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Lesley Logan reconnects with fat loss and mindset coach Amy Ledin to talk about the habits that actually stick in midlife. Amy shares how she's been navigating stage four cancer while still honoring her values, her energy, and the daily agreements that keep her grounded. Together, they revisit her 5 for 50 habit framework, explore the power of future self scripting, and break down why identity work—not willpower—is what creates change that lasts and helps you become the person who follows through.If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast https://lesleylogan.co/podcast/. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co mailto:beit@lesleylogan.co. And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe https://lesleylogan.co/podcast/#follow-subscribe-free.In this episode you will learn about:How Amy returned to routines and promises after her cancer recurrence.Why she created 5 for 50 and how doing it as a family builds confidence.How choosing a “test habit” and adjusting early makes hard habits feel doable.Why creating a health character and using rehearsal scripts rewires old loops.How changing your environment reduces decision fatigue and supports long-term habits.Episode References/Links:Amy Ledin's Website - https://www.leanbodiesconsulting.comAmy Ledin's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/amy_ledinLean Bodies Consulting's - https://facebook.com/leanbodiesconsultingF* It Podcast - https://beitpod.com/fitpodEpisode 5: Amy Ledin - https://beitpod.com/amyledinAtomic Habits by James Clear - https://a.co/d/874dad4Book: Your Big Leap Year by Gay Hendricks - https://a.co/d/ick374uJourney To The Heart by Melody Beattie - https://a.co/d/fT1sQ1cWillpower Doesn't Work by Benjamin Hardy - https://a.co/d/f5KQW2vLove Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It by Kamal Ravikant - https://a.co/d/8jKmYAhNicole Lepera - https://theholisticpsychologist.comGuest Bio:Amy Ledin is redefining what it means for midlife women to “look like they train.” As a coach and entrepreneur, she combines strength training, simplified nutrition, and deep mindset work to help women create bodies that reflect their discipline, not their diets. Through her unique tools; the Meal Card Method, Daily Agreement Cards, and Breakthrough Rehearsal Scripts, Amy helps women escape the all-or-nothing loop, rebuild consistency, and sustain results for life.A stage four non–small cell lung cancer fighter, Amy brings a rare blend of resilience and realness to everything she teaches, grounding her coaching in lived experience rather than perfection. She's also a devoted mom of five, a podcaster, and a community leader who believes identity work is the true driver for change. Whether she's guiding her clients or helping them script the actions of their “future self,” Amy's mission is to help women trust themselves again. 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It's after Sarah Blakely. I pretend that I try to show up as her because I'm not as outgoing and as creative and fun and bubbly as Sarah. But when I create that character, my current self doesn't see it as a threat if I just say I'm just playing this role, you know. I'm coming on the podcast, playing a role that helps me show up as my best self. Like, I think a lot of us like forget that we have to, you know, we got to do it enough to become it.Lesley Logan 0:29  Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self-doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guest will bring bold, executable, intrinsic and targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started. Lesley Logan 1:13  Be It babe, holy moly, this episode is one for the books. I mean, her first one was one for the books. She's fabulous and she's amazing. We cover a lot of topics. You can insert whatever it is that you want to be until you see in for what we're talking about in these ideas. Basically, I wanted to have Amy Ledin back, and she is back, and, like, top notch, better than ever. And the reason is, is because we are going to do a really fun series on habits, and Amy is the queen of how she gets people to create habits that are not torturous and also that allow them to really become the person they want to be. And I mean, every different example is a be it till you see it. So this week, it'll be Amy Ledin plus a recap, and then next week I'll kick off a series on how I help people with habits. There are two different ways, but you then can choose the adventure that works for you. And I'm really excited about it. I believe in what we just discussed in this episode so much, and I can't wait to hear what's coming. And then I want you to let us know, like, how are you doing? Are you able to make the habits to help you be it till you see it? So get ready, buckle up. We have a few weeks to talk about this topic. And first, it's the one and only Amy Ledin. Lesley Logan 2:24  Okay, Be It babe. Holy frickin moly. I can't even believe it. I am so freaking excited to see the woman who's on my screen right now. Like, I have saw it on my day. Like, this, is it two o'clock yet? Is it two o'clock yet? Amy Ledin is back. Episode Five. Can you (inaudible) I don't know what number this is but it's over 600.Amy Ledin 2:44  Wow, that's crazy.Lesley Logan 2:47  I know. I know. And you, oh, I have to tell you this, Amy, my mom heard your episode when it came out. She literally still only talks about that one out of all the podcasts. She's like, that woman with the cards, that woman, and then you had, like, the boss, the boss bitch, and like something else, and she's still Amy Ledin 3:06  Oh yeah, your inner bitch, inner boss. Lesley Logan 3:07  Oh yes, she quotes you to this day. It's been four years. Amy Ledin 3:13  I love it. I love it. Lesley Logan 3:15  So Amy, in case people are new to us, which there's probably a lot of people. Can you remind them who you are and what you rock at? Amy Ledin 3:22  Yes. Okay, so I'm Amy Ledin, as you know, and I am a fat loss and mindset coach, is what I would say. That's my forte. But I'm a podcaster. I'm a mom of five kids, you know, I'm a wife, a homeschool mom, you know, all the things you know, I'm someone that has overcome, you know, I've lost 90 pounds. I am a stage four non small cell lung cancer, you know, fighter. I am now, right now, I've been in remission. I wouldn't call real remission, but no evidence of active disease three times, and this fourth time that it's come back, it's spread to my brain. So I'm on all new medications. So I would say that's the biggest update since the last time I've been on here. But I am, you know, I am a perimenopause, menopause, you know, menopause coach, and that's because my audience is growing up with me. You know, I'm 47 so I'm in the thick of it as well. So I'd say that's who I am.Lesley Logan 4:18  Oh my gosh, Amy, I had no idea it had gone into the brain. That is because Brad and I were like, I wonder how she's doing. I wonder if she's back in remission. That has to be hard. Like, is it hard, I mean, or maybe you just don't want to feel sorry, like, maybe it gets annoying to feel sorry for yourself, like, I just want to, like, do you mind if we chat about it a little bit?Amy Ledin 4:34  It is annoying and no, and you know what? I love that you're just like, you ask it, because people don't. So it's been almost a year since I found out that it had spread, and it was a shock. Like, I was really shocked. In fact, I was coming back to my podcast. I'd already recorded several episodes, and then I got that news, and I just, it really did knock me. I really got this, like, just attitude of just, I was really angry. Like, I'm like, I don't get it. Like, what am I doing wrong, which is just the wrong attitude. But that took me a few months to kind of feel sorry for myself. And then it was like going back to all the things that you know I needed to do to, you know, all the things that I always did before. You know, my keeping my promises and having a routine and building these habits and really living in a future, you know, like living as if I am already there. And you know, that helped me kind of come back. But I will say, you know, it's really only been a couple months of me really feeling like myself again, because I've just been battling a lot of that, you know, loops of just, you know, panic and fear, and am I going to be lucky this time? And you know, all of that, so, you know, it's then I've really had to, honestly, just get into a high gear. And this is what I'm always good at, is when, you know, shit hits the fan. I am someone that does the opposite of what most do, and that is, they, they just crumble. Like I said, I had three, I say three months of, like, feeling sorry for myself. I was still operating at what would probably be someone else's like, 85% I think where mine came in was when I don't believe in myself, like, or if I'm having that fear, I can't do, say, podcasting, because it was one of the areas that I have to be super authentic. So it's the first thing that actually goes off the books, and it's actually the thing that I used to love the most, because it was, like my therapy, so I almost have to be in full alignment for me to come back. So like, right now I'm getting ready to relaunch, and I'm actually excited for the first time, because I'm like, Okay, I'm living it. I can share because, you know, you know this yourself, like it's an energy transfer that you're doing right now with other people, and so it is all about having the right energy to really get into that person. And so that's kind of, you know, where, it has been hard. But you know what, like, what makes me feel the best is showing up at a very super high level, levels that people would say, why are you even trying this? And that is just because I am proving that you can do so much.Lesley Logan 7:04  Yeah, I love what you said, like, you know, living as if I'm there, because that's the whole be it till you see it motto, right? Like, it's just, like, we're just getting there. And I just think, like, it's, I feel you in that, like, when something doesn't go my way, like, I am also very good at hitting, like, hitting the fifth gear. Like, when Covid happened, we were in the air coming back from Cambodia. I was like, okay, hold on, what don't they have? They need this. Oh, I can do that. Okay, there's that, right? And that's how we bought this house. Recently, we had a situation, and we got the worst news in the entire world, and the first thing for me to shut down is like, I have to, we talked about this before we hit record, I have to add value. I have to be on integrity. I have to have integrity with my word like that is such a value of mine. So we're going to even though we weren't allowed, what happened is, we're turning around the border with the right paperwork and the right permit, and they still wouldn't let us in. I was like, we're still going to do the event. We're still going to operate integrity. They're still getting everything that they wanted. They just don't get to hug me in 3d but I'm still going to do it. But the thing that had to go away is I couldn't show up on Instagram because I, like, all I wanted to do was, like, cry and go, like, this fucking sucks. But I'm not that person that I'm not the person who does that this fucking sucks. I'm the person who's like, Okay, this is what I went through, and this is what I did, and this is what I'm doing, right? So not that, like, my situation is all brain cancer. I want to make sure the listeners here, I heard that. I can hear that, but like, I can understand, like having to let go of something you love or that you enjoy doing, or that as an outlet for people to get to know you until you're in a place where you can go, okay, how am I going to operate in this way? Amy Ledin 8:36  Well, and no one wants, I mean, I'm not saying it needs to be like this toxic positivity, but day in and day out of someone just like being boohoo is also not a place that's really going to serve anyone, especially myself. I'm really not a big believer in sitting in it, so even when I'm in pain, my family knows I'm rarely going to tell you that I'm hurting or that I'm tired. Just know that's pretty much always for me. But why would I verbalize things like, I mean, your body goes to the direction that you speak to it, and so I just don't do that. So I'll take on the makeup, and I will do my hair and those things, because I see my reflection all day long. I really believe that's a big superpower that people don't realize. Like, you want to see a reflection of what you want to be feeling like, I don't feel that great. But when I see that other reflection of like, I'm like, oh, okay, yeah, versus man, if I didn't do anything, I think it just make me start to go more downhill. And I mean, everybody's different, but I'm a really big believer you got to show up as the person you want to be. Lesley Logan 9:37  Yeah, I love that, and it's true. Like, I not only do I it's not about toxic positivity. We had a really great episode about, like, happiness, and I was, I interviewed her, like, when there was the fires in California, and I said, you know, like, there's a bunch of people who like, why their houses are burning down. They're like, this is gonna mean something. And I'm like, that's not feeling your feelings. Like, yes, I do believe that everything does happen for a reason. I do believe that like, when doors close, it's because another door is going to open. Like, of course, but in the moment, you are allowed to feel the feeling. Amy Ledin 10:06  (inaudible) time. Lesley Logan 10:07  Yeah, like, feel your feelings. Amy Ledin 10:09  No one needs to tell me as I'm getting the news. Amy, this is because you know what, you can handle it. You know what I'm about ready to like, I'm, you know, that was the biggest thing that I really got tired of people like, oh my gosh, you're so strong. Like, I'm actually tired of being strong. You know what I mean?Lesley Logan 10:25  I do know what you mean. I'm going to say you're so resilient. I don't check on you. I'm like, I'm so tired of being resilient over it. But I do, I do think that, like, at what I also cannot handle is, like, why I can't be the person who's like, going to tell you what I'm going through in the process. I don't want the apologies. I don't want the I'm sorry for you. I don't want any of that stuff, because now I have to respond to that, because now I have to say, thank you.Amy Ledin 10:52  Well, I didn't even actually, and, you know, trust me, I'm going through therapy for this exact thing is, I actually didn't tell my family for a few months. I wanted to get like, several treatments, and my, not my, not my immediate family, like Mike's, like my parents and stuff, because I didn't want to go through that cycle right there. I wanted to already have an answer for, like, this is the diagnosis. This is what we're doing. I've already been doing it, and I've even had XYZ because I didn't, you know, you'll not see anything online about it, you know. You know, in our own private, you know, we have a paid group of women, 550 women, that, obviously I did, because I'd lost a lot between one of our training blocks, and I knew they'd see it in the filming. I film every round, you know, videos, and so I was open with them. But otherwise, I'm not that way, because I don't like the I don't like, to go through the phase of, like, let me give you, you know, I'm, I don't need that. Lesley Logan 11:45  Yeah. Well, also, like, it's, you know, you have to feel the feelings. You can grieve, the things that, like, were what you were expecting. And then it's true, we have to go. So what can I do? Like, what are the actions that I can take? Like, what is gonna what if I'm in pain all day, like, what can I do to make myself feel good and like, I agree, like, my days are better when I, like, Get up and get dressed for the day and put things on and like, go, okay, whoa. You know, we nailed that. Amy Ledin 12:11  Yeah. And I mean movement, like, I've had some really rough times over this last year where I've had to learn that if you get no mobility at all, it actually just increases that, the aches, the pains, you know, I had, I think it was like three days that I actually did not leave the house. And finally, like day three of my goal was just to get to the end of our driveway. And I just started to think, like, I mean, even if it's small, that is so much better than and getting sunlight, and, you know, all the things that just, really, honestly, I think, help our body. We're kind of like a plant that we need to, like, get out and, like, get in some soil, and, you know, so that's something that, you know, really, I think, is important, you know, as well. Lesley Logan 12:55  Yeah, I know, like, a body in motion, like, stays in motion, right? Like, it's easier for me. Yeah, I came home from my tour, and my girlfriend saw me like that next morning at the gym. She's like, wow, you're so good at being consistent. I'm like, first of all, I do have a trainer that will not renew with me if I don't check this off on the app. Second, I paid for it, so we're gonna do it. Third, if I use the excuse, oh, I just got home or I have a trip, I will never have, oh, consistent workout, and then I'm always having to start again, and then that is just like, never gonna feel good.Amy Ledin 13:30  And I say that to clients that I'm like, think about the person that's traveling all the time, like you're taking five days to land back into your life from a trip, and then like, five more days to get, like, recalibrated and like, that's just, you know, wasted time, right? So, yeah, and, I mean, you know this yourself, like, having habits, having routine, having structure, is just one more thing that I think helps, like, even your body feel at peace. At least for me, like, that's the last thing I need to be worrying about, is that. So it just feels good to get right back into like, I need to make sure I'm getting my walks in. I need to make sure I'm getting, like, my sleep routine, you know, like, that's a skill in itself, right?Lesley Logan 14:09  Yes. Well, that that is, I mean, like, everyone's like, how's it gonna be back? You must be tired. I'm like, oh no, well rested. Very behind on emails, because my sleep is going to come before my emails. But thank you so like, I'm well rested, all of my all of my Pilates, all of my weight training, all happened, not the emails, you know, you gotta have priorities. Amy Ledin 14:30  (inaudible) with the self-care. Lesley Logan 14:31  Yeah, so, okay, so you brought it up. So kicking off a habits block, because I hate the new year, new you stuff. It's not my favorite thing. I know you like, I've heard you talk about, like, upgrades. Like, I think that each year is a time for us to reflect. And like, we can think about the change what I'm bringing into the new year, but like, you're still you going into the new year with more experiences and and, and also smarter, because you've hopefully reflected on those and you've thought about these things, you experienced them. So I wanted to help people, like, understand how they can be it till they see it with their habits. And of course, you come to mind because people loved Episode Five. It's probably one of the most cited episodes we've had. It's come up many times. People still talk about it. But what are some of the tools that you use to to have habits? Because, my goodness, like, even with you've got five kids, you've got a business, you home school like you have to have habits or probably nothing gets done.Amy Ledin 15:24  Totally and we actually do it as a family. So I'm a big believer, you know, habits are not sexy because they need to be forever. So I'm a big believer in that you've got to make your habits fun, and you got to get creative around gamifying things that help you, like, level up. So you have your like, daily habits that you want to eventually just become forever things like, for me, it's like a daily walk, you know, three liters of water, like things that I just want to be background noise, but for a season, I mean, I may need to put them, like right front and center. And