Podcasts about teenage years

The balance between guidance and freedom helps children develop emotional strength, problem-solving skills, and a deeper sense of self. While today's kids have endless access to information, what many lack is the freedom to explore, try, fail, and figure things out on their own.Whether your child is a toddler or a teen, this episode will give you practical and compassionate guidance on building independence in ways that feel safe and supportive for both of you.Tune in and rediscover the magic of letting go just enough to help your child grow. Jennifer's Takeaways:Building Independence in Children (00:00)Challenges of Modern Parenting (01:55)Encouraging Age-Appropriate Responsibilities (05:08)Age-Appropriate Privileges and Problem-Solving (08:57)Balancing Protection and Independence (13:05)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

In this week's episode of Connected Parenting, we're diving into one of the most common and exhausting parenting struggles—clothing battles, especially with younger girls.You know the drill: “There's nothing to wear!” “I hate that shirt!” “Not those pants!”and it all happens before you've even had your coffee.Today we are exploring the emotional undercurrents behind these morning meltdowns, looking closer at why seemingly simple decisions like getting dressed can turn into full-blown power struggles, and most importantly, how you can shift the energy and reclaim calm in your mornings.If getting dressed feels like a daily disaster, this episode will help you bring more empathy, structure, and peace to your morning routine.Spoiler: It's not about the outfit—it's about connection.Jennifer's Takeaways:Clothing Battles in Young Girls (00:00)Reasons Behind Clothing Battles (01:20)Strategies to Prevent Clothing Battles (02:46)Practical Tips for Managing Clothing Battles (05:59)Addressing Anxiety and Control Issues (08:05)Handling Extreme Cases and School Anxiety (09:16)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

From a childhood marked by trauma and instability to multiple incarcerations, heroin addiction, and even surviving a gunshot to the head—Rick opens up about the chaos that defined his past and the redemption he's found in recovery.Rick reflects on the moment he finally surrendered on February 5, 2008, and how that surrender sparked a transformation that's helped him become a community leader, father, and advocate. He shares how meaningful work—including launching Redemption House and running recovery housing for over a decade—continues to give his life purpose.

Is there a book that helped you through your teen years? When you look back, is there one book stands out? Why did that book matter so much to you?

Welcome back, connected parents! In this heartfelt episode of Connected Parenting, we're diving into one of the most emotionally challenging moments many parents face; the shift that happens when your child starts to pull away and step into the world of adolescence. I take a close look at this transition, especially between mothers and daughters, when the once chatty, affectionate little girl becomes more withdrawn, independent, and focused on her peers. For many parents, this change feels like a form of grief—there's a sadness, a sense of being left behind, and a deep questioning of where they now fit in their child's life.Full of empathy and grounded in practical advice, this episode offers strategies to stay close, even as the relationship begins to change. Whether you're in the thick of it or seeing the early signs, today's episode will help you navigate this season of change with compassion and clarity.Remember just because it feels different doesn't mean you're losing your child. You're simply being invited to show up for them in a new way.Jennifer's Takeaways:Understanding the Transition to Teenagehood (00:00)Biological and Cultural Context of Adolescence (02:21)Emotional Impact on Parents and Teenagers (06:23)Navigating Social Interactions and Connections (07:20)Effective Communication and Connection Techniques (15:40)Managing Expectations and Emotional Resilience (15:56)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

In this episode of Connected Parenting, we're tackling one of the most frustrating challenges for parents: time blindness. You know the scene; your child is moving at a snail's pace, one leg in their pants, completely unaware of the ticking clock while you're shouting, “Let's go!”Time blindness is a very real neurological issue for many kids and teens, especially those who are highly sensitive, neurodivergent, or struggle with executive functioning. They don't mean to frustrate you—they're just wired differently when it comes to sensing and managing time.If mornings, transitions, and deadlines feel like constant battles, this episode will help you understand the root cause—and guide you toward more peaceful, productive days.Jennifer's Takeaways:Understanding Time Blindness in Children (00:00)The Role of the Frontal Lobe in Time Management (02:39)Consequences of Time Blindness (08:53)Strategies for Managing Time Blindness (11:38)Practical Tips for Improving Time Management (17:29)Seeking Professional Help (20:09)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

In today's episode of the Connected Parenting Podcast, we're diving into a scenario that leaves so many parents scratching their heads — the child who's perfect at school but melts down at home.You know the story: your child is polite, focused, and adored by teachers, but the second they walk through your front door, it's like a switch flips. Suddenly, you're dealing with tantrums, defiance, or emotional outbursts and you're left wondering, why am I getting the worst while everyone else gets the best?If you've ever felt like your child gives their best to the world and their worst to you—this conversation will offer clarity, comfort, and actionable tools so you can navigate this tricky dynamic with confidence and connection.Jennifer's Takeaways:Kids Who Excel at School but Misbehave at Home (00:00)Understanding the Behavior of "Gladiator Kids" (02:31)Sensitivity and Emotional Regulation in Children (04:14)Anxiety and Reactive Behavior in Children (06:58)Strategies for Managing Behavior at Home (10:04)Connecting Before Correcting and Bonding with Children (14:46)The Role of Consistency and Predictability in Parenting (17:17)Resources and Support for Parents (17:50)The Importance of Understanding Neuro Spicy Kids (18:23)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

In this enlightening episode of High Performance Parenting, we celebrate Dru Francis as he steps into his teenage years! Join us as we explore the unique challenges and opportunities that come with adolescence, from navigating peer pressure to maintaining strong family values. Dru shares his humorous take on life, while his parents provide invaluable insights on how to stand firm in one's beliefs amidst societal influences.As the family discusses the importance of being "in the world but not of the world," they emphasize the need for open communication about media consumption and the significance of setting clear standards as a family. Tune in to discover how to encourage your children to embrace their individuality, face challenges head-on, and develop a deeper spiritual connection as they grow.The importance of maintaining family standards in a media-saturated worldHow to handle peer pressure and stand firm in your beliefsEncouraging open dialogue about challenges and mistakesFostering spiritual growth and personal responsibility in your children

