Train Up A Parent Podcast

In this last episode of season 4, Gabe and Evie talk about their last minute change up of their vacation plans. Parenting Hack:Pizza Hut Book It Programhttps://www.bookitprogram.comThe Read to Succeed Six Flags program has been suspended as of this time but here is the link for when it reopens. Read to Succeed Six Flags

Do you know who or what the biggest influences over your children's lives are? It is you!Show notes below:1. The purpose of the family unit is to reflect the nature of God and his relationship with us in the earth. A. The Parent/Child relationship is meant to be the prophetic declaration of God the Father and the Holy Spirit relationship with the Church.B. The spousal relationship is meant to be the prophetic declaration of God the Father and Jesus' relationship with the Church. C. By prophetic declaration I mean living natural example that gives us insight into the knowledge of God.D. This being said, parents have by nature the greatest influence over a child's life than anyone else on the planet. 2. Parental influencesA. As parents we have the deepest and most impactful influence on our childrenB. More than sports stars, music stars, entertainers, teachers, coaches, etc. C. Whether we want that responsibility or not, as parents we have it automatically. D. This is a tremendously weighty role in the life of another human being. Because of this weighty role there are some who, out of fear, decide to not have children.  Not only reason, but one. They don't understand that though yes it is a tremendously weighty role to carry that type of influence over another human being, but that responsibility carries a glory and joy that cannot be found elsewhere. E. Though it is a weighty issue we as parents cannot abdicate our role as influencers to others. F. Many in our culture give up and abdicate our god given influence to others who either have a lesser degree of concern for our children or outright agenda to use their influence for their own gain at the expense of our children.G.The entertainers and music artist who promote perverted and harmful content directed at young people and then say they are not responsible for what people do with it, are literally taking your child down a path of destruction for their own personal gain.H. Jesus does not mince words on what he feels about taking advantage of young people to lead them down a road of destruction. Luke 17:2 3. As the Parents Go, So Go the ChildrenA. Phrases like, “You are your mothers daughter”, Like Father, like son. Like mother, like daughter. Speak of this reality that as the parents go, so go the children, whether that's good or bad!B. The saying, “Do as I say, not as I do.” Is equivalent to saying listen to a hypocrite. C. If we as parents live lukewarm lives in front of our children, they will most likely end up living with a love that is cold or non-existent. But if we live abandoned lives under the grace of God, then most likely our children will live more on fire and surrendered to the Lord than we are.D. We see this in scripture. Paul commends Timothy's sincerity of faith and points to his grandmother Lois, and mother Eunice as the foundation of Timothy's faith. 2 Timothy 1:5E. Throughout the reign of Israel's kings we find that the vast majority of their introductions are a summarization of how their parents influenced them. If the king and queen before them followed the Lord wholeheartedly the next son to be king did likewise. If the parents turned from God and compromised their trust and faith in God, so the son would. 

Gabe and Evie talk about the importance of creating "stones" of remembrance by frequently telling testimonies of how and when God intervened in our lives. In Joshua 4:6-8 the Israelites created a memorial built of 12 stones to remind them when God caused the Jordan River to dry up so they could cross into the promised land. One of the main reasons this was important was so they would remember tell their children the way God intervened in their lives. One of the key ways that our children will want to know God for themselves is by hearing what God has done in our lives. 

When God created humans he created them in His image, both male and female. Each were given a unique expression of God as a creator or life-giver (Eve) and giver of identity and purpose (Adam). Join Gabe and Evie as they dive into these two unique roles that are offered by both fathers and mothers, husbands and wives, male and female and how each role plays a significant role in the family dynamic.Parenting Hack: Words of LifeFacebookInstagramIf you enjoyed this show please leave a review and share with someone you love. 

It is recommended for parents to get some time alone, without kids, on a regular basis. We need to recharge and reconnect to one another as spouses. But there is also a way to take a restful day where you can recharge and have fun with children of all ages! The Bible calls it the Sabbath and with a little thought and intentionality, the whole family can enjoy a restful and enjoyable day, even if you have little ones. Join us as we share our own experience and give a few simple thoughts on how you can enhance your days off with the family.Parenting Hack: Work or PlayMusic by Isaiah and Samuel PalmerFollow us on Facebook or Instagram

Our society thrives off of the next cool thing, the latest trend, becoming an influencer on social media, or making a significant impact in the world. Yet when it comes to parenting,  there are no accolades or fanfare. Much of what we do as parents can feel insignificant and of little value. In this episode, Gabe and Evie discuss the hidden aspects of parenting and encourage us to remain faithful to the assignment God has given us as parents.This weeks parenting hack, 20/20.

