Would Like To Meet

This week on Would Like to Meet podcast, Mairead speaks with Dr. Nicola Fox Hamilton about the cyber psychology of online dating. Topics include- What is a Cyber Psychologist? How has online dating changed how we date? Has online dating changed relationships? Does online affect our mental health? Who is online dating suited to? How online dating impacts men and women differently. Dating Statistics Who sends more messages online? Men or Women? What characteristics are the most attractive when online dating? What do people need to be cautious about when online dating? Communicating through text - The Halo effect. What is the ideal timeline between meeting online and meeting in person? Which are the best online dating sites for you? How algorithms work. How can you increase your chance of finding love online. If you would like to learn more about Dr. Nicola Fox Hamilton and her courses in Cyber Psychotherapy visit https://iadt.ie/courses/cyberpsychology/ or follow her on Twitter @foxnic or on Instagram @nicolafh If you would like more information on Mairead's Matchmaking visit www.lovehq.ie

Welcome back to Season 4 of Would Like to Meet podcast. Since we released our last episode, we won bronze in the Best Sex and Relationship podcast at the first Irish Podcast Awards so a huge thank you to everyone that listens and voted! In this episode I speak with Mary Hayes from Womensaid and the Too Into You project. We discussed- What is Womensaid? What is the Too Into You project? What is spyware and how do abusers use it? Statistics on how many women and men in Ireland are abused. Signs and Symptoms of domestic abuse What is love bombing? How does abuse affect people? What are the misconceptions of abuse? How can friends and family support the person being abused? What can you do if you feel that you are being abused? Details of the relationship quiz on the Too Into You website. Has technology impacted domestic abuse in Ireland? Online safety guide available on the Too Into You website. What support is available for non English speaking victims of abuse? What is a healthy relationship? “If you are worried about your own relationship or a friends relationship you can call Women's Aid on the 24Hr National Freephone Helpline on 1800 341 900 or use the free and confidential chat support service at toointoyou.ie which is available daily. Men needing support can contact the Male Advice Line on 1800 816 588” If you would like to get in touch with Mairead, the host of Would Like to Meet podcast visit www.lovehq.ie

In this episode Mairead speaks to Etiquette Expert and Agony Aunt Tina Kourmarianos, Tina talks all things etiquette, giving lots of helpful and practical life and dating advice. She shares her tips on how to date in the classiest of ways and includes her views on kissing on the first date, who should pay for dinner, what is an appropriate gift and how to dump someone politely. She also tells us all the don'ts of dating – covering alcohol, sex, phones and swearing! She gives her crash course in manners, from elbows off that table to opening that door and of course cancelling plans.

In this episode Mairead speaks to Fiona McAuslen, Mediator and Conflict coach and Director of Family Mediation Services at the Legal Aid Board conflict and the art of arguing. As we all know, sometime a bit of disagreement is necessary, and Fiona shares how to do that properly! She identifies the different types of arguing we all do, the best way to resolve conflict and if you should avoid people who are argumentative. She also talks about what you need to think about in terms of conflict and arguing in the early stages of a new relationship, what you are willing to accept or not and what that means for your future together. She discusses how to navigate your way through an argument when you're a person who avoids conflict and your partner needs to talk and vice versa.

In this episode Mairead speaks to sex expert Emily Power Smith about sex and dating. Emily talks about the importance of being open and honest when embarking on sex with someone new. She also shares advice on getting over new-partner nerves and the importance of not focusing on past partners or pleasures when in a new dating scenario. She talks about how important self-pleasure is and how not taking sex too seriously is key to having the best time. Emily also explains ALL the different types of orgasm men and women are capable of, outlines the difference between fetishes and kinks and talks through some common sex related challenges and offers solutions. She gives tips on how to ask for what you want in bed, and how to find out what that is. Emily also reminds us how body confidence and contentment is more important than the perception of perfection and how over valuing how we look to others can ultimately impact our pleasure potential. Emily Power Smith is Irelands only clinical sexologist and can be found at www.empowersme.com

