Which Cup Is Mine

Season 5, Episode 4 Garcia asks the hard question: did you expect to stay the same and get different results in your relationship? If your last relationship didn't go how you wanted it to and especially if you were toxic in your past situations, you will have to change something. The two talk about things they knew they would have to change about themselves in order to have a non-toxic relationship and the things they have changed that they never would have imagined. The two also discuss why it is so hard to change even when your partner brings up something that might make the relationship better. The episode ends with Garcia and SunAh giving some advice on how to have difficult conversations about changing for the sake of the relationship.New episodes every other Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel - LINK IN BIO - and wherever you stream podcasts. Like, comment, and share!

Season 5, Episode 3 is the epitome of “it's not you, it's me.” Garcia and SunAh are talking about their own toxic traits and how they decided to not bring their toxicity into their relationship with each other. The answer may not be as clear cut as it seems and the “how” is definitely not so simple. If you're wondering, yes you, too, have a toxic trait. Tune in to find out how to stop bringing it into your dating life moving forward.New episodes every other Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel

On Season 5, Episode 2, Garcia and SunAh keep it complicated by asking which one will you choose: love or career? The two go through a variety of potential scenarios that force you to choose your mate or your career. Tune in to find out who is choosing career, who may have a new passion that they want to pursue, and what the different expectations may be for your decision if you're dating, in a relationship, engaged, or married.New episodes every other Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel.

Season 5, Episode 1 of Which Cup is Mine kicks off with the question - Who do you love? The person you tell the truth to or the person you you lie to? Garcia and SunAh reflect back on times they've lied and times they've told the truth and how they felt about those relationships. Of course, the real question is what is a lie and what is the truth? It's not as clear cut as it may seem. Get ready because Season 5 is bringing all the controversial topics, impossible questions, and may leave you questioning what you think you know.New episodes every other Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel.

On the Season 4 Finale of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh play a dating game. Taking a few cards from the "We're Not Really Strangers" Honest Dating Expansion deck, the two answer questions about love, dating, and each other. You may be surprised to hear some of their answers, they were. You may want to ask some of these same questions on your next date or with your current partner. You never know what you may learn. New episodes every other Tuesday (unless SunAh's computer crashes like it did this week). For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

On this episode of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh explore the many fears of commitment people have. Some fears are more obvious than others, so the two get to the root of what’s really behind why people avoid commitment. Tune in and see which one you may relate to, then decide if you’re ready to let go of your fear.New episodes every other Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel - LINK IN BIO - and wherever you stream podcasts. Like, comment, and share!

When it comes to the women in a man’s life, can everyone just get along? On Season 4, Episode 8 of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh talk about what role the key women in a man’s life play. How much input should a girlfriend have in a man’s life, does that change when she becomes the wife, and when should a man step in to mediate the relationship between his wife and his mom? The two also discuss how much a man’s relationship with his mom matters in thinking about what your future together might look like. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel - LINK IN BIO - and wherever you stream podcasts. Like, comment, and share!

In the dating game, there’s always competition whether you know who you’re up against or not. The question is - will you compete? What lengths will you go to show the person you’re dating that you’re the one they should choose to be with? Garcia and SunAh dive into the differences between men and women in dating when it comes to competing and setting the rules of the game. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineFor the visual podcast, subscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel.

By now you’ve probably seen videos of sensual and erotic massages that male massage therapists are giving to female clients. On this episode of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh ask is it cheating? Even if it’s not cheating, would you feel comfortable with your mate receiving such an intimate exchange? New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

On Season 4, Episode 5 of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh chime in on relationship expert, Derrick Jaxn’s infidelity and his attempts to repair his public image. The two discuss Mr. and Mrs. Jaxn’s recent IG video statement and IG Live, including what was and was not said. The conversation then moves on to talk about why celebrities, public figures, or IG relationship experts should not be #RelationshipGoals. The episode ends with a word of caution as you create relationship goals for yourself. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

How much does your potential partner’s income factor into your dating decisions? On Season 4, Episode 4, Garcia and SunAh discuss dating above and below their tax bracket. The two discuss how they’ve approached money in their own relationship and what they think is the most important factor in dating. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

It’s time to get real honest on Which Cup is Mine. On Season 4, Episode 3 the two discuss if they have ever compared themselves to their partner’s ex. Garcia and SunAh cover a variety of areas where you may find yourself making comparisons from sex to finances, education, and status. The two talk about how these comparisons come about and the insecurities they can fuel. The episode ends with the two being honest about any times they’ve felt insecure or compared themselves to each other’s exes.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com For the visual podcast, subscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9eGxrGpQY1_U284w1ZbDsg

On this episode of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh discuss the trend of women asking for men to pay their bills in order to date them. Is dating in 2021 all about money? If so, what does it mean for the type of relationships and types of partners you might attract? New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine Check out the visual podcast on our YouTube Channel "Which Cup is Mine."