The term neurodiversity is everywhere these days, but what does it mean? What does it include? Could it just be that you just have a "quirky kid"? About 20% of the population is thought to be neurodivergent. Common diagnoses that are under neurodiversity are autism and ADHD. Kids who have learning disabilities or who are gifted or gender fluid also are under this umbrella. To help teach us about this, our guest is my good friend Josie Bohling, LMFT (that means licensed marriage and family therapist). She treats not only teens, but also families to help families work together with these diagnoses. We will cover:-When to suspect that your child may have neurodivergence?-What to do if you suspect a diagnosis?-What resources are at your disposal?-What does this mean for your child and your family?More about Josie Bohling here!https://www.shadetreefamilycounseling.com/References Josie loves!Websites:Childmind.orgUnderstood.orgAdditudemag.comPodcast:Tilt Parenting- great for parenting neurodiversity and community- also has a website that has tons of resources for parents.Neurodiversitypodcast- great for learning how to advocate for your kid in the education system , as well as deep dives into neurodiversity presentations.Books:⁠What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew: Working Together to Empower Kids for Success in School and Life⁠ by Dr. Sharon Saline⁠Girls Growing Up on the Autism Spectrum: What Parents and Professionals Should Know About the Pre-teen and Teenage Years ⁠by Shana NicholsThe Dyslexia Advantage-Brock Eide/ Frenette EideDr. Ross Green - any of his books will help with parenting with kids who struggle with emotion dysregulation and forming expectations that meet where your kid is at developmentally. 

From punk rock to broadcast journalism. A veteran journalist shares her story.   Alisyn Camerota is an award-winning journalist and author. She recently wrote the memoir,  Combat Love: A Story of Leaving, Longing, and Searching for Home.   In this episode we talk about: Our mutual dislike of covering breaking news  How her turbulent teenage years helped her prepare for life's chaos  What “home” actually means How her childhood informed her own parenting style The delicate balance between giving your children too little or too much freedom What it means for a journalist to center themself in a story  Surviving the news  Coping with anxiety and media consumption And much more     Join Dan's online community here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel     Additional Resources:  Alisyn Camerota on Substack Sanity Podcast  

Seasonal transitions; particularly spring can deeply affect highly sensitive or as I like to call them "neuro-spicy" kids.While spring brings feelings of renewal and excitement for many, the change in routine, environment, and even the weather can be incredibly dysregulating for children with big feelings. These transitions can create emotional turbulence, behavioral flare-ups, and increased anxiety if not handled with care.Whether it's adjusting to daylight saving time, the end of the school year, or just shifting from winter into warmer days, this episode will help you support your child through it all with empathy, structure, and the CALM Connected Parenting method of connection.Tune in now for practical tips and support in helping things run as smoothly as possible.Jennifer's Takeaways:Spring Transitions and Highly Sensitive Kids (00:00)The Impact of State Changes on the Brain (02:08)Seasonal Changes and Behavioral Issues (04:10)Strategies for Managing Spring Transitions (06:44)Addressing Sleep and Clothing Issues (10:02)Maintaining a Positive Outlook (12:15)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

Panic attacks—these intense moments can come on suddenly and feel terrifying, whether you're experiencing one or witnessing your child go through it.In this week's episode I'll help you understand the difference between a panic attack and an anxiety attack, what's happening in the brain during these episodes, and most importantly, how to respond in a calm, supportive, and effective way. You'll learn practical strategies to help your child feel safe, grounded, and empowered when panic takes over, and how to support their overall emotional well-being going forward.Whether you're navigating this now or preparing for the future, this episode is full of essential tools and compassionate insight to help your family through.Jennifer's Takeaways:Understanding Panic Attacks (00:00)Differences Between Panic and Anxiety Attacks (02:11)The Impact of Panic Attacks on Parents and Children (03:22)Strategies for Managing Panic Attacks (07:33)Practical Techniques for Calming Down (13:39)Long-Term Management and Therapy (21:59)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

GET EXCLUSIVE MENTORSHIP WITH LEIGH https://littlebylittlehomeschool.com/mentorship   Academics is often what brings many families to homeschooling. But then, we realize that so much else is important in our parenting and the home education years. One topic that keeps coming up lately, even in conversations with my grown children, is the balance between rules and relationship with parents and children. And we can easily default to focusing on one over the other. But, in raising our children and reading tons of books, along with the guidance in Scripture, James and I have worked hard to find that balance. Today's episode scratches the surface of this topic and I hope that it is an encouragement for you to lean in to where God is calling you to make adjustments in parenting your homeschool children. ♥ Leigh   RECEIVE LITTLE BY LITTLE HOMESCHOOL CONFERENCE UPDATES: https://littlebylittlehomeschoolconference.subscribemenow.com/   LITTLE BY LITTLE HOMESCHOOL CONFERENCE INFO:  https://littlebylittlehomeschool.com/conference   DESIGN YOUR FAMILY'S UNIQUE HOMESCHOOL THAT YOU'LL LOVE! https://littlebylittlehomeschool.com/blueprint   SIMPLIFY YOUR MEAL PLANNING https://littlebylittlehomeschool.com/meal   CREATE YOUR HOMESCHOOL FAMILY'S HOME TASK SYSTEM https://www.littlebylittlehomeschool.com/tidyhome      Website -  https://www.littlebylittlehomeschool.com Newsletter -  https://littlebylittlehomeschool.subscribemenow.com/ Community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/homeschoollifestylecommunity  Follow - https://www.instagram.com/littlebylittlehomeschool/ Connect - info@littlebylittlehomeschool.com   Listen to these related episodes: 10. How to NOT Dread Parenting and Homeschooling the Teen Years: 4 Steps to Being Intentional Before the Teenage Years    172. 5 Ways to Help Instill Faith in Your Homeschool Child and Why It Is Worth the Time    310. My Best Advice For Raising Boys Of All Ages And What To Do With Bad Attitudes In The Teen Years 