In this weeks episode, we have special guests Paul and Patty Palmer who have 40 plus years of child rearing experience raising 11 children and now have (at this present moment) 37 grandchildren.  Hear their story of raising children with the unique perspective of having "been there done that" with four decades of experience. You'll want to stay until the end of the episode where Patty gives a handful of parenting hacks for all parents to take hold of. If you are encouraged, entertained, or enjoy this podcast be sure to share it with your friends and family. We all need a little encouragement and fun while in the midst of parenting children. 

As the saying goes, "They don't give you an owners manual when you bring a new child into your family" but Jesus has given us the Holy Spirit to lean into for discernment, direction, and understanding in all things, including parenting. In this episode, Gabe and Evie share about how to follow the leading of the Holy Spirit when raising your children.If you enjoy this podcast please take a moment and leave a review either on our Facebook page or on the podcast platform that you use. 

Do you know the core values of your family? Whether you know it or not, you are living by them and they are affecting the culture of your family. Join us as we discuss what we identified as our top four family core values and learn how to identify what your core values are.Follow us on Instagram and Facebook: @trainupaparentAnd be sure to leave us a comment and a review on the podcast platform you use!

Today Evie and Gabe talk about having the sex talk with your pre-teen. This is not just a one time conversation but should be an ongoing appropriate conversation throughout your child's growing years. Theology of the Body for Beginners: A Basic Introduction to Pope John Paul II's Sexual Revolution, Revised Edition https://smile.amazon.com/dp/1934217859/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_2MA8FGMH7HS28K3AZHPA

Where would we be without our mothers?! In this special episode, Gabe and Evie take some time to honor mothers for Mother's Day and Evie shares some of the "wins" she's been having with their three year old. They also share a fun parenting hack that will be sure to help keep your chocolates and sweets from disappearing while you are not looking!Follow on Facebook and Instagram: @trainupaparent

Parenting teenagers is no easy task! When a child becomes a teenager it is almost like they become a different person. In this episode, Gabe and Evie discuss the different approaches they have taken in parenting their teenagers. 

Evie talks about some of the frustrations she has a mom as Gabe tries to help her process.In this episodes parenting hack, Gabe talks about how to have regular devotional time with your children in a way that enables them to hear the Holy Spirit for themselves and to eventually lead themselves in their own devotional time with the Lord. 

In this episode, Gabe and Evie talk about one of their favorite subjects, potty training!!! Okay, it's not their favorite subject but after 18 years of potty training, they have a few things to say about it. This stage of parenting can be one of the most frustrating, not to mention grossest, parts of raising little human beings but every kid eventually learns how to use the toilet. Join them as they share laughs and a few parenting hacks that have worked for them. Follow us on Instagram and Facebook! @trainupaparent

In this episode, Evie and Gabe talk about why they started homeschooling and continue to do so, even though it ain't easy! Evie gives three helpful tips that she uses as a homeschool mom. Although this episode focuses on our homeschooling journey, it has good information and encouragement for all parents! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook! @trainupaparentSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

It does not matter how many kids you have, each additional child brings a big transition into the family. Plus, get a few tips in this weeks parenting hack in what you can do to help calm an inconsolable infant. Follow us on social media!Evie PalmerInstagram page: @traininguparrowsGabe PalmerFacebook and Instagram page: @gabeapalmerRefuge City Websitewww.refugecityatl.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

We moved from talking about toddlers to discussing our new journey with handling teenagers and dating! This is a new journey for us and we are by no means saying we have it all figured out. But like all parents, we must start somewhere and so we discuss the culture and rules that we are trying to establish for our teenagers as we walk with them on this journey of having a significant other. Don't miss the parenting hack at the end of the episode!Follow us on social media!Evie PalmerInstagram page: @traininguparrowsGabe PalmerFacebook and Instagram page: @gabeapalmerRefuge City Websitewww.refugecityatl.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Why are we having so many kids? This is the second part of our story of why we are going on our ninth child and counting. Follow us on social media!Evie PalmerInstagram page: @traininguparrowsGabe PalmerFacebook and Instagram page: @gabeapalmerRefuge Citywww.refugecityatl.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

After a 10 month hiatus from podcasting, we are back with a 2 part episode why we have sooooo many kids. During the last 10 months, we found out number 9 was coming, we started a ministry (www.refugecityatl.com) and we moved! But we are excited to be back and hope that you will be encouraged in saying yes to God no matter what He asks of you.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