Garcia and SunAh kickoff Season 4 of Which Cup is Mine reflecting on how the coronavirus pandemic has changed relationships for better and for worse. But first, the episode starts with birthday wishes for SunAh. Then, the two discuss the good that has come from the pandemic in terms of relationships and dating and the bad. The episode ends with the two sharing how they weathered their own pandemic related relationship storm and advice for folks who may find themselves in similar situations. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel - "Which Cup is Mine."

With Valentine’s Day quickly approaching, Garcia and SunAh answer the question - should women get their man a gift for Valentine’s Day? Tune in for the Season 3 finale as the two discuss the expectations around Valentine’s Day gift-giving and what popular culture gets wrong. The two also discuss gifts they’ve given and received and offer some advice for types of gifts to give and how to determine if you should give a gift at all. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel and wherever you stream podcasts. Like, comment, and share!https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9eGxrGpQY1_U284w1ZbDsg/

Season 3, Episode 15 uncovers the main reasons why men won’t commit. Garcia gets real honest about reasons why he wouldn’t commit in the past - some you might expect and others are hard to hear. Of course, men aren’t the only ones who won’t commit, so SunAh shares some reasons why women won’t fully commit. The episode ends with the two talking about some petty reasons why they didn’t want to commit. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel and wherever you stream podcasts. Like, comment, and share!https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9eGxrGpQY1_U284w1ZbDsg/

When it comes to dating and relationships, family can be a help or a hindrance. One Season 4, Episode 14, Garcia and SunAh talk about family and dating - if and when you should meet the parents, what happens if a family member doesn’t like who you’re dating, and who comes first when you get married? Who else can relate to awkward family situations with their boyfriend or girlfriend? Garcia shares some particularly trying times when it comes to family and dating. The two also talk about some potential scenarios that pit family and your mate at odds, whose side are you on?New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel and wherever you stream podcasts. Like, comment, and share!https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9eGxrGpQY1_U284w1ZbDsg/

Season 3, Episode 13 asks would you rather have romance or stability? Sex or support? There is no middle ground, you have to choose. Garcia and SunAh make some tough decisions on which characteristic they’d rather have in someone they’re dating or a potential spouse. Of course, in reality the choices aren’t so severe, and the two end the episode talking about how they would characterize each other. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel and wherever you stream podcasts. Like, comment, and share!https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9eGxrGpQY1_U284w1ZbDsg/

What’s off limits when you’re in an argument? Are there certain blows that should never be dealt? Or are no holds barred? On Season 3, Episode 12, Garcia and SunAh talk about a few topics that are low blows in general and a few that they find personally are below the belt. Along the way, the two discuss their own reactions to being on the receiving end of someone hitting below the belt. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channelhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9eGxrGpQY1_U284w1ZbDsg/

With the start of the new year, it may be time to end some relationships but that’s often easier said than done. How do you move on from a heartbreak? Garcia shares the ideal way to move on, and the two share how they’ve moved on from past relationships. Of course, you may not be heartbroken but the heartbreaker. Is there something you should do before moving on? Tune in to find out.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9eGxrGpQY1_U284w1ZbDsg/

Season 3, Episode 10 brings back the spice you love! On this episode Garcia and SunAh ask - would you pay for it? Yes, they mean SEX. Would you pay for sex? The two discuss the conditions and circumstances under which they would pay for it. The question is - would you?New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

Is it forced, for love, an act of goodwill, or something that you’ll hear about later? On Season 3, Episode 9, Garcia and SunAh talk about doing favors for your mate. The two describe favors that they’ve done and those they wish they hadn’t. Are favors given from goodwill or are there expectations in return? Is it really a favor if someone is keeping count? The two explore these questions and more and in the end, they need your help in understanding exactly what a favor is. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

On Season 3, Episode 8, Garcia and SunAh talk about times they or their partners have been unsupportive and selfish in their relationship. The two share the types of support that are needed and how they’ve identified their own selfish tendencies. Of course it wouldn’t be Which Cup is Mine without some transparent moments. Tune in to hear the times that the two have knowingly been selfish and the reasons behind their selfishness. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine Check out the visual podcast on YouTube!