In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Connected Parenting, I sit down with Sonia Cacciacarro —registered psychotherapist and member of the Connected Parenting team—for an honest and compassionate conversation about grief, loss, and how to talk to children about death and dying.Sonia shares her journey from fitness expert and mom of three to psychotherapist, and how her husband's diagnosis and passing from FTD and ALS shaped her passion for helping families navigate bereavement and loss. Together, we explore why our culture struggles with death, why it's so hard for parents to talk about it with their kids, and how we can support our children (and ourselves) through the grieving process.Whether you're walking through grief right now or want to build the emotional resilience your child will one day need, this episode offers deep insights, practical strategies, and loving support for some of life's hardest moments.Jennifer's Takeaways:Sonia's Journey into Grief and Death Counseling (02:38)The Importance of Talking About Death and Dying (04:14)Children's Understanding and Coping with Death (16:48)Navigating Social Interactions and Support Systems (17:09)The Role of Empathy and Sympathy in Grief (17:30)Preparing Children for Future Losses (18:37)The Impact of Cultural and Personal Beliefs on Grief (20:10)Conclusion and Final Thoughts (27:30)Meet Sonia Cacciacarro Sonia began her career in the health and fitness industry, working in corporate fitness and country clubs before launching her own fitness consulting and personal training business. After becoming a mother of three, she transitioned to being a stay-at-home mom. This period of family life led her to a journey of self-discovery, ultimately guiding her to pursue a career in psychotherapy.Sonia became a Registered Psychotherapist in 2016, founding her own private practice, and joined the Connected Parenting team in 2018, where she works with children, teens, adults, couples, and families. In April 2021, Sonia's life took a dramatic turn when her husband was diagnosed with Frontotemporal Dementia (FTD) and ALS. She took a break from her practice to care for him until he died in October 2022. Sonia credits her education, work experience, and personal resilience for helping her navigate this challenging period. Now, her professional focus has expanded to helping families cope with grief, bereavement, death, and dying.Website: https://therapybysonia.ca/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapybysonia/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063605529221#LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sonia-cacciacarro-275292127/Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

Today's question comes from the community: How do you explain what's happening in your child's brain during big emotions in a way they can understand and actually listen to?We all know that feeling—trying to explain why their emotions feel so big, but they just glaze over or dismiss what you're saying. Maybe they think you don't know what you're talking about, or they just aren't in the space to absorb the information. Sometimes, it helps to hear it from someone who isn't their parent.For this reason in today's episode, I will guide you through clear and relatable ways to help your child understand what's happening in their brain during moments of anger, frustration, or overwhelm. I've also included special parts of this episode designed for your child to listen to directly, making it easier for them to grasp these concepts and feel understood.Jennifer's Takeaways:Understanding How to Talk to Kids About Their Brain (00:00)Engaging Kids in Conversations About Their Brain (03:02)Strategies for Managing Big Feelings (06:13)Practical Tips for Parents (08:58)Resources and Additional Support (11:33)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

Recovery Matters Podcast Episode 170 | From growing up amidst addiction in Connecticut to battling his own substance use, Vinny Imperati aka Skinny Vinny opens up about his father's tragic overdose, his time spent homeless in a porta-potty, and his near-death experiences. But the story takes a turn when Vinny finds a new purpose in film and entertainment, leading him to work with his idols from Jackass, including Steve-O. Today, Vinny co-hosts the Wild Ride Podcast with Steve-O and co-stars in 'Your Pranks, Our Show' with Zach "Zackass" Holmes. Tune in to hear how Vinny not only turned his life around but also found a new mission in helping others achieve sobriety. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:48 Vinny's Early Life and Family Struggles03:25 Teenage Years and Early Addiction06:33 Descent into Addiction and Homelessness11:06 Turning Point and Path to Recovery14:27 Building a New Life and Career20:15 Reflections on Sobriety and Giving Back26:57 Call to Action: Support Recovery Centers ----Across the Web----

For some, failure is a motivator, a chance to prove themselves and strive for something even greater. But for others—especially highly sensitive kids, gifted kids, kids with ADHD, or strong-willed Gladiator kids—failure feels catastrophic. Even minor setbacks can trigger overwhelming self-doubt, anxiety, and shame.The truth is, failure is an essential part of growth. It's how we learn, build resilience, and ultimately succeed. But for kids who struggle with stress tolerance, failure can feel like an unbearable weight.In this episode, we'll explore why some children react so strongly to failure, and more importantly, how we as parents can help them shift their perspective. You'll learn strategies to help your child develop stress tolerance, reframe failure as a stepping stone to success, and build the emotional resilience they need to thrive.Let's turn failure into an opportunity for growth—together. Jennifer's Takeaways:Understanding Failure and Its Impact on Children (00:00)Parents' Relationship with Failure (01:58)The Role of Parental Response (04:15)Brain Processes During Failure (04:52)Building Failure Tolerance in Children (08:25)Practical Strategies for Parents (13:55)Challenges and Final Thoughts (14:17)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

Recovery Matters Podcast Episode 169 | Danny, who recently celebrated four years of sobriety, discusses his early experiences with drugs and alcohol, the impact of his mother's death on his substance use, and his subsequent journey through addiction, legal troubles, and incarceration. Both hosts reflect on the challenges they faced, the turning points in their lives, and the importance of support systems. They offer insights and advice for those in early recovery and emphasize the transformative power of perseverance and self-awareness. 00:00 Introduction and Host Introductions00:38 Early Life and First Encounters with Substances01:10 Teenage Years and Substance Abuse04:32 Escalation and Coping with Loss05:28 Struggles with Prescription Drugs14:41 Incarceration and Turning Point20:59 Life After Recovery22:30 Advice for Those in Recovery ----Across the Web----

This week on Urban Valor, we sit down with Army Veteran Danny Szczakowski, a former Airborne Infantry paratrooper with the 173rd Airborne Brigade. From enduring a challenging childhood in Hereford, Texas, to facing intense combat in Afghanistan, Danny's story is one of resilience and sacrifice.In this episode, he recounts multiple gunfights against the Taliban as they attempted to overrun their outpost, his harrowing experience recovering a fallen helicopter that claimed the lives of two pilots, and how his journey as a Drill Sergeant took an unexpected turn. Danny also opens up about the emotional toll of military service and a personal battle that led him into a dark mental space.His story is one of courage, survival, and the unseen struggles of veterans after service. Watch as he shares firsthand accounts of combat, the lessons he's learned, and his fight to find peace after war.

Every child faces challenges when it comes to stepping outside their comfort zone—whether it's trying a new food, petting an unfamiliar dog, or speaking up in class.But what if we could gently guide them to embrace these moments of bravery? Imagine the confidence they could build and the doors that could open when they learn to navigate the unknown.In this week's replay, we explore how to strengthen your child's courage muscle, especially for those who are naturally hesitant. You'll learn practical strategies to help them take small, meaningful risks that lead to greater confidence, joy, and resilience.Jennifer's Takeaways:Building a Child's Courage Muscle (00:00)Starting the Conversation and Setting Small Goals (03:08)The Role of Imagination and Visualization (04:34)Acting It Out and Maintaining a Playful Approach (06:29)Parental Support and Neutrality (07:26)Creating an Accomplishment Book (09:13)The Long-Term Nature of Parenting (10:07)The Importance of Risk-Taking and Growth (10:57)Resources and Support (11:39)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

Teenagers are sometimes headstrong and over-confident. Dennis and Barbara Rainey say there's a reason God gives parents to teens. The Raineys help you navigate the choppy—and rewarding—waters of the teen years.