In this weeks episode we are starting the conversation about postpartum depression. Postpartum depression is more than just being depressed all the time but it affects each woman differently. Many women suffer from fear and shame while feel alone in this struggle. For many husbands, it can be very difficult to understand what is happening with their wives when they begin to battle the unexpected negative or fearful feelings and thoughts soon after having a child. Special guest Hannah Kea (who is a mother of four beautiful and amazing children!) sits down with Evie to share about her personal journey and how she came out the other side. Follow on Facebookwww.facebook.com/trainupaparentFollow on Instagramwww.instagram.com/trainupaparentIf this podcast has helped or encouraged you in your parenting ventures, please consider supporting the show! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Episode 13: In the midst of dance practice, soccer games, church activities, school, work, and the craziness of life, it is easy to lose sight of keeping Christ the center of your life. In Joshua chapter 4 we are told that Joshua set up memorial stones so the Israelites could tell their children the stories and testimonies of when God came through on their behalf. Gabe and Evie talk about creating memorials to share with your kids the things God has done in your life and how to bring them along on your journey of growth in Christ. Parenting Hack: Evie shares a resource her friend gave to her for ideas on activities for your toddler. www.busytoddler.comFollow us on:Facebook www.facebook.com/trainupaparentInstagram www.instagram.com/trainupaparentPodcast website:http://www.trainupaparent.buzzsprout.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Episode 12: Christians are commissioned to go and make disciples of all nations beginning in their home. Our children have been given to us by God to do life with us for 18+ years. Parents have been commissioned by Jesus to use those years to disciple their children to love Jesus and surrender to his will. In this episode we discuss what the end goal of discipling our children should be while giving a practical step by step guide to teach your child how to meet with Jesus. Evie mentions reading about Corrie Ten Boom, you can read about her amazing life in her book "The Hiding Place"https://www.amazon.com/s?k=9781598563399&i=stripbooks&linkCode=qsFollow, Like, and Comment at: www.facebook.com/trainupaparentwww.instagram.com/trainupaparentSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Episode 11: At the core of healthy and effective discipline, there must be teaching, training, consistency, and dedication to shepherding your child's heart. A child left to themselves is usually a miserable child. In the same way, a parent that does not discipline with the child's best interest in mind is not providing a healthy environment. Gabe and Evie share their thoughts and stories on training during the toddler ages as well as give some valuable resources for parents who want to parent as Jesus would.Resource:If Jesus Were a Parent by Hal Perkins https://www.amazon.com/Jesus-Were-Parent-Hal-Perkins/dp/0978769805Follow: www.facebook.com/trainupaparentwww.instagram.com/trainupaparentWebsite:http://www.trainupaparent.buzzsprout.com/Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Season 2, Episode 10: Children have all types of mannerisms. Some are calm, quiet, and usually content. Others are energetic, loud, and can not sit still for five seconds. In this episode, we talk about some of the outlets you can use to help get the energy out of your child. As well as recognizing that there is a time for everything. A time to be loud and "crazy" and a time to practice self-controlParenting Hack: Nickel and DimeListen on our website: http://www.trainupaparent.buzzsprout.comor follow us on facebook and instagramSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Episode 9: One of our greatest desires as Christian parents is that our children will grow up to love Jesus with all their heart, mind, and strength. But there is no guarantee that they will. Each child has been honored by God to be able to choose or deny him. Yet as parents, we play the most significant human role in our child's life in influencing them to pursue their own relationship with the Lord. This is a heavy responsibility! Christian parents tend to either force Christianity on their children by mandatory bible reading or forced devotional time or we tend to go the opposite direction and separate our faith from our day to day life at home and hope that church, youth group, or other Christian friends will be enough to get our kids to be radical lovers of Jesus. We believe both these extremes are unhelpful. This week we are going to talk about creating an atmosphere of prayer and worship in our home where we can invite our children to participate with us as we devote time and space in our life to pray and worship.(2 Sa 6:11) So the ark of Yahweh remained in the house of Obed-Edom the Gittite for three months, and Yahweh blessed Obed-Edom and all his household.This is the last episode of Season 1! Follow us to find out when Season 2 will start again.Follow Train Up A Parent: https://www.facebook.com/trainupaparent/https://www.instagram.com/trainupaparent/Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Episode 8: In this weeks episode we “Ask the Kids” about parenting. Evie and I bring on our two oldest children to ask them questions about our parenting. Their answers were brutally honest and informative for us. Why would we do that? Well, who better to check in with than your own kids when it comes to seeing how you are really doing as a parent. Asking questions of our children like, “What could I do better as a parent?” or “What’s an area I could improve on in being a parent to you?” are loaded questions. They are loaded with really good information for us that we can use to improve our parenting skills. Our boys are 15 and 13 years old so they are a great age to dialogue about this sort of stuff because they’ve been around us long enough to give us good feedback on our parenting job. I think every parent should check in with their kids every so often to get insight on their parenting job. Parenting Hack: Evie shares a tip on how to get young children to hold onto the shopping cart while shopping in the store.