as part of a whole series on the problem that you have to solve straight up if you want to find love. The solution I'll be giving you to this this problem will literally get some women into their dream relationships straight up. If you're like me, you might need a step or two more but that is a ok, I've got you either way…and either way, solving this problem HAS to come first. The first step in having your dream love is attracting the kind of quality men that you want to have a relationship with and who want that too. So as long as you're only attracting the commitment phobic, emotionally unavailable players who have 45,000 red flags and only want one thing…then having the relationship of your dreams is literally impossible. You can't find your dream love if you can't find a decent date…which sounds a little harsh but it's true, and likely not news to you either. I also want to totally recognize that this is also likely a problem that you've been trying to solve yourself for months, years, perhaps even decades. So, know that I recognize all the time, the effort and energy that you've been putting into finding and attracting your dream guy, because I've been there myself and I know it's a hard f'ing slog. Until now. Inside today's episode I'm going to get be getting into exactly why it has been such a challenge for you to attract anyone you actually want to date (let alone have a whole relationship with!) by busting some of the biggest misconceptions and revealing some of the biggest mistakes women unwittingly make when it comes to finding or attracting the quality men into your life. If you've spent the last year (more more!) swiping through endless greased up abs shots, fishing photos and late night invitations to ‘come over' and you're seriously wondering how you're ever going to find love when it's this hard to find a decent date... ...or you're constantly attracting the same kind of guys over and over AND over; emotionally unavailable, non-committal, all talk and no action, walking red flags, not over his ex, still with his ex, the ones that you like and don't like you and vice versa so it feels like your dream guy does not exist ...and you're frustrated AF because your friends don't even have to try and they end up in incredible relationships with incredible men and here you are full on trying, doing what you're supposed to do to meet someone awesome and all you seem to be is a magnet for everyone else's rejects... Then get listening now! LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

It's time for a REAL conversation about relationships. Like a good honest chat that no one's yet had with you and is going to shift your ENTIRE perspective on love and relationships. Over your life so far, without being totally aware, you've taken on some of the many, many, many, many pervasive (and not super empowering!) stories out there about love and relationships that right now are living in your unconscious mind, making it near impossible for you to have the loving, awesome relationship of your dreams. These stories are keeping you stuck, feeling unworthy, insignificant, freaking out because it feels like you're running out of time to find love, with all the pressure, fear that even if you find love, it'll only end in more pain. If that's

Your dream love is an incredible relationship, isn't it? Like you want a relationship that's filled with love, respect, kindness, compassion, understanding, comfort and security, don't you? What if you only ever keep experiencing relationships that are the opposite of that? Where you don't feel truly loved, cared for, understood, or respected. What if you've NEVER experienced anything but that? Those less than awesome relationships are all that you've known or seen in the relationships around you? How can you have something that seems so foreign to you? So out of reach? I get it, it can feel like there's this big gap between what you know (and don't want) and what you want to experience (which is totally different) that's almost impossible to bridge, so that you get to have the kind of loving relationship that you truly want. Inside this episode I'm going to walk you through exactly how to do that, to bridge that gap and recognize when you've found your next level love. Get listening now! And if you find what you learn inside this episode helpful, don't forget to leave me a review xx LINKS & RESOURCES: Listen to episode #6 Take Control of Your Love Life HERE. If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

If you've been actively trying to find love for the last year (or likely a whole lot longer!) and you're no closer to finding it, then this episode is for you. Because it can feel really powerless, when you're doing everything you're ‘supposed' to do to find love; being who you think men want, following all the dating rules and…nothing. No matter what you do or how hard you try you seem to keep attracting the same non-committal guys, the same kind of situationships that leave you heartbroken, or no one at all. It's like you're playing a game, but no one's told you the rules. It feels like you can't win. Until now. Because inside this episode I'm letting you in on the only thing that actually matters when it comes to finding love along with exactly what you need to do to take control and create the love life that you actually want to have. What I walk you through in this episode, you won't find ANYWHERE in mainstream dating advice. You are going to get an absolute truckload of clarity, a tsunami of relief and a massive dose of empowerment inside this episode, so hit play and get listening. If you found this episode helpful, subscribe and leave me a review! xx LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