Is it for love, stability, the kids, money, or something else? On Season 3, Episode 7 of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh talk about some of the reasons people get married and stay married, including how much being “in love” factors into the equation. The two also discuss common pressures that lead people to get married sooner than they may want and a few of the things that men hate most when it comes to getting married. The episode ends with some advice for folks in relationships but who aren’t married yet. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel and wherever you stream podcasts. Like, comment, and share!https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9eGxrGpQY1_U284w1ZbDsg/

On this episode, Garcia and SunAh talk about relationship upgrades. Have you ever dated someone and they upgraded you? Or at least other people thought they did? Maybe you were the upgrade or you upgraded your partner. The two divulge the times and the ways that they’ve been upgraded, including some that may not be so obvious. Of course it wouldn’t be Which Cup is Mine if the two didn’t keep it spicy!! They also discuss the relationship downgrades, including being honest about the times they pulled their partners down.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel

On Season 3, Episode 5 of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia asks “how important is sex in a relationship?” If everything else is perfect, does the sex have to be? Garcia and SunAh discuss how much sex did or did not factor into their previous relationships and some of their own past personal hang ups around sex. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the Which Cup is Mine YouTube channel and wherever you stream podcasts. Like, comment, and share!https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9eGxrGpQY1_U284w1ZbDsg/

On this episode of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh get into the money of dating. Does dating require expensive gifts? Has social media ruined dating for “regular” people, especially when it seems like everyone else is being showered with cars, clothes, jewelry, and bags? When dating how much does their ability to splurge matter? The two share how money and being treated to the finer things in life - or not - have factored into their dating decisions.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to YouTube channel and wherever you stream podcasts. Like, comment, and share!https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9eGxrGpQY1_U284w1ZbDsg/

Episode 3 of Season 3 asks the ladies how they feel about submitting to their man. What does it mean to be submissive? Why are some women so against it? Garcia and SunAh then ask the fellas what they are willing to change for their woman. Relationships are all about trust, communication, and compromise, and there is no time that it is more apparent than when it comes to being submissive or changing. SunAh talks about why she never considered being submissive before, and Garcia shares some things he’s changed now.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to YouTube channel and wherever you stream podcasts. Like, comment, and share!https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9eGxrGpQY1_U284w1ZbDsg/

On this episode of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh talk about some of the things they hate to see to on social media, especially as it relates to dating and relationships. Tune in to find out if this is you and what your posts are really communicating. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to YouTube channel and wherever you stream podcasts. Like, comment, and share!https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9eGxrGpQY1_U284w1ZbDsg/

You asked for it, and Season 3 we’re bringing it to you… You can now watch the visual podcast on our YouTube channel!On Episode 1 of Season 3, Garcia and SunAh answer some of the most frequently asked questions they receive: Are y’all faking it? Is this how you two really are behind closed doors? You say y’all don’t argue, what’s the secret? and You two seem like polar opposites, have either of you had to change in order to make the relationship work? Watch the YouTube version to see how the two react to some of these questions. Of course, you can still listen to the episodes wherever you stream podcasts. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9eGxrGpQY1_U284w1ZbDsg/Like, comment, and share!

Can your significant other be friends with your friends? On the Season 2 finale of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh discuss what can go wrong when the person you’re dating befriends your friends. But what about situations when your friends were friends with your significant other first? Should that change their friendship dynamics? Tune in as the two talk about their experiences with befriending friends and find out who has a double standard when it comes to friendship and dating. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineSubscribe to the pod on Spreaker, iTunes, and Spotify. YouTube channel launching October 6th.

On this episode of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh talk about second chances. Should you give someone a second chance? If so, under what circumstances? Are there certain transgressions that are automatically one and done? The two share times when they’ve given and received second, third, and even more chances. Was it worth it? Listen in as the two try to reconcile their hopes for the best with the hard realities they’ve experienced. As always the episode ends with advice for those considering second chances. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

In Season 2, Episode 14 of Which Cup Is Mine, Garcia and SunAh get into a topic that is not talked about but should be - are the homies off limits? Can you mess with a friend of someone you used to mess with? Or what about messing with two friends at the same? Is there a code regulating if you mess with someone your friend used to mess with? Garcia breaks down the bro code, and SunAh shares how women approach these situations. The two discuss some potentially tricky situations they’ve encountered and when they’ve been on both sides of the friend situation. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

Are you a ride or die? In Season 2, Episode 13 of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh talk about potential ride or die scenarios. From going to jail to having an outside baby, getting into a serious accident, taking a bullet, or losing a job, the two discuss if and when they’d be down to ride for each other and what would be too much to handle. While being a ride or die may seem like a desirable trait, there are certain conditions where it may not be. The episode ends with a warning on when ride or die goes wrong.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismineVote for Which Cup is Mine for the Memphis Flyer's Best of Memphis 2020. Find Which Cup is Mine under "Media and Personalities" for Best Local Podcast. Voting ends September 16th, 2020. vote at bit.ly/BOM2020VOTE

On Episode 12 of Season 2 of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh talk about invasion of privacy. Find out who has gone through their significant other’s phone, what they found, and how they presented the evidence to their mate. Of course phones aren’t the only places people snoop. Garcia shares what happened when he let someone sleep over. The episode ends with advice for both men and women on how to snoop and why you shouldn’t let your curiosities get the best of you.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

There comes a point in every relationship where you have to tell your partner no or you wish you would have. On this episode of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh talk about times they’ve told each other no, why they thought it was necessary, and their reactions. The situations that may lead you to tell your partner no vary from finances, safety concerns, and yes, even sex. Regardless of how necessary it may seem, telling your partner no can be a tricky situation. As Garcia points out, no one likes to be told no, so navigating these moments must be done with care.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

Don’t do it! Reconsider! In Season 2, Episode 10 of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh ask: what’s up with getting married? It seems like the consensus is to stay single as long as possible. Since neither of them have been married, they wonder out loud about some of the drawbacks from saying “I do.” The two also discuss unspoken expectations in marriage including gender roles, and they revisit some of their spicier conversations like kids, weddings, and money. You may think they have some of these things figured out, but tune in to find out who’s changed their mind and about what.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

Can you change your mate? On this episode of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh discuss if you can change behaviors, characteristics, or personality traits of someone you’re in a relationship with. They each have tried to change aspects of their mates and they’ve each had their mates try to change something about them. Find out who was successful, who wasn’t, and regarding what. The episode ends with Garcia giving advice on selecting a mate you won’t have to try to change.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

Garcia and SunAh get intimate on Episode 8 of Season 2 as the topic turns to SEX. The episode begins asking if the old saying is true: what you won’t do, someone else will. If your mate won’t do the things you like, does it give you a license to cheat? The two agree that giving and receiving oral sex is super important to the point that it has been a deal breaker in their past. The duo then move on to discuss the optimal frequency of having sex per week if you’re in a relationship and how that might change when you get married. The episode ends with a discussion about sexual boundaries, and the two share some funny and disturbing times that those boundaries have been crossed. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

Is it summer love or something else? In Season 2, Episode 7 Garcia and SunAh uncover realities about proposals. Garcia talks about some of the real reasons men propose - ladies, you’ll definitely want to hear these. The two discuss common ways people get trapped in relationships both through proposals and pregnancies. In this episode, SunAh shares some of the ultimatums she’s given. To close the episode, the two end with advice for how men can respond to ultimatums or avoid them altogether and something for women to think about before giving an ultimatum. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

What does your mate do that gets on your nerves? Do you tell them? In Which Cup is Mine Season 2 Episode 6, Garcia and SunAh talk about some of the pet peeves they’ve had in their past relationship, how they brought them up to their mate, and if they were successful in saying something. Throughout the episode, the two give you a glimpse into the (mis)communications in their own relationship. The episode ends with advice on when and how to address your relationship pet peeves.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

The grass always seems greener on the other side. In this episode of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh discuss the pros and cons of being single versus being in a relationship. While there are many advantages and disadvantages to both statuses, find out which one may have significantly fewer cons. In a time where being independent seems more carefree and stress-free, what are the benefits of being in a relationship? The two detail some of the biggest pros of being in a relationship with one very important caveat. The episode ends with Garcia giving advice to the single men. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

Dating is a gamble. You never really know if the person you’ve met is being themselves or if they really want you or just what you have to offer. This episode of Which Cup is Mine begins with Garcia and SunAh talking about ways that people do the most in dating especially as it comes to trying to impress. Always ones to turn up the heat, the conversation then turns to the question: in dating, what’s your price? The answer isn’t always about money, as the duo point out, but of course the two dive into the topic of tricking. The episode closes with a conversation about tricking versus being generous versus being finessed and advice on how to know which category you may be falling into. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it. On Episode 3 of Season 2, Garcia and SunAh break down the do’s and don’t's of disagreeing with your mate. The episode begins with each of them talking about their need to always be right and how that has affected their relationships in the past. The two then share how they’ve approached differences of opinion in their relationship with each other and ways you can have a disagreement without making personal attacks. In a surprise confession, Garcia reminds SunAh of the one time they had an argument. Find out what it was about and who could not swallow their pride. The episode ends with advice on what to do if you and your mate cannot stop arguing and if those verbal disagreements turn physical. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

On this episode of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh talk about their experiences with interracial dating. Both have had multiple experiences dating outside of their race - but for one of duo, this was the first time that they brought their partner home to meet their parents and for good reason. Find out why. The two share some of the challenges and stereotypes in dating cross-racially as well as comments they’ve heard from friends and family. SunAh divulges some shocking news around her perspective on dating outside of her race. The episode ends with a piece of advice for people in interracial relationships.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

Season 2 of Which Cup is Mine podcast begins with Garcia and SunAh discussing racism in America. We have all been witness to the countless murders of Black people by police and most recently we have seen global uprisings in defense of Black lives and the eradication of anti-Blackness. On this episode, Garcia and SunAh discuss systemic racism and its effects in the criminal justice system, education, and hiring, among other areas of our lives. They also reflect on the current movement for Black lives. For more on how you can get involved in the movement for Black lives or resources for understanding anti-Blackness, visit blacklivesmatters.carrd.co New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

Season 1 of Which Cup is Mine podcast ends with a special guest: hip hop artist, producer, song writer, author, pastor, your neighborhood hope dealer - Mr. Delmar Lawrence aka Mr. Del. Bringing all of his relationship expertise to the podcast, Mr. Del delves into love, lies, and of course soul ties. After breaking down what soul ties are and how they are created, Mr. Del explains the importance of creating a culture within your relationship. The podcast then takes a detour from romantic relationships to talk about Mr. Del’s time with Three 6 Mafia. Mr. Del gives a quick history lesson on the early Memphis rap scene including how he got signed to Three 6 Mafia, the story behind his most infamous hit song “Azz & Tittiez,” and what led him to leave the group in the middle of their national tour. All of these past experiences affected his dating life. Of course, it wouldn’t be Which Cup is Mine without getting all in Mr. Del’s dating business! Mr. Del keeps it transparent as he shares how his family life shaped his outlook on romantic relationships. Garcia and Mr. Del talk about the generational curses that they are breaking and one of the common mistakes women make in dating. In case you are wondering, Mr. Del is single, and in this episode he shares what’s on his “list” for the type of woman he’s looking for. The episode ends with Mr. Del giving advice on what is needed to have a healthy, whole relationship. *****For more about the Soul Ties book series and the Soul Ties podcast, check out http://dellawrence.com/To register for the FREE “When Men Worship” online conference happening on Father’s Day, go to https://www.soultiesmovement.com/whenmenworship.html*****New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

In this episode Garcia and SunAh tackle a tricky topic - falling in love. What does it mean to fall in love, can you grow to be in love with someone, what about being in love with two people at the same time? The two begin by sharing how they know they’ve been “in love” before discussing if you can grow to love someone. They also identify some real life couples they see as couple goals. The episode ends with each of them giving advice on how to know if the love is gone.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

How important is communication in a relationship? In this episode, Garcia and SunAh share some reasons why they haven’t been great communicators in the past - sometimes it’s a matter of respect other times you don’t want to hurt the person’s feelings. Are there certain topics that should or should not be discussed when dating? If you should talk about them, how do you know when it’s the right time? The two run down some topics that they think should be communicated and how they’ve approached the issues including living together, finances, love languages, weddings, and health history. They also discuss their unique approach to addressing issues in their relationship. The episode ends with each giving tips for communicating with the opposite sex.New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

Does sex on the first night ruin your chances for a relationship? Garcia and SunAh talk about giving it up on the first night - the pros, the cons, and one big misconception. Garcia reasons if you’re going to have sex anyways, why not do it on the first night? Because one thing is for certain: sex on the first night might not end a relationship but bad sex definitely can. The two share how far into dating they were before they had sex and how things might have been different if they would have had sex on the first night. New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine

On Episode 12 of Which Cup is Mine, Garcia and SunAh discuss a sensitive subject: money. Even though everyone has some idea of how they expect finances should be handled in a relationship or, if and when you should live together, most people don’t talk about it until it’s too late. Garcia and SunAh talk about their experiences with splitting the bills and cohabitating and what they would do moving forward. The episode closes with an even sticker situation when Garcia asks: if the person you were in a relationship lost their job, would you let them live with you? New episodes every Tuesday. For more info about the podcast or to submit a question or scenario, check out www.whichcupisminepodcast.com and follow the pod on Instagram @whichcupismine