so we started creating something that we call 5 for 50 and it's five habits for 50 days. And the reason we do this is you pick five habits. But the key is, it's five that you need to do for the full 50 days, and four of them you have to intend to keep long term, like, don't start something for 49 days or 50 days that you don't really think maybe, you know, it might be a smaller version of that, but it's daily things. And so we do it as a family, you know, sometimes twice a year, typically like when mom's going through something hard, and I'm like, hey, you know what? Let's do 5 for 50 as a family. Because I always know, then we push ourselves like we just, I mean, I just feel better about myself. And so. (inaudible)Lesley Logan 16:35  And also it sounds like it gives you something else to focus on. You know. Amy Ledin 16:38  It is and and it's fun to see what the kids do like we so we did four that you wanted to do indefinitely, and the fifth one was some personal growth area where you want to dabble in it to see if it's like something you like. So, like one of my son, my 26 year old, he did that he had to draw for 30 minutes every day for, you know, 50 days. You know, my other daughter did guitar. And it also taught them that, like, wow, when you do, you know the compounding effect of this habit over time. And so I like, you know what I like about a timeline on something again, is that habits aren't sexy. They get boring for people. And so when you gamify, or when you do something where you're like, okay, I have a block, I have a start and a finish, what you're hoping at the finish is to drop those off of like you're right in front of you, writing down, and they just have become part of, like, your identity. They've just they you're now just pulled to do those things, because they've just become automatic. Now I test myself once I take them off, if I see that they're not I might reintroduce that like on say, like my DAC cards that I talked about on Episode Five, where I then write them in a structure of, like, these are the things that I'm keeping promises to during the day, but the Five For HIT 50 is really it's a habit one, there I tell my kids, I'm like, these are things that you know, maybe you're even doing them, but now you want to do them with like perfection, because you know how you do anything is how you do everything. Like, I tell people, I anchor my morning with my bed making. And it's funny, because when I make my bed, I literally take everything off. Like, Eric's like, is it seriously that, you know, necessary, to do? I'm like, yes, because it is a metaphor for how I want my day to go and how I want to treat myself, and that I don't cut corners. I don't I treat it like it's a hotel bed where I want the sheet sure. could I pull, like, we hardly move some nights where I literally could probably pull it back, but there's probably some little scenes down in the bottom. And I do find this. I find that it takes I've set a timer once, it only takes me, like three minutes and like 32 seconds, and I'm like the whole time I say mantras to myself, but I say this is a metaphor for how I want to show up. So I tell my kids, maybe they're habits you're already doing. Maybe you're brushing your teeth morning and night, but maybe it's going to be morning and night for the full two minutes, you know, with intention or whatever it may be, right? And what the kids see is these little things that become measurable really build your confidence. They start to think outside of what those are. And they're like, big fingers, you know, I find that my kids start coming up with ideas of, like, businesses, and that's just because they're believing in themselves. You know, like my daughter, she's like, I'm gonna sign up for soccer. And I'm like, Oh, really. Because she's like, going into high school and she's never played, and this was Leilani this last year, and I'm like, I'm so proud of her. Lesley Logan 19:21  She's going to high school? Amy Ledin 19:23  She's grade nine. Can you believe that?Lesley Logan 19:25  I can't Amy because I thought I haven't aged a bit. Amy Ledin 19:30  Yeah. So she, and she decided that, you know, out of the blue, that she wanted to start that, and I knew a lot of it had to do with doing these types of personal development things, where, when you can start measuring these habits like it's inevitable you're going to feel better about yourself. I mean anything from like Atomic Habits that I learned was when you start to even if it's two push ups a day, it's measuring that and seeing that compound effect over time. And it's not about the push ups. I tell people, it's what it represents that you do what you say you're going to do, and that you do it to the fullest. They're not like, half assed, like, that's why when I say what you write, you respect it, like, when you say you're gonna make your bed every morning. Don't just, like, throw it, because that's really how you're going to show up in all these other areas. Are you going to be the person that cuts the corner? Or are you the person that it's like, when I say I'm doing it till 5:30 it's till 5:30. Do you know what I mean, it's not 5:28.Lesley Logan 20:22  I actually really like the idea of like, one of them can be one, you just like, are testing out. Because I do think that when people are creating like habits that they want in their perfectionist tendencies, it's like, it's got to be all or nothing, and they're not giving themselves this permission. It's almost like, let me see like for right now. So I interviewed a girl who talked about tarot, and I said, I've always wanted to know about tarot because I was like, never allowed to play with tarot and and she's like, she's like, she's like, yeah, tarot actually was in the church. It was a way for you to self-reflect. And I was like, oh, well, tell me more. She's like, yeah, no, it was way to self-reflect, and you can actually use it as a tool to kind of figure out what's going on in your heart and your mind. I was like, oh, what a cool way for me to journal. And I have ever since hearing from like, interviewing her. I'm like, maybe I so I was like, I want to learn this, but then when you go to learn something new, it's like, it's hard, it's hard to take in the new stuff when you got the other stuff. And so I've, like, tried different books, and I was like, okay, here's what I do. I'm going to take this app. I'm going to do it for 30 days, but now I'm going to just put as my five for 50, and I'm going to see if, after 50 days, do I still want to learn this. Because it's also okay for me to say, you know, that was interesting and I didn't do what I wanted to do, and that's okay, you know, we can let things go, but we gave it our full effort.Amy Ledin 21:38  And telling your brain you can stop it at 50. Some of these long term habits that, like, let's say meditation, like, let's say you've wanted to dabble in it, but you're like, the idea of knowing it's something you really should implement forever kind of just seems like daunting. I'll be honest. Like, I'm like, oh crap, something I gotta do forever. Let's just wait to do that. But if you tell me, hey, just dabble in it for 50 days, see how you feel now be 100% for those 50 days, because that's the key. Like, it is crazy what happens when you go all in on anything, even if it's five minutes, if you're like, Hey, I'm going to just for five minutes a day, do this like our kids, because we let them choose the duration, and we did allow them within the first week of once we started it, you could change like, like, my one son, he was like, 30 minutes of drawing every day was just too much. I realized within the first few days that like sitting there with something that I'm not even, like, familiar with yet, because he's, like, he's 26 trying to get into it. So he and me, within the first week, we let them redefine the agreement you don't want to wait too long, because sometimes that's just your voice of compromise going, oh, so that's why it's like a seven day window. We say, okay, you've got seven days to come back to the drawing board. And I think he shortened his by 15 to 15 because he's like, realistically, I'm gonna hate it if I tell myself this, whereas, like my other kid was like, I'm gonna bump mine to 20 minutes, because 10 is not long enough or, you know, but it was really good for them to see what they were doing. But the compounding effect, like, I think we had one kid that decided to do, like the tennis bound like every day, just practice the hand eye coordination, which honestly made me realize, gosh, I need to do this, because my hand eye is not that great. He did this for 50 days. You become like a Michael Jordan, like, it is the compounding effect that people do not realize. Like, all you got to do is do something consecutively and like, over and over to get good, but knowing there's an end in sight, like, it helped me get back into journaling. Because I was like, okay, I just got to do it for 50 days. Let's see if this really is, like, worth doing the rehearsal scripts. And at the 50 days, I was like, holy crap. Like, it's actually making me feel better, you know, but I wouldn't have given it a shot, because I'm like, I don't want to add another thing into my life. Lesley Logan 23:42  I love that you said that Amy, because I think you and I, one of the things that, like, we became fast friends, is like, we are committers. We say we're if we say we're gonna do something, we're gonna do it. We show up for it. We have a lot of habits that we're really good at. Some, because we're humans, we like, go up. But I it's also like, for me, I'm like, hold on before I say I'm gonna do that. Like, where is that going to end in my day? Because I don't want to be like, I didn't do that today, because I hate that feeling like, that is my worst feeling. So I too, am like, okay, hold on. But it's like, oh, for 50 days. Well, then I can really see if I like it, and I can also see if I got good at it. I could also see, like, you know, it didn't really change anything. So I can let it go.Amy Ledin 24:21  Totally. And writing it in a scripting way, like I find, like, even with my DACs, one area that I've changed with myself is the way you say things to your brain really matters, and it really needs to be identity shifting, and that you're like, I want to, I'm going to, you know, practice the guitar for 30 minutes every day for 50 days, because I want to show myself that committing to something that typically I resist because it's hard and there's a learning curve, like, go on with the details to yourself so that sticks more, because every day, like growth is hard, like I, I hate to break it to people. It's the only place, I mean, like, hardness is where you actually grow. And, I mean, it freaking sucks, like, when this came back and people are like, Oh, you'll grow. I'm like, you know, I don't want to, but I actually can appreciate after the fact that I'm like, there's another layer to me that I'm obviously, like, uncovering through this. I don't want to be told that right in the moment. I don't think anyone should, and I think that, you know, just and I really hate when people apologize and go, oh, but you have cancer. It is all relative to you. It's like trauma to your body. It doesn't matter if it's like you tripped over a pebble or you got shot by a gun, it's how your body reacted to that and how it sees it. So I never want to discount that, because I feel like my clients have just as big, they feel like just as big of problems in those moments, especially to their bodies, as it does to me. So it's really like trying to be aware of that and seeing your habits, like, why are you making this a habit? You know, what's the reason behind this? Like, I used to be one of those that like make especially when I, you know, probably around when I first met you, it was like making the list and doing the charts. I mean, I have like, seven different journals I was using and trying to, you know, color code. And it just was too much pause and go. I mean, why am I doing this? What is the long term gain of this habit right here? And really try to tie it to the identity that you're chasing. Like, is it gonna help your health character and you becoming like your best self? Is it, you know, or is this just like an ego booster that you're gonna post on Instagram, that you're doing cold plunges? What's the real reason behind it? Because I find that we are so, you know, geared to be like, now we're doing colostrum, next we're doing greens. And my habits to do 30 days of greens. Lesley Logan 26:45  Oh my God, Amy, thank you so much. Everyone is like, on this colostrum kick. And I like, obviously, it's not human colostrum, but like, my sensitivity chart came back, and she's like, human colostrum. And I was like, that's so fascinating. Like, I'm not having that. But I'm also like, I'm also like, not gonna like, now I'm like, I'm like, all there's this. Everyone is like, and now we're on to this now. And it's so funny, because we have been on the on Instagram for work, and we see our friends, and it's like, I do have a cold plunge. I love my cold plunge. I am not going for 15 minutes. I get in there, and the first thing in the morning it wakes me up. That is why I do it. So for habits, why it's like I get it because I I have the hardest time remembering what day it is and why am I up in the morning. And I love the morning. So I get in and I read three books. They're each daily message books, because I wanted to read them. Yeah, I read, Gay Hendrick says, Your Big Leap Year. So I read one page of that. I read, I think it's Melody Beattie's, like Journey to the Heart, and I read someone else's and it's like I read, and they're often different messages, but I whatever one that sticks with me then I think about that as I go on my morning walk, and that's how I do it. And I found that was taking me a long time to get out on the morning walk, so I have a cold plunge for that, but I find, to your point of the why, why are you doing this? Because it's the end thing to do. It's what they're saying the next perimenopausal woman should be doing or shouldn't be doing, because I have people like, you shouldn't be cold plunging. I'm like, back off. It makes me feel good.Amy Ledin 28:12  It's a crazy world. I mean, I'm even in the industry, and I even say, wow, I feel for females these days. Because you know what? You get really bamboozled. I mean, people even, like they're doing a real they'll even show, over here, like a medical journal study, that they'll pop up and go and according to this, you should, well, now, if you're smart like me, and you want to be, you know, funny, you go check what that is. Well, it'll be like a research study on like, 85 year olds. And I'm like, man, context, please. But because they're like, a white coat doctor, and they're coming, you know, like, and they have 100,000 followers. And trust me, I am guilty of it too. When I was looking for back help, I'm not a chiropractor, so, like, I'm at the mercy of what I find. It's just like a person coming to the fat loss space, right? So I'm looking at, like, oh, they have a million followers. I mean, you see this in the Pilates space. Like, it's really, really scary. I think we're going to get back going full circle. It'll start to be referral. People are only going to trust who has because now everyone's been through something, and they've all had an experience. So now they're like, tell me who you (inaudible).Lesley Logan 29:18  I actually agree with you, because of all the AI stuff. Like, now I'm like, I actually go to Brad and go is this real? Do you think this is real before, like, I share it because, like, it's so easy, and now there's so much marketing that's using chat bots and AI that I think people are gonna stop using the socials to find even though that's where they it's been going that way to start finding things. I think people are gonna stop because it's gonna be referral. Because, like, you do. You know a real human who's acting like a real human, and it's but I agree. I mean, you're in the fat loss space. I'm in the Pilates space. I have so many people going, well, this is Pilates, and I'm like, no, honey, it's not, but no, I'm not going to go around telling people what is and isn't, because I'm not here to be in a fight with people. I'm here to help people. So I'm not going to help with an imitation.Amy Ledin 29:59  We're the same. I don't have enough time in my day to come hate on what you're doing. You if you think what you're doing is working for you, do it. I support you. And I think there's more than one way. Now, I think Pilates and I think even strength training, there are certain biomechanical like things to it. But I am not going to be a person that's a coach that sits and just like trashes everybody else you know, and does videos about them. I don't think that that helps, you know, personally, I think, and maybe it does, but the energy that I would be working in in that space would never make me be a creator in the way that I want to be, because I think I'd just be, you know. Lesley Logan 30:35  Oh, I just think in the industry you have, yeah, and I think so I feel like I love the honesty and like, it's so I mean, like most of the people listening are women, it is so easy to be bamboozled, but what I love about you and your ideas here, it's like, what do you want? Like, what do you want? And then why do you want it? Because I actually don't think that your why has to be something stellar, but you do have to know why. Because I think, like, do you want to run a marathon because you want a habit of running? Well, then we can, we should probably don't have to run a marathon. We can change the habit. Or are you wanting to run because you have a friend that you want to keep up? Or is it because you want to, like, what's the why? So that you can, one, test the habit, and your Five for 50, or two, maybe it's the wrong habit, like, maybe that's not the thing that you should be doing. Once you figure out the why, there might be an easier or more accessible one to you.Amy Ledin 31:29  And make the habit something that long term is going to give you the biggest bang for your buck. Maybe it's not following a macro plan right away. Maybe it's actually meal prepping, like I, you know, I tell people, do you have to earn the right to lose fat? So like my daughter Kamele, this last year wanted to go on like, her first diet, and she's 22 and so I said, well, before I'm even going to give you a meal plan that has macros on it, you need to prove to me that you're actually going to live the identity of the fit person. Fit people, they prep meals. Fit people have a fridge full of stuff. They don't come home and have like, I mean, that's just not how they live. They fuel themselves, right? So I said, what I want you to do is just set some meal times improve over the next few weeks that you're going to pack meals. I don't even care if it's I don't care what it is that you're packing. It's the habit of the identity of that person. And then I broke down the macros, and it's great, because she doesn't associate, like being a fit person, because she's lost 20 pounds, because she just dialed in and titrated those meals. But it was all about the identity of that fit person and how now she's like, I don't associate it. She goes, it's funny. In fact, everyone at my work, she works at Lulu, and they're like, wow, Kamele, you started eating more, and now you're like, 20 pounds lighter, because she was, like, packing her meals and being on a set, you know, routine with it, and fueling herself, right? And so, plus, it taught her too, this was it's not about your macro breakdown, honey, because she even lost weight, even just packing the meals and, like, living that way. I said, it's because you were intentional. You were prioritizing protein. You were eating on on a, on a, on a routine, like set times your leptin and ghrelin, like that, like, so find those five like in those habits. Maybe it's something that's going to get you the bigger you know, the lower hanging fruit. And honestly, to the brain, meal prep sounds a lot easier than follow my macros 100% for 50 days. That