Patrick Stork shares the struggles of his teenage years, from getting expelled from school to battling addiction and making life-altering mistakes. This is a real and honest story about the challenges of youth, the consequences of bad decisions, and the journey to turning life around. #ExpelledFromSchool #TeenageStruggles #AddictionRecovery #YouthChallenges #OvercomingAddiction #RealLifeStory #SecondChances #lifelessons Connect with Patrick Stork: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pstork47?igsh=eG9oMXJ1N2xjYjAy Hosted, Executive Produced & Edited By Ian Bick: https://www.instagram.com/ian_bick/?hl=en https://ianbick.com/ Presented by Tyson 2.0 & Wooooo Energy: https://tyson20.com/ https://woooooenergy.com/ Buy Merch: https://convictclothing.net/collections/convict-clothing-x-ian-bick Timestamps: 00:00:00 Introduction to Patrick and His YouTube Channel 00:05:00 Childhood Memories and Family Background 00:07:30 Growing Up Between Lower and Middle Class in LA 00:11:42 Growing Up with Little Supervision 00:15:52 High School Misadventures and Consequences 00:19:59 Overcoming High School Challenges and Graduation Motivation 00:23:51 Navigating Job Instability and Unconventional Opportunities 00:28:01 First Encounter with Law Enforcement 00:32:09 Jail Release and Stick Shift Dilemma 00:36:04 Life After Rehab: Challenges and Lessons 00:40:07 Teenage Challenges and Legal Troubles 00:44:01 The Consequences of Middleman Deals 00:48:04 The Life of a Middleman: Profits and Risks 00:52:07 Breaking the Cycle: Escaping a Life of Crime and Ruts 00:56:08 Relatable Podcast Stories and Influences 01:00:01 Overcoming the Drug Dealer Dream Powered by: Just Media House : https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Creative direction, design, assets, support by FWRD: https://www.fwrd.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

EP 144 - Peggy Derivan, Taming the Teenage BrainFew things can seem as wild and unpredictable as the teenage brain, but that doesn't mean it must remain that way. Like a wild mustang, teenagers often respond much more positively to genuine connection than a brute show of force. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: What Peggy loves most about her job and what it does for herWhy it's important to remember that the teenage brain is wired differentlyHow to successfully implement the concept of “containers” with your teenagerWhat it means to grow your relationship with your teenagers and how to do itWhy some parents have such a narrow set of ideas oh who or how their kids should beWhat Peggy feels like the best thing we can do for our kids and their futuresHow Peggy was able to shift a perceived negative into a positive in her family lifeFAVORITE QUOTE:  Peggy Derivan“You have to grow up your parenting with your kid. We can't keep it all the same.”Peggy Derivan___________________________________________________________________________CONNECT WITH GUESTPersonal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beemideriBusiness Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61560228607334Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/peggyderivancoachingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/peggyderivancoaching/Bio:Peggy has been a licensed therapist in private practice for 18 years. In the last year, she has begun coaching moms of teenagers on how to “grow up their own parenting” to go along with their kids' developmental changes and milestones as they turn into adults. She is passionately committed to helping moms remove barriers and create permission to have a close, connected, human relationship with their teens as the answer to navigate this time together. Peggy has 2 incredible young adult children and an amazing husband to enjoy life with, even thought life is challenging and crazy and unexpected!  ___________________________________________________________________________CONNECT with Lori: Facebook: @LoriMJewettInstagram: @jewettloriThe “80HD Book” - ORDER HERE! This isn't just another podcast—it's a deep dive into the raw, unfiltered power within YOU. We're all walking around with hidden strengths, untapped potential, and next-level abilities just waiting to be unleashed. And guess what? We're digging deep to find them!Whether you're on a journey of personal growth, chasing big dreams, or ready to leave your mark on the world, this podcast is your go-to guide for tapping into that inner superhero.

Welcome back, Connected Parents, to another episode of the Connected Parenting Podcast! Today, we're diving into another installment of our Q&A series, where I answer real parenting questions from our listeners.In this episode, I'll be tackling two important questions:Rob's Question: His 14-year-old son has developed a mean-spirited sense of humor and is acting like a bit of a jerk. How can Rob guide him toward kindness without shutting him down completely?Lily's Question: Her 12-year-old daughter is struggling with a new school friendship. She initially bonded with a classmate who seemed nice but has now become overly clingy, sending constant text messages and guilt-tripping her. How can Lily help her daughter set boundaries while maintaining kindness?Join me as we explore strategies for fostering emotional intelligence, setting healthy boundaries, and helping kids navigate social dynamics in a way that strengthens their confidence and relationships. Tune in now! And don't forget to send in your parenting questions for future episodes.Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

Teens and dating is a tough one! But, we can't think of anyone better to tackle the tough topics…as she's made a career out of it. We are so grateful for this conversation with our dear friend Paula Faris and the wisdom and honesty and real-ness she brings to the conversation, as she does each and every conversation. We hope this will be a helpful—and fun—listen. The Paula Faris Show More episodes you may enjoy: Ep 176: Parenting Teens & Young Adults with Dave & Julie Hunt Ep 159: Preparing Your Kids and Yourself for the Teenage Years with Lisa Damour . . . . . Sign up to receive the monthly newsletter to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share! Go behind the scenes and watch our podcast on YouTube! Download a copy of the Raising Boys and Girls Feelings Chart. Connect with David, Sissy, and Melissa at raisingboysandgirls.com. . . . . . If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our Advertise with us form. A special thank you to our sponsor: Function: Function currently has a waitlist, but they are offering my audience the chance to skip it! Head to functionhealth.com/RBG or enter code RBG when signing up to skip the waitlist! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I've had many requests from listeners asking for a refresher on the CALM Technique, and while I often direct people to earlier episodes, I think it's time to go over it again.In this episode, we'll break down how to use the CALM Technique effectively, especially when dealing with teenage boys, who can sometimes be a little more challenging to connect with.Whether you're parenting a fiery toddler, a sensitive pre-teen, or a moody adolescent, this episode will provide practical examples and real-life scenarios to help you de-escalate conflicts, improve communication, and strengthen your relationship with your child.|If your child isn't a teen yet—don't worry, they will be soon! And if you have daughters, this technique is universally helpful for all kids.Tune in for a deep dive into CALM and how to apply it in everyday parenting.In today's episode, we'll explore:Introduction to the Calm Technique and Oxytocin (00:00)The Four Steps of the Calm Technique (03:35)Scenarios and Practical Applications (08:25)Advanced Techniques and Tips (23:01)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

