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Why You...? is a podcast created by the husband and wife duo of Mikayla and Alfonso Davis. The phrase Why You, stems from “Why you all up in my business?” and, “Why you do me like that?” Join your hosts every Tuesday as they peel back discussions about re

Mikayla and Alfonso


    • Aug 10, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 1h 14m AVG DURATION
    • 145 EPISODES


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    Lift Every Chair And Swing

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2023 36:16


    Oooooooh Fam! We talk about the Alabama Sweet Tea Party and Tory Lanez got 10 years! Join Us! 

    The Rumors Are True

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2023 66:18


    Hey friends! Today we discuss the Lizzo controversy. And we imagine what our lives would've been like had we been adults in the 90'sJOIN US!!

    Dimming A Woman's Light

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2023 60:22


    On today's episode, Al and Kayla talk about the situations that took place with Keke Palmer's baby daddy, and Jonah Hill's "boundaries".

    STILL Askin All Dem Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2023 61:23


    On today's episode, Al and Kayla use a random question generator to spark their discussion. 

    Step Up 2: The Streets

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2023 37:25


    Okay, listen. Life came at us HARD these last six weeks. But, now we are officially back. For real this time. 

    Robert De Nero's Hams

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2023 92:25


    On this week's episode, we look at some things happening in pop culture and talk about them. JOIN US

    Is This The End?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2023 67:36


    CLICKBAIT....It's not. But damn it's been a while since we've been able to talk to ya'll. Thanks for being patient, our lives have been hectic. But come and join us. Please?

    Catching Up...AGAIN

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2023 65:54


    Sorry about last week, life be lifeing sometimes. But this week, we talk about some things we've experienced over the last two weeks. 

    We Got A LOT to Catch Up On

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2023 64:25


    Heyyyyyyyy, sorry we ghosted you for a while. We was going through some things. But we back now. And today we talking bout The Oscars and Angela Basset, Jonathan Majors, the situation in Tennessee, and many more. Please forgive us. Come sit down and let's work this out. 

    Everybody Hates Chris? I Say....MEH

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2023 59:01


    On this week's episode, Chris Rock finally speaks on the infamous slap that happened last year. So, Al and Kayla discuss the stand up special and have a mini retrospective on Chris Rock's filmography. 

    Functional Freeze

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2023 59:00


    On today's episode, Al and Kayla discuss a phenomenon called Functional Freeze:"Are you an over-achiever, workaholic, or someone who looks like you're doing well, but you're shut down emotionally and feel like life is passing you by?Your body might be in fictional freeze."Dr. Nicole LePera@theholisticpsyc

    Heart Palpatations : A Valentine's Special

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2023 66:49


    On this special Valentine's Day episode, Al and Kayla spend a day at the ER. And catch the Super Bowl and mini Rihanna concert that happened. Then we discuss how love can bring out the best in people when it comes from a pure place. 

    A 21 Day Vacation? Plus The Grammys and Movie Talk

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2023 58:00


    On today's episode, Al and Kayla discuss DJ Envy's wife taking a 21 day vacation and how social media reacted to it. Then, they discuss Beyonce not winning Album of the Year, and how movies remakes are not needed. 

    We Talk About Tyre Nichols, Then The Royal Rumble

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2023 55:23


    Listen in as Al and Mikayla discuss injustice in Memphis. Then, they talk about their trip to San Antonio and why wrestling brings people together. 

    Healthy Boundaries? Create Them

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2023 78:19


    On today's episode, an anonymous fan suggested we discuss creating healthy boundaries. So Al and Kayla talk about it, and bring the fun back to the WYP.  

    A Near Death Experience

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2023 22:32


    This week is a very short episode, as Al and Kayla deal with the medical emergency of a loved one. Please send some prayers our way as we navigate a difficult time in our lives. 

    2023, Is That You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2022 83:48


    On the final episode of 2022, Al and Kayla look back on the year that was. Then they take the time to talk about all the things they will achieve in 2023. Think about what goals you'd like to reach in the next year. Join us in reflection. 

    Mental Health and Mental Illness

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2022 75:43


    This month's episodes has somewhat evolved into multiple discussions about mental health. Mikayla leads the discussions about the struggles that black men face, and the conversation evolves from there. Tune and and enjoy. 