can seem really daunting to the person that's like, struggled, maybe they've had food issues or binge issues and all that. Lesley Logan 33:26  I think this is I will always highlight. I love when, like, all my friends who are coaches of this space, most people are just not eating enough, and they're not eating intentionally. And so, like, I just, like, want to highlight, yes, well, you can often eat more and lose weight, if that's the journey you want to go on, most people start eating enough or not eating the right things. But I love, you brought up, this a couple times, so let's just break it down. Identity, like the identity of the person. So it's like, it's beyond the why. It's like, who you want to be and what do they do, and then doing that now.Amy Ledin 33:59  Yes, it's totally around your Be It, it's like you need to write. I mean, it's like, we make our clients create a health character. What does she look like? What is she wearing? What does her daily routine look like? What's her fridge look like? What's her closet look like? What size is she wearing? Not that those matter, but they do to your brain to start to really see and paint the picture, because they've done too many studies in all these areas, whether it be, I mean, lottery winners, big, huge studies on why do almost 95% of them go bankrupt after we're talking like tens of millions of dollars if they win. Because, you know what, their identity is, still of a poor person. Right? So fat loss, 95% of people that lose it actually regain, it's already hard enough to lose it, so you work so hard to get there. So I don't, it's why that's such a big part of the component for our clients is the last thing I want to do is see you in two years from now, because you just got really good at disciplining yourself for a season. I want this to be who you are, and you got to commit to who that person is, and what does that look like for that person. You know what I mean?Lesley Logan 35:02  Yeah, yeah. So I think that's, it is totally Be It. It's just like, it's like, I want to start a business. Like, well, what does that person do with okay, the business is working. It's rolling. It's all the things you thought it would be like, how do they get up? What do they wear? What is their schedule like? What is that happening? And then, because you start to do the things or thinking like that. It makes it so much easier to step up the next thing, yeah, no, the macros thing like. Amy Ledin 35:25  It's not a threat. And look at it from a brain standpoint, your brain does not see it as a threat. It comes back to like, it's like the Sasha Fierce with Beyonce, like that was a create a character she created. My business character, I named her Amy Blakely. It's after Sarah Blakely. I pretend that I try to show up as her because I'm not as outgoing and as creative and fun and bubbly as Sarah. But when I create that character, my current self doesn't see it as a threat. If I just say I'm just playing this role, you know, I'm coming on the podcast, playing a role that helps me show up as my best self. Like I think a lot of us, like, forget that we have to, you know, we got to do it enough to become it, right?Lesley Logan 36:05  Yes, yes. Well, I think, like, so many people go, oh, this is like, I don't want to fake it till I make it. You're not because, like, I have found, you know, like, you have a bad, let's just say you have a bad night's sleep, but you have a presentation that day. You don't go and go, guys, I'm so tired, and give you a presentation. No, you step up to the person who could be the person who believes that does a presentation nine times out of 10. You actually feel better when the presentation is over, because you you are acting as if you're the person who was doing a great presentation and became that person. That is what's happening. Yes, yeah.Amy Ledin 36:38  And epigenetics shows us like, you know, if you follow Nicole LePera, I've got to give her credit, she's been doing these, what they call Future Self Journaling, where she believes that every day you should script out your day. We do a version of it in our community where I want them to even script out like their their day as a as their health character. And because of what we've seen in the brain is that the more that you wire that future of like it sure, it's not who you are yet, but it's who you want to be. Your brain actually doesn't see the difference, and they're now seeing that the brain wires that way. So if you're in your 40s, 50s or older, I always say if you have struggled with fat loss, and you are already at this age, you have a rewiring issue that you need to address. Because if 95, 91% of your thoughts every day are the same, statistics will show me, you will continue to come back to this old person that you say you are and talk about and believe in. So if you're trying to become like a business owner and become like owning a Pilates studio or whatever it may be, you have to start scripting. And the older you get, and I just say it's (inaudible). Lesley Logan 37:40  So like, do you just like script out like, 5 a.m. 6 a.m. or do you like go, I am so and so doing this, like, what does it look like?Amy Ledin 37:46  It's doing this, it's more of a behavior like you'll have an outline of, like, I, you know, as I wake up today, I effortlesly, you know, keep my small promises in the morning. And you might at first detail them out, because the whole point is to this doesn't change very often, your script stays the same because you're trying to work on an area of your life, like in therapy. It's like, if you're an overreactor, if you're struggling with worthiness, it's it's a daily thing, because you're trying to show that you can change who you are, and now epigenetics is proving it, which is positive. Because here's the thing, you may have been born into someone because now they're showing with epigenetics, like it's connected even in the womb. So that really was hard for me, because when I got pregnant with Leilani, I was in a really, you know, I it was broke up my family, you know, I'd had an affair. So my pregnancy came in a place where it was a very unwanted pregnancy, and I talked, probably very negatively to myself. Well, this next book that Nicola is coming out with talks all about how they're showing and so those children can actually already be born anxious and have like attachment styles based on just the way that you have talked. So at first I was like, man, what a depressing thing to hear. But her whole point is to teach us like we're all broken humans, like we've all come from some sort of crap. And so the power of this book was to teach us that our brain is actually the neuroplasticity and our ability to change. If you're an introvert, you can become an extrovert. If like you are, you know, you say you're one way, you really can actually change. And it's doesn't take long, you know, it's 50. It's kind of similar to habits. It's about that 60 day mark we're we've tested it out with clients. I've done beta testing, and now we make it a part of our program where for 60 days, I have to do this journaling, because I'm so tired of women grunting their way to reaching their goals. I want it to pull you. I want your identity to pull you to become that. And a lot of them are starting to go why is it suddenly feeling easier to meal prep stuff that I like my lazy self, you know, is always fighting. I'm like, because you're scripting about a new person, and your brain is just seeing that is the place I need to go. It's like, it doesn't even know the difference. It just thinks it needs to do it. So less resistance. So same thing with these habits. Try to find, you know, some connection to that identity, the way you write it because you want to have less resistance. You don't want to be like you know, otherwise you will try to use motivation to do it and it never is lasting. Lesley Logan 40:09  Motivation is this interesting thing that everyone thinks they need. Once I'm motivated, and it's like you just, and we'll talk about this in the habit series I've got coming out. Like motivation is one of the worst things you can it will help with something really hard. Like, if you have to do something that's really difficult, motivation is very helpful to, like, it's like the starter in the car. It only works to start the car, right? This is as far as my car metaphor is gonna go, because that's all I know about cars. And then it's like all the others. It's the gasoline. It's you putting the gas, putting your foot on the pedal, all that stuff. So but people think it's gonna, it's gonna show up every day. I cannot wait to be motivated to do anything. I would get nothing done. Nothing would none of the things I built would have have been built because of motivation. Amy Ledin 40:51  Yep, yep. And it's kind of aligned with willpower. I will say a book, I don't know if you've read it, but you would love it, and he'd be a great person to have on because I think he's a small author. It's called Willpower Doesn't Work, and it is a whole book on he's got studies in there, charts that show essentially that it is all about your environment. Like that is the key that most people it's it's everything, whether it be friendships, it be your actual physical environment, that that is way better than because willpower is finite, and like, you can't count on that. It's why, in the morning the cupcake is less tempting than, say, like, at night. So like, instead of, like, having the willpower of having that cupcake here all day, why is it at night? I want it. You need to see that your environment is more powerful. Hey, decision fatigue at the end of the night, I don't need to have things out that I'm already weak to or, anyways, you would just love it, because it's just made me stop shaming myself for stuff that I'm like, seriously, I need to change the environment. You know, I've even said to clients, the best time to really change a big habit, like a bad habit, like, I had a client, she's like, every night we sit on the couch, we eat a snack. I said, Hey, when's your next time you're out of town? Because having a break from your environment and then coming back into it is the best time to shift into a new habit. Now for the next several days, don't even sit on the couch like let your brain completely because it is all about connection and loops, you know, for most of us at this age.Lesley Logan 42:16  It's true. It's true. This year that I'm doing we talk about how to unravel a habit you don't like, and it's one of the things, and I'll dive deeper in the episode, but it's like, how what is the prompt that starts the sitting down on the couch? There is something that starts that, and if you don't know what that something is, you can get rid of your couch, and you're still gonna find something to sit on, because there's a prompt there. Amy Ledin 42:39  It's true. And yes, because it's it started earlier. I have a client right now that we've realized her overwhelm with work makes her go to any like, highly palette. It doesn't have to be chocolate chips. At first, she's like, it's the chocolate chips. I'm like, girl, no, tomorrow will be something different, but it's not about the pantry. I'm like, it starts earlier. And that you start to see failure in your day and overwhelm, and that loop is when I'm failing okay, this is kind of like my coping mechanism, you know, so much, and so it's interesting. I'm like, man, I feel like we're therapy one on one. But even in, you know, someone that wants to have a business, they're all parallel, all of it, because it's a personal development journey.Lesley Logan 43:18  Everything, whatever it is, like, that's why I like that identity and like you can see yourself in like different things. Anything that you want to do, and how it's like it, it we, it works the same. You, it's you have to prepare the environment. You have to know why you want to do it, and then you have to tell you have to believe that you can. And I think like because like you, you cannot shame yourself into something you want. It will not work. And you talk about, like, the clients, like, grit themselves to getting there, and then they're just be back in two years, because nothing changed, and they didn't become who they wanted to be on that journey. Oh my gosh. Okay. I mean, I, obviously, I could talk to you forever about this, because, like, this is just something I like to nerd about. But I just love that we think the same way on this, because it's really, it's really easy, I think, for people to, like, want to start 17 new things at the same time, or like, they, you know, and like, it's an I have to do it for an hour, and it's like, hold on, like, let's, you know, we got to adjust the timeline of what it is. And I really think, you know, making sure you know why you want to do it. The script thing is a really cool thing to add to it. I have to say, like, I kind of like the idea of like writing yourself a script for the day and how it's gonna go, that's a be it till you see it, and also, like a manifestation and a drawing in, I think that's really beautiful, Amy. Well, we're gonna take a quick break, and we're gonna find out where people can find you, follow you, work with you, and then we're gonna do your Be It Action Items. Amy Ledin 44:36  Okay. Lesley Logan 44:37  All right, Amy, where do you hang out? Where can they stalk you in the best way? Amy Ledin 44:42  I am, I'm on Instagram, you know, under amy_ledin if you are, like, still a Facebook person, though, I will say that is, like, where our business really lands. So it's under Lean Bodies Consulting. I post daily there, and then, you know, by the time this episode's out, my podcast, you know, which is called F* It! so you can find me there.Lesley Logan 45:00  I love your podcast. It's so great. I also want to say, like, I admire that you take pauses when you need to with it, because I think you are so good at podcasting. You're so wonderful at it. All of your episodes I've ever listened to are so good. And you're also allowed to be a human and take time for yourself. You have given us so much already, but you know how the show goes, we need Be It Action Items, bold, executable, intrinsic or target steps people can take to be it till they see it. I mean, the whole episode kind of was one, but anything you want to add or remind us.Amy Ledin 45:29  Well, you know what? I actually tied it to your acronym, to the DACs, and it's like, bold, one agreement that matters, like, pick one, like, maybe you need to start just with one. Executable is your E, you know, like, write it in real words, not vague. So be specific on what you're really shooting for. The intrinsic is link it to how you want to feel, not just like, how much you want to weigh, how much money. Like, how do you really want to feel there? What's the money? What's the scale going to give you? And then targeted, today, not someday. Like, be very specific.Lesley Logan 46:01  Oh, my God, that's brilliant. You're so good. I love it so much, you guys. I can't even wait to hear how this episode goes. It's just so fun to have you back and see what you're up to, and also just be reminded of, like, how powerful we all really are. Our minds are really powerful. And I love the science behind that. That book sounds amazing. I can't wait to read it. I'll have to have it on. You know what, before I go. And I'm gonna say this, because, in case anyone knows this person, I'm trying to get hold of them, there's a book called Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It. And I'm gonna, I'm gonna do a little series on, like a self like, a week long series on self-love. Because everybody who talks about, I burnt out, I'm this. And the book the author, he says, You'll never burn out if you actually love yourself. Because if you truly loved yourself, you wouldn't say yes, when you mean no, you would actually, like take time for yourself. And that's so like, I think those two books sound like a nice little bookend, but also, like everything we're talking about here today, it's, it's all part of it, you know, it's all like holistic it's, we're not little compartments. So thank you for being you, Amy. You guys, make sure you check out her Instagram, her podcast, her Facebook. Tell her what your favorite takeaways are. You can tell me, I love it, but also tell her these words of affirmation are our love language also lets us know what your favorite parts are. Share this with a friend who needs to hear it. You know, it's actually kind of difficult to go through all these like 5 for 50 alone. Sometimes it's kind of nice to have some friends to do it with, or your kiddos to do it with. 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I have the absolute honor of sharing this incredible interview with THE Dr. Nicole LePera, creator of The Holistic Psychologist and New York Times best selling author. Nicole went from being a clinical psychologist, burned out doing cognitive therapy in private practice to creating an international community that provides education on holistic mental health and wellness through nervous system tools, inner child healing, and more.In this episode, she shares the fears and challenges she has had to face in the process of following her purpose. We talk about the dark night of the soul, facing old patterns, and embracing the discomfort of the unknown in order to create a career that is an expression of your soul's calling.If you are someone who wants to make a positive impact on the world around you, do not miss this episode.Join the waitlist for the Self Healers Circle here: https://selfhealerscircle.com/waitlist/Purchase Dr. Nicole LePera's books here: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/books/Follow her on Instagram: @the.holistic.psychologistSubscribe to her YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheHolisticPsychologistIf you want to bring your vision to life, get lazor-clear on your purpose, and master the somatic inner resources needed to move through the initiations of leadership, I have created a new 6 month Mastermind called The Embodied Leader. Book a free Career Vision Call with me, so that we can talk more in-depth about your desires, your challenges, and assess fit for this level of embodied leadership: https://healingembodied.hbportal.co/public/careervisionFor any questions, email Chelsea@healingembodied.comAdditional Resources for Therapists, Healers, Coaches, and Creative Entrepreneurs:Free Resource Library for Therapists, Healers, and Creatives: https://healingembodied.kartra.com/page/library-signupFree Facebook Community for practitioners who want to lead from embodiment and wholeness: https://www.facebook.com/groups/embodiedleaderparadigmGet our $7 ebook for therapists, coaches, and practitioners on how to create a career that lights you up and serves from overflow rather than burnout and self-sacrifice, From Overgiving to Overflow: https://healingembodied.kartra.com/page/overgiving-to-overflowLearn more about our flagship group program for leaders, healers, and creatives: https://healingembodied.kartra.com/page/wholly-humanLearn more and/or apply for our year-long, internationally accredited somatic certification program: www.healingembodied.com/get-certifiedUnlock the fullest expression of your purpose and get clear on your unique career vision by booking a Career Vision Call: https://healingembodied.hbportal.co/public/careervisionAdditional Resources for those who want to embody more love, trust, and wholeness in their lives and relationships:Want to be a client of Healing Embodied? Book a free 30 minute Clarity Call with a member of our team, and learn how we can support you in creating more trust, love, and joy in your life: https://healingembodied.kartra.com/page/applyOur flagship group program: https://healingembodied.kartra.com/page/wholly-humanOur Relationship Anxiety Resource Shop (mediations, masterclasses, courses): https://healingembodied.kartra.com/page/shopGet on our email list for updates, podcast episode announcements, discounts, and more: https://healingembodied.kartra.com/page/sign-upCheck out all the ways we can support you here: www.healingembodied.com/healwithus