In this episode, we're flipping the script. We spend so much time worrying about our kids' screen time, but what about our own? The truth is, our relationship with our devices is affecting our focus, emotional health, and ability to be present for our children. And let's be real—our kids are watching. Have you ever tried to watch a show without checking your phone? Or read a book for more than five minutes before feeling the urge to scroll? If this sounds familiar, you're not alone. In today's episode, we'll explore:Breaking Up with Your Phone: Introduction and Context (00:00)The Impact of Social Media and News Consumption (01:21)Understanding the Pleasure-Pain Continuum and Addiction (04:08)Practical Steps to Break Up with Your Phone (06:01)Tracking Screen Time and Setting Boundaries (09:03)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

The episode delves into the 2007 double murder of Terry and Elisa McGee, highlighting their daughter Amanda's troubled bond with Andrew Mann and the tragic consequences of their manipulative relationship.#AndrewMann #terrymcgee #elisamcgee #unspeakable #podcast #crime #criminal #truecrime #tragicconsequences Timestamps 11:38 Tensions Rise 15:21 The Teenage Years 19:53 The Meeting 21:55 A Dangerous Attraction 25:52 A Night of Horror 31:57 Investigating the Murders 39:12 The Accusations 41:46 The Runaway 50:53 A False Sense of Security 55:33 The First Confession 1:08:24 The Final ConfrontationVideo, Sound and Editing for this podcast by the podcast experts at Envision Podcast Studios in Denham Springs, LA. Executive Producer: Jim ChapmanSources:Mann guilty, gets two life termsCops: Pregnant Teen, Beau Killed ParentsAndrew Mann v. State of Tennessee :: 2015 :: Tennessee Court of Criminal Appeals Decisions ::(3) Video | Facebookhttps://law.justia.com/cases/tennessee/court-of-criminal-appeals/2015/e2014-01524-cca-r3-pc.html

People, Not Titles podcast has the pleasure to sit down with American Activist and the youngest candidate (in history) for Chicago Mayor.Ja'Mal has an incredible story that has only begun.Introduction to Jamal Greene (00:00:00)Jamal's Passion for Change (00:01:17)Growing Up in Inglewood (00:01:49)Impact of His Mother's Aspirations (00:02:58)Recognition of Community Needs (00:04:07)The Role of Activism (00:04:32)Teenage Years and Leadership (00:05:50)Influence of Mentors (00:07:06)His Mother's Support (00:08:42)Community and Individual Responsibility (00:09:27)Running for Mayor of Chicago (00:09:37)Early Activism and Recognition (00:10:26)Catalyst for Political Involvement (00:11:32)Desire for Authentic Representation (00:12:01)Facing Resistance as a Young Leader (00:12:56)Overcoming Doubts and Fears (00:15:04)Withdrawal from the Mayoral Race (00:16:35)Signature Collection Challenges (00:17:02)Challenges in the Signature Process (00:18:31)The Decision to Retreat (00:19:14)Empowerment in Retreat (00:19:44)Second Round of Campaigning (00:20:12)Debate Stage Experience (00:21:02)Impact of Young Leadership (00:22:43)Shaping Politics in Chicago (00:23:14)The Importance of Authenticity (00:24:30)The Need for New Leadership (00:26:24)Grassroots Support in Elections (00:27:00)Fallout from Previous Elections (00:28:02)Future Political Aspirations (00:29:10)Vision for Chicago's Revitalization (00:30:17)Understanding Local Issues (00:32:01)The Role of a People's Mayor (00:34:13)Creating Vibrancy in Chicago (00:35:12)Transition to Real Estate (00:36:15)Jamal's Early Inspiration (00:36:37)Lessons from Property Management (00:38:00)Commercial Real Estate Ambitions (00:38:54)Chase Bank's Lending Practices (00:39:16)Activism Against Chase Bank (00:39:28)Securing $1 Billion for Chicago (00:40:34)Community Impact of Funding (00:41:51)Evaluating Success (00:41:47)Media Attention and Resistance (00:42:05)Generational Change Through Homeownership (00:43:16)Homeownership's Role in Community Stability (00:45:36)Personal Experiences with Real Estate (00:47:01)Educating Future Homeowners (00:49:13)Balancing Big Vision with Individual Attention (00:50:36)Promoting Unity Over Division in Politics (00:52:47)Understanding Human Connection (00:53:13)Community and Shared Goals (00:54:20)The Importance of Independence (00:55:50)Finding Purpose in Daily Life (00:57:22)Recognizing Your Gifts (00:58:53)Family as a Central Purpose (01:00:02)Living with Purpose and Impact (01:01:51)Grace and Forgiveness (01:05:19)Engagement and Community Involvement (01:06:35)People, Not Titles podcast is hosted by Steve Kaempf and is dedicated to lifting up professionals in the real estate and business community. Our inspiration is to highlight success principles of our colleagues.Our Success Series covers principles of success to help your thrive!IG - https://www.instagram.com/peoplenotti...FB - https://www.facebook.com/peoplenottitlesTwitter - https://twitter.com/sjkaempfSpotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/1uu5kTv...

Show Notes:The Resilient Siren: Overcoming Trauma through Art In this episode of Send Nudes podcast, host Ashley Klemm introduces 'The Resilient Siren,' a separate series dedicated to collaborating with women to transform their stories of overcoming trauma into art. Ashley shares her vision of creating a book compiling these stories. She converses with Leslie, the first participant, about her turbulent upbringing involving domestic violence, drug abuse, and the emotional scars left by her parents. Leslie also discusses how joining the military helped her find purpose and structure. Together, they aim to turn these painful histories into inspiring narratives of resilience. 00:00 Introduction to SNP Podcast 00:41 Introducing The Resilient Siren Series 01:27 The Vision Behind The Resilient Siren 03:20 First Interview: Leslie's Story 05:58 Leslie's Childhood Memories 08:09 The Impact of Domestic Violence 10:12 Leslie's Teenage Years and Family Dynamics 13:56 Struggles with Parental Neglect 17:23 Leslie's Sister's Challenges 21:08 Moving and New Beginnings 27:58 Facing Fears and Seeking Change 28:45 Joining the Military: A Life-Changing Decision 30:02 Life in the Navy: Challenges and Growth 35:04 Post-Military Life: Finding a New Path 39:33 Family and Personal Growth 50:00 Reflections and Lessons Learned