In this special bonus episode to kick off 2022 Mairead speaks to Orla Walsh, Dietician and Anna Geary, Performance Coach, Personal Trainer and TV personality about a healthy way to approach making positive changes for yourself for the New Year. The guests talk about the importance of feeling good, healthy, happy and content with yourself, especially when it comes to dating, looking for and finding love. Orla busts common myths around detoxes, supplements and fast weight loss plans – she also shares her view on getting health and nutrition advice from unqualified influencers and gives practical advice on breaking habits or making new ones. Anna shares advice on getting and staying motivated, how little steps can still be impactful in a big way and how being mindful of how busy we say we are can help change our mindset.  She also gives her view on the ‘strong not skinny' movement and shares her thoughts and advice on self-care and goal setting. If you feel happy & positive about yourself physically & mentally you are likely to seem more attractive, feel more attractive, confident on dates, being intimate and having great sex, whether you are new to dating, have just struggled to meet someone or are starting fresh after a divorce or long-term relationship there are lots of positive, practical and helpful takeaways in this episode.

In this episode, Mairead speaks to Patricia Lohan about how to use Feng Shui to supercharge your home to attract love, abundance and prosperity. As well as an overview of what Feng Shui is, Patricia shares her decades of experience on how she used the ancient practice to attract her husband and to manifest a six figure windfall! Patricia shares practical tips on how to make your bedroom a haven for manifesting love and where to start on your feng shui journey. Listen to Patricia's podcast, Live your dreams awake on all podcast platforms and visit her website, www.patricialohan.com to get in touch with Patricia or to join her feng shui community.

In this episode Mairead speaks to Aidan O'Brien, the Transformation Specialist about how to change your mindset and create a successful outcome in love and life. He describes how powerful we can be in changing our lives if we really want to. He talks about using the law of attraction effectively and how you can have impact on the personal, professional and romantic aspects of your own life. Aidan also shares tips on how best to behave on a first date, the importance of a man being a man, how we can all fall into the trap of standing in our own way and controversially how we absolutely do need that uber specific check-list when looking for the one! He talks about how past pain and anxieties are not a bad thing, but a necessary form of protection that can help us move into our future with success when identified and acknowledged properly and how real clarity, honesty and authenticity are essential factors in getting the life and love you want and deserve. Aidan works as a coach, mentor and International speaker and you can find Aidan and details of his course on instagram @aidanobrienofficial and online on his website. https://theaidanobrien.com/

In this episode, recorded in Louis Copeland and Sons store on Capel Street, Mairead talks to Menswear and style expert Louis Copeland and Fashion Influencer and former personal stylist Yvonne Melin to get advice on grooming and style for men and women. Following almost 22 months of varying levels of lockdowns, hospitality restrictions and working from home, many of us have forgotten how to dress up and even dress well! One of the most important things when you are dating is feeling confident and looking your best, this episode has tons of tips on how to do that. Yvonne and Louis don't just give helpful and practical advice on dressing to impress for dating, they also share tips on nailing smart casual, dressing for interviews and what to pack for a weekend away full of style. They also discuss getting the basics right and just generally feeling at your best. Our style duo also give their take on investment pieces, wearing colour and style that suits your shape, age and colour. Louis even gives his take on the style in Peaky Blinders, Suits and Succession and share how those looks have influenced some of his clients! Louis Copeland has been selling mens formal and casualwear and sharing style and fashion advice to (mostly) Irish men for decades, he and his sons run four stores in Dublin; Capel Street, Pembroke Street, Wicklow Street and Dundrum Town Centre and also have an online store www.louiscopeland.com. You can find him and his products on Instagram @louiscopeland_and_sons and on twitter @louis_copeland Yvonne Melinn worked as a personal stylist for years before she found her style tribe within her huge following on Instagram, when she isn't tied up being a busy Mum of 3, she manages to share gorgeous fashion pieces and advice and occasionally also mentions her food, interiors and reading tips and picks! She can be found @ystyleireland on Instagram.