In dieser Short Episode des Female Leadership Podcasts hörst du einen Highlight-Clip mit Dr. Nicole LePera, auch bekannt als The Holistic Psychologist. Sie erklärt, wie unser Nervensystem unser tägliches Leben beeinflusst – von Atmung, Herzschlag und Stressreaktionen bis hin zu unserer Fähigkeit, Sicherheit, Kreativität und Leichtigkeit zu erleben.

My life-changing annual event, The Summit of Greatness, is happening September 12 & 13, 2025. Get your ticket today!Check out the full episode: https://lewishowes.com/podcast/become-a-self-healer-and-break-free-of-emotional-cycles-with-dr-nicole-lepera/Dr. Nicole LePera shares powerful insights to creating healthy boundaries and how to break cycles in ourselves.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter

What if the health struggles you're facing aren't just about diet, exercise, or willpower — but about unresolved trauma stored in your body?In this powerful conversation, I'm joined by trauma-informed confidence and relationship coach Tori Jenae to explore the deep connection between emotional health, the nervous system, and physical wellbeing.Tori shares her personal healing journey, from a traumatic upbringing to decades of study in psychology, somatic work, and functional health practices. Together, we break down how chronic stress and trauma can manifest in everything from gut and hormone imbalances to burnout, perfectionism, and people-pleasing — and what you can actually do about it.You'll learn:How trauma gets stored in the body and impacts digestion, hormones, and energyThe signs your body may still be stuck in fight-or-flight modeWhy completing the stress cycle is essential for long-term healthHow perfectionism and people-pleasing can be early indicators of unresolved traumaPractical tools to start regulating your nervous system todayWhy self-compassion and experimentation are key to lasting changeWhether you've experienced “big T” trauma, chronic stress, or simply feel stuck despite “doing everything right,” this episode will help you approach your health goals from a deeper, more compassionate place.Resources & Links:Connect with Tori Jenae: Instagram @tori.jenaeWebsite http://www.torijenae.com/Book mentioned: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der KolkBook mentioned: How to Do the Work by Dr. Nicole LePera

This is a Fan Fav episode. Does the thought of defending yourself sound empowering or frightening? If someone were to cross a physical boundary with you, do you feel prepared and capable of protecting your boundaries? Safety is a primary concern when you are human, and it is even more of a concern when society isn't doing the best job making you feel safe or capable of keeping yourself safe. Don't dress that way and attract unwanted attention they say. Don't walk alone late at night or early evenings they say. Often women are left feeling like the victim long before a crime or a siituation has occurred. Eve Torres Gracie is a Self Defense expert and instructor at Gracie University of Gracie Jiu Jitsue. She's opening the conversation with how the core lof self defense for women is to feel confident and to be able to enforce boundaries. Defending your boundaries and giving yourself permission to know that you are worth defending is key. At this Rad Con Live event Lisa is joined by Celebrity Makeup Artist, Molly Roncal, Co-Founder of Bossbabes, Danielle Canty, Holistic Psychologist, Nicole LePera, and Self Defense Expert, Eve Torres Gracie. The conversation gets open and extremely vulnerable. Discussing aging and insecurities around beauty, scars, and self-worth isn't easy to do openly, but as women we need to be able to have these conversations. Original release date: 7-3-22 SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction Eve Torres Gracie 0:37 | Confidence to Set Boundaries 6:12 | Confidence to Save Yourself 11:23 | Get Tough As Hell 29:04 | Take Back Your Power Follow Eve Torres Gracie: Website: ⁠https://evetorresgracie.com/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/evetorresgracie⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/EveTorresGracieOfficial/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/evetorresgracie/⁠ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. I'm sitting down again with the incredible Dr. Nicole LePera—The Holistic Psychologist—for a radically honest conversation about self-sabotage, self-betrayal, and how our subconscious habits keep us stuck for YEARS if we don't wake up and intervene. Dr. Nicole doesn't just break down the science; she offers the practical tools and tiny first steps you need to start making change, even if you've failed a thousand times before. With her signature compassion and “no more hiding” approach, Nicole shows us how overthinking, meaningless routines, and people-pleasing quietly sabotage our dreams. But, most importantly, she gives you a roadmap out. It's time to reconnect to that inner voice, build unstoppable self-trust, and finally become the hero of your own life—no matter your history. SHOWNOTES 00:01 – What self-sabotage REALLY is and why “overthinking” betrays your inner wisdom 00:11 – Where self-betrayal comes from: The subconscious's addiction to the familiar 00:27 – Creating space from your thoughts: Why you don't need to “think less,” just think differently 00:41 – The daily “small promises” that actually break the cycle of self-defeat 00:55 – Overwhelm and emotional safety: How to start healing without retraumatizing yourself 01:15 – Self-sabotage vs. self-betrayal: How ignoring your needs ends up running your entire life 01:29 – Building ongoing self-awareness and spotting your own “tells” 01:52 – Navigating relationships as your needs (and self) evolve—and why communication is everything 02:15 – Meaning as your anchor: How reconnecting with purpose pulls you out of any spiral 02:36 – Why you're not “broken,” and how tiny acts of self-trust change everything FOLLOW DR. NICOLE LEPERA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist/ Website: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/ Book: How to Do the Work Join the SelfHealers Community: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/selfhealers-circle/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's episode is an amazing discovery conversation with The Holistic Psychologist, Dr. Nicole LePera (a beloved two-time Almost 30 guest) centered around her thoughtful new workbook, How to Meet Yourself, which is out now.Here at Almost 30, we do aliens, we do channeling, we dabble in psychedelic therapy and dig into some of the deepest spiritual concepts out there – but this one is all about serious self-development, the complexities and questions we face as women, and how we can work to simplify it all for a more balanced, peaceful being.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

In this episode of The Sober Edge, host Teri Patterson explores the often-overlooked journey of rebuilding trust—starting with ourselves. With insights from Dr. Nicole LePera's How To Meet Yourself, Teri explains how nervous system states influence our ability to feel safe and connected, and how learning to interpret bodily cues is the first step toward healing trust—both inward and outward. If you've ever struggled to know what's “safe” in recovery, this episode is for you. Show Notes HERE