Welcome back, connected parents, to another episode of the Connected Parenting podcast! Today, we're tackling a topic that many parents find incredibly frustrating—arguing with a teenager—but with a modern twist: the influence social media has on these conflicts.Teenagers have always been challenging to argue with. Conversations can escalate from zero to 100 in seconds, leaving you feeling completely disoriented. But in today's digital world, there's a new layer—the language of social media-driven psychology. Many teens are now using terms they've picked up online, like gaslighting, victim-playing, and toxic behavior, sometimes without fully understanding their meaning. While it's great that mental health topics are more widely discussed, these concepts are often taken out of context and misapplied in everyday parent-teen interactions.So how do we navigate these conversations without making things worse? In this episode, we'll dig into building connection, strengthening trust, and helping our teens develop a healthy understanding of the emotions and relationships in their lives.Jennifer's Takeaways:Challenges of Arguing with Teenagers in the Age of Social Media (00:00)Understanding the Teenage Brain (03:05)Impact of Social Media on Parent-Teen Interactions (07:12)Navigating Complex Concepts in Parent-Teen Arguments (10:25)Strategies for Staying Calm and Neutral (11:37)The Role of Self-Awareness and Responsibility (17:24)Resources and Support for Connected Parenting (24:33)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

Negative consequences—while the term might sound harsh, the reality is that some kids truly thrive when they know they are surrounded by sturdy, solid, immovable limits.There are certain children, especially strong-willed or "gladiator" kids as I call them, who push back against every boundary—insisting they don't need rules, testing limits at every turn, and even retaliating when consequences are enforced. However, despite their resistance, clear, consistent, and loving boundaries actually make them feel safer and more emotionally regulated.If you've ever felt guilty about enforcing consequences or struggled to set limits that actually work, this episode is for you. Tune in and learn how to create a structured and supportive environment where your child can thrive.Jennifer's Takeaways:Setting the Stage for Negative Consequences (00:00)Understanding Anxiety in Kids (02:06)The Importance of Consistent Limits (04:32)Setting Effective Consequences (06:24)Practical Tips for Implementing Consequences (07:56)Connecting Before Correcting (14:48)Resources and Support for Parents (15:39)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

Parenting can be a beautiful journey, but it often brings challenges that strain relationships. From the demands of daily life to the push-and-pull dynamics of kids testing boundaries, the connection between parents can sometimes feel like it's taking a back seat.In this week's episode I explore how vital it is to protect and prioritize this bond, emphasizing that a strong relationship between parents doesn't just benefit you—it's a gift to your children. Kids thrive when they see their parents working as a team, and how division or tension can create stress and confusion in the family dynamic.Listen in to learn practical strategies to reconnect, communicate effectively, and maintain a sense of partnership even during the busiest times. Whether it's setting aside time to nurture your relationship, finding ways to support each other even in small ways, or understanding the role of teamwork in parenting, this episode is packed with insights to help you strengthen your parenting partnership and create a harmonious family environment for everyone involved.Jennifer's Takeaways:Importance of a United Parental Front (00:00)Challenges in Two-Parent Families (01:21)The Impact of Parental Relationship on Children (02:30)Recognizing and Responding to Bids for Attention (03:56)Changing the Lens and Spending Adult Time Alone (05:39)The Importance of Date Night (07:41)Using the Calm Technique and Avoiding Policing (09:09)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

Ever feel like your partner just doesn't get you? Like you're speaking different languages—especially in the chaos of raising little ones? In this episode, we're diving into why misunderstandings happen (hint: exhaustion and assumptions play a big role), how they can impact your relationship, and what you can do to get back on the same page. I'll share a real-life story about how one small comment turned into a big argument, plus three practical ways to reconnect with your partner—no matter how busy life feels. Whether you're feeling distant, frustrated, or just ready for things to flow a little easier, this episode is packed with tools and encouragement to help you and your partner communicate better. And if you're ready to take things a step further, I'll also talk about how coaching can give you the clarity, perspective, and support to truly transform the way you and your partner understand and show up for each other. This one's for the parents out there feeling a little lost in translation—let's work on finding your way back. Join my peanut group Learn about working with me Get my emails

Welcome to the first Connected Parenting episode of 2025! After spending the holidays with my family, I'm excited to reconnect with all of you. The holidays are often a mix of joy, warmth, and togetherness, but they can also bring tension, big feelings, and unresolved conflicts. As Ram Dass so wisely put it, "If you think you're enlightened, go spend a week with your family." In this episode, we explore how to navigate those lingering emotions and patterns that surface during family gatherings, especially as we enter a new year.Jennifer's Takeaways:Reflecting on Family Dynamics and Emotional Programs (00:00)Understanding Implicit Beliefs and Their Impact (01:29)The Role of Parents as Substitute Frontal Lobes (05:44)Practical Steps to Manage Implicit Beliefs (07:35)Inner Child Work and Self-Care (12:45)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

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The holidays are a magical time, but they can also be overstimulating and stressful for children, particularly for those with strong-willed or highly sensitive personalities. In today's episode, we dive into the joys and challenges of the holiday season—especially when it comes to managing big emotions and behaviors in kids. Jennifer's Takeaways:Why gladiator kids often struggle during big family gatherings.Front-loading expectations for both children and adults.Manage gift exchanges, overstimulation, and sibling conflicts with calm and confidence.The importance of maintaining routinesSet boundaries and limits without compromising the holiday spirit.The transformative power of the Calm Technique to connect with your kids Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

Some parents shy away from using rewards or positive consequences, fearing it might feel like bribery or paying their kids to behave.While overusing this method can backfire, when used thoughtfully, positive reinforcement can be a powerful way to encourage better behavior, build positive habits, and instill confidence in your child.Join me as we dig deeper into this often overlooked tool.Jennifer's Takeaways:Positive Reinforcement in Parenting (00:00)Understanding the Pleasure-Pain Continuum (00:53)The Role of Dopamine in Rewards (06:39)Implementing Positive Consequences (08:29)Practical Tips for Positive Reinforcement (11:00)Balancing Rewards and Consequences (14:51)Addressing Individual Needs (15:03)The Importance of Consistency (15:19)Encouraging Pro-Social Behavior (15:32)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