    Developmental Trauma And Social Anxiety Disorder

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2022 71:33


    On today's episode, Al and Kayla discuss how they react to  when someone else has an  angry, disappointed, or flat expression. Then, the conversation transitions to talk about Social Anxiety Disorder. 

    Live Laugh Lose

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2022 81:44


    On this week's episode, Al and Kayla play a new game where they tell the CORNIEST jokes and try to make each other laugh. So, you know, a regular episode. But this time, it's a card game. 

    Disconnected

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2022 19:39


    Full disclosure, we recorded about 45 minutes and had to stop. So this episode will be very short. We will be back next week. 

    You Are Not For Everybody

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2022 79:50


    On this week's episode, Al and Kayla discuss a multitude of different topics, including:We saw Black Panther Wakanda ForeverKayla's best friend got marriedDave Chapelle, SNL, and antisemitismAnd more! Plug in and JOIN US! 

    We Masked UP | The { } And Series FINALE

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2022 82:58


    This week, we have to talk through masks because Al caught COVID. But that doesn't stop your hosts from finishing The {    } And Series for the people!

    People Go to Homecoming For D*ck | Twitter Divin'

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2022 62:08


    On this week's episode, Al and Kayla go looking through Twitter and discuss some topics. 

    Emotionally Immature Parents

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2022 76:39


    On today's episode, Al and Mikayla take a deep look into the topic of Emotionally Immature Parents. They delve into how not having an emotional connect with their parents growing up has affected them into their adulthood. The conversation gets raw and real, so buckle in. 

    Silly Ho - Song Association

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2022 93:48


    After a hiatus, Song Association is back and in full swing. Listen as Al and Mikayla battle each other for WYP Supremacy! And drop by and wish the Baby Boy AD a Happy 5th Birthday! 

    What About Me Makes You Feel At Home? | The { } And Series Pt 17

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2022 64:26


    Al and Kayla continue their card series The {      } And, with some deep and thought provoking conversations. 

    Talkin About Religion

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2022 46:37


    On this episode, Al and Kayla discuss religion: their upbringing in it and how they are today. 

    WE BACK!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2022 73:08


    We are FINALLY Back (pun intended). Al and Kayla return home and it's time to talk about the first two weeks of Kayla's 6 week recovery from back surgery. We talk about limitations physically and mentally, and we talk about how that time brought us closer together. Join Us. 

    An Update From Mikayla Herself | The 5 Love Languages

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2022 70:28


    We were able to get Mikayla to update everyone on her condition, but because we couldn't get her home just yet we have to do another throwback episode. So, in celebration of our anniversary we are re-uploading the 5 love languages episode from our early, early days. After taking The Five Love Languages online quiz, hosts Al and Mikayla discuss their love languages. They also talk about how they can use these meanings to navigate through their marriage, as well as their key friends and family relationships. The Five Love Languages was created by Dr. Gary Chapman and released the book The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate in 1992. It profiles five ways to convey and experience love between intimate partners that Dr. Chapman calls "love languages'. In his book, Dr. Chapman stated the five ways to express and experience love areWords of AffirmationQuality TimeReceiving GiftsActs of ServiceAnd Physical Touch  

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    Quick Update on Mikayla | REUPLOAD FORREALLY? Song Association

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2022 96:34


    While Mikayla is recovering from her surgery, we wanted to still bring y'all some good times. So we are re-uploading a fun episode of Song Association from this past March. So sit back, and enjoy this fun time with your favorite hosts!  

    Let's Talk About Tiffany Haddish/Aries Spears and Honk For Jesus

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2022 71:03


    On this week's episode, we discuss the controversy regarding Child Abuse allegations around Tiffany Haddish and Ariel Spears filming an inappropriate skit with a then 7 year old boy. Then, we discuss the recent release of the Peacock film Honk For Jesus, starring Sterling K. Brown and Regina Hall. 

    REUPLOAD - The Saboteur Assessment - "9 Ways We Self Sabotage"

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2022 94:42


    Hey family, we're taking a small break this week due to illness. So here is a re-upload of one of our favorite episodes!At the start of today's episode, Al and Kayla briefly discuss the current invasion of the Ukraine. Due to the overall nature of the topic, we kept this topic short. Secondly, today's episode was inspired by a fan, who suggested we take The Saboteur Assessment for ourselves. And WYP Family, let me tell you, we were NOT ready for being dressed down by an online assessment test. Listen as we discuss our results and come to some harsh realizations about ourselves. If you would like to take The Saboteur Assessment, click the link belowhttps://assessment.positiveintelligence.com/saboteur/overviewOr, search for The Saboteur Assessment on your favorite web search engine and get read like a library book!