In this episode Mairead talks to Psychiatrist and Author Dr. Brendan Kelly about happiness and dating. As well as giving his overall view on dating and how it relates to being happy, Brendan talks about why most people struggle to identify their happiness. He shares how and why people rate their happiness - mostly 7 out of 10 by the way! He covers the key components that are important to being happy, why friendship is such a priority and how happiness spreads through networks and is utterly magnetic. He explains why we often feel guilt for being happy and how we mostly inherit a set point for happiness, and stick with that no matter what - and why that can be limiting. He also shares his professional advice on navigating the dating world if you are living with a mental illness and what to know and think about if you are dating someone who is living with a mental illness. Brendan Kelly is a Professor of Psychiatry at Trinity College Dublin, Consultant Psychiatrist at Tallaght University Hospital and Author of the Science of Happiness: The Six Principles of a Happy Life and the Seven Strategies for Achieving It, published by Gill Books

In this episode Mairead speaks to Neuroscientist Dr. Sabina Brennan about what goes on in the brain when we are in love, lust, and having sex. Sabina explains the feel-good hormones and how they work, why men often aren't as interested in cuddling after sex and how it's not their fault! She shares why some stress is important for good brain health, why love really is blind and how DNA can make some of us more likely to have affairs and take part in one -night stands. Sabina also reminds us how similar attraction can be to addiction and why we can be all over the place when we start to get feelings for someone new! Sabina Brennan is a health Psychologist, neuroscientist and best-selling Author. She hosts the Super Brain Podcast. Each week she interviews inspiring individuals about thriving and surviving in life. Her first book 100 days to a younger Brain is a No1 Bestseller, her second book, beating brain fog was published earlier this year and published by Orion. To find out more about Sabina, or hear her podcasts www.sabinabrennan.ie

In this episode Mairead talks to Performance Psychologist and best-selling Author Gerry Hussey about the importance of love and how powerful that emotion can be. In his unique and impactful way, he shares his advice on how to best navigate the dating world and what to do if we are getting in our own way, why we self-sabotage and how to deal with that. He highlights the importance of knowing you are enough and staying true to yourself. He talks about how we can deal with worry and anxiety and how other people decide to judge you is really none of your business and shouldn't be a concern! Gerry also talks about how visualisation absolutely works, the importance of trusting the universe, how and why a broken heart can physically hurt and why loving yourself is the first step to a happy fulfilled life. Gerry is a performance psychologist and also in more recent times has been coined ‘The Soul Coach'. He has been in the human health and performance field for almost 20 years. He co-founded Soul Space with his wife Miriam. You can find out more about the soul space community at soulspace.ie Gerry has been at the forefront of building high performance teams and individuals in Olympic and Professional, sport and corporate organisations. His vast experience has seen him prepare and lead teams for success at Olympic Games, Heineken cups, World Cups, and World and European Championships. He has worked and currently works with some of the world's leading sport and business teams as well as coaching for high performing individuals. He is a leading voice that is challenging us to rethink health and performance in a whole new way and his integrated approach is one of honesty, simplicity and authenticity. His first book was published in May 2021 and is called Awaken Your Power Within.

In this episode Mairead talks to Life Coach Mark Fennell about how confidence and mindset can help you on your dating journey. What motivates you when it comes to happiness? How can you grow your confidence and change your mindset? Why is confidence so attractive? How can we get out of toxic and damaging relationship cycles? How should you think when you are meeting someone new? How can we get over the nerves ahead of a first date?  What is the best way to deal with anxiety if dating? Is it ok to have a checklist? Mark has all the answers. And when it comes to that checklist, he says burn it!! Mark Fennell is a personal and business development coach. Working as a motivational speaker with experience that spans over 10 years...he offers one to one coaching and online courses. He helps people identify what's missing in their life and loves to coach clients to build a life that makes them smile! People can find him online at www.markfennell.ie or @markfennell.ie on instagram