In this episode of Connected Parenting, we explore why anger is often the default emotion for neuro-spicy gladiator kids. Whether they're tired, scared, overwhelmed, or even hungry, these children often express their emotions as anger—a response that's challenging for parents to handle.Learn how to decode the feelings behind your child's outbursts, connect with them in the heat of the moment, and implement 10 actionable strategies to help them recognize and process their emotions. By understanding the root causes of their anger and responding with patience and connection, you can turn difficult moments into opportunities for growth and stronger bonds.Jennifer's Takeaways:Understanding Anger in Neuro Spicy Kids (00:00)The Role of Emotions and Emotional Literacy (01:38)Parenting an Angry Child: Empathy and Neutrality (04:59)Strategies for Managing Anger: Before and After (06:31)Positive Consequences and Self-Care for Parents (06:49)The Importance of Seeing Beyond Behavior (07:14)The Role of the Frontal Lobe in Emotional Regulation (07:56)The Calm Technique and Its Benefits (08:11)Debriefing and Understanding Triggers (11:00)Positive Consequences and Reinforcement (13:33)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

In this week's episode of Connected Parenting, we are talking about a common parenting challenge: kids faking illnesses to avoid school or other commitments.While many parents can recall pulling the same trick in their childhood, handling it as an adult brings up a whirlwind of emotions—guilt, frustration, doubt, and even anger.How do you balance supporting your child while avoiding reinforcing negative behaviors?If this is a question in your home, listen in to hear my thoughts on helping you manage these moments with empathy, clarity, and calm.Jennifer's Takeaways:Kids Faking Illnesses: Introduction and Common Scenario (00:00)Recognizing True Illness vs. Faking (02:26)Handling School Calls and Office Visits (04:08)Addressing Chronic Stomach Aches and Anxiety (05:58)Using Mental Health Days and Setting Boundaries (09:57)Conclusion and Additional Resources (12:05)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

Welcome to another episode of Connected Parenting! Today, we're tackling a topic many parents struggle with—consequences.From figuring out what's fair, natural, and effective to dealing with those moments when your overreaction leaves you questioning how to backtrack.In this episode, I'll walk you through practical strategies to establish meaningful, loving, and predictable consequences that help children understand the impact of their actions while maintaining a strong connection with you.Jennifer's Takeaways:Understanding Consequences & Parenting Styles (3:04)The Role of Connection in Setting Consequences (7:52)Strategies for Setting Effective Consequences (8:27)Dealing with Different Parenting Styles & Co-Parenting (9:10)Addressing Natural and Positive Consequences (9:39)Balancing Connection & Consequences (9:57)Practical Tips for Setting Consequences (10:10)Addressing Specific Behaviors & Consequences (10:27)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

Every child has been created by God with a uniqueness, but there tends to be a few overarching themes when they are separated by gender. It can become easy to be frustrated with boy behavior. They tend to puzzle us as homeschoool moms. But, what if instead of seeing what they do as an annoyance, we look at it differently? Today, I am sharing my top tips that I've learned and employed as a homeschool mom to grow my boys into young men and not just merely survive, but to thrive as their mother. Find a few moments of quiet or put on those noise canceling headphones and get ready to look at your boys differently after this episode. ♥ Leigh     JOIN THE MENTORSHIP PROGRAM https://littlebylittlehomeschool.com/mentorship    DESIGN YOUR FAMILY'S HOMESCHOOL WITH YOUR HOMESCHOOL BLUEPRINT https://littlebylittlehomeschool.com/blueprint    CREATE YOUR HOME TASK SYSTEM WITH THE TIDY HOME https://www.littlebylittlehomeschool.com/tidyhome     Website -  https://www.littlebylittlehomeschool.com Newsletter -  https://littlebylittlehomeschool.subscribemenow.com/ Community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/homeschoollifestylecommunity  Follow - https://www.instagram.com/littlebylittlehomeschool/ Connect - info@littlebylittlehomeschool.com   Listen to these related episodes: 10. How to NOT Dread Parenting and Homeschooling the Teen Years: 4 Steps to Being Intentional Before the Teenage Years   62. Practical Tips and How to Approach the Homeschool High School Years with Teen Boys and Interest-Led Learning    97. How to Build the Best Bond With Your Homeschool Middle School Age Child: Motherhood and the Tween/Early Teen Years    142. How To Build The Best Bond With Your Homeschool High Schooler: Motherhood and The Teen Years    235. Raising Boys In Today's Culture With Durenda Wilson: How A Homeschool Mom Meets The Challenges Through All The Ages 

Today, we're diving into the power of play, especially for kids with big emotions that feel too large for their small bodies to handle. These big-feeling kids often experience surges of emotion that can lead to outbursts, clinginess, or even cycles of frustration and shame. But with the right kind of play, we can help them release these overwhelming feelings and teach them how to self-regulate.In this episode, I'll share specific, playful strategies designed to calm and engage children who have these intense emotional needs. Through therapeutic play, we can offer them a safe way to discharge pent-up energy and reset their emotional state, creating moments of connection and calm that help them—and us—break out of negative cycles.Jennifer's Takeaways:Sensory Play for Kids with Big Feelings (00:00)Understanding Kids' Emotional Surges (03:25)Therapeutic and Sensory Play Ideas (04:29)Additional Sensory and Grounding Techniques (08:28)Outdoor and Low-Sensory Activities (10:56)Teenagers and Adrenaline Play (14:34)Resources and Final Thoughts (16:27)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

In this episode of Connected Parenting, we're diving into a fundamental concept in effective parenting—self-regulation. Titled “Be That to See That,” this episode explores the critical role our own emotional regulation plays in helping our children manage their emotions and behaviors.Parenting is a journey filled with joy, laughter, and priceless moments, but it's also exhausting, anxiety-provoking, and often frustrating. To truly connect with our kids and help them co-regulate, we first need to master self-regulation ourselves.Jennifer's Takeaways:Understanding Self-Regulation in Parenting (00:00)The Role of Parents as Substitute Frontal Lobes (04:43)Consistency and Validation in Parenting (05:00)Strategies for Parental Self-Regulation (08:59)Alternative Yelling and Repairing Relationships (13:31)Resources and Support for Parents (16:46)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

In this episode of Connected Parenting, I dive into a concept I call emotional glare—a phenomenon that every parent of a strong-willed, reactive child has likely experienced. If you have a sassy, feisty, gladiator child who seems to be in constant conflict with the world, you know exactly what I'm talking about.Emotional glare is what happens when you reflect back your child's feelings, set limits, or share your own emotions—and instead of calming things down, it triggers an even bigger emotional explosion.This episode unpacks why traditional parenting strategies often fail spectacularly with reactive children and offers solutions that actually work. We'll explore ways to diffuse emotional glare, help your child build distress tolerance, and establish calm communication strategies that strengthen your relationship without escalating conflict.Jennifer's Takeaways:Understanding Emotional Glare (00:00)Characteristics of Gladiator Kids (01:53)Common Parenting Strategies and Their Effects (04:08)The Calm Technique for Gladiator Kids (08:27)Handling Emotional Protests (12:10)Maintaining a Neutral Tone (14:51)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

For most kids Halloween and the time leading up to it can be really fun and they love it. But for a lot of very sensitive children the feelings and reactions can be quite the opposite and extremely anxiety provoking.Everywhere they look they are seeing scary images on every lawn, and on every commercial on television, there's images of witches, ghouls and ghosts.If this is something you are facing this Halloween season, then join me for this week's episode to talk about what we can do as parents to support our more sensitive kids and help them when it comes to managing their thoughts and feelings surrounding what leads up to and comes with the trick or treating holiday of October 31st.Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).