    Would You Rather? | The Audacity Of People

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2022 56:39


    On this week's episode, to get out of being in a weird place collectively, Al and Mikayla play the Would You Rather? game. Then, the conversation shifts towards the audacity people have. 

    Getting Closer and Closer To The End | The { } And Series Pt 16

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2022 79:06


    This episode came at a pivotal point in Al and Kayla's relationship. Listen as they get honest and real with each other, getting back centered as husband and wife. 

    Our Trip To Pick Up My Brother

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 68:33


    On today's episode, Al's brother is finally released from prison. So, your hosts discuss the journey to be there when he walked through the gate. 

    Don't Call It A Comeback - Song Association

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2022 77:59


    You know what time it is. We doing the song association game, y'all know it and love it. 

    The Damn Mic Fell Off The Thing - r/ Relationship Advice

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2022 73:55


    This week, your hosts try something new (Well, at least new to them) and they read through the r/relationship advice. They give their perspective on three different situations. Also, they talk about their weekend and Al pretty much gives two Weekly Motivations this week. It's a fun time, come hang with us. 

    My Brother Is Free | The { } And Series Pt 15

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2022 75:42


    On this week's episode, Al discusses his brother's parole and what their relationship might look like. Then, Al and Kayla continue their {     } And Series, as there is only FOUR more episodes left. 

    So You're a Cheater?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2022 76:34


    We recorded this on July 4th, but we didn't feel like celebrating Independence Day. So we discuss some things we saw on social media. Al found two topics from twitter, and we went to work on dissecting other folks motivations.   

    EPISODE 100! Song Association

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2022 101:08


    Come and celebrate with your hosts as they do their 100th episode! Listen as they play everyone's favorite segment, Song Association! 

    Junetheenth Negro Jeopardy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2022 82:27


    Since this is the 99th episode, we saved Song Association for next week. This go around, we decided to do something fun and different. And we have a great time doing it. Play along with us, no matter where you grew up. 

    The First Top Gun Is TERRIFYING | The { } And Series Pt 14

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2022 89:44


    If you're listening to this episode on Wednesday, it's Al's 36th birthday! On this episode, Al and Kayla first discuss some recent films they've seen. Then they get down to the nitty gritty with another edition of The {   } Series. 

    Improvizisation

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 56:08


    On this week's episode, Al and Kayla recap their weekends with Al talking about his second appearance on the Hot Dish Improv Show at DCC. Then the convo fades into how pushing for the things that you are passionate about wields positive results. 

    31 Innocent Lives Lost Ten Days Apart

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2022 66:51


    On this week's episode, Al and Kayla discuss in a but more detail the Tops Friendly Market shooting in Buffalo, NY shooting and the Robb Elementary School shooting in Uvalde, TX. They take a moment to reflect on how both those events had a lasting affect on them, and what it means for their future raising their son. 

    Song A$$ - Song Association

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2022 78:26


    On this episode, Al put forth the lowest amount of effort coming up with his words. But that doesn't stop Mikayla and Al from having a great deal of fun in the meantime. 

    Girls Trip, Buffalo, Body Shaming, and Diabetes

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2022 59:44


    On This Week's episode, Al and Kayla discuss different topics. 

    It's Late Because We Had A Fight | The { } And Series

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2022 74:04


    We continue our The {    } And Series, but we first discuss the circumstances as we didn't release an episode yesterday. 

    Can We Talk For A Minute?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2022 64:13


    It's been another rough week and we have nothing planned. But that's when Al and Kayla really shine through. Their conversation starts with being crippled with fear and branches off as all conversations do. 

    Under Review: Song Association

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2022 98:21


    On this week's episode we play the Song Association game and one guess comes down to the wire. 

    I WANNA KNOW WHAT THAT LOOK LIKE | The { } Couples Series Pt 12

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2022 94:30


    EPISODE 90!!!!!Listen as Al and Kayla reach a milestone on The WYP, then take some time to listen to each other on a deep level. 

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