Sme uprostred revolúcie vo výchove, ktorá radikálne mení spôsob, akým vychovávame naše deti. Už sú preč časy mávnutia rukou nad detskými pocitmi: Neplač; Veď si v poriadku; Nerob scény. Keďže sa naše chápanie vyvíjajúceho sa mozgu zväčšilo, dnešní rodičia hľadajú nový spôsob, ako pomôcť svojim deťom pochopiť ich pocity a naučiť sa ich spracovať. Odborníčky na emocionálny rozvoj Alyssa Blask Campbell a Lauren Stauble stoja na čele hnutia na podporu emocionálnej inteligencie malých detí. Ich revolučná metóda Collaborative Emotion Processing (CEP) zmenila pravidlá hry pre rodičov a pedagógov a teraz sa o ňu delia s čitateľmi v tejto nenahraditeľnej príručke. Audiokniha Malí ľudia, veľké emócie poskytuje nástroje na riešenie všetkých druhov stresových situácií pri výchove detí vrátane: Čo robiť, keď vaše dieťa dostane záchvat hnevu (Nie je to tak, ako si myslíte!). Užitočné scenáre na zvládnutie akýchkoľvek náročných momentov, ako je odmietnutie ísť do školy alebo nevôľa ísť spať. Ako reagovať, keď dieťa niekoho udrie alebo uhryzne. Jednoduché tipy, ktoré pomáhajú regulovať nervový systém dieťaťa. Ako predvídať a ukončiť záchvaty plaču ešte predtým, ako sa vôbec začnú. Táto audiokniha je určená všetkým ľuďom – malým aj veľkým – a ukazuje rodičom, ako zvládnuť výbuchy ich detí, a zároveň im umožňuje rozpoznať a zvládnuť ťažké pocity, ako je hnev, smútok, hanba a úzkosť. Rodičia v tejto audioknihe nájdu cenné poznatky a návody, najmä tí, ktorí sa starajú o deti od dojčenského veku do ôsmich rokov. Audiokniha Malí ľudia, veľké emócie vybavuje dospelých nástrojmi emocionálnej inteligencie, aby mohli reagovať na správanie svojich detí vedome. Je základným, empatickým sprievodcom, ktorý naučí rodičov všímať si vlastné návyky a udržiavať priestor pre veľké emócie ich malého človeka. „Malí ľudia, veľké emócie“ poskytuje plán zrozumiteľných a relevantných nástrojov, ktoré pomôžu zmeniť emocionálnu odolnosť budúcich generácií. Alyssa Campbell a Lauren Stauble sú súcitné sprievodkyne, ktoré ponúkajú praktickú podporu pri vytváraní bezpečného prostredia pre emocionálny prejav a pohodu našich detí.“ - Dr. Nicole LePera, autorka bestselleru New York Times č. 1 „Veľkorysá. Praktická. Prehľadná. Malí ľudia, veľké emócie je kniha, ktorú musíte mať.“ - Britt Hawthorne, autorka bestselleru New York Times Author of Raising Antiracist Children: A Practical Parenting Guide „Základný, empatický sprievodca, ktorý premení najfrustrujúcejšie rodičovské momenty na príležitosti pre spojenie a rast.“ — Dr. Shefali Tsabary, autorka bestselleru New York Times The Conscious Parent „Máloktorá kniha o výchove detí nám presne ukazuje, AKO súcitne a účinne zvládať ťažké emócie našich detí. Metóda CEP od Alyssy a Lauren je odpoveďou na modlitbu každého rodiča, ktorý sa modlí za emočnú reguláciu - presahuje tradičný rodičovský návod „odrážajte ich pocity“ a pomáha rodičom a vychovávateľom vytvoriť hlboké autentické spojenie s ich dieťaťom.“ - Dr. Lynyetta Willis, psychologička, rečníčka, autorka a zakladateľka organizácie Triggered To Transformed „Výnimočná. Dokonalá kniha pre našu dobu. Nielenže je jednoduchým, praktickým sprievodcom, ako sa „rozumne“ pohybovať v potenciálnom mínovom poli emócií, ale v konečnom dôsledku vytvára cestu k tomu, ako si užívať bohatší, emocionálne plnší život. Najviac sa mi páči, že nie je len neuveriteľným zdrojom informácií pre rodičov a ich deti (malých ľudí), ale rovnako relevantná je aj pre dospelých. Vrelo odporúčam.“ - Mark Bunn, zakladateľ Dharmic Living a autor bestselleru Ancient Wisdom for Modern Healthd Audiokniha: Malí ľudia, veľké emócie Autor: Alyssa Blask Campbell a Lauren Elizabeth Stauble Interpret: Lenka Košická Dĺžka: 12:24 h Vydavateľstvo: Publixing a Noxi Audiokniha Malí ľudia, veľké emócie na webe Publixing (MP3 na stiahnutie) Audiokniha Malí ľudia, veľké emócie na webe Audiolibrix (MP3 na stiahnutie)

THE WORKFollow Break Generational Trauma, One Trauma at a Time“Healing is a daily event. You can't ‘go somewhere' to behealed: you must go inward to be healed. This means a dailycommitment to doing the work.”—Dr. Nicole LePera, The Holistic PsychologistOur purpose is not to create a perfect life for our kids or ourpeople. It is to show our humanness and to raise our kids toknow they are deeply loved by their deeply imperfect parents.And to show our people we are flawed humans who are doingthe best with what we know, right now.Our work is to become aware of our traumas and triggersand the impacts they can have, if unchecked, and then todecide which ones have the biggest impact on our people.Have you ever met an adult with no issues? No parentissues or people-pleasing, boundary issues or control issues?Me, neither... Not sure I want to or need to, either.What if, each year, we focused on different parts ofourselves instead of tackling all our trauma and hoping we canbe perfect for those close to us?It can be so overwhelming, when you begin work in yourlife with a coach, mentor, therapist, guide, or pastor. Instead,pick one thing, and focus on that! Shift that! Grow in that area!This year, my big focus will be:While I am doing this for me, I know____________________________ will also be hugely impacted.The reason I choose this for my yearly goal is:When I feel like I am not making real progress, I willpay attention to mini-magical moments by:Actions I will take include:My triggers around this trauma are:I want to show up for my people in the following way:By showing my people my human, imperfect side, Iam giving them a gift of:Focusing on one per year will shift the all-or-nothingthinking. It will calm the inner rebel and alsoUnFollow that “in order to be great humans, we mustbe healed” false narrative.More of us talking about what we are healing, and why, ishow we collectively change and encourage others. Throughbravery and belief, not shame and perfectionism.It is only by living we truly heal!So, let's live, lassies and lads, and show our imperfectselves as we do it.Get your copy of Melissa's bestselling book, UnFollow: Question Everything with Excitement, and download the FREE WORKBOOK!Curious about Group Coaching? Check out ONE.Life today!Did you love this episode? Let us know what other topics you'd like to hear Melissa explore or questions she could address. Email: melissa@melissawiggins.lifeRemember, you can change your life one question at a time.Let's get started today.Follow Melissa on IG @coachmummabear_Remember to leave an honest review and subscribe to "UnFollow: Question Everything with Melissa Wiggins."

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It's easy to race through life without thinking that we need to do some inner work on ourselves but more often than not it catches up with us at some point.In this episode I look at why it's important and go through a basic inner child exercise to get you started.Links:A beginner's guide to inner child work: https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/inner-child-healing#listenSome books which covers this and a lot more:How to do the work by Nicole LePera: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Do-Work-Recognise-Patterns/dp/1409197743The book you wish your parents had read: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Book-Wish-Your-Parents-Read/dp/0241251028Arian Samouie's work: https://ariansamouie.com/ Why is everyone working on their inner child?: https://time.com/6268636/inner-child-work-healing/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever found yourself asking, “Why do I keep doing this?” If so, this episode is for you. Gabby is joined by three powerful voices in trauma healing and personal growth: Dr. Gabor Maté, Dr. Nicole LePera, and Dr. Richard Schwartz. They offer profound insights into the deeper reasons behind our struggles—and how to heal.Show notes:Order my new book, Self Help: This Is Your Chance to Change Your Life and get 3 free audio practices. Order Self Help.Recommended gabby coaching practice for this episode: ‘Self Help Anxious Parts Check-in' in the Self Help section. Not a member? Try it out for free here.If you feel you need additional support, please consult this list of safety, recovery and mental health resources. Disclaimer: This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on December 7, 2022. What up, guys? It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we're diving deep into the sea of empowerment and coming out stronger on the other side. Today, I'm beyond excited to bring you an incredible episode with none other than my dear friend Nicole LePera, the holistic psychologist extraordinaire! We are tackling something that's affected us all—those moments when we're triggered and explode in ways we immediately regret. Nicole is here to help us break it down and build ourselves back up. She's got the tools and wisdom we need to understand our triggers, navigate through them, and hold ourselves accountable without shame. And because we're such close friends, I found myself being more vulnerable than I expected, which was both surprising and cathartic. So, grab a seat and buckle up. This episode is a wild yet rewarding ride! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Nicole LePera returns to discuss emotional triggers 01:14 Vulnerability and heartache in deep conversations 01:35 Creative, compassionate self-expression and heart-centered healing 01:56 The power of our hearts in trauma healing 02:22 Embracing identity and self-awareness 03:02 Breakdown of different types of triggers 03:09 Exploring our authentic selves through understanding triggers 04:08 The roots of explosive stress responses 04:44 Strategies to align with our true selves 05:24 Diving deeper into the body-memory connection 06:30 The journey of healing past experiences 07:37 Understanding avoidance in self-safety 10:15 The balance between emotional reactivity and regulation 14:55 Examining relationship dynamics and care patterns 18:26 Knowing and evolving past limiting identities 20:18 Objective observations of ourselves and our habits 22:09 Real-time awareness and setting intentions 26:30 The importance of heart consciousness FOLLOW NICOLE LEPERA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist/ Website: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi  #skimspartner  Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts.  ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! hosts Behk and LAH are joined by the remarkable Jen Peters, author of Coming Home: The Path to Healing Your Inner Child. Jen opens up about her harrowing journey through trauma, resilience, and the healing process that has shaped her life and work today. Jen's memoir, Coming Home, takes us through her life story, including growing up with an alcoholic and abusive father, a traumatic gang rape in her teenage years, and the subsequent co-dependency and people-pleasing tendencies that played a major role in her toxic marriage. After escaping her abusive relationship, Jen began a deep healing journey, reconnecting with her inner child and eventually becoming a healer herself, helping others overcome their own trauma.In this episode, we dive into:Jen's personal journey: The impact of an abusive childhood and the aftermath of trauma in adulthood.Co-dependency and people-pleasing: How these tendencies often form in response to trauma and contribute to unhealthy relationships.Healing the inner child: The importance of reconnecting with the parts of ourselves that were hurt and forgotten.Resilience in the face of adversity: How Jen rebuilt her life after trauma and found strength through her healing process.Thriving after trauma: How healing is possible and how individuals can move forward to live empowered, fulfilling lives.Jen's story is a testament to the power of resilience and the possibility of healing, even after the most difficult circumstances. Whether you're navigating your own trauma or helping others through their healing journey, this episode is full of wisdom, hope, and inspiration.Thank you for tuning in. Jen's incredible story shows that healing and thriving are possible no matter the trauma. Please don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to the podcast to hear more from our inspiring guests.Heal with Jen Peters:Jen's WebsiteJen's Book: COMING HOME THE PATH TO HEALING YOUR INNER CHILDJen's Socials: Instagram YouTubeOther Books Mentioned:How to do the Work, Dr. Nicole LePera, 'The Holistic Psychologist'Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms toxic abuse; emotional and physical abuse, gaslighting, trauma, rape, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.Would you like to help support the show more? Subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free, exclusive content, and more.Hosts: Behk & LAHFollow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompodProduction & Design: LAHardenMusic: No Reason Why by Anchor Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

From our Exponential Risk breakout session, to joining us on InsTech podcast - this week we are spotlighting Neena Saith's valuable discussion on the science of resilience.  Resilience is a familiar term in insurance, often associated with mitigating risk and protecting against natural disasters. But what about resilience at a personal level? How can individuals in high-pressure roles manage stress effectively and maintain their well-being? In this episode, Matthew Grant brings back Neena Saith, a former colleague and catastrophe risk analyst turned stress and resilience specialist, about the importance of managing personal stress in the workplace. Neena shares her journey from catastrophe modelling to working with individuals and organisations to help them recognise, understand and address stress. Together, they explore the physical and psychological impacts of stress, how organisations can create a healthier work culture and practical techniques for managing stress in high-pressure environments. Further resources connected to the conversation:  Anxiety Rx by Dr. Russell Kennedy – exploring the mind-body connection in managing anxiety When the Body Says No by Dr. Gabor Maté – understanding the link between stress, emotions and physical health Neena's website: www.neenashealing.com – for coaching, group programs and corporate workshops How to Meet Yourself by Dr Nicole LePera - an interactive workbook designed to help every reader uncover their authentic self. Connect with Neena on LinkedIn: Neena Saith Key Talking Points The missing conversation in insurance – why workplace stress and personal resilience matter just as much as risk modeling Recognising stress cycles – understanding how the body responds to stress and how to complete the stress cycle for recovery Mind-body connection – how unresolved stress manifests physically and why mental and physical health cannot be treated separately Building awareness – learning to recognize personal stress triggers and early warning signs before they escalate Practical techniques – breathing exercises, movement, and micro-breaks to reduce stress and improve resilience Organisational responsibility – how companies and managers can support employees by fostering open conversations about stress Personal responsibility – setting boundaries, managing workload, and creating habits that support long-term resilience Beyond the workplace – the impact of work-related stress on personal relationships and how to navigate it If you like what you're hearing, please leave us a review on whichever platform you use or contact Matthew Grant on LinkedIn. You can also contact Neena Saith on LinkedIn to start a conversation! Sign up to the InsTech newsletter for a fresh view on the world every Wednesday morning. Continuing Professional Development This InsTech Podcast Episode is accredited by the Chartered Insurance Institute (CII). By listening, you can claim up to 0.5 hours towards your CPD scheme. By the end of this podcast, you should be able to meet the following Learning Objectives: Describe how stress affects both the mind and body and why resilience is essential in high-pressure environments Explain the concept of the stress cycle and the importance of completing it for long-term well-being List practical techniques for reducing stress in daily work life, including breathing exercises and movement strategies If your organisation is a member of InsTech and you would like to receive a quarterly summary of the CPD hours you have earned, visit the Episode 347 page of the InsTech website or email cpd@instech.co to let us know you have listened to this podcast. To help us measure the impact of the learning, we would be grateful if you would take a minute to complete a quick feedback survey.

Motherkind Moment is your place for calm and connection and a shift in perspective before the week ahead.  This week we are joined by Dr Nicole LePera, author of the #1 New York Times bestselling book How To Do The Work and the recently released Bestselling How to Meet Your Self Workbook. In this episode she explains why we should prioritise self-care, become aware of our habits & patterns and learn to differentiate between our inner critic and our intuition. For more powerful insights from Dr. Nicole LePera listen to the full episode here: The Holistic Psychologist: the life-changing skill I wish more parents knew about Click Here to order your copy of 'Motherkind: A New way to thrive in a world of endless expectations' This show is proudly sponsored by Stokke For a £100 sponsored job credit visit Indeed.com/ Motherkind Get outside and record any of three vital signs of spring. Find out more and log your sightings now at woodlandtrust.org.uk/vitalsigns. Get 15% off OneSkin with the code MOTHERKIND at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod Continue the Conversation: Join our community over on Instagram for inspiration, tips, and sometimes a bit of humour to get us through our day - @zoeblaskey Join our mailing list to receive news, updates and new episode releases Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

A few months into Lindsay Jill Roth's transatlantic courtship with a handsome Englishman she'd dubbed "the Brit," he made an off-hand comment that hit her like a gut punch: "But I don't know you well enough yet." Despite hours on FaceTime and a series of swoon-worthy dates in London and New York, she reluctantly realized that he was right: they didn't know each other very well. And their budding relationship, while certainly romantic, was hardly practical. In an age of increasingly impersonal dating-where "ghosting" is the norm and "situationships" abound-how do you actually get to know someone? How do you get off the hamster wheel of first date after first date and advance a relationship along the path to commitment?Enter Romances & Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours!) in 250 Questions (William Morrow; on sale January 28, 2025), which delivers an unputdownable blend of personal storytelling and research-backed self-help, including 250 questions spanning a dozen essential categories-from money to children to chores to sex-designed to help readers assess compatibility with a potential or current partner, initiate tricky conversations with grace, and build stronger, deeper relationships. Lindsay weaves those questions with stories from real-life couples, as well as guidance from a range of experts, including author and psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb, the "holistic psychologist" Dr. Nicole LePera, Dr. Mark Hyman, sex therapist Dr. Emily Morse, the "Sleep Doctor" Michael Breus, People magazine's "Sexiest Veterinarian Alive" Dr. Evan Antin, Suze Orman, David Kessler, Barbara Corcoran, and many more.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/arroe-collins-unplugged-totally-uncut--994165/support.

In this episode, Dr. Nicole LePera gets personal about writing her brand-new book, How to Be The Love You Seek. From healing the mother wound to embracing life as part of a throuple, Dr. LePera unpacks the true determining factor behind healthy relationships: YOU.Dr. LePera helps millions of people understand and break the trauma cycles that hold them back through her Instagram content (@the.holistic.psychologist), books, and a global, community-based healing membership called the SelfHealers Circle.Get ready for a fresh perspective on how to transform your relationships or call in new ones, starting with your body. Dr. LePera urges that when we understand our conditioning and begin to regulate our nervous system, we can give ourselves and our partners the love we've always wanted.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

A few months into Lindsay Jill Roth's transatlantic courtship with a handsome Englishman she'd dubbed "the Brit," he made an off-hand comment that hit her like a gut punch: "But I don't know you well enough yet." Despite hours on FaceTime and a series of swoon-worthy dates in London and New York, she reluctantly realized that he was right: they didn't know each other very well. And their budding relationship, while certainly romantic, was hardly practical. In an age of increasingly impersonal dating-where "ghosting" is the norm and "situationships" abound-how do you actually get to know someone? How do you get off the hamster wheel of first date after first date and advance a relationship along the path to commitment?Enter Romances & Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours!) in 250 Questions (William Morrow; on sale January 28, 2025), which delivers an unputdownable blend of personal storytelling and research-backed self-help, including 250 questions spanning a dozen essential categories-from money to children to chores to sex-designed to help readers assess compatibility with a potential or current partner, initiate tricky conversations with grace, and build stronger, deeper relationships. Lindsay weaves those questions with stories from real-life couples, as well as guidance from a range of experts, including author and psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb, the "holistic psychologist" Dr. Nicole LePera, Dr. Mark Hyman, sex therapist Dr. Emily Morse, the "Sleep Doctor" Michael Breus, People magazine's "Sexiest Veterinarian Alive" Dr. Evan Antin, Suze Orman, David Kessler, Barbara Corcoran, and many more.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/arroe-collins-like-it-s-live--4113802/support.

First aired in August 2024 In this episode of Midlife Crisis to a Centered Life Thriving, Dr. Natalie explores the concept of how the story we tell ourselves is influential in shaping our lives. Using a post from Dr. Nicole LePera (@⁠the.holistic.psychologist⁠) as a framework, she shares personal experiences and examples from clients to illustrate how the narratives we believe about ourselves can impact our well-being. The importance of shifting these narratives and prioritizing self-care is emphasized as a means to overcome burnout and find fulfillment. The conversation highlights the power of rewriting our stories and reframing our perspectives to create a more centered and thriving life. Keywords: storytelling, self-care, narratives, burnout, fulfillment, centered life thriving, Dr. Natalie, Midlife Crisis to a Centered Life Thriving, midlife women Takeaways: - The story we tell ourselves about ourselves is influential in shaping our lives. - Shifting our narratives and prioritizing self-care can help overcome burnout and find fulfillment. - Rewriting our stories and reframing our perspectives can lead to a more centered and thriving life. _________________________________________________ JOIN the ⁠⁠⁠LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠ (⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠) ⁠Mailing List! Join my newsletter and receive my FREE video and workbook, “Freeing Yourself: A Guide for Letting Go of Other People's Opinions” SIGN UP on the website at ⁠⁠⁠https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/762561/109840834025752017/share⁠⁠ __________________________________________________ Connect with us on all our Social Media Platforms: Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/learntoloveyourstory⁠⁠ ⁠ ⁠ Linked In: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/natalie-m-marr/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/learn_to_love_your_story_/⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@LearnToLoveYourStory ⁠⁠ DISCLAIMER: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with ⁠⁠⁠⁠LearnToLoveYourStory.com ⁠⁠(⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠)⁠, ⁠⁠NatalieMarrCounseling.com⁠⁠ (⁠⁠https://NatalieMarrCounseling.com⁠⁠),⁠ and all affiliate social media entities is educational and coaching based ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic services of any kind on these mediums. If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please use the following crisis resources (this is not an exhaustive list of available resources): National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/⁠⁠⁠ CALL 988 Crisis Text Line: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.crisistextline.org/⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Text HOME to 741741

In this episode of She Makes Waves, I share my journey with inner child work—what it is, how I resisted it at first, and the breakthroughs it's brought me. From my early days in therapy, where I was skeptical of connecting with my younger self, to a transformative Reiki session in Mexico, I explore how this work has shaped my perspective. I dive into the healing power of seeing my inner child, the wisdom kids can teach us, and how embracing playfulness has added depth to my life. Plus, hear how this journey led me to discover an amazing book on self-love and healing, and why I felt compelled to share it with others. Let's talk about growth, connection, and letting your inner child lead.How to Do the Work by Dr. Nicole LePera.This book dives into self-healing, breaking patterns, and connecting with yourself on a deeper level, making it a perfect complement to your discussion about inner child work and personal growth.Order the book here Follow me on Instagram

On Today's Episode: When you think of makeup what comes to mind? Are you excited and ready to contour and beat your face to the gods? Do you feel like it takes away and diminishes the natural beauty of a woman? Or do you see women in makeup and feel critical, like she must be hiding something, she's being phony or superficial? When it comes to being confident, looks do matter, but maybe not for the reason you think. Mally Roncal is an entrepreneur and celeb makeup artist that exudes levels of confidence and beauty anyone would want. She touches on why embracing what makes you different, what makes you unique, and sometimes what makes you feel the most uncomfortable is a power only you can harness. There is a connection between our inner beauty and the physical. You are not defined by one or the other, and there is no shame in celebrating yourself the way that makes you feel most confident. Beauty isn't about other people, it's about you and feeling good and dressing up and highlighting your beauty in the way you choose to feel and look your best. At this Rad Con Live event Lisa is joined by incredibly confident and strong women such as Danielle Canty of Bossbabes, Nicole LePera, and Eve Torres Gracie from Gracie Jiu Jitsu. The conversation gets open and extremely vulnerable. Discussing aging and insecurities around beauty, scars, and self-worth isn't easy to do openly, but as women we need to be able to have these conversations. If you struggle with your appearance or catch yourself judging yourself and other women for the choices they make and don't make in relation to beauty and living above the standards, this is a must watch! SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction Mally Roncal 0:19 | Badass Inside and Out 4:13 | Embracing Your Differences 11:43 | Be Your Own Beautiful 28:02 | Ditch Your Inner Critic Follow Mally Roncal: Website: https://mallyroncal.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mallyroncal/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mallyroncal Twitter: https://twitter.com/mallyroncal FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, I have the privilege of connecting with Dr. Nicole LePera, the Holistic Psychologist.  Dr. LePera did her clinical psychology training at Cornell University. She has touched the lives of countless individuals seeking growth and transformation through her popular Instagram account and has written several self-help books, including How to Do the Work and How to Be the Love You Seek.  In our discussion today, we dive into the current impact of our childhood experiences, exploring crises of faith, the dark night of the soul, inner child archetypes, and shame. Dr. LePera sheds light on the dynamics of dysfunctional patterns, triggers, and regression while also examining the role of generational and systemic beliefs, trauma, and the emerging science of heart-brain coherence and heart rate variability, sharing practical tips for cultivating presence in our bodies to assist us in processing our emotions. Dr. LePera's work has been profoundly instrumental in my personal development journey, and I know you will find our conversation enlightening and enriching.  IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN: How the subconscious mind determines our habits and relationships Dr LePera explains the concept of the dark night of the soul The importance of examining your conditioned behaviors and reconnecting with your true identity  How inner child archetypes impact behavior Why is self-development essential? How our past experiences shape the way we perceive and interpret current events The benefit of embodiment practices for developing emotional tolerance How childhood trauma impacts physical and mental health The impact of intergenerational trauma on mental health How to achieve heart coherence Dr. LePera shares mindfulness practices for stress management and self-awareness Connect with Cynthia Thurlow Follow on Twitter Instagram LinkedIn Check out Cynthia's website Submit your questions to support@cynthiathurlow.com Connect with Dr. Nicole LePera On her website How to Be The Love You Seek  On Instagram YouTube TikTok X

Nicole LePera, Holistic Psychologist and Best-selling Author shares how to create meaningful connections and how you can thrive in your relationships.  Check out the full episode: http://www.lewishowes.com/1358 Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter

In this special Best of 2024 episode, we revisit the most impactful moments from our inspiring conversations throughout the year. These discussions dive deep into relationships, attachment, community, and healing, offering meaningful insights into how we connect with others and ourselves.From the complexities of love and partnership to the foundational influence of early experiences, we explore tools for navigating challenges with clarity and intention. Mark Groves and Dr. Stan Tatkin discuss the intricacies of relationships, focusing on the balance of connection and independence that helps them thrive. Dr. Judy Ho explains attachment styles and how our childhood patterns continue to shape our adult behaviors. Kai Cheng Thom and Nkem Ndefo expand on emotional resilience, sharing strategies for navigating conflict and fostering greater compassion for ourselves and others.We also explore the transformative process of healing. Jessica Fern demystifies ethical non-monogamy, offering practical approaches to reframing love. Dr. Peter Levine delves into the impact of trauma on the nervous system, providing pathways for release and growth. Mastin Kipp and Dr. Nicole LePera share tools for understanding and managing emotional triggers, while Mia Magik reconnects us with ancient practices to strengthen our inner foundations.Themes of community care and mutual support emerge as Vannessa Bennett and Dené Logan reflect on the importance of fostering connection in mental health. Laura Clery reminds us of the power of humor to lighten life's burdens, while Michael Galyon encourages us to embrace the present moment with gratitude and openness.Featured GuestsMark Groves, Dr. Stan Tatkin, Sabrina Zohar, Jillian Turecki, Dr. Judy Ho, Jessica Fern, Vannessa Bennett and Dené Logan, Dr. Nicole LePera, Mastin Kipp, Dr. Peter Levine, Laura Clery, Mia Magik, Michael Galyon, Kai Cheng Thom, and Nkem Ndefo.If you feel one of your favorite guests has been missed, don't worry! Many more of our favorite guests will appear in next week's specially curated New Year's episode, where we'll share transformative tools to help you heal, grow, and graciously embrace 2025.If you enjoyed this Best of 2024 episode, please subscribe, share it with your fellow Gently Used Humans, and leave us a review! Your support helps us reach more listeners on their path toward growth and healing.Listen to the full episodes:Mia Magik https://www.drscottlyons.com/podcast/the-alchemy-of-rageMichael Galyon https://www.drscottlyons.com/podcast/finding-calm-in-chaosSabrina Zohar https://www.drscottlyons.com/podcast/breaking-the-cycle-of-toxic-relationshipsMastin Kipp https://www.drscottlyons.com/podcast/nourishing-your-nervous-systemDr Arielle Shwartz https://www.drscottlyons.com/podcast/the-nonlinear-journey-of-healingMark Groves https://www.drscottlyons.com/podcast/liberated-loveDr Stan Tatkin https://www.drscottlyons.com/podcast/the-architecture-of-relationshipsJessica Fern https://www.drscottlyons.com/podcast/erotic-blueprints-and-the-map-to-intimacyDr Peter Levine https://www.drscottlyons.com/podcast/the-birth-of-somatic-trauma-healingDr Nicole LePera https://www.drscottlyons.com/podcast/healing-trauma-and-an-addiction-to-dramaKai Cheng Thom and Nkem Ndefo https://www.drscottlyons.com/podcast/dating-your-trauma-tinglesVennessa Bennett and Dené Logan https://www.drscottlyons.com/podcast/tap-dancing-for-belongingJillian Turecki https://www.drscottlyons.com/podcast/the-safety-of-turbulance

In this special episode, we've curated a collection of clips, featuring the topic of reparenting. Ahead, you'll hear from #Almost30Nation's favs, Bethany Webster, Dr. Nicole LePera and Dr. Shefali.There is a ton of insightful info jam packed into this one. You'll receive a refresh on (or learn about) the mother wound, subconscious reprogramming, and how you can inherit pain generationally.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

In this special episode, we've curated a collection of clips, featuring the topic of reparenting. Ahead, you'll hear from #Almost30Nation's favs, Bethany Webster, Dr. Nicole LePera and Dr. Shefali.There is a ton of insightful info jam packed into this one. You'll receive a refresh on (or learn about) the mother wound, subconscious reprogramming, and how you can inherit pain generationally.Not to mention, you'll gain a sense of what it means to be a conscious parent and the problems associated with over-identification. And of course, we can't have a convo on family without talking about…drumroll, please…boundaries! If you want to introduce or enhance your boundaries, you're in the right place to learn how to do just that.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

Therapy is more popular than ever thanks to social media! Dr. Nicole LePera is one of the psychologists at the forefront of this trend. She has been making content on IG and TikTok that makes terms like attachment styles, narcissism, trauma, and intuition accessible to millions. She joins Ricki in today's episode to talk about listening to our bodies and how our past traumas affect our relationships and attachment styles. Follow Dr. Nicole LePera on Instagram @the.holistic.psychologist and on TikTok @TheHolisticPsychologist. Follow Ricki Lake @rickilake on Instagram. And stay up to date with us @LemonadaMedia on X, Facebook, and Instagram. For a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this and every other Lemonada show, go to lemonadamedia.com/sponsors. Joining Lemonada Premium is a great way to support our show and get bonus content. Subscribe today at bit.ly/lemonadapremium.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Traditional psychology is not without its limits, and on this week's episode of The Unbeatable Mind, holistic psychologist Dr. Nicole LePera is here to discuss those limits and the importance of integrating mind, body, and spirit for true healing.    Nicole opens up about her own struggles with achievements and the emptiness that followed—-even at the peak of her professional success. She delves into the evolution of therapy, and how moving beyond traditional models can bring about more transformative and resilient ways of living. Tackling issues of codependency, often shaped by one's childhood environment(s), Nicole dissects how these patterns impact one's adult life and relationships. Her perceptive way of dissecting past trauma can be transformative for anyone who finds themselves on the path towards healing.    Dr. Nicole found herself frustrated with her work as a therapist. She knew that she wanted better for herself and her clients. At the same time, she began to face some hard truths about her own family dynamics, core beliefs, and dysfunctional patterns that led to an emotional breakdown. This led to her own healing journey, and after 2 years of deep transformation she began teaching this work on social media, creating a community of #selfhealers. Dr. Nicole created the SelfHealers Circle to allow people to go on their own journey and create who they want to become. Dr. Nicole lives in Los Angeles, California and loves anywhere that involves the stillness (and quiet) of nature.   Key Takeaways: Holistic Approaches to Healing: Learn about the necessity of multidimensional approaches to healing and how essential it is to integrate emotional, physical and spiritual aspects.  External Validation vs. Internal Fulfillment: Discover how even those who appear to be performing at their peak are often the ones seeking external validation—no achievement can take the place of genuine personal connection.  The Limitations of Traditional Psychology: Recognize the limitations in modern day methods of therapy—they lack the integration of body and mind.  Origins of Codependency: Learn how childhood environments and dysfunctional family dynamics play a role in forming codependent tendencies and what safety mechanisms, if applied early, can help prevent them.    Nicole's Links:  Website: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-nicole-lepera-454b558/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtEWTaMjqOH8J1Gy06Ey0Yg  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/the.holistic.psychologist/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist/?hl=en  X: https://x.com/Theholisticpsyc?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor      Sponsors and Promotions:   Defender: The highest achievers among us are the people still striving, still reaching for something. It's those people who approach the impossible and embrace it. There's a vehicle for people like that. It's called the Defender. Explore the full Defender line-up at LandRoverUSA.com   Indeed Change the way you hire with a $75 Sponsored Job Credit from Indeed when you go to Indeed.com/DIVINE and tell them where you heard about them.    

In this special episode on gratitude, you'll hear life lessons from the great minds of Dr. Nicole LePera, AJ Jacobs, Martha Beck, Susan Cain, and Cory Allen. Throughout these conversations, we explore practical ways to incorporate gratitude into our daily lives, overcome common obstacles to feeling grateful, and use gratitude to enhance our relationships and overall well-being. You'll find a fresh perspective on gratitude, moving beyond simple platitudes to explore how we can cultivate a deeper, more meaningful sense of appreciation in our lives. Key Takeaways: Grasping the power of gratitude when grounded in the present moment Practicing detailed expressions of gratitude to deepen our appreciation Balancing gratitude with acknowledgment of life's challenges is crucial Cultivating wonder that naturally lead to feelings of gratitude Viewing gratitude as a state of being, rather than just a tool, to provide a solid foundation for navigating life's ups and downs Feeling overwhelmed by holiday stress or the pressure to make everything perfect? Or maybe it's the loneliness this season can bring. Either way, you're not alone—and this year can be different. Join us for a free online webinar on Sunday, December 10, at 12 PM Eastern to learn a simple habit that can help you let go of stress and find peace, steadiness, and genuine connection. Give yourself this gift of support and clarity for the season. Sign up here. For full show notes, click here! Connect with the show: Follow us on YouTube: @TheOneYouFeedPod Subscribe on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Follow us on Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of Women of Impact, holistic psychologist and author Dr. Nicole LePera joins Lisa Bilyeu to discuss such matters and more as they explore how to identify patterns of self-sabotage and what we can do to break negative patterns so that we may develop positive change in our life. They discuss how childhood patterns are developed, how we carry them with us every today, ways we can break negative habits and patterns, the power of connecting to your emotional body, how to access your consciousness, the benefits of connecting to your senses, how to navigate relationships and your family, and our ability to expand in life. Pre-Order Dr. LePera's book, 'How to Do the Work': amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa introduces today's guest on Women of Impact, Dr. Nicole LePera. [1:41] Observing | Dr. LePera discusses childhood patterns that still aren't serving us today. [3:13] Judgement | Dr. LePera discusses how to identify your patterns without self-judgement. [5:22] Resistance | Dr. LePera reveals the steps on breaking through patterns to new directions. [7:51] Connecting | Dr. LePera discusses the power of connecting to your emotional body. [10:41] Childhood | Dr. LePera on how to identify childhood patterns you're still carrying today. [12:22] Conscious | Dr. LePera shares how to escape repetitive patterns that aren't serving us. [18:05] Grounded | Dr. LePera reveals the power of becoming aware of your senses. [20:22] Trauma Bonds | Dr. LePera discusses the importance of gaining support from others. [22:24] Relationships | Dr. LePera shares how to work through trauma bonds with your partner. [27:08] Differences | Dr. LePera shares what to do if your partner isn't open to doing the work. [32:49] Family | Dr. LePera shares how she worked through patterns and establishing space. [36:05] ‘And' | Dr. LePera shares how to steer away from making excuse and show up today. [41:35] Connect | Dr. LePera discusses her new book and how to follow her to connect. [44:22] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase OneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin! FOLLOW DR. LEPERA: Website: yourholisticpsychologist.com YouTube: youtube.com/c/TheHolisticPsychologist Instagram: instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist Facebook: facebook.com/the.holistic.psychologist/ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's episode is all about setting boundaries, understanding your emotions and protecting them with Psychologist and Best-selling Author, Nicole LePera. Check out the full episode: https://link.chtbl.com/844-pod

In this unique mashup episode, I brought together insights from conversations with three experts in relationships, trauma healing, and personal growth: Dr. Nicole LePera, Gabby Bernstein, and Esther Perel. We explored deep topics like healing from trauma, building healthy relationships, and personal transformation. Each guest offered valuable perspectives on how we can better understand ourselves, heal our past wounds, and create more fulfilling connections with others. This episode provides a comprehensive look at the intersection of personal development, psychological healing, and intimate relationships.IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN:How trauma affects our nervous system and relationships, and steps to begin healingThe importance of self-awareness and emotional regulation in building healthy relationshipsWhy honesty and vulnerability are crucial for deep connection and personal growthHow to navigate jealousy and build trust in intimate relationshipsThe balance between togetherness and independence needed for lasting partnershipsPractical tools and approaches for healing past traumas and limiting beliefsFor more information go to https://www.lewishowes.com/1670For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Eckhart Tolle – https://link.chtbl.com/1463-pod Rhonda Byrne – https://link.chtbl.com/1525-podJohn Maxwell – https://link.chtbl.com/1501-pod

Gwyneth is joined by holistic psychologist Nicole LePera to talk about how childhood experiences shape our adult lives and the power of reparenting to create new habits. LePera explains why it can hard for many people to break from the the achievement trap, and she shares her coping strategies for when emotions become overwhelming.  To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Have you listened to the FULL EPISODE yet?"The reason why I was so emotionally disconnected, that was real for me in my relationships. It was because I was emotionally disconnected from myself." -Dr. Nicole LePeraDr. Nicole LePera, known as "The Holistic Psychologist," takes us on a riveting journey through the maze of trauma bonding and emotional disconnection. With raw honesty, she unveils her personal struggles, from being labeled "emotionally unavailable" in her first relationship to the eye-opening moments in her psychoanalytic training. Dr. LePera's candid revelations about her own patterns of disconnection offer a mirror for listeners to examine their own relationship dynamics, challenging us to confront the uncomfortable truths about our emotional landscape.In this transformative conversation, Dr. LePera shares powerful insights on breaking free from destructive relationship cycles. She introduces practical strategies for cultivating self-awareness and emotional reconnection, emphasizing the daily commitment required to heal our hearts and nervous systems. Her actionable advice on checking in with ourselves and prioritizing self-attunement provides a roadmap for anyone struggling with emotional unavailability or feeling "alone in a crowded room." You will gain invaluable tools to foster deeper connections, both with themselves and others, paving the way for healthier, more fulfilling relationships.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter!

SUMMIT OF GREATNESS IS LESS THAN 1 MONTH AWAY! Have you gotten your tickets yet? Get them before they sell out at https://www.lewishowes.com/tickets Welcome back to The School of Greatness! In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the transformative journey of healing from trauma. I've curated insightful moments from conversations with leading experts like Dr. Nicole LePera, Dr. Mariel Buqué, Dr. Rahul Jandial, and music icon Jeezy. Together, we explore groundbreaking strategies for breaking free from inherited trauma, rewiring our brains, and finding inner peace. Whether you're facing personal challenges or seeking to understand the impact of generational pain, this episode offers invaluable wisdom to help you on your path to emotional freedom and resilience. Get ready to unlock your potential and embrace a life of abundance and healing.In this episode you will learnHow to shift from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset around trauma and healing.The crucial steps to maximize your emotional potential and create inner freedom.The power of neuroplasticity in overcoming traumatic experiences.Practical techniques for processing and integrating past traumas.How to redefine success by prioritizing inner peace over external achievements.For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1657For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Eckhart Tolle – https://link.chtbl.com/1463-podRhonda Byrne – https://link.chtbl.com/1525-podJohn Maxwell – https://link.chtbl.com/1501-pod

Name that drama. Is it love anchored in the middle of genuine conflict? Or is emotional trauma dressed up as what you believe to be love? Nicole LePera is the bestselling author of the workbook changing millions of lives, How to Meet Yourself. She's a holistic psychologist committed to helping people heal past traumas that continue to show up as problems in adult life. Today we're talking about how you can identify love experiencing conflict versus trauma that's a trigger and void from your past. Nicole shares why the expectations we have for our partners when we're triggered and going through something difficult need to be put in check. Your partner isn't here to “complete” you, but you are here to complete you and the needs you feel aren't being met. Wholeness comes from within and self-connection is key for successful relationships Often we mistake what feels good with what's actually familiar Trust is built when you're at odds, feeling disconnected and able to come back together Understand what kind of support you need and articulate that to your partner Being dysregulated is normal, have self-compassion and patience for yourself “A lot of us are confused on what support is. For a long time I thought support meant taking away my suffering.” Even if you haven't faced your childhood traumas,making an observation and note of what of how you feel and what you want in that moment is a start you can be proud of. Maybe that's all you have to give that day, and that's enough. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: If you want to grow your business go over right now and sign up for just one dollar a month with your trial period at https://impacttheory.co/woishopifypodAugust24 OneSkin: We only have one body, one skin, and only YOU can choose to make it better by going to https://impacttheory.co/oneskinpodAugust and saving 15% when you use code WOI Tabu: Go to https://impacttheory.co/woiTABUpod and use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order Follow Nicole LePera: Website: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtEWTaMjqOH8J1Gy06Ey0Yg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/the.holistic.psychologist/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1kVlwHe0ESeAWOuXiXSjyQ Twitter: https://twitter.com/theholisticpsyc FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BIG NEWS! Muniba Mazari will be a keynote speaker at Summit of Greatness 2024, September 13th & 14th | Los Angeles, CA  – Get your tickets before they sell out at lewishowes.com/ticketsAsk yourself this: when was the last time you were completely alone, and still filled with joy? When was the last time you enjoyed a moment of pure, undisturbed solitude? As human beings, it's important for us to socialize and interact with one another – but it's also crucial that we develop a deep sense of unconditional love for ourselves as well. By developing that sense of self-acceptance and love, we'll be equipping ourselves with a tool to help us get through any challenge life throws at us. My guest today is a living example of the power of the human spirit and developing unconditional self-love through any circumstances. Her name is Muniba Mazari and I'm SO excited to have her on the show with me today. During our conversation, she explains what it means to be perfectly imperfect, how to become your own source of joy, and how she was able to overcome a tragic car accident to reach the top of MULTIPLE industries. Please help me give her a very warm welcome to The School of Greatness!In this episode you will learnThe difference between loving yourself and being in love with yourself.How to find self-acceptance.How to become the source for your own joy.The importance of solitude.How to be okay with being perfectly imperfect.How to break free of other's expectations.For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1648For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Dr. Nicole LePera – https://link.chtbl.com/1529-podSadhguru – https://link.chtbl.com/1527-podRob Dial – https://link.chtbl.com/1516-pod

An often overlooked topic when it comes to our level of happiness in life is how relationships can have a significant impact on our well-being…   Understanding what makes a relationship healthy and how the relationships you surround yourself with can influence your health is essential.   So join me on Cabral Concept 3078, where I go over the top 7 tips from successful couples, as shared by psychologist, Dr. Nicole LePera. Enjoy the show, and please share your thoughts with me!   - - - For Everything Mentioned In Today's Show: StephenCabral.com/3083 - - - Get a FREE Copy of Dr. Cabral's Book: The Rain Barrel Effect - - - Join the Community & Get Your Questions Answered: CabralSupportGroup.com - - - Dr. Cabral's Most Popular At-Home Lab Tests: > Complete Minerals & Metals Test (Test for mineral imbalances & heavy metal toxicity) - - - > Complete Candida, Metabolic & Vitamins Test (Test for 75 biomarkers including yeast & bacterial gut overgrowth, as well as vitamin levels) - - - > Complete Stress, Mood & Metabolism Test (Discover your complete thyroid, adrenal, hormone, vitamin D & insulin levels) - - - > Complete Food Sensitivity Test (Find out your hidden food sensitivities) - - - > Complete Omega-3 & Inflammation Test (Discover your levels of inflammation related to your omega-6 to omega-3 levels) - - - Get Your Question Answered On An Upcoming HouseCall: StephenCabral.com/askcabral - - - Would You Take 30 Seconds To Rate & Review The Cabral Concept? The best way to help me spread our mission of true natural health is to pass on the good word, and I read and appreciate every review!  