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Episode 7: It has been said that the single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place. Communication seems so straightforward and simple. It’s something we do every day. but it tends to be the single biggest problem in all our relationships, including our relationships with our children. In this weeks episode, we are going to talk about understanding our children. We understand our children by learning how they give and receive love, by what drains them emotionally or gets them recharged, or how they process things.This weeks parenting hack we will give a tip on getting your child's energy out.Dr. Gary Chapman 5 Love Languages https://www.5lovelanguages.comMyers Briggshttps://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-testhttps://www.mbtionline.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Episode 6: It's going to happen, probably sooner than later. It will happen more times than you will want to admit. As a parent, you will run out of patience and you will act out in anger towards your child. In this weeks episode we are going to talk about what most people don’t talk about, anger. Specifically, getting angry at our children and we are going to give you three things that we have learned to do to help us overcome our anger. Plus, Do you have a child that doesn’t like to eat? This weeks parenting hack we will give you 3 ideas to help your little guy finish all his food.Follow us on Facebook www.facebook.com/trainupaparentFollow us on Instagram www.instagram/trainupaparentwww.instagram/traininguparrowsEmail:trainupaparent@gmail.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Episode 5: Your greatest challenge is your greatest gift. You probably didn’t understand the different levels of challenges parenting children can have when you first started out. We’ve all been at our wit's end, where our patience runs thin and that little twitch in our eye begins to act up again. This sort of experience is exactly what scripture talks about when it says, “Rejoice in sufferings because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character, and character, hope (Romans 5:4). Those sleepless nights when the baby won’t stop crying is your greatest gift. Those moments where little Jonny is throwing a tantrum because his peas touched his toast, is your greatest gift. Your preteen who suddenly knows everything there is in the world and knows for certain that you don’t, is your greatest gift. These are all God’s plan to cultivate the image of Christ in you. They are specifically tailored for you to learn self-control, patience, love, and joy in the midst of trials.Parenting hack: 4 steps to guide you when a toddler throws a tantrum. Don’t panic, this is normalFigure out what the problem isRemember kids can get cranky when they are hungry, tired, or if there is a basic need that is not being metPut them in their room until they calm downAfter you help them calm down, instruct them what to do correctly the next time the situation comes up.Follow us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/trainupaparentInstagram https://www.instagram.com/trainupaparentEvie's Instagram @traininguparrowsor email trainupaparent@gmail.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Episode 4: In this second part of Cultivating Your Child's Spirituality, Gabe and Evie talk about taking their kids to do ministry alongside them and how that has greatly impacted their children's personal relationship with Jesus. From witnessing to the clerk behind the grocery store counter to praying with your neighbors, your child soaks in their own love for Jesus as they see you live out your love for others to experience. Also, learn a simple way to teach your child not to interrupt. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Episode 3: Ever feel like a failure as a parent? Don't beat yourself up. If you are a perfectionist you'll have the tendency to feel like you are never achieving. Evie shares vulnerably about her tendency to beat herself up in her parenting and how the Lord revealed his feelings towards her even when she doesn't get it all done in the day. Parenting Hack: When going somewhere like to a church, library, or doctors office with a squirmy toddler, it can be hard to keep them still and quiet. Learn a simple training exercise to help you the next time you and your little ones are out.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Episode 2: Evie shares about something she's been writing about in her spare time, how to cultivate your child's spirituality. Need some help motivating your children to do basic chores or to get them to chip in with extra help around the house? Try the merit system! Also, Gabe walks through a training technique that helped some of their more active children stay still long enough to go to sleep during nap time. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Episode 1: There are no perfect parents. We all fail. We all make mistakes. But you can do it! There's only one perfect "parent" and that is God. Looking to Him helps immensely in training up our own children. Evie breaks down a system she uses to teach her 8 children and keep the house clean at the same time! Do you have a child that hates being buckled into a car seat? Gabe and Evie share a simple and yet very effective training tool that worked for them. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)

Introduction to the hosts and the reason for this podcast. Find out what subjects we will be talking about and the format of each episode.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/user?u=14963767)