In this episode, Mairead talks all things dating and communications with Eoghan Tomás McDermott, MD of the Communications Clinic.  Eoghan shares his experience as a communications expert to help listeners navigate the communication part of dating, looking for love and finding the perfect candidate! How do you make a good first impression? How do you prep for an important date? How can you deal with pre-date nerves? How important is  non-verbal communication and what can we learn from Love Island?! Drawing on his years of experience working with clients and corporations, Eoghan answers all of these questions and also shares how can we apply good rules of business and the importance of always bringing your best self whatever the situation. We also discuss how to tell a good anecdote, how to return to small talk post covid, the importance of being a good listener, how to be a good communicator and why too much eye contact can be a bad thing! Eoghan Tomás McDermott is the Managing Director of The Communications Clinic. He is personal coach and advisor to a number of Chief Executives of large corporates, both indigenous and multi-national. Eoghan advises clients ranging from Cabinet Ministers to many of Ireland's top sportspeople. He was one of the founders of The Communications Clinic in 2008, and he took over as Managing Director in 2018. Since June 2020, Eoghan is also an Adjunct Teaching Fellow with Trinity College Dublin's Business School where he has developed an Impactful Communication programme for senior executives.  He published his first book The Career Doctor in 2009. Eoghan is a regular contributor on Irish media, including Today FM's The Last Word, Virgin Media's Ireland AM, as well as shows on Newstalk and RTE. You can find Eoghan on twitter @eoghanMcDermott and www.communicationsclinic.ie

In this episode, Mairead talks all things relationships and money with Eoin McGee, Author and TV host of  How to be Good with Money. Why exactly does it cost more to be single? Why are your financial affairs one of the main reasons couples fight? How are you better off financially if you get married? What happens when the disparity in your salaries causes issues? Eoin also tells us if a spender and saver can be the perfect match, how to share your earnings or how not to, when and why you need to talk about money with you other half, the importance of having a fuck-off fund and of course who should pay on a first date! Eoin is the presenter of hit RTE TV show how to be good with money and the best-selling author of his first book of the same name. He is currently working on his second book. He is a Certified Financial Planner (CFP®) and the Principal at Prosperous.ie. He is also a newspaper columnist, a public speaker and a regular contributor to Newstalk and RTÉ Radio One. He doesn't think money should get in the way of romance or true love but he does hate credit cards and feels strongly about women's tendency to hic and click. You can follow Eoin and his very popular Q&A's on Instagram @eoin_mcgee https://www.lovehq.ie/podcast

Mairéad Loughman, Matchmaker, Dating Specialist and the host of Would Like to Meet Podcast explains how to prepare for your dating journey in 2021! In this bonus episode, Mairéad will help you understand what you are looking for in your future partner and how to find them. She also shares her golden rules for dating, tips for online dating and how to approach a first date. Mairéad has successfully sent over 6,000 people on dates all over Ireland since founding Love HQ and her dating events, A Table for Six. If you would like to book a private consultation with Mairéad or if you would like more simple yet powerful dating advice join Mairéads 4 Week Online Dating Masterclass on www.lovehq.ie

In this episode Mairéad speaks with Jim Hickey about how simple changes can help you to attain more fulfilment in your career, relationships and overall life. How mindset can have a big impact on achieving your goals. How to develop mental strength. The importance of positive daily routines. Why gratitude is so important to enjoying life. Jim Hickey is a sport and business coach and has worked with Olympic medalists and international sports stars to achieve confidence and the ultimate success of winning Olympic medals. Jim is considered one of the worlds leading equestrian coaches and works with clients all over the world. Jim also works with business people to achieve their ultimate career success, develop clear goals and balance in all areas of their life including business and relationships. Jim has written 3 books- 10 Steps to your Successful Day, Your Ultimate Best and Confident Happy Children. To book a consultation with Jim Hickey and to order his books visit www.jimhickey.ie.