Take a deep breath. Today we're sharing the most empowering tips, advice, and insights on all things Nervous System. What even is the nervous system? And what does it have to do with the TBM manifestation process? Join us as we cover some of the most impactful gems of wisdom all about  nervous system regulation–from our go-to experts like Janelle, Dr. Nicole LePera, Nicole Vignola (aka Nicole's Neuroscience), Dr. Mariel Buqué, and more. In this ep, we also remind ourselves of how the fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses may appear in our day-to-day lives and what we can do to bring our prefrontal cortex back online and get back to our most magnetic and authentic selves. With practical strategies, personal stories, and professional wisdom, this episode is designed to help you find balance, foster emotional well-being, and embrace your journey of personal growth. Tune in for a dose of inspiration and learn how to *truly* nurture your nervous system. Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast In This Episode We Talk About:Introduction to nervous system regulation and dysregulationUnderstanding the fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responsesChronic dysregulation and its effects on mental and physical healthSymptoms and behaviors associated with each response statePersonal experiences with different nervous system statesThe importance of self-awareness and recognizing your default responseStrategies for calming a dysregulated nervous systemThe role of breathwork and grounding exercisesMoving from a frozen state to an activated stateCompassionate self-inquiry and the inner child's role in nervous system responsesBalancing sympathetic and parasympathetic statesPractical tools for daily nervous system regulationBuilding mastery through consistent practiceDifferentiating between numbing out and healthy restEmphasizing the need for a holistic approach to emotional and physical health THEMES / TIME STAMPS:Introduction to the fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses. (00:15:10)Practical regulation techniques and the importance of daily practice and building mastery over time. (00:24:00)How to resource to support your nervous system (00:58:00)Resources: TBM SUMMER SALE ☀️LIVE NOW Get the lowest prices of the season and up to $96 off 2024 TBM Summer Challenge - Get Out of Your Own WayPre-week kicks off May 20thAccess our FREE Find Your Biggest Block Exercise Share your challenge manifestations storiesfor a chance to be featured on The Expanded Podcast Kajabi Try Kajabi all-in-one business platform free for 30 days with TBM link! Seed - code 25MAGNETIC for 25% off first month of Seed's DS-01® and PDS-08™%Seed's DS-01® Daily Synbiotic (for adults ages 18+)Seed's PDS-08™Pediatric Daily Synbiotic - (for kids ages 3-17) Expanded x Ep. 245 - How To Be Honest with Yourself: Why Self-Awareness is Everything in ManifestationEp. 287 - You Can't Rush Your Manifestations: The Energetics of DesperationExpanded x Ep. 266: How To Break Low Self-Worth Habits with Nicole NeuroscienceEp. 234 - Learn What Your Nervous System is Telling You with Dr. Nicole LePeraExpanded x Ep. 57: How to Heal Your Inner Child with Dr. Nicole LePeraEp. 285 Ancestral Wisdom & Healing Generational Trauma featuring Dr. Mariel BuquéExpanded x Ep. 272 Becoming An ‘Emotional Athlete' with Flynn SkidmoreExpanded x Ep. 260 - Rock Bottoms: How To Navigate When The Rug Is Pulled From Beneath YouExpanded x Ep.  301 How To Find Your Biggest BlockEp. 189 - How To Spot When Your Inner Child Is Running The ShowExpanded x Ep. 227 - How To Manifest Anything You DesireFind the Safe DI and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Inner Child and Unblocked DIs) Connect with Our Experts!Janelle Nelson, EMDR & MFT TherapistBook an Unblocking session or Intensive w Janelle Dr. Mariel BuquéNicole VignolaNicole LePeraWhere To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@Lacyannephillips@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast Other ResourcesSubmit to Be a Process GuestText Us: +1-213-423-5226 - (texting is only for US, Canada, & Puerto Rico)Alexis Smart x TBM EXPANDED Flower RemedyTBM Manifestation JournalDid you Finish the Manifestation Challenge? Share your experience with us! Free Offerings to Get You StartedLearn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryNeed Help Identifying Your Block? Access our FREE Find Your Biggest Block Exercise

This week, Erin and Sara sit down with Dr. Nicole LePera, a holistic psychologist and the author of "How To Be The Love You Seek.” They discuss the importance of feeling emotions, the mind body connection, why we're attracted to what's familiar, and more.Executive Producers: Erin Foster, Sara Foster, and Allison BresnickAssociate Producer: Montana McBirneyAudio Engineer: Josh WindischThis episode is sponsored by: Athena Club (athenaclub.com PROMO CODE: FOSTER)Ritual (ritual.com/foster)Saie (shop now at Sephora)AG1 (drinkag1.com/foster)Vegamour (vegamour.com/foster PROMO CODE: FOSTER)Foria (foriawellness.com/foster)

In this episode, Dr. Nicole LePera explores how to be the love you seek as she delves into the profound impact of emotional connection with oneself on fostering authentic relationships with others. She explores the interconnected nature of thoughts, emotions, and bodily experiences, providing valuable insights into the complexities of trusting oneself. Nicole emphasizes the importance of integrating knowledge and action for personal transformation and explains the role of the nervous system in decision-making and stress management. In this episode, you will be able to: Discover the power of building emotional connections with yourself to transform your life Uncover the impact of childhood trauma on adult relationships and gain insights into overcoming its influence Explore effective practices for developing heart consciousness and nurturing deeper self-awareness Learn how to differentiate intuition from trauma responses to make more mindful decisions Master strategies for expanding stress tolerance to navigate life's challenges with resilience To learn more, click here!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we welcome three incredible guests to explore the theme of healing from toxic people. Dr. Nicole LePera, author of "How to Be the Love You Seek," shares her journey of self-discovery and healing, emphasizing the power of self-love and understanding our past. Dr. Mariel Buqué, a compassionate psychologist, takes us through her holistic approach to healing intergenerational trauma, offering practical tips for finding peace within ourselves and our relationships. Lastly, the inspiring Dr. Ramani Durvasula, author of "It's Not You," provides a roadmap for navigating and healing from narcissistic relationships, encouraging listeners to reclaim their lives. Together, these remarkable women provide a beacon of hope and a wealth of knowledge for anyone seeking to heal from toxic relationships and embrace a healthier, more fulfilling life.In this episode you will learnHow to embark on a journey of self-discovery and healing from past relationship traumas.The importance of self-love and emotional resilience in building healthy relationships.Practical techniques for breaking the cycle of intergenerational trauma.Strategies for identifying and healing from the effects of narcissistic relationships.How to reclaim your life and thrive in the face of narcissism.For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1595For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960Full episodes from today:Dr. Nicole LePera – https://link.chtbl.com/1529-podDr. Mariel Buqué – https://link.chtbl.com/1555-podDr. Ramani – https://link.chtbl.com/1577-pod

The Minimalists we speak with Dr. Nicole LePera about breaking cycles and healing relationships. Watch all 2 hours of episode 434 on The Minimalists Private Podcast. Discussed in this episode: How can I let go of the idea of what I thought a relationship should be? (02:23) How can I cease self-loathing? (18:48) Why don't I feel like enough? (33:14) Detailed show notes: minimalists.com/podcast Join The Minimalists Private Podcast: minimalists.com/support

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! This is a special one as we invite Dr. Nicole LePera to chime in on your burning questions. Before we get to our callers, Dr. Nicole Lepera shares her general advice on modern dating, her journey to becoming a psychologist, and her experience being in a throuple. Then we get to our callers…  Our first caller is ‘d*ckmatized' by her ex. After multiple dates with other men, she can't get over the chemistry and convenience she had in her previous situation. Our second caller found her husband on Grindr, a gay dating app. She's thinking of getting a divorce, but doesn't want to out his sexuality to his family. Our final caller has already decided she wants a divorce, but is unsure how to tell her husband. They have kids, he has a drinking problem, and she hasn't reached out to an attorney yet. What should her timeline be? “Give yourself a moment to maybe try on not being ok for just a second” Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@theviallfiles.com to be a part of our Monday episodes.  To Order Nick's Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com  If you would like to get some texting advice, send an email to asknick@theviallfiles.com with “Texting Office Hours” in the subject line!  To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles  THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: FirstLeaf - Join Firstleaf today, a wine club that really gets you. Go to https://www.tryfirstleaf.com/VIALL  Vessi - Vessi's got you covered. From chic city walks to adventurous treks, find the perfect pair for your lifestyle at https://www.vessi.com/VIALL to get 15% off your first order. ShipStation - Get a 60-day free trial at https://www.shipstation.com and use code viallfiles. Thanks to ShipStation for sponsoring the show! BetterHelp - Learn to make time for what makes you happy. Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/VIALL today to get 10% off your first month. Factor- Head to https:www.factormeals.com/VIALL50 and use code VIALL50 to get 50% off. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @the.holistic.psychologist @alison.vandam @dereklanerussell

This episode brings together key moments from Gabby's conversations with five leading therapists on the topic of healing childhood trauma and finding your authentic self. You'll hear insights from Dr. Gabor Maté, Dr. Shefali, Dr. Nicole Le Pera, Dr. Daniel Siegel, and Dr. Richard Schwartz on how to navigate and process painful experiences. You'll gain a deeper understanding of how courageous inner work can lead to resilience, self-awareness, and profound personal growth. These conversations unveil transformative paths towards healing and reclaiming your authentic self. As Dr. Daniel Siegel says, "The journey is not an easy one, but it is worth it."Try my gabby coaching membership for free —get access to hundreds of meditations, lessons and talks all in a beautifully designed app. Start your free trial to unlock your 7-day manifesting jumpstart! bit.ly/3ByVGQtFree meditation to soothe anxiety. Download for free. -deargabby.com/anxietyFor a deeper dive check out my books. -deargabby.com/booksTo learn more about Dr. Gabor Maté go here https://drgabormate.com/To learn more about Dr. Shefali go here https://www.drshefali.com/To learn more about Dr. Nicole Le Pera go here https://theholisticpsychologist.com/To learn more about Dr. Daniel Siegel go here https://drdansiegel.com/To learn more about Dr. Richard Schwartz go here https://ifs-institute.com/If you feel you need additional support, please consult this list of safety, recovery and mental health resources. bit.ly/3OhVHhySponsors:BON CHARGE: Heal your skin while your meditate! Go to boncharge.com/GABBY and use coupon code GABBY to save 15%.ZocDoc: Go to Zocdoc.com/GABBY and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today.BetterHelp: www.betterhelp.com/deargabby for 10% off your first month of online therapy!Vimergy: Visit www.vimergy.com, use code GabbyThrive Causemetics: Get an exclusive 20% off your first order at thrivecausemetics.com/DEARGABBYDisclaimer: This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Melissa Urban is the co-founder and CEO of Whole30 and an authority on helping people create lifelong healthy habits. She is a seven-time New York Times bestselling author and has been featured by People, Good Morning America, The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, and CNBC.Be sure to check out Melissa's new book, ‘The Book of Boundaries: Set the Limits That Will Set You Free.' In this episode you will learn, Common boundaries many relationships fail to set.Key boundaries you need to create in your relationship.The hidden challenges of creating boundaries for yourself.The benefits that come from setting boundaries with yourself.How to step away from people who don't respect boundaries.For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1567For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More HABITS & RELATIONSHIP episodes we think you'll love:Habits That'll Help You Not Waste Another Year Of Your Life w/ James Clear – https://link.chtbl.com/1372-podYour Personal Guide to Self Discovery w/ Nicole LePera – https://link.chtbl.com/1358-podOvercome Your Triggers & Heal Your Soul w/ Dr. Mariel Buqué – https://link.chtbl.com/1304-pod

This episode is a game changer when it comes to understanding yourself in relationships thanks to long-awaited guest Dr. Nicole LePera, holistic psychologist and bestselling author. Nicole covers so much ground, including why we seek out relationships that feel familiar but aren't healthy for us (and how to stop), why fear of rejection can be debilitating, and the difference between relationships that are empowered and disempowered. We dissect trauma bonding (both the power and danger of it), and also discuss how couples misinterpret each other's behaviors (touching on love languages, but going even deeper) and how you can better understand each other instead of expecting them to change. Nicole also tells us about her throuple and the dynamics of it. Before she joins us, we catch up on Ashley's recent altercation on a plane, Rayna's observations about sisters, and a star-studded event we attended. Enjoy!  Follow Nicole on Instagram @the.holistic.psychologist and get her new book How to Be the Love You Seek. Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Helix: Get 20% off all mattress orders + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/gge with code HELIXPARTNER. Hinge: Download Hinge and find someone worth deleting the app for hin.ge/gge. Quince:  Go to quince.com/gge to get free shipping and 365-day returns on your next order. Chomps: Get 20% off your first order and free shipping at chomps.com/gge.