In this episode, I welcome Megan, who shares her powerful sobriety journey. Megan opens up about her struggles with perfectionism, early exposure to alcohol, postpartum anxiety, and the loss of her father. After a life-changing moment on Easter 2019, she embraced spontaneous sobriety and immersed herself in various recovery methods, including therapy, AA, and online support communities. Megan emphasizes the importance of living authentically, finding joy in recovery, and connecting with others for a fulfilling, sober life. Support the Podcast: https://buymeacoffee.com/sobermotivation Join the Sober Motivation Community: https://sobermotivation.mn.co Megan on IG: https://www.instagram.com/meganeileen3/ 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:11 Megan's Childhood and Early Struggles 01:45 Teenage Years and First Encounters with Alcohol 03:59 College Life and Escalating Drinking Habits 09:39 Post-College Life and Motherhood 12:31 Struggles with Postpartum Anxiety and Drinking 14:05 The Turning Point and Path to Sobriety 24:35 Facing Defeat and Embracing Vulnerability 25:23 Reflecting on Life Choices 25:42 The Turning Point: Choosing Sobriety 26:18 Struggles and Values: A Personal Journey 26:44 The Reality of Addiction 28:38 Rediscovering Joy and Connection 29:12 Building a Support System 30:22 Sharing the Journey Publicly 31:59 Finding Balance and Purpose 43:04 Overcoming Challenges in Sobriety 45:12 A Message of Hope and Gratitude

Have you thought about the fact that your children are home with you and a bit of a captive audience at this point? It's true! And that means you can focus not only on academics, but on building their character too. Which means that to do that, it needs to be a focus for your daily lessons. With all the years of homeschooling and launching two of my children into the world, I have zero regrets of the time we focus on character training. And some days, it was the main goal for the day because it mattered more than the geography lesson. Grab a pen and paper and get ready to analyze your goals after this episode! ♥ Leigh   GET YOUR TICKET FOR LITTLE BY LITTLE HOMESCHOOL CONFERENCE www.littlebylittlehomeschool.com/conference   DESIGN YOUR FAMILY'S HOMESCHOOL WITH YOUR HOMESCHOOL BLUEPRINT https://littlebylittlehomeschool.com/blueprint    CREATE YOUR HOME TASK SYSTEM WITH THE TIDY HOME https://www.littlebylittlehomeschool.com/tidyhome   JOIN THE MENTORSHIP PROGRAM https://littlebylittlehomeschool.com/mentorship    Marilyn Boyer's Character Concepts: https://characterconcepts.com/store/ Character Building For Families Vol. 1 by Lee Ann Rubsam https://rstyle.me/+jNZJb6Qdhpx6fp8VqlHk_A September & Co https://septemberandco.com/collections/character         Website -  https://www.littlebylittlehomeschool.com Newsletter -  https://littlebylittlehomeschool.subscribemenow.com/ Community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/homeschoollifestylecommunity  Follow - https://www.instagram.com/littlebylittlehomeschool/ Connect - info@littlebylittlehomeschool.com   Listen to these related episodes: 172. 5 Ways to Help Instill Faith in Your Homeschool Child and Why It Is Worth the Time    159. Want Your Spiritual Life to Grow as a Homeschool Mom? 2 Important Habits to Consider Adding    10. How to NOT Dread Parenting and Homeschooling the Teen Years: 4 Steps to Being Intentional Before the Teenage Years 

One of the most common things I hear from parents is, “What if I had found you sooner?”It's such a powerful question, and my answer is always the same—it's never too late. Whether your kids are young, teenagers, or fully grown adults, repair is possible, and it can transform your relationships.Parenting is a delicate dance between setting boundaries and nurturing your child's emotional well-being. It's challenging, especially when your child might be thrashing against the world or trapped in anxiety. Repair helps bridge those moments when things don't go as planned.In this episode, I share personal stories and practical advice on how embracing connected parenting as a philosophy—not just a strategy—builds trust and stability within families. I also explain how the Calm Technique allows you to develop emotional capital, so even when things go off track (as they sometimes will), you can always find your way back to connection.Jennifer's Takeaways:Understanding Repair in Connected Parenting (01:55)Situational Repair and Apologies (04:59)The Calm Technique and Its Components (07:38)Practicing Repair and Self-Regulation (11:17)The Flow of Connected Parenting (14:57)Meet Jennifer KolariJennifer Kolari is the host of the “Connected Parenting” weekly podcast and the co-host of “The Mental Health Comedy” podcast. Kolari is a frequent guest on Nationwide morning shows and podcasts in th US and Canada. Her advice can also be found in many Canadian and US magazines such as; Today's Parent, Parents Magazine and Canadian Family.Kolari's powerful parenting model is based on the neurobiology of love, teaching parents how to use compassion and empathy as powerful medicine to transform challenging behavior and build children's emotional resilience and emotional shock absorbers.Jennifer's wisdom, quick wit and down to earth style help parents navigate modern-day parenting problems, offering real-life examples as well as practical and effective tools and strategies.Her highly entertaining, inspiring workshops are shared with warmth and humour, making her a crowd-pleasing speaker with schools, medical professionals, corporations and agencies throughout North America, Europe and Asia.One of the nation's leading parenting experts, Jennifer Kolari, is a highly sought- after international speaker and the founder of Connected Parenting. A child and family therapist with a busy practice based in San Diego and Toronto, Kolari is also the author of Connected Parenting: How to Raise A Great Kid (Penguin Group USA and Penguin Canada, 2009) and You're Ruining My Life! (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting (Penguin Canada, 2011).