In this episode Mairéad speaks with Paul Merriman from @askpaul_now about looking after your finances when you are single. How to improve your overall financial situation. What percentage of our salary should we be saving. What to do if you are in debt. How to to apply for a mortgage on your own. What financial conversations should you be having before living with a new partner / before you get married. What small financial decisions we can make now to have a big impact on our long term finances. Paul Merriman, QFA, Grad Dip, CFP®️, CEO has over 15 years’ experience in the financial sector and heads up the team at Pax Financial Planning. Paul is considered one of Ireland’s leading financial advisors and is an internationally recognised CFP®️ (Certified Financial Planner), as certified by the Financial Planning Standards Board (FPSB). Paul’s specialities include overall wealth management and holistic financial mapping, strategic investment planning and asset management and restructure. With regular slots on TV3, Q102 and Today FM, Paul’s knowledge and experience is reaching a growing audience all the time. To book a consultation with Paul visit www.askpaul.ie (Episode recorded prior to level 5 restrictions)

In this episode, Mairéad speaks to Stephanie Regan about preparing emotionally for dating, taking a proactive role in your dating mindset, the difference between men and women in seeking a long term relationship, building the scaffolding of your psychological life for your mental health, grieving the loss of a relationship and dating when you are experiencing mental health difficulties. Stephanie Regan is a Clinical Psychologist with 30 years experience, a relationship expert and is a regular contributor on Ireland Am and Newstalk. Stephanie’s book, Relationships on the Edge, helps couples to navigate through frustrations and challenges that they experience in their relationship. Stephanie meets clients for consultations from all walks of life, single or in a relationship at her private practice. (This episode was recorded remotely in advance of level 5 restrictions)

In this episode, Mairead speaks to Helena Tubridy about single men and single ladies that would love to have children but haven’t met their partner yet. How can you protect your fertility? How fertile are men & their sperm quality in their 30’s/40’s/50’s? Should ladies freeze their eggs if they are single in their 30’s but would like to start a family? Ladies choosing to become a mother alone with a sperm donor and men looking to surrogacy to become a single father. What happens when your only fertility issue is that you are single? Helena Tubridy MA RGN RN, is Ireland’s leading fertility coach and psychotherapist with over 35 years of filling prams. She helps couples achieve pregnancy, single clients prepare for pregnancy, recharge their natural fertility, navigate infertility, or prep for IVF success, with her popular integrated mind/body program, which is recommended by doctors.

In this episode, Mairéad speaks with Kezia Noble to discuss date coaching, flirting and seduction. Kezia Noble is a celebrity dating coach for men based in London and is author of the best-selling book The Noble Art of Seducing Women. Kezia was featured on Channel 4’s tv show, Celebs go Dating, This Morning and Esquire. Kezia coaches her clients on approach anxiety, body language, seduction, flirting, sexual escalation and discusses in detail her most powerful flirting method in detail! (Please note: This episode was recorded prior to level 5 lockdown restrictions.)

In this episode, Mairéad meets Owen Fitzpatrick to discuss the psychology of dating and the importance of trusting your gut. Owen Fitzpatrick is an Irish Psychologist based in New York. He is an International Globetrotting speaker, has shared a stage with Richard Branson and presented his own Ted Talk. He also has his own podcast- Changing Minds.

Get to know Mairéad and her experience of why people come to her for matchmaking and how she will help you date with confidence.

Welcome to Would Like to Meet with Mairéad Loughman, matchmaker and founder of LoveHQ.ie. Mairéad has sent over 6,000 people on dates with countless success stories - from positive dating experiences to marriages. She believes that single people do not get enough credit or support, especially in the media, and that dating can be a hugely positive experience with the right approach. We will cover a wide range of topics from becoming financially independent and protecting your mental health when dating. Subscribe to this Podcast so you don't miss an episode as Mairéad meets with special guests and shares her own experience to help you date with confidence and find your someone special. You can learn more about Mairéad or her matchmaking service and events at LoveHQ.ie or on Instagram at @lovehq.ie.