If you're listening to this podcast, then it's pretty likely that right now you're carrying around a lot of heavy energy; feelings of disappointment, frustration, powerlessness, pain from relationships that have ended, worry and anxiety because it feels like you'll never find love. This energy not only affects how you feel (obviously!), less obviously, and what most women don't realize, it also affects who and what you're attracting into your life. It's literally the way life works, described by the Universal Laws of Vibration and Attraction. That we're all made up of energy, energy that's in a constant state of motion, motion that's determine by our vibration, or energy. Like attracts like. So if you're feeling all the feels I mentioned above because you only seem to attract the guys that don't want commitment, that ghost you after 3 dates, or because you can't find anyone decent to date at all, then that is the energy that you're putting out there...and it's therefore no accident that nothing seems to change for you, you seem stuck in these patterns of attracting the same kinds of guys, having the same kind of demoralizing experiences. Inside this extra special bonus episode, I'm going to give you a practice that only takes 2 minutes a day (and all you have to do is press play on this episode!), which is going to shift your energy so that not only do you start to release this heavy energy you're carry around and feel a whole lot better, you start attracting better into your life. Come back to this practice daily for AT LEAST the next 7 days (highly recommend that you make this a new daily practice for you for as long as it serves you) and then leave me a review and let me know what shifts you experience. Sending so much love,Em xx LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove MUSIC: Cozy Place by Keys of Moon | https://soundcloud.com/keysofmoonMusic promoted by https://www.chosic.com/free-music/all/Creative Commons CC BY 4.0https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

How do I know if the guy I'm dating is really worth my time? If you are asking (and struggle to answer!) any of these questions... Is this guy the right person for me? Will I be making a mistake if I break-up with him? What if he is actually the love of my life? How do I know I'm not just wasting my time? Then this episode was MADE for you. Inside this week's episode of The Loved-Up Effect podcast, I'm going to let you in on a 5 step process that will enable you to confidently know that you are making the right decision for you when it comes to who you date and invest your time in, without all the fear based 'what ifs' getting in the way. Get listening now! And if you found this episode helpful, subscribe and leave me a review! xx LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

Why I am STILL single? Why is it so hard for me to find love? Anyone decent to date? Someone that wants commitment and will actually commit? Why is it so easy for everyone else? There must be something wrong with me is unfortunately the conclusion that so many women draw when you're asking these questions. 'I'm not attractive enough, I'm too emotional, too old, not confident enough, I suck at dating, I need to lose the weight, I'm not what men want...' I'm here to tell you that there is NOTHING wrong with you. Nothing at all. Inside this episode I'm going to break down exactly what's happening when you want to find love, you're doing all the things to find it but nothing ever seems to change for you. Because there is a reason that you're single...it's just not what you thought. Get listening now! And if you like what you hear be sure to subscribe and leave me a review! xx If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

If you're wondering why you're so unlucky in love, then I totally get it. It can seem like you're unlucky in love when you're doing ALLLL the things you're supposed to do to find love and yet nothing ever seems to change for you. Not to mention when you add on the fact that wherever you look, you see happy couples that didn't seem to have to do anything and there they are, all loved and gloriously happy. It feels pretty powerless, doesn't it? When you say that you're unlucky in love? As though there's nothing you can do about it, that it's all out of your control... But is that really true? Do you really have no control over whether or not you find love?? Is finding love REALLY up to luck? Absolutely not. Inside this episode you're exactly why finding love has nothing to do with luck and what you need to do to become empowered, in control and taking action that's actually getting you closer to love. Get listening now! And if you like what you hear be sure to subscribe and leave me a review! xx LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

If you're wondering if it's too late for you to find love because you're too old, you've missed the boat or think you're verging on old maid territory, then this episode was MADE for you. Inside we're going to dive into what these questions are really asking, along with the 5 biggest mistakes that the majority of women are making (and don't know they are!) when you're doubting whether or not you can find love. And of course, you'll also find some super practical action steps to take to turn these mistakes around so that love becomes entirely possible for you! Get listening now! f you like what you hear be sure to subscribe and leave me a review! xx LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

If you feel like crap about yourself and your life because you don't have the relationship, then this episode was made for you...and the 98% of single women I know relate to this too! This belief that 'I am not/my life isn't ok because I don't have the relationship' is an undercurrent of almost all the questions that I get asked about dating, relationships and finding love. And it's also one of the biggest blocks that is standing in between you and having what it is you want come into your life...that epic loving relationship. What?!?! Yeah. What you resist will always persist. Very few women realize the powerful affect that how you feel about yourself and the life you're living right now, has on the direction your life takes. Until now. Inside this episode you're going to gain incredible new insights into how life actually works, how your reality is created and what you need to start doing in order to find love. LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove

Welcome to The Loved-Up Effect podcast! I am so insanely excited that you're here, ready to learn what ACTUALLY works when you've spent years doing allllll the things trying to find love...and here you are, stillllll single! Inside this episode you're going to learn exactly why this podcast is going to be your new #1 resource for everything dating, love and relationships. It's my mission for you to find love! This podcast is also your opportunity to have all your biggest and most frustrating questions answered when it comes to finding love, dating and relationships. LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Or send me a DM on Instagram For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove